A Kiss For You

Been So Long....

2011-09-11T01:19:00.000-07:00

Been so long since I wrote something

Today is 9/11 and for any American that date sticks out in our minds so strongly

I feel like crying

I hope that those lost do not feel anymore pain or sorrow for what happened and they have successfully moved on

I hope that those living that were effected are able to live a happy life still

I really hope huge crisises like this do NOT happen again

I hope we all realize one day that we all are the same, same humans, same hearts
And because of that similarity we should stand together not apart

All we have to not feel alone is each other

I hope we learn to work together one day and then we will see how powerful we really can be

A Kiss For You

Love,
KissyNicole

When Is It Over?

2011-08-30T12:44:00.000-07:00

How can we know when a relationship is over?

That sounds silly and easy but come on, figuring out when to call it quits is nearly impossible

And the longer a bad relationship gets drawn out, the more it hurts

Good thing is- almost all of us have battled with this

Here are some questions to ask yourself to help determine, Over or not?

Are you more often happy or sad when with this person?
Is it easy to get into fights?
Does he/she normally really hurt your feelings and not even seem to care?
Do you see a long future with this person?
Do you share similar values/life goals?

In the end it's only going to be you and that other person deciding what to do

No one can really have an opinion about it because, they aren't in the relationship too!

So don't let what others say bother you

And if you are REALLY in a sticky situation (the relationship is 50% good 50% bad)

Ask yourself

Is the 50% bad worth going through to get the 50% good part?

If yes then congrats!

Remember: don't stick around in a relationship that you know isn't getting any better

A Kiss For You!

Love,

KissyNicole

P.S.- No one has to be shunned out of your life if you decide they are not good for you, there always is the option of being just friends :)

Honesty

2011-08-27T19:21:00.000-07:00

Why is it so hard for people to be HONEST?

Being honest is almost so rare now a days that I just don't even want to trust anymore

People need to teach their kids when they are young to tell the truth no matter what

Not being honest is where girls get their hearts broken, where people get into even deeper trouble, and where trust is lost for a very long time

It is silly to not be truthful

Even to people you don't know

It's a very admirable quality to have, so start possessing it TODAY

Own up for what you've done, or make someone see the real you, all is possible with telling the truth

Save someone heartbreak over finding out you're a liar by NOT doing it

One thing is certainly agreeable by everyone:

We all would like some more honesty more often!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Negative People

2011-08-20T17:44:00.000-07:00

Do you know anyone that can just turn any situation into a crappy one?

They are absolutely the most annoying people to be around!! All they care about is drama

Not matter what, it is like it's physically impossible for them to just laugh something off and get over it

Keep yourself AWAY from people like that

and if you ARE like that, STOP immediately, you're pushing people away from you

Everyone wants to be around people that make them laugh and that inspire them to see the good in everything

Be that person or get to know people like that

Who you surround yourself with greatly effects you

So.....

Be around good and good will come to you!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Follow Your Dreams

2011-08-18T14:54:00.002-07:00

Anything you wanted to do but just never did it?

Have a secret passion for something but you never followed through with it?

Use all your time here on this earth chasing or doing what you love because if you don't
Then what's the point of even doing anything at all

Doing what you love makes your job not feel like a job

It makes all your time fun

It makes you feel fulfilled and happy

It is maybe the best thing you can do for yourself

so.......

DO IT

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Kids Are Smarter Than Adults

2011-08-15T14:16:00.000-07:00

Kids are younger than us yet they know more than us

They live happy carefree adventurous lives
while most of us struggle to be content and stress free

We have a lot to learn from children for sure!

But remember we were all kids once, we have the experience and knowledge to go back to that state of mind

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Email me, let me know what your thinking! kissynicole2@live.com

Answer my poll question located on the ride side of my bloggity, pwease ---->

Opinions

2011-08-15T12:54:00.001-07:00

Everyone has an opinion about everything

Everyone has a specific view on a subject

There are millions of different opinions out there

So in the big scheme of things, who is really right?

Can anyone ever be right?

Is there such a thing as being "right" on something?

