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engagement rings: celebrity style

2012-04-20T00:20:00.001+08:00

While we're on the topic of celebrity engagement rings, I've decided to gather up a list of my favorite celebrity e-bling. In my opinion, many celebrity engagement rings tend to look a like in a sense that regardless of the cut or style, they all have these gigantic, sparkly rocks that their own fingers can barely support. But there are those that are quite unique and truly tasteful. Here are some that caught my eye.

Miranda Kerr

Miranda Kerr's engagement ring

She is my favorite VS Angel. I love her girl next door vibe...and I love her ring too. I'm usually not a fan of gold jewelry but I think I can make an exemption for this one. Unlike many celeb e-bling which have gigantic blindingly sparkly rocks, Miranda Kerr's is a cluster of small rocks taking the appearance of a flower. It's simple, it's dainty, and I like it. Good job Mr. Bloom!

The only thing I don't like about this ring is how it stacks against her wedding band. I think she should take a cue from the next celebrity e-blinger...

Rebecca Romijn

Rebecca Romijn's stacked e-ring

I have a thing for stacking rings. That's probably one reason why I love Rebecca Romijn's engagement ring. The ring itself is a canary yellow ring which is already a stunner alone. It actually reminds me very much of Heidi Klum's canary yellow ring from, now ex-husband, Seal. But I think Rebecca's way of wearing it makes it really unique.

Jennifer Love Hewitt

Jennifer Love Hewitt's heirloom engagement ring

Although her engagement eventually fell through, I still love Jennifer Love Hewitt's engagement ring. Aside from having a unique and intricate design, the most significant thing about the ring perhaps is that it is an heirloom piece. Ross McCall, Hewitt's ex-fiancee got the ring from his grandmother and has been in their family for over a century! Wow!

Princess Diana/Kate Middleton

THE royal ring

Speaking of heirloom rings, perhaps the most recognizable heirloom engagement ring is, of course, Princess Diana's, now Kate Middleton's engagement ring. It is probably the most knocked off ring design there is. But who wouldn't love it right? I was just a speck in the clouds when Princess Diana said "yes" to Prince Charles but based on the stories I heard, Prince Charles actually proposed without a ring. When Diana said yes, he took her to the family jeweler for her to choose the ring that she wants. While other women would probably go for a custom made design with the "-est" (biggest, flashiest, costliest, etc.), the People's Princess opted to go for a catalogue design. And it is this design that is now adorning her daughter-in-law's royal fingers and perhaps future princesses to come. Talk about timeless!

Queen Elizabeth

Queen Elizabeth's engagement ring

While we're on the topic of royal engagement rings, how about we take a peak at Queen Elizabeth's. Now, you couldn't get any more royal than that. I think the ring is timelessly impeccable. The diamonds are said to have come from a tiara of Prince Philip's mother. At first glance, I thought the rock was in a sort of pointy oval cut. But it's actually a solitaire cut with smaller cuts on the side. But the way it's put together looks rather seamless. It could be the angle though. There seems to be no other released photo of the piece other than this. I can't seem to find paparazzi-ish shots of the the Queen wearing it...well, she is the queen after all so I wouldn't expect so.

Jennifer Aniston

Jen Aniston's engagement ring (rings showed on the left are replicas, I believe)

From the royal family, let's move on to Hollywood's version of a royal couple. Well, former royal couple, that is. When Brad Pitt proposed to Jennifer Aniston, he did so with a truly unique piece of jewelry. It was reported that Brad spent months co-designing the spiraling pave band. Honestly, I didn't really like it at first but it kinda grew on me. Plus i like the "eternity" feel of that band leading up to a solitaire in the center.

(P.S. I think we'll all be hearing more about this ring especially now that the Jolie-Pitts are engaged. As early as now I've been reading so many articles "pitting" the Pitt designed rings against each other. Thoughts?)

Sandra Bullock

Sandra Bullock's engagement ring

Though her marriage to Jesse James was short lived (I always thought theirs was an odd pairing), Jesse did not disappoint when he proposed to Sandra Bullock. The ring has two diamonds intertwined, set on a pave band.

Victoria Beckham

Victoria Beckham's original e-ring

Don't be confused. Victoria Beckham seems to rotate a multitude of giant rocks on her left ring finger but her original engagement ring was a simple and elegant marquise cut diamond on a gold band. Though I've said that I don't have much of a liking towards gold bands, I think the unique cut and the simplicity of her ring is just gorgeous. I just wish she'd wear it this more rather than those ring pop-ish bling.

Anna Paquin

Anna Paquin's unique moonstone ring

Usually, when we think of engagement rings, the first gem that comes to mind is diamond. Trailing behind are probably sapphires, emeralds, or rubies. But it is rather unusual to have engagement rings in moonstone. Anna Paquin and Stephen Moyer is one celebrity couple who went that unpopular route. Stephen Moyer choose to pop the question with a vintage designed band with a solitare moonstone. Little trivia: in India, moonstones are believed to be sacred. It also symbolizes passion and love between lovers. Whether Moyer chose the stone because of that or just because he prefers it over the traditional rocks, I must say, he did well!

Zooey Deschanel

a traditional ring for the hippie girl

I always thought that the likes of Zooey Deschanel, with her hippie girl vibe, would go for a unique and non-traditional style for an engagement ring so I was surprised when her former hubby, Death Cab for Cutie lead, gave her a classic Asscher cut diamond with small diamonds around the band. I was surprised by the choice but I loved it nevertheless. It seems a little traditional looking but hey, if you're going for a traditional style, might as well go for this one! Oh and I love the wedding band they got to match it too!

So I guess that rounds up my list of celebrity engagement rings that I like. I hope I didn't make you drool too much. Lol!

the Jolie-Pitts are finally engaged!

