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Moving on Over

2016-05-20T19:04:00.003-05:00

I have decided to shut down this blog and focus my time over on my new blog, The Little Library. I have nothing to offer in the lifestyle blogging world (which is sad) and the beauty world requires me buying products and we are struggling financially pretty much daily lately (which is also sad).

So, since I write and read and have done book reviews in the past, I started a blog just for that. It's still growing since it's so new. Right now it's just reviews, but I will be adding in giveaways, writing wednesdays, and more soon(ish).

You can now find me at The Little Library!

I'll keep this domain for now and may return to this blog in the future. But for now, my focus is over there.

XO

Brittany

5 Things I've Learned from Drinking Hot Water

2016-02-15T17:25:00.001-06:00

I heard about the benefits of drinking hot water a while ago. Better digestion, better metabolism, better circulation, eliminating toxins, and even faster hair growth. It wasn't some crazy wrap or tea - it was hot water, so I decided there was literally no risk in giving this a shot.

I read that hot water in the morning was good, but then found some women that were drinking hot water all day instead of cold. I figured if I was going to try this, I was going to try it all day and not just in the morning.

A lot of people add lemon to their hot water in the morning for further benefits, but I'm allergic to citrus so I keep it lemon-free. Our filter hooks up to the faucet so I didn't have to wait for a kettle. This made this experiment a lot easier AKA no excuse for being lazy.

After two weeks of nothing but hot water did I find any truth in these "Miracle Hot Water Benefits"?

Well, yes.

1) Digestion. I've never had a big issue with my digestion since I cut out gluten and dairy, but sometimes I have stomach pain and cramps for seemingly no reason. Since I've been starting and ending my day with hot water, these pains have pretty much gone away. I find the hot water, like claimed, relaxes things from the inside and just makes my organs feel better all around. Keeping them warmer instead of shocking them with cold water seems to agree with my body.

Justin has also been drinking hot water, but only in the mornings. He has pretty bad stomach issues and he's even said a glass of hot water in the morning has been easing the severity of his symptoms.

2) Health. I've found that in this season of Winter when my nose gets stuffy and my joints aren't happy with the weather changes, that hot water helps a lot. My nose doesn't stay stuffy like usual and my joints are much happier. I used to get headaches and muscle aches a lot and I've noticed I've had almost no headaches since drinking hot water and my muscle aches aren't as bad, either. It's said that hot water helps maintain the electrolyte and mineral balance in the body, and I do find that I stay better hydrated with hot water than I did with cold.

I'm also finding that hot water is helping with my pretty severe anxiety. Since it aids the nervous system in ways, this does make sense. I've been able to do several things lately that I would usually be incredibly anxious about, with very little anxiety.

3) Sleep. I admit, there were many times when I would have wine before bed so I could sleep during those times of insomnia. Since I switched to hot water, I haven't had wine before bed but maybe once. The hot water relaxes everything. Sometimes there's chamomile in the cup, but usually not. I also find that I sleep better and deeper. Is this partly from the lack of alcohol before bed (which interrupts your quality of sleep)? Maybe. But I still credit the hot water to this some.

4) Circulation. This is kind of a no brainer for me. Warmth equals better circulation which is why you tend to use heat on some injuries to help with the blood flow. Warmth from inside is even better. I have a circulatory system disease, so I was really interested in seeing if improvements here happened. And they did! I still have my symptoms, but they don't last as long and they aren't nearly as bad as they have been in the past.

5) Hair Growth. Okay, I really didn't expect to have this on my list. Total surprise. My hair doesn't tend to grow very quickly because of my disease, but it's grown a noticeable amount since I started drinking hot water. Now I wish I had measured my hair in the beginning, but it never crossed my mind that this would help my hair. It's not a crazy amount, but I definitely noticed my hair hanging lower on my shoulders and getting in the way at night.

Is the hot water flushing out toxins and helping my metabolism also? Maybe. But I don't think I've been doing it long enough to notice a metabolism change. However, I definitely think it's helping flush toxins out. My skin had a bit of a purge a few days into hot water - a sign of detox. And I just feel better all around drinking hot water.

I thought this would take a lot of adjusting since it's hot water and we're used to room temperature or ice water. But I've found I have no trouble. I actually really enjoy the warmth, especially since it's cold outside. Can I keep this up in the Summer? Well, I hope so. Because right now I have no plans on drinking any water but hot if I can help it!

Meal Planning & Eating Paleo at Aldi: Is It Possible?

2016-02-06T14:29:00.004-06:00

Being an adult can suck. I've spent the last week without Internet because of our data plan, for example. It was not a fun time.

Also not a fun time: meal/menu planning. I'm growing to like it some but when I'm at the checkout and that total is going up, up, up, I don't like it so much. I try to plan out two weeks at a time and try to use ingredients for two dishes (or leftovers for a couple of days, at least). With my restrictions, we can't buy the good ole cheap stuff to keep our bill low, like Spam, Ramen, and Kraft Mac & Cheese. Trust, if I could tolerate those things we would be living off of them.

But, I can't. No gluten, dairy, soy, citrus, beans, legumes, some nuts, nightshades, a lot of fruits, etc.. That's not hard to shop for, but it can be a little harder to find good deals.

I had a somewhat small list since I still had some meat in the freezer from Costco, so I just needed other ingredients for side dishes and entrees. This menu looked like this:

Friday: Leftovers
Saturday: Cobb Salad
Sunday: Mediterranean Sweet Potatoes
Monday: Baked Vegetable Soup
Tuesday: Turkey Sausages & Sauerkraut
Wednesday: Pasta
Thursday: Taco Salad
Friday: Beef Liver & Mashed Sweet Potatoes
Saturday: Hamburger Salad
Sunday: Turkey Burgers & Sweet Potato Fries

Not two full weeks, but some of those leftovers will stretch us a few more days between trips. Justin isn't home for lunch most days, so that cuts down there, and I usually have some leftovers or a wrap or a salad. Breakfast is also usually some kind of leftovers for me, eggs for Justin if he has breakfast. Very big on leftovers here. If it ain't broke, don't fix it (although I would choke a bear most mornings for pancakes, toast, grits, and eggs - maybe at some point in our lives).

Usually I shop at Walmart and Sprouts. I've found Sprouts to be cheaper a lot of times when it comes to produce and some meats. Bonus: that produce is usually organic, and meat can be organic and sometimes grass-fed for the same price as Walmart's conventional stuff or sometimes cheaper - depending on how much meat you need. Just check their flyers.
But, that was still adding up and with work being slow lately, I needed to find more way to save money.

