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		<title>Book Review: Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How’s this for a timely review?  Actually, I just re-read the book in time for watching the movie, so it’s not a coincidence. 
A couple years ago, this review would be much more controversial, I’m guessing.  But now days, the Christian community seems to have warmed up a bit to J.K. Rowling.  Perhaps they finally realized [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1323&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0439785960?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0439785960"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1324" style="margin:5px;" title="harry potter half blood prince" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/harry-potter-half-blood-prince.jpg?w=199&#038;h=300" alt="harry potter half blood prince" width="199" height="300" /></a>How’s this for a timely review?  Actually, I just re-read <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0439785960?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0439785960">the book </a>in time for watching the movie, so it’s not a coincidence. </p>
<p>A couple years ago, this review would be much more controversial, I’m guessing.  But now days, the Christian community seems to have warmed up a bit to J.K. Rowling.  Perhaps they finally realized what serious readers were arguing all along, that Rowling was really on our side, which came out loud and clear with her final book, scripture verses, Christ figures, messianic type deliverance, and all.  I mean, really, at what point do you keep crying foul?</p>
<p>These books have delivered some of the most powerful Christian messages of all the books written in the past 50 years, and I’m finally going to get a little loud about it.  Frankly, this excites me. </p>
<p>It’s time to share a little story.  It might rub some of you the wrong way, but I’ll risk it because I think it’s worth telling. </p>
<p>When the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059035342X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=059035342X">first Harry Potter book </a>came out, and the hype got started, I worried.  I didn’t want to buy the book to support it, if it was as evil as all the Christian talk show hosts were saying.  So,  I sat at Borders and read the entire thing in one sitting, enraptured.  I thought it was the most incredible thing since Narnia.  But, I wasn’t ready to decide just yet.  I did more research, and I prayed about it, of course.  When the movie came out, and I saw a great opportunity for Christ to be glorified, if Christians got on board.  But, I still wasn’t sure.  I mean, all these people said it was wrong.  So, I prayed about it.  And, I asked God if He’d only provide a way for me to go to the movie without having to buy a ticket, so I’d know he was okay with it. </p>
<p>The next day, my best friend called me.  The strangest thing had happened.  Her boss gave her money to buy three tickets to the new Harry Potter movie to take two friends with her.  She wanted to take me and my husband.  (To make this even more strange, the boss never did anything like this before and never did anything like it after either.  God uses anyone, I suppose.  Oh, and the boss was an unbeliever.)</p>
<p>I don’t typically operate this way. I don’t do the charismatic “laying out the fleece” business (seems too much like putting God to the test), but this sort of request seemed practical to me.  Just like I didn’t want to support a book that didn’t glorify God with my money, I didn’t want to support a movie that way either.  But, God found a way around that for me. </p>
<p>This isn’t meant to be a justification for you to read the books and see the movies.  That you’ll need to decide for yourselves, to pray about it, to read about them (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1414306342?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1414306342">here’s a good book from the Christian perspective that discusses the series</a>).  Certainly don’t take my word for it, or rely on my experiences.  But, I wanted to show you my journey to accepting and even endorsing these books as a way to learn more about Jesus.  (One caveat to my endorsement is that I don’t think these books should be read by young kids, since they can be pretty dark. But it’s up to the parents to determine what their kids can handle, and how discerning their children can be.  In addition, the kids in these books tend to rebel against authority a lot, which doesn’t make for the greatest model for young kids, in my humble opinion.)</p>
<p>That was quite a prelude to a book review, but oh well, Harry Potter has a lot of baggage in the Christian world.  Let’s talk about my favorite book in the series, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0439785960?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0439785960">The Half Blood Prince</a></em>.</p>
<p>Those familiar with the series might wonder why I like this book so much.  I don’t want to go into spoilers here, so this makes it difficult to discuss in detail. But I’ll try my best. </p>
<p>As a general overview, the story is about Harry’s 6<sup>th</sup> year at the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry.  Lord Voldemort (the villain) is back, and everyone finally believes Harry about it.  Harry begins a series of private lessons with Hogwarts illustrious headmaster, Professor Dumbledore, to learn about Lord Voldemort’s past, in order to become better equipped to conquer him.  The title comes from a mysterious potions textbook that Harry borrows, with marginalia from one unknown “Half Blood Prince.” </p>
