tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35376933704352774612025-11-23T17:03:23.657-08:00This blog will serve as a forum for me to express my thoughts. There is so much information within me that wants to get out. I plan to do just that!!Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.comBlogger90125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-36923973103682774212013-11-10T09:36:00.000-08:002013-11-10T09:39:14.664-08:00

I know it seems so weird seeing me actually post on my blog.  I was saddened to see that I had not shared my in depth thoughts in nearly two years!  Well during that time I have learned, loved, been hurt, hurt others, lost focus, found focus, prospered, lost sight of my purpose, found my purpose and just did what a lot of us do....I've LIVED! I was sitting here reminiscing about those

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-38654726398056059662011-12-13T07:59:00.000-08:002011-12-13T07:59:31.125-08:00

Good Morning Blogfam! In order for relationships to be successful it's important to start out by laying a strong foundation.  It seems that a lot of people enter into relationships and their goal straight out the gate is getting to the finish line.  However, in order to get to the finish line you have to put the work in and have something about you that sets you apart from the rest.&

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Good Morning Blogfam! There are many times that we find ourselves in situations that we don't want to be in.  In contrast, there are also situations that we really want to be in but it may not be acceptable by others or society so it prevents us from doing what's truly pleasing to us.  Majority of people live their life based on what's acceptable according to society's

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Good Morning Blogfam! When a person is really interested in doing something they won't need much convincing for them to do it.  Speaking from personal experience, I can say that I notice a difference in my excitement level when it comes to doing something that I really want to do and something I don't want to do.  I feel that a lot of people have trouble

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Good Morning Blogfam! There are so many possible factors to take into consideration when deciding what's important to you when it comes to your relationship.  A few of the common factors are love, respect, honesty, loyalty, and the list goes on and on.  I have come to realize that the most important factor to take into consideration is "Do I like this person?" and "Is this person

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Good Afternoon Blogfam! For most of us there has been a time or two in life that a relationship ended and it felt like the end of the world.  I have realized that there are ways to prevent that from happening.  To protect yourself from being devastated over the end of a relationship STOP giving one person your ALL!  You have to retain some for yourself because you will need

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-47473291464524235332011-10-17T08:07:00.000-07:002011-10-17T08:07:26.856-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! There are many factors to take into consideration when determining where you might end up in life.  To name a few: childhood, education, dreams, etc.  However, what I have discovered is where you will end up with rests solely on your choices.  We are all given the power of choice at a very young age.  I've witnessed people who grew up in less

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-61966061157721550422011-09-28T07:51:00.000-07:002011-09-28T07:51:14.536-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! Denial is such an ugly word!  It's that word that prevents people from being in touch with who they are and where they're at in life.  It's that word that forces people to believe that what is isn't.  It's that word that makes people believe that what can't be will be.  I say it's an ugly word because it allows 

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Good Morning Blogfam! It seems that one of the hardest things for some people to do is realize that change is occurring, accept it as such, or initiate it.  I have known many people (myself included) who were in unhealthy relationships but found it extremely difficult to leave.  Consequently what ends up happening is they find themselves semi-functioning in a

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Good Morning Blogfam! Relationships have the potential to be the best thing you've ever experienced or the worst time of your entire life.  I've found that how much you give a relationship is how much you will get in return.  It seems like in bad relationships there is always one person of the two who is giving it everything they have and having everything sucked out of them in return

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Hey Blogfam!! There will be times when things are revealed to you for a specific purpose.  Maybe things were being said that shouldn't have, maybe someone is doing something that they shouldn't be doing, or maybe you met someone's "representative" and now the real them is coming out.  Now don't get me wrong; i'm not saying that revelations have to be all bad.  In

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Good Morning Blogfam! When entering into a relationship with someone it is important to evaluate their current position and overall goals in life to ensure that they align with yours.  The future outcome of the relationship is not normally the initial thought when meeting someone, however if things work out for the best several key items will have to be taken into consideration.&

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Hey Hey Blogfam!!! I want to stress how extremely important is is to be fully aware of the personality, maturity and sincerity of people that you choose to involve yourself with.  If you notice early on in a relationship that someone has a tendency to be dishonest, immature, or secretive, then you can rest assure that it will get worse later on and they have things to hide