I say listen to yourself and what you think, that is the best way to live your life

And if people think you are "wrong" there will always be a handful of others thinking you're "right"

So be happy doing your own thing!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

P.S. How about this: WE ALL ARE RIGHT! Now there is nothing to fight about ha

Remember

2011-08-13T22:54:00.000-07:00

Remember that we are all

beautiful

amazing

funny

lovable

inspiring

intelligent

brave

to someone

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Check Out Twitter

2011-08-11T14:49:00.000-07:00

Twitter is a really fun social networking site that cuts out all the extra stuff like customizing profiles and "walls"

You can go on there and follow your favorite people

For example you can follow your favorite celebrity and see what they are saying instantly

Or you can also follow people who tweet inspirational quotes

That is a real mood booster!

That's very beneficial to your overall health to be reminded every so often of the good things in life

You can also connect with friends

It really is fun

I highly recommend creating a Twitter

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Check out my Twitter! twitter.com/Kissy_Nicole

Disapproval From Others

2011-08-11T13:39:00.000-07:00

Hello again!

This particular subject really affects everyone!

It can be so frustrating when others like family or friends don't approve of the way you want to live when you are perfectly happy!

They should be supportive and should love anything you do but....

We are all not so lucky sometimes

Then how can you deal with this disapproval?

If they are willing to shun you and never speak to you again then hey, they are not worth the effort

If they simply lecture you or act differently in a negative way because of this thing or person then there is something you can do

Come up with valid reasons as to why you want to continue this thing and present them to that person in a non-argumentative way

And if that will not convince them then simply stop talking about this subject which they disapprove of

It avoids an argument and you can find someone else to talk to and confide in

Don't lay all your chips in on one person because when they reject you it will be that much more devastating

Instead confide in more than one person so there will always be a listening ear!

If you can't modify someone else, modify yourself because you are all you have control over

and most importantly make it a good habit to surround yourself with supportive loving people, family or friends!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Bad Situations

2011-08-11T12:38:00.000-07:00

I'm going to lay it out for you

If you are in a bad situation that you are miserable being in you have options

Change the situation, move away or get a job so you can leave for example

And if you can't change the situation.....

Make it your decision to stop caring

Things can only effect you as much as you let it

Regain that control and stop caring, stop listening, zone out when this bad situation starts to give you stress

The same thing can only upset you so often

Then after a while when the situation doesn't change and you are still getting upset, then it becomes your fault

Take back the control you deserve

Be happy everyone!

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Some Positivity For You!

2011-08-10T12:40:00.000-07:00

Hello!

Guess what!

You are amazing!

No one else is like you

Nothing lasts forever

People who hate are miserable on the inside

The weather is nice today

Everyone has a talent of some kind

You are able to read this right now

As long as you live, there will always be a new day to try it again :)

At least one person loves you, and that's me!

Never feel alone, email me: kissynicole2@live.com
follow on twitter: @Kissy_Nicole

A Kiss For You!

Love,
KissyNicole

Pups

2011-08-10T12:29:00.000-07:00

Anyone have a dog?

If you do you know how amazing it is!

They can be your very best friend, someone there to cry to, someone that won't judge just be there for you when you most need it

And it also makes it really fun to come home to that waggy tail and kisses!

If you don't have a doggy, I suggest going out and getting one as soon as possible

And if money is an issue, get a smaller dog, less food to buy, less poop to pick up

It's a win win!

Dogs help you live longer, they relieve tons of stress and they often do silly little things that will make you burst out laughing

Seriously consider getting a puppy!
Or thank your little guy that he is already with you, I know I'm thankful!

A kiss for you!

Love
KissyNicole

Exercise

2011-08-09T10:26:00.000-07:00

Just got done exercising and wow!

I am out of shape!

I bet you if you did some exercising too you would find that you too are out of shape as well

It seems so easy to just forget about exercising and go on with your lives

But honestly it is super important

Just exercising 3-4 times a week can knock out tons of diseases

It will keep you young!

Relieve stress!

Up your energy level

Help you look like a perfect 10 in a swimsuit

And most importantly it will make you feel so much better, mind and body

Take that time to exercise, in your own home even, there is no excuse!

Give yourself 20 minutes a day to improve your life

That's less time than one TV show!

Do whatever works for you and the benefits will be well worth it!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Are You Weird?

2011-08-08T14:41:00.001-07:00

If you think you are "weird" or "different" or "crazy" from time to time then

Congrats!

You have broken the mold of boringness

Did anyone ever really listen to someone who was considered boring and normal?

