tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27321400658441140982024-03-07T04:00:37.269+08:00A Woman's PerceptionAnnzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.comBlogger221125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-54140688662306781752016-12-05T22:17:00.000+08:002018-03-17T06:36:19.723+08:00 Understanding Love<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It is time to love again. This is from the heart and mind
of a widow. Whatever we feel, even the
most painful experiences such as death of a beloved, the human spirit always
yearn for someone to belong to. I think
it is what makes us human. A woman is made for a man, just like a man belongs
to a woman. Just as what God, has said,
It is not good for a man to be alone, so he made him someone that has a part of
him, a companion to make this life good.</div>
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The greatest love is still on loving yourself, because this
will be your guide in finding the right person to belong to. Here are the things that I have realized, I don’t
know if this is applicable to both man and woman, but this is a woman’s
perception. So you know it is definitely applicable to women. Although love is
universal, every person is different.</div>
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So, you are in love again, you think so because you feel
it. Well, what is a feeling anyway? Is
it like hunger where you feed and then you are satisfied? Feelings are fleeting
but it is not love. You are hurt because
you thought, this person loved you but in the end, he really does not? Or you
are so guilty because you thought you love the person but in the end you really
don’t? </div>
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Love is so confusing you say? But this is not really love,
it is just a feeling, so it does not last. There was once a girl that cries
because her boyfriend dump her, I am sometimes very frank and unfeeling to this
kind of situation, that I told her, she must be grateful for it. </div>
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Well, you can just imagine her confusion to what I just
said, so I explained, It just means you can move on now. At least, he was honest to you now, you can
just imagine if he married you, and then realized that he really does not want
you. </div>
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So you see, Love hurts but really it is okay, after all.
You are still alive so be sensible. He is
not the one for you, so be grateful instead and move on. How can you meet your soulmate if you are stuck with the wrong man.</div>
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If you are one of those people who is always searching
for the one, but gets hurt over and over again.
It might be that you are the one that should be found. Do you realize this? Sometimes, you are so busy looking around
that you fail to see that someone is already there for you. That person has found you and you are just so
dumb to see it. </div>
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Well, we are dumb sometimes so there. So how do you know that the person is really
the one for you? It is just simple; you enjoy each other’s company even without
the sex thing. Oh I said it. </div>
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Love is not just desire or feelings, it is friendship and companionship, and
this is what makes it everlasting. </div>
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You must love and respect each other. You care for that person deeply and you want
their happiness. You have so much in
common that it’s really not hard to talk to them at all. </div>
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The most important thing is that you should be yourself
when you are with this person, even your yucky self. Distasteful as it seems, but you have to be
loved as you are. It will never last if
you pretended to be somebody you are not.
It is so exhausting to live up to someone’s expectation. Sooner you will
reveal the real you and then the person then realize that he really does not
want you at all. In the end you are
still hurt. So be honest from the start.
It is a waste of time to pretend. Be true to yourself. </div>
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Living a great life is to be brave at heart. It is always the right thing to do. We only live once, would it be nicer if you
give it your all? It would be too late to realize that on your deathbed.</div>
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Loving with expectations hurt us so much, that we cower
at the thought of commitment. We must
love without expectations. We must be vulnerable in love and give it our all. If it fails, you can get hurt but you are still gonna be okay. Show the world that nothing can break you.</div>
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We have to realize that every person is
different from us. We have different capacities and we are not created equally
the same. We have to give our 100% when we love. When we expect too much from our partner and we are always measuring their efforts in our own understanding of love they will always fall short of our expectation.<br />
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In other words they do not fit our own definition of love. This will create tension in our relationship. What we can do is to focus on their positive characters more than their weaknesses</div>
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We are not perfect but loving should be accepting everything even the imperfections.<br />
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Before loving someone we should be whole first. Partnership is not codependency. It does not mean that an individual should be half of another. It means that you are a strong individual that is happy even by yourself and does not depend on another human being to make you happy. That kind of relationship is toxic because you expect too much from another to be happy. It can become a burden. Happiness comes from within and it should emanate from you.</div>
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4. Love yourself</div>
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This is the golden rule.
All love comes from loving yourself. It determines your happiness. Life is like a mirror after all. You get what
you give. If you hate yourself, probably
you let others do something to you even if you don’t like it, as long as the
person likes you.</div>
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Love yourself above all, because how can you love other
people when you don’t know what love is?
