A Mind-Maker-Upper

Love You More

2020-04-05T10:09:00.002-07:00

God’s Yes!

2020-04-05T10:04:00.000-07:00

The Surprising Truth about Grief with Time

2018-01-06T07:49:00.002-08:00

For those who are grieving and those who are loving and supporting those who are grieving—two years and beyond is significant.

I assure you, there is so much more to the story of grief than the hard loss that—for the first year—feels like it will consume and paralyze you forever. I am living it.

When my mom died, it became obvious to me that I had a shallow understanding of the grief that followed, and I wrote about that in “The Surprising Truth about Loving Deeply and Losing.” Now, It’s been over two years since I watched my mom take her last breath, and I want to share more about what I am learning with time.

The grief is still there, but it’s different now.

And I believe there is power in talking about what grief reveals, even with the passing of time, because it lends us perspective in the moments we don’t have any on our own.

Loving Deeply and Losing

2016-07-02T05:56:00.000-07:00

***This post was also featured on the Huffington Post as part of Common Grief, a Healthy Living editorial initiative.

Until I actually lost my mom to cancer, I had a really shallow understanding of grief.

Although I experienced loss and sympathized with others before— meaning, I mourned those who have died, attended funerals, sent notes, brought food, cried, prayed, and held hands— I had absolutely no idea what it really meant to grieve. I thought I did. But as it turns out, I didn’t.

Cupcakes

2016-02-23T03:01:00.000-08:00

It was a much needed hang-out Saturday in our house. And looking back on this day, it is so obvious how important un-busy time is for families like mine. So I want to reflect on what none of us can see in the momentum of our busy, good intentions as parents and people. And I hope you’ll walk away encouraged by five good reasons to take a break from regular busy with your kids.

My Lenten Confession

2016-02-12T06:59:00.000-08:00

So here I am with a confession. While I have been hearing, even going through bits and pieces and motions of this intentional season in my church to draw nearer to God year after year, I am very sorry to say I don’t think I’ve ever really experienced the point of Lent in the way my faith deserves.

Getting Through Christmas to Everyday

2016-01-15T12:23:00.001-08:00

It wasn’t so much that I wasn’t ready for Christmas this year. Truth be told, I didn’t want Christmas at all this year. Every part of me was avoiding its coming. The thought of Christmas without my beautiful mom was too much.

A Look at Death Through Faith

2015-12-07T05:25:00.001-08:00

What Mom Wants You to Know...

Mom's Bible - Psalm 139

A wise friend recently described the absence we face when a loved one dies like a missing limb in our lives. Dealing with the aftermath of deep loss, learning to live without someone who is a part of who you are, it hurts beyond what you could ever imagine until you have been through it. It's the worst. And yet faith in Jesus, His empty tomb, assures us that the "worst is not the last (Rev. Gary Bullard)."

Honoring Charleston's Church Shooting Victims With Our Father's Glory In the Story

2015-06-21T05:58:00.000-07:00

I headed to church Wednesday to pick up my son. His middle school youth group was celebrating summer with an outdoor movie night on the front lawn. I got there a little early, so I sat down on the steps of the historical sanctuary to enjoy a few minutes of quiet in the thick heat of the night. The sounds of nature serenaded me. It was peaceful, and I was thankful.

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The Most Valuable Gift You Can Give a Kid

2015-05-18T07:43:00.003-07:00

I don’t have it all figured out as a parent. But the one thing I have learned the hard way is that my parenting goes better when I take intentional time to nurture and grow my relationship with God.

Advice to Those Who Have Doubts (And It's Not From Me)

2015-04-24T10:42:00.000-07:00

How Doubt Can Make Us stronger

photo credit: freeimages.com

Let's just be real. Chances are good, you've had it, and you don't like to admit it. It has crept in at one time or another. It comes in all shapes and sizes.
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A Christ-Mas Prayer for Everyday Life

2014-12-26T04:24:00.001-08:00

One of the inspirations for this prayer was a song called "Hallelujah Christmas" by Cloverton. I heard it first on Facebook...It's hands down one of the most moving Christmas songs I've ever heard. Enjoy!

