Allie's Two Cents

New Web Site Alert!

2011-11-07T14:46:00.000-05:00

In a few weeks this blog will no longer exist. Please switch your bookmarks to http://allietheiss.com

You can find out more about the new webs site and the blog here: http://allietheiss.com/atlantis-soul-circle-site/

The Gypsy Magic blog, Allie's Two Cents and Out of Body Ecstasy blogs have all been put in one location. I needed to simply my life - and this was they way to do it.

It's been a good run, but it's time to move forward. A good chunk of this blog will be turned into a book.

CS - Allie :)

Dreamers, Writing and the Absolute Yes List!

2011-10-26T06:14:00.000-04:00

I hope my body gets used to the early hour I'll be getting up soon. I've been easing into this. For a few days I got up at 6 am, then 5:30 and now 5 am. Friday it'll be 4:30 - same with Monday. On Tuesday (the start of novel writing time) it'll be 4 am. Wish me luck! I am a much more productive person before 2 pm than at any time after. So I have to write not only the novel but other things too before that time.

With DREAMERS I have decided it'll be a 14 book series. There are 13 Dreamers - so obviously the 1st 13 will introduce each of the Dreamers to the mix. The last book will be the epic battle to keep Atlantis hidden. The only book that will be the focus of solely one Dreamer is the 1st one. Book two will have 2 Dreamers - book 3 - 3 Dreamers and so forth. With the advent of Amazon publishing - a agent or manager is no longer needed. After hiring editors to help me out - it'll go on Amazon in print and Kindle forms - along with an iPod/iPad version. I'll probably use Smashwords for the ebook formatting and release to all the right places :)

As someone is editing Dreamers in January (I figure I will have more to say about the book in December) - that's when the sexual energy book will be written. It's all good.

I've also decided on that this weekend, along with book prep, I'm going to get AllieTheiss.com up and running. I want it full steam ahead for when the format of the Allie Theiss Show shifts to love & romance advice on Tuesday. Seems like Nov 1st is a big day for me!

The "rent" for GA hosting is paid up till May 2012. So obviously I will not be canning the site until then. I will - probably - leave the blogs up but stop updating them. At the new site I will have a blog about a host of subjects :) Although for the magic portion I may not call it magic - don't know. Could be "energy shifting" (as that is what magic does anyways). Thoughts? Since the overall site is about love & sex.....I'll think of something - always do!

When you want to add something new to your life - the problem is finding room for it. With the holiday season approaching fast - many of us will have a hard time fitting in new things or things we love. So what do you do?

You do what coach Cheryl Richardson said - make an absolute yes list. Yep - what would you say absolutely yes to? 5 items - FIVE. That's all you get. For me it's: self, family, animals, writing, coaching. If I have to do something or am asked to do something - I ask myself does it fall in within the 5 things? If not - then I have to say no or let it go.

I actually had a problem with my list. I wanted to have friends and animals on there. When I didn't have "self" they both fit. Then I thought - if I don't say yes to me 1st - then everything else is irrelevant. So I put me on and took friends off. Then I thought - my closest friends I think of as family anyways - so it works.

What does your list look like?

Food for thought on this rainy Wednesday.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Writing, Sexual Energy and Will!

2011-10-24T21:13:00.000-04:00

Holy crap am I tired. Trying to get ready for the novel writing that starts next Tuesday. Up at 4 am. I know - what an un-Godly hour to be getting up. But since I'm a morning person, I thought it was my best chance to get writing done. Right now I'm getting up at 5 am. By the end of the week it'll be 4:30 am. To get me set for 4 am on Tuesday. I think that by getting up at 4 am - I'll have to schedule in a nap sometime during the early afternoon. But - I am really psyched to start working on novel one in the Dreamers series!

Unknown man hasn't been back since Friday night. Dang him. I think he knew that I was determined to see what he looked like. He's probably going to catch me off guard. Dang him. One way or the other - some day I will figure out who he is. Even if it's on my death bed. I'll figure it out.

So I've decided to make the Allie Theiss Show all about love and romance. The Passion Zone will be all about sex (as it is now) and the Ask Allie podcast will stay a strictly metaphysical broadcast. So yes - I'm going to have all 3. I know I shouldn't spread my self so thin - but I can't squeeze it all into one. So for now -- it'll work.

I thought Will was around for the Merlin/magic update. For the most part I think I was right. But he's lingering. I can't put my finger on it - but it's almost like he wishes something else - something more of the connection than what it is. He of course hasn't "said" anything to that affect. It's just a feeling I have.

I have two cats on my desk, one on my lap and one on the back of my chair with its head on my shoulder. Two dogs at my feet. I can't ever say no one loved me :)

I've embedded a sexual energy survey below - this research is going to help me write my book on sexual energy. If you could take a minute and fill it out I would appreciate it!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

The Unknown Man, Allie's Going Crazy and Dream Visits!

2011-10-22T15:31:00.000-04:00

He's driving me crazy. Who you ask? I don't know who he is! The Unknown Man has struck again. God - this really is driving me nuts. I even looked him in the face - several times. I should remember him - but I don't! Strangely enough - I know one of his favorite colors is light blue. Not sure how I know it - but I do.

Now the dream last night - I'll try the PG13 version since I'm posting it here instead of the XXX rating it should be. Feel free to elaborate in your own minds.

We're in his living room. I can remember a spiral staircase behind us. He and I were well -- wrestling like dogs (yeah, that's it) -- and it was so slow that I didn't think he was moving. I kept trying to move to get things to speed up. Then he grabbed me around the middle section and we went horizontal. We were spooning - and the speed was well -- improved upon. He kept talking to himself so that he wouldn't hit the finish line way before me. Neither one of us hit that finish line because...

We were clothed and in NYC in a large ski car with a bunch of other people going from one side of the city to another to get a pizza. He thanked me for allowing him to come along. I looked at his face on purpose so I would remember it - told him no reason to thank me, he belonged here.

I had $20 in my left hand. He asked me if that was the money for the pizza - I said yes. He shoved $20 into my hand. I told him I was paying - he insisted I keep the money.

I placed my hand over his hand, his other hand went on top of mine. It felt perfect. Next thing I know he is sitting in front of me - I push his shoulders a bit to get him to turn around, he does and I bring him back to me. He leans into me - I wrap my arms around him. And it was like he melts into me. It felt absolutely perfect.

I know it's him. You know - the him I'm going to have a relationship with - my last serious one in this lifetime. He keeps showing up younger than me in my dreams but I know he's not younger in physical life. He looked for me. If I would have looked for him, I would remember his face. For some reason he doesn't want me to remember who he is. I admit, it confuses me. No matter how many times I looked at him, I can't remember.

I woke up very aggravated - among other things that could not be taken care of at that time or any time during this day. SIGH. I need to figure out who he is -- need to know.

Hope you all are having a great weekend!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Will, Merlin and Dimensional Magic!

2011-10-19T10:48:00.000-04:00

For a couple of years I wrote a lot about Merlin and my trips to his cave. I always found it fascinating to be there and usually Will was there as well :) Even though I haven't written about Merlin or Will for awhile - they have been by my side again for months. Will is being - well - observant. He isn't communicating with me really - just watching. I have a feeling that our paths will be crossing again within a year's time. A gut feeling. I only hope my son is with me when it happens because he ADORES Will. Still :) It's been almost 5 yrs since we ran into will in NYC and it is still one of the major highlights of my son's life.

Now with Merlin and Will around - kind of hovering - I knew something was afoot. What was I supposed to be doing? What lesson was I supposed to be learning? Obviously Merlin is magic - and since this is also Will's prominent gift, to me it meant I needed to do something different magically.

That's exactly what I started to do. I experimented with my spells. Not only with the spells I did periodically for myself - but the spells that I wrote and cast for clients. I alternated whether I physically cast the spell or if I mentally cast it in my own other dimensional spell room. Everything would be the same - I either physically dressed the candles - rolled them in herbs or mentally did so. I always said the incantations out loud. Then I sat back to see if there was a difference in spell outcomes. There was!

Spells are designed to use elements to focus in on a person's intent and help shift the energy to make it happen. The spells I did in my dimensional spell room not only worked better - but worked almost immediately! It was a consistent difference. Both spells would work - but the astral dimension/thought one produced faster results!