People can trample on you, play games on you, but you let them do it , so
you will just feel loved and needed. That is a pathetic way too live. There is no one to blame but yourself. Learn to walk away from anyone who treats you badly. People who does not love themself enough always have the feeling of lack, meaning, they always think that nobody else will love them aside from their current partner who mistreated them. You must have an abundance mentality and our thoughts can change our life. We are the owner of our thoughts and feelings so we must be strong enough to control them. Inner strength and Self love are the things that can make our life beautiful and full of abundance.<br />
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There are millions single available men in this world and all you need is one. So dont ever get stuck with the wrong man. Love yourself enough to detach yourself from someone who does not deserve you.<br />
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Above all, do not pretend affection; be true
to yourself at all times. Do not love only because of how you feel at the moment. Loving is commitment, because even if the desire and lust is gone you are still there to stay. Friendship, respect, trust and love is the foundation of a lasting companionship.</div>
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Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-71472186449501587962013-07-20T23:21:00.001+08:002013-07-20T23:23:42.555+08:00An encounter with skin cancer<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">Last
June 15, 2013, I went to my dermatologist to have my mole removed. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">I’ve been planning to have this surgery for a
long time but due to many reasons It has never become my priority.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">I eventually decided to have it done because
this mole was painful sometimes, especially if it does not like the soap I’m
using or anything that touches it. So there I was on the table fully conscious as
the doctor injected anaesthesia on it after which she prick it with a needle to
test if it still hurts.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">She kept on asking
me if I feel anything when she did it, I kept telling her that it hurts a bit
but it is tolerable. So she did her thing, performing the incision to remove the
mole and we decided to have a skin biopsy on the skin sample. Then she stitches
it with a thick strong surgical thread just to ensure that it will not break
open, by the way it’s three stitches.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">My
mole is located on my upper trunk (on my back). </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">She have prescribed that I take 500 mg. Cephalexin
three times a day for one week to aid in the healing of the wound. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">She told me that she will just call me if the
result of the skin biopsy is already available. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">After eight days I went back to the clinic to
have the surgical thread removed.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">After
that I forget about it but then last July 12, 2013 her secretary text me and
told me that my doctor ask for me to visit her in her clinic because of the
result of the skin biopsy.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">I became
worried because she told me before in her clinic during the incision that she
will just call or text me if there is something to worry about with the result.
I did not get there right away because during that time my son got admitted in
the hospital because of Dengue Hemorrhagic Fever.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;">Life sometimes tests you…but of course you
just have to be strong. So I finally got there the day after my son got
discharge from the hospital on July 16, 2013 and got the news.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16.8pt;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My
dermatologist explained that the mole that was removed is consistent with Basal
Cell Carcinoma, a type of skin cancer but there is nothing to worry about. She inspected the scar and prescribed
Imiquimod cream to be applied every other night for three months. She said that skin cancer is different from
other cancer because usually when it is removed it is already cured but there
is also a possibility of recurrence. She
advised me to visit her clinic every six months so that she can inspect my skin
if ever it will reoccur. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had this mole for more than fifteen years and I only found out
now that it was cancerous, but of course I had my doubts because unlike my
other moles it’s colour is more like flesh and sometime it forms a crust over
it and got easily irritated. I read on
the internet about this type of skin cancer and here are some of the facts. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Basal cell carcinoma (BCC) is the most common form of skin
cancer. More than two million cases of this skin cancer are diagnosed in the
United States each year.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This skin cancer usually develops on skin that gets sun
exposure, such as on the head, neck, and back of the hands. BCC is especially
common on the face, often forming on the nose. It is possible to get BCC on any
part of the body, including the trunk, legs, and arms.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #f4f1ea;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People who use tanning beds have a much
higher risk of getting BCC. They also tend to get BCC earlier in life.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This type of skin cancer grows slowly. It
rarely spreads to other parts of the body. Treatment is important because BCC
can grow wide and deep, destroying skin tissue and bone. </span></div>
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carcinoma: Diagnosis, treatment, and outcome</u></i></b></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">The only way to
diagnose any type of skin cancer, including basal cell carcinoma (BCC), is with
a skin biopsy. Your dermatologist can perform this procedure during an office
visit.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">A skin biopsy should not cause anxiety. To perform a skin biopsy, your
dermatologist will remove the entire growth or part of it. Your dermatologist
may send this to a laboratory or look at it under a microscope. The findings
will be communicated in a biopsy report.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">If the biopsy report states that you have BCC, your dermatologist will consider
many factors to determine which treatment will be best for you. There are
several ways to treat BCC:</span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 115%;">Excision</strong><span style="line-height: 115%;">:
This is a surgical procedure that your dermatologist often can perform during
an office visit. It involves numbing the area to be treated and cutting out any
remaining tumor plus some normal-looking skin around the tumor.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">Like the skin biopsy, this removed skin is examined under the microscope. This
may be done at a laboratory or by your dermatologist. The doctor who looks at
the removed skin needs to see whether the normal-looking skin is free of cancer
cells. If not, more skin will need to be removed. This is a common way to treat
BCC.</span></div>
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<b><strong style="line-height: 115%;">Curettage and
electrodessication</strong></b><span style="line-height: 115%;">: This treatment consists of two steps.
