tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3557697682358311362024-09-08T17:27:46.424+01:00A Gay WildernessMy attempts to find a place for myself in gay city life, where the only rule is that there are no rulesWilderness Wandererhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472462740082498019noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-355769768235831136.post-79046216762307144072009-07-14T17:27:00.028+01:002009-07-16T15:34:37.703+01:00Nectar with R in Soho; London Pride afterpartyingTwo weeks ago I met my sarcastic new friend R again, who when evening came turned out to be very eager to help me explore my other interests.In my first trip to Soho in a long time, we visited several drinkeries, soaking up the joyful atmosphere left by the Pride celebrations.We first ran into each other in May during one of my infrequent visits to Gaydar. He was cooking dinner at the time. I Wilderness Wandererhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472462740082498019noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-355769768235831136.post-69974831653893248992009-06-04T09:23:00.009+01:002009-07-14T23:22:04.703+01:00V's first ever gay date; A feeling of responsibilityAbout three weeks ago I had my first meeting with V that didn't involve finding our way in the dark ;)His sweetness and idealism turned out to be rather touching, and I felt that little tug of responsibility I've recently begun to feel with guys not that far along their gay journey. It was also my first encounter with a gay muslim, and learning about how the sides of his life fit together was Wilderness Wandererhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472462740082498019noreply@blogger.com0