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Find Out Who Is Calling Your Teenage Daughter

2009-03-14T22:11:00.000-07:00

The other day, I was listening to a friend talk about her daughter's cell phone usage. The phone seems to be attached to the girl's hand. Texts and calls come night and day. How do you know who is calling, the nice kid next door or someone more sinister? My friend is a vigilant parent and checks her child's cell phone regularly, but didn't know how to find out to whom the numbers belong.

I suggested she use a reverse cell lookup to find out exactly who was calling. Reverse cell lookups are internet sites with huge data bases of millions of cell phone numbers. Simply enter a phone number and, with a couple of clicks of the mouse, you can have the caller's name and information.

There are two kinds of reverse cell lookup sites, free sites and paid sites. In my research, I have discovered that the free sites usually have basic information. On these sites, you maybe will get the area where the phone was activated. This doesn't help much. On a paid site, you can, for a nominal fee, have the caller's name and all kinds of other information. Most paid sites will offer options for payment. Usually, you have your choice of a one time fee or unlimited lookups for 1 year.

Here's how it works: Go to the site, enter the number, pick your payment option, and voila! You now know to whom the unidentified number belongs. I hope it's that nice kid from next door.

It is my opinion that the paid sites work the best. The small yearly fee pays for itself in peace of mind.

Source : ezinearticles.com

Are You the Woman He Can't SEE Himself Without?

2009-01-08T07:06:00.000-08:00

If you've been frustrated with the way your relationships have been in the past or the way it seems to be going now, there's hope.

We often hold ourselves to a certain standard and these expectations can cause us to create disappointments in our lives.

You may have a certain pattern with men and want to change how you relate. You may have chatted with your girlfriends about wanting MORE from your relationships and deep on the inside you want to know how to naturally charm a man and have him commit to you.

It starts with making a decision to get really serious about YOU. There's no time like starting the new year off with a deeper commitment to yourself. The more committed you are to yourself, the more irresistible you will be to men.

Men are turned on by women who are loyal to themselves because it shows that they are self-sufficient. The funny thing...when you are more into you, you communicate that you are not making him responsible for your happiness. Men love to be needed but when you do not NEED a man to make you happy, he'll find you far more attractive.

It is an air of being a happy independent yet available chick that men gravitate towards. When you can trigger a man's inner world by remaining a little out of reach, it will build an amazing romantic tension that will cause him to beg and beg for more. Add a dynamic personality with a sassy sense of humor and he'll be floored for good.

Source: ezinearticles.com

Tips to Avoid Having Debt This Holiday Season

2008-12-27T17:31:00.000-08:00

Because holiday season is here, there are a lot of reasons why we cannot avoid spending more which can cause our cash out increase and even possibly put as in debt, but we can avoid such excessive cash out and debt if we plan ahead every action that we made.

Here are few tips on how we can limit our cash out and debt this holiday season

1. Have a separate budget this holiday season and limit your finances on what’s the most essential to have.

2. Make a short list of what to buy before going into shopping, just stay within the budget when making a list.

3. Get to know first the price of the items you want to purchase and compare it if it is within the limit budget.

4. When going into shopping use cash card or debit card. Avoid using credit card, it would be better to leave your credit cards at home to avoid over using it outside the budget.

5. Avoid buying gift wrap that are expensive, instead use a simple gift wraps that have a cheaper price and within the budget, after all when giving a gift it’s the thoughts that counts.

Holiday season comes only ones but do not let the holiday season ripped off our pocket and leave us with a ruin budget in start of the coming year. It’s good to start the year with no debt, so spend our cash only on what’s the most essential.

Learn the easiest ways of job hunting

2008-12-24T05:32:00.000-08:00

Parents are so excited to see their children wearing a black or white toga and heard their name being called to receive their certificate of graduation. A lot of parents are working abroad just to support their children's education. And now the time has come that parents begun to fell very fulfilled that they were able to send their children to school no matter what the cost are.... to the point that they even have to work in the foreign land far from their family.

But, after graduation what does the future holds for these new graduates? What advice does a parent can give to their children to have a good career ahead of them? Parents must be the first one to give their children's moral support to become independent they can advice them or give them some pointers which can help them a find a better job. Especially for those who just graduated in college.

