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		<title>Womanly Words Of Wisdom: Audrey Hepburn</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p></p> <p style="text-align: center;">“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says &#8216;I&#8217;m possible&#8217;!” </p> <p style="text-align: center;">Audrey Hepburn </p> ]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #003366;">“<span style="font-family: 'DejaVu Serif', serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Nothing is impossible, the word itself says &#8216;I&#8217;m possible&#8217;!” </b></span></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 'DejaVu Serif', serif; color: #003366;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Audrey Hepburn </b></span></span></p>
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		<title>Your Goal For The Week, Month, Year &amp; Life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 11:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p></p> <p style="text-align: center;">I&#8217;ll add this to specify how we want to be part of something meaningful, that adds value, fulfills our creativity, lifts our spirits,  brings inner peace, teaches us how to be our best, encourages authenticity and more&#8230;</p> ]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I&#8217;ll add this to specify how we want to be part of something meaningful, that adds value, fulfills our creativity, lifts our spirits,  brings inner peace, teaches us how to be our best, encourages authenticity and more&#8230;</strong></span></p>
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		<title>When ‘Feminist’ Sites Use The ‘Plight’ Of Black Women (In This Case Regarding TV Show Scandal) To Fuel White Dominance</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 11:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">Wasn&#8217;t that Season 2 Finale of Scandal a jaw-dropper!! They added a whole, extra layer to daddy issues and Liv&#8217;s secret family connection Superpowers, didn&#8217;t they? Well, we&#8217;ve got all summer to TRY to digest that revelation. </p> <p style="text-align: justify;">In analyzing the projected images of black women in the media, something popped [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;"><em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Wasn&#8217;t that Season 2 Finale of </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Scandal</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> a jaw-dropper!! They added a whole, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">extra</span> layer to daddy issues and Liv&#8217;s secret family connection Superpowers, didn&#8217;t they? Well, we&#8217;ve got all summer to TRY to digest that revelation. </span></span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In analyzing the projected images of <strong>black women in the media</strong>, something popped up last week I&#8217;d like to discuss. Just call this episode 2,957,931 of the long-running serial: </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">All The Blacks Are Men And All The Women Are White</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. Did you hear the good news? The lead actress of the hottest tv show going done got herself on the cover of a &#8220;major (white) fashion magazine&#8221;!! Congrats to Kerry Washington and ELLE. This has NEVER happened before, so let&#8217;s celebrate!!!</span></span>! <span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: small;">See all the variations of &#8220;homegirl finally got a cover&#8221; on the Interwebs for reference.</span></span></span></p>
<p align="JUSTIFY"><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;">**Scroll down to the end of the post if you want the surprise revealed.</span></span></em></p>
<p align="JUSTIFY"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">FYI, they did throw her a big party in NYC </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;">(see photos below)</span></span></span><span style="font-size: small;">which isn&#8217;t something ELLE does every month. </span></span></p>
<p><img class="alignnone" alt="" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5c8e0b7a8dd76b00abc2e8297f793cb0/tumblr_mmvmn38Kwz1s6qwzfo1_400.jpg" width="161" height="239" /><img class="alignnone" alt="" src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/60fe2e796e6fc24d8ff0141e808cc240/tumblr_mmvmn38Kwz1s6qwzfo7_500.jpg" width="158" height="239" /></p>
<p align="JUSTIFY"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I&#8217;m just curious though, wasn&#8217;t </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Revenge</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> dubbed the hottest show on tv last year?  How many magazine covers has series lead Emily Van Camp done?  Taraji P. Henson is the lone female on </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Person Of Interest</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> &#8211; also hugely popular. Melissa McCarthy has both a successful tv show wrapping its third season (Mike &amp; Molly) AND gets top billing for her film projects. Number of covers? Lucy Liu of </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Elemental</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> &#8211; also a hit. What about the pretty, young stars of the various CW and ABC Family shows getting followed by paparazzi everywhere? </span></span></p>
<p align="JUSTIFY"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Let&#8217;s not forget </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Good Wife.</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> This show wins Emmys and has a who&#8217;s who of guest stars. Number of fashion mags for series lead Julianna Margulies? She&#8217;s arguably the most recognizable of all the actresses listed amongst a general audience. JM was on the ubiquitous series ER and at one time the highest paid actress on tv, turning down a $27M deal to extend her ER run. And I&#8217;d be remiss in not mentioning Marishka Hargitay, because hasn&#8217;t everyone seen at least </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">one</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> episode of Olivia Benson in Law &amp; Order: SVU? It&#8217;s going into its 15th season.</span></span></p>
