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Comeback : Life After Marriage 2

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 22 May 2015 13:38:00 +0800

Salam.

Bila agaknya kali terakhir aku update blog kesayangan aku ni. Terus terang, komitmen membuatkan aku terpaksa membuat pilihan dan set my priority right. Aku kena pastikan kebajikan keluarga di jaga dengan sempurna dulu sebelum membolehkan aku mengadap depan computer and start sharing my thought. Tp, bila hari2 berlalu, kerja makin banyak hingga ke tahap aku terpaksa bungkus Lappy gorgeous ni dan simpan ajer mcm thropy.

Ishk…ramai jer hot hot mommy out there yang dah beranak pinak and still active blogging. I admit. Time is my biggest enemy. Aku terlalu pentingkan having quality time with my little family, facing family drama (hahhah), having my beauty sleep after completed household chores for the whole day. Time flies without ME knowing it. Since ramai yang bertanyakan perkembangan aku (macamlah ko tu retis sgt kan), terima kasih kerana masih setia bersama yoishmeBlog ni. Aku memang seorang yg suka berkongsi pengalaman hidup dengan harapan perkongsian aku ni dapat memberi manfaat kepada pembaca walaupun cuma sedikit.

Ok, aku mulakan dengan pertanyaan yang paling kerap ditanya iaitu

‘Life after MARRIAGE’.

It’s challenging at first. Even Maria Elena (Blogger Fav) tu pun struggle at first. Tapi jangan jadikan itu sebagai alasan crappy to give up easily. I believe there’s an ups and down in life. We must face it wisely. Ahakss…

Bagi wanita2 terhebat di luar sana yang merancang untuk mendirikan masjid dengan pasangan anda, satu je nasihat saya kepada kamu apabila kamu sudah berumahtangga nanti, COMMUNICATE!

Kadang2 mereka lupa macam mana nak berkomunikasi. Maklumlah kan dah kawin, now dah duduk sebumbung. Toleh kanan Nampak, toleh kiri pun Nampak. Takut nak tegur bila ada rasa tidak puas hati, kalau cakap lebih sikit nanti kecik hati pula, dah xnak balik umah bagai. Salah tanggapan tu. Macam mana kamu nak adapt towards each other lifestyle kalau basic paling utama (communicate) pun kamu gagal laksanakan.

Kita ambil contoh paling mudahlah.

Aku wanita yang over organize. Tiap rabu is laundry time. Baju kerja aku akan iron dan sangkut. Baju t’s dan rumah akan dilipat dan simpan accordingly. Tapi bila Mr. Hubby nak pakai baju, dia ambik ikut suka sampai satu tahap it all went messy. At first adalah perang mulut sekejap…then it stops but after a while it happened again.

Persoalannya ialah, takkan kamu nak perang mulut everytime it happened kan….agak funny juga, gaduh pasal baju dalam almari bersepah. Hahahahhah!!! Instead of perang mulut, try to communicate with him properly in language yang dia mudah faham.

‘Bang, apa masalah abg dgn almari dan baju ni bang. Abang mmg tak tenteram ya tgk baju tu tersusun rapi dlm almari. Abg mesti nk messy kan baju2 tu baru happy ya??’

‘Cubalah appreciate effort bini ni sikit. Ye lah, kan susah nk cari baju kalu keadaan almari messy mcm baru dilanda ribut tu. Kerja yg sepatutnya jd cepat akan lambat sebab terpaksa terkial-kial cari baju pulak’

Nanti kamu dengarlah excuse world’s book of record dia keluar. Hahahah!! Apa pun, try cari solution. Like my hubby, dah ‘tabiat’ katanya. So, I change the way I arranged his cloths. Baju fav yang kerap dia pakai tu yang aku sangkut. Yang kurang dipakainya aku lipat. Oklah, kurang sikit kekerapan ribut melanda dlm almari baju aku tue. Hahahha!!!

Ya, tak semua sifat dan perangai pasangan akan kita tahu ketika bercinta cintun. Their true color akan reveal once we live together as husband and wife (of course). So, always keep in mind that nobody’s perfect. You were mend to be together because Allah swt knows that you will complete each other.

There’s a flaw in you that he will fill and other way round. Be thankful in what you have in life. Don’t complain and be too proud of what you have. Be wise in everything you do. Mr Hubby, try to appreciate your wife effort and always be thankful that out of thousand millions men out there, she choose to be yours. As for the wife, try to understand your husband and adapt as he is who you choose to be with.

Moga segala yang kita rancangkan dipermudahkan.

Read this 'Life After Marriage 1'

Baby Checklists

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 14:22:00 +0800

Oleh kerana aku tengah ‘Moody’ tahap dewa, aku tak boleh duduk diam macam selalu. Nanti otak aku fikir macam2 versi karut marut. Kalau aku x pregnant, rasanya perabot dalam bilik aku tu dah lama berubah wajah kot. Nasib baiklah aku tengah pregnant, nak ubah almari baju mcm selalu dah tentu tak boleh. Macam mana pun, niat di hati ni mmg nak mengecat bilik tue. Dah bosan dgn warna yang ada sekarang ni. Sempena kelahiran ‘My Little Heartbeat’ nnt, igt nak cat warna Lavender and baby blue. Tapi, umi pulak kata ‘Jangan…..awak tu pregnant’.

Habis tu, mcm mn? Nak harapkan siapa?? Huhuuu….ni buat aku nak emo balik ni!! Hormon!!!! Hormon!!!

So, aku pun decide untuk mengemas, mengemop ajer lah….Menyediakan ruang untuk letak barang2 baby boy aku tu nanti. Sebulan aje lagi, macam tak percaya cepat je masa berlalu. Ok, sekarang aku teruja. Cepatlah lahir Mohd. Danish, jadi pengubat hati mama ketika emo cam ni…..

So, nnt igt nak shopping katil dan drawer baby. Aku dah siapkan label utk drawer baby tu nnt. It’s gonna be awesome!!! Maklumlah, minggu depan kuliah aku dah start. Kena focus pada study pulak, sebab subjek semester ni from Teesside University. Tak leh main2….kna focus!! Focus!! Mmg xleh ponteng….sebab nnt bulan November nak ponteng bersalin. Huuuu…

So, ni ada sikit listing untuk mom2be out there. Listing aku ni pun, after puas aku buat research dr hot mama, hot mama yang dah Berjaya melahirkan di luar sana tu…huhuu…

Apparel:

~~Pyjama (Long Pan)~~

~~Day wear (Short pan)~~

~~Sleeveless / Jumpsuit~~

~~Mittens & Bootees~~

~~Receiving Blanket~~

~~Swaddle~~

~~Binder~~

~~Socks~~

~~Handkerchief~~

~~Hat~~

Diapers New Born (Huggies)

Health Care & Hygiene:

~~Grooming Set (Comb, nail clipper, scissors, etc)~~

~~Medicine set (dropper, syringe, thermometer, etc)~~

~~Minyak Telon / Vicks~~

~~Diaper Rash Cream~~

~~Cotton Bud~~

~~Cotton Wool~~

~~Baby Wipes~~

Baby Bottle Cleanser

Bathing & Grooming:

~~Bath Tub~~

~~Wash Cloth~~

~~Bath Towel~~

~~Toiletries~~

~~Bath Tub Mat~~

Baby Bath Support

~~Changing Mat~~

Baby oil & Cologne

Travel:

Infant Car seat

Diaper Bag

~~Travel Matress Set~~

~~Travel Waterproof Bed Pad~~

Bottle-Feeding:
Feeding Bottle & Teats

Bottle & Teat Brush

Bottle Drying Racks

Breast-Feeding:

