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Adjust and keep going

Tue, 22 Dec 2020 17:19:25 GMT

Don’t dwell in the past. Address the issues, adjust the plan, and keep going. Getting stuck and wallowing helps nobody.

There is no one way. The paths are close, and it’s hard not for them to intersect. Extenuating circumstances increase the frequency and effects. Recognize each path is still unique. This is a temporary condition.

A kinder adventure

Mon, 21 Dec 2020 21:11:10 GMT

Make it a kinder adventure. Everyone has a different path and a different perspective. Be more willing to understand others’ perspectives, communicate with respect and kindness, especially when viewpoints differ. There’s no winner, no single path, no single truth.

Kindly respond

Sun, 20 Dec 2020 22:19:05 GMT

Deliver the message kindly. Make necessary adjustments.

Kindness doesn’t preclude a change in action. It’s possible to be kind in the delivery of a message, however it adversely effects others.

With kindness, others are more receptive to the message and there’s a lessened loss of control of time and emotions personally.

Ideal environments

Sun, 20 Dec 2020 07:52:44 GMT

Ideal environments rarely stay constant. Places change. People shift. Staleness sets in. Be open to exploring change. Define the ideal environment, look for opportunities, and recognize that it’s all temporary.

Not yet

Fri, 18 Dec 2020 22:48:41 GMT

Not yet encapsulates a mindset in two words.

Develop a natural instinct to think this way, and find others that do as well. More energy and opportunity comes from looking forward, not settling for the current environment.

Respond selectively

Fri, 18 Dec 2020 01:28:18 GMT

This is only the beginning of a long road towards what comes next. Most aspects will remain unchanged and some will get worse in the short term. There will be objections, inconsistencies, and frustrations, albeit of a different kind, perhaps more commonplace.

For now, stick to what’s worked and react less to what others do. Not everyone is inspired for change, regardless of the current conditions. Focus on own path and actions while witnessing the next phase rolling in for others. It’s a new phase if we choose to let it be so.

Courage after curiosity

Wed, 16 Dec 2020 21:26:46 GMT

Curiosity leads astray from standard paths. It begins out of pure interest with no specific purpose in mind. At some point, it’s time to move on or step forward. Curiosity leads to opportunity, and it takes courage to step forward towards something that began with no purpose.

New path courage

Wed, 16 Dec 2020 00:59:29 GMT

By definition, less traveled paths are not clear to most people. The path will not be entirely smooth and it takes some level of courage to go forth.

New paths are seldom entirely new and there are others are similar paths. Find a supportive environment to help move forward.

Start early

Tue, 15 Dec 2020 01:46:49 GMT

Start early to get a time of uninterrupted focus. Early morning gives a brief quiet period. There’s enough time to focus on something meaningful, with a looming deadline to motivate efficiently, yet no feeling of trying to squeeze in too much.

Set supportive environments

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 05:19:34 GMT

Many will not be supportive. Most prefer the tried and true, despite any shortcomings. Find people interested in something different. It’s discouraging to work to change someone’s perspective if they have no instinct, imperative, or seeming desire to do so. Put the energy towards groups where new ideas are encouraged and more ideas are spawned.

Curiosity reveals opportunity

Sun, 13 Dec 2020 04:05:48 GMT

Curiosity can lead to unexpected findings, particularly when a new perspective is applied. Taken too far, curiosity can become an obsession.

Let curiosity allow for explorations of general frameworks, without necessarily delving too deep. Find the opportunity by letting curiosity lead a few steps further.

Raise the average

Fri, 11 Dec 2020 22:57:49 GMT

Design a schedule that emphasizes the good. Approach the rest as a path to the better. It’s not all a burden, and there are good parts in everything.

Slowdown the good parts

Fri, 11 Dec 2020 01:28:06 GMT

Don’t rush the good parts. There’s some good in everything and it’s all part of the process. The good aspects aren’t an obligation. Those are what matter. Everything else is to make the small moments of joy and happiness possible. The next challenge is always waiting. Slow down through the good.

Head starts

Wed, 09 Dec 2020 23:05:38 GMT

Nearly every head start is worthwhile. It takes a little more effort ahead of time to get a lot more from the rest of the time. Establish a plan ahead of time, get an early start, and make realistic plans knowing everything will not go to plan.

Social routines

Tue, 08 Dec 2020 18:16:19 GMT

Make time for social connections and stick to a routine. It takes work, especially without immediate rewards. Look at ways to connect with people in casual ways that spark interest. Ask questions. Find ways to connect. It’s not always enjoyable, like anything worthwhile. Establish a social routine and stick to it.

End with momentum

Mon, 07 Dec 2020 16:40:48 GMT

The year is coming to an end quickly. It hasn’t gone as expected and there will be challenges in the months ahead. There’s also enormous potential ahead when the pandemic rescinds in import. Build momentum towards the next year and be ready for what lay ahead.

Default to positive

Sun, 06 Dec 2020 18:06:39 GMT

Adjust default settings for more happiness. The expression put out to others needs to more upbeat and positive, because it’s far too easy to the mood to change to negative. Make the defaults better.

Reality is always augmented

Sat, 05 Dec 2020 23:29:30 GMT

There’s no single reality that persists for all people. Each experience is augmented in some manner, including past experiences and direct inputs. Whether its earbuds on a jog, a playlist in a car, or a smart device delivering subtle reminders, direct augmented reality is already upon us. The shift will continue and more information will continually be layered upon reality.

Transition time

Fri, 04 Dec 2020 22:02:39 GMT

Take time to transition between roles and projects. There’s less physical delineation with everything at home. The natural transition times are mostly evaporated. There are still many roles to play. Take the time to adjust and get into the right mindset for what’s next.

Pacing progress

Thu, 03 Dec 2020 15:45:09 GMT

Progress is rarely made in a straight line. There are ups and downs, spurts of huge progress, and periods where relatively little progress is made.

Meter progress at a pace that demonstrates a steady pace in order to build momentum. From most perspectives, the ups and downs won’t be seen. Soften the ups and downs by demonstrating small steps of progress without revealing everything at once.

Open minded approach to equanimity

Thu, 03 Dec 2020 00:01:44 GMT

An open-minded approach can help make equanimity easier. When plans are interrupted, or something doesn’t go quite right, it’s time for calm and reassessment, rather than frantic backlash. If the new landscape is approached with an open mindset, it’s easier to assess the situation for what it is, rather than looking for what isn’t. And from the perspective, it’s much easier to employ equanimity.

Employ equanimity

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:15:42 GMT

Equanimity is widely regarded as a positive attribute. An even temperament during difficult times allows for clear thinking and sound decision making, while also preventing feelings of anxiousness and unease. Employ equanimity each day.

Improve upon this skill like any other weakness. The results can benefit me and those around me, and should be improved upon, rather than letting the weakness become a trait.

Dictate mornings

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 01:50:27 GMT

Dictate own mornings with routines and beneficial parameters. Set a good tone for the day, don’t let others take this time away. As the day goes on, interruptions will come and distractions will set in. The day doesn’t need to start this way.