Enter Aldi.
I had only been to Aldi once before yesterday. It was a big failure for me that first time. There was string inside my hummus, and the bagged bananas were black and liquefied. So, yes, I was hesitant to go back. But, I'm trying my hardest to save where we can since we are basically living paycheck to paycheck and that's just not fun. So I got my quarter and found the reusable bags and off I went with my mom.

Ended up with:

Chicken Breasts: $3.77
Turkey Sausages: $3.69
GF Pasta: $1.89
Chicken Thighs: $4.19
Tomatoes: $1.69
Bag of Sweet Potatoes: $1.99
Zucchini: $2.99 for 3
Artichoke Hearts: $2.69
Bananas: $1.09
Olives: $1.19
Diced Tomatoes: $.59
Almonds: $2.99

Total: $28.76

Okay, you cannot beat that. Shopping Paleo at Aldi could be pretty damn easy if you're not set on organic or grass-fed.

I even picked up some snacks for Justin pre-work, a bottle of wine for under $3 (that I hope has zero wheat paste involved), and me some GF cookies (that are AMAZING) for only $2.49.

Our total was still under $50.

Can we do without the cookies and plan better for him before work? Yes. This is a work in progress.

I did still need to go to Sprouts for some produce Aldi didn't have and I still needed to go to Walmart for the liver (Sprouts was out), deli meat for wraps, air filters, Emmy rawhides, etc.

BUT that still brought us to barely $100 and the food should hopefully last us about two weeks.

I'm definitely impressed with Aldi and everything we've tried so far has been great. But I haven't cooked any meat yet. Which brings me to the end of this:

Some things were still sketchy at Aldi. And be careful when it comes to the meat and produce. Some of the produce was in bad shape. Some of the meat had very leaky packages and some had even expired 4 days ago. Yikes. So I'm slightly afraid to get my meat from there, but I figure as long as the date is okay and the package isn't gross, we should be fine. I would recommend not buying the stuff that looks like they package there and get the stuff that's more vacuum sealed. Although even some of that stuff was past expiration.

I did save a lot but I won't shop at Aldi exclusively. I can't, really, since they don't carry all we need. And I still will probably buy some meat from Sprouts or Walmart instead of there. If we can save enough on more box and canned items at Aldi, we should have the extra for the better meat and eggs elsewhere. That's the plan, anyway!

What's your experience with Aldi? I know so many people that adore it, so is mine just lacking in some areas?

Snow Day

2016-01-23T12:38:00.000-06:00

We very rarely get snow here in Alabama. But when we do it's usually a State of Emergency. We don't have snow plows out here and no one salts the roads this far out in the country. So if it snows, we're kind of screwed. Yesterday we got about two and a half inches. I was so excited. I love snow.

If I lived somewhere that got snow frequently I'm sure I wouldn't love it this much, but here it's such a treat. Schools get closed, everyone's usually off work. It turns out to be a small snow-filled vacation.

Unfortunately for me, Justin's work decided not to close until 4 and the snow started at 1. He didn't get home until dark, so there went my 'Snow Day Selfies' plan. But Emmy and I had a blast. This was her first time ever seeing snow. Chick was so confused. She kept her paw up a lot (a self-calming position for dogs) the first few minutes and just looked at me like 'What the HELL is this!?' and ate the snow. But then she realized, Hey, this is fun! and we were off. We stayed out there for hours playing in the snow. If you've never played in the snow with a puppy, I highly recommend it.

2016 Makeover

2016-01-21T23:23:00.002-06:00

I had plans for this to be a really interesting lifestyle blog last year. Problem is, my life isn't very interesting right now. With Justin taking my car to work, working long hours, me working from home, and me being around the house the majority of the time, nothing really interesting ever happens. Maybe in the future, but for now there's no way this could survive as a lifestyle blog.

So, this year I took it back to the drawing board. What do I love? Natural living and writing. So, Natural Ink. I am determined this year to post regularly and grow a reader base.

There will be product reviews, short stories, things in the holistic world, things in the writing world, and, when it's interesting, things in the life world. I'm excited. Are you excited?

The First Christmas

2015-12-26T14:48:00.001-06:00

This year was Emmy's first Christmas, Justin's first Christmas, and our first Christmas together. Lot of milestones there! It was a really nice one. Christmas Eve is our huge day of traditions and it was really nice having Justin there for it all. Christmas Day also had some traditions in it. We're now able to leave Emmy for about an hour and a half without her freaking out which has been amazing for us. We can run a couple errands together now instead of someone always staying home with her. Yay for growth! So we got to go have Christmas dinner at my parent's with my grandma and hang out for a bit. Lot of lovely moments. One of the best Christmases to date.

Hope y'all had a merry one!

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas - Kind Of.

2015-12-17T05:29:00.000-06:00

Technically, this is Justin's first Christmas ever. When we were talking about how to decorate he suggested, "Some outside lights and we're good...right?"

Bless his heart.

I did keep things to a minimum this year though: outside lights, Derick the Polar Bear (who cannot keep his scarf on to save his life), some window decor, a wreath, tree with the weirdest fucking ornaments ever (we got a lot of freebies this year), two elves, candles, and some indoor lights.

We got a four foot tree and put it on the bar because I don't trust Emmy with a tree or ornaments or presents. Nothing basically. She's even ripped her stocking down twice so now that's not hanging constantly.

My dad came over to help us (ok, Justin) hang outside lights. I did my part. I drank wine and took pictures.

Literally the best four pictures of the day:

Back to work after we had a three foot light gap at the end that needed to be shifted over:

Inside:

My favorite ornament is probably this anchor with two mice. What that has to do with Christmas, I'll never know.

I don't know about this one, either...

Or this duck

Or a bugle

Yes, this is a mouse in a hammock...with a ukulele.

Some dude with a gun...Merry Christmas?

Sheep on a...horse.

Some of the weirdest fucking ornaments, I swear.

Merry Christmas!

Edens Garden Essential Oils: Create Your Own Set Review

2015-12-16T12:10:00.002-06:00

I only got three things at the Thanksgiving sales: new glasses, Emmy 2-for-1 dog food, and these oils. I got a larger set of these oils last Christmas and have found my favorites and repurchased a few times. But I was running low on several I use for anxiety. Edens Garden had 10% off on Cyber Monday. I love the Create Your Own Sets because you get exactly what you want for a really good price.