Breast Pump set

Breast Milk Storage

Nursing Bra

Breast Pad

Nipple cream

Nipple Protection Pad

Sterilizer & Warmer

Nursery:

Baby Cot

Changing Cupboard

~~Mosquito Net & Stand~~

~~Crib Set (Pillow, Bolter, cot bumper, fitted sheet, comforter)~~

~~Mattress~~

~~Blanket~~

Musical

~~Swing / Bouncer~~

Pantang:

~~Tukang Urut~~

~~Set Bersalin (Optional)~~

~~Bengkung~~

Maternity Pad

House Shoes

Disposable Underwear (Optional)

Mereka Lupa Kita Emo

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 08:49:00 +0800

Kadang-kadang orang ni tak tahu bila perlu berubah. Kadang- kadang mereka fikir, kita boleh telan semua selagi boleh. Apa yang mereka lupa ialah, kadang – kadang kita akan jadi penat. Lama- lama kita malas nak cakap dah. Bila kita reveal kan apa yang terbuku di hati ni, dia akan twist ke sana, twist ke sini. Akan ada sahaja rasional yang dia akan beri, kononnya ia juga demi kebaikan bersama. Really?

Kadang2 hal tu mungkin kedengaran terlalu silly, kalau orang tua – tua dgr mesti dorg akan nasihatkan jangan terlalu ikutkan hati, jangan memperbesarkan benda yang tidak penting. Tapi mereka lupa, hati kita macam mana? Sekarang ni, disebabkan hal yang kononnya silly tu, dah buat kita rasa tiada nilai. Buat kita rasa ‘NOT SPECIAL’, ‘NOT IMPORTANT’ anymore. Macam mana??

Mungkin juga dia lupa diri kot, tak pun kita ni yang terlalu over reacted? Really?? Kalau hal ni pernah ditegur dulu, then kenapa mesti it happened again? Adakah mereka sengaja nak uji kesabaran kita?? Really? Mereka lupa ke? Lama – lama kita akan mula rasa jelak!!

Kadang- kadang tu, kita fikir ‘If only I could turn back time’.

Entahlah, mungkin hormone pregnant ni buat aku jadi ‘SO EMOTIONAL’. Tapi, tak bermakna, apa yang aku cakap ni, sekadar melepas batuk ditangga. Aku tahu, mereka tak akan baca pun apa yang aku tulis ni. Sebab mereka peduli pulak dengan blog yang xseberapa ni. Well, like I said, ‘I’M NOT THAT SPECIAL OR IMPORTANT’. So, why should they care?!! So let it go lah….see how far it goes. When the time is right, will call it end!

Maybe, that’s the best for US!

Pregnancy Talk

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 9 Sep 2012 10:45:00 +0800

Mengandung ni memang satu pengalaman yang baru. Kadang2 tu, bila duduk sorg2 pikirkan perbualan kami adik beradik rasa nak gelak pun ada. Yelah, kalau dulu tiap kali CT5 balik, mesti akan bercerita tentang fashion trend, make-up, boys, enemy kat campus, drama family and such. Tapi sekarang ni, bila balik berkumpul memasing cakap tentang pregnancy!! Now my Along pun dah pregnant juga, it makes the conversation even more hotter!!! Hahhahahah!!!

Sejak nak jadi Ibu ni, banyak kot yang aku kena ubah dan belajar. Ye lah, kalau dulu makan minum ikut sesuka hati. Rasa hari ni berat naik setengah kilo, ikat perut makan biskut cicah air milo jer. Tp sekarang ni, makan minum mesti ikut timing. Dalam sehari tu, mesti nak makan nasi. Kalau tak, baby aku mmg tak lapar, tp aku ni yang lapar. Bila aku jadi lapar sangat, nnt mulalah mencari benda yang berat2 untuk dimakan walaupun time tu tengah malam. Untuk elakkan hal tu terjadi terlalu kerap, kenalah makan nasi sekali sehari.

Cuma, masalah yang aku hadapi ketika pregnant ni ialah kekurangan darah. Masa first dapat tahu aku pregnant, peratus HB (haemoglobin) paras2 hidung, 11.6gm. Tp time ni aku tak tau pun pasal HB and such!! I’m a first time mommy!!!

Masa check-up kali kedua, HB turun jadi 11.0gm, then turun lagi jadi 10.4gm. Then doctor suruh aku makan Iberet Folic, Ferum dan Obimin. Tp, still tak naik juga darah aku. Reading terakhir dah jadi 9.6gm. Nurse pulak asyik sarankan aku makan kerang, jambu batu, air juice and all. Masalahnya, aku dah terlebih makan kot semua tu, tp kenapa still low juga reading HB aku everytime.

So, nurse rujuk aku ke doctor lagi. Terus dia suruh aku buat PBF. Ape menda PBF tu, aku pun tak tahu, tapi yang penting nurse amik darah aku dgn banyaknya untuk diisi dalam 2 botol, yang mana akan dihantar ke makmal patologi di HSA (Hosp. Sultanah Aminah).

Kata doctor, ujian ini untuk mengetahui, apa sebenarnya yang kurang dalam darah merah aku tuh. Zat besi ke? Camtu lah. Hurmmm….so, next appointment aku 18/9/12 ni. Dalam 2minggu ni aku dah byk buat research on resepi buat tambah darah. Antaranya:

Kerang rebus

Sup Bayam

Kangkung tumis udang

Sup Ketam (Buat tambah susu juga)

Bubur Kacang Hijau

Buah Delima

Tapi tulah, kata nurse aku sihat. Aku tak pucat, tak pening, tak lemah. Masa raya pun aku terlebih raya dari yang lain. Selalunya ibu yang kurang darah ni, akan pitam n all. So, tu je buat aku lega sikit. Tapi macam mana sekali pun, aku tak nak lah darah aku turun samapai 8.0gm. bila dah cecah 8 tu, aku akan dilabel anemic in pregnancy. Which is BAD!!!

Aisyah AR Mom2Be: Pregnancy Nutritions

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 01:31:00 +0800

I have this major problem with my pregnancy state thou. I’m lack of blood. My Hb (haemoglobin) reading keeps reducing every time I did my medical check-up. At the very beginning its normal, 11.6gm. Then it became 11gm to 10.4gm and the worst is 10gm. The reading should be 11gm and above, if not I might be facing serious problem during my labour day. Na’ah…not good.

So, the nurse keeps on asking me to take a lot and a lot of green vegetables that contain high in iron. Take a lot of fruits especially guava (high in vit C). So, my real problem is that, how am I going to ensure that all that I’m eating are enough for my baby development and that my baby get enough nutrition to grow healthier?

Plus, I don’t think that I am able to take enough vegetables each day. Because sometimes, I feel like eating pasta, chicken porridge with black pepper, and just cempedak goreng (my all-time favourite). So I did my research on the best supplement for pregnant woman. Then, I am referring to the doctors for the professional opinion. I’m decided to take these 3 + 1 supplements and have been taken them since my very beginning week of pregnancy.

1.Enfamama A+ (Chocolate) – RM59

2.Pregnancy Formula (Blackmores) – RM88

3.Iberet Folic (Abbott) – RM32

4.Bio Calcium (Blackmores) – RM36

Believe it or not, for Enfamama A+ itself I have to consume it twice a day. In one month I have to buy at least 3 tin of it. But, it doesn’t matter as long as ‘My Little Heartbeat’ are healthy and get enough nutrition to grow.

Luckily, I never had any morning sickness during my pregnancy. My pregnancy is my happier moment ever. Looking at my tummy to get bigger each day such a pleasure! Truthfully, I am a happy mom to be. This is my first experiences, I’m looking forward to it!