<p align="JUSTIFY"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">As we see even </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">popular white actresses</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> are also facing an apparent </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">blockade</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> from being queen of the fashion monthly. Funny, I haven&#8217;t heard any discussion of it. Have you? Yet, <em>somebody</em> decided to push this meme solely focusing on one particular actress from a certain tv show. WHY??? Let&#8217;s dig a little deeper.</span></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">First, we need to cover a few details. Scandal is a fast-paced prime-time drama about a Washington, D.C. political crisis manager named Olivia Pope, the high-powered clients she helps, her dedicated team and her professional and personal ties to the White House. Namely her recurring relationship with the unhappily married POTUS. Never fear, on this show he&#8217;s a rather moderate Republican that wants to do good. Not only is the relationship complicated by the fact she got him in office by any mean necessary, but he wants to divorce the FLOTUS and still be President. <em>Only on tv folks</em>. Oh, and there&#8217;s something else: it&#8217;s an extra-marital AND interracial WM/BW coupling. Some have danced around their biases about that, while others have not. I&#8217;m not here to discuss people&#8217;s selective moral outrage on two tv characters instead of real-life sub-par conditions for many BW, but I have noted it&#8217;s unprecedented to cast two lead actors who look so good together, where the male character is flawed, but in such open pursuit. </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If certain trends in society are reflected on the small screen, then the message that a wealthy, attractive, powerful white man could so decidedly choose to love a black woman is threatening to people. Quite frankly, the underlying tension contributes to the buzz factor and coupled with its quick pacing, often leaves viewers feeling the effects of an hour-long pogo stick workout! I also don&#8217;t think folks would be so up in arms if Olivia Pope was Asian or Latina, but that&#8217;s another story.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The show has done a wonderful job of showing Olivia&#8217;s career competence, as well as Fitz&#8217;s respect and admiration for it. Unlike her former fiance Edison (the wish-list archetype Good Black Man), whom we saw wanting to punish her for being good at what she does and using her talents to the fullest. He let their relationship falter instead of marrying Olivia while he focused on his own personal ambitions. By the time he re-entered her life their attempt at rekindling things was bound to fail despite the fact he was technically available. Olivia had outgrown him.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Thus, despite the buzz factor and appearance of PC support, I&#8217;m not surprised to find internal push-back against </span></span><em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Scandal</span></span></em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> despite its success. <strong>Art imitating life scares people</strong>. And I further hate to burst your bubble but even in it&#8217;s fourth season, plagued by some of its worst storylines to date, a show like </span></span><em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Good Wife</span></span></em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> actually brings in about 1m more viewers than </span></span><em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Scandal</span></span></em><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and it airs on a Sunday night with a lot less promotion. I&#8217;m comparing the two shows because I&#8217;ve reviewed them both and the infidelity, lost love, career woman juggling offers a good contrast.  (By, the way Revenge </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">lost</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> a few million viewers and is holding steady at a little less than 8m per week). I have to be the bringer of </span></span><del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">rain</span></span></del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> cold water, hard facts and number-crunching because trust me this is what the check-writers at the networks are doing as their overall market share continues to fall (i.e. viewers jump to cable or tune out completely).</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Some folks were also publicly hand-wringing what they perceived as a delay in announcing whether Scandal would be renewed. When they weren&#8217;t complaining about the scheduling breaks. Is  Scandal safe?  It is the </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">number one show on Thursdays</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">&#8230;but look at the promotion machine using Twitter as a conduit to securing its audience. Of course it <del>will be</del> was renewed, but Scandal needs to keep pushing its numbers up. More people are discovering it and will watch. 8.5 million + viewers is great, but the network will of course want to see if it increases, because of the huge jump up from 3m+ when it debuted. Thus more magazine covers for KW and the show are great, but not when they&#8217;re coupled with dis-empowering language from meddling third parties gleefully broadcast across multiple channels.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">People want to fawn over or shake their head at Olitz (the Fitzgerald Grant/Olivia Pope couple moniker). Even as we know the show is make-believe, even as y&#8217;all flog ourselves for watching the &#8216;moral blight&#8217; of two people in a shamefully adulterous relationship, </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">no one</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> has missed the fact the man in a question is not only powerful </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><del>and white</del>,</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> but attractive </span></span><del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">white</span></span></del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and declares his love for a woman who isn&#8217;t his </span></span><del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">white</span></span></del><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> wife. And the woman in question </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">is not white</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. What do you get? Haterade! <em>** And a good monologue for Fitz to use against Mellie, who knew?!