I asked Merlin why is this? Of course his 1st answer was - why do you think I kept bring you and Will to this dimension? It wasn't for my health. Ha - a smart ass to the end. Love it. But then he went on...

When you perform magic you are manipulating energy. When you do all the spell work in your physical world, it takes longer for the item's energy (the candles, herbs, oils) to convert into the "gas" energy form and merge with what is in and around everything. A solid merging with gas takes longer than a gas merging with gas. Humans think they need tangible items to make magic work and they do not. You have a silly habit of having to SEE things in order to believe they will work. Humans have a lot to learn!

Then he went on to tell me I have to teach others how to do this. I told him I'd add it to my list. He told me to hurry up :)

I have under a week to come up with an extra $600 to save my house from foreclosure. If you could look --------------------------------------------------> for the donation button and donate - my entire household would be grateful. Whatever lesson I am supposed to be learning by this constant threat of always losing my home - I wish I would hurry up and learn it. If I were a betting person (usually I'm not), I'd wager than it's a combination of: asking for help, open to receiving, and how to put things out there and let them go.

I do not think it's chance that the one area I cannot let go of is the one area where I have problems. Do you find that in your life? That you have an area - love, money, family, career -- that you cannot let go of from worrying "how" and "if" and that is the one area you have the most problems? Which of course causes you to worry and the cycle just continues.

Last night my son yelled at me for making us poor. I said I didn't want this. He said sure you did or we wouldn't be here. Didn't you say our choices lead us to where we are? I said yes. He said - see --- you made us poor. Now do something and make us rich - I'm sick of being stressed.

He most certainly has a point.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Flow With Your Life or Go Kicking And Screaming!

2011-10-17T11:32:00.000-04:00

I have been listening - like a good girl - to my own coaching lessons. I go with the flow. If I feel unsure about something - then I know that is a step to which I will step out of the flow. So I quiet myself and listen. The last thing I want is to step out of the flow. It should be the last thing anyone wants for themselves. Why? Because once you step out of the flow you step off of your life's path. Since you are here reading this blog, you are probably either in a self-discovery period, curious about the metaphysical world or maybe you're searching for information on soul mates. It doesn't matter why - you were in the flow and it lead you here. There's a reason. Just like there's a reason I do this and probably reveal too much personal stuff about me.

I'm in the flow. At this point in time - you are in the flow. Now we both just have to stay here. That's the hard part.

As humans - our brain is programmed to worry. That worry creates scenarios that probably (maybe 1/100) will happen. If you are that ONE - guess what? The flow is course correcting you. Something you have done, somewhere along the line, took you off your life path and onto a parallel, unfulfilled, path. Who likes that kind of crap? You? Me? Hell no.

How to find your flow and stay there:

Stop and listen. Yes, I said listen. To continue in the means means you do whatever pops into your head next. If it says - go pee. Do it. Go do your errands. Do it. Read a book on astral projection (even if you have no idea what in the hell it is. Do it. The flow is arranging things for a reason.
When you make a decision and either feel ok/happy with it or mad/upset with it -- you're still in the flow. When you feel UNSURE about your decision is when you are stepping out. Course correct immediately. Not sure what it's like to feel unsure and deal with the consequences? Go back to the last time you were unsure about a decision. What was the fallout? Did things go with ease? Or did life slap you in the face?

Two steps - that's it. I know you can remember two steps. The question is - will you allow yourself to be in the flow - or will you force yourself to be in a life you're not supposed to be in?

I can hear someone saying -- but Allie - you say that there are no wrong turns and you are somewhere for a reason. That's correct. However....

We all have certain lessons to learn. If we stay in the flow then they are much easier to learn. If we step out of the flow it's much more difficult. It's the difference between walking across Kansas or walking the same distance across Alaska. You'll still get your exercise and fresh air - but one walk will be a bit more difficult to maneuver.

Monday's food for thought:)

Crystal Sunshine!

Allie :)

Connections, Gary and Atlantis!

2011-10-14T13:59:00.000-04:00

Wow - I can't believe it's been almost a month since I wrote in here. Shame on me!

I have been working diligently on several projects. One I cleaned up GypsyAdvice.com. Took away a lot of stuff, condensed my offerings, added in a shopping cart and placed the radio show, podcast and newsletter on the home page. I also put a Soul Mate video up so that you can learn what a soul mate is and how to attract them :)

The Universal Light Expo was excellent! A lot of great people were there - old friends and brand new ones too! Something unexpected happened too - but I'll get to that in a few minutes.

My talk on "Unleash Your Sexual Energy" went well despite the power point equipment not working. After the workshop - when the 2nd person asked -- where's your book on sexual energy? I got it. I have to write one. After person #30 - I told the universe that I got the hint.

Next month I'm going to be a part of "National Novel Writing Month". I'm determined to write a novel next month. It's going to be the 1st novel in my DREAMERS series about Atlantis. I'm pretty psyched. Because I have set my mind to do this - I keep dreaming about it. I almost have the whole thing worked out - outline wise - so I can jump on it Nov 1st!

After that is written in Nov, I'll edit in Dec as I write the sexual energy book. Then when sexual energy is done, OBE sex will be started. My goal is to query agents or just submit to publishers who are not anal about agents about Dreamers in Jan.

Now back to what happened unexpectedly at the ULE. Before last weekend, only once in my life have I ever felt the pull or tractor beam of another person. It was 2008 and it was Will. That pull never surprised be because I knew of the connection and I understood why it was there. He, on the other hand, was confused. LOL. But that's ok. When he is supposed to know about the connection and what it means - he will.

Now over the weekend this same pull happened to me on Sat. But it wasn't just felt by me - it was also felt by him. I'll call him -- Gary -- only because I don't know if he'd be comfortable with me using his real name. I felt him approach my booth before he even arrived. I was right in the middle of a reading and it was like WHAM. I glanced up - saw him - he smiled at me and I knew right then and there I had to get to know him better. It was an immediate decision on my part to find out about him.

After he came by another time - I asked Michele who he was (I was still in the same reading). She didn't know. I told her to go find out. She did (bless her heart). From that moment on we kept just missing each other. I'd go look for him - he'd be in a workshop. He come and look for me - I'd be out of the booth. The last time I left the booth I told Michele - he's going to come by when I'm gone. When he does - grab him and make him stay. Bless her again - she did :) When I got back those two were chatting up a storm.

I arrived and Michele left to go walk around. Gary and I talked - amazed at the pull we had to one another and curious why it happened. I had several people that day (and Sunday) as if he was my boyfriend. When I said no - we just met - they were amazed. Our energy syncs with one another. Over the weekend we kept running into one another at the expo. When we have a chance we're going to meet up for dinner.

What is this connection? Don't know. But what I do know is that it's important. Maybe he's here to help me grow - maybe I'm to help him. Help one another. Past life connections - certainly. I'm going along with my motto in "Go with the flow" and just enjoying this relationship in whatever capacity it may be. The pull, connection and need to know all came about for a reason. Eventually we'll both know what that reason happens to be.

It's good to be writing here again. Have a great weekend!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

The 3 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Today!

2011-09-21T13:59:00.000-04:00

Did I live? Did I love? Did I matter? Three questions, I hear, that we ask ourselves before we meet the Grim Reaper. How would you answer those?

My answers:
No
Yes
Yes

When I think about the 2nd question - did I love - the type of love I am thinking about is unconditional love. The kind of love that comes with no conditions - no hurdles that have to be jumped in order to give that love. That type of love for me is extended to my son, close nuclear family (as in mom, dad, 2 sisters, BIL and nieces) and my animals. As hard as I've tried to do the same with other people I fall short. It's not the other people's fault - it's my own. For me, loving someone unconditionally also means letting them into your inner sanctum.

I have tried that several times. Once with ex hubby #2 - then with 3 close friends. All ended with me being stabbed not only in the back, but the heart. For self-preservation I've kept people at arms length. Will I forever be like that? I doubt it. The 4 stabs took place over the last 5 years. This too shall pass and eventually I'll let someone in.