Grace and Peace,

John 21:15-25

2014-12-22T03:58:00.002-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 40: John 21:15-25

Jesus has just finished having breakfast with some of the disciples following their fishing trip. He questions Peter three times in a row, asking, "Do you love me?" This is the same Peter, remember, who denied knowing Jesus three times when He was being crucified.

Yet, Jesus' isn't there to condemn Peter for his mistakes. Jesus meets Peter where he is. He helps Peter have a successful fishing trip and prepares a meal for Peter and His friends. It's obvious that Jesus blesses Peter with His presence. Jesus spends time with Peter.

Peter is a little confused and hurt that Jesus questions his love again and again when He feels so sure of his own answer. And yet, I think Jesus is making Peter claim what he really believes. I think this is Jesus' way of strengthening Peter's faith.

Jesus tells Peter, "Feed my lambs...take care of my sheep...feed my sheep...You must follow me (John 21)." In other words, don't make it a choice.

And based on this conversation, Jesus also seems to be saying that Peter's "following" will be different than John's following (the beloved disciple who happens to be near).

This makes me think about my conversations with Jesus. What about your conversations?

Although my call may be specific to who God has created me to be in His image, the message is the same.

What does "feed my lambs...take care of my sheep...follow me" mean for your life that your Savior has so graciously given you?

Jesus comes to us again and again, showing us His love, and reminding us how to respond to His amazing and unconditional love, love that saves us.

Jesus did many other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written

John 21:25

A prayer for today-

Dear Gracious and Loving God,

Thank You. Thank You for sending Jesus, our Savior, into the world to show us the reality of Your love at work in our lives. Thank You for all the ways Jesus comes to us and speaks to us, strengthening our faith and reminding us how to follow Him.

Lord, Your grace, is alive and well. Thank You.

Guide me with Your Holy Spirit. Nothing will be impossible with You...Here I am, Your servant, Lord; let it be with me according to your word (from Luke 1).

And Lord, I pray for others. Use me to help strengthen their faith and open their hearts wide to Your grace and Your joy and Your call.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

In Christ's love,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 21:1-14

2014-12-19T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 39: John 21:1-14

Jesus appears to the disciples three times after He is raised from the dead. We get to read the third appearance in today's reading. It involves a miraculous catch of fish and several of the disciples.

Simon Peter goes fishing with his buddies, and they don't catch a single fish. Then, Jesus joins them, and stands on the shore talking to them. They don't recognize Him at first. He gives Simon Peter direct and specific instruction to go back out fishing and try again. Peter listens. He realizes it's Jesus talking to Him. And the next thing you know, their net is so full of fish they can barely carry it to shore.

I love this story because Jesus shows us who He is and how He works.

1. Jesus meets us where we are, as our closest friend.

This could be a guys night out for all we know. The disciples are fishing. It's not usually a holy experience, but it becomes one with Jesus there.

Jesus, himself, calls and claims us as His friends. We see it in this story, and it's not because we are "perfect" friends to Jesus. It's by His infinite supply of grace that is forever at work in our lives. So, as we think about our faith, we need to think of Jesus as our friend who is always there for us.

3. Jesus instruction and direction makes all the difference in our lives.

As Jesus calls and claims us friends, He also sees us, knows our issues, and gives us direct instruction- and sometimes that means doing what we've already done, but with Jesus in our hearts and minds. Jesus makes our "nets full", not our own abilities.

4. Sometimes, because of Jesus' divine power, so much bigger than we are, we don't recognize Him in the world.

Jesus is Emmanuel, God with us. And in the busyness of the world, we can miss His presence if we don't look and listen carefully. He can be standing among us, talking to us at any time, anywhere.

5. Jesus prepares and provides for us in abundance, and He invites us to share what He provides.

When they landed, they saw a fire of burning coals there with fish on it, and some bread.