</em> Some of it is obvious and predictable <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/scandal-creator-smacks-down-criticism-of-her-writing-choices-why-some-black-women-still-dont-get-it">(Star Jones),</a> but the rest?</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Pretending To Be Progressive With False Accusations Of Racism To Alienate Potential  White Viewers &amp; A Larger Audience In General</b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">We already know blacks watch Scandal in droves. Many BW were the early adopters of this show. It&#8217;s becoming an unstoppable juggernaut, so there&#8217;s interest in throwing a monkey wrench at it. The premise that KW was being denied something [access to white magazine covers] is flawed. The same tactic was used earlier when describing the show&#8217;s BW lead and character focus as the &#8220;first since Diahann Carroll in <em>Julia</em>&#8220;. Then it shifted to &#8220;first since Teresa Graves in </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Get Christie Love&#8221;.</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Then the talk shifted from &#8220;lead&#8221; to &#8220;dramatic series lead&#8221;. Factual? Maybe. Nonsensical? Definitely! These misguided comparisons ignore the four BW leads on </span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><b>Living Single</b></i></span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and </span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><b>Half &amp; Half</b></i></span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. As well as the vehicle for rapper-turned-actress Eve &#8211; titled </span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><b>Eve</b></i></span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. They were all comedies, but they were either a)  helmed by BW b) actually funny c) represented non-stereotypical portrayals of BW.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Mentioning this doesn&#8217;t support the </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">downtrodden meme</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> being pushed. Ignoring BW leads in ensemble casts [like ER or SVU] would also steer the average person to subconsciously wonder what&#8217;s &#8220;wrong&#8221; with BW as they were simultaneously being mocked and denigrated (usually by BM) across music, tv and film. That&#8217;s a turn-off when trying to cultivate a wide audience for  a  young series. It becomes a self-prophesying show killer</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It&#8217;s also incongruent to compare an actress&#8217; popularity while ignoring the medium she works in [tv show vs. film – or combo] and specific project. Movies have bigger budgets, greater reach and typically pay more with much shorter work schedules.  Using Emily Van Camp as an example again, she and Jennifer Lawrence not only have similar looks, but could share appeal to the same audience. </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Revenge</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and </span></span><em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Hunger Games</span></span></em><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> could arguably have swapped actresses and been equally successful. One isn&#8217;t used to belittle the accomplishments of the other.  Film actresses long replaced all but a select few models on fashion mag covers. Even the real FLOTUS agreed to grace Vogue more than once. That&#8217;s the new normal.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Who&#8217;s Being Held Back?</b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">WW making an argument for unfair treatment using a BW as canon fodder is slick, but a lie. It serves two purposes: stealth backlash against the show while reminding everyone BW&#8217;s place is a subservient one. This is how WW assert their dominance. Yet many would have us believing they don&#8217;t want to be put on a pedestal. Maybe, but they don&#8217;t want anyone else up there either! This isn&#8217;t a competition. BW wear their own crowns!!</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Yet,  they&#8217;re forgetting white male dominance as <i>The Man</i>  will only continue with <span style="color: #000000;">WM lifting up women of their own race. This is why the many in showbiz who do date and marry non-white women still </span><span style="color: #000000;"><b>protect and promote</b></span><span style="color: #000000;"> WW&#8217;s interests. For example, out of the dozens of shows with female characters you might see 1 out of 10 going to a &#8220;woman of color&#8221; and if so it&#8217;s likely to be limited to a single-to-multiple-episode arc, not a permanent casting. </span></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Who decided Kerry Washington [by extension as the hot, desirable in-demand actress who could be potentially short-listed for dozens of coveted projects and reap the benefits of super-stardom - finally] was somehow <strong>missing</strong> something? Ah, the &#8220;lack&#8221; argument is just enough poison to start undermining the buzz-factor, slowing her ascent and the show&#8217;s growth if left unchecked.  And it keeps the lid sealed for BW to remain stuck in a box.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dismissing Ebony and Essence for all the wrong reasons. </span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">These magazines have majority black readership, but only one is black-owned. KW has done about a dozen covers of black magazines. Trust me when I say rapist-supporting Ebony and allover MESSence (regular readers here know why they&#8217;re dubbed so) have decidedly anti-black woman messaging and should be dropped for that reason alone, but it&#8217;s rather insulting to directly imply content meant to service AAs and other blacks is somehow inherently inferior. Like black people are inferior, eh?</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The agenda can&#8217;t be too obvious to the casual observer.</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> It sounds right on the surface, but doesn&#8217;t hold up under scrutiny. The best hatchet jobs against BW these days are not from the disgruntled, jealous self-hating Negro males who despise black women and line up to take these types of pot shots. Someone like Toure would normally fit the bill, but we&#8217;ve exposed them and their history. Remember his <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/toure-trying-to-pull-a-perez-hilton-failing">&#8216;FLOTUS is a ghetto girl&#8217; </a>hit piece?</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Racio-misogyny runs both ways.</b> Who do combatants most likely use to deliver the blows today: other black women (and white &#8216;feminists&#8217; of course). Look at the bylines. Salon used <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/salons-1-2-hit-job-on-michelle-obama">Erin Aubry Kaplan and Rebecca Traister.</a> Daily Beast uses Alison Samuels.  Zerlina Maxwell has been legitimized by the Melissa Harris Perry Show, Women&#8217;s Media Center and other so-called progressive/feminist spaces despite her publicly denying the validity of BW rape victims in one case, now being touted as an advocate for supporting a WW in another. Madame Noir. Clutch. The Root. Go down the list of black dead zones. All designed with an agenda of keeping BW circling dysfunction. The BW pathology spotlight kicked into high gear ever since three Obama women became full-time residents of the White House.<br />