How cute is the packaging?? It's different than it was last year. Freakin' adorable.

Anxiety Ease used to be called Calming and this is my third bottle of it. I love it diffused and rubbed on my stomach at night.

Amyris was new to the site but it's supposed to be great for stress and anxiety. I haven't used it yet, but I'm excited to try it diffused.

Fighting Five used to be called Four Thieves and it's amazing. This is literally my fifth bottle of this stuff. I use it anytime I'm sick or getting sick. Diffused, in the tub, on my feet, on my throat. It's great all around and knocks out a mild sore throat in minutes.

Stress Relief is another repurchase. I diffuse it constantly. Emmy really likes this one, too. A few minutes into diffusing and she'll settle down and finally relax.

Immunity and Sunshine Spice are two I hadn't tried before. I've diffused both. Immunity smells pretty good and has helped ease cold symptoms. Sunshine Spice smells amazing. I mean amazing. I've made everyone that comes over smell it. It's that good.

What's your favorite essential oil?

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2015-11-27T12:49:00.001-06:00

We. Have. Moved. Out, that is. Justin and I finally found a place, did the million dollars worth of deposits and fees, moved stuff in, moved stuff around, unpacked (mostly), and cried (ok, that's just me).

It's been a whirlwind. I thought I had scheduled more posts, but apparently I just half-finished a lot of posts and then got too stressed about moving to finish them. My bad. Good news for y'all is that I have a lot of posts halfway finished though!

Moving sucked, I'll be honest. I haven't moved in years and I hadn't been out of my parents house and "on my own" yet. It was a big, big change. Probably the worst is that we only have my car now and no built-in puppy sitter, so when Justin's at work 9-12 hours or so, I'm here by myself with Emmy. Emmy, me, no car. No escape. It was no fun - still isn't at times. I've felt so isolated. I cried a lot. It was embarrassing. But, we're almost a month in and I'm doing a lot better. Emmy is adjusting fairly nicely now. Justin was pretty much good the day we moved in. Lucky him.

I do have a lot of things to post and say, advice and decorating-wise. But I just wanted to pop in and let you guys know we're alive, we're all moved in (kind of, there are still boxes in rooms), we do not have a TV, but we have Wifi so we will survive.

See you guys soon!

3 Tips to Stay Motivated as a Writer

2015-10-27T08:37:00.000-05:00

Being a writer can be hard. Staying motivated can be even harder. In my nine years of writing I've found a couple of things helpful to keep those juices flowing.

Watch a lot of movies/TV. They always tell writers to read a lot and while that is true it's also good to watch a lot. With movies and TV you get to see characters move, display emotions, get a sense of their surroundings. A great movie can inspire your own characters. A great TV show can help you with dialogue. Plus, this is a good excuse to Netflix binge a show - or five.

People watch. Have a seat at a local park or even a bus station and watch how people interact. Is the guy in the corner hiding his fourth donut behind yesterday's paper? Is the couple holding hands looking a little too tense? You can imagine their lives, jot down ideas and just go for it. People watching never gets old - and it's free!

Watch music videos. Similar to watching movies or TV, I find music videos inspirational. They cram a story into a three and a half minute song. How cool is that? Watching these tiny plots can help you with your own short stories or maybe that TSwift video will give you an idea for a whole new novel - minus the breakup...maybe.

See? Easy! Every day things can help you stay motivated or help out with writer's block. Take your notebook with you the next time you have to take your niece to dance class and let that imagination flow baby, flow.

Emmy Turns One!

2015-10-17T17:54:00.000-05:00

It's been another week of leftovers and crock pot dishes, so Scrumptious Saturday would've been boring. But you know what's not boring? A dog birthday party. Sorry, PAWty.
Emmy was about 6 months old when we rescued her so we figured she was probably born around the end of September or the middle of October. We decided to go with the 15th of October and I threw together a little pawty in a couple of days. Oh, man, it was adorable.

Petco will really hook you up! Birthday attire, birthday kit, toys, etc., it was so easy to do. I found an easy dog birthday cake recipe online that I adapted a little since I keep her gluten and grain free - and chicken, bless her heart. Apparently Goldens are big on chicken allergies? Guess that half of her won out. I'm sure the Beagle in her that should have a more 'tin can stomach' is pissed. Anywho. The cake was beef, zucchini, an egg, some parm and turmeric. 'Frosting' was regular potatoes and sweet potatoes. Topping was bacon. I know.

Koda, the neighborhood tramp basically lives with us during the day and goes home at night, so we had him for the morning pawty before Justin went to work and then we had another pawty after my dad got home and my grandma's dog could come down after getting groomed. That way everyone got cake and got to see the adorable-ness that is a puppy opening presents. Probably the equivalent of a baby smashing its own face in that tiny cake you get them for their first birthday so they don't ruin the big cake for everyone. Hilarity.
Enjoy the pawty!

I MEAN.

Bacon skull. Oh yes.

Koda has arrived!

Not a huge fan of the hats.

What birthday girl doesn't take others' cake?

Honestly, I didn't even mean to match dress to wrapping paper. But major score!

Pawty. I die.

House Hunting: It's Over!

2015-10-16T17:24:00.000-05:00

Backgrounds checks came back clean, incomes checked, references called and we got the house. The one that's only five minutes away from my parents. We're a super close family, so I'm very glad we found and got one so close. Maybe I can talk my mom into coming over to double check that chicken is done, what do you think? No, probably not. But still, visits and 'Oh my god you have to come see this' moments can happen quickly. It'll help me adjust, too. Having such severe anxiety for so long makes me weary to be too far from my 'comfort people' so even five minutes will be a big adjustment, but not as much of one as the house forty minutes away that we backed out of - thank goodness.

We don't sign the lease for a couple of weeks, so now it's more along the lines of making lists of what we need and what we have and what people are going to give us/sell for pretty cheap because they want to get rid of stuff and, hey, I love me some hand me downs. We did just order a mattress that I'm excited about. It's an organic and non-toxic one which is really important to me with my health issues. I plan on using as little chemicals as possible in our house, so I'm excited to have a pretty natural living space.

