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Self-Leadership

2012-02-14T21:03:00.004+08:00

Why wait for others?

Lead Yourself.

天才与白痴

2012-01-19T21:32:00.003+08:00

它们不过是定义上的区别，其实很多天才因为不被现实社会认同而被排斥，而被认为是个“白痴”……

有句话说天才与白痴只是一线之差,那“一线”就是社会的分隔。

它们之间是息息相系的……

Learn the Rules and Then Play Better

2011-12-29T15:07:00.002+08:00

“You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.”

To put it all in simple terms, there are two things that you must do. The first thing you must do is to learn the rules of the game that you’re playing. It doesn’t sound exciting, but it’s vital. Secondly, you must commit to play the game better than anyone else. If you can do these two things, success will be yours!

more famous quote from the Genius, Albert Einstein??

log on http://www.dumblittleman.com/2010/03/10-amazing-lessons-albert-einstein.html

几天前……发现……

2011-12-23T06:54:00.001+08:00

这几天，我又开始懒惰了…什么都不想做，越离大考越靠近，我的懒根也跟着长得越多,把我紧紧抓住不放。

就当我颓废着的时候，我的室友说了一句“好了好了，不要再逃避了…该读书！”（想必他也在颓废着吧？）

突然，我想通了！其实我并不是懒,我只是在逃避现实，只因我害怕…！害怕那些考试！

我记得上个月听了一个讲座会，那时演讲者说道：我们往往给自己很多借口去延迟我们该做的事，我们并不是没有能力或者是懒惰…其真正原因是我们“害怕”。

我们人啊，往往都害怕这些那些，其实很那些事都只不过是些微不足道的事…只因有害怕的心理，把这些微不足道给放大又放大，这而就了许多困难。

放胆去做，一步一步，到达目的地。

结论：不要害怕不要害怕，正面对事情，其实所有的事都很简单。

他说当年

2011-12-03T22:48:00.005+08:00

得空无聊就在FB看看朋友的照片，一张接一张的，照片跟着慢慢地回归那些年发生的事情，也感觉到岁月是不会等人的。照片回说当年：中学时和朋友一起参与活动，一大班出去玩乐，一起爬山，一起BBQ，那些灿烂的笑，一起肩搭肩的朋友，和好友一起玩自拍……

在大学，遇到了好多新朋友，大家都来自不一样的地方。每个人都有自己的历史，自己的背景，我们对人总不能以貌取人甚至用自己的看点来对待任何人。试试从多点来看待，其实大家都是平等。

有些人出生于贫困家庭，有的则富有；有的在乡村长大，有的则在繁荣的城市里长大。每个人的看法和想法都不一样，所以往往我们都不能站在自己立场对待人事物。

人啊，都有自己的生活方式，有的想要荣华富贵，有的想要平平淡淡的生活；有的懒惰，有的勤奋，因人而异。人终不能渴望别人跟着你的步伐走，也不能麻木地跟着别人，最终得找到自己的生活节奏，了解自己，活得开心最为重要。

过已过，去已去，

新的来，旧的去，

旧照片，好回忆，

新照片，值收藏。

the Brick Wall

2011-11-23T19:32:00.002+08:00

Brick wall are there for a reason: they let us prove how badly we want things.

by: Randy Pausch

因小失大...

2011-11-22T12:57:00.003+08:00

前几天大学有户外展览，本人就到那里八八下啦....

到了食物摊位看到currypop...突然

有个冲动要买一个来吃，就问问怎样卖啦~

"bang, satu belapa??" (正专心看着那些currypop)

"satu lapan buluh sen...lima empat ringgit"

我就毫不犹豫地就说“bagi saya lima laa...”，因为买多就便宜吗...

正没想到给了钱后，我竟然发觉...妈的原来没有便宜到....

一个0.80，酱五个就是4.00啊...

ok,我承认我没有听好也只是贪心了一点点.