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<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Othering By Any Other Name</b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If trashy black media does it [whether they claim legitimacy or no] and BW still overwhelmingly support it, why wouldn&#8217;t white media go from ignore to &#8220;let&#8217;s talk about your issues&#8221; when they recognize the shift away from business as usual? When rivals suddenly befriend you &#8211; watch out!</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Before this latest <i>non-troversy</i>, some of these same &#8216;feminist&#8217; channels were celebrating Gabourey Sidibe&#8217;s sometimes unflattering  magazine covers back in 2010 as championing diversity. Again, I ask where&#8217;s the <i>diversity </i>in beauty when WW are represented? Why not replace so-and-so with Melissa McCarthy or Rebel Wilson? They&#8217;re beautiful, too. Oh wait&#8230;<b>they&#8217;re not skinny</b>. When it comes to their representation of beauty WW are very clear in <b>narrowly </b>defining it and directing it back at themselves. Or need I remind you who runs the fashion magazines. Did you think this would be laid at the feet of men in some misguided patriarchy rant? Nope!</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is the <b>Hunger Games-style </b><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><b>ultimate life and death match</b></span> that every other group of women (asian, lesbian, latina, etc) and interested parties securing a position of power and influence are doing to win! They run a tight ship with a narrow entrance. The more valid question would be to ask why Zoe Saldana hasn&#8217;t been repeatedly plastered on every US-based fashion rag as she has actually co-starred in a string of successful big budget studio films? Opposed to some actresses who&#8217;ve barely had a hit movie. Ms. Saldana does get more foreign covers and is considered exotic in some circles because she&#8217;s not African American.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Asian women make end runs around patriarchy through marriage. </b> Why would white fashion magazines go out of their way to promote the beauty and desirability of non-white women anyway? Fake diversity and political-correctness is throwing a bone for appearances. <em>Ownership is power</em>. Marrying the men who own the magazines (and fashion houses) is power. That&#8217;s why you&#8217;d be hard-pressed to hear Asian women &#8216;feminist/racism laments&#8217; about magazine covers. In fact, these magazines (like <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/has-joanna-coles-marie-claire-declared-war-on-blacks-asians-latinas-marrying-white-men">Marie Claire</a>) are writing rather angsty articles about why so many high-profile WM marry <i>them</i>. </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>There is nothing stopping BW from launching their own international publications</strong>. As much as people lament the old days when Essence showed integrity it was never owned by black women. So its descent into MESSence was inevitable&#8230;why continue supporting it?  And if you haven&#8217;t figured out by now that people who only focus on what&#8217;s &#8216;wrong&#8217; with you, take up special cases where they can preface &#8220;poor you&#8221;, or &#8216;let me do this on your behalf&#8217; while loudly broadcasting something negative about you to others are NOT to your benefit &#8212; then 1.800.get.a.clue!!</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This forum&#8217;s agenda of exposing hypocrisy, double-speak and saboteurs will always remain a common-sense, truth-telling safe space, but I want to continue moving the focus into greener, bountiful pastures. So we can discuss that cute bag, destination getaways, hot guys and thinking globally. From time to time I notice these rumbles on the internet which serve as a wonderful reminder how far we&#8217;ve come.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">While I do not care for most of the roles selected by the actress in question (and yes a project helmed by a certain drag-loving divo comes to mind as well as a recent portrayal Looney Tunes rendition of chattel  slavery) I do know that AA women control $1.2 TRILLION and could put it to better use so that <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/is-black-actress-an-oxymoron-when-will-black-women-get-fed-up-with-being-marginalized-in-love-and-life">black actress doesn&#8217;t remain an oxymoron</a> or mired in nonsense. BW deserve accolades and protection. We have to look at the big picture, reset our own beneficial alliances and go for it.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">That&#8217;s not going to happen when BW support their erasure (i.e movies like Red Tails that have NO black women &#8211; not even an extra) OR when BW support their image being dragged through the mud (rap music, reality shows, etc.) OR entertainers who trash us. <a href="Stop Getting It Twisted - Pay Attention To The Money And Resource Trail">Follow the money</a>. <strong><a href="http://muslimbushido.blogspot.com/2013/05/follow-money-and-resources-trail-part-2.html">Redirect your investments</a> back to you.</strong> This is why we address taking responsibility and getting out of Blackistan. Not focusing on white racism, learned helplessness or insanity tactics of dealing with non-reciprocating/no value people, places or practices.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">*** Finally, I saved the twist to the end just to emphasize the true agendas of those helpful ladies over at Jezebel, Women In Hollywood (surprised there), etc. who from their perspective would likely say they were just doing some harmless </span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">very selective</span></span><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> conscious-raising on your behalf. Not that you asked.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>June 2013 ELLE</strong> is Kerry Washington&#8217;s FIRST national fashion magazine cover <em>they</em> say.</span></span></p>