But my standoffish way that I am, I believe that keeps me from saying yes to #1. I don't sit around and wait. I'm not good at that. But I don't go out and have fun either. I've been in a town for 10 years and have not made one friend. What does that tell you?

So as I'm on this path of self-discovery, all areas of my life need to be rethought and let go of. Yes - letting go. When I was a kid I was good at that. But as an adult I'm a planner. I love to have things mapped out. It hasn't really worked. I mean some things have worked out - but for the most part - nadda.

That is why not only am I teaching people how to "go with the flow" I'm rediscovering how to myself. As children we all go with the flow. We have no big plans. We eat, play with our friends, build really cool forts and let our imagination run wild. That's what I have been doing.

And why I haven't been writing in my blogs.

Despite the problems of last week (if you didn't know you'd have to either listen to the podcast or the radio show), my life is still heading in the direction I mentioned last month. I'm not trying to change it - not trying to shift the course. I hear Joshua tell me to do or not do something - I just listen. So far none of my decisions have been met with the "uncertainty" one feels when you step out of the flow.

Now mind you - it's not going exactly the way I want it - but I haven't been too great on picking things that are good for me. LOL.

What does my above confession mean to you?

It goes back to the first 3 questions I started the blog with today. If you cannot answer yes to all three, then you are not in the flow. <----light bulb moment. Seriously. I didn't realize that answering yes to the 3 questions = being in the flow until this moment. There's "knowing" and there's KNOWING. I'm now the CAPITAL one :)

Let your life flow so that you can answer 3 yeses in a row!

I'm having a lot of "ah ha" moments lately - and I love having them.

I am doing my own new web site - allietheiss.com. I promise it will not be as confusing as gypsyadvice.com. In fact - if you've been to GA lately - I've been cutting things out left and right. I plan on putting more on the chopping block later this week. My hope is to have the new site done by mid Oct with GA being gone by Nov.

Of course this means this blog will be gone as well. But don't you fear -- I will be starting a new blog. New life = new site = new blog.

I've been giving 2nd thoughts to canning the Ask Allie podcast. I like the podcast. I'll just flow with it and see what happens :)

Off to do some sex coaching homework.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Mercury Direct, Attracting Love and Irene!

2011-08-26T16:36:00.000-04:00

Napping Kitty

What a week! Gotta a new kitty in the house and his name is Simba! The little lamb chop arrived here on Sunday. After a small storm we had - I heard him meowing up a storm under my deck. It took some doing, but I finally got him to come out. Took him to the vet - besides some worms and ear mites - this 3 mos old is in good health. He has fit right in with the other animals.

Sometimes I have to ask myself - why? Why in the world do all these animals find me? It didn't used to be this way.

Then I remembered that animals have a natural high energy vibration. They don't need to work on it like us humans do. Over the years as I raised my energy vibration more animals sense it and are attracted. Now if I could only use it to find a good man - lol. But anyways...

That's what dawned on me. At the rate I'm going I should have my own private zoo in a few years. I'm not sure if I should cry or jump up and down for joy. HA!

For those of you along the east coast and even a bit inward -- Irene may not be a Category 4 or 5 hurricane - hell, she may not even be a 3 by the time she hits land. But don't let it fool you. Power outages, flooding, short supply on fuel (at last look the east coast was shutting down it's refineries). There's nothing wrong with being cautious. Hell - NYC is shutting down their mass transit system Sat afternoon and so is Philadelphia. There is not shame in being cautious. Don't forget about your pets too - plenty of water and food to last them several days. And meds for whoever needs them. Know someone who is disabled or elderly? Look out for them - check on them. Their relatives may be too far away to help. Never assume that anyone is ok.

ABC News is doing a series of specials aimed at Hunger in America. According to their research - 1 out of 6 Americans or 1 out of 4 children are hunger insecure. Meaning, when they wake up in the morning they are not sure if they will get to eat that day. This is greatly disturbing to me. It should be to you too. Where is the telethon for this? Where are the celebrities lining up to raise money? Why is it that we are more concerned what happens in other countries than what happens in our own back yard? Don't get me wrong - I think we (as in the US) should help whomever we can - but that same charity we show to the world, needs to be shown at home.

So this was my son's first week of school. It's not going well. 5th grade so far has been a bust. He has a teacher he had before who doesn't like him and math isn't going all that well. Today (and yesterday) he came home crying because of the math. Him and multiplication have always had their differences - and it's really causing a problem now. He knows his mult table - but when he gets timed he freezes. SIGH. But he is somewhat happy to do band. Wants to play either the trombone or violin (I know - what a difference).

Because mercury is now DIRECT. YAY TEAM! And today is Friday -- it's a PERFECT night to light a candle for the one you love (or want to love).

If you're in a relationship - PINK candle.
Want a new relationship - ORANGE candle.

Carve your name and your beloved's name (if known) into the candle. Place it in the SW corner of your bedroom. Light the candle while you imagine either attracting a new love or strengthening the love you already have in your life.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Ben, Todd, Rick and Their Memorable Dream Visit!

2011-08-17T11:29:00.000-04:00

I had thought about keeping more than this blog - then decided against it. The OBE sex blog as well as the Gypsy Magic blog will both be incorporated into books with a ton of added information.

I had a dream with Ben last night - haven't had one in awhile. He and I were sitting at a table at a Malibu restaurant with Rick and Todd. The 4 of us were talking about how to make people more aware of the importance of dolphins. Ben took a sip of his beer - look at me and said, "I need to ask you something." "Go right ahead," was my reply.

"I read your Allie Two Cents blog," he admitted.

I could feel a lump in my throat at the thought of his next question...

"I'm the Ben in your blog -- aren't I?"

The words hung in the air for a swear seconds - but it felt like the longest seconds of my life.

"What makes you say that?" I asked.

"That's not an answer." He said.

He took a sip of his beer, put it down. Arms on the table, hands clasped - he just stared at me.

I really - really wanted to run away. I had to be so careful in how I responded. Because if I did it wrong -- it's Bill and Will all over again.

"Over the years I have found that if someone is in my blog, they have to know it's them without me telling them that they are in there. If they have a gut feeling that its them - and then they ask me to confirm it. That's different."

Ben got this look in his face - he wasn't sure whether to reach over and throttle me, yell at me or drop the subject. So he sighed, bit his bottom lip and stated...

"I know it's me."

"Yes it's you."

"That explains a lot" he said.

"Wait a minute," Rick jumped in, "That means I'm the Rick in the blog -- right?"

I gave him a look that suggested - you know I can't TELL you. Where in the hell have you been?

"Nope - that is me. I know it - that's me."

"Are you sure," I asked.

"Yes, I'm sure. That's my story and I'm sticking to it."

"Yes Rick -- it's you."

"No hold on here a minute." Todd chimed, "There's no _____ in there."

As soon as he said that - I woke up.

I don't think my poor heart could take all 3 of them knowing at the same time. Too much. I think them saying what they did made the dream so memorable - plus I know they were there in a dream visit as opposed to me just dreaming about them.

Only time will tell if they actually figure it out. I'm not about to tell them point blank:)

On that note - time for me to get a move on.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Perception of Change, GypsyAdvice and More!

2011-08-15T09:47:00.001-04:00

Last week went well - I woke up, took care of the animals, got my son up, went out to the garden and then on Thurs had an interview on 91.7 The Bounce. A good week - despite my back hurting. Yes - I messed up again. With 9 litter boxes to change it's inevitable that this happens every once in awhile.

No Allie Theiss show on Thursday this week. It's family day at the zoo before my son and nieces all go back to school next week! Still hard to believe that my son goes back next Monday!

There are major plans in store for me and for my site. GA will stay active until MAYBE 2012 (<---- I had May 2012 there before and that was an accident) and then it will be discontinued. Instead AllieTheiss.com will be in it's place. I have 50 + readings as of today - they are going down to 18-20. Healings/attunments and spells will be discontinued. But new classes and books will be offered.

What classes/workshops would YOU like to see offered online, DIY (email format you do on your own) or in person?

What topics would YOU like to see me covered in new books?

The Ask Allie podcast will slowly fade into cancellation. Instead my concentration will be on the Allie Theiss show. Specials will only be given on FB & twitter with a life span of 3 months, not 6 months. And readings will no longer be able to be broken up so that you use a 10 question reading 1 question at a time over a span of months. Plus - last but not least - prices will be going up.

