A Christian sex toy can actually be allowable within a Christian relationship, if it abides by the following guidelines. Being that a Christian sex toy can be broad and fit many definitions, it is ultimately the couples decision whether to include a particular Christian sex toy into a relationship. But there are very important guidelines Christian couples should follow:

1. Safety. Christian couples should place safety into high regard when choosing to bring in a Christian sex toy. If it poses obvious harm to either individual, then it should not be used, and really should not be considered a Christian sex toy.

2. Must be a generic item. In other words there are some sex toys out there designed to look like another individual, or in some way are attached to another individuals identity, usually someone of fame or celebrity. Obviously this shouldn't be brought into a Christian couples sex practice as it mimicks the action of bringing a third party into the intimate practice of Christian sex, which should be a celebration between two people.

3. Must be an enhancer, not a worshiper. This refers to a Christian sex toy acting as an aid or enhancer in Christian sex, rather than serving as the centerpiece. A Christian couple shouldn't have to rely on an item to practice Christian sex. Rather they should only employ a Christian sex toy to enhance the practice of Christian sex. Worshiping an item and making it the center piece of intimacy should not be practiced.

A Christian sex toy can take many forms and has much variety. Researching the best Christian sex toy can be both fun and exciting, and a couple need only follow the simple guidelines above to ensure their Christian sex toy practice is sound.

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Delia

Dildos are a little daunting when you first get them out of their packaging. Most companies don't give you a manual on how to use the sex toy you have just bought. They just presume that you knwo where to "stick it". This is unfortunate because unless you know what you are doing you cannot feel the true benefit of owning a sex toy. As a result I have decided to put together a guide here to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience. It is not a step by step guide but will point you in the right direction.

1. Lubrication

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it very important to lubricate up. It is a common fallacy that a woman own natural lubricant will suffice, in fact quite often many materials of penetrative toys actually can absorb the women lubricant. Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital that she uses a lot of lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction that may need to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

2. In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a sex toy before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones. If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

3. Take it easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals that help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting tightness and tenderness. Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give the time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion. Remember that it is your toy girls you are in control and play around with your dildo. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals and your dildo then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then penetrate it really is a lot of fun.

4. Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again, let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric). Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

In Conclusion

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you. Remember girls practice makes perfect and the more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean you dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water, commercial sex toy cleaner or sterilize it (many dildo are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse you dildo and make sure it is properly dried. Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry, store in a dry and at room temperature. Then storing in a soft material in a drawer will be fine. Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged by faulty dildo. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

By: Holly Franklin

About the Author:

Colin

Why do some neutered male and spayed female dogs try to hump other dogs, toys and even humans?

Is it an unusual sex drive, a hormone deficiency or an over abundance of testosterone?

This is a question that has been puzzling me for some time as I have been in the company of small dogs that seem to have an incessant need to hump certain toys on a constant basis.

In trying to research this subject, I found very little concrete information as to why some dogs do this and others do not.

The only physical reason I could find was that there is a possibility that the dog is suffering from a condition in the genital area that is causing itching or is irritated. Of course, if that is the problem, the constant rubbing of the area on a toy, other dog or even a person just creates more irritation.

The thing to do here, is examine the genital area and if you see irritation, call your vet as he/she can prescribe medication to cure the problem, before it gets to be a habit,

The other possibility is that when the dog tried it once, for whatever reason, it felt good and since no one stopped the behavior, it ultimately became a habit too hard to break. But watching a dog perform its gyrations in front of small children or elderly adults seems to be a bit inappropriate.

Adolescent dogs have a great deal of testosterone, even the neutered ones and a visit to a dog park with all the wonderful smells that abound there, can get even the most calm dog excited.

Since conversation, holding hands or just plain lusting is not a dog’s way of handling its hormones, humping becomes a natural thing to do.

The problem with this “natural behavior” is humping in many cases is a show of dominance, a feeling of power and while I realize that, that can be a nice feeling, a dog can get carried away with it and force another dog into submission.

