Comments for Interracial Dating Blog http://www.afroromance.com/blog Because love knows no color! Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:11:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 Comment on Interracial dating and M&Ms by Amorousvie http://www.afroromance.com/blog/interracial-dating-and-mms.htm#comment-34255 Amorousvie Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:15:04 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/interracial-dating-and-mms.htm#comment-34255 LOL, loved it! LOL, loved it!

]]> Comment on Gold-diggers or downright realistic? by lizzy2005 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/gold-diggers-or-downright-realistic.htm#comment-34247 lizzy2005 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 13:00:50 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/gold-diggers-or-downright-realistic.htm#comment-34247 As mentioned by other members women can be higher wage earners than the guy. In the past when I used to go out on a date often the conversation would turn to occupation and salary. If the guy was earning less than me he would make some idiotic comment such as that I must feel really lucky to be in my position. Why lucky? I have worked hard to get where I am in my life. Anyway to the case in point. There are male gold diggers too. I was married to one. Alas it took me a long time to realise that my trust in my husband was misplaced. He was secrectly withdawing money from my bank account which I thought we were saving for the birth of our daughter. After splitting up I found myself to be thousands of pounds in debt due to loans etc he had taken out in my name. As mentioned by other members women can be higher wage earners than the guy.
In the past when I used to go out on a date often the conversation would turn to occupation and salary. If the guy was earning less than me he would make some idiotic comment such as that I must feel really lucky to be in my position. Why lucky? I have worked hard to get where I am in my life.
Anyway to the case in point. There are male gold diggers too. I was married to one. Alas it took me a long time to realise that my trust in my husband was misplaced. He was secrectly withdawing money from my bank account which I thought we were saving for the birth of our daughter. After splitting up I found myself to be thousands of pounds in debt due to loans etc he had taken out in my name.

]]> Comment on Why he is “small” by oldschool56 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/why-he-is-small.htm#comment-34230 oldschool56 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 04:33:57 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/why-he-is-small.htm#comment-34230 @luna.bean.....AMEN!! @luna.bean…..AMEN!!

]]> Comment on Gold-diggers or downright realistic? by oldschool56 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/gold-diggers-or-downright-realistic.htm#comment-34229 oldschool56 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 04:24:55 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/gold-diggers-or-downright-realistic.htm#comment-34229 @Whurr..I guess there has to be one to ruin good blogs. Your responses are good for a laugh I cant see any woman taking you seriously on or offline. @takinitall...I like what you have to say. Its true about men thinking their worth is measured by their wallets and then they meet a woman who would enhance their potential (PBW) instead of dragging it down (the sexy,happy-hour, admin assit,intern lol)and want to just pass her by. In todays world where it takes two incomes to stay above water, PBW should be just what he needs. @Whurr..I guess there has to be one to ruin good blogs. Your responses are good for a laugh I cant see any woman taking you seriously on or offline.

@takinitall…I like what you have to say. Its true about men thinking their worth is measured by their wallets and then they meet a woman who would enhance their potential (PBW) instead of dragging it down (the sexy,happy-hour, admin assit,intern lol)and want to just pass her by. In todays world where it takes two incomes to stay above water, PBW should be just what he needs.

]]> Comment on Are mixed race children better looking? by Kaios http://www.afroromance.com/blog/are-mixed-race-children-better-looking.htm#comment-34182 Kaios Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:27:21 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/are-mixed-race-children-better-looking.htm#comment-34182 To be Mixed race is a gift. Coming from and young proud mixed race man. Interacial mixing is a fact of life! Wether you like it or not different races will mix now and in the future, this is the natural order of things. The idea of having a pure race is impossible unless you can accept incest. A pure race would have to envolve inter family breeding, first cousins ext. The product of this can be found in plan view in various parts of the Pakistani community where birth defects are common! Being Mixed race is both a blessing and in some quaters a curse. Looking at the negatives, i have personaly been told that i am to black to be white and to white to be black! So where does this leave me?? Stuck in the middle and largely rejectd by both sides,to black to be white and to white to be black. A struggle to be socially accepted..... Maybe 20 or even 10 years ago but not now. Things have changed due to the high increase of inter race relations, so much so that it is ALMOST the norm. Now looking at the positives. Genetically mixed race people are extrodinary. In brazil (The world largest Gene mixng pool) you will find that in the richer parts 95% of the population are White. In the flavelas the poorest parts of Brazil 100% of the population are Mixed in some way. Studies showed that the Mixed population of the Slums where far less likely to surcome to mental illness then the white populaton of the richer areas. FACT!!! My parents are italian and Cuban, i live in great britain. Only 2% of britains population are mixed, oddly 30% of Englands national soccer team are mixed race. Faster, stronger and more athletic. This can only be good for the future of civilization. To be Mixed race is a gift. Coming from and young proud mixed race man. Interacial mixing is a fact of life! Wether you like it or not different races will mix now and in the future, this is the natural order of things. The idea of having a pure race is impossible unless you can accept incest. A pure race would have to envolve inter family breeding, first cousins ext. The product of this can be found in plan view in various parts of the Pakistani community where birth defects are common!

Being Mixed race is both a blessing and in some quaters a curse. Looking at the negatives, i have personaly been told that i am to black to be white and to white to be black! So where does this leave me?? Stuck in the middle and largely rejectd by both sides,to black to be white and to white to be black. A struggle to be socially accepted….. Maybe 20 or even 10 years ago but not now. Things have changed due to the high increase of inter race relations, so much so that it is ALMOST the norm.

Now looking at the positives. Genetically mixed race people are extrodinary. In brazil (The world largest Gene mixng pool) you will find that in the richer parts 95% of the population are White. In the flavelas the poorest parts of Brazil 100% of the population are Mixed in some way. Studies showed that the Mixed population of the Slums where far less likely to surcome to mental illness then the white populaton of the richer areas. FACT!!!