..但是也不能完全怪我...这是一个社会问题（推卸着责任XP）大家应该探讨的！

当我们听到人家说"satu lapan buluh sen...lima empat ringgit"，会自然认为买多就会有discount...这是common sense wat?? 我不对吗？

这样说，就是那个小贩的问题咯！....他...他.....他.....不只欺骗了我的金钱也欺骗麦我那脆弱的心灵~~~ 天啊~~~

宿舍趣事之沐浴风云~

2011-11-21T14:28:00.003+08:00

大家都知道，宿舍厕所都是公用的啊...自然地也观察到一些东西。

~有些人喜欢躲在马桶那里吸烟~

我也不知道为什么他们这么喜欢这样...用了好几分钟来思考，难道吸了几口烟后，大便就会顺畅一些？！还是与大便“干”了一场你死我活后，站在马桶旁一边吸烟，一边默默看着他们的战利品（好像黑社会老大杀了人后吸几口烟，然后把烟头丢在脸上）才把它们给冲走？？！

~有些人喜欢在厕所里唱歌~

这是最普遍的啦，好听难听 i dont care...最重要的是pls,请你们不要三更半夜在房间乱唱就可以了...尤其是...唱什么“AKU cinta~~~!!!" walao eh...你不用睡，我要的啦~想唱就去KTV...帮你book麦房也可以。

~有些人喜欢一边冲凉一边......~

啊...这个课题就令我好奇了。最近啊，发现到我们的朋友，他们冲凉的时候不只是喜欢唱 “AKU~~CINTAMU~~" 他们也很喜欢一边冲凉一边玩音乐！好奇hor？？

他们冲凉的时候会发出一些特别声音，比如说 "pop jit pop jit" "tap shua tap shua" 类似拍打再加上水声磨擦所弄出的声音...我本人可是很好奇他们是怎样弄出这么....不知道怎样形容....只能说奇怪又“可爱”的声音。

还有再加上他们发出的那些 “啊~呵~呜~唔~” 的声音更不禁添加了一些神秘既瑰异的气氛。

好啦，暂时只有这么多...是时候睡个午觉。

他妈妈！他又来"AKU~~~ CINTA~~~"了....怎样睡？

Secrets to success Pt. 2

2011-10-30T17:02:00.001+08:00

Secrets to success Pt. 1

2011-10-30T17:01:00.003+08:00

2011-10-30T16:56:00.001+08:00

productivity and time go hand in hand. you must use your time wisely because you can never buy or buy back time. Every minute you wait, every minute you procrastinate, every minute you decide to sit out is minutes wasted from the end result. Inception is the beginning piece to your life. Inception is the MOST IMPORTANT part of your life. what are you going to do? how are you going to do it?....mistakes are a part of life but mistakes are needed to get past all our mental barriers. remember that "its no mistake if its always repeated."

Live - fullness

2011-10-24T14:48:00.000+08:00

When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
There’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Please share this with other "Golf Balls" ,you'll alwayz be my special golf ball even if we fight n i loose u bye

6th week of my Uni life

2011-10-17T22:50:00.006+08:00

Time flies~ its already the 6th week. From my 1st class until now...the same feeling always come in my mind. I feel dissapointed..stress..sad..tired always..what the hack! Everytime i step back to the hostel i feel down and heavy...i tried to motivate myself but demotivated back after class on next day.

My class isnt tat good and sometimes i am so envy the other classes (Italy,Spanish,France...), because their class are much more lifely and FUN! The students cope up with lecturer, make jokes...its interesting. But why German class is so BORING and Stressful?? We have to 'Ejaan' everyday...i dont feel tat my class is fun anymore, language class should be fun and lifely what??!

I cant let it happen anymore! i need to change myself...i should enjoy my Uni life instead of worrying this and that.

LIVE TO ENJOY LIFE,NO MATTER HOW!

special thanks to Cikgu Aziz who drop me some message: "I know u can do better than other people bcoz u r special, that's why u r what r u now." & ''who ask u to maintain. Be the best and always the best."

做一个你自己喜欢的人，这才活得开心自在。

2011-10-16T17:23:00.002+08:00

遵从这个社会的一些规则，有时会让你生活得更容易，但不一定会让你快乐。当这两者冲突时，如何取舍？顺水行舟省力气，但逆水行舟才会让你头顶的“人”字更巨大。

It's okay to hate school: There is nothing wrong with you.

2011-10-09T16:26:00.000+08:00

recently found a good website, log on and have a look!

http://www.school-survival.net/index.php

N for Never Give Up

2011-10-07T16:14:00.004+08:00

Never Give Up: Try Harder than Anyone Else.

Success lies in a person's willingness to make relentless, step-by-step efforts, even on mundane tasks. This may sound simplistic, but the person who continues working more earnestly than anyone else will always achieve success.
Aim at a goal that is so far away it makes u wonder whether your "daily steps" make any difference at all -- but let those steps accumulate!
Remember that even the greatest accomplishments are nothing more than the accumulation of small, seemingly trivial tasks. There are no valid shortcuts to long-term success.
Keep one firm conviction in your heart at all times: You have not failed until you stop trying.

"If you have a strong desire, and truly believe that it will be realized someday, you will find a way out of impossible situations and achieve your goal."