<p>Why do I love this book?  This could be a spoiler, depending on how keen you are on predicting things, but at the end, there is one of the most powerful sacrifices, that mirror’s Christ’s sacrifice, since Aslan’s death for “unworthy” Edmund.   Christians should be rejoicing that this is in theaters right now.  But sadly, they’re missing a great opportunity for discussions with their non-believing friends.</p>
<p>I also love the mentoring relationship between Professor Dumbledore and Harry.  In the story, we have a very admirable man with wisdom and integrity who devotes himself to training up this young man, as a good father would.  It’s a beautiful relationship, and I can’t wait to see how it’s staged on screen.</p>
<p>And then there’s the Half Blood Prince and the unknown magic he teaches.  First, I love that the book focuses so much on the importance of marginalia, of writing in one’s books!  But, I also like that Harry struggles with being discerning in how much to trust what he reads.  There are a lot of lessons there for us about not accepting everything we read, to test it.</p>
<p>I could go on and on, but of course, I’ve already done that.  So, for now, I’m going to leave you to tell me what you think of these books, and perhaps the <em>Half Blood Prince</em> in particular. I’m planning on going to see the movie in the next couple days, but please let me know if you’ve seen the movie!  I’d like to hear your reviews!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743277708?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0743277708"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1320" style="margin:5px;" title="waterhsip-down" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/waterhsip-down.jpg?w=230&#038;h=380" alt="waterhsip-down" width="230" height="380" /></a>Who knows how I’ve managed to miss this book for so long.  It’s just my sort of thing.  And I’m a little annoyed that nobody bothered to mention it to me before now!  But oh well, at least I’m caught up.  I finally read <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743277708?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0743277708">Watership Down</a></em>, which was not at all about a naval battle, as the title made me assume.  It was all about bunnies.</p>
<p>Dan can’t figure out why anyone would want to read a 500 page novel about bunnies.  But they’re very complex creatures, or so I’ve come to learn after reading this book.  But I also realized how much we have to learn from reflecting on nature.</p>
<p>The Psalmist tells us “The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork” (19:1).  All creation tells about its creator.  In the New Testament, we find out that we can’t claim ignorance about God, because all of nature is positively shouting all kinds of truth about him: “For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse” (Romans 1:20).</p>
<p>So, why should it be surprising that a book about rabbits, faithful to the way rabbits live in nature, shouldn’t reveal a lot about ourselves and about our God?</p>
<p>I honestly don’t know much about this author, aside from the preface to the book.  I didn’t do my homework for this one, since our plans for an upcoming trip to Italy are taking up all my spare time.  But I do know that the author did a lot of research about rabbits, so I expect that his representation of rabbits and their daily lives was fairly accurate, minus all that talking stuff.</p>
<p>The plot is fairly simple, one that a child could understand.  Which is why the book could be mistaken for a Harry Potter length children’s book.  But it’s not merely a children’s book because adults have much to gain from reading it.</p>
<p>A group of rabbits break off from a warren to form their own warren but discover they have one huge problem: no female rabbits (does).  The entire book surrounds the conflict in finding does. </p>
<p>Along the way, we learn about rabbit tradition and the different types of warrens that they encounter.  There are different leadership styles, ones that mirror human kind, of course.  And there are also admirable, sacrificial acts by brave leaders on behalf of the weaker members of the warren. </p>
<p>One of the most fascinating aspects of the book was the introduction of rabbit language, terms that only rabbits use to describe things that only rabbits need to describe.  For example, the rabbits have a unique word for the time when they leave the rabbit holes to go outside.  It’s a word only a rabbit would need of course.  The words are gradually woven into the story and soon, you find yourself comfortable with the rabbit language. </p>
<p>I haven’t seen the movie yet, but that’s next on the list, as soon as I coerce Dan to read the book.</p>
