i really do hope there are better ways…

2008-07-26T03:22:00-05:00

Sister (on phone): Hey

Me: Hey

Sister: What’s up?

Me: Nothin, home alone on a Friday nite

Sister: What u going to do?

Me: Dunno, watch a sappy movie and feel even more loserish

Sister: Hmm why don’t u watch the queen?

Me: Because I don’t want to bore myself to death

Sister: Why not?

Me: I just don’t think its a good way to go

Speedlinking & Happy Friday!

2008-07-25T11:12:00-05:00

Curious about who else I met at BlogHer? – Kerry, who rescued me from looking like a total loser as I was sitting all alone on a table having breakfast, Amber, who generously let me use her laptop in the session when mine just refused to work, Adele and Caroline, who made having dinner at the airport totally fun, Ana, a content editor who forgot her business cards but gave out great little paper ones, the lovely Jennifer, Yvonne, Elizabeth, Vivien (at least these are all I could remember, or have business cards for!)

Updated to add (and I don’t know how I forgot!) that I also saw Wendy, who recognized me, and came to say hi to me!!! And made my sister very impressed, both that she said hi to me, and by her as well because Wendy truly, truly is an AWESOME person!

I desperately tried to meet Mrs. Flinger, but it clearly was not meant to be, sadly. But, do check out her ExpressionEngine case study, and do consider Catapult for your business website needs!

Cakes has a really wonderful post up about kids and chores, I think it’s a must-read!

Very helpful advice on monetizing your blog from Char.

Is it just me, or does everyone feel crappy today???

San-fran-cis-co!

2008-07-23T22:52:00-05:00

The best part of the conference was being part of the panel that I was a part of, and meeting my co-panelists. I really enjoyed the whole experience, and especially the opportunity to answer how-to questions… I never realized how “high” it makes me to talk about code! Almost every conversation I had at the conference (and even at the airport), involved the words “WordPress”, and “this is what you need to do”, and I LOVED it! Also, the women on my panel, Michelle, Melanie and Nelly were exceptional company, and I had a wonderful time getting to know them and presenting with them, they were incredibly supportive and knowledgeable!

I have at least one fan, who said I was “scarily smart”, although I would have just stopped at “scary”, because that is how I looked in the photo she took of me, but since she wrote the best review of our panel, I just had to share it with you!

I started evaluating how soon I could leave. But the first break-out session advertised itself as technical so I thought I’d stick around for that one. Glad I did. It was worth my price of admission alone. In the first 20 minutes. Between the three uber-techie CyberGals who led it, I figure I gleaned enough good technical tips and links to cool blogging tools that I saved myself weeks of research and months of tears. Then we broke out further into platform-based subgroups. There Tech Goddess Shazia Mistry gave me enough information about Wordpress (the platform I’ve been meaning to migrate to for six months) that I’m getting that done by next week.

Thank you Blue State Cowgirl, and good luck with your WordPress move!

The best part of my trip was spending time with my sister, who, ~~I begged and begged~~ graciously volunteered to accompany me on this trip so that I won’t look like a lone loser! Although my sister and I live in the same house, it’s been years since we’ve had the opportunity to hang out together, and it was really, really great to be able to do that. However, I am sure that there were times when she regretted her decision, like, for example, when we spent 8 hours at the airport in Chicago, where our flight got canceled after spending 2 1/2 hours on a plane without air conditioning!

I did eventually feed her!

Or when I talked about widgets and plugins, and presenting at BlogHer! for the millionth time, even though it was about midnight!

Or when we finally arrived at the hotel in San Francisco, at 1am, about 22 hours after leaving Toronto, and it turned out to be sort of scary (we did move to the Westin that day though, so I redeemed myself!) Or when I started calling her “princess”, because, people, she clearly believes she is a princess! Really, though, I don’t have words for how much it’s meant to me to have my sister be there for me in the past few months – I am sure that there is no way I would be functioning normally right now without her support.

The best part of San Francisco were these kids playing drums, I was unbelievably fascinated by them, the sound was awesome… truly awesome… we stood there for a very long time mesmerized almost by them!

And of course, the mall, because I kinda (secretly) love really large malls (do you think less of me now??)

I’ll be honest, the only reason I went to this conference was because I was asked to be on a panel, and I didn’t attend any sessions besides the one that I was a part of. Not that I have anything against it, and I did enjoy it, but it’s just not my thing – and by that I mean, I am not a screaming, ohmygodohmygodohmygod, kind of person, in fact, I think I might have felt more comfortable in a room of 1000 men, than 1000 women – it was very LOUD and sort of made me want to run back to my hotel room. I did, though, love meeting people that I connect with through my blog, albeit few, and I loved meeting people that I have been reading for a long time and really enjoy and respect.

I must give a special shout-out to Shannon, who came up to me in the lobby of the hotel to talk WordPress, and then, somehow we ended up sharing our souls!

It was a lot like high school – you really must go with your crew, your “peeps”, your buddies, your girls, your tribe – unless you are extremely extroverted it will be hard to find “friends”... I am neither extroverted, nor introverted, nor am I a loner, but I have 1) commitment issues, and 2) abandonment issues (is that the same thing?), I don’t really look for “friends”, so I really had no problem with the atmosphere of “if I don’t know you or recognize you, I am not speaking to you”, but for anyone that expects everyone to be your best friend – that ain’t going to happen – and I think a lot of people discovered this at last year’s conference and managed to have a much better time this year because that expectation was not there.

Would I go next year? Only if I can participate on a panel again, or if I can share my knowledge with others, otherwise, no, but I knew that going in – I actually had a better time than I expected. I must specially mention that the organizers, BlogHer founders and their team did an AMAZING job – this was no ordinary conference – it was actually quite spectacular, and is such an amazing example of “women power”, I am awed by their dedication and accomplishment. If you have the chance to go, you really should, at least once (better with a friend though), it is worth the price of admission, it truly is something that should be experienced.

Back in the day…

2008-07-23T11:10:00-05:00

My sister gave me this CD with some songs from waaaaaaaaaaaaay back, so I thought I would share one with you, so, you know, you would know what I listened to as a teenager!

Too brain-dead to think of a witty title, or even a non-witty title for that matter

2008-07-22T11:53:00-05:00

Did you ever wonder to yourself, say, as you’re entering your office building, if you got dressed in the dark? Yeah, me neither, I always look good! Even when I wear stuff that really should not be worn, and looks like maybe I didn’t do laundry in about 2 months and just threw on whatever clean articles of clothing that I had left…

So, what are you wearing?

Adventures in Motherhood by Shaz

i really do hope there are better ways…

Speedlinking & Happy Friday!

San-fran-cis-co!

Back in the day…

Too brain-dead to think of a witty title, or even a non-witty title for that matter