Cameron Highland HoneyMood

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 19 Jul 2012 23:24:00 +0800

My hubby promises me to go on vacation when he gets back from his 14th days’ work trip! Well, he knows me well, I will never forget to whatever he had promise me. So, he took me to Cameron Highland!

So I said to ‘My Little Heartbeat’….”We gonna have fun!!!”

We went to Cameron Highland for three days. Started on 15th until 17th of May 2012. We stayed in De’La Ferns Hotel which is located in the middle between Brinchang and Tanah Rata. Ringlet area is just not for me. Huhu…

The hotel rate are very affordable during the weekdays. Its only RM290 per night inclusive of:

1 x Steamboat dinner

2 x Breakfast

1 x Dinner set

So we (me, hubby and my baby) decided to stay here. Plus the locations of the hotel are strategic for us who eager to explore around. Hahha!! But the weather is so cold!!! I love it. I even ask my hubby to buy a house here, and then we start our little family in here. He refused! Hahhaha!! So, here aree our activities pics…

De'La Ferns Hotel

When we arrived in our Hotel......just after we visit The Strawberry Farm. Which enable us to pick our own strawberry. The tips given by the workers there are, pick the one that are really red in color!! Usually, the small one is sweeter than the big one. It turn out to be true!!! Because when I bought the Strawberry in the market in Brinchang, it is not as sweet as the one that we pick ourself!

Strawberry Farm (Pick Your Own Strawberry)

Our second day! We manage to captured the beauty of nature in the morning. The temperature?!! Cold like Paris!! hahahahha!! Luckily our Hotel did gave us pair of in-house shoes, so that my feet are not freezing!

Our breakfast!! The main course we need to order first. But the rest are buffet style babeh!! Eat like you never eat your breakfast before. There's cereal, bread, variety of muffin and cakes, porridge and amazing local dishes! We just can't eat them all. huh....

This is Butterfly Farm!!! Located in Brincang area. It was fun in here. There's not only butterflies, but also a various of insects!! There' s a snakes too!!! A lot of it!! and a cuteeee Rabbit!!

I just love my Hubby...

We leave our signature there plus our baby's signature too!!! Hahhahah!! We've been here in 2012!!

If you are here, you must visit Bharat Tea House. You must try their Strawberry Scorn together with their flavor tea of your choice. But I prefer strawberry tea. Perfectly match with my strawberry scorn!! Having all that by looking at the wonderful tea farm ever!!! Gosh, I miss those moments!!! Then we bought plenty of flavor tea there!! All of the flavor they have, we have it too!! Try it! Awesome!

Actually, there's still a lot more picture that I didn't put in here. Coz I am toooo lazy to edit those millions of pictures in Cameron. However you can check my FB to see it more in details...hahha!! Till here...My last day pictures still in my hubby's phone. Hahhaa!! I wish I can share those pictures...haih!

Aisyah AR Mom2Be : Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 14 May 2012 02:24:00 +0800

I am 14th week now. Which officially enters my 3rd month of pregnancy. Physically, I’m started to gain weight on my lower part thou. Seriously!!! Well, actually a lot of change started to show. I am happy but not happy with my lower part! Hahahhahah!!!

Today (14th May 2012) is my fourth appointment with the doctor. This time is to re-confirm my EDD date and to see my baby progress. The process is simple this time because I only need to see the doctor, so I can skip the long process with the nurse.

According to the book, my baby should be moving rapidly now but of course I am not being able to feel it yet. Should all the hands and legs, neck and head, hair and nail already complete. Plus my baby should be able to hear sound from the outside. I am hoping to see that.

Once again, the doctor scan my tummy and what an amazing experiences for me to see my own little baby moving rapidly inside. I was looking at the head, the neck and my baby spinal cord are perfect!!! Gosh, I’m so thrill. More thrill than ride in a roller coaster!!! Hah!!!! My baby is moving!!! But the doctor spoil the moments!!! She snap the picture during my baby is moving. So the images are not clear.

But still, my baby is moving!!!!!

Aisyah AR Mom2Be:Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 3 May 2012 01:46:00 +0800

It is the first time ever I will see my baby in shape after the first confirmation that I am pregnant. But today, I will be able to know about my pregnancy status. How old has it been and my EDD (due date). I am more than excited. It’s a second time to see my baby!!!

My mummy did gave me this big and thick pregnancy book by Elizabeth Fenwick for my guidance as she knows that this is my first experiences indeed will be the first grandchild ever! So, I read it through more than I ever read my degree’s book! Hahahaha!!! Honestly, I can’t wait to see my baby’s bump!!! But its too early. My tummy still flat. Uhu…

So, get back to the real matter, I went to the Clinic for my second appointment (3rd May 2012). One thing M2B have to remember before you went to the clinic for check-up is never forget to bring your urine from home or you will delay the process. It is not only you that are pregnant but hundred and thousand more. So, let’s cut the long wait and make it short can we?

Fortunately, I never forget to bring my urine from home and wear a proper outfit or you will be nag by the nurse during the process and never ever forget your Pregnancy Book. The process will be measuring your body weight, your urine test, your blood test (to check your hemoglobin percentage), and your blood pressure (BP). After that only, the nurse will decide whether or not for you to see the doctor for further check-up. Luckily, today is the day to determine my pregnancy status. So, I will definitely see the doctor for the scan.

So, I went to see the doctor and the scan begins. I can see my baby!!!! There’s a head, hands and my baby spinal cord are just amazing! There’s a heartbeat too!!! My baby is healthy!! I’m speechless. Then the doctors said that my Due Date will be on 18th November 2012 and I’m pregnant for 11 weeks and 4 days now. Means I’m already 2month plus!!

My statistics:

Alb: N

Gula: B

Hb: 11gm%

Berat: 57kg (up 2kg)

BP: 120/70

p/s: Wish Daddy were here..

I Know I Got You

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:48:00 +0800

Today mommy very sad. Sometimes, the way they treat mommy, its hard to accept. I hate it when they threaten me with you. But then, when mommy think about you, mommy feel happy. Daddy is away right now, he had to go around travel for us. So, sometimes when mommy feel like crying, mommy will call daddy. Listen to daddy jokes is enough to make mommy laugh again. But when mommy touch you, mommy feel peace. Because, no matter what happened, no matter how bad the situation might be, you will always by my side. We will do this together. Later when daddy come home, we will tell daddy what we did together alright. So tomorrow, mommy will take you to the class, we will learnt together. Let daddy be proud! As mommy always skipping class lately. Hahahaha!

p/s: Mommy loves you my only 'Little Heartbeat'. I miss you hubby. Come home soon.

'My Little Heartbeat'

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 00:43:00 +0800

Iyep, I have so many heartbeats already in my family and fortunately now I have the little one. Hahhaaa…

Introduction: I am extremely happy and still in a middle of believing the news brought by the doctor. The thing is, when the doctor show me what’s going on in my tummy, it got me into tears. Cry baby didn’t I. Hahhaaa…well, simply said it’s a new experience for me.

The Situation: So what I missed my period this month. Doesn’t seem such a big problem to certain people is it? Coz there’s still two more weeks left for this month, it could be I’m having my period at the fourth week of March?! Hmmm…..no one knows about one’s self better than you do, someone said. Meanwhile, at the time I’m having this thought that my period is delayed, I do experiences few things like having a swing mood (Poor my hubby, I’m always find thing to fight with him), my craving to certain food feel like so weird! It just that, whenever I felt hungry, my brain automatically pops up certain food that is not my regular order before!! Hahah!!! The most importantly, my breast feels hurt (honestly).