Squeezing a rock

Mon, 30 Nov 2020 05:07:07 GMT

There’s as much sense in fighting time as there is in squeezing a rock. No matter how hard it’s pushed, neither will give way.

Accept that time is finite, projects and tasks are never ending, and that finding a balance is the preferred way.

A different December

Sat, 28 Nov 2020 16:16:43 GMT

A very different December lays ahead. No big trip on the end, no parties with dozens of others.

For now, the schedule remains though could change at any time. This will be different than Decembers in the past and unlike any in the future.

Interest and investment

Sat, 28 Nov 2020 16:16:42 GMT

Garnering interest can lead to a deeper investment in the outcome. Give people a sense of influence over a project to help attract interest and longer term investment in positive outcomes.

Thankful for opportunity

Thu, 26 Nov 2020 15:49:52 GMT

It’s been an unexpected year. Many have it much worse than me, and I’m fortunate for all the opportunity available during the pandemic. Family, health, home and technology have made life good even in difficult times and I’m thankful for all of them.

Over prioritizing immediate actions

Wed, 25 Nov 2020 16:54:43 GMT

It’s hard to make meaningful change in the near term, even when it feels like a plateau is close. False summits abound and rarely will one last push make the rest of the journey downhill. Keep a good pace, be weary of the longer trek.

Declutter to refocus

Tue, 24 Nov 2020 14:43:19 GMT

Work in spurts and scramble when needed, then take time to reset, declutter and refocus. Make time for the most important aspects, slow down, and cut out what’s unnecessary. Take the break presented by the holiday and be thankful for all that’s going well.

Reset emotional responses

Mon, 23 Nov 2020 18:01:21 GMT

Set defaults within what is desired and expected in realm of possible reactions. Adjust the scale so the worst reaction isn’t as bad. Make the good emotions come easier.

The scale tends to slip lower over time. Find a way to reset this and go for better positives, and more subdued negatives.

Make it easier

Mon, 23 Nov 2020 05:34:32 GMT

There are plenty of challenges in the world. Don’t create new problems. Make it easier for others and focus on the positive.

Halfway to next

Sat, 21 Nov 2020 18:53:02 GMT

With vaccines on the way, it seems reasonable to project that most of the country will have access by next June. That timeline means it’s roughly the halfway point since the onset of the pandemic in March.

There’s not going to be a single ‘all clear’ point and it won’t be a return. Change has occurred already and the worst health issues may still be ahead of us.

What comes next will be different, not a return to a pre-pandemic time. Prepare for what’s next rather than a return.

Entice discovery

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 15:28:58 GMT

Entice with discovery. Digital platforms aggressively push content and it has worked, albeit not without repercussions. That’s not the only method. Find ways to entice exploration and discovery, rather than constantly pushing upon.

Diligence is difficult

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 00:08:17 GMT

Diligence is most difficult when the challenges set in. Each concern seems like a reason to break a habit or deviate from a plan. Those are the times when diligence is most important.

Do what was set out to do when the plan was clear. Trust the plan will work and use the routines as a way to get through without looking for new ways to solve - or avoid - the concerns at hand.

Refinements never end

Wed, 18 Nov 2020 18:43:04 GMT

There will always be more to do. The big steps of progress should not be held back by small refinements. Get as much done as possible, make it usable, and take the next step. Push projects out, then work on the big next steps instead of the small refinements.

Ready to start again

Tue, 17 Nov 2020 21:19:47 GMT

The day cannot be made longer. Get more out of the next day by making notes to get back to the same place quickly. It may not yield more out of today, but will increase rate of progress in longer run.

Push proactively

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 15:01:52 GMT

Be clear with priorities with self first. Make a plan within the realm of what is possible given the circumstances and make clear what is needed. It won’t be perfect, now or later so there’s no sense planning without time for interruptions.

Clear intentions

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 01:53:31 GMT

Be clear with own intentions. Don’t give in to the urge to become sidetracked. The intentions become less clear, and sometimes abandoned altogether.

Open to improving conditions

Sat, 14 Nov 2020 16:16:30 GMT

The future looks better than it has in the last many months. This feeling is already fleeting, and shouldn’t be overlooked. It will get worse before better, and today’s stats don’t reflect today’s actions. Change takes time.

Steady progress

Thu, 12 Nov 2020 16:55:23 GMT

Steady progress is much more effective than stop-and-go. Going too fast is the most common way to come to a stop. Go fast enough to keep balance and momentum, and find a pace to see ahead and avoid stops and roadblocks as much as possible.

Gradual returns

Wed, 11 Nov 2020 16:28:56 GMT

here’s great news in the quest to end the pandemic. Most people will likely have access to a vaccine in the next 6 months, and it won’t come all at once.

The onset was sudden. The return will be far more gradual and it will be harder to discern what’s yet to return versus the enduring shifts.

Persistent changes

Tue, 10 Nov 2020 15:33:02 GMT

Major shifts have occurred this year. Many occurred without much initial choice and the bigger shifts will only become apparent once the forced behaviors subsumes and a level of normalcy is regained. Current conditions will not last as persistent shifts take hold.

Opportune conditions are rare

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 22:31:56 GMT

External conditions can be observed, giving insight to predictions. Exogenous events are hard to plan upon and will occur, often interrupting timelines. Rarely do the perfect conditions and preparedness match up. Find ways to be ready when the conditions are right because it often doesn’t last long.

Choice perspective

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 02:16:50 GMT

Everything involves some level of choice, even when the most desirable options are not possible. There’s not a single default that will occur without making a choice. Recognize the choices made within the realm of what is possible, and recognize it could be another way.

Find overlap first

Sat, 07 Nov 2020 19:34:39 GMT

Identity common ground to establish a base and set a common ground. There’s some sort of overlap in everything. Find the overlap before looking for the problems and differences. It’s more difficult and more meaningful.

First impression potential

Fri, 06 Nov 2020 16:34:28 GMT

Good first impressions demonstrate opporturtunity and suggest potential. When problems arise at the start, it’s hard to overcome. Stick to what works well and give ideas of future potential.

Address roadblocks

Thu, 05 Nov 2020 18:34:49 GMT

Roadblocks are inevitable, especially when path isn’t well worn. They impede progress and generally don’t go away with time. Remove the block or make a new path.

Dictate distractions

Wed, 04 Nov 2020 15:30:44 GMT

Distractions and interruption will happen. Dictate the course of these by not letting them overtake the real motives. Focus on own desires for situation, brush aside distractions, and don’t allow them to become the focus.

Through all this

Tue, 03 Nov 2020 14:12:51 GMT

Move through this all. These conditions will not last forever and changes of same nature will come soon. There will be no immediate change, and the pandemic will chart the course of the months ahead. The current challenges will subside, and new problems will arise. Keep moving through it all.