I'm trying to focus on the excitement of all of this but I'm already pretty stressed out. Just the idea of packing and leaving makes me want to cry - and I do, sometimes. I'm also worried about Emmy adjusting. And we plan on having a house warming party with a bunch of people I've never met or only met a few times, so I'm also worried about that and Emmy getting stressed over strangers on top of a new house. There's just going to be so much to buy, get, move, set up, do, etc.
Lots of worrying lately. Lots of wine lately. I know worrying changes the outcome not even a little bit, but I'm a pro at worrying.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Defining Moment

House Hunting Part Two

2015-10-10T09:39:00.001-05:00

Yesterday was another house viewing day. Last week we found one that we both really liked and it would've been all of a two minute walk with Emmy to a huge park with a dog park, a creek, and walking trails. We had a viewing scheduled but then the lady called and said someone had filled out an application, but she would let us know if that fell through. Well, we didn't hear from her again so I guess someone else got that house.

So, it was back to checking Hotpads, Trulia, and Zillow daily trying to find something. It took four days before something popped up oddly. On Google, this house five minutes away came up and mentioned a pet fee but when I found the same house on Trulia and Zillow, it disappeared when I added the 'pets allowed' filter. I e-mailed and the Realtor told me that yes, pets were allowed. I quickly scheduled a tour and we went yesterday. I got a MUCH better vibe with this house than the other one we looked at a couple weeks ago. It's smaller than where we are now, but that's not a big deal since it'll just be the three of us.

The yard is a GREAT size for Emmy, more than double what the other house had. And instead of overlooking someone else's backyard, this backyard is up against woods! I don't know that we would be allowed back there even though there's a gate that leads to them, but it's still a very nice view that I wouldn't mind at all. The bathrooms were also nice - two full ones. Two tubs! I mean. The other two bedrooms are pretty small, but again, it'll work for us right now. The master isn't huge and barely has a closet, but we can find some storage solutions at IKEA or something. Overall, I think we did like the inside of that other house better size-wise and that it had all hardwood floors - this one yesterday has carpet. Not ideal, especially with Emmy, but some area rugs will ease my mind there.

But, we did fill out applications and it turned out in the three weeks this house has been listed, we're the first to view it and apply for it so we have no competition right now. My income made the Realtor raise her eyebrows, me being the 'starving artist' type at the moment. But once she saw Justin's, she felt better. He has the income, I have the good credit. They should combine all of our stuff when they're doing the checks and whatnot. So, we should hear by Tuesday whether or not they'll move forward with us. I really hope we get this one. It's close by, the neighborhood is nice, we're not all sardines in a tin, and I think Emmy would really like it.

We'll see what happens!

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Defining Moment

Tiny Table Makeover

2015-10-05T08:06:00.000-05:00

In moving preparation, I have a couple of pieces of furniture that need a little tweaking. First up was an old table I got years ago. When I got it, it was a gross, faded Barbie pink. I painted it blue and after a while got bored with that, so I painted it white because most of my furniture at the moment is white and simple. I gave it another look last week because the bottom was still blue and unfinished. I planned on just painting it all white but then had a mint idea. I really like how it turned out!

I really love the details on the top and wanted to make them 'pop' with some mint.

First step was to tape off the sections - with Emmy's help, of course.

I think I spent more time chasing Emmy around for "helping" than I did painting the table.

Finally, I got a couple of coats of the mint on.

Next, I plugged up old handle holes (it didn't have one when I got it) on the door.

Finally, I gave it a new handle

All done! I love how it turned out. The little pop of mint is lovely. We're thinking of putting glass on top so it's all even and we can use it as a coffee table.

House Hunting Part One

2015-09-30T17:01:00.002-05:00

House hunting, ladies and gents, is a pain in the ass. If Justin and I were buying a place we probably would've signed papers by now and this nightmare would be over as there is the cutest house in my neighborhood that would be close to family but not across the street. But, we're not buying. Don't even get me started on that. We are renting. And it is a nightmare.

I have been on Trulia and Zillow and others daily for weeks. No luck. Finally, a couple weeks ago I stumbled across a really cute house within our price range, laminate floors, fenced in yard, and allowed pets. Hello, win. Justin called and we went to see it the next day.

First off the bat, the "bird's eye view" picture must have been years old. When we looked online it looked like a very new neighborhood with not many houses in it at all. I'm thinking, "YES. Not a lot of people or dogs to be near Emmy. Plenty of room for her to wander." Well, no. We pull into the neighborhood and I felt myself sinking down into my seat. It was so jammed packed full of houses that I felt claustrophobic.
But, we went and met the owner and took a tour around the house. It felt really small inside even though it had hundreds more square footage than my parent's place. The kitchen opened up into the living room. It was a very nice, open concept. The yard was another 'Ehhh' moment for me. The photo made it look really large but in person I could've spit and hit the back fence. That's not me bragging about my spit skills, that's the truth. It was very small. If we didn't have Emmy, no biggie, but she's used to a lot of space - space that she needs. Back inside, things looked really nice. Three bedrooms, two bathrooms. The dream, okay? Two bathrooms is the DREAM.
We plan on a spare bedroom and then me a writing room with another desk for Justin to draw or something. But a little writing room/office would be really lovely for me. It's not very doable to write on the couch all the time because no one really thinks you're "busy" so they ask stuff of you constantly instead of, 'Oh, she's in her office. She's BUSY.' And I am busy, OK? I have a movie deal to get.

So, inside seemed really great and I guess I got caught up in that because next thing I know, we're filling out the application. The guy was nice, we shook hands, I handed over half my checking account in an application deposit and then we left.
And five minutes later I couldn't stop crying. Nerves aside, my gut was all, 'You dumbass. Did you see that neighborhood? You felt like a sardine in a tin! There were houses on houses on houses all within spitting distance of each other. There were kids everywhere. There was nowhere to walk Emmy where it was quiet. WHAT WERE YOU JUST THINKING??'
And, honestly, I don't know. I think I just wanted this to work out so I went along with whatever. But over the next couple of days it just got worse. There was a pit in my stomach, I couldn't sleep, I wasn't eating much. I cried every time I was alone. Dramatic, sure, but my gut was going crazy with THIS IS A MISTAKE.
Then, of course, we get word that our application was approved. I think I drank half a bottle of wine after that. Justin could tell I was troubled, so we talked about it and talked with my parents about it and finally we all agreed that something closer to home and with not as many houses crammed together would be best. I was so relieved. So insanely relieved. We called the guy and apologized, then passed on the spit house.
So, now we're back to square one. And running out of time quickly. We need to be out around Halloween and I'm having such a hard time finding a place. We've seen plenty of nice places but they either don't accept pets or they do, but have no fenced in yard.
Today we found a couple of potentials, so maybe one of those will pan out. They're not as close as I would like them to be, but I'm just going to have to figure out what all to compromise for this to work out. All I know right now is I'm not eating much, I still can't sleep, and my hair is starting to fall out from the stress. Now I'm starting to think we should've taken the first house and Emmy and I could've just been miserable for a year.
House hunting (for renting), I do hate you.