The methods: So, it got me thinking that I might be pregnant!!! But, how come!!! We’ve been planning all this time (without me taking any pills). Maybe we got careless this month. Hahhahahha!!! So, I tell to my moms and she asked me to see the doctor. But, I need to be sure about it first, so I ask my hubby to buy me the UPT (Urine pregnancy test). It stated there that it’s a 99.9% accurate. So, I give it a try.

Hypothesis: If the UPT shows 2 red line means I’m pregnant.

Results: I close my eyes after I put the test on, after 10 seconds I opened my eyes back. Honestly, I hope there are two lines! So, I get what I wish for, the result gave me two red lines! I was happy so much and showing my UPT test around the house ignoring the fact that it’s my urine there. Hahahhahahah!!!

Conclusion: the next morning, I wake up with smile in my face. Me and my hubby went to the nearer hospital (Larkin). So, when I get there (First experience), they send me to the pregnancy registration unit. So, I tell the nurse my story, and she said “If the UPT shows 2 line, you are pregnant”. So she open a book for me. This book I have to carry for 9 month. They took my blood for test, check my blood pressure, my weight, my height, my urine again to be tested, they did thalassemia screening etc. It’s a long process but it’s ok. Coz I need to hear the word from the doctor, coz all the process is just the beginning.

The last process is when they send me to see the doctor. The doctor asking me about my last period so, I said I forget about it. Then he decided to do the IUGS. I was so nervous. I hope I can see something in my tummy. I don’t know, maybe I am ready to be a mom. Well, the ‘Gojes’ one at least. HAHHAHA…

But then, there you are. Small ‘little bean’ stuck in my uterus. Hahahha!! Skema ya’ll. It got me into tears. I was extremely happy, but the doctor really spoil it though, he said it’s too early, too small, he can’t tell how old is my pregnancy. I just don’t care. It is officially proved that I am PREGNANT!!

So, he said, my pregnancy might be between 1 to 2 weeks old. He assigned 3rd May 2012 for me to come again to check on my pregnancy age. He gave me folic acid to be take one for every day after a meal. Fuh, what a process!! I can’t hide my feeling!! So I spread the good news to all my others heartbeats and friends to share my happiness. Uit…what about my hubby? He can barely stand!!! Hahahhahahah!!! He was in surprise. We were in surprise, but he never expected to be a father this soon! Hahhaha!! So, honey, we gonna have a very cute little eyes baby soon this year. Work harder than before!! Hahhahahha!!!

Discussion: I need to buy a new dress and pans. The nurse said I have to! I need a new flat shoes too. Other than that, I need to maintain my nutrition intake. So, the doctor said there’s no need for me to take any supplement. Just finished my folic acid pills, drink a lot of water and milk for a pregnant woman, eat a lot of vegetables (green one) etc. DO NOT eat Maggie and any MSG stuff like snek or something. Noted.

Recommendation: If you’re married, then you missed your period, do the UPT test ASAP. The soon you detect the better for your preparation. Consider myself as the lucky one. To the husband, your wife will find a thing to fight with you, so be patient and treat her with more love and care so that she can mad at you and smile at you at the same time. My hubby is a funny person, he always do things that will make me laugh even though I’m so mad at him. I miss him already. Come home soon.

I'm A Happy Mother-To-Be!

P/s: To my ‘Little Heartbeat’, It’s gonna be a GREAT year for us! Now I’m not alone, wherever I go, you will always with me. We will do this together. So, grow well and be healthy. I will see you again in May alright.

Manager Me!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 24 Feb 2012 01:10:00 +0800

It’s been silence in here. Haha…My dear Lee Ping must be frustrated coz it took such a long time for me to update my sweetheart bubbly blog here.

Ever since my dad asked me to manage the tuition center and at the same time back-up for the kindergarten management, I had no time for myself. Luckily I have such a GREAT Hubby in the WORLD!! Who always there for me. It is NOT EASY to set up a tuition center!!! A lot of details have to be thinking of.

How big are the classrooms? How many students in one classroom? How big the whiteboard would be? How about the marker pen? Should we provide it? How about teacher/tutor? Where to find a quality teacher / tutor? How many staff do we need? How about the subject’s timetable? Which class for which student? How about the facilities? Photocopy machine? Syllabus? How about marketing? How about my office? Office equipment needed? Record management system? Data entry system? Telephone line? Internet line? Electricity? Water? Do we need a pantry? Counseling Room? Seminar Room? Shoes’ rack? How about painting? Then, cleaning process? Do we need to hire a cleaner every weekend? Terms and conditions. Believe me, the lists are extremely too long!!!!!

But!!! That’s only for the first to second month of operation. When you’re in the third month of operation, you can have a little rest and can start to blogging. Hahhahah!!!

So, to all my Southern College Sweetheart, if you have time, do visit me and comment about my tuition center aiit!! Your comments are needed here. Huhuu…

Pusat Tuisyen Teguh Intelek. No. 2-02, Jalan Idaman 3, Taman Larkin Idaman, 80350 Johor Bahru.

Life After Married 1

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 05:05:00 +0800

If you know that your wife love to do laundry, don’t leave your Jeans around cause your wife will clear it and wash it. More often you leave it around, more often your wife will clear and wash it. Until one day you will start to realize there is something wrong with your Jeans! Hahahhaha!!!! Even though it’s your favorite Levi’s!

While you two watching the TV, when it’s about commercial time, change the channel to 411 (HBO-Astro) cause when your wife sees the new Downy especially in Pink she will asked for it!

“Hubby!!!!! I want that…..pleaseeee……”

No matter what your agenda is make sure you settle it before your husband reach home from work. If not, he will surely give you his long face and not-talking-to-you expression like. Hahhaa!!!

Whenever you in a car, before you turn on the radio, make sure that your wife favorite record not in there! If not, the only song you will hear is you wife singing the same song repeatedly. Then, she will ask you whether her singing sound good or not? Then, you gonna have to say…

“Wahh!! Even Katy Perry doesn’t sound like you!!”

Suddenly, house hunting becomes such a fun thing to do!! Aim for the ‘Rumah Contoh’ and go take a look inside. The wife will start to comments on the kitchen, how long the cupboard will be customize, where the fridge will be place and the hubby will talk about where to put the LCD TV! Hahhaaa!!

Whenever you hurt yourself, you can always tell your hubby and show him your wound. He will treat your wound with his magic word and kiss!

“Bismillahirahmanirahim! Fuh!! Fuh!! Ok, kejap lagi baik lah tu…”

When you wake up in the morning with your messy hair and suddenly your hubby wakes up too, ask him do you look pretty or not. He surely will not answer it, coz he will give you his sweet kiss as the answer.

Whenever you try a new recipe that you get it online, you don’t have to worry about the taste, cause someone will definitely finish it for you without complaint but compliment! Though you yourself don’t event like the taste of the recipes!

Educations. Its Essential!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 9 Dec 2011 13:00:00 +0800

I’ve been working as an Academic Consultant at my dad & mummy’s company. It’s Pusat Urusetia Pengambilan Pelajar in Larkin Perdana. Since, I’m starting my long semester, I can’t commit to my duty. However, what I learnt from those experiences is sometimes certain people had a second chance to IMPROVE their life but they wasted it.

We’ve been approach a lot of students mostly with a bad SPM results!!! We tried our best to consult them the choices that they have but they started to be demanding. Started to ask for a high standard course that doesn’t match with their results requirements.

Sometimes, we need to let an expert do their job. They know which college and course suit you best. Not only took in consideration of your family financial but also considering whether you can handle those courses or not. But still, the choice is yours.