Relaxed environments

Tue, 03 Nov 2020 02:05:35 GMT

Help create relaxed environments where mistakes are made and accepted, the first try isn’t right and it’s not a problem, and there’s room for making mistakes because it’s caring people around. Everybody faces difficulties and challenge each day, and the outside world is often less forgiving than the ideal scenario. Make it easier at home be creating a better environment.

Positive narrative

Sun, 01 Nov 2020 17:11:01 GMT

Create a positive narrative through challenging situations. The challenges are real and the outcome may be undetermined, and the narrative can still remain positive. Emphasize positivity, find solutions to problems, make it a positive arc.

End of day routines

Sat, 31 Oct 2020 19:01:41 GMT

End of day routines can be just as beneficial as morning routines. Use it as a time to appreciate the good, anticipate what’s next, and make plans to improve the problems. Don’t waste the time introducing problems that cannot be solved that day. It it’s a worthwhile problem, there will be a better chance to fix it tomorrow.

Set clocks

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 14:23:53 GMT

Time is always running and can be experienced at different tempos. Nothing is endless. Recognize limits, be deliberate and prepare for what comes next. There’s always more that could be done and a new time will come. Set clocks to mark time and transition to what’s next.

Mental schedule prep

Thu, 29 Oct 2020 16:48:41 GMT

Time keeps getting away. Mentally review schedules and tasks for more deliberate use of time. Set out with right outcomes in mind, recognize the unwavering progression of time.

Pathways to open options

Wed, 28 Oct 2020 15:33:41 GMT

The right opportunities rarely come along completely unexpectedly. Find pathways to increase options and grow opportunities. Choosing the right projects is less important than finding something on the path.

Appreciate best of others

Tue, 27 Oct 2020 13:48:44 GMT

Find ways to appreciate the good from others. Work to be better for others. Bring good energy and help others with their struggles.

Adventurous perspective

Mon, 26 Oct 2020 14:15:42 GMT

Adventures include elements that do not go as planned. Each day will bring something unexpected, and sometimes seemingly everything goes wrong.

Yvon Choinard says “Adventure begins when everything goes wrong.” Another perspective is to approach days and projects as adventures, knowing everything will not go right. The destination is often less important than the adventure, like any good rantum scoot.

Expected outputs

Sun, 25 Oct 2020 19:12:32 GMT

Recognize the expected outputs from a given effort. Don’t expect results that don’t match the inputs.

If the strategy is longer term than one day, there’s no reason to be disappointed by the results of a single day.

Emphasize values

Sat, 24 Oct 2020 17:44:43 GMT

Personal values matter, especially during challenging times. Find ways to emphasize values within the given structure and confines.

California County Coronavirus Data Charts

Sat, 24 Oct 2020 15:04:34 GMT

California releases new data by county each week to determine safety tiers. The data is somewhat difficult to understand so I put the data into California county-based Coronavirus graphs designed to help visualize the changes over time.

California County Coronavirus Data Charts

Sat, 24 Oct 2020 15:04:34 GMT

Make things, better

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 14:23:35 GMT

Every situation brings opportunities. When change happens quickly, it’s a chance to build anew and improve upon the old. Use this chance to make things, better this time.

Finding good in the challenge

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 00:24:03 GMT

This is a challenging time. It’s not entirely bad and it won’t last forever. Find the good aspects that won’t come back. Recognize the challenge is the only way forward.

Perception frustration

Thu, 22 Oct 2020 04:16:59 GMT

Others don’t see behind the curtain. Brief encounters leave a lasting impression, and negative impressions take time to correct. The correction starts with communicating the right messages. Find ways to communicate the best aspects, change perception with continued thoughtful application.

Anticipate likely scenarios

Tue, 20 Oct 2020 16:16:18 GMT

Most situation s are not surprises. While details of scenarios may not be known ahead of time, it’s possible to anticipate a range of likely scenarios.

If the situation gets out of control, it’s often because of earlier mistakes. Play through possible scenarios mentally ahead of time, anticipate the most likely scenarios, and then repeat the process better the next time.

Patient confidence

Mon, 19 Oct 2020 14:49:02 GMT

Other people generally don’t spend much time thinking about my life, and that’s for good reason. Others see what is presented on the surface and don’t tend to spend much time examining deeper. Present the right message, avoid introducing anxiety, and project confidence and progress towards long term goals.

Encourage socialization

Mon, 19 Oct 2020 04:51:44 GMT

Push others to be social with meaningful people. It’s not at a cost to others in the family and often will help everyone be happier.

Good connections are hard to come by and those opportunities shouldn’t be put off for the ‘right’ time. Make time. Encourage others.

Structure and themes

Sat, 17 Oct 2020 22:15:31 GMT

Good structure supports many themes. Build the right structures to keep moving, building momentum, while rotating the themes. Build meaning and connect through themes and structure.

Next start momentum

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 21:17:39 GMT

In baseball, there’s a saying that momentum is only as good as the next game’s staring pitcher. Regardless of how many runs are scored today, there will be another game and it will start at zero.

Prepare for the next start and recognize there will be always be more. Be ready to start strong, rather than eking nominal returns out of the end of the previous day.

Good friction

Thu, 15 Oct 2020 15:50:05 GMT

Friction can be good. Not everything should be entirely smooth. Good friction makes for more memorable and unusual experiences. Digital processes work to eliminate all friction, including the good points. Look for ways to inject good friction into digital environments.

Against Measure Y in San Mateo 2020

Thu, 15 Oct 2020 15:04:34 GMT

Measure Y is a proposal to restrict building in San Mateo by imposing strict limits for another 10 years. A vote against this measure will remove zoning restrictions that have restricted developers voters over the past 30 years.

Removing the restrictions placed by Measure Y would allows developers to build more homes and help alleviate the housing affordability issues facing the entire Bay Area. By allowing higher density housing, local businesses would have more potential customers, the city tax base will increase, and more local community members likes teachers, nurses and firefighters will have the opportunity to live in San Mateo.

There’s a site devoted to the No on Y cause, with “major funding” by the Chan Zuckerberg Initiative Advocacy, with more information. Mayor Joe Goethals has voiced his opposition to Measure Y, as have a number of local San Mateo government and business leaders.

Measure Y limits how many homes can be built on a piece of land. These limits are particularly detrimental to special needs, or supportive affordable housing. For special needs housing to be financially possible, it must almost always be over 100 units per acre, even if it is only two stories. This is because supportive affordable housing requires resource-intensive on-site services. Non-profit builders cannot sustain these costs if the housing doesn’t serve enough people.

The site linked above has more info, as well as posters available for pickup. There wasn’t a download link immediately apparent so I created a couple versions for downloading and printing. One focuses on removing building restrictions, while the other focuses on building affordable housing.

Download ‘No on Measure Y in San Mateo - Remove Building Restrictions’ Poster png pdf

Download ‘No on Measure Y in San Mateo - Build Affordable Housing’ Poster png pdf

Prioritize people

Wed, 14 Oct 2020 15:46:43 GMT

Make time to connect with people. It’s harder to find the time to connect because there’s almost no happenstance meetings. The pandemic has only exacerbated, not caused, these conditions. Use the tools available to connect with most meaningful people in a personal manner.