First, your dermatologist scrapes away the tumor. Then electricity is used to
destroy any remaining cancer cells. The two steps are then repeated.</span></div>
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<b><strong style="line-height: 115%;">Mohs surgery:</strong><span class="apple-converted-space" style="line-height: 115%;"> </span></b><span style="line-height: 115%;">Named for the doctor who developed
this surgery, Mohs (pronounced "moes") is a specialized surgery used
to remove some skin cancers. It offers the highest cure rate for
difficult-to-treat basal cell cancers. Your dermatologist will tell you if Mohs
is right for you.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">If Mohs is recommended, this is what you can expect. The surgeon will cut out
the tumor plus a very small amount of normal-looking skin surrounding the
tumor. While the patient waits, the Mohs surgeon uses a microscope to look at
what was removed. The surgeon is looking for cancer cells.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">If necessary, the Mohs surgeon will continue to remove a very small amount of
skin and look at it under the microscope. This continues until the surgeon no
longer sees cancer cells.</span></div>
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<b><strong style="line-height: 115%;">Cryosurgery</strong></b><span style="line-height: 115%;">:
This treatment uses liquid nitrogen to freeze cancer cells, causing the cells
to die.</span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 115%;">Radiation:</strong><span class="apple-converted-space" style="line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="line-height: 115%;">This treatment usually is reserved for
BCCs that cannot be cut out, or when surgery may not be the best choice. A
patient may need 15 to 30 radiation treatments.</span></div>
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<b><strong style="line-height: 115%;">Photodynamic therapy (PDT):</strong></b><span class="apple-converted-space" style="line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="line-height: 115%;">This treatment uses light to remove
early skin cancers. PDT is a two-step process. First, a chemical is applied to
the skin. The chemical remains on the skin for some time so that it can be absorbed.
Then the skin is exposed to a special light to kill the cancer cells.</span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 115%;">Medicated creams:</strong><span class="apple-converted-space" style="line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Creams that contain a drug, such as
imiquimod or 5-fluorouracil, can be used to treat early BCC. A patient applies
the medicated cream at home as directed by his or her dermatologist.</span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 115%;">Pills</strong><span style="line-height: 115%;">: While
extremely rare, there are reports of BCC spreading to other parts of the body.
Patients who have BCC that spreads may be prescribed vismodegib. This
medication also may be prescribed for patients who have advanced BCC that
cannot be cut out or treated with radiation.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">Nearly every basal cell cancer can be cured, especially when the cancer is
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">BCCs are
abnormal, uncontrolled growths or lesions that arise in the skin’s basal cells,
which line the deepest layer of the epidermis (the outermost layer of the
skin). BCCs often look like open sores, red patches, pink growths, shiny bumps,
or scars. Usually caused by a combination of cumulative UV exposure and
intense, occasional UV exposure, BCC can be highly disfiguring if allowed to
grow, but almost never spreads (metastasizes) beyond the original tumor site.
Only in exceedingly rare cases can BCC spread to other parts of the body and
become life-threatening. BCCs are easily
treated in their early stages. The larger the tumor has grown, however, the
more extensive the treatment needed. Although this skin cancer seldom spreads,
or metastasizes, to vital organs, it can damage surrounding tissue, sometimes
causing considerable destruction and disfigurement — and some BCCs are more
aggressive than others.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When small skin cancers are removed, the scars are usually
cosmetically acceptable. If the tumors are very large, a skin graft or flap may
be used to repair the wound in order to achieve the best cosmetic result and
facilitate healing<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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who have had one BCC are at risk for developing others over the years, either
in the same area or elsewhere on the body. Therefore, regular visits to a
dermatologist should be routine so that not only the site(s) previously
treated, but the entire skin surface can be examined.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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recurrences typically taking place within the first two years following
surgery.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Should a cancer recur, the physician might recommend a different
type of treatment. Some methods, such as Mohs micrographic surgery, may be
highly effective for recurrences. <span style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial;">BCCs and other
skin cancers are almost always curable when detected and treated early</span></span></div>
Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-489471506419677782013-06-09T13:36:00.002+08:002013-06-09T18:44:33.505+08:00My travel to Cebu<br />
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Last
April I went with my son to Cebu for our long planned summer trip. I search for hotels in Tripadvisor and Agoda.
