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		<title>Why We Feel Shame Around the Holidays</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Dec 2018 00:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a link to my latest for Psychology Today, about how cultural imaging of the ideal Christmas can inspire shame in those of us whose lives don&#8217;t look like a Hallmark card. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shame/201812/why-we-feel-shame-around-the-holidays</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/why-we-feel-shame-around-the-holidays/">Why We Feel Shame Around the Holidays</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>Shame for the Person You Used to Be</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2016 21:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>W.R. Bion, a British psychoanalyst who worked with psychotic and schizophrenic patients, identified a difficult transition point in their treatment. As psychotic process gradually gave way to the reality principle &#8212; that is, as his clients became more sane &#8212; they would have to confront the pain of how ill they had been before. This [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/shame-for-the-person-you-used-to-be/">Shame for the Person You Used to Be</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>Australia-New Zealand edition of TNYK</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2015 14:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[The Psychotherapy Relationship]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>My book is now available in Australia and New Zealand through Pan Macmillan. Like the UK edition, this one differs from the one released by Touchstone in North America and conforms to different libel and defamation laws in those countries. Order in Paperback Order eBook on iTunes Order eBook on Amazon.com.au</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/anz/">Australia-New Zealand edition of TNYK</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Father&#8217;s Gaze</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2015 18:42:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I have a memory of my father from when I was about seven years old. Whether it is factually accurate, it is emotionally true. My mother was in Texas at the time following the death of her mother. My other grandmother, my fatherâ€™s mother, had come to stay with us because he didnâ€™t cook, clean, [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/fathers-gaze/">The Father&#8217;s Gaze</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>Snow White at the Dwarf Colony</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2015 18:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Now that the release of The Narcissist You Know is behind me, I&#8217;ve turned my attention back to fiction. I&#8217;m pleased to announce the release of a new work on the Kindle platform, a novella-length retelling of Snow White in the same psychological vein as my earlier Cinderella. Both novellas explore the themes I write [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/snow-white/">Snow White at the Dwarf Colony</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>U.K. Edition of The Narcissist You Know</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2015 17:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>For readers in the United Kingdom and continental Europe who can&#8217;t purchase the Touchstone edition of The Narcissist You Know, I&#8217;ve brought out a different version under my New Rise Press imprint. This edition, identical to the one released by Pan Macmillan in Australia, can be purchased via Amazon.co.uk by clicking on the links below. [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/narcissist-uk/">U.K. Edition of The Narcissist You Know</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Risks of Joy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joseph Burgo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2015 14:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Defense Mechanisms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Shame/Narcissism]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This past week, one of my clients returned from an exotic vacation and told me heâ€™d felt almost nothing during the trip. He took no pleasure in any of his adventurous activities, and when there was a guide involved, my client felt preoccupied with the impression he was making upon the other person rather than [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/the-risks-of-joy/">The Risks of Joy</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.afterpsychotherapy.com">After Psychotherapy</a>.</p>
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