Ideas and connections

Tue, 13 Oct 2020 15:04:34 GMT

It’s difficult to build in time for brainstorming and connecting with others. It’s made harder when working alone, and the pandemic has exasperated the conditions. Find time to spend on ideas and connections because they can add meaning to the day, give optimism, and get outside silos.

Momentary perspective shifts

Mon, 12 Oct 2020 15:55:03 GMT

Shift perspectives quickly and briefly to overcome problems of perception. Everyone comes to a situation with a different mindset, and often different goals in mind. Seek other perspectives momentarily and realize there’s more than one method.

Simplify paths

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 18:06:06 GMT

Simplify paths by eliminating distractions. Get rid of the extraneous, and make the next step clear. Paths are effective because they are a clear way through an otherwise difficult crossing.

Set the right targets

Sat, 10 Oct 2020 17:45:23 GMT

Hitting targets every time may be a sign of not setting big enough goals. It’s better to miss the right target than consistently hit easy targets.

Identify the targets that are meaningful, challenging, and will produce results that can be built upon.

Declutter diligence

Fri, 09 Oct 2020 18:32:50 GMT

It takes continued effort to focus on the right things. With continual calls for attention in other directions, it’s easy to let those consume too much attention and time.

Recognize distractions will arise and need to be managed. Don’t let them grow into the entire focus.

Push ideas out

Thu, 08 Oct 2020 17:23:20 GMT

Keep pushing out new ideas. Brainstorm on a single topic and create a list of ideas to get influenced creatively. Let the ideas spill over to other areas to keep moving forward.

Short term bursts

Wed, 07 Oct 2020 16:22:29 GMT

Sometimes it takes short term bursts to get mometum going, especially when the goal feels far away. Push through, find energy, keep going.

Escaping black days

Tue, 06 Oct 2020 15:12:52 GMT

Black days are described by Chris Cornell as the times when everything in life is off base, and it occurred nearly surreptitiously. Dozens of negative changes add up, rather than one catastrophic event causing the damage.

These are harder to notice in real time, because no single event seems that bad. Instead, the change is finally noticed when taking a new perspective. Getting back on track requires big changes rather than trying to nudge back on track.

Effective elements

Mon, 05 Oct 2020 16:55:41 GMT

Magic only occurs in carefully planned scenarios. Without the right elements, there’s no reason to expect a sudden unbelievable turn.

Not everything can be controlled and that shouldn’t mean abandoning all efforts. Find the effective elements that can be best controlled. Plan for the next scenarios. Magic can occur, but only when the right elements are present.

Filtered perspectives

Sun, 04 Oct 2020 23:54:13 GMT

All perspectives are filtered in some way. There’s no true unbiased approach. Keep others’ perspectives in mind and work to adjust own filters to better match.

Internalizing virtues

Sat, 03 Oct 2020 22:25:45 GMT

Internal cues shape experiences. The right instinctual thought processes can turn problems into opportunities, find silver linings, and generally change perceptions of the same experiences. The right internal virtues help isolate from the leanings of the outside world, and lead direction without force.

Develop a better reality

Fri, 02 Oct 2020 15:32:40 GMT

Reality doesn’t just happen to us. Many aspects are not controllable in the near term. Adjustments can be made to create and develop a better reality, rather than succumbing to setbacks.

Excitement is developed

Thu, 01 Oct 2020 15:47:10 GMT

Excitement doesn’t exist on its own. It’s developed with approach and emotion. Work to bring more excitement to others, especially when options are limited.

Positive commonalities

Wed, 30 Sep 2020 15:55:37 GMT

Seemingly disparate groups often shared some common interests. Identify positive commonalities across traditional demographic groups.

Identify positive commonalities across traditional demographic groups.

Uncover what's unseen

Tue, 29 Sep 2020 15:57:35 GMT

Much of what happens in the world is unseen to humans. Data moves in the background. Algorithms impact decisions

When an individual’s view of the world can be specifically crafted to ‘personalize’ everything in life, much of the outside world ceases to seem important.

Seek out what’s unseen. Develop ways to interpret this to a meaningful format for humans.

Set better defaults

Mon, 28 Sep 2020 14:14:39 GMT

Define the appropriate responses to the most likely scenarios. It’s unlikely that going beyond a certain level will be well received. Rather than enhancing the point, it detracts.

There will be times for both positive and negative reactions. Look for more subtle ways to communicate. Set better defaults by defining responses that can be easily communicated and understood by others.

Operate within constraints

Sun, 27 Sep 2020 17:40:11 GMT

There’s a time when it’s time to stop fighting greater forces and accept the changing tides. There’s little chance of winning when fighting forces with momentum.

Accept the given circumstances. Recognize the fallacies and limitations. Then operate as best as possible within those constraints. It’s no longer possible, nor prudent to work to control elements outside the given constraints.

Adaptable routines

Sat, 26 Sep 2020 16:57:17 GMT

Make routines adaptable to the most likely potential scenarios. Much of time is being dictated by outside factors and those are largely beyond anyone’s control. Everyone is working to find new schedules and that will mean many changes.

Create routines that can be easily adapted to keep some level of normalcy and productivity.

Intention matters

Fri, 25 Sep 2020 17:52:47 GMT

The intention behind any endeavor greatly influences the amount of effort willing be expended to get there. Take each part of the process step by step, and take time to reflect on the original intentions, especially when difficulties arise.

Most worthwhile endeavors are difficult and require overcoming challenges. The drive to overcome those is largely driven by the intention.

Balanced building

Thu, 24 Sep 2020 15:12:00 GMT

It’s easy to make too many assumptions when developing the project. Keep the purpose in mind, and make sure it’s being developed in a balanced manner instead of letting one area get too far ahead.

If a project is made to do something for others, make sure to get feedback along the way. It’s hard to build in a silo, particularly if it’s meant for others.

Focus don't react

Wed, 23 Sep 2020 17:38:10 GMT

back to school arrives loosening grasp of control focus don’t react

Small improvements

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 16:11:12 GMT

Small improvements, however small, are better than regression. Gains are constantly compounded Making up for negative progress is much more difficult than steady progress through small improvements.

Push extents

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 01:19:25 GMT

The future is more uncertain than it has been at most times. It’s hard to proceed as usual, though many wish to do so.

The world is ready to move forward with consequences set aside. Find the right ways to push the extents of others’ beliefs by being more impactful than forceful.

Adjusting approach

Sun, 20 Sep 2020 17:03:28 GMT

The world around has largely adjusted attitudes and we soon begin with adjusting approach to the pandemic. It’s no longer an option to avoid entirely.

The new approach requires more personal diligence and general distrust of others, while allowing enough leeway to assume safety within a relatively close proximity. It’s certainly more complicated than the current approach and allows for a broader range of intepretations.