O for Optimism

2011-10-07T15:35:00.004+08:00

Optimism: Always Remain Positive

Always be cheerful, positive, and full of enthusiasm even in the most trying situations. Remain open-minded andxcited about your goals at all times. Banish any sense of doubt or negativity from your mind.
Realize that being an entrepreneur requires relentless determination, effort, and willingness to face countless risks. Do not allow these challenges to make you negative, pessimistic, or cynical in your views.
Remind yourself daily that a cheerful disposition invites success. It is difficult for any nihilist, cynic,pr pessimist to become successful in a positive endeavor. But more important, the attitude of the leader -- positive or negative -- will directly influence the work force and how they deal with customers,suppliers, and each other.

"Conceive optimistically; plan pessimistically; and execute optimistically."

《你也可以不一样》

2011-10-07T13:06:00.006+08:00

演讲后的感言：

这是我第一次认识他，也我是第一次听他的讲座。（当然他不认识我，但我肯定有朝一日他会认识我的大名！）

关于他的历史和成长，很庆幸能够听到他的分享：

-在他小时候为帮补家用（让我最记得的一幕是他在中三的一天，在路边卖万字成绩发现自己不能再堕落下去，未来一定要成功 --- 我最喜欢的就是他人生的一个转折点）

-他在大学生涯对自己下的定位并不断的努力，生活上经验的累积塑造今天的他。

至于这次演讲的主题是《你可以不一样》，他主要分享的是---大学生必须找到自己，了解自己并发挥自己。

本人在讲座中抄下了一些我觉得值得分享的名句或者知识。（挺多一下^^）

-“毕业五年，决定一生” = 在大学生涯中，我们必须充实自己进步自己，为未来准备！

-“认识残酷，捉住幸福”

-大学生涯把握的重点 = 给自己磨练的空间，累积自己的历练。

-任何一件事只要你能待续每天至少1小时做上……

Ø 一年，你就在其领域上的专家！

Ø 两年，你就在其领域上的权威！

Ø 三年，你就在其领域上的泰斗！

-35岁之前，以量为主，为深度为重点。35岁以后，以宽度为主。

-一天两天没什么差异；一年两年两彼此的落差就显露出来了！（滴水穿石。）

-扩大你的舒适圈……

Ø 挑战舒适圈

Ø 扩大舒适圈

Ø 占领舒适圈

-Believe in yourself, practice it, achieve it. Be the legend of the legend.

-最后，这是我最喜欢的一句。

“在创业的过程中，我时时刻刻铭记于心的是，凭全力，豁出去！”

#个人很欣赏陈礼祥在社会上的贡献，最重要的是他很鼓励大学生找到真正的自己并规划自己人生蓝图。在我对他初步的了解，他挺喜欢看书尤其是激励书…这是我跟他的共同点！希望很快就会有跟他第二次接触，交流交流!

Prepare for a Challenge

2011-10-05T17:13:00.005+08:00

Challenge and Innovation are popular,pleasant-sounding words. In the reality,however, they lead to hardships and risks that require unimaginable amounts of hard work, patience, and courage.

In my opinion, we should not even say the word challenge until we have gathered the necessary ingredients for innovation. We must be able to back this w

ord up with the courage to face a challenge and the stamina to withstand long, crushing hardships.

In Japan,a person who uses the word challenge without preparing any such backup is called a 'banyuu',or a reckless fool.

Only if we are well prepared mentally can we continually challenge ourselves to innovate in business management. Additionally.our enterprise must be in good financial shape, with enough capital to launch new projects and sail them safely to completion. When you want to innovate,you must begin with a firm conviction, extreme courage, daily perseverance, and the skills acquired through personal experience.

''Extensive financial and mentalpreparation is necessary before we can challenge and innovation''

~copied from {A Passion For Success by KAZUO INAMORI}

Wrestle in the Center of the Ring

2011-10-03T16:49:00.006+08:00

I always keep in mind and tell myself to wrestle in the center of the ring. That means to act on the challenges immediately, and not wait until you are pushed to the edge of a deadline.

I am sure most of us have the experience of burning the midnight oil before an exam. Many of us must have run out of time and faced a test in a desperate mood. Since the time and date of an exam are scheduled beforehand, we should start sooner if we want to get a good grade. But many of us don't.

In Japan Sumo wrestling, we see that some wrestlers wait until they are on the very edge of the ring and about to be thrown out before they really fight to defend themselves. I often wonder why they don't use their 'super power'

strength while they are still in the center.