Forcing another dog into submission can have a profound effect on its personality. Dogs are social creatures and like their human counterparts need to feel good about themselves and their world.

A dog forced into submission by another dog in the Dog Park or anywhere else can easily become afraid of other dogs or suddenly change its personality and become the aggressor.

Socializing your puppy with dogs of both sexes can help orient your dog to sexual behavior that is attracted to the opposite sex; and not to same sex dogs, pillows, toys or humans.

Puppies in play and some adult dogs in play do hump each other.

It may be a show of dominance at that moment, but usually it is done as a part of whatever game they are playing.

What can you do if this mannerism has become a habit that is not only embarrassing to you, but could create an irritation for the dog?

Distraction is the “key word.” It matters not whether your dog is neutered or not. Dogs that are intact do not need to hump everything they see either.

If you are at the Dog Park and your dog is the main target for the day, a good way to stop the encounter is to train your dog to sit on cue. A sitting dog is not an acceptable target. This works for both males and females.

Female dogs learned this on their own, when they did not want to be bothered by adoring males.

If it is your dog that has discovered that humping is fun and you are not seeing the joy in it, your job is to become the distracter.

This will take patience on your part and time, especially since most of us are not on call for our dogs 24/7.

Removing the larger toys that can be humped will help, along with pillows and any other soft objects that appear to be attractive to your dog.

When you are home being watchful of your dog’s actions is the first prerequisite. Whenever your dog starts the action, distract it with a treat, a toy or a walk.

The humping is a habit and habits can be broken, after a few days of being distracted, the habit should become less and less noticeable and eventually will fade away.

Patience and determination are the prime requirements on your part, with distraction being the key element.

Good Luck.

By: Audrey Frederick

About the Author:

Yair

Adult Toys are a great way to experience new things in the bedroom. Most adult Novelties can provide direct stimulation and arousal, and many couples are turning to adult toys to help spice things up. Although some couples may feel embarrassed or uncomfortable using adult toys to help stimulate their love life, in reality experimenting with sex toys can actually create can openness between you and your partner. Using adult toys can help you experience new areas of arousal and pleasure together, and help you better understand how to please your partner. The main reason couples feel uncomfortable using sex toys together is because they have never used them before, its something unfamiliar. If you and your partner are ready to embark on a new, romantic, passionate adventure together these toys may be just what you need to get started.

Not only can these toys help couples become more open sexually with one another, sex toys are appealing because they are relatively inexpensive. Buying a toy is a one time purchase that can provide multiple opportunities of passion for you and your partner in the bedroom. Adult toys also come in a variety of sizes and models and can be used by the inexperienced and experienced alike. If you are new to the world of adult toys, do your research on the differences between products. You may chose to include your partner as you shop around for just the right adult toy, or you may chose to surprise him/her with your purchase.

If you and your partner are new to the world of adult toys, adult games, or enhancers, then start off slow. Make sure that whatever you try is something that you both feel comfortable trying. If one partner feels awkward or uncomfortable it will impact the overall experience of both people. Recognize that sex, like other qualities of your relationship, requires time and effort to keep things alive and going strong. Just as individuals change throughout time, you also have to adapt your sexuality and sensuality with the relationship. Being open to trying new things in the bedroom and being adaptable to change is just one way that your love life can grow and flourish.

Adult novelties are just one way that couples can enhance their relationship, other options include lubes, adult games, lingerie, and adult videos. A common misconception is that these enhancers are used to replace having a partner. And, while that may be true in some circumstances, it is certainly not always so. Remember that in order for a couple to grow their sexual relationship they must be open with each other, and be willing to understand what pleases their partner. Enhancers may simply be a way to help you and your partner get your sexual adventure started. If you have some experience using adult Novelties then you already know the benefits that come from using them. If you are new to the world of adult toys then the adventure is ahead of you!