Nope

The people that are considered to be "weird" are the people who change the world

And it is a special club not many can get in

Be proud that you are in this exclusive category!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Greener Grass

2011-08-08T12:20:00.000-07:00

Listen up!

Never compare your life to others and go wishing you had their lives instead of yours

Because the grass is always going to be greener somewhere else

There will always be someone richer, more successful, happier, more beautiful than you, and more "SOMETHING" than you

Appreciate what you have because there could be someone out there wishing they had your life
Your house, your job, your kids

We all have lives worth envying by others!
Enjoy your own life, it's much more fun that way

(and guess what, by enjoying your own life, others will wish they had your life!)

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

The News And Negativity

2011-08-08T12:13:00.000-07:00

Does anyone else see how negative the news is?

It is like they are incapable of reporting the good things that happen

For example recently I have heard the word "debt" maybe a million times on the news
They can not stop talking about how bad the economy is!

If you want to watch TV I suggest you watch happy things

By surrounding ourselves with words like "debt", "death" and other negative things then it subconsciously puts a dark cloud over us

Even if things aren't directly effecting you, our subconscious is still listening and soaks information up like a sponge

Keep the negative things out by making sure you are surrounding yourself with good things like comedies, good friends, pretty music, anything that creates a happy feeling for you

Do this and you will feel much healthier and happier instantly!

A kiss for you!!

Email me: kissynicole2@live.com

Love,
KissyNicole

Settling In A Relationship

2011-08-05T00:36:00.000-07:00

Why do we always settle?

Most relationships today have negative answers to "Do they make me happy?" "Do they respect me?" or "Do we have the same values?" "Am I satisfied in this relationship?"

There is a long list of fundamental questions to ask in a relationship to determine whether or not it is worth your time

Yes love is a big part but that's not all!

You could love someone who doesn't even like you so easily

It is about taking a look at how you feel in the relationship, if you feel amazing and great then it probably is

But if you are plagued with worries and stress then why stick around?

Life's short and wasting time with a person that doesn't deserve your time is stupid

We shouldn't settle for anyone, we should feel lucky!

Analyze the different parts of your relationship, each others values, each others flaws, look at how well you two work together

Remember it's not about being clones, it's about compatibility

Take an outside look at the quality of the relationship and be critical instead of lenient

Ask yourself obvious questions like if you are happy, if your needs are being satisfied

And just do not settle! The bond won't last that way and it is NOT worth it

A Kiss For You!

Email me with relationship questions! kissnicole2@live.com

Love,
KissyNicole

Break Up

2011-07-28T04:58:00.000-07:00

Wow a break up is so hard to deal with!

It can even be in your favor yet still you find yourself missing that person all the time

It is like your mind thinks in "good" mode when you break up
All you can remember is the good things!!

But honestly there was a break up for a reason

And that reason needs to be accepted and believed to be truth or else your head will go crazy spinning around trying to get that person back

It is a sad thing to deal with but as one goes almost always another follows that makes you happy again :)

Keep hope alive that you will move on and don't try to move on as quickly as possible

Give yourself a good amount of time so that the next relationship isn't flawed by the old one

Email me if you need help during a break up!

A kiss for you! I love you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Your Destiny

2011-07-27T02:06:00.000-07:00

Hello!

I haven't written much in the last few days as I have been very sad about Amy Winehouse's death

As much as I hate it I always felt like it was her destiny to be great and then pass to join the other greats that have died young like Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, and Kurt Cobain

They all can finally be in peace and sing together :)

Anyways I could see in her eyes and through her music that she was a tortured soul, as am I

Maybe it was destiny for her to touch the world with her music

Which got me thinking about my own destiny

How about you? Do you feel you were meant to do something?

Hopefully whatever career you have is what you feel deep down you were meant to do, if not, change that immediately!

I believe we were all meant to do something, some talent, some devotion to something that we will have success in no matter what

We must follow that little voice inside us that tells us what we need to do

Find that thing that lights a fire in your heart and never let it go

So although Amy died young, she still showed the world her talent and changed the lives of millions with her music and unique sense of style

That was a HUGE accomplishment, and for that I love her

She will forever motivate me to go for it!

I hope to motivate another.....
And show the world that you aren't alone
And that we all can achieve extraordinary things by following what our heart tells us

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Ever Felt Truly Alone?

2011-07-21T03:40:00.000-07:00

Have you ever felt truly alone?