My parents are italian and Cuban, i live in great britain. Only 2% of britains population are mixed, oddly 30% of Englands national soccer team are mixed race. Faster, stronger and more athletic. This can only be good for the future of civilization.

]]> Comment on Best reason to avoid first date sex by Koko_10 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/best-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex.htm#comment-34134 Koko_10 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 02:02:09 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/best-reason-to-avoid-first-date-sex.htm#comment-34134 I agree with vivacious1.. after months of talking online and by phone. The first date is with a person you know more than just a random stranger on the street. Protect yourself and do what's best for you. I agree with vivacious1.. after months of talking online and by phone. The first date is with a person you know more than just a random stranger on the street. Protect yourself and do what’s best for you.

]]> Comment on Effects of interracial marriages on children by Ravi http://www.afroromance.com/blog/effects-of-interracial-marriages-on-children.htm#comment-34131 Ravi Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:55:21 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/effects-of-interracial-marriages-on-children.htm#comment-34131 I am Indian man who marry white woman. We have 2 daughters that don't look Indian and they don't accept Indian culture. I am torn because I love my Indian culture but my daughters love only White culture. I am Indian man who marry white woman. We have 2 daughters that don’t look Indian and they don’t accept Indian culture. I am torn because I love my Indian culture but my daughters love only White culture.

]]> Comment on Interracial dating: Is this where we at? by WHURR http://www.afroromance.com/blog/interracial-dating-is-this-where-we-at.htm#comment-34110 WHURR Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:48:02 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/interracial-dating-is-this-where-we-at.htm#comment-34110 @Homesteader Ehhhh... nothing I said was misogynistic. The weakest argument against making comments towards others comments is misogyny. When a woman makes a comment and a man has a rebuttal, is this the new 'race card'? Lets all cry 'misogyny'. Give me a break. Don't post generalizations about someone if you don't want them to make a rebuttal back. When I see my name, I clearly have an opinion as well and it will be posted. I made a joke regarding someone's comments about liking how 'white men express themselves during sex'. The comment was quoted. I always use quotes from others. I made an obvious joke! I was then labeled to be a 'red flag' by OLDSCHOOL. Because I used LOTUSLOVES exact words, I had some comments to say to her regarding that. She openly talked about dating a man who was 27 years younger than her. As most people who read that winced, I openly commented on that. So I not only winced with everyone else, but I commented You can be 'Mr . Chivalrous' and try to use the same generic comments that you want. The fact is I say it like I see it. YOU DATING AN 84 YEAR OLD WHEN YOU WERE 50??? THAT IS WAYYYYY MORE PERVERSE THAN HER!! "When I was 50 years old , I dated a Ladie 84 years old " <---- by far the grossest comment I have seen on this website in years!! @Homesteader

Ehhhh… nothing I said was misogynistic.

The weakest argument against making comments towards others comments is misogyny. When a woman makes a comment and a man has a rebuttal, is this the new ‘race card’? Lets all cry ‘misogyny’.

Give me a break. Don’t post generalizations about someone if you don’t want them to make a rebuttal back. When I see my name, I clearly have an opinion as well and it will be posted.

I made a joke regarding someone’s comments about liking how ‘white men express themselves during sex’. The comment was quoted. I always use quotes from others. I made an obvious joke!

I was then labeled to be a ‘red flag’ by OLDSCHOOL. Because I used LOTUSLOVES exact words, I had some comments to say to her regarding that.

She openly talked about dating a man who was 27 years younger than her. As most people who read that winced, I openly commented on that. So I not only winced with everyone else, but I commented

You can be ‘Mr . Chivalrous’ and try to use the same generic comments that you want. The fact is I say it like I see it.

YOU DATING AN 84 YEAR OLD WHEN YOU WERE 50???

THAT IS WAYYYYY MORE PERVERSE THAN HER!!

“When I was 50 years old , I dated a Ladie 84 years old ” <—- by far the grossest comment I have seen on this website in years!!

]]> Comment on Is oral sex more intimate? by SnazzyBella http://www.afroromance.com/blog/is-oral-sex-more-intimate.htm#comment-34108 SnazzyBella Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:42:28 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/is-oral-sex-more-intimate.htm#comment-34108 Its the most intimate exchange a couple can have. And one that i believe too many people indulge in lightly. Its the most intimate exchange a couple can have. And one that i believe too many people indulge in lightly.

]]> Comment on Is black and white so hypnotic? by Linda2009 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/is-black-and-white-so-hypnotic.htm#comment-34105 Linda2009 Mon, 02 Nov 2009 16:56:44 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/blog/is-black-and-white-so-hypnotic.htm#comment-34105 wow...where was i when all this was going on...these are some deep revealing things that each one of us is bringing to the table.Bt i for one love caucasian men i have never dated a black man they just don't do it for me...some call this racist or am a sell out,...infact i had one african american woman call me a black gorilla , that i should go back to the cage i came frm , my crime dating a caucasian man, having lots of caucasian women as friends....now this is plainn ignorant.Bt i did cry and felt sorry for her and her children then i called the cops and charged her with verbal abuse just coz i could.....people esp. african americans just need to grow up!!!! wow…where was i when all this was going on…these are some deep revealing things that each one of us is bringing to the table.Bt i for one love caucasian men i have never dated a black man they just don’t do it for me…some call this racist or am a sell out,…infact i had one african american woman call me a black gorilla , that i should go back to the cage i came frm , my crime dating a caucasian man, having lots of caucasian women as friends….now this is plainn ignorant.Bt i did cry and felt sorry for her and her children then i called the cops and charged her with verbal abuse just coz i could…..people esp. african americans just need to grow up!!!!

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