<p>http://jezebel.com/5986250/where-is-kerry-washingtons-major-magazine-cover</p>
<p>http://jezebel.com/kerry-washington-finally-got-a-major-ladymag-cover-493994875 http://blogs.indiewire.com/womenandhollywood/kerry-washington-finally-covers-a-major-fashion-magazine</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Er&#8230;what about <strong>ELLE</strong> <strong>November 2010</strong>?</span></span></p>
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<h2><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/kerry-washington-covers-november-elle-so-why-the-crickets">Kerry Washington Covers November ELLE So Why The Crickets?</a></span></span></span></span></h2>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">And these are the </span></span><strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">results from paid writers who vetted and researched their stories, approved by editors for accuracy before hitting the publish button.</span></span></strong><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> NOT!</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The put-down, back-handed complement style agenda overrides any semblance of journalistic integrity &#8212; such that it is.<br />
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">These people are considered &#8216;better&#8217; writers for having been hired, right? Anyone who actually reads ELLE, subscribes to fashion magazines or PAYS attention could have shut this down in two seconds.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">For the record, <strong>fashion editors love KW.</strong> She&#8217;s been featured on numerous best-dressed, style section pieces for several years now. That 2011 ELLE cover wasn&#8217;t necessarily promoting a big project. We discussed at this forum back in 2011 why choosing KW was a no-brainer and wondered where the accolades were back then.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I waited to publish this to see if the trolling for website hit antics would result in a correction. I&#8217;m sure someone will pass this post along to those who need to be updated. It continues to amaze me how <b>no one bothers to question anything they read.</b> This false &#8216;triumph&#8217; feeds into the paternalistic tendencies of well-meaning white folk, too. I&#8217;d offer these media forums need to clean house and hire smarter &#8211; like me. I could provide a shortlist of well-qualified sources, but I&#8217;m not holding my breath. Their embarrassment vector should be off the charts. And some of you seriously need to check yourselves.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Despite ineptitude or concern trolling BW will continue making better choices and moving into supportive circles. Incidences like this reminds me how far BWE consciousness raising has come and how future generations of young girls will move forward.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/toure-trying-to-pull-a-perez-hilton-failing">http://actsoffaithblog.com/toure-trying-to-pull-a-perez-hilton-failing</a> </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/the-blackening-of-the-fashion-industry">http://actsoffaithblog.com/the-blackening-of-the-fashion-industry</a> </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/mrs-o-blog-is-a-sham-black-culture-theft-for-white-profit-2009-style">http://actsoffaithblog.com/mrs-o-blog-is-a-sham-black-culture-theft-for-white-profit-2009-style</a> </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Century Gothic,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/salons-1-2-hit-job-on-michelle-obama">http://actsoffaithblog.com/salons-1-2-hit-job-on-michelle-obama</a> </span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://muslimbushido.blogspot.com/2012/12/stop-getting-it-twisted-pay-attention.html">Stop Getting It Twisted &#8211; Pay Attention To The Money And Resource Trail</a></p>
<h3><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://muslimbushido.blogspot.com/2013/05/follow-money-and-resources-trail-part-2.html">Follow The Money And Resources Trail, Part 2 – Generations of BM Entertainers Transferring Wealth To Nonblack Women (Reason # 457 Why 21st Century African-American Artists Still Have Nothing Of Their Own)</a></span></span></span></span></span></h3>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">You learn something new every day if you&#8217;re open. I&#8217;ve been re-evaluating my own happiness quotient which I&#8217;ve shared a little bit here. I was also doing some reading on confidence, which can mean something as simple as expecting a positive outcome. Which can be difficult when we&#8217;re not sure of anything. Here&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>You learn something new every day if you&#8217;re open. I&#8217;ve been re-evaluating my own happiness quotient which I&#8217;ve shared a little bit here. I was also doing some reading on <span style="color: #000080;">confidence</span>, which can mean something as simple as <span style="text-decoration: underline;">expecting a positive outcome</span>. Which can be difficult when we&#8217;re not sure of anything. Here&#8217;s a new word I&#8217;ve begun adding to my vocabulary:</strong></p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><strong>sophrosyne</strong></em></span></h2>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Part of being confident includes a belief in our own abilities to prevail over any obstacles. An assurance that transforms. It&#8217;s not easy to see sunlight when you&#8217;re surrounded by clouds, but it&#8217;s there waiting to be revealed. Well, that&#8217;s my story and I&#8217;m sticking to it!</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong> If the language we use for our inner and external dialog guides our actions through life, then we need some powerful words in our arsenal! How would you use it in a sentence? How do you apply it to your life? If you care to share leave a comment.</strong></p>
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		<title>Womanly Words of Wisdom: Laura Ingalls Wilder</title>
