Anarchy Reigns

Stigmas

2011-02-12T13:32:00.000-05:00

one of the main reason I'm not telling anyone yet is because of the stereotype that comes to mind when most people think crossdresser/trans

when you tell someone you're trans, whether your in guy mode or fully decked out and girly, this is one of the images that sticks in they're mind. now whenever they think about you they'll think about that picture. it becomes something about you that overshadows all you other defining features. now it's never "oh that's _____ she's really nice", it's always "oh it's _____ she has a penis".

as you can see, thats not really something enjoyable so i want to avoid it as much as possible

trans worries

2011-02-11T16:34:00.001-05:00

So yeah its been a while huh

Well I've been thinking some and I've realized that, eventually, ill have to tell my parents

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success

2011-02-04T16:19:00.000-05:00

alright, i've got the credit card thing worked out and my clothes should be on the way!!

I'm excite

some people are so rude

2011-02-01T21:21:00.000-05:00

so last night/this morning, I decided to get all dolled up and get on tinychat with my cross dressing buddies. It was going alright until apparently the link got out and it filled with dudes looking for chicks. now a couple of our friends aren't exactly as girly as needs to be to pass for everyone(myself included most of the time) so this one loudmouth started bad mouthing her on cam because he was disgusted by the "tranny." this not only hurt her feelings but it made all of us uncomfortable with the situation.

the guy obviously didn't know what room he was in and kept hitting on all the prettier girls, he didn't know that everyone in the room had a penis. It really hurt my friend's self esteem that he singled her out and I think his reaction was completely inappropriate. after a while he gradually found out about each of us and I think it threw him for a loop.

this kind of attitude makes me incredibly angry. I don't care if you disprove of a transgirl or don't find them attractive, don't freak out and start calling them ugly and asking why they dress like that if they're a dude. usually you don't have to remind one of us about our birth sex, we live with it every day.

arrgh!

2011-01-31T08:10:00.000-05:00

so apparently that gift card I bought isn't accepted by some sites, I'm ok with that. What I'm not ok with is telling me my card was declined then charging my card for the purchase anyway...

Since it's a gift card I have no one to call or contact to void the charge and the company in question has denied anything

I mad >.<

I just got an app for my phone that let's me post my blogs!

2011-01-29T12:24:00.001-05:00

Discuss,

Also to the people who donated, thank you so much, we're almost halfway to the goal already!

I hope you like the gift I sent

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online shopping is easy to lose control of...

2011-01-27T23:28:00.000-05:00

so tonight I got about $100 as a gift from my friends so I could buy more outfits to expand my very small collection...

right now I have about $2 left

I didn't even get to the outfit part... I spent it on waist cinchers and body shapers I can wear under my outfits T^T

at least I'll have great curves from now on

back from a break

2011-01-26T00:26:00.000-05:00

I've decided that I missed you all too much to stay away.

and i come to you with a bit of a quandary, after a lot of soul searching I'm starting to think that i would be happier if my body shape was more feminine. to that end I have been thinking about starting a hormone regimen. this will certainly help me look more feminine but there are a few risks involved. so i want to ask your collective oppinion on what i should do.

also for the first time ever i will show my face!!!! IF you reach the goal of $10 in donations by February 12th, i'll also send the donators a special gift through the interwebz. :3 all proceeds go to the "get reign more clothes so she can show them off" fund.

Cleavage Tutorial!!!!

2010-09-16T18:18:00.002-04:00

That's right it's finally happening! The universe has finally aligned properly to allow me to post this guide on showing off your "natural" beauty. This isn't gender specific so if some females would like to enhance their breast's appearance, this guide can help too.

disclaimer: this method only works if you have a bit of fat on your chest and it takes practice don't get discouraged.

What you will need
Ace Bandages/Athletic tape
your pushup bra ( I know you have one)
a low cut top

Step 1

make a horizontal line of tape from under one armpit to the other, lift your pecs a little and lay the tape line about 1/4th the way up your boob.

when you let go of your chest your pecs should be hanging over the tape a bit

Step 2

attach another piece of tape to the piece under your armpit and attach it to the middle of your chest just below where your bra will show. be sure that you're pulling your boob up and in and the hold is firm

do the same thing on the other side

Step 3

now that you have both sides you'll wanna start an X patern by starting from your armpit and pulling it to the middle like so

see how it's noticeably lifted?