<p>Now if only there were an equivalent book about cats!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[After reading Anna Quindlen’s How Reading Changed my Life, I knew I’d found a writer whose style was a rare treasure.  So, after a couple commenters clued me into her most favorite novel, One True Thing, I checked it out to explore her fiction.  And I’m happy to report that her fiction is just as [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1312&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0812976185?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0812976185"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1313" style="margin:5px;" title="onetruething" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/onetruething.jpg?w=194&#038;h=300" alt="onetruething" width="194" height="300" /></a>After reading Anna Quindlen’s <em><a href="http://amyletinsky.wordpress.com/2009/05/06/book-review-how-reading-changed-my-life/">How Reading Changed my Life</a></em>, I knew I’d found a writer whose style was a rare treasure.  So, after a couple commenters clued me into her most favorite novel, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0812976185?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0812976185">One True Thing</a></em>, I checked it out to explore her fiction.  And I’m happy to report that her fiction is just as fabulous as her prose (not always the case, you know).</p>
<p>I didn’t bother to read the back cover material, so I didn’t realize the book was about dying.  I probably wouldn’t have chosen it for a summer read if I’d have known that.  But I’m happy that I read it in ignorance because it was well worth it, even in the summertime.</p>
<p>Ellen Gulden is a successful career woman, living the single life in the city, when she learns that her mother is dying of cancer.  Ellen’s mother has always been a Martha Stewart type, a bedrock of the home, capable and resourceful, always making the home a happy and warm place.  And now, she needs Ellen to nurse her through her final days.  And Ellen’s father, the tenured English professor, distances himself from the women and buries himself in his career.  Ellen rebuilds her relationship with her mother, learns to focus on someone other than herself, and also struggles to gain acceptance from her cool and remote father.</p>
<p>So, while the book is technically about dying, it’s about a lot more.  For me, it was mostly about the relationship between a mother and a daughter, about the generational gap, and about finally growing up.  And for a book that marches onward toward death, it’s surprisingly joyful and light.  But we have Ellen’s mother to thank for that.</p>
<p>I appreciate Quindlen’s thoughtful prose.  She’s very reflective, something she draws from her nonfiction and journalistic training, no doubt, and her fiction is better for it.  I also love the literature references woven into her book.  Her love for books continually comes across in her writing, whether she’s explicitly referencing them or not.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Ah, the joys of diving into a long Victorian novel.  I splurged, as I must on occasion, and read Elizabeth Gaskell’s romantic novel Wives and Daughters.  At 644 pages, it was a bit of a sacrifice for my book a week reading goal, but it was well worth the effort.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1604594772?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1604594772"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1308" title="wives-and-daughters" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/wives-and-daughters.jpg?w=145&#038;h=224" alt="wives-and-daughters" width="145" height="224" /></a> Ah, the joys of diving into a long Victorian novel.  I splurged, as I must on occasion, and read Elizabeth Gaskell’s romantic novel <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1604594772?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1604594772">Wives and Daughters</a></em>.  At 644 pages, it was a bit of a sacrifice for my book a week reading goal, but it was well worth the effort.</p>
<p>I’ve never read anything by Gaskell before, so I was excited to meet a new female Victorian writer, hoping that I’d find a new author to read en masse.  And, thank goodness, I wasn’t disappointed.</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1604594772?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1604594772">Wives and Daughters</a></em> has a slower pace than Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters’ books.  I compare it more with George Elliot’s work in its concern with character development and particularly the importance of the relationships between the characters.  In this book, as the title suggests, the relationships in focus are those of daughters (step-daughters, to be precise), step-mothers, and wives. </p>
<p>Molly Gibson is the fresh faced, doe eyed main character, who is almost TOO good.  I admit, I had a hard time believing how good she was, just like Beth in <em>Little Women</em>…a little too good.  But in Alcott’s book, Beth isn’t the main character. Rebellious and badly behaved Joe is the main character, so Beth’s goodness is a little easier to take.  Same goes <em>for Pride and Prejudice</em>.  Jane is a little too good as well, but we have Lizzy to make it all even.But, Molly’s strength lies in her faithfulness and devotion to those she loves.  She’s not out to impress anyone, and she’s genuine.  Those are certainly amiable qualities.</p>
<p>Molly lives with her widowed father, the local doctor.  I loved all the details about country medicine, so that was a wonderful surprise in the book.  Molly has that Heidi-like country freshness about her.  She and her father are thick as thieves, and Molly roams wild about the countryside.</p>
<p>The plot gets going when Molly’s father decides to marry, mainly for Molly’s sake.  The woman he chooses is good on paper, but in reality, isn’t necessarily the best choice.  Clare is selfish and bossy and much more immature than the girl she is supposed to be raising, an irony that Gaskill continually points out.</p>