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		<title>What Is That Law About Equal And Opposite Reaction?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 11:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">When I received the latest email list entry from Danielle LaPorte on embracing sadness, I smiled. You see, I recently wrote a blog post about taking a happiness shot. Like I said then, I don&#8217;t believe we can be &#8220;happy&#8221; 24/7. Sad or happy, they&#8217;re flip sides of the same coin. I wouldn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;">When I received the latest email list entry from <strong>Danielle LaPorte</strong> on <a href="http://www.daniellelaporte.com/inspiration-spirituality-articles/love-your-sadness-it-wont-last/"><strong>embracing sadness</strong></a>, I smiled. You see, I recently wrote a blog post about <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/did-you-take-your-happiness-shot-today">taking a happiness shot</a>. Like I said then, I don&#8217;t believe we can be &#8220;happy&#8221; 24/7. Sad or happy, they&#8217;re flip sides of the same coin. I wouldn&#8217;t want a discussion about being happy to be a false front negating a complete inventory of our emotional life and times.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Perhaps I should further clarify that by stating I don&#8217;t believe <strong>I</strong> can be (fakely) happy like that. I&#8217;ve always been introspective and inquisitive. I&#8217;ve always asked questions, from great philosophical treatises to specific personal ones (of others&#8230;.and myself). I suppose a person could with very a narrow focus, little self-evaluation or a medicinal diet of uppers remain in symbiotic joy. That&#8217;s not <em>real</em>, but it sure is convenient for most.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">A segment of modern society wants us to bear all our scars for public consumption, be it reality tv for fame and profit, confessional time with a religious representative for absolution or the therapist couch for relief. The first is a study in unexamined self-indulgence or intentional self-exploitation for attention &#8212; which could strangely be used to gain a higher profile with increased opportunities for elevation. Go figure!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span id="more-6372"></span>The latter two are supposed to be the nobler choices, but they still depend on the arbitrary &#8216;goodness&#8217; of the authoritarians, their integrity, knowledge and competence. Trust in the wrong person and the entire process gets sullied &#8211; if not irrevocably damaged. Trust &#8212; and you might get slapped.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Tell people you&#8217;re sad or have doubts, or aren&#8217;t always feeling like a beauty queen/conqueror/zen master and some will subsequently freak out, bail on you, or think less of you. If they don&#8217;t use the revelation as a weapon. Crazy, huh? Humans are nothing if not a contradiction!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">All the while, we need to build relationships, meet (and keep) the love of our lives, find allies and kindred spirits. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/melanie-gorman/adult-friendship-101_b_789388.html">Make new friends</a> &#8212; and that gets harder as we grow older. Influence people. Put our best foot forward. Be our most authentic. Vet people, places and practices. Be vulnerable.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Why chance it when someone else can&#8217;t hear or see you past their own distortions? How do you trust the process of elevating your life when the results are sketchy at best? When you&#8217;re eliminating people, places and practices more than anything else? When you think you&#8217;re at a jumping off point, only to find there was a bottom you didn&#8217;t know about because you just fell through it.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You don&#8217;t want what other people have per se, but you want to be where you&#8217;re supposed to be. If you&#8217;ve done everything right, why is life all wrong? Mediocrity doesn&#8217;t cut it, and the knowledge you&#8217;ve acquired won&#8217;t allow you the option of pretending &#8212; or settling without extreme discomfort.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">There&#8217;s supposed to be an abundance of opportunities to pursue goals, make personal improvements, etc. Does Manifest Destiny apply or is it an exercise of pure ego, completely unsupported? Which brings this conversation back to some of what LaPorte wrote about the &#8220;sadness&#8221; factor:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>I was feeling it. Pure sadness &#8212; the inescapability of it plowing through the softest part of me. When you&#8217;re in that kind of painful place <strong>you&#8217;ll try to climb the walls to get away from it.</strong> You want it over with. </em><br clear="none" /> <br clear="none" /><em> &#8220;<strong>Love your sadness. It won&#8217;t last long</strong>.&#8221; A friend texted me late at night. I caught it just as I was turning off my bedroom light.</em></p></blockquote>
<p id="headline" style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve had times where I was momentarily convinced I was done with life, if I was going to be so utterly disappointed all the time, trying to match jigsaw pieces that didn&#8217;t seem to fit. I found myself asking if this was it, the peak and the point where everything went further downhill. Despite previously writing about <a href="http://actsoffaithblog.com/10-ways-to-manifest-happiness">10 Ways To Manifest Happiness</a>  I forgot to cover the basics. Our expectations may chafe and per this Inc. article, <a href="http://www.inc.com/steve-tobak/6-unique-ways-to-be-successful-and-happy.html">6 Unique Ways to Be Successful and Happy:</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><em>Most people who want a lot out of life are their own worst enemy. They take themselves too seriously. Judge themselves too harshly. Expect too much out of themselves and others. If you can learn to let go of all your expectations, quit trying so hard to get somewhere, you&#8217;ll learn that just being you, present in this moment, is all that matters.</em></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Ouch! I can&#8217;t say I disagree, but no one addresses multi-talented trailblazers and unique thinkers who want to connect with the people, places, practices that benefit the most. It&#8217;s an <strong>exercise in patience</strong> anticipating a fruitful payoff through miles of grunt work. Losing weight. Fluency in a new language. Career changes. Raising a child.  