I decided to book with Cebu Business Hotel because they have discount during
weekends and also near seven eleven and the port to Bohol. I also book with <a href="http://www.cebutriptours.com/" target="_blank">Cebutrip</a> tours for a guided
tour inclusive with transportation. We
went there last April 13 and decided to have the guided tour the next day. We went to Magellans Shrine, Lapu lapu
monument, Alegre guitar factory, Taoist Temple, Cebu Heritage Monument,
YapSandiego Ancestral’ House, Magellan’s cross and Basilica Minore del Sto Nino.</div>
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On the first day that we arrived in Cebu we went to Ayala Mall</div>
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Our spacious room in Cebu Business Hotel, We stayed there for three days and two nights for only 1,900 pesos all in, with our choice of breakfast for two persons. The room also has aircon, cable TV and Hot Shower. There is also free wifi but with a weak signal. It was a cozy place to sleep although I notice that it was rather nosy (music) the first night we were there, cause it is a Saturday and there was some kind of an event there.</div>
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In the Hotel lobby while we wait for our day tour in the Queen of the South, Cebu City</div>
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At Alegre Guitar factory, where I buy souvenirs. The quality guitars here are handmade and exported globally</div>
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At Magellan Shrine, our guide said that this is the spot where <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/history/historic_figures/magellan_ferdinand.shtml" target="_blank">Ferdinand Magellan</a> died</div>
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At <a href="http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/262082/publicaffairs/iwitness/the-first-hero-images-from-the-i-witness-docu-about-lapu-lapu" target="_blank">Lapu lapu</a> monument, in honor of the first Filipino Hero</div>
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We had our free lunch in Joven's Grill, It was a buffet eat all you can lunch. I ate a raw octopus that was seasoned with vinegar and coconut milk. I really regretted doing so 'cause I developed an itchy skin allergy that lasted for a month.</div>
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We went to Taoist Temple, our guide told us that the original monks here were Chinese and they modeled this from the great wall of china. The landscape was really picturesque.</div>
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This is the <span style="text-align: justify;">Yap Sandiego Ancestral House, believed to be the oldest house still standing in Cebu City and estimated to be three hundred years old. This is the bedroom and it really gives me the creeps, it's like a scene from a horror film but it never stops me from striking a pose.</span></div>
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It was really a sunny day during our visit to <span style="text-align: justify;">Basilica Minore del Sto Nino. (Sto Nino Church) There were so many people attending mass there (It was Sunday) and so many foreigners as well. Inside the church is the oldest black Sto Nino ( a replica of the baby Jesus) believed to be miraculous. As a Catholic I also prayed there and pay my respects to baby Jesus. At the back there is a store full of statue and images of Sto Nino, of course, I bought two statues for my mother and me. The Catholic church was first built in 1565 as you can see in the picture below.</span></div>
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This is a picture of Ferdinand Magellan's Cross, He brought this with him during his expedition to the Philippines. The real cross was encased in an outer cross to preserve it. In the past the faithful Catholics believed that the wood from the cross is miraculous and chip a bit from the cross to bring it with them. </div>
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It was really fun in Cebu and I intend to go there again in the future. I think the cab/taxis there are much safer than in Manila City.</div>
Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-42733500764336631522012-11-12T23:05:00.002+08:002013-05-24T23:36:37.792+08:00I don’t believe in fairy tales anymore.<br />
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Gone
were the days when I would read novels or fairy tales. I just don’t believe in that stuff
anymore. It is just a product of the author’s optimism in love. I happen to know that sense and sensibilities’
author was a spinster who vowed that all her stories will end in a happy ever
after so unlike her real life love story. </div>
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The
irony is that in reality so many of us are just in love with the idea of love. When it wears off, we just move on to another
relationship believing that Mr. Perfect has not yet crossed our path. In reality there is no such thing as Mr.
Perfect, only acceptance that this person is okay for you. A person has two faces the bad and the
good. If you can live with the bad side
of that person it could be that you accepted him/her but it does not
necessarily mean that you love him/her. There are many reasons why people stay
in a relationship even if it soured not just love. If you are in an abusive relationship would
you still stay because you love the person? Or you just stay because you are
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Abusive relationship means not just the
physical aspect but also the emotional one which hurts the most. One example of
an emotional one is when you are married to an unfaithful partner. The person knows that his/her partner is hurting
but continued on with numerous affairs even to the extent of being caught. Can you stop that kind of person
from doing what he/she does? Sadly, no you just can’t decide for her/him but
you can decide for yourself. Love
yourself, this is just the answer and if you do that you can live a blissful
life. What my mother teaches me every day is to love myself more than anyone
else. Never let anybody hurt you. She
always told me that whatever life brings to my marriage I have to bear it but
if my husband is a womanizer this must not be tolerated. Life is just too short
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Honestly,
if you are going to have a relationship, you have to bear in mind that people
have two faces. If you can put up with his/her bad side then continue on with
your happily ever after. As for me, I
think fairy tales are only in the books.</div>
Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-86087547858462137642012-10-15T19:59:00.000+08:002012-11-17T20:58:14.985+08:00Reminiscing our wedding day<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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have the skill to deal with them. It is only through motherhood that I learn
how to love them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am forever grateful
to you for giving me two beautiful children. They are my inspiration and the
reason why I smile every day.</div>
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Last
night I watched again at home one of my favorite movies “Equilibrium.” It is
not a very popular movie, I think it is not even a blockbuster like most movies
but I like it for its story. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is an
era where society suppresses emotions or feelings because feelings like rage, jealousy
and pride will one way or another lead to murder or war. Also they destroy everything
that makes a man senses or feel like work of art such as painting, literatures,
music, also things like perfume and even animals that only make for pets such
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are times that the medicine that they
use to suppress emotion could be an advantage especially if you really want not
to feel. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I mean emotion alone is chaos.