I believe in a second chance. So when I get it, I didn’t waste it. We never know when that luck will come again right. So, grab it as it available. IMPROVED!!

Parents! Education now much easier compare those days. There’s PTPTN, MARA, KWSP and such! If your child wants to continue study, let them be. Support them! Don’t let your insecure feeling jeopardize your child future! Let them go, learnt about the real world. Facing real situation. Don’t keep them in home, waiting for a miracle to knock on your door. It is not the generation that we want to generate for future leader.

Only through educations, you can change your life condition. Believe it or not, believe it.

30 days of missing

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 9 Dec 2011 10:12:00 +0800

Chaakkk!!! Hahhah!! (Scaaryyyy introduction!)

It’s been quite a long time since I’m updating this precious blog of mine. My dear Lee Ping keeps asking me when I will update my blog. Sorry my dear, it just everytime I put this finger on those keyboard, my eyes slowly close, then I’m like Zzzzzzz…..hmm…

But!!! I won’t let you down. I’ll try my best to update alright!

Here, I have some story to share. So, keep reading it aiit!

I lost my baby boy on 10.10.11!

According to Katy Perry (2011), in her latest single, The One That Got Away stated that ‘all this money can’t buy me a time machine’ (See!! I am doing my citation!! Will put in my reference page!! Hahahha!!). By all means, if only I can buy the time machine, I will definitely will. So, I can go back to the day my baby boy went missing and fix this broken heart of mine.

I am trying my best to find him. I knock on my neighbors’ doors asking about my baby. I’m distributes flyer around. I’ve been doing it for almost every night. In class, I keep holding my phone, just in case someone will call. But, I guess my neighborhood doesn’t care much about my lost I guess.

According to the petfinder site, indoor cat usually does not leave the house like that. It must be it accidently get out and get scared then run for hiding. Sometimes, they run to far from home and get lost. That’s the reason why I keep looking for him. I can’t give up easily thou.

As the day goes by, still no sign of him, I decided to make a giant poster with a reward! Hoping that, whoever sees my baby or accidently keeping my baby will contact me. Until today, it’s been a month, 30 days, no Luck. YET!

They said that cat is a very spiritual animal. So, I keep telling myself that he will come home soon. Someday. So, I must keep calling him back! Wish he find his way home! Wish that he’ll be just FINE.

p/s: Thanks hubby and siss for being there for me during my sorrow moments.

10.09.11

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 16:37:00 +0800

Jap, aku nak quote kata-kata Umi aku ni:

“Kak Ngah, kalau kita buat besar pun orang akan ngata, kita buat kecil pun orang kata juga. Yelah, bila besar terlalu grand sgt, dorang kata kita membazir, byk makanan terbuang. Bila kecil, dorang kata kita tak cukup budget lah itu ini lah…makanan tak cukuplah….so, kita buat setakat yang mampu je lah…”

So, aku pun decide nak buat Majlis ikut suka hati akulah!! Hahaha!!!

Ingat tak aku pernah kata, nak gtau mcm mn nak cari WP yang terbaik!! Sini aku gtau satu keyword…’Family Business’!!

Kenapa bila kita nak kawin, kita perlukan WP? Sebabnya, kita terlalu sibuk dengan komitmen lain. Dalam kes aku pula kerana aku sibuk dengan Final Exam dan kesuntukkan masa. Aku mmg seorang yang detail. Forgive me, I’m born this way. Tapi, details aku pun tidak bermakna aku ni cerewet macam Diva…okeh!! I still have my manner.

Kenapa, dalam byk2 WP kat JB nie, aku pilih Ixora Design akhirnya. Sebabnya, aku tak suka buat pelaburan pada kerja yang sambil lewa dan tahu nak kaut untung jer lebih…apa tue orang kata, cakap jer berapi-rapi, bila buat macam taik. Siyes!! I’ve seen it before.

Sebabkan aku ni kaki kuat survey wedding package, aku boleh tahu WP ni jenis mark-up harga gila Vavi atau pun tidak. So! Sebelum kamu decide nak hired WP ni, kamu Tanya dulu latar belakang orang disebalik tabir tue.

Pada aku ada 4 orang utama yang aku amat titik beratkan:

1.Negotiator aka decorator

2.Mak Andam!

3.Photographer

4.Catering

Aku bernasib baik sebab dipertemukan dengan Ixora Design kerana kesemua orang keutamaan aku adalah satu family!

Aku akan brief segala kehendak, keinginan, fantasi dan ketegasan aku berkenaan konsep dan expectation on my wedding day dengan Nadia & Kak Gee (Negotiotor & Decorator). Mereka berdua ini adalah adik beradik! Manakala Mak andam aku pula ialah Mak Ani (Ibu mereka). Photographer majlis aku pula adalah Angah (Abang mereka). Mak sedara mereka mengguruskan Katering!

This is a Family Business. I am a big supporters of a Family Business!! So, I know that they will not ruin my Wedding because it will jeopardize their family business!! We don’t want that. Na’ah.

Selalunya, when it comes about pricing, tentulah mereka pun tak kan mark-up harga gila vavi among each other rite! Percaya tak, kalau aku kata majlis aku punya perbelanjaan tidak lebih dari RM7K! Percayalah….

Dengan bilangan jemputan seramai 250 orang tetapi yang hadir cecah 300 ++ juga, makanan tetap ada, karaoke & DJ tetap ON!!! Outdoor Phothoshoot tetap jalan!! Sanding tetap diteruskan. Walaupun pada hari tu, hujan gedik turun juga….hahhahah!!

Umi aku pun gembira tengok kawan2 dia ramai hadir. Abuya aku pun tak nak lepaskan karaoke…termasuklah abang Long & Mummy aku…Cik Su pula, sibuk tengok aku disolekkan semua. CT5 sis aku sume busy layan tetamu…Asmah busy handle Goodie Bag n all. Jiran aku, Untie Ida turut membantu dari dalam rumah, sebab tuan rumah kena layan tetamu di luar daa…hahahha!!!!

Cuma satu aje pesanan aku, tidak kira betapa hebat sekalipun WP yang kamu hire, kalau kamu tidak get involve sepanjang proses tu berjalan, pun tak jadi juga. Do your schedule. All the listing. All the checklists. Built positive relations with them because I believe…

In order to make ourself Happy, is to make them happy first!

Bila orang senang bekerjasama dengan kita, mereka akan jadi lembut hati. Tak mudah untuk berkira dan buat pun ikhlas. Bukan buat sebab nak cepat siap keranan menyampah nak ngadap muka kita…huh…we don’t want that…. na’ah!

Lagi satu aku nak bebel pasal jemputan. This is my Happiest day in my life. So aku nak share hari bahagia aku ni dengan orang yang betul2 penting dlm hidup aku. Rakan2 yang aku kenal rapat. Mereka juga kenal aku. Kawan Umi yang juga kenal keluarga aku. Sebabkan aku pun tak ramai sangat kawan, so jemputan aku tak perlu ramai.

Honestly, setiap mereka yang datang pada hari tue, semuanya aku kenal!! I am happy to see people that I know, because aku akan amat selesa untuk berborak ramah dan merapu. Hahhaha!!! It’s a day full of laughter and camera flash!!

My classmates from Southern College pun turut hadir ok!!! Aku tahan dorang jangan balik sebab aku nak share every moment with them!!! I want them in my sweet memory!!!! Thank you guys…I love you all much!!!!! I got a big present from them too…will show off next entry..heheee….