Jesus said to them, "Bring some of the fish you have just caught." So Simon Peter climbed back into the boat and dragged the net ashore. It was full of large fish, 153, but even with so many the net was not torn.

Jesus said to them, "Come and have breakfast." None of the disciples dared ask him, "Who are you?" They knew it was the Lord. Jesus came, took the bread and gave it to them, and did the same with the fish.

John 21:9-13

I noticed for the for the first time in my reading today that Jesus has prepared ahead of time for His friends, and they didn't even know it. There was a fire ready for them when they returned to shore, fish and bread waiting on them. Yet, in Jesus' invitation to have breakfast together, Jesus asks Peter to share some of the fish they caught too.

I think our invitation is the same.

Jesus calls us, instructs us, prepares for us ahead of time, gathers us, and invites us to share what He provides.

So during this season of advent, in light of Jesus' upcoming birthday celebration, how might Jesus be inviting us to gather with Him and share the blessings He provides us? How might this story speak to my life and to your life?

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for sending Jesus to show us how You love us and to give us glimpses of Your grace and Your glory. Thank you, Lord, for all the ways You provide for me and nourish me with Your abundant love.

Help me remember that You are the One who makes my life full, that by Your grace, my life is full of blessings.

I pray for Your guidance Lord in sharing all that I have with others. Show me how and where to gather as Your friends. Open my heart to sharing Your blessings with those in my life who need it the most.

Be with me, please Father, and use me for Your glory as I give gifts this holiday season and prepare meals.

I pray for all those whose nets are empty today. Fill them, Lord, with Your hope, Your peace, and Your grace. May they find a friend in You.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

Grace and peace,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 20:19-31

2014-12-18T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 38: John 20:19-31

"Then Jesus told him, 'Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.'"

"-John 20:29

Jesus goes to the disciples and shows them the marks on His hands and in His side. He brings them peace, breathes on them, and gives them the Holy Spirit, officially sending them into the world to do His works.

And then, there's Thomas who missed the whole encounter with Jesus. We see him struggle to fully believe what has happened because He didn't see Jesus himself. He wasn't there.

A week full of doubt and longing goes by for Thomas. And then, Jesus comes to Thomas. Did you notice that Jesus knows exactly how Thomas is feeling without actually being in the room with him? He gives Thomas exactly what He needs, though not right away.

And Jesus reminds us that "blessed" are those of us who have not seen Him and believe.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for knowing me, for hearing me, and for loving me. Thank You for all the ways You answer my prayers in Your perfect and purposeful time.

Forgive me for all the ways I am impatient as I pray. Help me to rest and trust in You, believing even when I don't see and understand.

I pray for all those that read this post, that Your Holy Spirit would fill them with Your awesome promises, sustaining and encouraging them in the ways they need You most...like You did for Thomas.

I pray for our families, our neighbors near and far, our friends, and the strangers You purposefully put in our lives. May You bless them, Lord, with Your sure presence that began in a manger.

You are the light of the world, our Rock and our Redeemer.

In the name of Jesus I pray,

Amen

Grace and peace,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 20:1-18

2014-12-17T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 37: John 20:1-18

Mary Magdalene goes to Jesus' tomb and realizes Jesus isn't there. She goes and gets Peter and John and they see for themselves that Jesus isn't there. They still don't understand what it means that Jesus will rise from the dead.

And then, as Mary is crying, two angels are with her, and Jesus appears and starts talking to her.

Mary is so busy crying, she doesn't even realize Jesus is with her. But Jesus makes sure to get her attention. He calls her by name, and she knows without a doubt that it's Him. It changes everything, her entire perspective.

Jesus changes our perspective too. Jesus knows us, and He calls us by name.

As I was reading, I noticed something about the scripture I have never noticed before. Jesus points out that His Father is our Father, making us brothers and sisters in Christ. Did you catch, the way He refines how we are called to relate to each other?

Look carefully-

17 Jesus said, “Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”

18 Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: “I have seen the Lord!” And she told them that he had said these things to her.

