Amor & Exile https://amorandexile.com/ True Stories of Love Across America's Borders Mon, 02 Feb 2026 19:30:06 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://i0.wp.com/amorandexile.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/cropped-AE4sale-2.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Amor & Exile https://amorandexile.com/ 32 32 27981758 The Fall of our Neighbors – and the Rise of Collective Sight   https://amorandexile.com/2026/01/the-fall-of-our-neighbors-and-the-rise-of-collective-sight/ https://amorandexile.com/2026/01/the-fall-of-our-neighbors-and-the-rise-of-collective-sight/#respond Sun, 01 Feb 2026 05:00:00 +0000 https://amorandexile.com/?p=2646 Brutality continues to rain down on U.S communities, at the hands of Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) and Customs and Border Patrol (CBP), and millions of people, for the first time, are grappling with the prospect of becoming targets of state sponsored violence for simply walking down the street. People cry, “this isn’t us!” or, …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2026/01/the-fall-of-our-neighbors-and-the-rise-of-collective-sight/feed/ 0 2646 What’s behind Biden’s action on undocumented spouses? A million love stories.  https://amorandexile.com/2024/06/whats-behind-bidens-action-on-undocumented-spouses-a-million-love-stories/ https://amorandexile.com/2024/06/whats-behind-bidens-action-on-undocumented-spouses-a-million-love-stories/#respond Fri, 21 Jun 2024 22:39:31 +0000 https://amorandexile.com/?p=2638 By Nicole Salgado and Nathaniel Hoffman Love is one of the main drivers of migration, and it always has been. As a new Biden administration executive action providing legal relief to hundreds of thousands of undocumented spouses of American citizens rolls out, it is essential that we recognize the million beautiful love stories behind the policy. Across the …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2024/06/whats-behind-bidens-action-on-undocumented-spouses-a-million-love-stories/feed/ 0 2638 In Memory of Recently Departed Members of the Amor and Exile Community https://amorandexile.com/2023/11/amor-exile-a-tribute-to-three-recently-departed-members-of-our-book-community/ https://amorandexile.com/2023/11/amor-exile-a-tribute-to-three-recently-departed-members-of-our-book-community/#respond Sat, 25 Nov 2023 18:05:01 +0000 https://amorandexile.com/?p=2631 A well-known Mexican tradition worldwide on November 1st is Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead. The custom is one of inviting dead loved ones back into families’ homes for remembrance, honoring and celebration of their lives, at a time when the earthly “veil” between the living and the dead is thinner than …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2023/11/amor-exile-a-tribute-to-three-recently-departed-members-of-our-book-community/feed/ 0 2631 A Journey North, Amidst the Rhizosphere https://amorandexile.com/2022/09/the-rhizosphere/ https://amorandexile.com/2022/09/the-rhizosphere/#respond Wed, 07 Sep 2022 03:01:51 +0000 https://amorandexile.com/?p=2614 I’ve had an announcement I’ve been trying to make for some time now, one of those once in a lifetime kind of bits of news that deserve a proper time, place, and style. BUT since this new reality is hurtling toward us with a seemingly daily accelerating pace, unforgivingly preventing me from doing things “as …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2022/09/the-rhizosphere/feed/ 0 2614 eCornell Keynote with Amor and Exile co-authors, 7/7 https://amorandexile.com/2021/06/ecornell-keynote-with-amor-and-exile-co-authors-7-7/ https://amorandexile.com/2021/06/ecornell-keynote-with-amor-and-exile-co-authors-7-7/#respond Fri, 18 Jun 2021 15:08:12 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2589 In a virtual homecoming of sorts, Nicole and Nathaniel, both ’99 Cornell alumni, will speak with Christopher Wofford, producer, in an eCornell Keynote, on July 7, 2021, at 2 pm EDT. They’ll address what compelled them to write and publish Amor and Exile in 2013, how very little has changed since then – aside from …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2021/06/ecornell-keynote-with-amor-and-exile-co-authors-7-7/feed/ 0 2589 Nicole to Speak at Democrats Abroad Immigration Reform Panel, 3/25 https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/nicole-to-speak-at-democrats-abroad-immigration-reform-panel-3-25/ https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/nicole-to-speak-at-democrats-abroad-immigration-reform-panel-3-25/#respond Tue, 23 Mar 2021 23:29:19 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2563 Nicole Salgado, co-author of Amor and Exile, will speak as part of a panel on immigration reform hosted by Democrats Abroad on Thursday, March 25, 2021, at 2:30-3:30pm Eastern Time (US & Canada). Nicole will talk about her experience in immigration exile, as well as the need to include mixed-status families like hers in immigration …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/nicole-to-speak-at-democrats-abroad-immigration-reform-panel-3-25/feed/ 0 2563 Tell Your Elected Officials: Include Mixed Status Families in Immigration Reform https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/tell-your-elected-officials-include-american-families-in-immigration-reform/ https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/tell-your-elected-officials-include-american-families-in-immigration-reform/#respond Sun, 21 Mar 2021 18:47:04 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2554 Last fall, the American Families United Act was sponsored by Congressional