The approach to the pandemic is changing over time, rather than as a response to new methods or protocols. It’s a frustrating situation for everyone and the individual approaches will vary more widely moving forward.

Smooth the path

Sat, 19 Sep 2020 19:35:41 GMT

Nobody knows what comes next. This week looks to be the end of strictly distance learning.

We are heading into an unknown and it won’t help if the path is equally bumpy for all. Look to smooth the path for others where possible because it will benefit everyone.

A decade stronger

Fri, 18 Sep 2020 14:57:58 GMT

A decade feels fast in retrospect and yet only comes with patience. There’s no racing ahead or taking a break.

Relationships take a lot of work and much good fortune. It’s worth the effort, and those efforts and luck deserves celebration.

Spinning wheels in the sand

Thu, 17 Sep 2020 15:11:35 GMT

We’re all somewhat unstuck in time. In these scenarios, it can be difficult to make progress. Many milestones and activities are gone, work is difficult to come by. Find ways to be more effective with time and avoid simply spinning tires in the sand. Take a better approach rather than digging too far.

Incremental gains

Wed, 16 Sep 2020 16:37:23 GMT

Big gains feel unlikely in the current environment. String together small incremental gains for happiness and effectiveness. Incremental gains eventually lead to step change.

Small wins repeated

Wed, 16 Sep 2020 04:28:04 GMT

Many of the big wins are gone for now. No travel, no events, no dinners out with friends.

Spend more on the little things that bring small wins. There’s no sense holding back and waiting for something big to suddenly come along.

Independence and connection

Mon, 14 Sep 2020 14:35:47 GMT

Striking the right balance of independence and connection is difficult. It takes connection to foster independence in kids, and there’s no rushing through that. Find the right balance. Create time for independence through the right used of focused time and efforts.

Quality of life loss normalization

Sun, 13 Sep 2020 17:06:50 GMT

Compared to a year ago, most people have suffered a significant decrease in quality of life over the past year. Going into any crowd requires accepting a higher degree of risk, and many activities are off limits, especially with young kids.

Restaurants are outdoor-only. Movie theaters and museums are closed. Plane travel is restricted and brings new risks protocols. There’s’ no visiting friends’ and families homes, no babysitter for a night, or visits with grandparents. Work is more difficult to come by. Schedules have been upended. The fire and smoke make it all that much worse, taking away the respite and space of the outdoors.

There’s no clear point of improvement on the horizon; it will come with patience and perseverance. Much has been lost in terms of quality of life. This cannot become the new standard. Strive for even better than before.

Mindfully rational

Sat, 12 Sep 2020 16:05:04 GMT

Everyone is consumed by more than what’s on the surface. Every interaction in influenced by any number of unknown past experiences.

This year, every person has experienced drastic change. Take time to process changes and recognize many cannot or will not do the same. Show patience with others. Find time to reflect & meditate, then bring mindfulness throughout the day.

Unity in smoky conditions

Fri, 11 Sep 2020 23:59:44 GMT

19 years ago smoke poured out of the tired. As the country witnessed thousands died, a feeling of vulnerability developed. The response was delved in the strength of unity, and the country and NYC triumphed again.

Today, smoke pours from forests across the west. Millions are displaced from homes due to climate change. Thousands dies on a weekly basis because of a poor health response to coronavirus.

There’s too many similarities and there’s a sense of normalcy to the current problems. What’s entirely missing is a united effort to defeat these challenges. Like 9/11, this is a time to work for the betterment of entire communities, not individuals.

Fire and smoke

Thu, 10 Sep 2020 16:47:25 GMT

The state is on fire, with some reports estimating enough acreage to cover the state of Connecticut. On the drive from Tahoe to the Bay Area, there’s nothing but smoke. Multiple areas along 80 show the remnants of fire destruction, leaving nearly unimaginable thoughts of how big the fires must be to jump entire freeways.

It’s devastating to see and unlikely to change. The drought cycles continue, people keep spreading to rural areas, and the kindling is set for fires to spread.

Fire and smoke dominates the days.

Dictate direction, avoid anxiety

Wed, 09 Sep 2020 17:00:27 GMT

Be proactive about dictating direction of days. Don’t wait for news from others to determine next steps.

Progress is rarely a straight line

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 16:41:33 GMT

It’s inevitable that projects will hit setbacks. It’s even more true for projects that involve creating new solutions, as compared to those with well-tested plans.

My dad often quoted a line from Robert Burn’s poem, ‘To a Mouse’:

The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry

Progress is rarely a straight line. Overcome the setbacks.

Approach with development perspective

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 00:18:40 GMT

Make things better. The world will not call upon the unseen potential. Find new stories.

Identify common feelings

Sat, 05 Sep 2020 23:48:40 GMT

Look for common feelings of connectedness. Division is the easy way. Go beyond, find commonalities, build new connections.

Accept reality, act deliberately

Fri, 04 Sep 2020 16:16:17 GMT

Accept the reality of each situation. Don’t try to squeeze productivity in. Use time with family well, choose how to spend time, and act deliberately.

Rebuild stronger

Thu, 03 Sep 2020 20:19:20 GMT

When forced to rebuild work, take time to improve the next time around. Strengthen the weaknesses that lead to the problems first, and look for additional opportunities next. Use the insight gained to build with new ideas in mind. It’s a frustrating process and there’s no point in doing it again if it will lead to further problems.

Defending data

Wed, 02 Sep 2020 15:36:00 GMT

Data is valuable, particularly when vital to a project. Defend it because it has internal value, regardless of perceived value from others. Don’t give opportunity for others to control vital parts. Make it more trouble than it’s worth.

Humans seek a hidden meaning

Tue, 01 Sep 2020 16:46:46 GMT

Computers are far superior to humans at executing a set of commands repeatedly. Generally speaking, humans get sidetracked, lose interest, and prefer variety, making them bad at repetitive tasks, including collecting a storing information.

Humans endlessly seek to use information to find a deeper meaning, whether intentional or not. Computers generally don’t look beyond the surface, both a strength and weakness. Find ways to meld the two, to provide people with stories to go with information & data.

Bigger strides

Mon, 31 Aug 2020 14:41:14 GMT

When time is more limited, it’s more vital to maximize time. Utilize the time effectively by taking swings in areas that look like potential opportunities. Make the swings worthwhile, and go after the right opportunities.

Task at hand

Sun, 30 Aug 2020 15:41:30 GMT

2020 has introduced a seemingly unending list of new developments. It’s easy to lose focus and become distracted. Real changes have occurred, causing plans to change. Adjust, reassess, then focus on the task at hand.

Smoky conditions during a pandemic

Sat, 29 Aug 2020 16:15:09 GMT

smoky late summer interrupts outdoor escapes oh, the pandemic

Bringing Main Street online

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 15:22:10 GMT

The term marketplace has transformed from a positive to a negative. Online marketplaces are nothing like real world marketplaces, whereby merchants come together to offer a variety of goods to customers.