Anyone have any tips for house hunting? Am I missing a great site to check?

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Defining Moment

Justin's Packing Tips

2015-09-23T16:05:00.000-05:00

Welcome to another guest post by Justin! This time he's going to be talking about his packing experiences when he came to visit me before he moved here. I never visited him because I was so incredibly unwelcomed by just about everyone there, so I have no tips when it comes to packing for an LDR visit. This is his territory today.

When I first came to visit Brittany, I had never been on an airplane. I was terrified and had no idea how to pack. Some friends gave me good advice about how to travel so I did as they suggested and it was so much easier than what I had originally thought.

Tip 1: Make sure you have a duffel bag/suitcase that meets flight standards, especially if it's a carry-on. I only travel with 2 bags. One backpack that I can stow under the seat so I have easy access to it for medications, books, tablet, valuables, or whatever. The second is just for my clothes. Something I can just shove and smash into the overhead compartment to take up as little room as possible (or if you're checking it, you won't mind it getting beat up). The airline will usually have the dimensions posted somewhere online and when you get to where you check in, they have a nifty thing that you can set your bag in to see if it will fit in the overhead compartments or under your seat. If it's too big you'll have to check it, which I personally like just so I'm not lugging around a heavy bag of clothes between connecting flights.

Tip 2: Make a list of things you ABSOLUTELY need. Like medications, wallet, hygiene stuff, ect. Lists help a lot when packing. Lists are good. Lists are your friends.

Tip 3: Actually start packing. I highly suggest looking up a tutorial on how to pack in the most efficient way. You want to maximize your space. You'd be amazed at how much you can fit into a small duffel bag. Also be sure to not OVER-pack. You don't need to bring 8 outfits for a 3 day trip.

Tip 4: Bring something to keep you occupied on the plane. A book, crossword puzzle, video games, whatever. Flights can be boring. And if you're like me and don't want to talk to anyone sitting next to you, always have music to listen to. The chatty types usually won't bother you if you've got them on.

Tip 5: MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHERE YOUR TICKET IS AT ALL TIMES.

These steps won't be for everyone, but they can definitely help you. Packing light and efficiently makes traveling so much easier. Be nice to all staff and smile (even if you have to fake it like me) and it'll be a breeze. And if they offer to move you up to first class, DO IT. IT'S AMAZING.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Packing

Fake Beach Date

2015-09-17T12:20:00.000-05:00

Down past Huntsville is a town called Guntersville that has a massive lake. Part of that lake is a fake beach. It's not very big, but it's a cute patch of the lake with sand and shells and it'll do in a pinch since the actual ocean is 5 hours away. Justin and I went on a day trip/day date to this beach and the weather was fantastic for it.

The first thing you come to before the beach is a water treatment area that has animals in it. I'm not exactly sure why the animals are there, but they have Emus, goats, and donkeys. The goat and donkeys were off taking a nap, but I snagged this quick shot of one of the Emus before we drove to the beach.

We didn't stay there as long as I wanted to, but it was still a nice time.

If you're ever in Huntsville, do yourself a favor and head out to Guntersville and see the little fake beach!

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Date Night

Giants for a Day - Leafcutter Designs Review

2015-09-05T14:19:00.002-05:00

When LDRBN sent some of us bloggers a Tiny Mail Sample Kit from Leafcutter Designs to review and play with, I wasn't sure what to expect. But holy cuteness! Justin and I felt like giants while we played with this kit. Everything is so adorable and unique! The post office wouldn't actually let you send something this small, but putting these in a bigger package or envelope to send to your SO - or even BFF - is a great idea. Cannot get over the cuteness, I swear. Justin and I aren't long distance anymore, but this will still be fun to write tiny notes and leave tiny envelopes around the house! I highly recommend checking out Leafcutter for this kit, tiny invitations, tiny packages and not tiny, but still equally cute things, like letters to your future self and a matchbox theater (I mean). Kudos, Leafcutter!

Justin was immediately in love with the pen because it's his favorite brand for drawing. He ended up doing a tiny version of a Paris picture he drew a couple of years ago and then gave me. Took him, like, five minutes and it's a tiny masterpiece.

This kit takes, like, no skill to put together. Pick a tiny piece of paper - there were two lined stacks and one blank - and write your message or draw a picture like Justin did on a blank piece. Everything is kind of pre-folded to make it easy to fold the paper and also to fold the tiny envelopes, which we had to tape. Slip in your message and you're done - time to decorate! There were a lot of cute stickers and two different kinds of stamps. It had snail stamps. SNAIL stamps! Possibilities are kind of endless with the envelopes. Your imagination comes into play with the packages, which was my favorite to do. Justin and I had different techniques and I think I like his better!

He didn't wrap the box but he used the tiny ink stamps like I did. One of his techniques was to rub the edges with ink and then bang the box on the table a bit to really give it that 'delivered' look. He nailed it! You can use twine, stamps, ink, stickers, etc., to decorate this to your heart's content.

Definitely one of my favorite things was the tiny newspaper. It wasn't just random tiny print or symbols - it was full text! I mean, actual tiny horoscopes! Tiny stories! A tiny crossword puzzle! I got one of Zoe's teacups out to match it and we had tiny tea with our tiny papers.

I think it'll be a lot of fun for couples and friends to send each other stuff with this kit, but even more fun in person! I leave a note on Justin's supper since he usually gets home after I'm asleep, but now I can leave tiny notes! Or a tiny box on his pillow with something in it. In person or long distance, this kit will be so fun.

Send someone a really cute gift and give the LeafCutter Designs Tiny Mail Kit a try, by using coupon code LDRVIP10 at checkout!