You have to suppress your emotion, such as anger, jealousy, grief and even love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not everyone knows how to do that so there lays
the dilemma. Some people give in to anger; jealousy and some people give in to
love. Do you agree that too much love is not a good thing?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Why do you think parents spoil their child? A
parent does not realize it yet, until they become an accomplice to their child’s
crime. If that child who is now an adult committed a crime, his or her parents
would hide her/him or they could hire the best lawyers in the country. Again as
parents we are in one way or another responsible for our children’s actions
whether we like it or not.</div>
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All
the emotions that we are feeling are what makes us what we are and we must not
let it drive us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We must be the master
of our emotion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If your loved one died,
move on, don’t let grief take you. If your partner cheated on you, move on; don’t
let jealousy and anger overcome you. Do you know that most of the murders
committed are crimes of passion? </div>
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If
your supervisor scolded you, don’t get angry or quit your job, learn from it.
Quit your job only if it is no longer beneficial to you but never quit because
of your supervisor. Accept the irony that you need them to climb up the ladder
of success and their hurting words are part of the salary. The irony is you get
paid to be treated that way. In the end you could be in her or his position and
you already know what it feels like to be an underdog.</div>
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I
know all of this is easier said than done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>That is why there are helpful activities for people who are not strong
enough to control their emotions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There
is anger management for those who could not control their anger.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is prayer to calm your nerves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yoga is a really great exercise; because It
is calming and help you control your emotion and create a balance in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One thing also it is hard to suppress anger
so it is better to let it out in your exercises.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One helpful tip is you have to have a
punching bag at home. Punch at it every night before you get to bed and unleash
your anger at it. It is very satisfying especially if you have a mental picture
of the person you are angry at. </div>
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One
important thing, I know how it feels like to lose someone you love in death,
How it feels like to cry in grief. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Death
is inevitable the only key is acceptance. Even if you have a time machine, you
cannot change the past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Your guilt or
regret could not help you; it could only pull you back to grief. Accept and
move on.</div>
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See
the movie it’s great.</div>
Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-76188067841169717382012-05-16T18:00:00.001+08:002012-06-03T20:14:23.284+08:00Being a Widow<div style="text-align: justify;">
I came to realize today as I’ve been thinking of my past and the decisions that I’ve made. I came to think of the what if. What if I married Mr.____ than my husband I would not have become a widow? Although I only have one past boyfriend than my husband there could have been many other possibilities. I will only enter a relationship for the purpose of marriage so that has made me very picky.</div>
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No offense to my husband but I love my life today. Life as a widow has its pros and cons just like a wife has. You are the only one who will decide especially financial decisions which suits me. In marriage any decision that a spouse do can really affect the family more importantly financial decisions. What a person decides especially also involving morality will seriously affect the marriage and jealousy is the most annoying part of a relationship. Distrust as the effect of unfaithfulness is also exasperating and can weaken any relationship that was built for years. Whether we admit it or not we are just human and imperfect as we are, were prone to mistakes. I just hope no one in a relationship will make it as an excuse to be unfaithful but that is what usually happens. The feeling that involves all of this is really a waste of our precious time. What I dont like about marriage is the chaotic tendencies of a married life and all the emotions that is involved in it. The tug of war in making decision and accepting failed expectations.<br />
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What I only hate about the state I'm in is dealing with loneliness of being a widow but being married doesnt spare anyone from feeling the same way too. Living this life we must put it into our mindset that all we have today are just borrowed and one day God will take it back, even our life. We will work hard to accumulate all the things we have today but in the end we will die and we will lose all of it. Experience is all that matters because it can’t be taken away from us. Our experiences in this life will become a part of our soul. I made a vow to myself that I’m going to live a beautiful life without regrets but also without jeopardizing the welfare of my children because they are my top priority.</div>
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Thus, we all should live this life without regrets because no matter what happens, we should remember that all things work together for the good of those who love God and are called for his purpose.</div>
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<br />Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-83808850377292815962012-05-03T14:53:00.001+08:002012-05-09T18:03:42.081+08:00The scent of your perfume<div style="text-align: justify;">
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It’s been more than a year since I posted in this blog because my husband died in 2011 and my life as a widow is a big adjustment for me. I guess life must go on and my heart continuous beating. I have two children to love and be loved in return and I guess love just never run out if you share it with someone.</div>