John 19:17-18

Jesus calls His disciples brothers, more evidence of the way Jesus changes how we are connected to one another, how we are called to love each other. Jesus changes our perspective in our relationships. He redefines who we are and to whom we belong.

A prayer for today-

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for Jesus who comes to us in a manger to show us Your glory and Your truth. I am so thankful that in You, I find joy and hope that is real, that is with me, that is everlasting.

Forgive me for trying to define my relationships with others and with You based on expectations. Help me to look to You more, to love the way You love.

I pray for _________________ today who is desperate to feel You and see You at work in his/her life right now. Come to _____________, Lord, and fill _______________ with Your hope and Your peace.

I praise You for the ways You are blessing us through _________________.

Your works, Lord, are wonderful!

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

Blessings,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 19:28-42

2014-12-15T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 36: John 19:28-42

John talks about Jesus' death on the cross, and His burial in today's reading. The Son of God, our Savior has just died for us, and even as He is taken down from the cross, God is giving us signs of His power and His plan in the middle of it all...

"These things happened so that the scripture would be fulfilled: 'Not one of his bones will be broken,' and as another scripture says, 'They will look on the one they have pierced.'"

John 19:36-37

Our Savior, Jesus, is pierced for us, and his burial is so simple, so uneventful, so lacking in the grandeur we'd expect for God's Son, for God in the flesh, for our Messiah.

It's so NOT what we'd expect.

You'd think I'd know that by now if I know anything about God.

It's never what we'd expect. It's better if we shift our prospective from our own to trusting in God's perspective that we can't always see from where we are in life.

Two Jesus loving men, Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, take care of Jesus' body and prepare it for burial. Two ordinary guys do something really extraordinary.

Love is 75 heavy pounds of myrrh and aloes to lay Jesus' body to rest in a nearby tomb while no one is watching.

Remember who Nicodemus is from John 3? He's the bigwig Pharisee from the Jewish ruling council who goes to learn more about Jesus very late at night. He's the guy Jesus tells about being "born again." Jesus tells Nicodemus (and us),

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son...

21 But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God.

John 3:16-21

Nicodemus and Joseph clearly believe in the one whom God sent to save them. And what they do as they take care of Jesus' mangled body is done in the sight of God. There's nothing ordinary about it. That is the grandeur of our faith at it's finest.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

I thank You for Your love for me and for the world. I thank You for the greatest gift I will ever receive, Jesus.

Forgive me for thinking too much about what I'd expect instead of praying for Your perspective and Your light in all circumstances.

I pray that I may dwell in Your house, Lord, all the days of my life, including my days in this world. Help me, Lord, to gaze on Your beauty and to remember to seek You and find You everywhere as You are (from Psalm 27:4).

I pray for all those who desperately need to see Your beauty in the world, Lord. I pray for those who need Your light and Your perspective. Come to them, Lord. May they feel Your healing and inspiring presence.

You are the light of the world.
Hallelujah!

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

In Christ's love,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 19:1-27

2014-12-12T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 35: John 19:1-27

Jesus is beaten, tortured, forced to carry His own cross, nailed to it, and left to die.

All the while, Jesus' mother, aunt, and friend are watching the whole scene unfold before their eyes.

The clothes of God's Son, our Savior, are divided and lots cast for His undergarment.

It's horrific. Disgusting.

And like so many times when tragedy strikes, I find myself at a loss.

And here's the human "why" behind it all from the reading today-

The Jewish leaders insisted, “We have a law, and according to that law he must die, because he claimed to be the Son of God.”

John 19:7

Jesus claimed to be who He was. That's it, far from a crime.

And we know, His life, death, and resurrection are so much more than we can figure out in this very moment. True to our human limits, our perspective struggles to fully grasp God's bigger plan.

Yet, Jesus offers us comfort as He speaks some last words to His beloved disciple and His mother. Jesus says,

When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, “Woman, here is your son,” 27 and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.