By: Dee Asay

About the Author:

Barrett

Even if you have an active sex life together with your partner, you and your partner might be looking for more exciting techniques to heat up at night in your bed. There are a lot of ways to satisfy your partner, by using different techniques such as using sex toys.

One of the most popular sex gadgets is the vibrating cock ring. This kind of sex toy can actually make you sizzle through the night. Because of its very unique function of combining two sex gadgets in one. This specialized sex toy is a combination of a vibrator and a cock ring. By having this vibrating cock ring, you can experience two sensations with just one sex gadget.

For those people who are newbies in using this kind of sex toy, this vibrating cock ring is just right for you. You do not have to be a skilled sex addict to be able to use this toy. Once the vibrating cock ring is in the right place and turned on, the only thing for you to do is have sex. Applying this ring just as simple as putting on your sock.

Just simply pull the ring up with your fingers just like a rubber band. Pull it over around the penis and your ball until it is properly placed. Just relax and don't put on added tension, let the ring slowly contract into its original size. Compared to other vibrators, vibrating cock rings do not need the use of your hands, making your hands free to stroke and massage your partner during the sexual intercourse.

If you do not want to spend much on a sex toy, choose a vibrating cock ring. Most cock rings are made up of silicon making it more affordable than others. Plus it is easier to clean, use and it is rechargeable. You can play with your vibrating cock ring to maximize your pleasure. Experimenting on how to use it is a nice thing to do during your sexual activity.

It has a rubbery material, so you cannot avoid instances wherein your pubic hair may stick unto the rubber. You can simply avoid this irritating situation by making sure that your genitals are properly lubricated. When taking off your ring you have to carefully pull it to avoid damaging your pubic hair.

Always make sure that your hands are dry before putting it on. You may lose your grip of the ring, because of its rubbery material. Different positions can have different effects on the cock ring. Be sure to go on one position to the other one at a time. Just by rotating the cock ring you can create a different new position. By doing this you can provide greater stimulation on your scrotum and perineum area. You can add a more intense sensation on your penis.

These cock rings are not only design for men and women, lesbian and gay can also used it for more exciting sexual intercourse. Enjoy the unique experience of this sex toy and make your partner scream for more.

By: Sam W. John

About the Author:

Jonathon

Improving Christian sex should be of top priority if it is in need of repair in your relationship. Couples can easily lose focus of just how important sex can and should be in a Christian relationship. Here's tips for improving Christian sex:

1. Learn the Rules!

If your intimacy is suffering due to the confusion of what is allowable within a Christian relationship, then take immediate action to learn the rules. You will likely be pleasantly surprised at all the options available for intimacy within a Christian relationship.

There's a misconception that certain positions or practices are seen as sinful, when in fact there are many Christians who have confirmed that what really is allowable is much more than previously believed.

2. Add a Christian sex toy to the mix!

Now a Christian sex toy can be something very simple such as erotic oils or lotions. And in fact, usually the simpler the better. Once you bring in a more complex intimacy toy, you run the risk of relying on it too much, and it then becomes a crutch.

You want something simple and subtle, such as erotic oils. These can be the perfect addition to add variety, and thus greatly improving Christian intimacy.

3. Learn new positions and pleasuring techniques.

This is the ultimate way to bring an increased level of pleasure and satisfaction to your intimacy. If improving Christian sex is to be accomplished, it has to include adding variety to the mix.

There are so many exciting and pleasurable ways to celebrate the intimacy between you and your partner. And they all can be "Christian safe". The key to finding new techniques is to research a manual which was specifically geared towards Christian couples (and preferably written by a Christian man or woman). This way you'll learn all the intimate and erotic tips available for Christian intimacy, and will be able to apply them immediately!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Jorden

Toys aren’t just for kids anymore. And with the vast array of sex toys that are being made and created for adults, there’s no reason for you to not find something that pleases you—in so very many ways.

Talking about sex

The trick with talking about sex and things that you’d like to do in order to improve your sex life is to not bring it up right after or right before you’re actually doing the ‘deed.’