Here are a few guides on best way to find a Job.

1) First ask job leads from family members, friends, people in the community, and staff at career centers.

2) Use a classified adds to identify areas that interest you in or near the town or city where you live and then call the employers in that field to find out whether they are hiring for the position that you can do--and do well.

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Fashion Makeup and Hair Style make sure it suites you.

2008-09-07T02:34:00.000-07:00

To get best out of your fashion makeup and hair, you have to find by trial and error, your most flattering hues; which your hairstyle, makeup shades best complement your coloring. Practice how to apply them for a fool-proof look that brings out the best in you.

BLONDE: When it comes to eye makeup, you want to keep the look soft, so choose lighter-toned pencils in khaki, taupe or bronze to deliver definition without a hard edge.

To Apply: Line both upper and lower lids, and the smudge line with a brush or sponge-tip applicator modern look.

For eyeshadow: Go for warm neutrals like sand, golden beige, taupe, or camel, and blend over lid, from lashline to crease.Stick to block mascra or for dark blonds, navyblue but apply on upper lashes only.

Through neutral lip colors are richer, the might have a tendency to dissappear into your skin tone. To give your lips staying power and your lips definition. First apply a darker-shade nude lipliner all over as a base. Try a warm auburn pencil under deeper honey and butter scoth shades, or a tawny liptone shade under cool taupes.

As Black hair or Brunette:You can have a strack contrast between the darkness of your hair and the fairness of your skin tone so yourlook is often more naturally dramatic. Through you can wear strong color on your eyes or lips, you should focus on one area only otherwise, the result can be overly dramatic.

You can play up your eyes to thier best advantage in rich plums and berry shades.( If your skin has olive understone, go for the deepet purples and violet; if your on the fair side, try more muted shades of these colors.) Firts, cover any undereye circles with a light moisturizing concealer--this important when you are using blue-based tones on eyes. Then blend a rich plum shadaw on lids from lashline to crease, starting in the center and smoothing the color from corner to corner. Keep the outer of the liner refined by tapering it with a brush to fade the border slightly. Finish with a deep grape or brown pencil liner on upper lids and a coat of brownish-black mascara.

Years ago, most red lipsticks and had a blue base that made them pinkish when applied. The pink in the lipstick clashed with the delicte pink understones of a redhead's complexion. But today there a wide spectrum of reds, including golden and brownish-red hues that enhance the natural tones in a redhead;s hair and frecked skin.

Botinically based oils can actually helps prevent blemishes, as they are quickly absorbed by the skin. This not only softens skin, but helps normalize oil flow. Most shades, especially creamy formulas, look more natural if you skip the liner. To help lipcolor go on neatly, apply it with a brush. Use a lipliner when your lipstick is a very dark or superbright shade. Deep hues have more pigment which tends to wander, and liner creates a barrier.

If you have a perpectly oval face shape stick with the apples or cheekbones.

1.Square face:Brush blusher just under the cheekbones.

2.Round shape:Sweep blushers along cheekbones, up towards temples.

3.Heart-shaped:Start at outer eye corners and glide toward temples.

Most of us have some redness or some discolored, blotchy areas. Testing foundation on the face could leave you with a shade that;s too pinks. To even out skin tone, match a shade to the skin on your neck. Caking on bright turquuoise shadow is a sure way to say you're stuck in the 80's. But cool silver or smooky shdes of blued imparts a fresh and modern look. The trick is to keep the rest of your makeup soft, no loud fuchsia lipstick. Try pairing a subtle blue shadow with a navy leyeliner.

Magic Tips for good Health

2008-09-06T18:52:00.000-07:00

This is research found that the mono-unsaturated fats in olive oil were responsible for the low rates of heart disease and cancer on the island of Crete. Olive oil contains polyphenols, antioxidants that help prevent age-related disease.
YOGURT: Soviet Georgia was said have more centerians per capita than any other country. The secret of their long lives was yogurt, a food ubiquitous in their diets. Yogurt is rich in calcium, that helps stave off osteoposis and contains "good bacteria" that help maintain gut health and lower the incidence of age-related intestinal illness.