John 19:26-27

Even on His deathbed, nailed to a cross between two guilty men, Jesus is redefining our connections to each other and to Him. Through Him, we are called to take care of each other. Jesus asks us to think and act outside the box for Him, to love as He has loved. He defines who we are...even as the world is confused.

In Christ, we are called to be gifts to each other.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for Jesus who died on the cross for me. Thank You for redefining who I am and for purposefully connecting me to others.

Lord, forgive me when I fall short of loving the way You do.

Help me to take this time to remember You, my Savior, with every person that crosses my path.

I pray for all those who don't fully know who Jesus really is in their lives. I pray for all those who are struggling and suffering as they take up their cross. I pray for all those who are having to watch those near and dear suffer.

Help us all to find strength and hope and unshakeable purpose in You, Lord. Unite us, Lord, as we seek You, and inspire us to be the people You have created us to be.

In the name of Jesus I pray,

Amen

Peace of Christ,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 18:19-40

2014-12-11T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 34: John 18:19-40

Jesus gets questioned by the high ranking leaders of the the day. The reality is that they are worried about Jesus' authority in the world. Jesus answers plainly, simply. The ones with their authority on the line don't seem to like Jesus' honest answers. But, Jesus doesn't get into long persuasive arguments...

And we hear, from Jesus himself, why He came into the world...

"In fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me."

John 18:37

Meanwhile, there's Peter watching everything unfold from a distance...Peter, one of Jesus 12 disciples, denies His connection to Jesus a second and third time...and the rooster crows.

These are not Peter's best moments. And because of that, I can relate to Peter. We all have these kind of moments...in hindsight we'd love a do-over.

And I find hope in Peter and this truth Jesus brings to us. Because what Jesus does for Peter, Jesus does for me too.

Jesus remained Lord of Peter's life, through the highs and lows, guiding Peter. Jesus overcomes our fears and helps us walk on water. Jesus sees us as He has created us to be (even when we aren't living up to His best for us). Jesus patiently forgives and teaches us throughout our lives in the world. And Jesus uses us in the most unlikely and extraordinary ways when we turn our lives over to Him.

Yep, I find so much hope in reading Peter's story.

A mess-up will not define us as believers. Jesus and all His powerful love for us does...and that's GOOD NEWS.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

I thank You for sending Jesus into the world to testify to Your truth. You give us a different perspective on life to the full. Thank you for opening my mind and my heart to Your Word.

Forgive me for the ways I have followed You at a distance and all the ways I fall short of claiming You as Lord of my life. I know I mess-up and am far from perfect. I give my do-over moments to You. Use those moments in my life as teachable and transforming moments, Lord.

I am made perfect in You. Help me to be the daughter (son), the sister (brother), the wife (husband), the mother (father), and friend, and the neighbor You created me to be.

I pray for You to hold __________________ in your loving arms today. He/she/they is in need of a do-over, Lord. Help _______________ to be transformed by Your grace.

You are our Rock and our Redeemer.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

In Christ's love,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 18:1-18

2014-12-10T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 33: John 18:1-18

Jesus gets arrested in today's reading. Peter denies being one of Jesus' disciples. The tension has been building. Jesus has been preparing us for all of this. And in today's reading in the book of John, Judas, having the inside scoop as one of Jesus' 12 disciples, brings an entourage of soldiers and officials to the garden of Gethsemane to capture Jesus.

This is the part of Jesus' story I don't like to read. It's injustice at it's best.

But here it is. Real. Raw. Mess. And it's part of God's story.

An innocent man, God in the flesh, with all of His divine power, suffers at the hands of sinners.

"When Jesus said, 'I am he,' they drew back and fell to the ground..."

Jesus commanded Peter, 'Put your sword away! Shall I not drink the cup the Father has given me?'

John 18:6, 11

What do you think God wants us to see and know from this hard-to-read scene?

Notice, even the soldiers and officials with all their evil intent are affected by Jesus and His word as they fall when He speaks.