2012-04-16T10:34:00.000+08:00

Recently, one of Hollywood's power couples finally got engaged. Yes folks, Brad Pitt proposed to Angelina Jolie. As to when they'll finally walk down the aisle, like everyone else, I have no idea. So for now, let us ogle at that rumored million dollar rock.

Angelina Jolie's engagement ring

According to reports, Mr. Pitt apparently worked closely with jeweler Robert Procop for a year just to design the ring. The ring is unique in itself because it does not follow a standard cut for diamonds. According to the designer, they took a high quality piece of diamond and cut it in a specific way that would encircle Angelina's finger.

I actually quite like the ring. I usually go for the more frilly things in general, but I like the structured look of this ring. It's not as sparkly an "blingly" looking as many celebrity e-rings out there but that's probably because of the cuts as emerald(-ish) cuts are usually not as sparkly looking as other cuts. But nevertheless, I like it. It looks so poised and elegant. Plus it suits her just right.

I'm not usually a fan of Brangelina but congrats still. I'm sure I am not alone in looking forward to the actual wedding.

5 unique wedding venues

2012-03-13T21:13:00.005+08:00

Hotel, ballroom, garden, farm, resort...these are the typical wedding venues that I've been too. Hotels being the most common. It seems that these have become sort of the "default" choices for couples since these places often offer the convenience for a wedding (areas specific for a wedding, ready catering options, and the likes). But I think you don't always have to stick to these "defaults". You might be surprised that there are actually unconventional places that are open to hosting wedding ceremonies or receptions. I know I was surprised that it was actually possible.

So I listed down 5 unique and rather interesting wedding venues.

Library

Take a cue from the Carrie Bradshaw. Ok, I know her original wedding plan didn't exactly go as planned. But you have to admit, had the wedding pushed through, it would've been beautiful!

I would imagine that not all Libraries would be open for hosting events such as weddings, but you'd be surprised how some actually do accommodate different kinds of gathers, weddings included. And if you do get lucky and book a library as your wedding venue, you'd likely be celebrating your special day in a space with breathtaking architecture designs lined with hundreds and hundreds of books. I can already imagine the different love stories of the couples who would go for this kind of venue: the novelist and the bookworm, the writers, or that couple who used to be study partners back in high school. Not only will your wedding be gorgeous, it will be a reflection of who you are as a couple.

Take a look at these gorgeous library weddings below:

clockwise l-r: John Hopkins University Peabody Library, romantic wedding shot by the library shelves, The State Library of South Australia Mortlock Chamber, Boston Public Library desks used as dinner tables

Aquarium

If you're planning on an under the sea themed wedding, your local aquarium may just be the perfect venue for your special day. I personally have a penchant for anything and everything about the ocean and these aquariums are just the perfect place to have a sneak peak into amazing world under the sea.

The great thing about this is that most aquarium venues are basically set in spaces underneath the giant aquariums so you really get that feeling of being under the sea. That in itself is an instant theme decor. As a bonus, the playful lighting coming through the water makes for great photographs.

Check out these under the sea wedding feel: (I love those cocktail tables under the tunnel!)

Top l-r: Pittsburgh Zoo & Aquarium, The Batis (The Brook) at Manila Ocean Park, Buhay na Karagatan (Live Ocean) cocktail table setup at Manila Ocean Park
Bottom l-r: Caribbean Reef Tank at the Chicago Shedd Aquarium, Melbourne Aquarium, romantic couple shot by the Florida Aquarium

Theme Park

If you thought an aquarium wedding is fun, here's another venue that definitely screams fun! I didn't really know that it's possible to rent out theme parks for a wedding reception until I saw this photo.

Wedding photo at Enchanted Kingdom

At first, I thought it was an engagement shoot or something like that until I realized that the bride is actually in her wedding gown and the groom is in his traditional barong (a traditional Filipino formal wear). So I looked up the photo and found out that it was indeed a wedding shoot held right after the ceremony. Apparently, the couple (so brilliantly, in my opinion) decided to have their wedding reception in a popular Philippine theme park called Enchanted Kingdom. How cool is that?

And so I went around the internet looking for other examples of creative couples who had their weddings held in theme parks. Here are some of what I found:

Clockwise: wedding reception at Enchanted Kingdom, couple shot at Dreamworld Australia, cake cutting at Enchanted Kingdom, fun entourage shoot on a Super Slide

I hadn't dawned on me before that it is indeed possible to have events like weddings in theme parks since I have heard of many a birthday parties being celebrated in theme parks. Of course birthdays would be a more slightly scaled down event but nevertheless, still a party.

A great thing about having your wedding in a theme park is that you get to have great at creative structures as your backdrop as arches, castle-like architecture, magnificent steels, and colorful lights are typical scenes in many theme parks. Plus, it's just downright fun! Just take a look at the entourage shot on the super slide. They are definitely having fun!

Museum

Speaking of creative structures, how about considering a wedding inside a museum? You basically do not have to think about decor since the entire place is basically your decor. All you need is minimal styling for the tables. Since there are several types of museums around (historical, cultural, artistic, scientific) you can just find one that suits you best.

Just like libraries, museums are usually built in breathtaking architecture styles so that alone is a winner in terms of your wedding ambiance. Add in the breathtaking pieces of art, amazing artifacts, and marvelous works, then your guests would surely be left oo-ing and aah-ing left and right.