Everyone will be given warning when the new site will be up and running. Everything bought on GA and OBE will be honored at the old price, with the old ways. Once the new site is up - you have to buy services at the new prices and follow by the new rules.

Also - all communications regarding readings and what not, will go through my assistant Gena when the new site is up. My yahoo emails will no longer work.

I know change sucks. Hell, I'm a Taurus. But if I am to follow my life path, I have to make these changes. Have to. I have been resisting change for a very long time. Being the people pleaser I am, I have always done things for people at the expensive of me. I can no longer do that. It has to be an even exchange.

As scared as I am for the change - I'm excited on the expanded path that my life is about to take. I hope you are also excited for me. I hope you allow yourself to expand and grow with me! What a new exciting adventure we can all be on together!!

As of now - all the blogs are staying. This blog has helped many many people over the years and I can't toss that aside. Although, I will be turning it into a book along with a lot of items that I haven't posted here.

Now with the Ask Allie podcast slowly fading from view - no worries - I will still have a topic of the day and it will be open to discussion on the Allie Theiss show. So not only will you hear my $.02, but I hope others will chime in.

The Allie Theiss show will have more of a self-help feel to it.

What would YOU like to see me have on the show? Besides more interviews and guests? Can you suggest any new segments?

Oh - and The Passion Zone is staying. Why? Because there I can be as sexual explicit with the topics and advice as I want :)

What is it about change that makes us nervous? Scared? Is it the jump into the unknown? Where did we learn to be nervous at the unknown?

As babies we leaped in and took the world by storm. Crawling was new - and by our adult standards - scary..so was walking, eating solid foods, using the toilet (monster with a big mouth and water), going to school for the 1st time, having a babysitter for the 1st time....you see where I'm going with all of this.

None of the above killed us - we just kept going for more...driving, sex, jobs, etc...

So when did the unknown become such a scary place? Why do we fear it as adults instead of embracing it as we did as children? Because somewhere down the line we learned, from adults, that change was a bad thing. They learned it from their parents, and they from their parents and do forth.

The wonderful thing about being human is that we can choose to stay in a rut or to move forward. It's all about perception.

If you view change as an exciting challenge into the unknown - then you will roll with the changes and once you emerge in your new life you will be all for the better.

If you view change as an unwanted scary jump into the unknown with you kicking and screaming - then once the change happens (and it always will), you will be so battered and bruised from resisting that you will not see the gift in front of you.

It's all in the perception.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, Panic and Worry!

2011-08-08T16:46:00.000-04:00

I am not feeling too well today. Not sure if I caught something or just because I didn't sleep well or maybe ate too much hummus. Could be a bit of all three. I do know I could nap and be pretty darn happy at it :)

I'm sure you've heard about the US being downgraded to a AA credit rating. Because of this - the media had a field day writing stories about the US going into a 2nd recession and it'll be worse than the 1st. This caused the Dow Jones to be down 600 points at closing. Another sign of self-fulfilling prophecy. The media throws people in a frenzie - that frenzie causes the market to drop which causes people to hold onto their money, which in turn forces businesses to lay off employees if no one is buying their product/service.

If the media just would have kept their trap shut and focused on the positive aspects instead of speculating failure -- than the panic wouldn't start and grow like a fungus.

I was going to map out ways for you to decrease your stress and save yourself from panic. But I came across a blog from Colette Baron-Reid that fit the bill. I found this article on her web site.

What to Do When You’re Feeling Anxious, Fearful, or Just Plain Worried!
BY COLETTE BARON-REID 2 AUGUST 2011

Ever feel like the walls of worry, nervousness, and unease are closing in on you? Are anxiety and catastrophic thinking starting to wreck havoc on your peace of mind?

Everyone experiences feelings of anxiety and unease from time to time. In fact, it’s a very normal reaction to stress. It helps us deal with a tense situation in the office, study harder for an exam, and keep focused on an important speech. In these situations, it helps us cope and become more alert. But, what do you do when you’re feeling dread, panic, or anxiety more often than not?

From worry about our health or job security to fear about what might happen down the road, more and more of us are living in a constant state of anxiety. And, it’s no wonder! Many of us are juggling so many responsibilities and challenges in life that our own peace of mind and self- care end up on the back burner. Moreover, it seems not a day goes by without some panic-inducing news flash about economic strife, environmental degradation, terrorist threats, and so on. All of this is taking a toll on our physical, mental, and spiritual health. In fact, according to the National Institute of Mental Health, more than 19 million Americans have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. At any given time 13-25% of American adults are experiencing heightened anxiety. It’s also been estimated that 75-90% of all doctors’ visits are due to the effects of stress. That’s a lot!

But, here’s the most fantastic news. You truly can conquer anxiety and overwhelm. Here are some of my favorite anxiety-busting tools, which I’ve used in my own life and in my work with clients.

The Landscape of Peace and Calm: As I talk about in my most recent book, The Map: Finding the Magic and Meaning in the Story of Your Life, the environment of your mind—the internal landscape of your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs—is what creates your experience. The problem is that it’s incredibly difficult to shift what’s going on in our mind with willpower alone, especially in the midst of heightened anxiety. But, as I show you in the book, when you can easily make such a shift when you engage the power of metaphors and imagination. When you explore your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs as enchanted environments where your emotions take on attributes of the outer natural world, you’re able to detach from your emotions and access the wisdom you need to transform your inner and outer experiences.

Here’s how you can do this to shift out of anxiety.

First, think of whatever is making you anxious. Then close your eyes and imagine your anxious thoughts, feelings, and beliefs as an environment. Perhaps when you feel anxious, it’s like running through a dark forest with giant ghost trees jumping out of nowhere. Or, maybe it’s like a stormy ocean with ominous clouds above. In your journal, describe your landscape of anxiety.

Now, think of a time when you’ve felt calm, peaceful, and happy. Then close your eyes and picture those feelings of calm as an environment. Perhaps it’s a sparking pond with a rainbow above. Or, maybe it’s lush garden of sunflowers. Once again, describe this environment in your journal.

Which landscape would you rather be living in? You do indeed have a choice! Now that you’ve plotted these two points in your consciousness, any time you feel anxiety take a moment to recall these two landscapes and remind yourself that you can make the choice to be in the one that’s more appealing. By picturing the calm landscape, you’ll find it’s much easier to connect with the calm emotions that come along with it.

Meditation: Among the many proven benefits of meditation is stress relief and peace of mind. Neuroscientists have actually found that people who meditate shift their brain activity to different areas of the cortex—brain waves in the stress-prone right frontal cortex move to the calmer left frontal cortex. This mental shift decreases the negative effects of stress and anxiety, and they were calmer and happier than before. There is also less activity in the amygdala, where the brain processes fear.

Meditation also enables you to move beyond the busy ego mind to that peaceful place within your consciousness where you’re connected to the All That Is and your intuition. When you meditate, you’re able to step back from the anxious chatter and can more easily shift your perspective on whatever is bothering you.

The Art of Mindfulness: Another form of meditation is mindfulness, which involves bringing your awareness to the here and now and simply noticing what you’re thinking and feeling without judgment. Instead of working against the voice in your head, you sit back and “observe” your thoughts—just notice rather than become involved in them. As you observe them, the thoughts often become less stressful and you start to see that it’s not the thoughts themselves that are causing anxiety, but rather the power you give them.

Focused Breathing: Emotions and breathing have a reciprocal relationship: when you’re feeling anxious, nervous or upset, your breathing quickens and may even become erratic. And, when you’re relaxed and composed, your breathing is slow, calm, and rhythmical. By working with your breath, you can calm your mind and emotions.

Here is an easy breathing technique for stress reduction:

Touch the tip of your tongue to the top of your mouth, just behind your teeth. Then inhale slowly through your nose, counting to four. Feel the breath filling your lungs from bottom to top. Hold your breath for a count of seven seconds. Then exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of eight seconds. You might even want to picture yourself exhaling the thoughts that are bothering you.