Living with what were once ideal choices. The passage of time &#8211; which creates and ends certain opportunities. You may have your heart in one hand and a knife in the other because you don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re dealing with.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">People say they&#8217;ll do a, b, or c but you can never pin them down. There&#8217;s talk of community, but it skews like a popularity contest. Someone rejects you outright because they don&#8217;t like how you initiated contact. Others want to see you fail or continue flailing because they just do. Or maybe you come across a little punchy to those who really don&#8217;t understand what its like operating at a deficit because you don&#8217;t appear to be lacking anything. I&#8217;ve been told how I could have it worse. In fact, I already know I could have it worse&#8230;but I want BEST. Not less. Getting there feels like the longest marathon ever!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Victoria of <a href="http://www.sfgirlbybay.com/2013/04/12/pressures-of-social-media/">SFGirlByBay</a> blog shared a moment of real talk:</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #333333;"><em>so, here’s the thing i see and others i’ve been talking to are seeing too. i’m sure i’m not the first or will be the last to point this out, but life is not as perfect as it may appear in social media — on instagrams, pinterest or twitter or facebook. we are our own worst editors. predominantly, we’re not sharing the lousy days, or the piles of laundry, or mascara running down our faces because we’re sad, or lonely or just having a really crap day, week, or month. we’re putting out there this message that life is just so pretty and so perfect and here i am having yet another amazing time with all my many friends — lalalala. this is not reality. i mean, maybe it is for some, but it certainly isn’t always for me&#8230;</em></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve acquired knowledge that SHOWS me just how AMAZING life can be &#8212; and is for so many. Yet, is it accurate to look at others? We do need examples but we see how doing so can lead to our asking if we&#8217;re doing something wrong. OR if our fates are sealed by an unyielding God/Universe? Is it a fault or is it uncontrollable? That&#8217;s what <strong>I</strong> want to know. Because all the prosperity, positivity, obedience, letting go theories aside &#8212; who or what is really in control at the end of the day? You or circumstances? There&#8217;s a case for staying focused on higher priority thoughts that lead to action. Despite all of this bad things still happen.  Some people are just &amp;^%$#!!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>There&#8217;s a freedom in saying you don&#8217;t know why something&#8221;s off or when you&#8217;ve had enough</strong>. Being a &#8220;good&#8221; girl and model citizen feels rather meaningless. <em></em> You can&#8217;t be a hard rock when you really are a gem. Certain choices you wisely refused don&#8217;t seem so bad for others. The contradictions are more than annoying. They seem to make a mockery of any viable interpersonal progress you&#8217;ve advocated. We all have &#8216;dark night of the soul&#8217; moments. If we want something (or its equivalent) <strong>we can&#8217;t give up</strong>.</p>
<h3>404 Not Found</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The time for the ultimate in universal ultimatums is here: <span style="text-decoration: underline;">put up or shut up</span>. Then we should be free to decide if we can live within certain parameters. If our needs are meant to be met, life must rise to the occasion. I had an epiphany: Newton&#8217;s <em>Laws of Uniform Motion</em> have a metaphysical interpretation as well as scientific. I didn&#8217;t understand how I combined the two until I reviewed the laws for the first time since grade school &#8211; and it fits!</p>
<ul style="text-align: justify;">
<li>An object that is at rest will stay at rest unless an external force acts upon it.</li>
<li>An object that is in motion will not change its velocity unless an external force acts upon it.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">For lack of a better word, <em>ratchetness</em> will stay ratchet just like those in secure or lofty positions will remain humming. Unless something <strong>major</strong> disrupts it. How do you get <strong>inertia</strong> to propel forward if you are living between two extremes.Or circling them? Does <b>linear momentum</b> operate in a closed system pertaining to quality of life? Does inertia block real change for the good if &#8211;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;">OBSTACLE  </span>&gt;<strong>  you are in the middle of  both</strong> &lt; <span style="color: #000080;">OPPORTUNITY</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">&#8211; you&#8217;re pushing against both&#8230;..or is this yet another case where I&#8217;ve over-analyzed something? Nah, I think the ugly cry is needed to make room for the smiles to come. I&#8217;d like to have a few words with Moses and his mountaintop adventures. Back to LaPorte:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Sadness gives you the chance to be still with the most tender place of your being. </em><br clear="none" /><em> </em></p>
<p><em>Sadness is an opportunity to deeply appreciate your losses and your longings.</em></p>
<p><em>Appreciation is fuel for change. </em><br clear="none" /><em> </em></p>
<p><em>Love gives your sadness the energy it needs to move through you&#8230; so it can move on.</em></p>
<p><em>And <strong>freedom always follows truth</strong>.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Sometimes we need the preparation so luck happens!</p>
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		<title>Survival Of The Best-Prepared Rules The Day!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 11:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">There&#8217;s a post over at Mashable asking who could survive Doomsday. If you&#8217;re living or congregating in majority-black neighborhoods you&#8217;re in the midst of a Zombie invasion &#8212; and Michonne won&#8217;t be coming to save you.</p> <p style="text-align: justify;">For everyone else, imagine your worst-case scenario and do everything in your power to prevent [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;">There&#8217;s a post over at Mashable asking <a href="http://mashable.com/2013/03/24/doomsday-survival/">who could survive Doomsday</a>. If you&#8217;re living or congregating in majority-black neighborhoods you&#8217;re in the midst of a Zombie invasion &#8212; and Michonne won&#8217;t be coming to save you.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For everyone else, imagine your worst-case scenario and <strong>do everything in your power to prevent it</strong>.</p>