The only downside I could think of when it comes to renting museums is that they would probably offer a lot of limitations. Since their main purpose is to preserve works of art, artifacts, and the like, it might even be probable that many would not allow having their space rented out unless they do have an area that can serve as a gathering area. If big museums pose to be too limiting, try art galleries instead. Since many art galleries usually have a large enough space to cater to launches and special events, they would likely be open to events such as weddings. Just make sure to ease up on the cocktails because you wouldn't want any tipsy guests accidentally knocking over that hundred year old vase on the display. :)

Top clockwise: Museum of National History, couple's shot with a painting as background, Art Gallery of Ontario
Bottom: Metropolitan Museum of Manila

Empty Warehouse/Building

The first 4 wedding venues are already decked out and ready to go on their own. All you have to do is have a a touch of styling for the seating that would tie in with the rest of the natural ambiance that each venue gives. But this last one is a tad bid different. This is probably a weird choice for traditional couples but for those who have a slightly unique and different perspective might find it as a perfect venue. And in my opinion, it is a perfect venue for the DIY-ers at heart.

I particularly like the idea of the rough, cold, and even dilapidated bare space contrasted against soft tulle, romantic roses, and all those frilly wedding stuff. It definitely puts an interesting twist on your typical wedding. Below are some examples of unconventional weddings held in empty (even abandoned) spaces:

Clockwise l-r: wedding ceremony at King Plow Arts Center, wedding ceremony at an old empty building space, getting ready for a wedding reception at Salt Lake Warehouse, tables set up at an empty warehouse, wedding reception at King Plow Arts Center, Houston Station wedding reception

I would assume that it would be relatively cheaper, rent-wise, to hold a wedding in places like these since these places usually require little, almost no, maintenance. Another upside is that the bare space allows you run wild with your imagination. In spaces with a specific ambiance to them, you would need to somehow match your decor and styling to suit the preexisting decor of the place. On the contrary, bare spaces like these offer limitless probabilities in terms of possible decors.

On the downside, the fact that it is bare, may require more effort to style the space, unless you are going for a minimalist look. Also, in the case of abandoned spaces, you would have to check for power sources, cleanliness, sturdiness of the structures, and overall safety.

So that is my list of 5 unique wedding venues.

I know there is a certain sense of intimidation when considering these kinds of venues. Do they accept reservations for a wedding? Do they have a space for our wedding? It might be too expensive. And so on. But as I found out when researching for this entry, all you have to do is ask and perhaps do a little Google-ing. You'd be surprised that some of the venues featured above actually offer wedding packages in their websites. I know I was!

lanna dyan's wedding under the stars: an inspiration board

2012-03-08T04:30:00.003+08:00

If I'm not writing here about wedding stuff, I'm probably obsessing about it in the Engagements and Weddings boards of GirlTalk.

One of my "sis", as the GirlTalk forum posters so fondly call each other, has been setting her sights on a wedding under the stars. Though she wouldn't have her wedding in an outdoor setting, literally under the stars, she and her finance found a fitting indoor venue that is just perfect!

Light of Love Events Place Atrium Hall

I love the chandelier and the skylight roof so much that I immediately bookmarked the place for "future references" (ahem ahem, Mr. Right, where art thou? LOL)

Right away, I could visualize the dimly lit hall filling up with natural moonlight...ah romance! So once I got my act up together (yes, my computer's fixed and my best friend's wedding stresses are finally over!) I immediately put together an inspiration board fit for a wedding under the stars. And here's what I came up with:

clockwise: glittery stars aisle decor, star bouquet charms, recessional confetti, hanging crystals and candles, welcome sparklers, tea light candle decor, candle-filled table setting, star confetti table accent, star origami in a bowl, wishing stars, star topped cupcakes, heart light writing
center: Light of Love Atrium Hall

Wedding Ceremony
Instead of the usual fabric swag decorate the aisle with glittery star cutouts scattered along the sides. If you have time to spare, you can DIY by cutting out differently sized stars on a stiff board and covering them in glitter or wrap them in metallic foil paper. Then just randomly line the sides of the aisle with them. Add some big white candles in tall glass vases among them to get a full effect.

star-lined aisle with candles

Aside from the church decor, there is usually very little room to inject your theme into the ceremony. This is especially true for traditional Catholic wedding ceremonies, which are most common here in the Philippines. But you can maximize the little details - details as small as your bouquet for instance. Instead of just wrapping the flowers in plain ribbon, add small charms onto the handle just to give that hint of the starry night wedding you want. You can either get a pack of star shaped charms from craft stores or bead shops or go for a unique charm such as the moon and star one below.

something blue star and moon bouquet charm

Of course, after the ceremony, there will always be a recessional where the guests finally greet a newly pronounced Mr. and Mrs. This, most often than not, is done with a festive shower of confetti, petals, or even sometimes, rice grains. To keep in theme, mix your regular confetti or whatever it is you choose to have your guests greet you with, with some metallic star confetti. It's a trivial detail but if you're gonna have confetti stuck in your hair all night, might as well, keep it in theme. :)

Wedding Reception
Now, on to the party!
Wow your guests right away with a candle lit pathway towards the venue entrance. Light up small tea light candles and line them along the pathway. At night, the hundreds of lit candles will immediately give that feeling of being under the stars. And the effect is just breathtaking.

candle-lit pathway

Once the guests have filled in that gorgeous venue, remind them who really is the star of the party by an entrance welcomed with sparklers. Not only is it dramatic but it makes for great photos too!

sparklers welcome

Although I would imagine that the natural moonlight filling in the venue hall is already breathtaking enough, looking at the photo, there may be some areas that might need a little help. Since the side walls seem to be hidden from the light, it might help to add a little sparkle to those areas as well. Try hanging some crystal beads strung like a bead curtain to the walls. Add some random tea light candles placed in small hanging glass jars or containers. You don't really need a lot since the crystals would bounce off the light thus magnifying the sparkle effect. This would just be a little oomph to an already beautiful reception hall.

crystal and candle curtains

In tune with the entrance, decorate your tables with different sized candles in mismatched glass containers. If possible, choose dark colored table cloth or table runners such as navy blue to get a good contrast with the hundreds of sparkling lights. from afar, your wedding decor could even look like the night sky, dotted with billions of stars. Just make sure that you keep your lighting dim to get the full effect of the candle lights.

long table filled with candles in different size mason jars

multiple candles and glass centerpieces

You don't even have to have floral arrangements made for these tables. I think you can just stick with the candles and still get a beautiful effect. Best of all, it's very easy to have this DIY-ed. Just collect different white candles and different clear glass containers and group them randomly together. No professional styling needed.