Step 4

now do one more horizontal line on the top to secure all your tape's loose ends and pull your boobs in just a little more

almost done :3

Step 4

Time to put on your outfits girls

the end result should look something like this
i think i did a decent job if i do say so myself

Before

After

:3

hope that was helpfull!!!

also i'm kind of in need of a new outfit but I'm also pretty broke... so if you could hit that donate button i can post up more pics!

I may even give something back in return ;)

Her First Shopping Day

2010-09-07T13:07:00.001-04:00

Alright boys and girls, it's time I told the story about my first time shopping for the pretty clothes i like to occasionally wear.

It started out like any other day, I woke up, got dressed, and went to meet my friend at the mall, But this was no ordinary trip to the food court or the arcade, no, this was a trip into enemy territory. We started our trip with a venture into the store Forever 21. At this point I let my friend lead and assumed the role of disgruntled boyfriend that was there to hold her purse/clothes(a good cover is really great if you're shy, if you're lucky like me and your best friend is a lesbian who likes that you are exploring a different side of yourself, you should have no trouble finding a convincing cover up) she picked out some clothes she thought would look good and sent me to the dressing room to try them on >.<

the thing about Forever 21 dressing room is that they have attendant that looks through all the shit you're bringing back there to make sure you don't steal anything. so there I was, a giant compared to this little girl that was looking through all the skirts and blouses I was about to try on. I was really embarrassed and was ready to bolt at the first hint of her calling me out on it, but mercifully, nothing happened. The girl walked me down to the room, smiled, and went back to her post. I was surprised and pleased.

so yada yada skip the boring stuff, some stuff fit, some didn't and repeat the above paragraph like five times and I finally had two awesome outfits. we went back to her place and did some makeup and hair tricks and I actually looked like a woman. this made me extremely happy lol.

so I had the look down(I still need to work on my posture though) so I took a big leap and went out on a "date" with my friend to a local mexican restaurant. I was being very self conscious of my voice so i hardly spoke. but when I did let something slip this family behind us started talking annoyingly loud about which one won a bet on my gender >.< I was pretty embarrassed but my friend assured me I looked fine so we went on with the date, finished our taco's and drove back home.

not as excitining as I thought now that I put it into type but I hope you enjoyed it all the same

thats all for tonight thanks for reading this far

next I think I'll post a picture tutorial on how to simulate cleavage like in my previous pics provided I can find all the materials I need

Donation button!

2010-09-05T16:13:00.000-04:00

I've added a button for donations to try and get some money for outfits.

Whenever I get a good amount of money, I'll go shopping and take some pictures when I get home. :3

the more outfits I have, the more I'll want to go out and the more i go out, the more stories and advice i'll have for you!

here's the first over the top outfit I want to buy but I'll probably just get street clothes the first buy

The Difference between Traps, Crossdressers, and Transvestites

2010-09-05T15:19:00.000-04:00

Hi everybody!

before I actually start telling my stories and giving advice I thought I'd try to explain the difference between these terms which seem to be used interchangeably.

Trap - In internet terms, a trap often refers to someone you initially think is a girl then turns out to be a guy. traps generally only crossdress in there own home and post pictures of themselves on the internet to "trap" people. In general they don't do as much upkeep as the next two (ie shaving legs and arms, makeup, etc)

Crossdresser(what I am) - A crossderesser is a person that enjoys identifying as female for a variable amount of time, it could be as short as a trip to a restaurant to get something to eat, to spending an entire week living the on the flip side of the coin. Upkeep varies based on the frequency with which one intends to crossdress.(I only crossdress on special occasions but I still like to keep my legs and chest from getting out of control :3)

Transvestites/Transsexuals - These are the ones who want to live as a woman(or man) 24/7. Their dedication goes as far as getting hormones and even surgery to become their selected gender. I have respect for someone who can go through what it takes to transition and think they should be treated as you'd treat anyone of that gender.

Again these are just my opinions but I hope it shed some light to some of you :3 sometime within the next few days i'll talk about my first experience with clothes shopping for the opposite gender along with some tips to avoid embarrassment lol

no one reads random people's blogs, prove me wrong

2010-09-04T01:38:00.000-04:00

Hello all of my fictitious readers, I am Reign. What you don't like my name? Well screw you.

Ok I'll get down to business, I'm a part time cross dresser who is wishing to fund her trips via the ads here and the kind donations of you, my adoring fans!(/fantasy)

I think what this blog will turn into is a walkthrough of my cross dressing adventures along with the occasional tips on cross dressing for those of you that are curious. I'll also post up pictures of all of my outfits! :3 they're gonna be adorable.

I'd also like to hear suggestions on what you the reader would like me to cover in relation to the topic.

expect to hear from me soon ;D