**Disclosure: I received this kit for free and this review is my honest opinion.

When Everything Changes

2015-08-29T12:02:00.000-05:00

This is part LDRBlog post and part vent, I guess. I couldn't, for the life of me, think of anything to write this week. I find myself running out of LDR material the longer Justin is here because I've shift from LDR to in person, so my content is kind of lacking.
But this week's prompt is 'Hopes' and I thought that was pretty fitting.
Justin and I have to move out around Halloween. We've been staying with my parents since he moved here so we could save money and also because of Emmy.
So, a lot is changing soon. I haven't ever officially moved out of my parents' house. Because of my health issues, it makes it really hard to work outside the home and the jobs that are from home are proving to be really hard to find. I'm trying some new ideas out but I know most of the income will be Justin's, which I hate. I was raised to make as much or more than the boys, and my dad always wanted me to be very financially independent. Then came the health issues and that made being financial independent a bit of a dream.
I definitely am feeling the pressure already and find myself withdrawing like crazy, like I tend to do when I'm this overwhelmed. There's so much to think about and consider.
House or apartment? One bedroom or two (three?)? Two bathrooms is the dream. Fenced in yard or not? Suburbs or city? Do we split rent? Does it have appliances? Is Emmy allowed? Is her pet fee going to be as much as rent? How do I pay for all my supplements? Insurance? Food? What color will I paint my cardboard box when I fail and have to live under the overpass?
You see?
It's all changing.
I know this has to happen, of course. I just wish I was more prepared financially and, let's be honest, mentally. I don't handle change well and I get overwhelmed really easily. Also having adrenal glands that barely function doesn't make handling stress an easy thing. I break down a lot of small stuff which makes me feel insane, but I can't help it with my hormone levels. So the next few weeks will be...intense, probably.
This is where the 'hope' comes in. I hope everything works out. I hope I find a job. I hope Emmy transitions. I hope I transition.
Part of me is excited for this next chapter of our lives but for now the majority of me is grieving the chapter that is ending. I keep thinking if I made more money that this would be easier, and it probably would be since money is my main stressor right now, but deep down I know that's not true. I have been bingeing on Youtube and pinterest to psych myself up for decorating - hello redone garage sale/thrift store furniture loves, but there's no preparing yourself for huge changes like this. There's no preparing yourself for really growing up. There's no preparing yourself for life where the toilet seat may or may not be up when you go to pee at three a.m., and you may or may not fall in. I'll take the tree money grows on now, please.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Hope

3 Places to Get the Best LDR Gifts

2015-08-21T15:28:00.000-05:00

Sending and receiving gifts is always fun in an LDR. Gifts are ways to express your love and getting them in the mail is always lovely because you know your SO thought of you and picked something out just for you. Sending can sometimes be more fun than receiving (I said sometimes) so here are a few ideas to send gifts in your LDR.

Amazon - I mean, duh. Amazon has everything. You can order your honey anything they want/need. Books, jewelry, shirts, chocolate, dirty things (bow chicka bow ow). I mean, the list goes on and on. You can have stuff gift wrapped, too, for a little extra special-ness. These mugsare so cute I'm thinking of getting them now even though we've closed the gap. These keychainsare also really cute in case you have a guy, like I do, that isn't into jewelry. Speaking of jewelry, this necklaceis so, so cute you don't have to be in an LDR to get it for someone you love (to the moon and back).

Local places. Florists and food delivery places are amazing when it comes to LDRs. I tried once to order Justin soup while he was sick and have it delivered to his front door but his mom ended up being home that day so I couldn't since she, at the time, didn't know we were still seeing each other. But Justin used my local florist a lot to send me flowers. It's way cheaper than sites like 1800 flowers, the flowers will be fresh on delivery, and you're supporting a local business. Definitely the way to go for flowers.
Food is always nice, too. Not so easy for me with all my allergies, but ordering your SO a pizza or some other takeout and having it delivered is such a sweet gesture.
Also, there are a lot of places now that have online grocery ordering and delivery. If your SO can't leave the house or is craving something particular, you could order them a bag of groceries, too - just make sure to read the fine print with those sites because some have a $49 minimum when ordering!

Zazzle.com Zazzle is a bit like Amazon but almost everything can be personalized so you can have your own message or inside joke on a number of items.

A couple other ideas :

RomanceHer.com and telegramstop.com/ - both have such cute ideas!

Of course, homemade gifts are the most amazing. Once I made cards for different occasions and sent them to Justin. Things like when he was sad, thirsty, lonely, etc. had different things in them like a Starbucks gift card or a laminated 'kiss' of mine (which he still carries in his wallet). Just little notes that had a small gift inside. I sent them with a few other things so it was a bit of a care package. It went over really well. Letters are also one of the best things you can send in an LDR. Mixed CDs are also great.
Or you can use Milktape which adds songs to a USB drive shaped like a cassette tape. Cute, right?

Note to guys: send your girl a shirt or hoodie to wear/sleep in. Sleep in it a couple nights, toss it in a ziplock and then mail it. When your girlfriend gets it it'll smell like you and, trust me, she'll love wearing it/sleeping in it.

Staying connected with gifts and gestures is easy, I promise but adding in some creativity will make them even more special for your SO.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Amazing Advice

5 Things It's Okay To Be Angry About In An LDR

2015-08-14T09:09:00.000-05:00

LDRs are not easy or the first choice for most couples. They're usually avoided at all costs if possible if you've started out in person. But it's a little different for those of us that started out long distance and then met in person later, like me and Justin. If you met online and then later tell people about your relationship, you're going to deal with some not-so-great things. There are plenty, but here are 5 that seem to be the most common - along with a couple of tips on how to deal with them.

Parents - Luckily for me, my happiness came first when I told my parents about Justin. He made me happy, so they were happy. They, of course, stalked him online a little to make sure no one was getting Catfished, but after that they were all in.
Unfortunately, that didn't happen on the other end. As many of you know, Justin's family is really religious. So, when they found out about me and that I wasn't the same religion I was automatically hated and he was forbidden to ever talk to me again. Two years of secret dating later and I still don't think they've ever been happy about us dating, which is really a bummer but nothing I can change. I just had to hold on to the fact that we were happy and that's all that mattered.

Some parents are never going to like or accept who you date - and if you meet them online, you run the risk of them being suspicious and not on-board for a long time. They want what's best for you (usually) and sometimes they'll fight for you to date someone in the same area instead of someone hours away by plane or car. You have to understand where they're coming from but you also have to follow your own heart. Take what they say with a grain of salt but also take into consideration what they're saying. You may be upset about why they think this person/relationship is a bad idea but sometimes they have really good points and if you listen, you may make better decisions when it comes to continuing your relationship. But it is okay to be upset that your parents don't like who you're dating. You're not going to agree on everything and, if no one is getting hurt, your life is your life.