If in case you feel it lacking a little oomph, try sprinkling some star shaped confetti around the candles in a starburst pattern.

Or, remember those star origami that kids used to collect before (I remember going through a phase when I had tons of small little jars with those stars in it. I'd even trade some with my friends.)? You can have a few metallic or glittery ones and sprinkle them around the candles.

silver star origami

Since we're on the topic of origami stars, I thought of a few nifty ways to make use of these stars. I already suggested this before to lanna dyan but for the sake of the readers here, let me share it again.

One way is for the reception programme. To make the programme a little livelier (this would be a good way to break the ice especially if you have a diverse group of guests who are not in the same circle), use the stars as a game item. Put small bowls of those stars in each table. Beforehand, you can write down something in the stars, be it a prize, a code, a surprise, a name, or whatever that will match with the game you choose to play. Then have your guests pick out a star and unravel it to reveal if they have won something, been chosen to participate in the game, or are given a game task.

star origami in fish bowls

Another is to use the stars as a substitute for the traditional guest book. Instead of having your guests write down their well wishes onto a guestbook, have them write down their messages onto the strips of paper and let them (or an usher) shape the paper into an origami star. Have a big jar out for them to drop in their "wishing stars" into.

wishing stars

Another take on the wishing stars is to ask the guests how they see your marriage in 5, 10, 20 years or so. Let them drop their answers into different jars labeled 5years, 10 years, etc. After the wedding, seal those jars and keep them like a time capsule. During your 5th, 10th, 20th, etc. wedding anniversary, open the corresponding jar and read what your guests had imagined your marriage would be.

Before you wind up your night, thank your guests with some star goodies. (I personally love edible favors!) Be it star fondant topped cupcakes, star shaped sugar cookies, or even star shaped candies.

Lastly, make good use of those sparklers by ending your night with a nice light writing photo as a couple. It's a fun and romantic way to remember the night you got married under the stars!

sparkle LOVE

Sis lanna dyan, I hope this post helps you out in putting together your under the stars wedding. Happy preps and don't forget to send in pictures! :)

not your ordinary valentines: cliches minus the cheese

2012-02-29T19:27:00.004+08:00

We're on the final stretch of February. Despite my internet absence, I managed to squeeze in one last valentines post. Yay!

Like I said in my introductory valentines post, valentines is such a popular and universal concept that is perhaps why it is riddled with so many cliches. This is precisely why it sometimes becomes a challenge to think outside the box when it comes to valentines wedding. So I thought, why not work with the common valentines cliches right? As saying that goes, if you can't beat them, join them! You don't have to paint your wedding red and fill it with heart shapes and cupids all over. Just use the cliches in cute, witty, and unique ways.

Here's what I'm thinking:

clockwise: red Toms wedding shoes, couple with red Chuck Taylors, Cupid's arrow head table number, personalized Kisses, Cupid's arrow cocktail, kissing booth, almost heart shaped pretzels, chocolate dipped strawberries, matchstick favors, cupcake placecard holder, Coke crate
center image: "LOVE" couple photograph

Use the color red wisely and wittingly. Purposley use red items to serve as your pops of red. For instance, wearing glittery red Toms as your bridal shoes and red Chucks for the groom's shoes add a cute and unexpected pop of red to your attire. (Personal note: Though I love the classic and cool vibe of Chucks, I'd go with Toms shoes anytime. Aside from their fashionable and undeniably comfortable footwear, I've always been an advocate of their One for One movement. Read more about it here.)

As your guests enter the reception hall, ask them to "follow cupid's arrow" to find their designated tables and seats. Use cupid's arrow head cutouts as your table number signs. Then place cupcakes (red velevet would probabaly be most fitting) with cupid's arrow ends as your place card holders. This turns the cupid cliche as a cute and useful element in your wedding.

Treat your guests to refreshments such as the ubiquitous Coca Cola (or perhaps Dr. Pepper, whichever is available in your area). Put them in vintage crates and not only do you have an instant pop of red, you can also give your wedding a quirky, vintage pop culture vibe.

For dessert, why not have a chocolate fondant with strawberries. Red, heart shaped, chocolates - all these valentines cliches turned into one yummy and sweet treat. If you're not much of a sweets person, serve some pretzels in their demi-heart shaped goodness dipped in yummy cheese fondant. Still romantic enough but not too much.

In a lot of weddings I've been to, I notice that a lot of guests enjoy hamming it up for the photo booths, playing around with the fun props available. Take a more valentines-y approach by having a kissing photo booth instead. Set up your photo booth like a kissing booth and have your guests pucker up for the camera. Throw in some props like cupid's wings, giant lips, and the like and your photo booth will surely be a hit!

For your photography memento, have your photographer take photos of your guests spell out the word LOVE using their hands and body. Compile it like a scrapbook and you'll have a creative way to remember your wedding day by. You can also have you and your spouse's photo taken spelling out the word LOVE and use this photograph in your thank you cards.

As the evening winds down and the party mood hypes up, serve up some cocktails to keep the party going. I found out that there is a specific cocktail mix called cupid's arrow. How perfect is that. You can make this your signature mix for your wedding.