Seek Out Support: Just talking about your anxiety with either friends or a counselor can do wonders for helping you let it go. In fact, the mere action of saying your worries aloud often enables you to shift your perspective. If you’re up for it, you might talk about it in a very dramatic fashion, using all sorts of descriptive words. Then, tell it again. By the fourth time, it usually becomes silly and you have a good laugh.

I thought the above would be helpful to you all - I hope you can agree!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Ben Browder, Questions and Lessons Galore!

2011-08-05T16:06:00.000-04:00

Having Ben Browder on the show last night was a highlight of my year so far. He was personable, friendly and talkative. The interview was only supposed to last 15 min but he hung around chatting with me for 35 min. Yay Ben!

I've complied a list of people I want to interview on the show. If you have anyone you'd like me to add (of course no guarantee I can get them on), go to Allie Theiss Friends on Facebook and let me know!

I have also decided that besides talking about their current project or event, that every guest will get asked a series of 10 questions (like on The Actor's Studio). My list looks something like this...

Here's the list I'm going to ask every guest from now on (besides asking about current projects):

Aliens have been studying our planet for 50 years - living among us and observing our behavior. They've been recalled to their home world to report their findings. What would they say about the human race?
You've been whisked into the Witness Protection Program. Because you can no longer be (insert profession), what kind of job would they give you?
What's the one piece of advice you can give people about pursuing their dreams?
What's your favorite food?
You have a craving for (insert favorite food) and you lack the ingredients to make it/cannot find it no matter how many stores/restaurants you visit. What do you do?
If you could be any animal - which one?
At your current age, if you were able to give one piece of advice to the younger you - what would it be?
If someone was writing a biographical book or movie on your life - what would be the title?
What is your passion? What drives you to get out of bed every morning?
Pet Peeve?

There may be some tweaking before the next interview - but I like my questions. It gets the listener a chance to get to know the person without having to ask the same boring questions.

Life is funny - never boring - even when it can be exhausting. When life gets to be exhausting, it's because there is a lesson or two in there that we cannot see or refuse to see and we keep repeating it. Even when the sun shines through and we think we've got it made - if we haven't learned the lesson that was presented to us -- life is going to kick the legs out from underneath you - again.

Each time the same lesson comes around again, it's harder to overcome. If you don't learn in it in the current life - good God - the next life that lesson will come back and it will be unbearable. You'll get put in a situation that forces you to learn the lesson. For instance - you have a great job with gobs of money, but you're not giving at all to those less fortunate. Because of this - your personal life is in shambles. No matter how many people you have sex with or marry - you never get it right. Enter the next life - you have gobs of money again, but you lose every last dime and end up homeless. Now you are forced to see that it is imperative that people help out the less fortunate - which is now you. Make sense? Or in the next life no matter you do you can't catch a break and you're always broke -- causing you to be one of the less fortunate.

All I know is that I pay very close attention now to my own life. If I see a pattern I figure out what the lesson is and I try to learn it and move forward.

So where are you stuck? Can you see a pattern?

Friday's food for thought :)

Crystal Sunshine!

Allie ;)

Ben Browder and Will Is Back!

2011-08-03T12:56:00.000-04:00

Finally a day where the heat isn't trying to kill me. A good day indeed. Trying to get caught up on my blogs as well as Atlantis and my kid screenplay.

Tonight on the Allie Theiss Show will be that crazy red head Holly Vincent! Our topics include angels - both earth and heavenly, as well as a few of our favorite things. In the 9 pm hour I'll discuss gypsy magic and my journey on finding my true love. Plus - of course - free readings :)

Now tomorrow night (Wed) is when my interview with Ben Browder will be on! YAY :) So excited! I'm such a science fiction geek. Also joining me will be Monica Davis as we talk about astral travel and past lives. Plus - of course - free readings :) Whoo hoo.

Less than 3 wks until the kid goes back to school! It has it's ups and downs. Ups cause I'll be able to work almost interrupt free. But the struggle I'll have to go through to get him to school (each and EVERY day) ----- SIGH.

Will is back. I am soooooo happy his energy is back where it belongs. Besides the fact that the guy is my muse -- his timing couldn't be better. I "asked" where in the tarnation (yes I did use that word) has he been? He said he'd been around but I'd been too distracted to notice. Listen here Will - from now on grab my attention - ok? Out of all of the guys - you are the one who can do it the quickest and the strongest.

It's odd - I can feel him just standing there watching me. I know he's not actually here - but his energy is and he just watches. It's a strange feeling - no bones about it. He wants me to go with him. Let me see what he wants and I'll be right back...

He took me to the willow tree by the river. "I've missed you", he said in a gravely voice. I assured him that I have missed him and our time together as well. He asked me if he could start again. He wants another chance to prove to me he is the person I know he is. He wants to see me again - talk to me. Will asked that once mercury goes direct if I will start the process. I assured him I will do just that. He went on to say that he knows he is one of the souls who helped to place that hole in my heart. He doesn't like it - not at all. Even though that hole is no longer there - he still doesn't like what he did. Besides -- he doesn't like to be lumped into the same category as Bill. LOL. Those two never really have liked one another.

We'll have to see what happens - won't we?

I created a separate FB page and Twitter account for The Passion Zone if anyone is interested:

The Passion Zone FB: http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Passion-Zone/154968361246201
The Passion Zone Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/Passion_Zone

Better run -- still have plenty to get done before the show tonight!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Finding True Love and The Universal Light Expo!

2011-07-27T16:24:00.000-04:00

The Allie Theiss Show will be going on as planned tonight with Holly Vincent! Tomorrow, Thursday's show is canceled. The heat is supposed to be back to super stupid tomorrow. My yard looks like the foundation for a jungle. I promised "it" that I would start again with the upkeep when the heat stayed away for longer than overnight :)

Back to the show - -- Holly and I will be discussing Gypsy Magic, candle magic and crystal sphere/ball gazing. Plus - if you know us - we will talk about anything else that is on our mind - AKA stupid @ss debt ceiling.

I'm no longer involved with The Movement. It has been handed over completely to a young man named Phil. I know he will run with it and do a super job spreading peace and love throughout the world.

The Universal Light Expo web site has been updated! Stop by booth 894 to say hi! I will be doing readings :) I will be giving a workshop on Sunday 11:00–11:50 PM...Richard Nolan Room Unleash your Sexual Energy . Although it is the same topic as last year, it will be a different lecture :)

I've been open and willing to start a new relationship for awhile. Only thing is I won't settle for just anyone. I want someone who compliments me, not tries to run me over or complete me. Over the last 4 years I've done a lot of soul searching and discovery about myself and my life.

So I'm going to put my money where my mouth is -- so to speak. I went to DailyOm and signed up to "Find True Love in 27 Days". The instructor teaches me to become a love magnet. Something I can teach others to do - but I have problems doing it myself. I decided to try another approach. I will let you know how it goes :) I could have signed up for "Manifest your Soul Mate" but I think you guys know my view on soul mates - they're not always a romantic possibility in a lifetime.

I just thought of something - yesterday I wrote on FaceBook that I'm pretty damn positive that something is going to come out of left field within the next month and just shake me to the core - in a good way. I wonder if it has anything to do with the above workshop? Hummmm??

I so not have any memories of dreaming about Unknown Man since that dream a few days ago. I hope he makes another appearance soon.

Better get going and get some more things done before tonight's show!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Dreams, the Unknown Man and Noah Wylie!

2011-07-25T11:50:00.000-04:00

Still alive with this heat - although this week it is really starting to take a toll on me. Since it got so hot and humid, I can't seem to wake up before 8 am. I'm a 5:30 waker upper. I actually like getting up when the sun comes up. So this sleeping in is really screwing with my internal clock. And yes - I have set my alarm. I never hear it and I turn it off in my sleep. I guess the universe wants me to sleep.

Because of the heat I will probably cancel the Allie Theiss Show for the week. I'm not happy about it - I don't want to do it. But I feel like roadkill by the time 8 pm rolls around. I'll decide sometime today or by Tuesday morning on what I'll do.

The last dream sequence I had this morning was really odd. And the fact that I cannot recall the face of a person is driving me crazy - because I know this person is important to my future and he has been in my dreams before.

Anyway....