Ouh ya…hantaran aku semua aku deco sendiri tau…huhuu….sentimental gtue!!! Ghee~~

Tok Kadi Pilihan Hati

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 03:31:00 +0800

Pernah tak korang terpikir, bila kahwin nanti korang mahukan siapa menjadi Tok Kadi korang? Pernah? Sebabnya, sesetengah orang mereka tidak kisah dengan siapa mereka akan dikadikan…tapi aku….siyesly aku kesah!!! Heheee…

Kalau boleh, aku mahukan Tok Kadi yang menikahkan Umi & Abuya aku 26 tahun lepas. Ishk…tapi, munasabah ke??

Orang kata, “nak seribu daya, tak hendak seribu dalih ma….”

So, aku pun minta Mr. Fiancee dan abuya tolong merealisasikan permintaan aku tuh. Tak kisahlah dimasjid mana dia buat, aku akan kesana!

Kamu tahu, pada mulanya susah betul nak hubungi Tok Imam ini. Sebabnya, dia rajin pergi umrah. Asal call aja, pembantu rumahnya yang jawab, kata “Datuk, ngak ada, dia ke Umrah”

Tapi berkat kesabaran dan keinginan yang membuak2!!! Hahahah!!! Urusanku dipermudahkan….setelah Abuya & Mr. Fiancee pergi kerumahnya, menyerahkan borang nikah, secara rasminya Tok Imam ini menjadi Tok Kadi ku nanti.

Moga2 aku mendapat berkat dari Imam yang telah menyatukan Umi & Abuya ku ini. Agar perkahwinan aku nnt seharmoni perkahwinan umi & abuyaku…

Terima kasih Dato’ Imam Mahad…..

Deco HANTARAN!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 02:00:00 +0800

Selesai studio photo-shoot, now aku focus kepada barangan hantaran. Ada yang sudah ditempah tunggu siap…ada yang masih dicari…ada yang masih tak tahu nak cari apa…hahah!!!

Apa pun, kami decided hantaran 7 berbalas 9. Memandangkan ramai betol nak sponser untuk hantaran aku, so 9 tu tak der maknanya!! Compem lebih!! Bgslah…selamat duit akuh….(walaupun tak kuar sesen pun…hahhaha!! ) =P

Lepas puas aku ajak Mr. Fiancee tu discuss pasal hantaran, akhirnya berjaya juga kami mencukupkan kuota hantaran!! Harharhar!!!

So, aku ni kan senti-mental! Hahah!! So, aku decided nak deco sendiri hantaran aku tue sume!! Jgn spe kacu…Cuma sirih junjung aku tak reti nak buat, so aku serahkan pada umi aku deco…hehehe…

So, sebab excited terlebih, lepas bersahur, aku pun cuba try & error deco hantaran aku tue…so, ni lah hasil try & error tue…umi aku tgk geleng-geleng kepale dia…aku tgk angguk-angguk kepale aku…hahha!!!

Peringatan: ini cuba gambar trial aku sahaja ya…sebab, now aku ada sedikit perubahan nak buat lah…nak tgk hasilnya?? Kena dtg majlis aku lah!! Hahah!! Poyo jer… =P

Shoot that Studio!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 01:11:00 +0800

Beberapa minggu yang lalu. Sewaktu aku tidak busy dengan final exams aku….aku buat appointment ngan Ixora for our wedding’s studio photo-shoot!!

Aku bawa sekali bakal pengapit aku, my sis Uder menemankan aku. Sebabnya, dia sama cerewet macam aku. So, senang sikit untuk aku minta opinion. Sebabnya, nak pilih baju untuk photo-shoot tu ajer dah makan berejam lamanya. Belum masuk, make-up lagi. Posing lagi! So, I need a fast criticisms and she can be count on! Hehee….

So, dalam pakej aku boleh pilih 3 baju. Satu untuk nikah dan 2 persalinan. So, aku pilih satu pasang untuk sesi photo-shoot ni. Lagi dua kita pikir kemudian ajer. Aku pun dah pening. Sebabnya, baju yang aku nak tak AVAILABLE di Ixora.

I need to think FIRST!!! Fuhhh!!

Apa pun, muka aku jadi totally lain bila disolek dgn tebalnya. Hurm….aku nak post gambar studio tu kat sini, tapi nnt tak surprise arr kan…so, aku letak gambar yang Uder aku sempat snap ajer lah…orait!!

Kalau korang rasa nak komen apa2, silalah berbuat demikian. Pendapat anda amat diperlukan ketika ini yeh!! Apa pun, doakan kami ya…

p/s: Sesi photo-shoot tu mmg sgt FUN!!! Thanks abg photog!! Sabar layan kepala kami yang tak betol neh!

Baju Raya

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 19:52:00 +0800

Just because I’m finished my exams today, so I celebrate it with my babies!!

Owh….iyep…I have a lots of babies!! Semuanye muka ikut aku!! Maklumlah…anak I kan….hahhaha!!!

I don’t know how I end up shopping at Daiso today! Niat memula tue, abis exam trus nak balik umah sambung tdo an…tp….tetiba terasa macam awal lagi jer untuk balik…so, kaki pun ajak jenjalan….

Dugaan besar weh kalau dah ada kat Daiso neh!!! Sume barang pun cute miut…mcm aku!!! Hahhaha!!! Pasannyerrrrr!!!! Akhirnya, aku terbeli baju raya untuk babies catty!! Hahhah!!!!

Owh ya…aku pun beli file weh!!! Siap ngan note pad sepasang weh!!! Kononnya nak jadikan buku resepi aku daaa…..hehehe….jangan marah ….ghee~~~

So, bila aku sampai umah, kebetulan pula adik aku, Achiq mmg dah mandikan Nanies Catty aku tue sume….langkah kanan betollahh….so, aku pun test tgk baju raya tue muat ke tak…

Apa yang mampu aku luahkan disini cuma….

HAHHAHAHHAHHHHAHAHAHHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHA!!!

Maaf ya…aku ni jakun sikit….tapi, siyesly aku nak gelak….

HAHHAHAHHAHAHHHAA!!

p/s: Aku beli apron pink!!! Hahahhahahahha!!!!

Wedding Package!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 6 Aug 2011 12:50:00 +0800

Pencarian Wedding Planner (WP) aku sudah pun selesai. Lega hati! Aku memilih IXORA DESIGN. Sekarang aku dah boleh focus pada perkara2 lain especially get ready for my Final Exams in 2 weeks from now!! Hahhaha!!!! Nak tahu apa aku dapat dalam pakej yang ditawarkan:

“PAKEJ ISTIMEWA IXORA (RUMAH)”

- Pelamin Rumah (8'X4')
- Hiasan Meja Makan Damai serta Tabir
- Baju Sanding L/P (1 Psg)
- Baju Persalinan L/P (2 Psg)
- Make-up (3X)
- Aksesori Pengantin L/P
- Dandanan Rambut & Tudung (Nikah)
- Kipas, Bantal & Payung
- Gambar 5 Roll (200 pcs) berserta album (Studio & Outdoor)
- Khemah Arabic (4 unit) termasuk scallop, kain tiang, kipas & lampu
- Meja Bulat (20 unit) termasuk alas, skirting dan runner
- Meja Petak (6 unit)
- Bunga Meja
- Kerusi beserta sarong (160 unit)
- Kerusi Banquit Exclusive (24 unit)
- Meja Kek
- Katering termasuk Kendarat dan set pinggan mangkuk
- Lauk Makan Damai (12 orang)

PERCUMA:

- 1 set kerusi pengantin makan damai
- Frame beserta gambar (16’x20’)
- Bunga tangan (Fresh Flower)
- Kek Pengantin 3 Tingkat
- Khemah Masak (1 Unit)
- Pintu Gerbang
- Sangkar Kek
- Banting
- Henna

Kesimpulannya, IT’S A COMPLETE & PERFECT DEAL I GOT FOR MY BUDGET!! Ahad ini, aku pergi pilih Baju Pengantin & Shoot gambar Studio sebab aku merancang nak letak gambar dalam Banting tue!! Muahahhaha!!!

p/s: Dalam mencari Vendor untuk WP ni, kamu mesti pandai. Nantilah aku share. Next time babeyh!