Lastly, before your guests leave, gift them with some wedding favors. I found this really cute DIY favor. Find some scratch anywhere matches, preferrably the red ones. Put them into mason jars. Stick some sanding paper on the jar cover. On the sides of the jar, add a label saying "Lisa + Jacob. It's a match!" How cute and witty is that?

Or if you want a more kid friendly (and less diy required) favor. How about some personalized chocolates. Kisses, I think are most appropriate, this being a valentines wedding after all. If you want to continue with the puns, these kissing Kisses label are cute and adorable don't you think?

And that's about it! I hope you enjoyed my valentines wedding series despite the multiple delays and such. If you have other unique valentines ideas, share them on the comment box or shoot me an email.

indisposed

2012-02-22T17:13:00.000+08:00

I have been the luckiest of people in the past week. The other day, my laptop crashed. Literally! My baby cousin accidentally knocked it over. I looked away for a split second to grab a piece of paper that was blown away by the fan and before I knew it, my laptop was diving down to the floor. It is now in a laptop ICU, fighting for dear life.

I am now writing this from my phone which is not the easiest thing. My aunt had offered to lend me her laptop for the meantime but I have yet to see her.

That, plus my best friend's wedding is 6 days away and everything is quickly turning into a frantic mess right now. It doesn't help that her wedding is a good 8 hour drive from civilization. I was supposed to come in for the wedding on Friday but my bestfriend, who is probably on a brink of a nervous breakdown, has been calling and texting me non stop. Thus, I've decided to bump my trip up to tomorrow.

So yeah, that is how my life is for the next week. Don't worry though. I still have one last v-day post in store (when life gets a little saner for me).

Till then! (and wish me luck!)

not your ordinary valentines: lovin' it around the world

2012-02-15T23:28:00.002+08:00

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I hope yours was a day filled with love and kindness. <3

So since I had no date yesterday I decided to treat myself to a sundae. I headed to the nearest McDonald's and got myself a berry sundae. While I was happily consuming my humble v-day treat, our local "I'm lovin' it" McDonald's jingle on the store's radio.

If you might recall, McDonald's launched a global campaign called "I'm lovin' it"some years back which was adapted into each locality that McDonald's was present in. In Germany (where the campaign was actually launched), it was "ich liebe es". In France, it was "ce'est tout ce que j'aime". In the South Americas it was "me encanta". Here in the Philippines, it was "love ko to'".

Yes, being the advertising/marketing geek that I am, this was what I was thinking of as I enjoyed my v-day treat. And these very thoughts gave birth to the inspiration for today's post.

top L-R: biplane skywriter card, frame centerpiece decor, Holland clogs, wooden Japanese doll, Big Ben replica, Eiffel Tower miniature, Mexican maracas, table number holder
bottom L-R: I Love You Wall, international buffet, tin suitcase favors, heart shaped luggage tags

Weather you are a long distance couple, an intercultural couple, or a couple that simply loves to travel, I think this theme is perfect for your valentines wedding.

Take inspiration from this card from Etsy for a simple and straightforward way to combine the concept of valentines and the different destinations.

Welcome your guests into your reception venue with a replica of the I Love You Wall. The I Love You Wall or Le Mur Des Je T'Aime, is a mural located in Montmartre, Paris. It is a huge wall filled with inscriptions of "I love you's" in different languages. Or you may even make your own version of the wall by placing a blank canvass by the entrance and letting your guests write their own verses of love for your and your spouse.

Since a global/international concept will probably require more details, keep the rest of your venue decors simple and classic. Focus on your table centerpieces to tell the story of your theme. Instead of using usual table numbers, assign a specific country or place for each table. Then, just like the McDonald's campaign, use "I love you" or love translated in the local vernacular of the assigned country or place as the table name. For instance, if you choose France for one table, use "je ta'aime" as the name for that table and so on. Amp up your table decors with a symbol that represents each destination. If you and the future spouse are globe trotters, dig up your souvenir stash and add them to your table decor. For instance, put that miniature Eiffel Tower on the French table and that kalesa (a horse drawn carriage typical in the Philippines) figurine beside your Filipino table's floral arrangement. If your tables are still feeling bare, add a small frame containing a trivia card with some local valentines trivia. For example, in Slovenia, St. Valentine was one of the patron saints of spring, when plants start growing again after winter thus the saying "St. Valentine brings the keys of roots."

Don't just stop at the table settings. Take your guests on a journey around the world by having them sample different dishes from different countries of your choice. You can have a Greek salad for starters, a steak and some paella for the main course, some macarons for dessert, then match it with some sweet Italian wine. For the after parties, serve some margaritas and some Irish stout. As a night cap (for those who have burned the dance floor) have some kapeng barako (a coffee variety particularly grown in the Philippines), English tea, or some Mexican hot cocoa ready to serve.

At the end of your global shindig, gift your guests with those cute little tin luggages filled with a mix of international treats such as Jordan almonds, chocolate bonbons, macapuno balls (sweet coconut candy), etc. Or you can get those heart shaped luggage tags with personalized labels.

And there you go! You have a unique valentine wedding that you and your guests will surely be lovin'! <3

not your ordinary valentines: ducking the v-day hues

2012-02-13T04:31:00.002+08:00

Sorry I've been MIA for a few days now. I've been busy with some wedding related duties myself. My best friend is getting hitched in 2 weeks so things are getting kinda busy and borderline panicky! (yikes!)

So before my own little bridezilla snatches me away, let's continue with our "not your ordinary valentines" series. For this week, I decided to focus on colors.

By default, valentines means RED. Period. If you're looking for some variance, then pink is a close second. But I think you can still get a valentines feel by using the other sides of the color wheel. Here are some ideas.