I'm overseas somewhere, at a wedding (not mine) and it's over as well as the reception. I'm in the hotel lobby - where I'm also staying and I notice the time. It's 6:00 pm. There's a guy next to me - tall (6', 6'1" maybe), dark hair, nice shoulders - and he's in a suit (I'm in dress) we met at the wedding.

I notice the time and I'm like **(^*%$%$ my plane takes off in 10 min - so much for going home today. I thought to myself how can I afford another night in this hotel and then I remembered the extra money I had. I go up to the front desk and tell them I'm staying another night - no problem.

This guy and I go up to my hotel room. we go in and it reminded me of a typical NYC hotel room - small and cramped yet had all the amenities. He comments nice room. I think to myself that his room must be double or triple the size and that he was being polite. I somehow knew he was well off.

We're on my bed and I'm reaching under the bed for a suitcase. He finds it, brings it up onto the bed. It's a blue suede suitcase (I took notice because my actual luggage is red and it's not suede). I notice that he has nice hands. Not nice in the sense that he gets a manicure, but they're - I guess - manly. I don't know how else to put it. Right then I remembered that he has been with me before in countless other dreams and I can never remember his face - ever.

I want to stare at him, but instead open up my suitcase to get out my airline ticket so I can change flights. Once I find the ticket he kisses me - the sweetest kiss. We talk about something - no idea what - and just kicking back relaxing.

It then shifts to him kissing me again and him sliding his hand up my skirt. I have no panties on! This surprises both him and I to the point that we both start laughing.

This in turn shifted me outside on the street - and by a tree stood Noah Wylie. I mentioned to him that I like Falling Skies - he thanked me. Then we went on to talk about ER and that the only reason I started to watch it was for because of him and then Anthony Edwards (but I couldn't think of Anthony's name). I was trying to think of his name which got me to Top Gun, then Maverick and then Goose. Noah mentioned he liked that movie and I said I had it. He asked if we could go watch it and I'm like sure! Then I said I also have Ferris Bueller and Major League. He was all for watching all 3.

Now I have no clue why it shifted from unknown man to Noah Wylie. I don't think Noah is unknown man - so I don't know his place in the dream sequence. I think though that I will have to watch Top Gun today though - lol.

I've been trying - unsuccessfully - to figure out who unknown man is. He's important to me - I know it. He also has something to do with my future here in the physical reality. His face is "right there" on the tip of my tongue - so to speak. Everything about him is very vivid and I can remember perfectly - except for his face. SIGH. I'm finally going to give him a label - although I've talked about him before, I decided to keep track.

Off to eat lunch and then the Ask Allie podcast!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

Off to eat lunch then the Ask Allie pocast!

Ben Browder and Manifestation - It's All Good!

2011-07-20T12:16:00.000-04:00

There's a heat advisory and it is so flipin hot already. Dang this house for not having any a/c already installed in it. Yes - I do know they make portable units - but there's money required for one of those things :) LOL. We'll survive - just be really hot and miserable for a few more days.

If you listen to my Allie Theiss Show you'll know that I've been "putting it out there" that I want Ben Browder on my show. I've been consistent in my plea to the universe - every week I've said at least once since the show started.

Well guess what? Got the word yesterday that Ben agreed to an interview! YAY!! I'm really thrilled to talk with him - I'm a HUGE Farscape and Stargate fan. If you're a science fiction fan and you've never watched Farscape - you really need to. Good ole Netflix :)

Not sure of the exact date his interview will be on - but as soon as I hear through the "suit" channels - I will let you know :)

Now my sex advice show - The Passion Zone - ever since I put it on iTunes it's being downloaded at a crazy pace. I told my co-host Scarlet that I guess it's about time we add another tid bit to the show.

Ask Allie podcast - also on fire. Hard to believe it's my 6th year of the podcast! I hope people continue to listen to the shows and enjoy them.

Now back to Ben and also to Atlantis. I know full well that the law of attraction/manifestation is what brought Ben to say "ok" and got my Atlantis project funded. So knowing this, I had to think to myself - how did these two things manifest when I can't manifest more money or a decent love interest?

Then it dawned on me - I wasn't worried about Ben saying yes or Atlantis getting funded. I put it out there (on a consistent basis) and didn't worry about it. I didn't think about the how, why or when - I just "knew" that both would come to pass. I didn't obsess over either - didn't give either really much thought.

Now I worked towards both (by putting it out there) I didn't just say what I wanted and then sat and waited for it. There's some action required behind the scenes. You don't have to know what the action has to be - the universe knows that - all you have to do is go with the flow.

All I knew is that I wanted what I wanted. The universe figured out the rest.

So what do you want? Can you do what I did and put what you want out there to the universe on a consistent basis without worrying or obsessing about it? Because that's how it's done. I am again - living proof :)

And on that note - I'm off to work on Atlantis!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

A Little Bit of This and That!

2011-07-18T15:35:00.000-04:00

So who saw Harry Potter over the weekend? My son and I did - had a blast. Good ending to the blockbuster series. Won't say anything about it in case you are going to go see it except that I love Alan Rickman. He was my fav from movie one all the way till the end.

Now I'm looking forward to see Cowboys & Aliens to watch Harry baby (AKA Harrison Ford). I wasn't going to go see the movie - but after watching the preview and see him in a cowboy once again - SIGH - I'm such a sucker.

This heat is horrible and it will continue to be just that all week. Damn it all. My son and I are making more trips to the movies, library and out to eat just to get out of this heat. I doused my animals in water - none were too happy with me at first. Then they're like -- ohhhh...we like this! Yeah dudes, only trying to cool you down.

Samantha keeps having her strokes. She's going to be the death of me. This heat isn't helping her at all. Please continue to send your prayers and healing light to her.

Because of the heat I'm probably going to cancel the Allie Theiss show this week. It's going to be way too hot to do a show. Way too hot.

Atlantis is moving along slow but steady. I like the progress I'm making on it so far :)

Job hunt - ahh.......stone cold. SHRUG. We'll see...

I know there's more I want to say - but quite frankly I can't remember. Bummer :( If I think of it -- I'll post again soon.

Stay cool and have a great Monday!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Joshua, Creation and My Sammy Jo!

2011-07-11T20:19:00.000-04:00

You know - these last couple of weeks....they've really tuckered me out. And there's more ahead. Two weeks ago I spent the week working on the inside and outside of my house for my son's 11th birthday + 4th July party. We never really get guests - so I never really clean. I mean sure - dishes are done, floors vacuumed - bathrooms wiped clean before something gets us -- but not the heavy duty stuff. That week almost killed me. LOL. I did make my son help - and yes, it wore him out too.

Then I have this unbearable heat. Today the air is so thick and heavy it just makes it difficult to do anything. Had the same problem last week and will have it again tomorrow. With no a/c - I get very tired and suffer from horrible headaches when it's this hot and humid.

Now last Wed I woke up with a spider bite on my right elbow. Today - Monday - it's still a bit swollen and hurts. But last week - just moving my arm made me cry out in pain. Probably a brown recluse spider. No - I didn't go to the doctor. Just a lot of ice and kept drinking my Amazing Grass drinks for my immune system. According to what I read online - had I not done both and still not gone to the doctor I could have been in big trouble. But I kept an eye on it -- had it gotten real bad I would have went to the doc. The swelling has come down enough that I was able to find the fang marks of the bite. Nice.....

My kitty Samantha Jo (full name Samantha Jo Bean Curtis Kirby Jr. <-- don't ask..it was a 4 wine bottle night when we finished with her name) is not doing well. She had a stroke Sunday. There's nothing that can be done when an animal has a stroke - they either improve or they get another stroke that usually kills them or make it so they have to be put down (which is what happened to my Indy). So some light and prayers for my Little Honey. Whenever she dies - her momma will not take it well -- at all. Trust me on this. She is eating, drinking and using the litter box :) She can't lift her head up to look straight ahead and she wobbles and veers when she walks :(

Just an FYI - I had to go lie down for awhile due to this stupid heat - so I'm finishing this in the evening.

Samantha did get up and moving today and had her head up a few times - so that is progress. I did ask Joshua if he could do something. I mentioned if you're one of the original creators - you have the power of life. I threw in a big pretty please.