Notice, Peter, a man with the inside scoop who has spent all the time he could learning from Jesus, denies the faith he knows in the heat of the moment. He illustrates just how vulnerable we are as we claim to follow Jesus.

Notice, that none of this seems "right;" and yet, Jesus trusts God plan above all else. He takes what He is given. He has just prayed to God about it, and now He is accepting it.

This is the way it is, what it is. The in-between part of God's glorious plan. We aren't to the worst of it, and we haven't yet seen the fullness of God's glory. But, we do get a sense of God's power in the moment... as Jesus faces His circumstances. We see a peace that is so unexplainable, so unexpected, so unnatural that we know God is working in Him.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for Jesus who, being fully human, shows us what it looks like to follow Your will.

As believers, we find hope in Jesus. We know that knowing You, and living in Your plan for our lives is both messy and glorious. And often times, we find ourselves somewhere in-between.

Give us patience and peace to let Your plan unfold at Your will and not ours. Fill us with courage, Lord, to risk and to step out of our comfort zones. Help us to find You in the moment, to claim You as Lord of our lives, and to trust Your direction for us.

I pray for all those today who are lost, who are scared, who don't know what they are doing in the world or why they are doing it. I pray for Your Kingdom to come and Your will to be done, Lord.

In Jesus' holy name I pray,

Amen

Grace and peace,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 17:20-26

2014-12-09T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 31: John 17:20-26

Jesus continues praying to God for us in today's reading.

If you are one of those people who is reading Jesus' prayer and wondering, doubting even, if His prayer really applies to You, Jesus makes it clear as He continues to pray. He's not just talking to His original 12 disciples. He is praying for all those who come to believe in Him. We can breathe in Jesus' reassurance. He's talking to us too. He loves us too.

20 “I ask not only on behalf of these, but also on behalf of those who will believe in me through their word, 21 that they may all be one. As you, Father, are in me and I am in you, may they also be in us,[a] so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 The glory that you have given me I have given them, so that they may be one, as we are one, 23 I in them and you in me, that they may become completely one, so that the world may know that you have sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. 24 Father, I desire that those also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory, which you have given me because you loved me before the foundation of the world.

25 “Righteous Father, the world does not know you, but I know you; and these know that you have sent me. 26 I made your name known to them, and I will make it known, so that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them.”

John 17:20-26

Jesus unites us through this prayer.

He has given us the very same glory that God gave His Son, Jesus. He wants us with Him, and He gives us the same love God had for Him.

How does knowing all this change your day?

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

I thank You for Jesus' timeless prayer for believers. Lord, help me to soak in these life-giving words. Thank You, Lord, for loving me and saving me.

Help me to remember Your love for me and for others in all that I do. And during this holiday season, when we remember Your birth in the world, help me to make my life a Hallelujah to all that You have so freely given me by Your grace.

I pray today for all those who will gather together over the holidays. I pray that we would feel Your presence and appreciate the gift of time.

Help me make room for You in my home, Lord. My door is open. I ask that You fill us ____________________ with gratitude and hospitality. I pray for my home to be a welcoming place for people to feel Your warmth and love. May people feel uplifted by their visits in this place.

I also pray for all those who do not have a place to gather. Hold them in Your arms, Lord, and help them find You and a warm place to be with others.

I love You, Lord, and I praise You.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

Peace of Christ,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 17:1-19

2014-12-08T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 31: John 17:1-19

Today's reading has me in awe! This is why Christmas and the baby in a manger is the greatest and forever gift any of us will ever receive...

Jesus defines eternal life, something that seems so far off, somewhat impossible to grasp, and seems somewhat complicated. And when Jesus defines it today, it's so beautifully simple.

Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent...

John 17:3

Just know God and know Jesus whom God sent. And I think about what it means even today to "know someone." To really know someone is different than "knowing of" someone or being "acquainted" with someone. Really knowing means spending lots of intimate time together, sharing experiences together on a regular basis.