Purple

If you want to avoid the usual reds but still do not want to veer too far away, purple is a good choice as it is still a close enough color to red and pink. I mean, you need red to make purple after all.

purple cocktail dress by Alfred Sung,
top L-R: purple and pink bouquet, resin purple heart locket, personalized kisses, submerged purple orchids and candle centerpiece
bottom L-R: purple flower cake, purple centerpiece and chandelier, purple and pink floral centerpiece

A cocktail dress like this one by Alfred Sung (available at Dessy.com) I am usually all about the flowy long skirts but the silhouette of this dress just has that mix of elegance and flirt which is perfect for the valentines. Contrast the structure of the dress with dainty lavender and pink bouquet with a nice silky ribbon and you have just the right balance of flirt and romance.

Decorate your venue with purple and pink flowers adorned with glass and crystals Add some (or a lot, of you may) votive candles to a dimly lit room and doesn't that just scream romantic v-day date night?

A simple cake adorned with intricate flowers, though void of any hearts or the color red, will look very romantic indeed and is the perfect dessert to end your special day.

Before your guests leave, give them one of the most iconic valentines gifts: chocolate. These dark chocolate Kisses which are, incidentally, wrapped in purple foil are perfect! For that special touch, have them personalized at the Knot wedding shop.

Lastly, while we're on the topic of gifts, check out this beautiful heart locket from Etsy. I just love the touch of vintage vibe this locket has. Tough this may be too heavy looking for wedding jewelry, it can be a great gift for your ladies in waiting and I'm sure, with this, they are sure to forget any bridezilla moments you had during the wedding planning.

Blue

Blue is not really a popular valentine color. Being a synonym for sad or lonely, it is easy to see why this color may throw anyone off for valentines. But blue in itself is a lovely color. In fact, it's a rather popular choice for a wedding motif. My parents' wedding motif was blue and so is my dad's brother. In the first half of this year alone, I would have attended 3 blue weddings. So yeah, it is a popular color choice.

far left column, top-bottom: light blue bouquets, dainty blue table decor, Christian Louboutin Pigalle Glitter Pumps in blue
middle left column, t-b: blue velvet cupcake, Robert Indiana replica cake topper
middle right column, t-b: hand painted wine glass by Mary Elizabeth, Tiffany & Co. jewelry box
far left: Topshop lace flippy dress

Since blue can sometimes be seen as a sad color, it might be best to play it up in a more dainty way thus, giving it a more romantic feel - perfect for valentines!

To start off, a lace bridesmaid dress like the one of Topshop's partnered with blush blue flowers already screams flirty romance. Match that with some romantic table setting with a touch of vintage and a little love (see the l-o-v-e blocks above? nice touch)
Now if you, the bride, will likely be in either lacey dress or flowy dreamy chiffon, then maybe you could match your dress with lace or satin shoes. But if you're feeling a little bold, these Louboutin glitter shoes would not only take care of that something blue, but it would also give you a little punch of valentines red with its signature red soles.
Now for some reason, I tend to equate valentines with red velvet cupcakes. But since we are all about blues, why not give tradition a little twist by having blue velvet cupcakes instead?
Speaking of cakes, I absolutely love this Robert Indiana cake toppers! You've probably heard of or seen (lucky you) the popular photo attraction in NYC right? If not then here it is. Now, admit it, it does scream valentines day right?
And last but not least, let's talk about favors. Aside from hearts and chocolates, and red velvet cupcakes, another common association with valentines is jewelry. I mean, diamonds are a girl's best friend after all right? And one of the most renowned jewelry stores is perhaps Tiffany & Co. How fitting is it that their trademark color is a dainty shade of robin's egg blue? (fitting for this particular part of this entry at least) Now, I am not suggesting that you blow your wedding budget (and perhaps your life savings) buy buying Tiffany jewels for your guests. But you can, however, take inspiration from that. Find some interesting trinkets like earrings, bangles, keychains, etc. or maybe some mini cupcakes and pack them in Tiffany inspired boxes. Maybe somehow, your guests will feel like they have a little piece of valentines jewels for your special day.

Gray
Gray is probably the last color you'd think of for valentines. Not only is it not a typical pretty color, it can also come off a dull. This makes it an all the more odd choice for a valentines wedding. But actually, gray, when mixed with the right amounts of pink, can actually make for a very pretty valentine wedding color choice. Check out this board for instance:

center: Versace dress from the SATC finale
left panel: valentines printable, gray dress with bright pink balloon, gray flower girl tutu, blush pink bouquet, gray bridesmaid with bouquet in gray ribbon
middle top panel: gray and pink pom poms, gray and pink lanterns
middle bottom panel: hanging heart decor, kissing cake topper
right panel: chalkboard glass jars, pink and gray table decor, pink and gray macarons, decorative gray frosted cupcake

I like the idea of these valentines printables. I think it's a great inspiration for a wedding invitation. The play on fonts gives the gray background a really refreshing touch to it.

Now on to wedding fashion. Who can forget Carrie Bradshaw's show stopping gray Versace dress at the SATC finale? If you are on the bolder side like the girls of SATC, then a gorgeous gray wedding dress would be an interesting choice. But if you're more on the conservative side, you can leave the gray dresses to your entourage. Gray flowy dresses for the bridesmaids with blush pink bouquets would look really dreamy. You can either adorn their bouquets (or even yours as well) with gray satin ribbons or a nice silver heart charm for an extra touch of valentines. And how cute is that gray tutu for your adorable little flower girls right?

For the venue decor, gray and pink pom poms is a cute flirty way to jazz up a place. If you're having your wedding in the evening or where there is dim lighting, hang up some gray and pink lanterns for a romantic appeal. Hang up some gray hearts for an extra valentine boost too. Then dress up gray tables with some blush pink floral arrangements in some silver glassware to round up that romantic look.

I stumbled upon this cute kissing cake toppers on Etsy while in the midst of wedding planning for my bride-to-be friend and I think it's perfect for this valentines gray wedding.