FISH: Researchers found the Inuit’s of Alaska were remarkably free of heart disease. Scientists think, it is due to the extraordinary amount of fish eaten. Fish is an abundant source of omega-3fats that help prevent cholesterol buildup in arteries and protect against abnormal heart rhythms.

CHOCOLATE: The Kuna people of the San Blas islands, off the coast of Panama, have a rate of heart disease, nine times less than that of mainland Panamanians. The Kuna dink plenty of a beverage made with generous proportion of cocoa, unusually rich in flavanols that help preserve the healthy function of blood vessels. Maintaining youthful blood vessel lowers risk of high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, kidney disease and dementia.

NUTS: Studies of Seventh-day Adventists show that those who eat nuts gain, on average, an extra two and a half years. Nuts are rich sources of unsaturated fats. They're also constructed sources of vitamins, mineral, other photochemical, like antioxidants.

WINE: Drinking any alcoholic beverage in moderation protects against heart disease, diabetes and age-related memory loss, but red wine contains reseveratrol, a compound that activates genes that slow cellular aging.

BLUEBERRIES: Researchers at Tufts University fed rat’s blueberry extract for a period of time that in "rat lives" is equivalent to 10 human years. These rats’ outperformed rats fed regular chow on tests of balance and coordination when they reached old age. Compounds in blueberries and other berries mitigate inflammation and oxidative damage: age-related deficits in memory, motor function.

THIS ANTIDOTES FOR AGING PARTS

BRAIN: From mid-20 on, the brain, particularly the frontal lobe, where problem-solving and short-term memory is processed, shrinks at a rate of 2 percent decade. A study in Neurology showed that people who ate two or more daily servings of leafy green vegetables, had the mental focus of people five years younger.

GITRACT: As we age, nerve cells that control muscles that move thought the digestive tract gradually die off, especially in the large intestine: constipation may occur more frequently as you get older. "Men 50 plus" should aim for 30 grams of fiber per day; women 21 grams of whole-grain cereals, breads, fruits, vegetables and beans.

SKIN: After age 20, production of collagen slows and dead skin cells shed less quickly. Research suggests that lycopene and beta carotene may help by scavenging for free radicals that contribute to skin aging. Eat sweet potatoes, carrots and leafy greens for beta carotene; tomatoes and watermelon for lycopene.

MUSCLE MASS: Metabolism slows after age30 in youth, muscle burns up to 10 times more calories per pound than fat. As we age, muscle metabolism decreases. Even if you maintain the same level of exercise and calorie intake, you tend to get fat. Regular exercise can help offset reduced muscle metabolism; keep you lean. Choose low-calorie foods.

EYES: Years of exposure to UV light and smoke cause age-related muscular degeneration (AMD), a cause of blindness in older people. Higher intakes of vitamin C and E, beta carotene, zinc, lutein and zeaxanthin (antioxidants in yellow and green vegetables and egg yolks) and omega-3fats will reduce risk for AMD.

HEART (AND BLOOD VESSELS): As we age, the heart and artery walls harden, resulting in high blood pressure and plaque buildup. Greek scientists reported that people who followed a Mediterranean diet-rich in vegetables, fruits, wholegrain beans, fish, poultry, dairy and olive oil, with moderate amounts of wine and little red meat were less likely to develop high blood pressure high cholesterol or obesity.

BONES: After age 30, cells that build bone become less activate; those that dismantle bone keep working. In woman, decreasing estrogen during menopause accelerates this loss. Calcium and vitamin D (enhances calcium absorption) is increasingly important as you age. Research indicates that vitamin k essential to the proteins that rebuild bone, and abundant in leafy greens also helps reduce bone loss.

'Love, Sex, Money Part of Life

2008-07-05T16:16:00.000-07:00

LOVE....if you knew what the love meaning of love then you knew how to use it.
LOVE....if it comes from your heart it can give you feeling of happiness.
LOVE....if you just use it for the reason of having you to be rich, you will get bad karma.
LOVE....if you use for good and having in loved which each other, it will make you happy forever.

LOVE....if you use love only for playing with somebody's feeling, you will never be happy until the day you die....

SEX.....is a part of life

SEX.....is make you use w/ love and nobody you hurt somebody u feel happy.
SEX.....for you if just for fun can give you bad karma.
SEX.....with tender, loving and care your relation will be perfect.
SEX.....without love and just use it for your own sake, you lost your mind.