<p>Of course, there are love interests, in the form of Roger Hamley, a member of the wealthy landowning class, far removed from Molly’s prospect in marriage.  But, of course, there are 600 pages worth of experiences that throw these lovebirds in each other’s way, with the complication that Roger falls in love with Clare’s daughter (Molly’s stepsister) Cynthia. </p>
<p>Imagine my surprise when I got to the end of the book to find it uncompleted.  Gaskill died before she finished it, and nobody bothered to tell me this.  I suppose I could have learned it if I’d have bothered to read the introduction, but sometimes, those spoil the endings. </p>
<p>Other editions have added alternate endings.  And we pretty much know where the story is going.  Gaskill has wrapped up most of the plot lines.</p>
<p>However, that was a new experience for me, one that I’m not sure I want to repeat unawares.  I accidentally woke Dan up with my protestations when I was up late finishing the book and came upon that “ending.” </p>
<p>Don’t let that dissuade you from reading the book though, especially if there’s one with the completed ending.  I also hear that there are some good <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000GIXLUC?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B000GIXLUC">BBC versions </a>out there, for those of you who enjoy watching period dramas.  I’m assuming that the BBC added an ending to avoid annoying their viewers.</p>
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		<title>Pomp and Circumstance</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve worn my share of caps and gowns.  First there was high school.  Then, three days later, there was junior college (long story).  Then, there was undergrad at Westmont College, 3 years after that.  And finally, there was my master’s at the University of Vermont, in 2005.  And oh, it was nice to know that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1303&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>I’ve worn my share of caps and gowns.  First there was high school.  Then, three days later, there was junior college (long story).  Then, there was undergrad at Westmont College, 3 years after that.  And finally, there was my master’s at the University of Vermont, in 2005.  And oh, it was nice to know that I was done wearing caps and gowns for awhile.  It wasn’t so much the graduations that bothered me, it was all that work leading up to them that was the problem.</p>
<p>But then there’s my husband, Dr. Dan, who seems to wear a new one every couple years.  I wish we could recycle the things, but at least he’s getting a nice collection of them for Halloween costumes or wall art (a.k.a. Edward Cullen’s, “We matriculate a lot.”). </p>
<p>Awhile ago, we were trying to figure out the Seattle bus schedule, and neither of us could understand it.  Finally, Dan said, “Between the two of us, we have a bazillion years of education.  We should be able to figure out this thing.”  But we never did.  We drive everywhere.</p>
<p>This week, he’s adding another diploma to his wall, and we’re praying that it’ll be his last one for a very long time.  He’ll finish his residency, which has been three years of hard work, taxing beyond anything I’ve ever seen anyone go through.  I thought med school was tough.  And before that, I thought college was tough.  And before that, I thought junior high was tough (notice the glaring omission there?).  But nothing prepared us for what we were going to go through in residency. </p>
<p>Sure, Dan was the one pulling the long hours at the hospital.  But we very much consider this a team effort.  Somebody had to pay the bills, pack his lunches, <a href="http://amyletinsky.wordpress.com/2007/06/07/the-messiah-detergent-eliminates-stains-bleaches-whites/">clean the blood (not his) off his clothes</a>, and prop him up long enough to poke food in him when he came home after his second 30 hour shift in a week.</p>
<p>I’m wondering how in the world single people manage to make it through residency?  Okay, and maybe I’m congratulating myself a little bit for surviving as well.  Because this is my graduation, too.</p>
<p>Marriage is a team effort.  And your spouse’s successes are your successes.  His failures are your failures.  It’s not a popular notion, especially when the wife is the one at home, doing the domestic duties that are the less glorified “behind the scenes” work.  But they’re important.  God knows the job is important.  And my husband knows it too.</p>
<p>One of the greatest compliments I’ve received during Dan’s residency was when one of his female colleagues told Dan that she wanted “a wife” (she’s not a lesbian, so THAT’S not what she was talking about).  But by serving my husband, I’ve ministered to others, well beyond the four walls of my home. </p>
<p> So when Dan gets his diploma this week, I’ll be earning a piece of it as well.  If it were my own name written on it, I couldn’t be more content.  We both accomplished this, the whole way through, starting on that second day of college when we met.  And I plan on seeing him through the rest of his goals, which hopefully don’t include any more school and graduations.  I need a break!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been looking forward to reading Housekeeping for a long time, but I’ve held off reading it because it was a rare jewel, one that couldn’t be replaced anytime soon. 