Our life is no different. when we are in the center of the ring, we feel relaxed (shuang~) because there is plenty of time and room to make our moves. Then we put forth a flurry of activity when we are pushed to the edge of the ring.

We should always pretend that there is no time or room left, and make our efforts long before we are actually about to be pushed out of the ring.

~Prepare ''reserves'', then act as though you have no reserve at all. This is the secret of a stable life.~ Kazuo Inamori

Heaven or Hell?

2011-10-01T17:29:00.006+08:00

A young Buddhist monk once asked a wise priest to describe hell. the old priest replied that in hell, there is a giant cooking pot, a yard wide, filled with delicious noodles -- however, your only serving utensils are chopsticks which are also a yard in length.

''You can imagine what happens.'' the priest explained. ''Everybody is hungry and fighting to feel themselves with the yard-long chopsticks. They manage to pick noodles up, but the chop-sticks are too long to maneuver the noodles into their mouths. They become frantic and flounder at the noodles, each wanting to be the first to eat, and they even attack others for their food. In the end, with the noodles everywhere but in their mouths, they suffer a permanent, agonizing hunger.''

The young monk then asked for a description of heaven, to which the old priest replied: ''Heaven is actually quite the same. Only there, each person picks up the noodles and offers them to someone on the other side of the pot, saying ' Please be the first to enjoy this wonderful mea.' And the other accepts the food, saying 'Thank you, and please allow me to return you the kindness.' Trough their unselfish minds, they enjoy eternal bliss.''

{In our real life journey, everything can be heaven or hell, depending on whether we view them as win-lose situations , zero-sum games, or win-win opportunities of compounding synergy}

-copied from [A Passion For Success] , written by Kazuo Inamori

蕭煌奇 - 只能勇敢

2011-06-17T10:03:00.000+08:00

蕭煌奇:『眼睛雖然可以看清許多事但有更多事情只用眼睛去看是絕對不夠的』
繼之後蕭煌奇再度以眼睛為題材呼籲大家用心看世界

只能勇敢(Brave Heart) 歌詞

作詞：姚若龍
作曲：蕭煌奇
編曲：蕭煌奇

從很早就明白我討厭孤單
就算是談情感有許多麻煩
也還是很嚮往愛的人來作伴
太衝動的結果反而一片混亂
更心酸更孤單

失戀過才明白相處有多難
誰粗心誰敏感誰體貼誰獨斷
誰說出了期盼誰覺得是批判
當爭吵都變成冷戰也讓情感被切斷

我只能勇敢學習釋然
把情人的淚還有責備全部承擔
從不習慣對曾經熾熱的愛情分手就冷淡

我只能勇敢順其自然
誰叫我對於真愛那麼期盼
不想要關住了自己安全但卻太黑暗

幸福過才明白要永恆多夢幻
這一秒的美好下一刻就暗淡
問再多為什麼也不會有答案
但心裡很清楚以後有更多無解的遺憾

我只能勇敢學習釋然
把離別的苦思念的酸都看淡
人總要習慣生命就是一站一站
不斷在轉換

我只能勇敢順其自然
誰叫我寧願浪漫不要平淡
不投入盛大煙火表演沒有危險但也不燦爛

不怕愛情苦樂都極端

lets go for the race!!

2011-04-25T01:20:00.003+08:00

Wooohooo! i am going to regist for Marathon race this Wed, this will be my 1st try on 10km race. Hope i can ''cut off'' my belly on time.

anyone interested for Standard Chartered KL Marathon ,can log on >> http://www.kl-marathon.com/

and Feel Good Run >> http://apps.ntv7.com.my/feelgoodrun/ , for more information

cabut dan lari!!!

大悲咒梵唱

2011-04-04T15:32:00.000+08:00

歌词大意:
南无怛纳达拉雅雅南无阿里雅佳纳
萨嘎拉贝勒佳纳尤哈拉佳雅达他嘎达雅
阿拉哈帝桑雅桑布达雅
纳摩萨噜哇达他噶提呗阿啦哈达呗
桑雅桑布提呗南摩阿里雅阿哇噜格帝
秀哇啦雅布地萨埵哇雅玛哈萨埵哇雅
玛哈嘎噜尼加雅达地雅他嗡达啦达啦
提力提力杜露杜露
易笛威易笛加列加列
不啦加列不啦加列
固苏美固苏玛哇垒
易利密积地作哈啦玛巴纳雅梭哈

here comes 8-bit music!!

2011-03-25T22:54:00.000+08:00

SIDABITBALL - New Slip

enjoy ^^