You want to find a time that’s outside of the bedroom and unrushed. Talk in a secluded corner of a restaurant or in your kitchen. Stay out of the bedroom for the moment. You don’t want to cause any undue pressure and scare him or her away.

Be honest and open about what you’ve been thinking about. Are you thinking about trying some new toys in general or do you want to share some finds with your partner? Talk about the benefits that you’ve discovered, and see what their feelings are as well. They may be perfectly open to trying something new.

But if they aren’t, then you may want to avoid putting any pressure on them. See if you can discuss it further down the road, and let them initiate anything further.

When they’ve said yes

When your partner has agreed to try some things out, don’t jump up and down (wait until they’re gone for that), but start the conversation about things that sound like fun.

Many times, going onto an Internet site together is the best way to look without pressure or embarrassment. Not that there’s any reason for you to be embarrassed, but someone who is new can feel very vulnerable and timid. The anonymity of online can be very helpful. There are also user reviews many times as well as pictures.

There are many websites on the web to get you started on the road to pleasure. Look for the REAL user reviews as well as the great pictures. You’ll be sure to see something that you like, or something you’d like to try out. With the clear menus and thousands upon thousands of options, you’re sure to be caught looking for hours.

Online shopping gives you anonymity and discreetness. And without a salesperson or clerk looking over your shoulder, you can take your time and really pick out what you want. There’s no one trying to force you into buying something because they need a commission.

Starting off

One of the first forays into sex toys is usually a vibrator or dildo for a woman. Many women can not climax with just penetration or they need something to fill up the lonely days. Vibrators are terrific because not only can they stimulate vaginally, but they can also be used on the clitoris as well.

And although it seems like there aren’t as many toys for men, you just have to look a little harder. Why not try out a penis pump or a penis ring? Both of these can create an overwhelming sensation in the sensitive penis tip. Rings in general work by creating a sense of sensory deprivation, so that the man can ‘last longer’ until the opportune moment.

These can be especially difficult to purchase in person, especially if you’re a newbie. Try an online site to scope out the choices before settling on one penis toy or another.

A little more advanced

If you’re tried the vibrators and the penis toys, then you’re ready to venture into other areas. Anal play is something that many couples would like to try, but they’re not quite sure how to begin.

Anal beads can be a great way to give an added sense of stimulation during any other sexual acts. Of course, dildos and vibrators can also be used for this purpose, but these can be overly large and difficult for the beginner. Start off small and use a lot of lubricant to help with the beginning stages.

Tying it all up

And of course, there are always the non-mechanical toys for couples. Bondage play is a popular way to heighten the orgasm experience. By restraining one of the members of the couple, the other can taunt for hours if they want to.

With bondage however, you will want to start simple and work your way to more advanced restraint applications.

You might like to try a blindfold ,arm guards, collar and leash play or some effective looking accessories to make you look AND feel the part!

When it comes to toys, your imagination is your best guide. Talk about your fantasies and see how you might be able to make them come true. And do a little online voyeurism, who knows where that will lead when you’re done shopping?

By: Iris Emery

About the Author:

Emely

Sex toys are not invented for nothing. Till these days, there are still couple rejecting the idea of using sex toys when they are making love. Sex toys are actually a very useful tool to help spice up the sex life between you and your partner.

By using sex toys when you are making love with your partner, you can help create that extra sparks and fun in it. So what are some sex toys that you can consider introducing into your sex life?

1. Whip and handcuffs. These toys are great when both of you want to enjoy some play acting and erotic sexual experiences. One activity that you can do with these toys is to tie your partner onto the bed post with your handcuffs, and then using the whip on your partner.

2. Poker cards and board games. There are a lot of erotic board games and strip pokers out there. By playing some board games or poker before both of you get into the real action; it can help create anticipation between both of you. Therefore while both of you are playing the games, your minds will be thinking about sex, which will definitely leads to a passionate sex later on.