In addition to spelling out eternal life, Jesus prayed for me (and for you) so long ago, and here it is...still alive and influencing our lives today. This is so awesome! These words are Jesus prayer for our lives...so worth reading...

9 I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours. 10 All I have is yours, and all you have is mine. And glory has come to me through them. 11 I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name, the name you gave me, so that they may be one as we are one...

15 My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. 16 They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. 17 Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. 18 As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. 19 For them I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified.

John 17:9-11, 15-19

Jesus is praying for His disciples. As believers, we bring Jesus glory; we bring God glory. Jesus prays for our protection and asks that we be one, together with Him and with God, as they are one with each other.

We hear that Jesus wants us in the world. He sanctifies us, which sounds complicated and overwhelming like eternal life...but Jesus makes it beautifully simple, again.

Jesus is simply praying for us to be like Him, to be sent like Him by our Heavenly Father. It's a powerful prayer. It is the prayer that defines who we are today...

Jesus takes my busy, difficult to understand, sometimes overwhelming, seemingly impossible and unpredictable life and makes it beautifully simple. And to get that, I have to know Him. And it all goes back to Jesus' prayer that He prayed for me so long ago...

A prayer for today-

Dear Holy Father,

Thank You for Jesus who makes me one with You. Thank You for this prayer that Jesus prayed so long ago that still fills my life today and sustains me as I live in the world you created.

Help me to stay connected to You, Lord, always. Help me to remember Jesus' prayer for my life and to follow Your call daily, as Jesus did. Give me the courage to follow You, wherever You lead me. I trust You, Lord, to equip me for whatever You have in store for me.

I want to bring glory to You, God.

I pray that these words of Yours will reach those who need it this day, and they will be strengthened and empowered by Your truth.

You are the light of the world, and Your Word is a lamp for my feet and my hands.

I thankfully pray this prayer in Jesus' name,

Amen

May God bless You,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 16:16-33

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40 Days of John

Day 30: John 16:16-33

In today's reading, Jesus knows His disciples don't understand everything that is happening in their lives and in the world. Jesus knows we are in the same boat. We don't understand all that He says. We don't always grasp God's big plans for our lives, and that can be hard.

And then, Jesus reminds us how life-changing our relationship with Him and with God is. Jesus tells us, again, that it's through Him we find joy and peace in this crazy world.

"Very truly I tell you, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete...I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

John 16: 23-24, 33

Jesus is telling us that we can ask things in His name because He is with God. He wants us to "ask" Him "whatever" is on our hearts. Because of Jesus, there are no limits to what we can put in God's hands. Because of Jesus, each of us has a direct connection to God. That is awesome.

As much as I don't like to be disappointed, I find comfort in the fact that God doesn't answer my prayers by granting wishes like a genie in a magical bottle. He doesn't give us what we want. God promises to give us what He knows we need at just the right time, His time.

And just asking and praying will help us find peace in this crazy world because God is in control...Jesus has overcome the world!

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for Jesus who has overcome the world! Thank You for allowing me to put everything in Your hands. Thank You for slowing me down. Thank You for the gift of Your peace.

Forgive me for not allowing Your peace to be a part of all that I do.

Today I pray for all those people and places, near and far who are in the middle of conflict and tension. Lord, fill them with Your presence and Your peace. Help us to be united in Your love as brothers and sisters in Christ.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

Blessings,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 16:1-15

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40 Days of John

Day 29: John 16:1-15

From the beginning of today's reading, Jesus tells the "why" behind what He is saying. He is trying to strengthen His friends for what lies ahead.

He says,

All this I have told you so that you will not fall away.

John 16:1

Jesus knows that believing in Him and continuing to follow Him after He goes to be with His Father isn't going to be easy. There will be struggles and doubts. The disciples are grieving as they hear Jesus' words. The reality of Jesus not being with them is impossible for them to understand in the moment.