Wedding Planner!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 16:35:00 +0800

Percaya atau tidak, I'm still looking for the BEST wedding planner in town!!

Kalau nak aku yang jadi wedding planner majlis aku tu nanti boleh ajer….TAPI…!!!! Gerenti majlis yang asalnya kecil bertukar menjadi GRAND PIX! Muahahhaha!! Silap2 aku terbangkan sekali Donald Trump ke mari!!! Sekali2 Tan Sri Dato Mahathir aku tuntuni!

Karut sudey....

Actually, aku ada juga juga survey beberapa Wedding Planner yang aku kategorikan sebagai PRO. Tapi disebabkan mereka itu PRO, mereka pun PRO-Busy! So, aku terasa diri terabai dek ke-Pro-Busy-an mereka itu.

Actually, aku dah ada Wedding Planner yang aku pilih semasa Expo Pengantin di Angsana tempoh hari, tetapi masalahnya ialah.....sehingga ke hari ini, masih tiada apa2 khabar atau berita dari pihak mereka berkenaan pengurusan majlis aku itu nanti!! So, aku berfirasat lebih baik aku mencari Wedding Planner yang sememangnya boleh DIHARAPKAN!

Disini ada beberapa pilihan hati aku. Aku masih menunggu tawaran TERBAIK dari pihak mereka. Siapa yang terpilih, PERCAYALAH kataku, itulah yang TERBAIK!!! Kamu ingat senang ke nak cari Wedding Planner yang betul2 boleh diharapkan?!

1. Atikah Wedding Planner

2. Zaizadiha Bridal House & Canopy

3. AZ Saloon & Bridal House

4. Ixora Design

Jemputan aku tak lah ramai…Cuma 300 orang terpilih sahaja! Maklumlah, aku ni kedekut taik idung masin! Cuma....apa yang aku tengah pikirkan sekarang ni, kalaulah....sebagai CONTOH:

Option A: RM500-RM1K

Sewa canopy(Arabic)/kerusi/meja/lampu/kipas.

Option B: RM500-RM1K

Sewa dewan serta kerusi/meja

yang mana sah2 lah dewan dah ada lampu/kipas/air-cond!

Aku rasa, lebih baik aku buat kat dewan jer!

Hurm……Tak per…nnt aku nak buka buku kira-kira aku balik! So dewan sekalian, silalah kamu AVAILABLE kan diri memasing!!! Hoho!!

p/s: So EXCITED my CLASSMATES sume nak datang!!!!!!!! Hahahha!! Love them ALL!!!

Kursus Kahwin Yok!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 14:15:00 +0800

Kalau kamu seorang muslim DAN kamu ingin berkahwin!!!!

Kamu WAJIB pergi KURSUS KAHWIN!!!

Alah…semua negeri pun ada lah….Cuma bezanya aku di Johor ni, waktunya jauh lebih lama dan sedikit mahal dari negeri2 lain….kot (kata Ustaz).

Bila? Kat mana? Berapa lama? Berapa hengget?? Hehehe…ni nak cter neh…gelojoh mu neh!!

Disebabkan bakal suami aku tue busy ajer memanjang….so, aku suruh dia yang booking tarikh kursus. Biar dia….padan muka. Busy sangat!

Last2 dia kata kita kursus:

Pada: 2-3 Julai 2011

Di: Naza Hotel, JB

Pukul: 8am – 4.30pm

Yuran: RM120/person (ditanggung beliau)

Aku pun, whaaaatttttt!!! Awalnyer!!!

Katanya itu je masa yang dia free. Sebab tarikh lain dia terlibat dengan roadshow. Haih…ok, fine!

Memandangkan aku ni mmg suka melaram, aku pun cakap kat dia kita pakai sedondon yok!!! Hahahha!!! Nasib baik dia bawa baju melayu biru dan coklat dia tue!! Berani dia tak bawak!!! Haaa….

Aku sebagai perunding imej decide kita pakai baju Biru hari pertama, baju coklat hari kedua. Ok…settle!

Kepada B2B diluar sana, jangan risau tak berpatutan ya. Sebenarnya, kursus kahwin ni TIDAK SUSAH pun!! Masa hari PENDAFTARAN tu, kamu Cuma bawa DUIT YURAN RM120(Johor) dan SEKEPING GAMBAR UKURAN PASSPORT. Tapi……gambar kamu itu, mestilah BERTUDUNG (P) dan BERSONGKOK (L). Kalau tidak nnt dia suruh kamu buat gambar yang lain. Huhuu…kan dah leceh urusannya jadi.

Sepanjang hari kursus tu, kamu tak perlulah nak bergaya ala kasanova dengan jeans mustang kamu tue. Pakai BAJU MELAYU kan smart apa! Bagi perempuan pula, dah betullah kamu pakai BAJU KURUNG…TAPI!!!!!!!!! Janganlah jernih sangat wak…..saya TERTENGOK tau!!!!! At least, pakailah simis ker…..ishk…awak neh!!! Malu saya tau!!!! Baknyer, bakal suami saya pun TERTENGOK juga….haih…dugaan..

Sape kater Kursus Kawin ni bosan?!! Hehehe….Tak bosan pun. FUN! Tapi sempat jugalah aku tertido pagi pertama tu. Tp, bila lunch time automatic segar bugar!! Hehehe..mcm tak biasa pulak! Makan pulak ‘not bad’. Standard hotel buffet style. Makanlah byk mana, sampai kembung! Seb baik 2 hari je kursus, kalau tak buntal juga aku nnt!

Pada hari pertama ada 6 slot Utama:

1. Munakahat

2. Ibadah

3. Akhlak & Hubungan Dalam Keluarga

4. Pembubaran Perkahwinan

5. Prosedur Kesihatan (paling aku beri perhatian)

6. Sakinah-Menyambut Kelahiran

Pada hari kedua bersambung lagi 6 slot seterusnya:

7. Komunikasi & Pengurusan Sumber (paling aku gelak tak igt dunia)

8. Pengurusan Stress & Kaunseling

9. Akidah (paling aku dengar penuh khusyuk gtue!)

10. Prosedur Pernikahan

11. Analisa Keberkesanan Kursus

12. Prosedur Mahkamah Syariah

Kesimpulannya, banyak input yang aku dapat dari kursus kawin ni. Terutama cerita2 lawak penceramah sepanjang kursus ni berlangsung. Sangat terhibur. Sangat selesa sampai semua mentos yang disediakan pihak

hotel abis aku telan!!

p/s: So, selamat berkursus kahwin semua B2B!! Yang penting kita enjoy…..erkkk…!!

Selagi boleh jimat! JIMAT!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 00:15:00 +0800

Ada yang bertanya aku beberapa soalan. So entry aku kali ni adalah bagi menjawab persoalan kamu ok!

Ya…benar. Aku masih belajar lagi. Lagi dua tahun tamatlah. Lepastu aku akan jadi CEO company aku sendiri! Amacam….gempak tak?!! Hahahah!!

Ya..ya…aku sudah mahu berkahwin. Sila percaya!