Finally, for your guests to remember your wedding by, hand out a box of gray and pink macarons. For some reason, I always associate macarons with romance. Maybe it's because of their affinity with Paris, a city of love and romance. Another alternative are those cupcakes with gray frosting. Saying "gray frosting" alone sounds so dull but when jazzed up with this checkered design with a cute little heart detail makes it just so cute and romantic at the same time. Play it up some more by maybe scribbling your names and wedding date using the white frosting.

So you see, you don't always have to use red for a valentines themed wedding. Other alternative colors can still work well. It's just a matter of using the right elements and balancing them with the right color palette to bring out that valentines romance may it be flirty, cute, dainty, or just straight out romantic.

And before I disappear again into this frantic final wedding prep stretch, I'd like to share this funny photo I chanced upon this morning. Raise your hands if you can relate. Lol!

how men and women see colors

not your ordinary valentines: do your own valentines

2012-02-02T08:14:00.002+08:00

As promised, here's my first post on valentines themed weddings. For this post, I decided to work on a DIY Valentines Wedding.

When you were a kid, you've probably surprised your parents with a valentines day card made from ordinary white paper with a squiggly crayon drawings or imperfectly cut out hearts with glitters and what not. That card may never make it on the shelves if it were submitted to Hallmark and yet your folks would still proudly stick it to your fridge door for everyone to see. Like they say, "it's the thought that counts" The effort and thought that went behind those imperfect little cards definitely trumps that of those cookie cutter store bought cards.

In the same way, DIY weddings are like that. They are not always perfectly polished yet they have this peculiar charm to them. They are unique because unlike those weddings assembled by a team of planners, florists, and stylists, they are made with the sweat, blood (the sewing, pinning, and hot glue gunning can be brutal), and sometimes tears (happy tears, that is) of the couple and their closest allies. So even if you use the most cliche valentines elements, they can still turn out to be uniquely your own.

With that in mind, I've put together some project ideas that you can do for a DIY valentines themed wedding.

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1. These paper heart garlands are a great way to spruce up your wedding venue. I love the use of recycled paper because it adds a certain charm to the entire thing. To avoid drowning in red hearts, try doing it the way it is in on the photo. String one red heart among a row of plain (or newspaper printed like these). The paper heart garlands in this photo can be found on Etsy but, this being a DIY post, here's the how to's on the blog the whole ENchelleADA.

2. For a little glitter and glitz, try out these glittery mason jars from tater tots & jello. Add a lighted candle inside to get a glittery glow. These would be a dazzling centerpiece if you group two or three different sizes of jar together. Or you can also group them with other valentine designed and plain mason jars or bottles.

3. Instead of using ordinary place cards as your table numbers, why not make your own unique table labels instead. This project from shelterness uses picture frames, colored paper, and some loose buttons to make this cute and simple table labels. You can shape the buttons into numbers or make up names for each table such as love, kiss, heart, and so on.

4. If you do decide to break up your glittery mason jars instead of grouping them together, this simple bottle ornament from paper and cake would be a nice balance to the glitter of those mason jars. You can either slip a single long stemmed flower in it or leave it be and it will work either way.

5. If you will be labeling your guest tables, then who says you can't label the couple's table too, right? A cute way to do so is using these fabric covered block letters as seen in the Knotty Bride (while you're at it, check out the wedding featured with these block letters. Beautiful!). Unfortunately I could not find the DIY instructions for these. But from what I can tell, these are fairly simple to do. Find some letter shaped wood blocks in craft stores. Cardboard letter blocks or styro foam ones would probably work too just make sure to secure them properly as the lighter material would not be as stable as wood when mounted. Once you have the letters done, just cover them with glue and wrap them with some pretty colored fabric of your choice.

6 & 7. Valentines day would not be complete without chocolates. Chocolates can also make a great wedding favor that your guests would definitely love. Instead of giving the usual boxed chocolates, why not tweak it a little. Sprouted Kitchen shares a recipe for chocolate and puffed grain morsels. The great thing about this is that, you can change up the recipes to suit your taste. Another option is to buy a bunch of red and pink Kisses chocolates and personalize them with these printable sticker circles from Etsy. Throw in a handful of these morsels or kisses in some jars, and cover them with some doily or cute fabric and you have a charming wedding favor that your guests will really enjoy.

8. If you can DIY your decor and favors, who's to say that you cannot DIY your wedding shoes? Glittery DIY shoes seem to be fad over the internet in 2011. In fact, it was on of the top Googled DIY projects for the year. These red glittery shoes from Living with Bob are perfect for a valentines wedding. As a plus, this can be your something old AND something new at the same time.

9. In some weddings I've been to, the entourage and/or the VIP guests (parents, principal sponsors, etc.) are usually seated in special tables and are given special gifts by the couple. One clever way to do both is with DIY mini wine bottles like the ones featured in b*spoke. Simply get a batch of your favorite wine and transfer them into mini bottles. Print out personalized labels with the names of your special guests and stick them on the bottles. Place the bottles on the guests' respective seats. Not only do you now have special gifts for your special guests but you also have unique escort cards.

10. Dessert is a must for a valentines themed wedding. But instead of going the usual route of sweet and decadent chocolates or cakes, why not go for something different like these chocolate covered pretzels by love from the oven. The combination of salty and sweet gives a light treat after a scrumptious meal. Plus they're easy to make too!

11. A lot of couples now are veering away from the traditional garter and bouquet toss and are incorporating games into the mix instead. One game to try out is a bouquet and garter hunt but instead of the actual bouquet or garter, the eligible bachelors and bachelorettes can look for the words "bouquet" and "garter" hidden in chocolate covered fortune cookies like those featured in the Offbeat Bride. The basic fortune cookie is available in allrecipes.com. You can also watch the tutorial on Good Housekeeping's Youtube channel. When the cookies are ready, simply dip them in melted chocolate and roll them in sprinkles.