Marilynne Robinson doesn’t write novels very often.  But when she does, the world takes notice.  Her first novel, Housekeeping, earned her a Pen/Hemingway Award, and her [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1298&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>Marilynne Robinson doesn’t write novels very often.  But when she does, the world takes notice.  Her first novel, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312424094?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312424094">Housekeeping</a></em>, earned her a Pen/Hemingway Award, and her second, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/031242440X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=031242440X">Gilead</a></em>, won the Pulitzer.  I reviewed her most recent book, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312428545?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312428545">Home</a></em>, and you can read <a href="http://amyletinsky.wordpress.com/2008/10/31/amys-marginalia-home/">my thoughts on it here</a>. <em> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312428545?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312428545">Home</a> </em>was a finalist for the National Book Award, which is a pretty decent award as well.</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312424094?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312424094">Housekeeping</a></em> was published in 1980, and the world had to wait 24 years for her next book.  But maybe it takes that long to write a book that wins the Pulitzer.  Thankfully, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312428545?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312428545">Home</a></em> came along only four years later, because I’m not sure I could hold out another quarter century. </p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312424094?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312424094">Housekeeping</a> </em>is a deceptively short book.  Of course, I forgot my own statement: “<a href="http://amyletinsky.wordpress.com/2008/10/31/amys-marginalia-home/">Even though they are very short books, they’ll likely take you longer than most Victorian novels to read.” </a> And I picked it up a couple days before my book group met to discuss it.  At 219 pages, with such a “domestic” topic, it looks lightweight.  But that’s part of Robinson’s charm.  She takes what is simple and makes it complex.  She shows you the depth of everyday things, the complexity and the sacredness of the ordinary. </p>
<p>The plot is very simple.  Two orphaned girls live with their grandmother, until their grandmother dies.  Two elderly, spinster great aunts take up housekeeping to watch over the girls, but then leave the girls under the care of their aunt (their mother’s sister), who is mentally unbalanced and a transient.</p>
<p>At its most basic level, the story is about different women, taking care of a home, and what it means to live in a place and “keep up appearances.”  But of course, with Robinson, the story is about so much more.  <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312424094?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312424094">Housekeeping</a></em> is about memory, about coping, about sanity, and sanctity. </p>
<p>The Biblical allusions are brief, but they also offer some of the most powerful metaphors in the story.  Robinson teases us with deep theological questions, rooted in everyday circumstances.  Read the book quickly, skim, and you miss these profound inquires.</p>
<p>The language also sets the book apart from many others.  Each sentence is carefully crafted, as is the case with all her books, so as to seem almost poetic and very purposeful.  And when the characters are struggling with sanity, the style mirrors their mental shifts as well.</p>
<p>So even though I’m sad to have completed all of Robinson’s novels, I’m excited to pick them up again and find all the hidden treasures that I missed the first time through.  I’ve found that each reading brings out many new insights, the hallmark of a book with a lot of rewards to offer.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>For my birthday, I got a Wii Fit, which has been on my gift request list for awhile (so Dan isn’t in the doghouse for getting me exercise equipment as a present).    I’m enjoying the workouts and games, but one unexpected downside is that every day, the thing weighs me and tells me my BMI and whether I’ve gained or lost weight.  While some might think the checkups are a nice addition to their entertainment system, I rank them down there with water boarding.</p>
<p>Having a less than satisfactory BMI, and getting reminded (nagged) about it each day, the Wii Fit has become the “Wii Downer.”  The little animated trainer on the screen shouts encouragements, but more often than not, she’s also telling me that I’m unbalanced, needing work, and other lovely, less than flattering sentiments.</p>
<p>I’ve been studying a lot of art lately, and I’m getting a lot of mixed messages.  On one hand, I have my nagging, annoyingly svelte, Wii Fit trainer, telling me to trim down, and on the other hand, thousands of years of classical art is telling me “big is beautiful” (okay, so that’s a modern paraphrase).</p>
<p>I’d like to give you a little historical tour de beauty, as depicted by Venus, the “goddess” of beauty, through the medium of art. I’m going to make the photos optional (if your kiddos are around, I don’t want to introduce the birds and the bees conversations sooner than you’d prefer it to happen).  </p>