MONEY...changes everything in the world you can make your dream come true.

MONEY...if you are rich you can buy everything but not life will full of happiness.

MONEY...can buy you instant love, but also make your love instantly lost.

MONEY...Can make you stronger, full of energy and make you live a life full of confidence.

MONEY...is needed by people, if you don't have money, you will feel like a loser, self-pity, not confident for yourself, and everything you dreamed off is difficult to achieve...readmore

PRIDE versus LOVE

2008-06-30T02:34:00.000-07:00

Pride is like a virus in love and relationship, because of pride the mind is controlling your emotion. Sometimes your emotion is vanished because of pride, miscommunications in a relationship is more powerful to control the mind if there is a presence of pride. How can you control your pride and not the other way around, just for your love? read more

Mother at Age of 14 Years Old

2008-06-22T05:00:00.000-07:00

Why is it that some people when they heard of a young mother they are shock.

Especially, when they knew that it is only at the age of 14 for the young mother to be pregnant, some people reacted in an instant and say some words like "WHAT or OHHH! Others are commenting with some bad words for the young mother as, like a flirt, drug addict, black sheep, and no parents guiding them.

All of them are jumping into conclusion even though they do not know the story of younger mothers. At the age of 14 being mother is really hard to accept especially to the parents of the young mother but as parents this is the time to be open-minded and understanding, be patience to your daughter because being mother at an early age is not a joke and not just a little problem, this is the time when your daughters need a lot of your supports especially emotional.

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INSOMNIA....a Sickness Problem

2008-05-26T06:27:00.000-07:00

What are you going to do when you can't sleep? Did you have a hard time falling asleep? You tried to sleep until 8 in the morning and yet you are already a wake some hours earlier.
Sometime you don't feel like working due to weakness. The worse thing is that your eye bags get darker and bigger, and you feel rough and dry and look like older than your real age. Free yourself from worries now, because here are some tips that may help you deal with sleepless night you'll also learn ways on how to prevent it.

Did you know that? The older you get, the more you'll suffer from insomnia (sleepiness). Some people need 9 hours of sleep while others do well with 5.

Children need ten or 14 hours of sleep everyday to promote physical growth and mental development. Although insomnia may frustrate you and deteriorate your health, self-treatment is often successful.
What are the symptoms of insomnia? They are,

Lesbian and Gay: Fall in Love

2008-03-24T05:31:00.000-07:00

I have some short story about two people born with a different status in life especially about homosexual.

Have you ever heard of a lesbian that fell in love with a gay?

When the first time heard about it I was shock because I am innocent thinking about it...

Move on...

2008-03-23T02:26:00.000-07:00

Move on.....

I saw myself risking my life for love...
I felt my blood boil with determination
I could see myself devoting everything to my life's work
And, I saw myself living this life that heaven gave me.
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Workaholic is Not Good for Health

2008-02-29T05:52:00.000-08:00

Why people need to work, isn't it because they needs money for there future?

Yes, but if your work consumes you and destroys your personal life, then there could be more that is going on, you could be a certified workaholic.

The difference between hard work and work holism is on the fairway thinking about work.

But hard workers generally have some balance in their lives. And work holism is an addiction, and obsessive-compulsive disorder, and its not the same as working hard or putting in long hours,"

In Japan, its called "KAROSHI" meaning death by overwork and it Is estimated to cause 1000 deaths per year, nearly 5 percent of that country's stroke and heart attack deaths in employees under age 60. In the U.S work holism remains what it's always been: the so- called "respectable addiction" that's dangerous as any other.....

First kiss that's unforgettable

2008-02-26T04:24:00.000-08:00

This is a silly but romantic experienced the first kissed which some people described as unforgettable.

All people have an experience about their first kissed especially those teenagers. At the aged of 12 some boys and girls started having crushes then develop into a puppy love until they feel curios about having a relation. Their teenaged life is started growing up they want to try to do it, the first kissed.

They are curios of what's it feel is it funny or sad. Experience in having a first kiss is meaningful to some persons...