Not just alone at the time but like really alone alone

No one to express your feelings to, no one to confide in

No one you can really ask for help

Well here is some good news!

We all feel like that sometimes

And I'm here to be that person to talk to

About anything you need too!!

Loneliness is the worst, trust me, I know....

So I have made myself available to anyone who needs it!

Shoot me an email about whatever
kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Self Worth

2011-07-20T05:49:00.001-07:00

So self worth

How do you see yourself?

You may think you have really good self worth but in reality you could be secretly putting yourself down

In everyday conversations we tend to make jokes about things and ourselves

And sometimes these jokes are actually negative to yourself

For example maybe making a joke about how awful your hair looks that day or joking about how badly you messed up on something

Yes, sometimes we truly are joking but then sometimes we are joking just to appear fine to others

Don't do that!

Make it a habit of catching those nasty little remarks you may have been thinking about you

They seem small and not worth the effort but really all that can build up and in turn effect your self worth

We have all these thoughts in one day, thousands!

And if we are joking or being serious and putting ourselves down that puts our whole life down

Our life around us comes from us!
And if the starting point is bad, the rest will follow

Feeling good about you is the most fundamental part of having an amazing life

No one wants to feel bad about themselves! It is a waste of your time

So look at you

Look at what you think of you

And if there is anything you don't like

Correct it!! Because the only one who can is you!

And take it slow and simple so you won't be overwhelmed :)

P.S. If you need any help on how to fix a specific thing about yourself, feel free to write me an email kissynicole2@live.com

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole

Hello Again ;)

2011-07-17T23:18:00.002-07:00

So I haven't been writing posts for a while, sorry!

There have been lots of things to sort out in my head

Relationships, Love, Friends, My Self Worth....

All flooding in at once!

Ever have that feeling?

The feeling where life throws a whole bunch of things your way and your head is just spinning from all the new information

The main thing I want to focus on is our own self worth

I believe a huge part of this comes from our parents and how high up on the pedestal they put us

At a young age if you believe you aren't worth anything, then you keep thinking that

Even if it's in the very back of your mind, it still can be there

And not just parents, anyone who put us down and we accepted it as truth

But listen to where your self worth is coming from, it usually is negative!

Stop that negative process!
We CAN do what we want most in life
and we WILL

nothing is stopping you but yourself!

More on this later!! :)

My Birthday

2011-07-12T05:21:00.000-07:00

It is my birthday today, whoo hoo!!
It's kind of funny how we celebrate them and mark every year we get older

We should base our success on how healthy we are as we age! Not by a silly number

Being healthy can not be taken for granted
It is so precious even though we don't really pay attention to it

It could take years of poor eating and bad habits to affect your health
but when it does, it won't be pretty!

Just because it isn't an instant thing, don't be dumb about your health

Imagine being older hooked up to a breathing tank, relying on it to simply breathe!

then imagine being older jogging in a beautiful forest, breathing in that clean air

Which do you want?

And here is the truth if you want to jog in a forest later in life ha
You need to start now, start eating better and exercising

It really helps your mood, how you feel, overall health, everything!
You will feel amazing if you give up KFC more often lol

There is no two ways about it!
Either do your body good or suffer some painful uncomfortable consequences

We all know what we should be doing for our health
Now let's just DO it already!!!!!

A kiss for you!

I know my health isn't so great and I'm young so I will be working on that now most definitely

Join me! Email me with your progress or with questions!

Love,
KissyNicole

Love Lost

2011-07-11T04:31:00.000-07:00

Losing someone you love like in a break up can be hard to cope with

Sometimes break ups are ok and you can deal with it because you know it's the right thing to do

But sometimes you watch that person over the course of your relationship fall out of love with you

Like a slow-motion car crash

Your gut is wrenching with anticipation of what you know will happen

That can be one of the most painful things to go through because of how slow and torturous it is!

Good news is that you're not alone if this has happened to you
And the other good news is that it isn't the end of the world

This person may have been "One in a million....." to you
But guess what, you have 999,999 more people to check out too! ha

No really! There are WAY more than just nine hundred thousand people out there
There are millions!

And guess what else, those are some pretty good odds to find another that fits you better than the last one did

So take your time and start looking for that better individual that will make you happier than you've ever been!

A kiss for you!

Love,
KissyNicole