It’s frustrating to see the biggest companies get bigger. It’s more fun rooting for the small players, with more to gain from small wins.

Marketplaces should not be for the benefit of one. Find the best qualities of real world marketplaces, then bring those online. Digital commerce is still in early innings.

Cows don't realize their mistakes

Thu, 27 Aug 2020 15:04:00 GMT

Biking often brings frustrations. Do it enough, and there will be accidents. Drivers make it even more difficult and dangerous. This shouldn’t come as a surprise.

Think of cars as cows, wandering about with their own purpose. The cows don’t think about the people around them before moving. There’s no sense getting angry at cows either; they won’t even undestand the problem. Get around the cows and be ready for them to act in unexpected ways.

Here’s a book on using the ‘cow approach’ to dealing with anger: The Cow in the Parking Lot: A Zen Approach to Overcoming Anger

Purple cows turn heads

Wed, 26 Aug 2020 13:54:44 GMT

Give people a reason to notice and make it exceedingly clear. Don’t expect people to notice a different arrangement of the same spots.

As Seth Godin says, [purple cows turn head(https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/641604.Purple_Cow).

Purple cow is a marketing concept developed by marketer and entrepreneur Seth Godin that states that companies must build things worth noticing right into their products or services. “as consumers, we’re too busy to pay attention to advertising, but we’re desperate to find good stuff that solves our problems.”

Further than currently possible

Tue, 25 Aug 2020 15:08:06 GMT

Stretch beyond the boundaries currently in place. Overcome limitations with additional resources. Look further than the current conditions make readily apparent.

Create projects too good to ignore

Mon, 24 Aug 2020 15:30:17 GMT

Make better things. Do better work. Demonstrate the possibilities.

Staying active inside during the pandemic

Sun, 23 Aug 2020 23:28:05 GMT

A new challenge has presented itself as the smoke hovers in the air this week. The air looks unlikely to clear soon.

We were already confined to a handful of options. The bad air removes nearly all options besides inside our homes and cars.

Physical activity brings many benefits to moods, outlooks, and physical health. Develop routines to stay active indoors with the kids. Don’t fall into a pattern of waiting for the right conditions to get moving again.

Digital solutions get better over time

Sat, 22 Aug 2020 17:34:50 GMT

It’s going to be difficult To keep momentum on projects, when not working Monday and Tuesday. Work to find digital solutions for problems to keep project moving forward. Put effort into solutions that get better over time, and don’t depend on manual maintenance.

Back to school at home

Fri, 21 Aug 2020 14:01:03 GMT

School has started, albeit from home. It’s not the same and it’s far better than nothing.

Technology has enabled education to continue with a structure. It’d be far more difficult without tablets, video conferencing, and internet.

New routines will evolve. School will continue. Kids will learn.

Communicating the positive aspects of technology

Thu, 20 Aug 2020 14:56:34 GMT

It wasn’t long ago that tech was overly revered. It’s now overly criticized. Tech brings change, good and bad. Find good technology that enables others.

Dictate morning attention

Wed, 19 Aug 2020 14:45:50 GMT

Mornings shouldn’t be left up to others to dictate. Put effort into dictating what gets attention in the mornings by not relying on newsfeeds. If you look for news, it will always be there. It’s rare that the news should change anything personally in the short term.

Focus attention in the mornings and let the news wait for later in the day.

Demonstrate what's important

Tue, 18 Aug 2020 16:18:17 GMT

Structure the day that places importance on the aspects that are truly most important. Make that apparent in daily life to self and others.

It’s easy to get caught up in the details and be sidetracked by others. Make it easier with a better structure to each day that emphasizes importance in the right places.

Proud dad day

Mon, 17 Aug 2020 22:34:19 GMT

Seven years ago I became a dad. So much has changed and I couldn’t be prouder of my seven year old son today.

Self sufficient habits

Sun, 16 Aug 2020 16:41:55 GMT

Tomorrow is back to school. Whether it’s one or two kids, my attention must be with them. Find a way to develop more habits of self-sufficiency to build in breaks for everyone. Let them build their own rantum scoots each day.

Veering off track

Sat, 15 Aug 2020 17:42:01 GMT

It’s relatively easy to veer off track, even with a watchful mindset. Taking the wrong perspective makes it almost impossible to see the change in real time. With the proper view, it’s easy to prevent veering off track.

The longest school year awaits

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 14:52:10 GMT

A new school year begins next week with kids at home, teachers at school.

Tough schedule for families with kids and teachers. No other way to go.

This will be the longest year regardless of setting. It looks unlikely to have in-person this year.

Schedules change. We adjust. It will be a long year.

Endless opportunities in digital development

Thu, 13 Aug 2020 15:57:56 GMT

Digital development isn’t entirely unrelated from real estate development. Build something from nothing, improve existing sites, and make everything work.

The difference is in the scarcity. Real estate makes scarcity obvious. Scarcity doesn’t work the same in the digital world. Anything could become huge. Every niche can get traffic.

Getting back on the saddle

Wed, 12 Aug 2020 16:44:44 GMT

crash knocked me off course whoosh crack thump, summer ended habits took a break

autumn approaches wheels are turning, gaining speed back on the saddle

What comes in next stage of pandemic

Tue, 11 Aug 2020 22:37:45 GMT

summer quickly fades school begins with questions amiss as to what comes next

Digital products transcend time constraints

Mon, 10 Aug 2020 23:11:58 GMT

Time is less in personal control. Work to trade less time for money. Develop repeatable digital products to escape time constraints.

Create own opportunities

Mon, 10 Aug 2020 23:11:57 GMT

Create own opportunities. Give others a reason. Don’t wait for a call. Make it happen.

Weigh risks personally

Sat, 08 Aug 2020 17:36:51 GMT

Weigh personal risks. Don’t rely on general guidelines, especially with irreversible consequences.

Set clear guidelines

Sat, 08 Aug 2020 17:36:50 GMT

It’s not right to expect others to understand boundaries. The stakes are high and bad habits lead to unintended consequences. Set clear guidelines with specific communication.

Develop options without initial commitments

Thu, 06 Aug 2020 17:36:55 GMT

Develop multiple options for plausible scenarios. Don’t rush to commit, especially when unknowns are present. Be prepared by developing best next steps.

Find commonalities and ask questions

Wed, 05 Aug 2020 17:54:47 GMT

Improve likability by finding commonalities with people. Don’t assume bad intentions or ill will. Ask questions. Be interested in the commonalities. It’s all part of the experience.

Outdoor recreation is best natural escape

Tue, 04 Aug 2020 18:33:36 GMT

Nature is rejuvenating and a natural stress reliever. Make time for outdoor recreation as an escape.

While life has changed, it’s less noticeable when outdoor recreation is readily available.

Plan for contingencies

Mon, 03 Aug 2020 16:15:19 GMT

There will be interruptions ahead. Plan for likely scenarios and recognize it won’t go as planned.

Make controllable plans

Mon, 03 Aug 2020 01:29:11 GMT

There’s a lot out of our control. Make plans that don’t depend upon perfection from others.