Speaking of Joshua, he has been showing me some pretty interesting things. He took me back to when the universe began. It was - in effect - like the Big Bang Theory in respect that there was a bang. Joshua showed me the yin/yang effect - and how the combination of those two forces is how the universe began. I asked him - who decided there should be a universe and where was he before the universe began?

He replied that he had always been there. I - being who I am - asked where was he before he had a place to be? His reply only made me more curious - he said why would he need a place to be if he always existed. Being "in" a place was a three-dimensional situation. He was in a location where being "in" something was not needed for existence. The universe was started to create - expand.

So I had to ask - who created him? He was silent for several minutes - I thought I had asked one question too many. Joshua replied finally that he didn't know. He had just always "Been". He had never thought of himself being created by anyone or anything.

I woke up from our visit and stayed awake thinking of the possibilities.

I made funding for my Atlantis project - yay! I feel very blessed. I wanted the universe to give me a sign - and it did - in a big way! I work on it every day now :)

The job hunt isn't going anywhere - still. Applications are out - but still haven't heard a peep from anyone other than that one interview I went on.

My goal is to now get prepped for the Ask Allie podcast. Hopefully I will get it done and posted tonight!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Life Path, Allie and Change!

2011-06-27T16:18:00.000-04:00

I'm a work in progress - we all are. And being a work in progress there are things that dawn on me. Things that I should have known - or maybe at one time did consciously know - but forgot again. The latest to dawn on me is if we are not following the path we're supposed to than our inner light dims. If our light dims then they win. Now you ask -- who is "they"? "They" can be anyone you want them to me -- for me they = bad guys = negativity. That's who I think "they" are.

What keeps a person from following their path? Fear? The unknown? Confusion? Comfort? Being too scared to follow your path and being too comfortable with life to follow your path are both in the same - bad. What about not following your path because you listen too much on what others have to say - or you are a people pleaser and your need to please others outweighs your own needs.

So what happens when you don't follow your path in this life? Is that the path that you'll have to follow in the next life - on top of the path you were supposed to follow in that life? Or is everything pushed back meaning there are more lives you will have to live?

See - this stuff runs through my mind. For better or for worse - this is what keeps me up some times.

Of course then I have to ask myself about my path. When I throw it out there - I hear the word creative. Everything else is an appendage of the creativity - the readings, workshops, sex coaching - all an offshoot.

So when you ask about your path - what is the first thing that pops into your mind? Healing? Helpful? Inquisitive? Curious? It should really boil down to one word. Everything else radiates outward. Think of your path as the center of the sun - with all of the way you can accomplish that path as the sun's rays.

Makes you think. It made me think anyways.

Applying for jobs all over the place. Surprisingly, I found a bunch of job openings in my immediate area. Fingers crossed that I get one. What will happen to all of this if I do? Don't know. I really don't.

Have a great week!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

US Gov't is Broken - Allie's Take on a Fix!

2011-06-22T11:26:00.000-04:00

The United States Gov't is broken. I don't care who is the big cheese in the Oval Office or what Senators/Congressmen bought themselves a seat -- the current system no longer works. The tighter the greedy SOB's hold onto the dinosaur of a system, the longer the citizens of the United States are going to suffer.

What set me off this time? The man who walked into a bank and stole $1 just so he could go to jail and get health care. Haven't heard about this story? Here it is on CNN.

The other day I saw some kids rummaging through a restaurant trash container for food. Here in Wooster - in the heart of Amish Hell - there are kids who are going hungry. I know this is happening all over the place - but you don't expect to see it in your small town. It pisses me off.

I have a lot of homeless, down on their luck, people walk past my house (ok - it's a lot for a small town anyways) - I am always giving away what I grow - strawberries, raspberries, grapes, tomatoes and peppers. It's who I am. That's why I feed the stray animals - I can't help it. I cannot stand to see anyone hungry - whether it's a little person with fur or a full-fledged human.

Every time I read something else boneheaded that our gov't does - or has already done - I think about getting into politics. But I know it doesn't matter who is in office - if the system stays broke no amount of me or anyone else who wants change is going to do any good.

It is going to take a massive outcry from the American people to force change in our gov't. Now I'm not suggesting a civil war or any type of violence. That's just plain stupid. But what I am suggesting is that we take a stand. Think about it. If you could implement change in the US gov't - what would you change?

For me - two things right off the top:
1) Make it popular vote and not this Electoral College crap. The founding father's had it right back in 1776 - but times have changed.
2) Get rid of lobbyists. 90% of the time they are only interested in the interest of big business. The gov't is supposed to be by the people FOR THE PEOPLE. Not by the people for big business interest.

What else?

Bills that hit the House or Senate get voted on. The legislation has to be broken down by section - with short sweet to the point wording. After each section, then the senator or congress person has to take a short quiz to make sure they understood what they read. After all that is done - then they are allowed to vote on the measure.

US Supreme Court - gets voted in by the people by popular vote. And it's not a life appointment.

Have the US gov't get a private surprise audit every few years (once per presidential term) by an outside accounting firm - each time a different firm. And then make the findings public without creative editing.

Create a panel of "normal" everyday folks so that people on the "Hill" do not lose touch with the public that they are supposed to be serving. This panel could suggest items to help the American people along with giving their opinion to what's already in place.

Put the emphasis on small business America. Big business love went out a long time ago. Small business is what will put the US back on the map as innovators and will pull us out of this black hole economy.

If lobbyists are booted - maybe we can find a way to make health care affordable for everyone (yes I know about Obama's care - but we need one that is better thought out and executed) and get good, healthy school lunches in every school in the US.

What does my rant have to do with spirituality? Everything. I want to grow old in a place that supports and nurtures everyone - not just those wealthy enough to buy in. It's about love, peace, support and doing to others what you would want to be done to yourself. It's about being a good soul - not about just being human.

So think about it folks. If you could change your gov't what would you change? If you could change your life - what would you change?

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

My Guides, Plan of Action and Bill!

2011-06-20T11:02:00.000-04:00

I had a good time at Holistic Harmony down in Lexington yesterday! I went and donated my time for 3 hrs to give people readings. It was fun - met some great people. Hopefully I'll be able to do it again in September. They hold the readings & healings the 3rd Sunday of every month. They asked me to come back in August but I can't that weekend (my mom's birthday). So we'll see!

Yesterday we had some really strong storms here. Wasn't fun at all to drive through and I drove through them quite a bit. Everything was ripe for a tornado - even watched the clouds swirling around like they wanted to form into one -- but they just couldn't do it. My car and I were happy that they failed - not once, but three times.

One of the people I met yesterday has Iris as a guide :) I wished her luck and told her to hang on!

So my guides and I (Joshua, Ethan and Edward anyways) had it out the other day (so to speak). I'm like okay guys -- if readings are not my thing (obviously) and you want me doing something else -- and it's not working for anyone else (this has become apparent - unfortunately), then what in the world am I supposed to do?

This is their plan of action:

Keen. You may not like being there all that much - but you being on there on a schedule will help open up other pathways to people purchasing readings directly from your site. It's not a cure all - but it will help you squeak by. So far they appear to be right on this -- I am squeaking by - but the real test is next week when the mortgage is due.
Write - write - write -- for the sake of all that's holy - write. I ask - what is most important. They respond a duo of Atlantis/flash spell book. I will get the book done while working on Atlantis. But above everything else - Atlantis has to get done. This is an ongoing project they assure me I will be working on for the rest of my life. Also - this is what brings Ben and I to the table to meet.
Sex coaching - have to get this going. Get the web site up pronto.
Virtual sex toy parties - need asap. They are really in my face about this one. Twice a month will work to start. But they say if I wanted to do it once a week by Feb 2012 it will work just fine.
Put together the love & relationship fair. it doesn't matter how small it is the 1st year, it's something that has to be done.
Learn HTML - for the above items.

That's what they said needs done NOW. When the above is in swing - they'll move things around a bit. I told them that I'd really like to do the OBE book - after the flash spells they said.

Back to Ben a moment. He is really chomping at the bit to get involved in Atlantis. I have no idea what he is to do with it -- but whatever it is he is a central part. As well as Todd. Again - no clue - but they both play a roll. The last couple of nights both men have been showing up in my dreams. Nothing really happens in the dreams except for some small talk - it's nice to see you - and we go on our way. It's odd.