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It is really hard to move on if you lost someone you love especially if it is your spouse but life must go on because you have to love yourself too. Self love is the most important thing in this world because no matter what happens you can still survive. If you don’t love yourself enough you cannot share it with someone and you will never be happy. If the person you love is the only thing that makes you happy then you cannot survive the challenges of life and might as well dig your own grave. Happiness comes from within; you have to celebrate life ‘because you only have one life to live.</div>
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When he died, I cried almost everyday. Even before he died I cried everyday because I’ve seen him suffered in the ICU. I think if crying extensively can kill I would have died. It is the most painful part of my life that I would never want to experience again. </div>
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When I was growing up, I use to read fairytales and hope someday I would also meet my prince charming. I did meet him but life is no fairytale. It is so difficult to find your mate and then gone in an instant, like a flick of a finger. When I married my husband I came to realize that there is no such thing as a prince charming just an ogre called SHREK but despite his flaws I still loved him. Love is really not superficial but accepting the person as he is, imperfect, rude and sometimes hard headed.</div>
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Today, I still miss him especially when I see a man that resembles him. Man in uniform that is for sure, I would stare at a policeman and see my husband in them. I would look at Coco Martin’s cute smile and I would remember him looking at me. I remember him when I smell his perfume on others and even when I see his gesture or body movement from someone. Remembering him doesn’t give me tears anymore but it would put a smile on my face because I reminisce the good times we had than the bad times. Life is after all like a music, there is a high tune and a low tune and the inevitable ending.</div>
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<br />Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-81796026571054815812010-12-28T14:19:00.001+08:002010-12-30T15:45:15.522+08:00Every Child is different<div style="text-align: justify;">I’ve got this realization from our long Christmas holiday because during that time my child’s nanny went home for the holidays and I’m the one who takes care of my 2nd child at home. I think every child is different from the other because they already have their own character at birth and although their surroundings influence them, they already have their own personality. I realized that I don’t know my daughter anymore because she already has mood swings and tantrums that I’m not really used to before. My eldest son is already 4 years old and he will be turning five this Jan. 2, 2011. He is already in nursery school and his grandmother takes him to school everyday. In our present circumstance right now, I can’t really be with him everyday but I’m happy to know that he remembers the time that we are together when he is still younger. I don’t really want to reminisce because I don’t want to feel hurt over the things that I can’t seem to do anything about. I think the child remembers memories as early as two years from birth and my son remembers me well. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">My son is entirely different from his sister in so many ways when he was her age. My daughter now is two years and five months old and I think she really wanted to have whatever she wants because she would not take no for an answer. Unlike her brother she would cry longer if she wants something and sad to say she would swing her hands at me which I find very annoying. I think every child is different and there is no such thing as the only way of disciplining a child because children vary from the other. I know my daughter requires much understanding than her brother. I must bear that in mind every time she had her tantrums. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> Although most of these insurances are familiar to us, Insurance providers differ in inclusions and exclusions as well as in the terms and conditions of the agreement. There is a need to research the insurance provider and to know its track record before getting insured. It is important that they reply immediately to the clients request and queries as well as urgently process the insurance claims of the customers. Insurance premiums should also be reasonable and just right for the insurance claims proceeds. </div>Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-2765414222876592212010-10-18T16:21:00.002+08:002010-10-18T16:27:28.558+08:00October 2010 Certified Public Accountants Exam ResultsHello to all my fellow bloggers and fellow Accountancy Graduates here is the latest result of CPA examination this month. I'm so glad that two of my officemates are conditional examinees.<br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">Car maintenance is really important to prolong the life of your vehicle. It is also imperative that the car parts should be replaced from time to time. Replacements of <a href="http://repairpal.com/timing-belt-replacement">timing belt</a> and water pump should be in mind for safety precautions. Aside from the car parts that I have mentioned here other parts should also be checked to ensure safety. Regular maintenance is needed to ensure safety on the road because it is a known fact that some accidents are a result of defects in the vehicle. </div>Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-68172449857785906742010-10-08T16:49:00.000+08:002012-10-19T19:27:12.461+08:00What about the Reproductive health bill?<div style="text-align: justify;">
I’ve read in the front page of our newspaper about the Reproductive health bill and that many religious groups feel strongly against it. Well, it is expected because the majority of the Filipino people are Christians. The head of the Catholic Church is against the bill because the religion is against artificial contraceptives and anything that is related to it. The bill is primarily concerned with providing information on family planning and giving free contraceptives to the public. I think there is nothing wrong with the bill because everyone needs the right information on family planning and there is absolutely no coercion in choosing what method to use. </div>