<p>22k B.C.  <a href="http://www.eulaliaqueralto.com/gimbiblog/images/willendorf_venus.jpg">Venus of Willendorf</a></p>
<p>The roundest example of them all, the “venus” of Willendorf is a fertility symbol and as the nickname implies, quite possibly a symbol of physical beauty to the ancient culture that crafted her.</p>
<p>100 B.C. <a href="http://www.artchive.com/artchive/g/greek/venus_de_milo_louvre.jpg">Venus de Milo</a></p>
<p>We’ll forgive her for not having arms.  I’d like to see what the Wii Fit says about her BMI, being that she’s made of stone! But seriously, she is a little scrawnier than the others. Those Greeks must not feed their gods very well.</p>
<p>1614 A.D. <a href="http://www.fineartprintsondemand.com/artists/rubens/toilet_of_venus-400.jpg">Toilet of Venus by Rubens</a></p>
<p>Venus doesn’t seem very self conscious at all.  In fact, she seems rather pleased with her appearance.  Can she do that?</p>
<p>1916 A.D. <a href="http://www.tate.org.uk/servlet/ViewWork?cgroupid=999999961&amp;workid=12373&amp;searchid=5843&amp;tabview=image">Venus Victorious by Rodin</a></p>
<p>A 20<sup>th</sup> century Venus, still ample and lovely.</p>
<p>And today, 2009, we have my <a href="http://msnbcmedia2.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photo_StoryLevel/080516/080516-WiiFitScreenshot-bcol.standard.jpg">spandex laden, scrawny as can be, Wii fit trainer</a>, telling me that I’m not up to snuff.</p>
<p>Okay, here’s what I’m not saying.  I’m not saying that I’m going to forget about physical fitness and the importance of maintaining a healthy weight (which may or may not be represented by that “all encompassing” BMI).  But I am saying that I can’t let my self worth and my sense of beauty get dragged down by our culture’s current obsession with a particular body type.</p>
<p>As evidenced by classical art, standards of beauty change.  I can’t constantly feel sorry for myself that I wasn’t born in the 1600s (even though I’d love to meet Milton and Bunyan, but that’s another story).</p>
<p>Instead, I need to look to God’s standard of beauty, which is more about my heart (<a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=proverbs+31%3A+10-31">Proverbs 31</a> and <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=1+tim+2%3A9">1 Timothy 2:9</a>) and less about my BMI.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I admit, I&#8217;m not a big fan of current Christian fiction.  Typically, these books don&#8217;t offer the quality that the secular market does, and I&#8217;m often turned off by the sappy, oversimplified spirituality that&#8217;s presented in them.  But I keep trying, hoping that I&#8217;ll find Christian authors, writing for the Christian market, who hearken back [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1285&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1601420099?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1601420099"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1287" style="margin:5px;" title="sisterchicks" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/sisterchicks.jpg?w=194&#038;h=298" alt="sisterchicks" width="194" height="298" /></a>I admit, I&#8217;m not a big fan of current Christian fiction.  Typically, these books don&#8217;t offer the quality that the secular market does, and I&#8217;m often turned off by the sappy, oversimplified spirituality that&#8217;s presented in them.  But I keep trying, hoping that I&#8217;ll find Christian authors, writing for the Christian market, who hearken back to their creative roots. With such artistic forefathers as John Milton, John Bunyan, C.S. Lewis, and J.R. Tolkien, I want Christian writers to embrace that noble heritage of great writing.  Sadly, I&#8217;m not seeing it, but I&#8217;ll keep looking.</p>
<p>So when I review books in the Christian market, I feel like I need to lower the bar a little bit, because that&#8217;s what&#8217;s happened across the Christian publishing world.  My expectations are down, so I&#8217;m not so finicky in my reviews.  I&#8217;m torn between wanting to support an industry that I believe still continues to do good, kingdom work, and the urge to call these writers to task, to produce something at a higher standard, one that might potentially cross-over to a secular market.</p>
<p>This is a long preface to a book review, but it&#8217;s been awhile since I lamented the current status of Christian fiction.</p>
<p>I read <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1601420099?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1601420099">Sisterchicks in Wooden Shoes</a></em> because I&#8217;ve noticed the Sisterchicks series in local Christian bookstores and thought they looked like sweet, escapist reading.  They offered a Christian take on the Ya-Ya Sisterhood books.  I also wanted to read it because it took place in Holland, which is where my family hearkens from.</p>
<p>Technically, I&#8217;m 1/2 Dutch.  Dad&#8217;s family settled in a small Dutch immigrant community in Washington State, and I grew up with wooden shoes, tulips, and Dutch cocoa.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1286" title="dutch hat and shoe" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/dutch-hat-and-shoe.jpg?w=300&#038;h=198" alt="dutch hat and shoe" width="300" height="198" /></p>