Living without Jesus is all they can think about even though God has a bigger and better plan in mind- raising Jesus from the dead, showing His divine power, saving the world with His love, eternal life, and a Savior who is in us everywhere we go, a part of everything we do...if we'll let Him in and hold on.

It's hard to cling to the bigger picture when you are consumed by the hurt that's right in front of you.

And then Jesus says these words I could read a million times and never get tired of soaking them in...

“I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear. 13 But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come. 14 He will glorify me because it is from me that he will receive what he will make known to you. 15 All that belongs to the Father is mine. That is why I said the Spirit will receive from me what he will make known to you.”

John 16:12-15

Did you hear what Jesus said? He's talking to you. He's talking to me. Right now.

Jesus has so much to say to us. And today, He speaks to us through the "Spirit of truth," also known as the Holy Spirit. Jesus promises to guide us "into" the truth.

We will struggle. We will doubt. We will grieve and hurt. We will mess-up. We will also find joy. We will celebrate. We will get glimpses of God's grace. And through it all, we are never left alone to figure things out on our own. Jesus is telling us that figuring things out will be a process and a journey of His guiding us as we believe in Him.

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for Your Holy Spirit that lives in me and guides me into Your truth. Thank You for the gift of Your Son who came into the world so that we would know Your powerful and life-giving love for us.

Forgive me, Lord, for missing your direction and guidance. Open my heart and mind to your presence in all things. Help me to hear You.

I pray for all those who are consumed by the hurt that is front of them this day. Lord, fill them with Your comfort and Your hope. Bless them with Your healing and peace. Give them glimpses of Your grace at work even when it's hard to see and understand.

And Lord, make me an instrument of Your grace. Show me new ways to love people for You.

You are with me always, and I love you, Lord.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

Peace of Christ,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

John 15:18-27

2014-12-03T00:00:00.000-08:00

40 Days of John

Day 28: John 15:18-27

Jesus is preparing His friends for times like today when He has gone to be with His Father in heaven. Jesus reminds us that, as believers and His friends, we do not belong to the world, but to Him.

"As it is you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world...And you must testify, for you have been with me..."

John 15:19,27

Jesus reminds us that believing in Him and following His ways for our lives means that He calls us to think differently, to act outside the cultural box in which we live. And as Jesus is saying this, I am reminded how difficult that was, even for Jesus, God's own Son. It's not easy, but it sure is glorious!

The first thing that comes to my mind as I read is Christmas. It's Advent, a time for preparing and remembering Jesus' humble and amazing beginnings on earth. We celebrate Emmanuel, God with us.

And everywhere I turn, I am confronted by the rush and urgency of the seasonal shopping/decorating frenzy. It's easy to miss Jesus in the middle of Santa Claus, noisy bells, all the bright lights, holiday parties, black Friday and cyber Monday offers. There's so many distractions asking for our attention.

Yet, Jesus reminds us today that He calls us to serve Him, not the ways of the world. He was never in a hurry. And Jesus thought way outside the box of His current culture. His goal was to serve, to share God's love everywhere He went with the people God put in His path. He showed us what sharing God's love really looked like.

So, I wonder...what does God want for you and for me, from you and from me this Christmas?*

A prayer for today-

Dear God,

Thank You for Jesus and this time of year to reflect on His beginnings in the world. Thank You for reminding us that You are always with us. Thank You for Your Holy Spirit that guides us and empowers us to love You and to love others like Jesus.

Lord, forgive me for getting so distracted and rushed in the holiday frenzy. Open my heart and mind to Your will for me and for my family at Christmas. Help me to slow down and hear Your still small voice that is at work in the world. Help me keep Jesus at the center of Christmas.

I pray for all those who need Christmas to be different this year. May they come to experience the true Spirit of Christmas, Your Holy Spirit.

In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen

In Christ's love,

*This post is part of A Mind-Maker-Upper's Everyday Reading Project. Click here to read more.

*On a side note, this post was partly inspired by a new Christmas song I heard on the radio called "What God Wants for Christmas" by Darius Rucker (from the album, Home for the Holidays).