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I have nothing against the Catholic Church because I was born to the catholic faith and I even attend masses but I think they have to know their limitations. They have to know that the Government has the responsibility on the welfare of its citizens while their responsibility is cultivating the faith of their members. The religious leaders have to open their eyes that there are many parents who are irresponsible in taking care of their children and who obviously needed family planning because they bear many children. You can even see it on the streets; there are many children who take care of themselves because their parents are obviously irresponsible.</div>
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If ask how many children would they plan to bear? Many of them would say it depends on how many children God will give them. I think it would be okay to answer this kind of question this way as long as the parent is responsible enough that they can take care of their children well. Being a responsible parent they should be aware of how many children they can afford to raise well and they should be aware if their income is enough to cater to the needs of their children. </div>
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The faithful are sometimes foolish because when they said that it depends on how many children God is willing to give them even without responsibly thinking if they could afford to raise them all, it is just believing that God will feed them even if they don’t do anything but pray for food.</div>
Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-30169191481335125292010-09-08T16:20:00.001+08:002010-09-08T16:28:17.680+08:00Learning business strategies<div style="text-align: justify;">I’m so happy that we are nearing the end of the 1st semester. We are finished with our business philosophy subject and last Sunday we are starting with our new subject which is Business research. I think my decision in taking up a Masters Degree is really right even if we are experiencing financial constraints at the moment. Raising a family, getting an MBA and having a career are difficult but it’s a blast if you have proper management of your time. As a person we really need to grow and the only thing to achieve that is to learn new things that can help you with your career. I think absorbing new knowledge is an exciting experience because it can change you positively.</div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;">During this semester, I’ve learned so many things because our instructor in Business Math has taught us well in utilizing our studies to our job in the corporate setting. Our Business philosophy subject has also opened our mind to business strategies. There are so many business strategies that you can use if you are still starting a business. The most important thing is advertising to let people know that your company exists. If you are selling products that you made, you can give <a href="http://businesscards24.com/craft-business-cards/">craft business cards</a> to people that you know. You can also distribute leaflets to random people. You can get business cards online and other promotional materials that can really help in starting your business.</div>Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-15349711096043361402010-08-26T15:30:00.001+08:002010-08-26T15:43:20.823+08:00Tragic Hostage Taking of Hong Kong Nationals in Manila<div style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2togSEWMH4R_CrqULlie-iM6BB7MuXrqW6IM0Fgq6hUWrm1wA-H67g2ahsJiayyY0xRxw5_-pl_xbrox1CxKNDdMbuG5-NgNJjcDkokiXbb1WInrB6INKWVg3AMkEBaMoBzrf5VWC8Os/s1600/slide_9840_129778_small.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2togSEWMH4R_CrqULlie-iM6BB7MuXrqW6IM0Fgq6hUWrm1wA-H67g2ahsJiayyY0xRxw5_-pl_xbrox1CxKNDdMbuG5-NgNJjcDkokiXbb1WInrB6INKWVg3AMkEBaMoBzrf5VWC8Os/s320/slide_9840_129778_small.jpg" /></a></div>In the evening of Aug 24, I watched the live coverage of a hostage crisis in Manila. It’s like what you see in the action movies because you could feel the suspense when the reporter said their experiences there but the big difference is it is really happening and it ended in tragedy. A disgruntled former decorated Police Officer named Rolando del Rosario Mendoza seized a bus with 26 passengers mostly Chinese nationals from Hong Kong during their last day here in the Philippines in his desperate attempt to be reinstated in his job. He thinks that he is wrongly accused of a crime that ended his career in the Police force and resorted to hostage taking to get back his job. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">I think what really is horrifying is how the Police force handled the incident. The only thing that triggered the already angry former policeman is when he saw the way the police had arrested his brother and his relatives who were in the vicinity. It is the reason why he snapped and shot and killed his hostages. We could only regret what had happened. I think the Filipino Government should learn from this incident because so many lives could have been saved if the incident could have been handled differently. I even felt pity for the way the authorities had arrested his relative, how much more if they were my kin? </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I think it would have been different if the authorities could have at least waited until the negotiations are over before they arrested his brother who was also a policeman. I also hope that someone who have seen the incident on TV and who is authorized to make the call would have called the officer in charge to stop the arrest. I also think that it could have been different if the media was not airing what happened during that time because the hostage taker knows what is happening outside the bus by just watching the TV. I also hope that the policemen in the area could have proper coordination with each other and that they could have the proper operating procedure in handling that kind of incident. So many lives lost I only hope and pray that the Filipino Government will learn from this experience and must make an effort to correct the mistakes that clearly confirm our incompetence.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">In my younger days I have this old dresser with mirror that my mother have given to me but when I got married I left it there in my parents house mainly because I wanted to buy my own dresser. I liked this dresser that I have posted here because it would only take a small space in our bedroom and it has a classic design. I think this would be expensive because of the wood and it looks durable too. Even if this is expensive I would really buy this.