<p>I&#8217;m the girl in the Dutch costume looking like she&#8217;s about ready to throw the wooden shoe at the camera-person.</p>
<p>I still have family in The Netherlands, and I visited them with Dan 10 years ago.  So a book about friends touring the Netherlands sounded like a good way to relive some of my happy memories of that experience.</p>
<p>The main character, Summer, is a middle-aged American woman who travels to Holland to meet her longtime pen pal, Noelle, an American who married a Dutch man and has lived in Holland most of her life.  Summer&#8217;s trip comes as a spur of the moment decision after getting an abnormal mammogram.  Both women are believers, and their faith is both challenged and strengthened through their experiences together.</p>
<p>The highlights of the book were the Dutch culture, explained through an American perspective.  The travels are fairly cliche, catching all the typical tourist attractions in Holland.  But those who enjoy foreign travel will probably glean some interesting travel oriented information from the book.  If you&#8217;re planning a trip to Holland, it might be a decent book to read for an easy cultural preparation.</p>
<p>I also can&#8217;t say that I gleaned any deep spiritual insight from the book.  But I wasn&#8217;t expecting it.</p>
<p>As long as you&#8217;re looking for a simple, clean, very light, whimsical story, this book will work for you.  But don&#8217;t ask much more from it.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read any of the other Sisterchick books, but it seems like you don&#8217;t need to read them in any particular order, as they are all stand alone stories about friendships between women.  You can read the full list of titles on <a href="http://www.sisterchicks.com/book_list.aspx">the author&#8217;s website</a>.</p>
<p>Finally, as my little birthday gift to you (since today is my birthday), I&#8217;m giving away a free copy of this book to one of the people who comment on this post.  I&#8217;ll randomly select someone who comments by the end of today (11:59 p.m. P.S.T.) <em>(Update: I&#8217;m extending the contest through Sunday, June 14th at 11:59 p.m. P.S.T.)</em>. I&#8217;ll send it to anybody who comments who also lives in the United States.</p>
<p>Thanks to the folks at MultRandom House for sending me a copies of this book to critique and to give away. To visit their site and learn more about the book and where to purchase it, <a href="https://www.randomhouse.com/catalog/display.pperl?isbn=9781601420091&amp;ref=externallink_mlt_sisterchicksinwoodenshoes_sec_0423_01">follow this link</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Wednesday, I turn 30.  And I’m determined to make this a joyous occasion.
Over the weekend, I celebrated my grandfather’s 80th birthday with him (we’re 50 years and a week apart), and dozens of his friends and loved ones gathered to celebrate his eight decades on the earth.  When you reach 80, you are thankful [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1282&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>Over the weekend, I celebrated my grandfather’s 80<sup>th</sup> birthday with him (we’re 50 years and a week apart), and dozens of his friends and loved ones gathered to celebrate his eight decades on the earth.  When you reach 80, you are thankful for all those years.  But when most women I know reach 30, all they do is complain.</p>
<p>So, I’m going to look ahead towards the day when I get to celebrate my 80<sup>th</sup> birthday (God willing), and look at this 30<sup>th</sup> as one small stepping stone onto something greater.</p>
<p>Here are a few of my re-framing thoughts to help me gain perspective on Wednesday (and always):</p>
<p>They’re not wrinkles…they’re wisdom lines</p>
<p>Grey hairs aren’t unsightly…they’re a crown of glory (<a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=proverbs+16%3A31&amp;src=esv.org">Proverbs 16:31</a>)</p>
<p>Glasses don’t make me look nerdy…they’re a new way to accessorize</p>
<p>I’m not a year closer to dying…I’m a year closer to living, with Jesus, forever.</p>
<p>Physically, I may be weaker…but spiritually, I’m much more sanctified (<a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=Romans+6%3A22">Romans 6:22</a>).</p>
<p>Anybody else have any re-framing thoughts on growing old?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a sucker for a really long Victorian era novel.  I&#8217;d much rather read one of these than 10  modern books, but when you are on a 52 book a year reading plan, as I am, you can only read so many.  So, as I yearn to read more Victorian literature, I&#8217;m going to share [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amyletinsky.wordpress.com&blog=1084755&post=1266&subd=amyletinsky&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I&#8217;m a sucker for a really long Victorian era novel.  I&#8217;d much rather read one of these than 10  modern books, but when you are on a 52 book a year reading plan, as I am, you can only read so many.  So, as I yearn to read more Victorian literature, I&#8217;m going to share with you the books that I&#8217;d like to be reading right now, instead of the ones I need to be reading, if I ever have the hopes of making it to my resolution goal (don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;m not going cold turkey, but I&#8217;m just a little more limited than I&#8217;d like to be).</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll notice there are two fairly glaring omissions: Dickens and Austen.  I happen to dislike Dickens&#8217; writing style because he&#8217;s too long winded (probably had something to do with getting paid by the word and publishing serially), but I do like his characters and plots.  He&#8217;s a key Victorian author who doesn&#8217;t make my list because I&#8217;d rather chose another writer who is more economical with his or her words.  Jane Austen isn&#8217;t on the list because she isn&#8217;t a Victorian author.  This surprises many people. In fact, she&#8217;s a Regency era writer, pre-dating the Victorians.</p>