Rep. Veronica Escobar (D-TX). This March, although the AFU Act had not yet reached the House floor, the Dream and Promise Act and the Farmworker Modernization Act were passed in the House last week, both without amendments to include undocumented spouses of American citizens. …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2021/03/tell-your-elected-officials-include-american-families-in-immigration-reform/feed/ 0 2554 Amor and Exile co-author to return from exile with family https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/amor-and-exile-co-author-returns-from-exile-with-family/ https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/amor-and-exile-co-author-returns-from-exile-with-family/#respond Sun, 26 Jan 2020 22:03:28 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2453 QUERÉTARO, México | RALEIGH, N. Carolina Nicole Salgado, co-author of the book Amor and Exile: True Stories of Love Across America’s Borders, will travel to the United States next week for the first time with her whole family, including her American citizen daughter and her husband Margarito (Margo) Resendiz. Margo was finally granted an immigrant …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/amor-and-exile-co-author-returns-from-exile-with-family/feed/ 0 2453 Juarez Serenade https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/juarez-serenade/ https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/juarez-serenade/#respond Wed, 01 Jan 2020 23:12:24 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2427 On October 21st, 2019, our family experienced a thousand lives in one day, literally and vicariously. From where I sat at Pancake Paradise, for two hours from 7:45 to 10 am, I watched hundreds of families walk up and down the stairs leading to the pedestrian bridge over the boulevard along which lies the U.S. …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2020/01/juarez-serenade/feed/ 0 2427 The list: for a former sister-in-exile https://amorandexile.com/2019/09/the-list-for-a-former-sister-in-exile/ https://amorandexile.com/2019/09/the-list-for-a-former-sister-in-exile/#respond Mon, 02 Sep 2019 14:50:29 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2385 In the going on 13 years I’ve been in Mexico, we’ve had to say “goodbye” to several good friends who have moved “back north” or elsewhere. In Amor and Exile, I wrote about a variety of different reasons that other expats end up down here in Querétaro and the solidarity we have being foreigners who’ve …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2019/09/the-list-for-a-former-sister-in-exile/feed/ 0 2385 The Waiver (I-212) https://amorandexile.com/2018/09/the-waiver-i-212/ https://amorandexile.com/2018/09/the-waiver-i-212/#respond Sun, 23 Sep 2018 16:51:42 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2271 I’ve been trying since last November, then again in January, April, and June to sit down and properly share our immigration status. But the last year has been lived in the moment, with little luxury of time to write and muse about it all. I lost my grandmother, started to swim, turned 40, have weathered budget …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2018/09/the-waiver-i-212/feed/ 0 2271 Provisions https://amorandexile.com/2017/11/provisions/ https://amorandexile.com/2017/11/provisions/#comments Sat, 18 Nov 2017 21:36:40 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2144 provision Definition (From Merriam-Webster online): 1a :the act or process of providing b :the fact or state of being prepared beforehand c :a measure taken beforehand to deal with a need or contingency :preparation made provision for replacements 2:a stock of needed materials or supplies;  especially :a stock of food — usually used in plural     *   *   *   *   *   *   Not much has changed …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2017/11/provisions/feed/ 3 2144 Fumbling toward fireworks https://amorandexile.com/2017/07/fumblingfireworks/ https://amorandexile.com/2017/07/fumblingfireworks/#comments Tue, 04 Jul 2017 23:58:00 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2133 Author’s Note: Something fairly big happened in our immigration journey in the past few months, news that, given how much of a watershed moment it represents, I really would have expected myself to have shared sooner. And yet, for reasons I explore below, I have been mulling over how to share, or perhaps unconsciously putting …

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2017/04/abrazos/feed/ 0 2038 Live, Love, and Learn from your Neighbors https://amorandexile.com/2017/03/live-love-learn-neighbors/ https://amorandexile.com/2017/03/live-love-learn-neighbors/#respond Fri, 31 Mar 2017 03:35:10 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2023 Santa Cruz, CA

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]]> https://amorandexile.com/2017/03/live-love-learn-neighbors/feed/ 0 2023 Buffalo’s Old West Side and the “City of Good Neighbors” https://amorandexile.com/2017/03/buffalos-old-west-side-city-good-neighbors/ https://amorandexile.com/2017/03/buffalos-old-west-side-city-good-neighbors/#respond Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:17:10 +0000 http://amorandexile.com/?p=2015 A recent NYT article is a testament to how one city—Buffalo, NY–has continued to welcome all immigrants and refugees–including my parents and grandparents– since the late 19th century on. Just in the last ten years, Buffalo has placed 10,000 immigrants from the Middle East alone. Before that, the “Old West Side,” a low-income neighborhood near Lake …

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