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How You Care Your Skin? Here is 5 Step to Better Skin

2008-02-04T05:28:00.000-08:00

You can improve your skin, if you follow a few basic rules. Especially for oily skin here is five step
way to get cleaner, clearer skin.....

Step one: HANDS OFF

Thouching your face is a big no for girls with skin issues. Throughout a normal day, your fingers pick up all kind of dirt and germs that you can't see. Everytime you touch your face, you coat your skin with the same dirt u picked up on everything from the cafeteria table to the coins you drop in the vending machime. So hands off, and it would'nt not hurt to wash your hands a little more often either.

Step two: CLEANSE YOUR FACE TWICE A DAY, MAX

Washing your hands more often is great. But what's good for the hand is'nt good for the face. If you over cleance your face, your oil glands think you're getting low on grease, and they'll up the production. Then pores get clogged, and zits erupt. Plus, over-washing can irritate sensitive or acne-prone skin, causing redness and patchy areas. Not pretty! wash just twice a day, using a mild face soap that's formulated for your skin type.

Care for the things you Cannot Change.

2008-01-18T23:29:00.000-08:00

If you are constantly bothered by the way others treat you,
or if you find that things they do perturb you, the best way
to have a peaceful life is to stop caring.
This doesn't mean that you stop caring about the people themselves
and their highest good; it means that you stop caring and investing
your time in the things that they do.
If we focus too heavily on the things we don't get back from the people
we care about, all our attention will be on issue of lack. Give to
yourself by taking a break from caring about what people do. You keep
thinking that you can change someone Else's thought, feeling or behaviors.
Stay away from people who want to control you or need you to control them.
And it is time to re-think and re-care about the real things that bring you self-worth.
Each time a thought of someone Else's negative behavior starts to repeat
itself in your mind, stop it by saying to yourself: I choose not to care
about this; it has nothing to do with me or my overall life.

Exist because of others.....

2007-12-21T06:22:00.000-08:00

Because there are workers, there can be company president.Because there are patients, there can be doctors.Because there are readers, there can be writers.

Because there are students, there can be teacher.Because there are business men, there can be buyers.Anything we have on this world, we owe to others.

Just Stayed with Me

2007-12-19T19:43:00.001-08:00

Just stay with me...

you brighten the space around you

just stay with me, just matter of making yourself move

to move and act in the here and now

is all that really counts.

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Tear drops

2007-12-14T20:10:00.001-08:00

Have you ever asked yourself, why you cannot control your tearful?
Especially, when a sorrow comes and gives grief in your life.How can you handle it?
Do you just to keep it from yourself and don’t want others to see or to know about you’re tearful.

Sometimes, have you ever talk to yourself and ask why I am in tears?
Tearful is a medicine for people suffered from being hurt in body or in heart, its one way of releasing what they felt from inside.

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Life Talking Too..

2007-12-14T17:17:00.000-08:00

Because your heart is beautiful,
Everything you see is beautiful, too
because it has lived life to its fullest the dried pampas grass
still looks beautiful

Sadness, sorrow, grief
The meddler named"kindness"
Caring enough to leave it alone
I believe that only after experiencing,
Can something become one's own

Guilt Destroying Love and Relationships

2007-12-11T07:02:00.000-08:00

When the mind allows guilt to take over, it will tear down relationships, especially if the partner fails to come to terms and agreement with self. To determine if your mind is full of guilt you must ask your self-questions. What did you do so wrong that would offend your partner that cannot be forgiving?

Guilt can break the mind down to the point of no return. Guilt is more than a mistake made; rather it is a violation against rights, humanity, belief, tradition, standards, and love.

When a person fails in a relationship, they may feel a measure of guilt. Thus, confronting the problem now can remove the guilt and make the relationship work. When people confront their problems, it often leads to workable agreements. When procrastination, or else lying to cover the wrong continues the mind consumes itself with emotions based on guilt.

Guilt occurs when conscious actions or thoughts interfere with someone else’s rights, or else against the own person’s beliefs. Mistakes leading to guilt depend on the situation, but for the most part wrongs can lead to right if humanity exists.