12. If you feel that your centerpieces are still a bit lacking with only 2 kinds of mason jars/bottles, add a third one to the mix. Try these crafty mason jars decked with doily and hearts from Crescendoh. Throw in some wild flowers in them and group them together with the glittery jars, and the tall white bottles and you'll have a truly DIY centerpiece.

13. Last but definitely not the least, if you're DIY-ing your shoes, then might as well DIY your bouquet too. Elsie from A Beautiful Mess shares how she DIY-ed her own wedding bouquet. And to relieve yourself of pre-wedding jitters, have a mini slumber bridal shower with your bridesmaids and have them DIY their own bouquets too. Not only will you have beautiful bouquets that are reflective of you and your bridesmaids' personalities but you also get to bond with your girls for the last time as a single lady.

Phew! That was a long list!

See what I mean about the DIY charm? Although these ideas still have that valentines vibe, they have their own unique charm to them which make them different from the cliches of valentines day.

Check back in next week. I'll be posting a different valentines themed wedding. For now, enjoy the rest of the week!

not your ordinary valentines

2012-02-01T04:24:00.003+08:00

It's February! What better way to start off the month of hearts with a Valentines themed post. Predictable, I know but stay with me.

The thing with a Valentines themed wedding is that it's too easy that it becomes complicated. It's too easy because Valentines is such a familiar concept. Everyone knows what it is. It is popular and universal. And it is also because of those very same reasons that it becomes complicated too. Tradition, coupled with pop culture has managed to create a template image of what Valentines supposedly is. It's so universal that when you ask anyone the first 3 things that comes to mind when they hear the word "Valentines", I would bet that at least 2 of those 3 things will include either the color red and hearts. This makes it very easy to get you stuck when thinking of ideas for a valentines themed anything.

In that light, I have decided to create a challenge for myself. For the month of hearts, I shall do a series of posts dedicated to different variations of a Valentines themed wedding to hopefully help you veer away from the cookie cutter red and hearts version of Valentines day.

So let me gather my valentines-y thoughts and I shall post my first stab at a Valentines themed wedding within the week.

Stay tuned!

happy heart's day!

to theme or not to theme

2012-01-27T22:56:00.000+08:00

It seems that having a themed wedding is all the rage nowadays. From a general look and feel (dreamy vintage, modern romantic, rustic country), a specific inspiration (fairy tale inspired, Cinco de Mayo, travel themed), cute and quirky (Up themed, candy inspired, school theme), to the downright weird (goth, zombie, Twilight), more and more couples decide to move away from the usual color motif based weddings and incorporate a theme into their weddings

I must admit, I do enjoy themed weddings. The planning process for a themed wedding, though tedious, can actually be fun. Plus, I think it's a treat for guests to be transported into the couple's world, after all, it is all about the couple.

But it is really necessary to have a theme?

In my opinion, not really.

Since I've been known to be especially fond of wedding planning, sometimes people would ask me "What theme goes well with our wedding colors?". Honestly, I find it difficult to answer. There's nothing really wrong with wanting to have a theme. I just feel that it would be more meaningful if the theme came from somewhere special or significant between the couple rather than from a combination of colors.

Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of the couple's union. Thus, a wedding should be reflective of who the couple is. Unfortunately, some couples get too excited about having a theme that they forget about what the celebration really is and end up losing their identity as couple in the process.

See, If I were in the couple's shoes, I'd want to be able to look at my wedding photos after 10 years or so and not think "Why were we wearing sombreros on our wedding again?". I'd rather go "This reminds me so much of our romantic engagement in Mexico". See the difference?

So don't worry if you don't have a theme for your wedding. If you only have you and your spouse-to-be's favorite colors in mind, then by all means, work with it. The important thing is that, however way it is you decide to celebrate your wedding, it will hold a significant and meaningful place between you and your partner.

ushering in 2012 with some tangerine tango

2012-01-25T04:11:00.003+08:00

I am not a fan of the color orange. Blunt but true. I think it is not an easy color to work with. For me, it works as a refreshing color pop but not as a main color in itself. So imagine my reaction when Pantone announced 2012's color for the year: Tangerine Tango

Ok, it's not exactly orange but it is definitely within the family.

So how do you work with a color like Tangerine Tango without blinding your wedding guest with this bold color choice?

One way is to work with a color palette. Just because you've chosen tangerine as your wedding color doesn't mean that everything, besides the wedding dress, needs to be in that color. Tangerine, aside from being a bold color, is also a warm color. A good compliment to that would be something less bold and within the cool color circle such as blue-green. Play around with the shades of blue and green, from turquoise to teal, until you get the kind of combination you feel comfortable with.

diy candlestick holders, tangerine and teal bouquet, H&M chiffon dress, table setting photography by Katelyn James

Another is to have a gradation of colors. Mix tangerine with shades of reds and yellows to get different highlights and accents. It also helps the eyes adjust to the palette instead of shocking it with a burst of tangerine alone. As a bonus, you also get to have that cozy autumn feel to your wedding.

red and tangerine bouquet, autumn leaf candle holder, H&M chiffon dress, red-orange-yellow table setting

But if you just can't push the envelope enough to embrace tangerine in all it's glory. Use it as an accent instead. Tangerine, being the bold color that it is, is the perfect way to give pops of color into a muted palette.

wedding photo by Chad Morgan Photography

So I guess those guys over at Pantone were not out to sabotage our 2012. There really is nothing to be scared of when it comes to choosing a color as bold as Tangerine Tango as a wedding color. Just find the right balance and your wedding can actually turn out quite beautifully.