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		<title>Did You Take Your Happiness Shot Today?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;m Beta Testing the new site, &#8220;Happify&#8221; which offers scientific research and behavioral adjustments to diminish stress and hopefully give us coping mechanisms and a different outlook to feel more balanced&#160; and joyful overall. Well, that&#8217;s my take on it since I don&#8217;t believe in cure-alls (whether it be chemical additives, sex, religion, [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;m Beta Testing the new site, &#8220;<a href="www.happify.com/">Happify</a>&#8221; which offers scientific research and behavioral adjustments to diminish stress and hopefully give us coping mechanisms and a different outlook to feel more balanced&nbsp; and joyful overall. Well, that&#8217;s my take on it since I don&#8217;t believe in cure-alls (whether it be chemical additives, sex, religion, big-ticket consumer goods, a better-than-thou lifestyle or reckless thrill-seeking) or even think we&#8217;re supposed to be &#8220;happy&#8221; 24/7.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">There is no <em>universal</em> happiness in my opinion, because we are all individuals and wired differently. What satisfies one person, would incite another to jump off a cliff. Having support mechanisms in place help tremendously whether the person has a positive outlook or not. Biological and hormonal predispositions cannot be discarded either, nor the medicine that seeks to address some of these imbalances.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Since we seem to be operating under the assumption of free will and certain privileges being granted to us, then wouldn&#8217;t the logical progression be that we can be a fixed port during the storms of life&nbsp; to a certain extent? Ignoring certain active circumstances that can have a negative impact or offer great benefit would be too dogmatic.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span id="more-6173"></span>I <strong>do</strong> wish there was a magic ritual or formula that would guarantee a state of perpetual bliss. So it all comes full-circle in that we need to delve deep to figure out who we are, what we want and what we&#8217;re willing to sacrifice to get there within a time limit. Who we want to be, who will remain in our lives and how to make room for an &#8216;upgrade&#8217;. A dash of philosophical outlook with realism and finding practical solutions that work.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You will never discover your true self or reach true happiness by seeking approval and happiness outside of yourself. When you connect within to your true self, the happiness outside will come in no time and the approval and opinions of others will no longer be relevant.</p>
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<p>Graphic courtesy of <a href="https://www.facebook.com/livingfromtheinsideoutbelindaanderson"><em>Living From The Inside Out</em></a>.</p>
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		<title>Womanly Words Of Wisdom: Nina Simone</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 11:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">&#8220;Freedom is: No Fear!&#8221;</p> <p style="text-align: justify;">This might be pensive for those getting the a.m. feed, so watch it later when you can grab a quiet moment. You gotta admire songsmiths like Nina Simone, in one of her rare poignant moments on stage &#8211; after commanding respect of course!</p> <p>We do each have [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">This might be pensive for those getting the a.m. feed, so watch it later when you can grab a quiet moment. You gotta admire songsmiths like <strong>Nina Simone</strong>, in one of her rare poignant moments on stage &#8211; after commanding respect of course!</p>
<p>We <strong>do</strong> each have our own stories.</p>
<p>What do <strong>you</strong> show the world?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R96jRnBYymU">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R96jRnBYymU</a></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span id="more-6351"></span>Here Ms. Simone talks about channeling her talent to get people to feel and freeing them up to gain a different perspective. <strong>Expanding our human existence</strong> fuels the need to try drugs, adopt religions and many things to connect with others and find ourselves. Or we bury it in ways that diminish us. Let&#8217;s decide to be free instead!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Si5uW6cnyG4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Si5uW6cnyG4</a></p></p>
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		<title>Inspirational Quotes Series: C.S. Lewis</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">I loved books and reading growing up. I would walk one mile each way to the public library and  come back with as many as my lending limit allowed: 12 books. This was in addition to my required schoolwork. I didn&#8217;t mind because skilled wordsmiths allowed me to go on so many amazing [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p style="text-align: justify;">I loved books and reading growing up. I would walk one mile each way to the public library and  come back with as many as my lending limit allowed: 12 books. This was in <em>addition</em> to my required schoolwork. I didn&#8217;t mind because skilled wordsmiths allowed me to go on so many amazing journeys. I definitely count <em>The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe</em> as a lifelong favorite.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I don&#8217;t know how many of you have seen the film, <em>An Education</em> (which is all at once charming, disturbing and poignant), but the scene where David gets Jenny&#8217;s parents to agree to a weekend away at Oxford to meet &#8220;Clive&#8221; nee C.S. gets me every time.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Did you know C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien met and became friends while studying at Oxford? I wish the film adaptations for Narnia were as good as LOTH. What would the world be without Narnia and Middle Earth?  Luckily we won&#8217;t have to find out!</p>
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