Kenapa aku tak buat majlis tunang?!!! Ni aku nak jawab ni!

Pertama sekali sebab aku ni kedekut taik idung masin. Malas nak melabur bagi jiran tetangga makan. Hahhahah!! Ok, aku melawak jer…..jgn lurus sgt!!!

Rancangan nak kahwin ni dibuat secara tiba-tiba. Oleh kerana, perancangannya dalam masa kurang dari 6 bulan, aku terpaksa potong perbelanjaan mana yang pada aku boleh dipotong! Oleh kerana itu, pada hari mertuaku datang untuk merisik serta sarung cincin, kami buat ala kadar yang hanya dihadiri oleh keluarga kami sahaja.

So aku panggil kakak kesygn aku dan abang long aku tu balik buat peneman aku pada hari tue. Aku pun tak de lah berandam bagai pun. Solek sendiri pakai baju kurung yang ayu sikit. Pastu ke dapur buat apa yang patut.

Perbelanjaan hari tu pun, abuya aku yang tanggung. Dia nak aku kawin cepat sgt, dia tanggunglah….aku goyang kaki aja….hahhahhahah!!! (sila percaya~~)

Sebabkan kami semua sibuk hari tue, kami tak sempat nak bergambar bagai. Apa yang aku tahu, aku makan dengan sangat banyaknya hari tue!! Malamnya pula, kami semua pergi main badminton kat belakang stadium larkin tue!! Best!!!

notes: Akhirnya aku dapat dua cincin juga!! Engagement and Nikah! Pada masa yang sama, aku tidak perlu membazir duit beli barang hantaran tunang 5 berbalas 7 bagai. Habiskan duit untuk berandam semua. Nanti time nikah nak buat semua ni lagi. lebih baik aku shoot all in one time nikah tu nanti kan.....Siapa tahu bakal suami aku hadiahkan aku Sony Ericssons Experia Arch Pink tu ker, Kereta Inspira 2.0 tu ker....Rumah setengah juta tu ker....Trip honeymoon ke Bali 4 hari 3 malam tu ker!! haaa...tak ker bahagia hidup aku.

p/s: Aku mmg suker berangan~~~

No Longer Special!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 13:48:00 +0800

Bila dia mula rasa

‘I don’t feel special anymore. Feel like shit!’

Kalaulah masa ni, kamu baru nak sedar….rasanya dah lambat kot. Kamu tak payahlah nak bermanja2 dengan dia ketika ni sebab perasaan dia dah tak ada untuk kamu. Tiap kali dengar suara kamu buat dia rasa teruk dan kecewa.

Kalaulah masa ni baru kamu nak wish good morning good night, rasanya tak payah bazir kredit kot. Sebab tak da nilai pun good morning good night kamu tu pada dia. sebab dia tahu, kamu buat bukan ikhlas pun. Sebabkan terigt tuntutan2 dia tempoh hari.

Kalaulah masa ni baru kamu nak minta sorry bagai, yang mana dia dah dgr berjuta kali kot! Tiada makna padanya. Sorry kamu, Cuma kata-kata penyedap telinga. Tidak pada hatinya.

Sebelum kamu menuding jari kearahnya, kamu juga harus sedar tindak – tanduk kamu yang membuatkannya sebegitu rupa. Dia perempuan materialistic?!!! So what! Kamu tak suka?? Kamu TINGGALKAN dia sekarang ini, sebelum terlambat!!!!!

Dia pentingkan KESEMPURNAAN. Tapi kamu tak pernah cuba mahu memahami sifatnya yang satu ini. Kamu ambil perkara sambil lewa!!!! Kamu tuntut berbagai2 seolah2 kamu itu seorang yang sempurna sifatnya! Selalunya pun, kamu yang betul, dia yang salah!

Rasanya, dia mula hilang identiti dirinya demi memuaskan hatimu. Tetapi kamu tidak pernah kata mahu berubah sikap, perangai demi kepuasan hatinya. Adilkah kamu? Setiap kali hatinya kamu sakiti, kamu mengharapkan dia beri kata2 semangat padamu. Tidak selfishkah kamu?

Kamu marah dia kerana pada kamu dia tidak bertolak ansur!!! Jikalau kamu benar2 fikirkan, apa lagi permintaan dari kamu yang dia tidak bertolak ansur?? Apa?!!

Percayalah, hati dia semakin menjauhi kamu. Cinta kini kedengaran lucu di hatinya.

p/s: Renung2kan....hahahhah!!!!

The Proposal

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 14:40:00 +0800

Believe it or not….

I’M GETTING MARRIED!!!!

Ok, sila sayang aku sekarang…..sebab aku pun tak caya aku dah nak kawin!! Harharharhar!!

Macam ada orang blur jer neh….

Cecita…cecita…cecita….

Ok..ok….aku ceritalah. Macam ni kisahnya…(dah mcm dialog Hantu Kak Limah Balik Rumah da~)

Aku hati SELATAN! Dia hati UTARA! (choooiii…)

Prolog: Kami belajar Di UUM bersama. Satu Dewan Penginapan (PROTON!) lah kan. Dia Raja Lawak. Aku Singa Betina. Hahahah!! Dia disukai ramai. Aku dicemburui ramai…(pera-santan kau!!! Hahha!!)

Dipendekkan cerita. Cinta kami, cinta Ikhlas! Dia hormati pendirian aku, aku hormati pendirian dia.

Kronologi Proposal Kawin!

Memula tue, kami merancang nak tunang dulu hujung tahun ni. Kononnya, aku berangan nak cincin byk!! Satu time tunang, satu time nikah nnt (nafsu wanita ya tuan-puan). Tapi……bila aku sambung belajar di johor bahru, dan dia masih berbaki satu sem di UUM….aku pulak asyik buat perangai je.

Maklumlah…aku ni kan minah rowks!! Hati batu, kepala pun batu bata. Tahu nak mengentan jer 24 jam sehari. Asyik nak wrestling ngan Pak Razak jer. Pastu, tension sendiri bila rasa diri terabai dari abuya sendiri.

Dia dengar, jadi tak tenteram. Asyik kena ambush ngan aku jer. Tu yang, abis jer final exam, dia terus terbang ke JB!! Sebab aku abaikan dia selama sebulan! Bernilai juga aku kat dia erk…(senyum-senyum).

Sementara menunggu proses posting and convocation, dia kerja di JB. Dekat ngan aku, senang dia nak pantau….cit….tak dapatlah aku nak ngorat2 ngan lelaki-lelaki lain kat JB neh!! Hahhaha!! (lawak jer).

Jadi parahnya, bila Pak Razak dah mula sayang dia mcm anak sendiri!! bukan setakat breakfast, tea break, lunch, diner, even supper asyik nak bersame ajer….main futsal sesame, main badminton sesame. Risau pulak aku tgk…kang dari lurus, jd bengkok pulak dua makhluk kesygn aku nie..hahhaah!!!

Kemudian, dia jadi risau bila dpt tahu, batch dia akan dipostingkan ke Sabah/Sarawak. Setelah berbincang selama beberapa hari (gado, baik, bincang) maka Pak Razak putuskan kami berkahwin bulan September 2011 paling lewat! Whaaaattss!!!! (mcm Pak Razak pulak nak kawin, suka – suki set tarikh..).

Aku pun mula buka buku kira – kira, lepas tak duit nak beli diamond's ring aku nnt!!! Lepas!!! Okeh!! Maka, kami setuju bapa…tersengeh kerang busuklah Pak Razak dgn riang!

Inilah, aku dalam persiapan ke alam perkahwinan (geli-geli jer ayat…gaggag!!)