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<p>1. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1593080239?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1593080239">Middlemarch</a></em> by George Eliot</p>
<p>Eliot is easily my favorite Victorian writer. What a mind.  I don&#8217;t know why she thought she could fool people into thinking that she was a man, though.  Her style is clearly feminine.  She has an uncanny ability to create many interweaving storylines.  But sometimes, it can be a challenge to keep all her characters straight.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0099511126?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0099511126"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1270" title="jane eyre" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/jane-eyre.jpg?w=198&#038;h=300" alt="jane eyre" width="198" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>2. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0099511126?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0099511126"><em>Jane Eyre</em></a> by <span style="line-height:14px;">Charlotte Brontë</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;">The Bronte sisters are essential contributors to Victorian literature, and this is my favorite book among their treasures.  They bring Gothic romance to the mix. (I have to keep myself from listing only George Eliot and Bronte books as my favorites for the sake of some variety here.)</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393970124?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0393970124"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1271" title="dracula" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/dracula.jpg?w=187&#038;h=300" alt="dracula" width="187" height="300" /></a><br />
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<p><span style="line-height:14px;">3. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393970124?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0393970124"><em>Dracula</em></a> by Braham Stoker</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;">Now here&#8217;s a departure from the other books, even though it&#8217;s strongly in the Gothic tradition.  I like that it&#8217;s an epistolary novel (told in letter form), which was a common technique in that era.  Jane Austen first wrote <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0192804782?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0192804782"><em>Sense and Sensibility</em></a> </span><span style="line-height:14px;">that way, before she revised it to its current format.  There&#8217;s also something exciting about reading the most famous and first of all the vampire stories. </span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0192834088?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0192834088"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1277" title="the warden" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/the-warden1.jpg?w=177&#038;h=300" alt="the warden" width="177" height="300" /></a><br />
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<p><span style="line-height:14px;">4.<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0192834088?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0192834088"><em> The Warden</em></a> by Anthony Trollope</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;">I don&#8217;t know why people don&#8217;t read Trollope anymore.  He&#8217;s really got a lot of insight into human nature. Witty yet approachable, Trollope&#8217;s books are rewarding on many levels.  The Warden is the first book in his famous </span>Chronicles of Barsetshire series, for those who like series.  But he&#8217;s one of the most prolific writers in this period, so there&#8217;s plenty to read once you get started.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393927547?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0393927547"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1273" title="picturedoriangray" src="http://amyletinsky.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/picturedoriangray.jpg?w=190&#038;h=300" alt="picturedoriangray" width="190" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;">5. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393927547?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amyletwriinth-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0393927547"><em>The Picture of Dorian Gray</em> </a>by Oscar Wilde</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height:14px;">This is a haunting story, but a powerful one for a discussions about sin and its consequences.  Many people read it in high school and forget about it after that.  I encourage you to revisit it as an adult and see what treasures it has to reveal about the human heart.</span></p>
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