<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I think it is so important that you completely trust your husband because without trust you will always doubt him and even if he meant what he said you will always think that he is lying or something like that. Distrust in a marriage is destruction in a plain sense; no marriage can ever survive with it. That is also the main reason why very few marriages will ever survive when it comes to infidelity. It can be repaired but it takes a lot of work to ever survive that. Trust is the hardest thing to build and the easiest thing to destroy. Trusting him in making decision is also very difficult especially if there are times in your marriage where wives experience failed expectations. In the overall trusting again is difficult to achieve but if you do value your marriage you will try to do it. Trusting will also relieve you of unnecessary burden because you will no longer think of negative thoughts in your marriage. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I think also when you resist the temptation to criticize, belittle or dismiss your husbands they will not be easily tempted with other women who will accept and appreciate them. I think the reason why we fall in love in the first place is when we feel appreciated and that the other person will make us feel good about our self. We sometimes forget that as human we needed to be appreciated and to feel good about our self. A simple complement like you look good, you smell good and I’m so proud to be your wife goes a long way to let them feel good about themselves. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">I also notice that when you take control of your marriage, finances and responsibilities it can be very burdensome and you get angry all the time but when you let your husband take the responsibility it will be much easier and lighter for you. It is also an advantage when your husband helps you in the house chores because it will be easier on your part in fulfilling your career.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">It feels so good to decide for your own when you don’t have to ask your husband to buy you something.<span> </span>I think it is also in my nature to do something with my life because when you are married you just can’t rely on someone to get things done because it can be so depressing. You just feel your heart hurt because of your failed expectations.<span> </span>Do you ever experience telling your husband to make some shelves so that you can arrange your things and how it feels to wait for the work to get done?<span> </span>To lessen my failed expectations I just have to make it myself.<span> </span>That is what it feels like to be a working mom.<span> </span>I have to get out there in the rat race to get something done with our life.<span> </span>It is so tiring to complain to your spouse and tell him his shortcomings because like him you are also capable to do something to improve your life. </div>Annzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842553703922240347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2732140065844114098.post-87680468531817458392010-03-27T11:12:00.001+08:002010-03-27T11:26:50.813+08:00How to be a better mind reader<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Recently I’ve read in the newspaper column about a letter from a wife, she was asking for advice about her problem with her husband. She was complaining that her husband comes home without saying a word to her. Her mind would churn out to a lot of possibilities, whether she has said something wrong, or something happened at work. She would ask herself if something happen between him and his family or friends. She wanted to ask him but she just doesn’t have the nerve to ask her husband. She will just look for clues, in his posture and tone of voice. She just wanted to read his mind and she was asking the columnist how to become a better mind reader. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">The columnist who was a doctor told her to don’t ever guess. When you are in doubt you just simply ask. I think she was right in saying this that is because when you are misread by someone close to you it would create distance. I think couples should at all times be open to each other. The doctor also told her to give time. The best way to learn about someone is to spend more time with them. Focus on the other person not yourself. Often times, we tend to look for what is in stake for us. This need makes us unable to see what are the other person’s needs and desires. Lastly all you have to do is ask. Say in words what you feel. Chances are your husband will do the same. After all, being expressive could be contagious. When you are in doubt, simply ask. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Last Saturday we had a company summer outing at Pearl Farm Davao.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I nearly missed it because a night before my daughter had a fever and it did persist in the morning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Anyway last year I did not attend our company outing because my daughter also got sick and was hospitalized but this year I still decided to join.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before I went to <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Davao</place></city> that day I have instructed her nanny to check her temperature from time to time and let her take in paracetamol every five hours.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>To ensure that she will give her paracetamol at the right time I've jot down in the calendar on the wall what time she will intake the medicine.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I've also called her when we got there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We traveled early in the morning because we were instructed by our colleagues that we have to get there before 7:30 am and travel time was a minimum of one and a half hours.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We got there on time and I was so relieved that there was a free brewed flowing coffee and sandwich waiting for us there because I was so hungry.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We skipped breakfast that day to arrive early.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We had a great time that day and I swim in the pool the whole day.</span></div><div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"></div><br />
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