Friends - Like parents, having friends on your side in an LDR is key. Friends are a great support system and when you have your friends happy that you're happy it makes things a little easier. You can vent and get advice from them when things are tough (which they tend to be more in an LDR because of the distance). But sometimes friends don't exactly act like, well, friends. We had a large issue here (because of religion again) and the majority of some friends never 'approved' of mine and Justin's relationship. A couple did but as things progressed and more members of the church found out about us, those friends were then against us as well. It was really hard to not have Justin be able to text me back in front of friends because they would talk about how disappointed they were or that he was making a mistake. Or that when he was out with friends and brought me up it usually didn't end so well. We would go hours and hours without speaking when he was around friends because he didn't want to get a lecture about us again. It sucked. A lot. Friends should be happy if you're happy, but that's not always the case when your friends don't turn out to be who you thought they were. Honestly there are very few people in California I want to meet when we go visit because I don't feel welcomed. And these people know nothing about me personally, it's all strictly judgments they made themselves which makes me angry.
It's okay to be pissed off at your friends or your SO's friends. It's okay to tell them to mind their own damn business. If you lose friends because of a relationship, were they really your friend to begin with? If someone ditches you after years and years of friendship because you're dating someone they don't approve of (yet there's nothing insanely wrong with your SO) then maybe it's better they left. When things get tough you find out who your true friends are. LDRs are tough and sometimes the ripple effect is losing "friends."

Trust - Personally, I still struggle with this issue. Trust is hard. Trust in an LDR is even harder. You have to trust who you're with, but it's okay to struggle with it. Other girls were involved somewhat in mine and Justin's relationship that really made me question if I could trust him. He would be out one on one with a friend and the next day I would find out it was a girl. They really were probably just friends, but it's never cool to find out your boyfriend spent a night out with another girl and never told you. I still struggle with that kind of trust when he's at work now, but I just have to take a breath and remember that he moved 3,000 miles from home to be with me. That he loves me. It's hard, and that's okay, It's okay to be angry with your SO about issues and at yourself from having a hard time trusting them.

Time - When work, school, friends, family, sports, etc., are taken into consideration in an LDR you run into the issue of time. Sometimes no one can text back for hours or they can't return a phone call. Sometimes your Skype date has to be postponed because friends stopped by unexpectedly. Sometimes a date important to the two of you is forgotten because of family problems. It's frustrating when your form of communication (text, call, Skype) is taken away for longer than you want because you can't just walk or drive to their house and hang out or meet up at dinner after soccer practice. You have to wait. And sometimes wait very impatiently and for a long time. Sometimes we would go hours without texting, I would get a two word reply and then it would be hours before another reply. That's really frustrating when all you want is to talk to and be with someone. It takes its toll and these kinds of issues are one of the top reasons LDRs don't work for a lot of people. And if you have a time zone difference it makes it even harder. Justin was two hours behind me which wasn't so bad, but for those of you in the States with SOs in the UK...I can't even imagine the planning that has to go into phone and Skype dates to keep the connection strong. Being pissed off with these issues is very understandable. You just have to take a deep breath and try to work out a phone/Skype schedule that works for the two of you.

Communication - This kind of goes with the trust area. You have to communicate in an LDR hardcore. You're not there in person to smile, shrug, hug, explain things, etc. You mostly are explaining things via text and we all know how a text can be taken the wrong way. A little more effort here is key. Don't say you're hanging with a friend. Mention what friend. Maybe mention what you're doing. This isn't a controlling/stalker thing, this is just information you would probably know or give in person. "I'm hanging out at Cathy's house after our Spanish midterm" would probably be said in person. Over text it could be easier to quickly write, "I'm hanging with a friend for a bit" because chances are your SO doesn't know who Cathy is. If he's 500 miles away, he wouldn't have met this Cathy so it may seem a little weird to mention her by name. Do it anyway. Knowing your SO's friends' names is really nice. I liked when Justin could mention someone's name and I could remember other stuff I've heard about them. It makes you feel a little more connected. You would, in person, be hanging out with these people so I think it's important to kind of include your SO in that part of your life a little bit.
On the flip side, we all know boys can be...not so great at emotions. Sometimes when they text it can seem short and cold and you'll wonder if they're mad at you. Turns out they're not and they don't understand why you're decoding that message with your Captain Crunch decoder ring. Talking and communicating take a little more effort in an LDR but can be super worth it.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Self Strength

40 Question Beauty Tag - Revisited 3 Years Later

2015-08-10T20:20:00.001-05:00

I did this post over 3 years ago (and it got over 63 thousand views. Internet, you cray, let's have a slumber party) and thought I would re-visit it since I've gone more natural/holistic after all my health issues. My answers are so different now, it's hard to believe how obsessed with makeup I was once upon a time. The obsession is still there - replace the Klondike bar in, "What would you doooo for a Klondike bar?" with makeup and my answer will probably scare you - but I do my research now (usually on my phone in the aisle) and try to go with the less toxic brands. Some are outrageously priced but do have better ingredients, so I've been scouring the 'Net a lot looking for good, yet affordable, products I'm comfortable using and promoting.

SKINCARE

- How many times do you wash your face daily? Some days I don't wash at all if I haven't worn makeup. But typically, twice-ish. I use water and/or a charcoal sponge in the morning (no cleanser) and I use the oil cleansing method at night.
- What skin type do you have? (dry, oily, combo) - Combo.
- What is your current facial wash? Combo of olive, jojoba, castor, and tea tree oil.
- Toner? Currently I just use Rose Water.
- Do you exfoliate? Yes, once or twice a week.
- What brand do you use? A homemade coffee/coconut oil scrub.
- What moisturizer do you use? Pacifica Dreamy Youth.
- Serum? Amara Organics Hyaluronic Acid. Stuff is amazeballs.
- Do you have freckles? Lots.
- Do you use eye cream? I use an oil by Derma-e.
- Do you or did you have acne prone skin? I had major acne growing up but as soon as I cut gluten and dairy out of my diet, surprise, it all went away. Now I only get monthly hormonal breakouts that are very small.
- Did you ever use Pro-activ? I did when I was about 14-15. It worked for a few months and then the results stopped.