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-86334077821346051472011-08-02T08:15:00.000-07:002011-08-02T08:15:22.144-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! Strength is an important part of a healthy existence.  I am not referring to physical strength, I am speaking more so about mental and emotional strength.  When you possess a strong mentality it enables you to deal with certain situations with an open mind and clear view.  You won't be easily persuaded into forcing yourself to believe in false realities.&nbsp

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Good Morning Blogfam! I was having a conversation with a good friend yesterday and they were able to give me a different perspective on having expectations of the future.  I tend to be one who constantly tries to pull out my crystal ball and see ahead of time what the future has in store or how I foresee it turning out.  It seems as if I like to prepare myself for what may possibly

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-41556968192170874832011-07-19T06:37:00.000-07:002011-07-19T06:37:47.634-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! I haven't always had the ability to recognize my place in someones life but the more I grow, the more I learn.  The time period in which you enter into a persons life or they enter into yours can make all of the difference in whether or not your relationship will be successful.  Sometimes circumstances have the ability to supersede a

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Good Morning Blogfam! Whether you be young or old, I think you will have those moments in life when you realize that the life you have been living is not the life you should continue living.  This isn't necessarily a bad thing because our lives our supposed to take certain paths at certain times for certain reasons but it doesn't mean it has to be indefinite.  However,

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-5400794314080367882011-06-24T08:59:00.000-07:002011-06-24T08:59:53.395-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! Are you the type of person to get out of one relationship and get right into another one?  I used to be that person when I was younger.  I entered into my first serious relationship when I was 14 and I stayed in it until I was 19.  When I decided to move on I probably stayed single for less than 30 days before going into another relationship. 

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Good Morning Blogfam! I was thinking about some things this morning and something crossed my mind.  I was thinking about standards and how people determine or prioritize what is important to them when it comes to searching for a potential mate.  I have known people who looked for certain attributes and qualities in other people that they didn't even possess themselves.  I won't

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Good Morning Blogfam! There are many young people who are ahead of their time.  Sometimes it is forced upon them by parents or society and sometimes it's just a personal choice.  Typically when a child is exposed to certain situations that only an adult can truly handle, it causes them to force themselves to handle it.  Granted, 

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Good Morning Blogfam! I believe that in order to be truly happy you have to have a proper balance in certain areas of your life.  I've noticed that the people who spend too much time doing a particular activity or devote too much time to certain people, are normally the ones who seem unhappy beneath the surface.  Sometimes while a person is spending too much time doing one thing,

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-28900227604398559732011-05-16T08:18:00.000-07:002011-05-16T08:18:49.306-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! Time is our most precious asset because there are endless possibilities with what you can do with it.  Which is why you should maximize it and make the best of each moment.  It's especially important to associate yourself with people who share the same respect for time as you do.  I feel that time and money are one in the same.  Money comes and money

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-72914302368104356582011-05-12T06:55:00.000-07:002011-05-13T13:24:44.685-07:00

Good Morning Blogfam! Have you ever wondered why relationships that go bad can't be made whole again?  I think about this often because I have been in several relationships that have went bad and I couldn't seem to understand why it couldn't be restored.  I feel that these type of questions or contemplations are necessary in order to know what mistakes shouldn't be made the next

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Good Morning Blogfam!! Have you ever questioned the validity of a relationship you have with someone?  I am sure there are those times when you feel like you wasted massive amounts of time with someone or you simply just don't understand the purpose of certain people in your life.  Well I have come to realize that there is always a reason why someone is in your life, even if it's not

Candy Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12293685126821304859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537693370435277461.post-42871798654350069142011-05-06T07:44:00.000-07:002011-05-06T07:44:47.136-07:00

Happy Friday Blogfam! Strictly for the MOTHERS!!! I'm sure we've all found reasons to criticize or judge how other women raise their children, especially if it is different than how we raise ours or how we've been raised.  I've been there and done that myself but what I came to realize is that there is no manual on raising children so what may be right to one may not be right to another.&

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