3. A vibrator. This is the most common sex toy in the market. The man can use the vibrator on the woman to locate her G-Spot. If you are adventurous enough, you can film your woman, while she is masturbating with the vibrator.

Sex toys are being categorized between Beginner and Advanced. The sex toys listed above are considered beginner toys. Try exploring them. Once your partner and you feel that both of you have passed the Beginner stage, move on and explore those advanced toys on the market.

By: Crid Lee

About the Author:

Ayana

If you are new lovers, introducing sex toys can be as uncomfortable as meeting her parents for the first time. What should you get? How should you introduce them? How to broach the subject? Here is a list of the top most popular sex toys for new lovers-simple enough to provide pleasure, unobtrusive enough to not scare her off.

The least intense introductory sex toy is not actually a toy at all, but a great way to approach the subject none the less. Massage lotions and personal lubricants, along with low lights, candles, and a romantic song on the CD player can open the door for more adventurous play later. Many of these are aromatherapy driven, and as everyone knows, smell is the strongest and most sensual of the senses. The addition of liquid pheromones can heighten erotic sensations for the both of you.

If all goes well, the next step up is couples sex play board games. These typically consist of card games that resemble the old "spin the bottle" ploy used on you as a teenager, but some are more intricate, containing items such as furry cuffs and light bondage equipment. If this is still a little too much, you can get something as simple as sexy dice which have suggestions for sexual positions, etc on them instead of numbers.

Next up is a variety of dildos and vibrators. She may have plenty of experience with vibrators, but hasn't experienced the pleasure of you using one with her. Keep introductory vibrators and dildos simple, if you pull one out that resembles a sea urchin you will probably have her running for the next bus. Stay away from butt plugs and harnesses for now, but anal beads might be okay.

If you've gotten through the first stages and are ready to move on to more adventurous sex toys, you may want to try some bondage. Please read up on it first, as it is easy to accidentally hurt each other if you are unfamiliar with the equipment or the use of safety words. Simple restraints may be enough, but you might want to try nipple clamps, spanking, or just get a beginner's fantasy kit, which includes a little of everything for the budding bondage enthusiast.

And finally, you may very well just get to the place where the two of you want to get really kinky. For this, you can purchase outrageous plastic cocks and huge fake fists. Or maybe you'd be interested in double-headed dildos for insertion into both her vagina and anus. You can even get ones that insert one end into his anus and the other into her vagina. Advanced BDSM collections include handcuffs, masks, and suspension gear.

Please remember that it is necessary to take proper care of all sex toys, making sure they are cleaned soon after each use and kept in a place where they will not become contaminated.

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By: Iris Emery

About the Author:

Chelsea

Coming up with sex ideas for you and your partner should be a healthy and exciting part of your relationship. It should be fun and adventurous coming up with new ways to experience intimacy with one another. Here are some wonderful ideas to experience sexual intimacy to the fullest!

1. Sex toys!

This can range from simple erotic lotions or oils to actual intimacy massagers or ticklers. There are a variety of different toys you can discover that will add fun, variety, and experimentation to your intimacy. Sex toys can play an important role in throwing in that needed aspect of variety to your intimate relationship. Be open with one another and explore your sex toy options for fun and variety!

2. Surprises, strip teases, and erotic evenings!

Nothing can top sexual surprises to really heat up your intimacy. This can include sexy strip teases or new sexy lingerie surprises. You can set up romantic and erotic evenings which will impress and really turn on your partner. Simply "setting the mood" is an excellent sex idea as it can increase eroticism and intimacy ten fold!

3. Sex Guides, New positions, New techniques!

A surefire way to explore sexual intimacy with your partner is through a sex guide or sex manual which will provide dozens, if not hundreds of ideas to heat things up and add enormous and exciting variety to your sex life. This is an easy way you can practice new sex ideas immediately and repeatedly. Just refer to the guide whenever variety or new sex ideas are needed and you'll find interesting position ideas, plus techniques and tricks for an intimate, erotic experience!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Rebekah