If a person commits adultery, thus the problem is solvable if the person acted out of emotion, rather than thought and commits to restoring trust. Of course, actions, effort, behaviors and habits must show the mate that the mistake will never occur again. It depends on the mate but some will forgive, while others may take the insult of the partner letting them know their worth in the relationship to heart and may decide separation and/or divorce is the way out. Adultery is stating to the mate that you have no worth. If the mate decides to forgive, thus you must do your part and allow the guilt to turn into effort to restore trust. You will need consideration, loyalty, compassion, honesty, and may even need to tell your every move for a while during the course of restore. A person with true remorse will work hard, regardless of what he/she needs to do to restore trust.

If a person violates the right of the partner, thus, it depends on the magnitude of violation, but in most instances, it is workable. People act out of emotions and impulses at times, and will often act out of lust occasionally. When the emotions, impulses and desires take control (depending on the length of time control is enforced), the person may do things he or she ordinarily would not do.

Thus, adultery is a justifiable reason to divorce or separate from the spouse, but looking at the entirety of the circumstance can help a person decide. Was the spouse enticed by another individual to commit the act, while the spouse was feeling vulnerable? Still, vulnerability is no excuse on the spouse’s part, but if enticement is the case, then two people wronged you. Was the other person in the act deceived? Did your mate lead the person to believe that he/she was not in a commitment?

Examining the entirety of the act can help the mate determine the direction the relationship is heading, and help the other partner decide what he/she needs to do to make things right again.

Divorce is an attack on the emotions, since a trigger hits the heart and emotions and creates pain, sorrow, hurt, sadness, et cetera. Divorce is showing a disregard for the marriage arrangement unless true reasons for divorce are evident. Thus, divorce should only be considered if the mate commits adultery, abuses the partner, or fails to commit in the relationship arrangement, and/or if death occurs.

If you are in a relationship and your mate committed an insulting act against you, such as adultery. Thus, considering the entirety will help you make a wise decision. If another person enticed your mate on vulnerable grounds, thus consider your partner by asking what were, you thinking at the time. If your mate responds by saying I wasn’t thinking, thus you can ask, what makes me think it won’t happen again? If your mate is sincerely sorry, he/she will let you know by words, action, emotions, thoughts, and tone spoken.

Divorce and Children: Who Really is Affected?

2007-12-01T17:50:00.000-08:00

DIVORCE... is legal separation of a husband and wife.
I'm not against divorce or separation of couple, because
divorce is the answer of the couple problems,like not success or
they are no longer harmoniously lives together.
But the affect of divorce to a children has a negative, not all
children cannot cope with the stress of parents' separation.
according to the psychiatric doctors most of teenage patient, reveal
that mental and emotional disturbances has a direct link to dysfunctional
families.

For instant a broken family led children to become, addict to drugs,
or lack of interest to education, black sheep kids and the worst of all,
become juvenile delinquents. Lack of parental supervision drove children
to seek attention to peers who can fulfill their longing for family.

My Dreams Reality

2007-11-10T04:46:00.000-08:00

IT all started in a dream.
But details of what life future lies ahead was very vivid.
IT was so clear in my mind how a romance in the making
Will bloom into a marriage life.
I saw a mans face, his built and exact place where we would meet.

The feeling was so esctatic, having a glimpse of a future, especially
an ideal love.
It is so wonderful, seeing my very self meeting in a vision a man
whom my heart will fall in love.
The dream happened in broad daylight, making it more rare and unbelievable.

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Bad Teasing Psychologically Affects Children

2007-11-08T01:43:00.000-08:00

I've always watch television news in Japan everyday and I saw a striking revelation about teenage suicide.
Do you know what the cause is? It's just a simple tease in classroom yet, it risks every life of children. According to the news, children can't cope with the stress of psychological pressure, causing to suffer emotional distress.
The basic problem stems from imbalance parental support, and as a result of broken family, since the children lack supervision and encouragement from parents, they have the tendency to keep their problems within themselves. Inability to cope with stress the children cannot handle the tease of classmate resulting to suicide in some school in Japan...

Chat love

2007-10-11T08:21:00.000-07:00

Have u experience to fall in love in a chat room
Even though you did not know or see him or her in person
All you’ve got is his or her alias in a chat room
Still you have the tendency to fall in love
The first time you chat with him or her,
You have already felt him or her as part of your life now.
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