MAKE-UP

- What foundation do you use? Physican's Formula Organic Wear CC Cream in Light.
- How about concealer? Physicians' Formula Conceal RX in Fair Light.
- Do you know your undertone color? Pink.
- What do you think of fake eyelashes? They never work for me; look way too overdone and never natural.
- Did you know that you are suppose to change your mascara every 3 months? Yes.
- What brand of mascara do you use? Physician's Formula. Right now I switch up between their Organic Wear Curl & Care and the Eye Boost Instant Lash Extensions Kit.
- Sephora or MAC? Sephora. Never been in a MAC store.
- Do you have a MAC Pro-card? No.
- What makeup tools do you use in make up application? Stippling brush for foundation, eyeshadow brushes, powder brush for powder and blush, angled brush for eyebrows, tapered brush for highlighter and bronzer, and eyelash curler.
- Do you use make-up base/primer for the eyes? No, right now it's plain shadow or a cream based shadow as a primer.
- For the face? Not anymore. I do miss them, so I'm looking for a natural one.
- What is your favorite eyeshadow? I still love Urban Decay even though the toxicity isn't great. I still need to play around with natural brand eye shadows.
- Do you use pencil or liquid eyeliner? I prefer gel.
- How often do you poke your eyes with an eyeliner pencil? Not very.
- What do you think of pigment eye shadows? Love.
- Do you use mineral makeup? No. Alima makes a great one ingredient-wise, but mineral always looks too powdery on me or it doesn't last more than a couple of hours. Liquid works better on my skin.
- What is your favorite lipstick? Right now, Pacifica.
- What is your favorite blush to use? I'm still looking for a favorite, but Physician's Formula is pretty decent. I use the Happy Glow & Mood Boosting Blush in Rose.
- Do you buy your makeup on eBay? Not lately.
- Do you like drugstore makeup? Yes!
- Do you go to CCO's? No.
- Did you ever consider taking make-up classes? Yes, but I couldn't find any near me.
- Are you clumsy in putting on makeup? No.
- Name a makeup crime that you hate? Using the sponge applicators that come with a lot of drugstore brands
- Do you like colorful shades of makeup or neutral ones? Used to be colorful but I stick with more neutrals now. Sometimes I'll do a purple or green look, but usually it's a brown/gold eye.
- If you could leave the house using just one make up item, what would you use? Mascara.
- Could you ever leave the house without any makeup on? Yes.
- Do you think you look good even without any makeup on? I look sleep-deprived, but I'm much more comfortable in my skin now than I used to be.
- In your opinion, what is the best makeup line? Physician's Formula currently because it has decent ingredients, especially the Organics line, and if you catch them on a sale at CVS or Walgreens you can rack up.

Midnight in Paris

2015-08-05T21:54:00.000-05:00

Justin and I had an amazing date night in last night. We made pizzas, ate by candle/salt lamp light and then watched Midnight in Paris, one of our favorite films. It was such a cute, cozy date.

The crusts were Udi's brand and gluten free, so we added our own toppings and dug in. He had beer, I had wine. My pizza was definitely more simple that his with just sauce, turkey pepperoni, mushrooms, black olives, and banana peppers. I don't even know what all he put on his. Feta, red onion, pesto, jalapenos, kalamata olives, pancetta, and more. It smelled so good but had dairy in it, so I couldn't try a piece. Made the house smell amazing though! He adds some of the craziest stuff to his food and you wouldn't think it would work, but somehow it does and ends up smelling/tasting amazing.

We've been trying to have more little dates like this since Emmy has recently developed severe separation anxiety and someone always has to be home while we work on that (cleaning up a puppy's nervous poop is not cool). So a night in like this when she was tired and chilled on the couch for the most part was great and much-needed. We're so busy lately with his job hours getting bumped up and me looking for a second job, plus raising Emmy and just everything that comes with being an adult (who wants to go get my car tires rotated?) that it's hard to just have a date. We can't go to a movie or dinner like a 'normal' couple yet, so these cozy nights in, undisturbed are to be treasured.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Date Night

3 Natural Ways to Heal a Hangover

2015-08-03T14:39:00.001-05:00

Oops, you did it again, huh? Mixed your IPA with your vodka? Drank the whole bottle of wine? Did eleven body shots? Did you, really? Can we be friends?

If you did any of the above you might not feel so great in the morning. Head spinning, stomach churning, hands shaking. Ah, hangovers. They happen. Here's a couple of tricks I swear by the ease the majority of the symptoms.

Oil Pulling. If you're not on the bandwagon yet, you may not know all the amazing things pulling does. It helps with teeth whitening, bacteria, toxins, etc., so of course it helps with the extra toxins in you from a night of partying. I find this particularly helpful with the nausea aspect of a hangover. Put a tablespoon of melted coconut oil in your mouth and swish around for 20 minutes, then spit out (do not swallow [that's what she said!] - you'll just swallow all the toxins it's pulled out) and brush your teeth. Around minute 10 I feel massive relief from any symptoms.

Pickle Juice. Wait, what? No, no typo here. A hangover is typically mostly dehydration. Pickle juice is amazing for rehydrating you. It has salt, electrolytes, and vinegar that will help settle your stomach and rehydrate you better than water will. Down at least 8oz, but I drink this even when I'm not hungover (I may have a problem).

Detox Bath. Take a hot bath with 1 1/2 cups epsom salt, 1/2-1 cup baking soda, a splash of apple cider vinegar, and add in some sea salts if you like, too. This combo will help boost the magnesium in your body and will help draw out toxins. Hang out for 40 minutes or longer. It takes 20 to release the toxins and another 20 for your body to really soak up the goodies you put in the water.

Removing the toxins from the previous night and rehydrating are the two main goals when healing a hangover. Use these natural tricks and they'll get you back on track to your next night out - maybe with a few less body shots, okay?

Last Days of Summer

2015-07-31T09:35:00.000-05:00

I would say this summer was pretty great. We had Zoe and her step-sisters a couple of times a week and played in the pool and just had a lot of fun. Justin got in the pool quite a bit which was all Zoe wanted. As soon as he was in, she wanted him to pick her up and throw her in the deep end about 19 times in a row. He obliged for the most part and hearing her giggle was one of the highlights of my summer. That kid has the best laugh, I swear.

Justin and I had a few small adventures, but no big vacation like I really needed and I'm sure he wanted, too. We're planning a beach trip in the fall when it's off season and there aren't quite as many sharks in the area. Hopefully that happens - we need it. Emmy has been such a handful and I'm practically a single 'parent' when it comes to her with Justin's work schedule, so at least a long weekend alone without her would be great. She's going to miss the girls when they go back to school - who knew she would end up being so great with kids - but if she ever gets comfortable in a car without having a dog panic attack, I can try to take her to some soccer games this fall. I think that would be fun for everyone.

Having Justin here for a summer was interesting. He helped out some with the girls and Zoe still maintains her massive crush on him. Once he's in the pool with her, no one else exists. She only wants to play with him. It was so cute. I'm glad we all got to make some memories together this summer.

Inspired by this LDR Writing Prompt: Happiness