Overt positive experiences

Sat, 01 Aug 2020 18:32:52 GMT

Express positive overtly. Find the good and make that clear to others around.

Recognize frustration. Strive for better. Accept what is. Find the best in what is now. Overly communicate the positive.

Stick to healthy habits at inflection points

Fri, 31 Jul 2020 17:18:23 GMT

Inflection points break patterns and mark a notable change. In life these can be brought on by changes in location, work, physical condition, personal relationships and more.

Inflection points can be positive or negative. Stick to the good habits at times of change. Don’t allow the changes to make it a negative inflection point. Develop a new positive trajectory.

Schedule flexibility is a luxury

Thu, 30 Jul 2020 17:18:22 GMT

Schedule flexibility is a luxury. Open schedules present their own challenges. When less of time is dictated by others, it’s more necessary to be sure time is well spent.

Don’t let this become a burden. Recognize the opportunities presented with schedule flexibility, and realize the value of time.

Work through physical pain

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 19:32:42 GMT

Pain can cause more problems than just the physical. It effects behaviors and changes experiences. More is thrown off than just the physical. Get mind involved elsewhere. Approach it like the problem it is. Don’t entirely lose focus.

Prevent mistakes from compounding

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 17:50:23 GMT

Mistakes will happen. Acknowledge mistakes when they happen. Reassess and make better decisions going forward. Don’t let mistakes compound. Recover quickly.

Respect self with sound decisions

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 20:25:03 GMT

Respect self my making sound decisions. Mistakes will be made. There’s a risk and reward to all actions. Weigh them soundly.

![respect-self-with-sound-decisions.jpeg by Andrew Maury](/images/respect-self-with-sound-decisions.jpe

Don't let emotions prevent resolution

Sun, 26 Jul 2020 17:17:44 GMT

Let go of the emotion of needing to be right. Work towards a solution. Find a way to make it work without letting emotion get in the way.

Adjust internal conditions

Sat, 25 Jul 2020 17:11:48 GMT

The external conditions are non-controllable. Find what can be controlled, even in non-ideal situations.

It’s always possible to adjust internal conditions. Release expectations, enjoy the present.

Release expectations enjoy reality

Fri, 24 Jul 2020 19:13:56 GMT

Let go of expectations once the reality has arrived. Live in the present and enjoy what is, rather than look for what is not.

There’s no sense in holding on to a reality that doesn’t exist. Move on. Find joy in the present reality.

Write the story, don't let it happen

Thu, 23 Jul 2020 20:38:23 GMT

The story doesn’t have to be perfect. Don’t sit back and let it happen. Write the story.

A frustrating thing happened. Then someone unexpectedly helped. The situation isn’t as expected. The next part is up to me.

Stay in control with backup plans

Wed, 22 Jul 2020 19:03:19 GMT

Things go wrong. Plans rarely go exactly to plan. That can create anxious feelings. Stay in control by having a backup plan. Keep options. Pay for the insurance when there are risks.

Develop a list of virtues to guide life

Tue, 21 Jul 2020 15:56:59 GMT

Virtues help guide decisions in life, both subconsciously and those requiring active concentration. Develop a literal list of virtues major decisions, and influence everyday actions.

Generally, virtues are ideals agreed upon by most of society as being positive. These differ from values, which vary greatly for each individually.

Ben Franklin strived to improve upon a set of 13 virtues. He focused upon one each week, working to improve that particular virtue. Meanwhile, he kept a running checklist of all virtues and marked his transgressions each day.

Franklin’s list of virtues used terms that seemed somewhat outdated. His principle of striving for continual improvement is not. This virtues list [serves as a great start(https://liveanddare.com/virtues/), and I used it as a guide to create an 8 item list of virtues. I put this list in my daily notebook, which I carry nearly everywhere.

simple list of virtues

courage ability to do the right thing in the face of fear. For a few, it is the absence of fear; for most, it’s the willingness to act despite fear
diligence commitment and dedication. It is about making a decision once, and hen keeping it up despite adversities and mood fluctuations
humility don’t compare self to others. let go of the desire to feel superior by means of wealth, fame, intelligence, beauty, titles, or influence.
equanimity the ability to accept the present moment without emotional reaction, without agitation - especially in times of turbulence
detachment forgiveness, flexibility. separate outcomes from controllable actions. let go and see what happens.
joy cheerful, content, happy, and grateful. There is always something good in anything that happens.
trust feeling that if you keep true to your path, things will eventually become. there is something good to come out of the next part of life
kindness expand personal sense of well-being to include others. ability to put ourselves in another person’s shoes, and feel what they feel

Wisdom has been left off this list and should be mentioned. It’s best to act with wisdom but it’s hard to strive for wisdom. Wisdom develops out of other virtues, rather than as a leading ideal to be sought.

Machines should not be feared

Mon, 20 Jul 2020 14:21:58 GMT

Machines are not meant to be feared. They are not intended only for certain people. Machines are made to be handled by humans to do things we are not capable upon our own. Learn to harness the power of all machines.

Guide towards independence

Sun, 19 Jul 2020 16:30:16 GMT

Help others to be more independent, rather than expecting it. Kids need help in becoming that way. Identify areas that will help most and work towards an enduring solution.

Prioritize impactful projects

Sat, 18 Jul 2020 16:22:17 GMT

All projects are not equal. Eliminate those that will become unnecessary, redundant, or significantly easier if progress is made in another area.

It’s easier to sprint in one direction than jog in four.

Socializing sparks spontaneity

Fri, 17 Jul 2020 15:27:07 GMT

There’s less natural social interaction as a cause of the pandemic. It’s important to seek out social interaction because it enables spontaneity.

Take advantage of outdoor settings. Use digital tools in optimal ways to connect. Make time to socialize to spark new ideas.

Approach disagreements with open mindedness

Thu, 16 Jul 2020 17:11:43 GMT

Disagree in respectful ways. Approach with open-mindedness. Running head first into opposition won’t sway anyone.

Anticipate short notice changes

Wed, 15 Jul 2020 17:14:42 GMT

Much is in flux in the world. Nobody has a tried-and-true plan. There’s barely any plan.

Expect shot-notice changes. Make contingency plans. Don’t get stuck without a plan.

Move towards agreement

Tue, 14 Jul 2020 14:15:48 GMT

Identify points of agreement and move towards them. Be open-minded about points of contention.

Work to find positive steps to be taken. Move towards agreement.

Keep conversations moving

Mon, 13 Jul 2020 16:34:19 GMT

Keep conversations moving by giving a reply. Silence is a vague reply and leaves too much to interpretation.

Move discussion forward. Make others aware of next steps. It’s much harder to start a cold conversation than to keep a warm one going.

Silence is a reply

Sun, 12 Jul 2020 15:12:36 GMT

Silence is not a non-reply. It is a reply and often says more than a concise, timely response.

Show respect in communications, both in person and digital, by saying something. Silence is a reply, and it leaves much to infer.