Now Bill on the other hand, is asking a million questions (or so it seems) as we dream. I keep taking him to our past lives and showing him things. Last night I took him back to our 1920's lifetime. He was amazed. He kept asking how did I know it was him and Ted in this life. We don't look the same then as we do now. I tried to explain - again - about the energy signatures and the eyes - how they never change from life to life even when we change our physical appearance and gender. It seemed to be sinking in when we parted ways.

My son and his broken arm are moving along nicely. Hard to believe he'l be 11 in 11 days.

Crystal Sunshine!

Allie :)

Relationship Fair and Love Thy Self!

2011-06-15T11:38:00.000-04:00

Had an idea for a local fair in 2012 - preferably in Feb before Valentines Day...a fair about love and relationships. Attendees could visit vendors - go to workshops about spicing up a relationship, strengthening a relationship, dating, online dating, sex, etc...There would be experts on love, sex, romance and dating (therapists, counselors, coaches, authors) along with psychics and vendors that have products/services related to love/relationships. There would be a set number of each category allowed in - so maybe at 1st 5 counselors, 5 coaches, 4 romance party reps, 5 authors, 5 stores, 5 fetish (swingers, BDSM, etc..) groups/clubs, 10 psychics.....and as the fair grows so do the amount of each category I allow in. Love, sex, relationship & romance workshops. What do you think?I have no idea how to set up something like this. I tried to find a web site or book that could give me some info -- no such luck. I have just under 8 months to plan this if it's something that I should do.

Tonight's Allie Theiss show will be fun! That wacky red head Holly is back for more talk on angels, bring positive into your life and maybe -- just maybe we'll go on our conspiracy rant again :) Call in (760) 542-4156 or join us in the chat room! Miss Betty will be back with me on Thursday for the 1st hour :)

I put myself on a schedule at Keen. Mon - Fri 8 am - 1 pm et and Tues, Wed, Thurs 10 pm - 11 pm et (after the show). As always if you'd like 3 free min let me know. You will also have to let me know that I said that as I have people who have no clue who the heck I am trying to get free minutes.

My son just came in and said he hated me --- nice. He doesn't like that I put myself on the previously said schedule :) He wants me to go play with him.

I find it odd that all of my guides have taken a step back. I know they are there - at least Joshua, Edward and Ethan. But none of them are close enough. Not sure if that makes sense. If I want one of them I can say their name and they're here. But they are not "right here" like usual. I'm not sure if that's a good or a bad thing. Maybe I'm finally doing things like I'm supposed to so that they do not ave to try to pound it into my thick skull? I like that reason -- we're sticking to it unless they say something else.

I'm curious -- how much do you love yourself? Not in solo fun with yourself -- but how much you love yourself, like you love another person? I've noticed that people spend more time loving others than themselves. There's a problem with that.

Why?

Because if you spend your time loving others more than you love yourself - you get shortchanged. If you're shortchanged guess what? You're not happy.

If you're not happy guess what happens....

Your health suffers. Your mood suffers. And before you know it -- it appears that all you attract to yourself is bad fortune.

You gotta love yourself AT LEAST as much as you love others. You should love yourself MORE. But I know as a mom - that's a tough pill to swallow.

Here are some daily tips how to love yourself more:

Give yourself at least 10 min a day to yourself. It could be locked in the bathroom/shower. Taking a walk around the block. Waking up 10 min early and just lying in bed.
Do at least one activity a day you enjoy. It may be watching a TV program, reading a book, gardening, playing with your children. Catch is it HAS TO BE something YOU enjoy.
Once a month buy yourself something. It doesn't have to be expensive: a magazine, iPhone app, a song, a reading, a book, a stone, etc....
Before you eat something - ask yourself where it came from - how was it made? The healthier items you put in your body - the healthier your body becomes.

So see - you can love yourself on a daily basis and it won't eat up a lot of your time or money!

If you love yourself and act accordingly to yourself - your life will transform. You will feel better - physically, mentally and emotionally. Your mood will improve. Your eating habits will improve. Your energy body will grow stronger thereby attracting what is in your highest good to you. It's all good stuff man!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Bill , Atlantis and Thought Exchange!

2011-06-13T14:16:00.000-04:00

My son in his infinite wisdom decided to break his arm in two spots last week. Ok - so that wasn't his intent. But when you ride the recycle bin down the staircase -- what would you expect? So while this has put a crimp on his birthday party (postponed maybe canceled - all depending) he does have a waterproof cast on which means we can still go to the pool this summer. YAY!

Then today my cat Scrappy Doodle pushed through the screen in my office, rolled out onto the roof, rolled down the roof and managed to grab on - pull himself up with his claws. SIGH.

And summer just started!

I'd like a slice of quiet times - hold on the drama please. LOL.

Working on my thought process still. This is an ongoing project. I find that it takes more (for me anyways) then to simply remove a thought (in regards to money and impending doom) and replace it with a happier one. I have to remove it AND find something else to distract me all at the same time. The distraction becomes by thought and the action I'm doing stirs up good emotions.

By just replacing one thought for another I noticed I fought like hell against the residual emotions that were sticking around from the previous thought. So that's when I had the idea to distract myself as I was changing one thought for another. So far that has worked.

I put myself into a panic last night when I realized the date and then looked at my bank account. I can do this.....

Bill - for whatever reason - is becoming very popular during my dreams. Now I don't know if he's always been there every night and I'm just not remembering more. Or if he is showing up on purpose more. He's always been a frequent visitor - my whole life. But now -- well it's hard to explain or I how know - but it's different now. He wants to know more. Growing up neither one of us gave it a second thought. Then when I discovered who he was back in 2002 - it all changed. He was still around but ignored me - like I broke some unspoken rule that we weren't supposed to know who each other was in the physical world.

Now he wants to know what I know. And how he can find things out on his own. I have a feeling that someone this is connected to my renewed obsession about Atlantis and my current project. Maybe my energy shifted because of Atlantis and that drew him to me more often?

Whatever the reason is - I'm glad he's around more. I think Ted is too - but his energy is secondary to Bill's in dream time.

Have a great Monday!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

A.R.E, Removing Blockages and Flash Spells!

2011-06-08T14:56:00.000-04:00

It's hot --- really really hot today in Wooster Ohio. Me and the animals are trying to keep as cool as we can in a non a/c house. Poor Bubba keeps following me around everywhere and panting along the way - I keep telling him to stay but it's a no go.

Did a little work on my Atlantis project today along with my flash spell book. I had someone ask me what exactly is a flash spell? A flash spell is something very easy and to the point. Yes - my other gypsy magic spell books were like that. But this time spells are cast by using a few items only. An example would be today's Banyan Tree entry. All you need is a picture of a banyan tree and a green candle. I may approach Llewellyn with it or simply publish it for the kindle & nook with a print copy later on.

My son looked at me this morning on our walk to Camp Inventor and said - mom you're losing weight. I said - I am? Are you sure. Positive mom - he replied - you're looking good. Maybe now you'll get a boyfriend. LOL. I said - honey, you had me on your side until that last part. To which he said - I want it to be more than just you and me mom. I love you - but I want more people to live with us.

SIGH - the kid is determined for me to find a bf. Me? Not so much.

Last night on my radio show Dana Marie and I discussed removing blockages by erasing them off your inner slate. We all have a slate that records everything that happens to us - from the good to the down right nasty from the moment we open our eyes till we take our last breath. What is first written on our slate is put there when we are just babes. Our parents, grandparents usually are the first imprinters. As we age - those first imprints carry a lot of weight on how we're imprinted in the future.

In order to get rid of the imprints - you have to think back to a negative time and see if it still stings. If so - then you are still imprinted and that imprint is affecting your life. You can then imagine or visualize a big ole eraser making that negative imprint disappear from your slate.

Of course there are people who like to hold onto that pain and choose to ignore it.

Interesting conversation ;)

Also based on my talk with Dana I decided to join the A.R.E (Edgar Cayce Association for Research and Enlightenment).
The closest branch to me in Columbus. I wonder if me and someone else could get another branch started in Akron? It's a thought.

Better get ready to brave the heat and walk down to the school to pick up my son. Wish me luck!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)