Home is comfort not a place

Sat, 11 Jul 2020 17:55:47 GMT

Travel is more difficult than at any time since moving to California 16 years ago. It will not suddenly become easy to go back to Nantucket.

Home is more than a place. It’s a feeling of comfort and connection. Seek it out in other ways.

Be diligent with healthy routines

Fri, 10 Jul 2020 16:49:13 GMT

Be diligent with healthy routines. Focus on the consistency and the quality will follow.

Reduce risk when unknowns persist

Thu, 09 Jul 2020 15:50:52 GMT

When unknowns persist, proceed with caution. Minimize risk. Reduce potential for damage by gathering & reviewing information, then making a new plan.

Conditions improve can only improve by reducing unknowns.

Develop habits with perpetual benefits

Wed, 08 Jul 2020 23:30:45 GMT

Develop habits with perpetual benefits. Great habits provide a continual chance for improvement.

Stretch & exercise to improve physically. Read and write and improve mentally. Meditate and journal to improve emotionally.

Create own rules to safely proceed

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 16:43:38 GMT

Not everyone will proceed in the same way. There will be uncomfortable situations & decisions.

Keep in mind what can be controlled. Create own rules as needed.

Harness technology for positive effects

Mon, 06 Jul 2020 17:22:26 GMT

Harness technology for positive effects. New Technology poses problems and creates opportunities. Find the ways to harness the best and filter out the bad.

Connect with the people who matter. Use technology to do so more easily.

Diligently appreciate opportunities

Sun, 05 Jul 2020 17:14:45 GMT

It takes diligence to consistently appreciate opportunities. Opportunities are endless when looking for them.

Three friends did not make it to see age 38. Simply living is an opportunity to experience life.

Strive for ideal not precedent

Sat, 04 Jul 2020 16:54:54 GMT

Precedent typically falls short of the purported ideals. Strive to the original ideals, not for the precedent that’s been set.

Respect the agency of individuals

Fri, 03 Jul 2020 17:33:37 GMT

Freedom entails having the agency to choose how to live. Outside forces impose restrictions, in both obvious and subtle manners. Allow others to live with agency.

Trust that perceived problems are unintentional

Thu, 02 Jul 2020 15:49:33 GMT

Many problems are merely perceived and are never clearly stated by other party. These only serve to cause tension.

Trust in people and be clear. Many problems are entirely unintentional and can be resolved with clear communication.

Make the most of available communication tools

Wed, 01 Jul 2020 14:36:37 GMT

There are tools that make it possible to communicate essentially anyone in the world with a few taps. This would be considered magic if you dropped this back in time 20 years. That’s nearly always true of the tools we have available. Make use of them to connect with the people who matter most.

Synthesize inputs and create original output

Tue, 30 Jun 2020 13:54:26 GMT

Synthesize inputs by connecting seemingly disparate ideas. Create original output to gain a better understanding for yourself.

Generate new ideas by making connections others may not notice. Each individual’s inputs are unique and shape outputs.

Use technology to connect personally

Mon, 29 Jun 2020 14:39:39 GMT

There are so many tools available to connect with people from a distance. Don’t let physical distance be the barrier. Use technology to connect personally. Reach out to show others they are meaningful. Add joy to another’s day.

Recognize the options and unknowns

Sun, 28 Jun 2020 17:17:16 GMT

Recognize the options and the unknowns. Control what is possible. Allow new information to shape decisions.

It’s not possible to control everything, especially when willfully giving up control. It’s a choice.

Develop opportunities to enable others

Sat, 27 Jun 2020 16:53:02 GMT

Use skills to pave a way for others. Help others by supporting them. Enable others to use your skills in meaningful ways.

Small tasks unattended become distractions

Fri, 26 Jun 2020 14:07:04 GMT

Small tasks left unattended become recurring distractions. It may not be urgent and it still needs to be done.

Make time to handle these small tasks before they become distractions from the important matters.

Unstuck in time

Thu, 25 Jun 2020 14:38:45 GMT

When the next big change is beyond control, a feeling of being unanchored can develop.

Kurt Vonnegut describes Billy Pilgrim of being unstuck from time in Slaugterhouse Five and there’s a similar feeling from the pandemic conditions that leave us looking for what’s next.

Calendars are somewhat meaningless for significant change as no dates can be pinpointed. Look beyond a calendar for progress.

Generate energy intrinsically

Wed, 24 Jun 2020 15:24:11 GMT

Look for intrinsic motivators to generate energy. Find the reason for doing something. Generate emotion to fuel energy when feeling down.

Use intrinsic motivation to generate energy. Extrinsic motivators are limiting.

Move projects forward with fresh perspectives

Tue, 23 Jun 2020 17:00:06 GMT

Many problematic details are unnecessary and should be avoided. Often they are constructed because a list of requirements was made without full information.

Revise requirements as new information becomes available. Don’t assume the original path is the only way forward.

Use the appropriate tool

Mon, 22 Jun 2020 15:50:48 GMT

When most work regularly involves the same tool, it’s easy to default to using that tool for everything. Not every job requires the same tools. Take time to consider the purpose first.

Identify the best tools to get the job done. Refrain from defaulting to tools that do much more.

Be the person you want your kids to be

Sun, 21 Jun 2020 16:30:15 GMT

Be a better father by being a better role model. Demonstrate string virtues and values. Take time and be supportive.

Default to supporting others

Sat, 20 Jun 2020 16:56:43 GMT

We all have ups and downs. We all make mistakes. We all need support, leniency, and forgiveness. Default to being more supportive.

Listen and observe more in conversation

Fri, 19 Jun 2020 17:06:50 GMT

Spend more time observing and listening in conversation. Don’t rush to speak or give opinions. It’s needed less than you think.

Today is Juneteenth, a day to celebrate freedom for all in this country. We can make this country better and it starts by spending more time listening to others.

Make regular time to declutter mind

Thu, 18 Jun 2020 13:25:59 GMT

When there’s clutter, it’s easy to get distracted. Distraction makes it harder to focus on the bigger items.

Make regular time to declutter mind. It’s worth the time and having a regular time makes it easier to trust those distractions will be addressed.

Declutter mind to address anxieties

Wed, 17 Jun 2020 14:56:57 GMT

When the world changes drastically, the mind can become decluttered easily. There’s a lot to process and there are many changes, some readily apparently and others in the subconcious.

Declutter the mind by addressing the biggest anxieties. Find the items causing problems and address them head on. Make plans for short and long term solutions.

Use tools with a purpose

Tue, 16 Jun 2020 13:49:55 GMT

Tools are only tools if they are being used with a purposed. When used haphazardly, tools are easily changed to distractions.

Think about your own intended use for a tool or piece of technology. Stay focused on the job, rather than get distracted into unintended uses.

Actions demonstrate values

Mon, 15 Jun 2020 14:11:55 GMT

Others can only judge by what is observable. What you put out creates the image that others see.

Spend time on the right projects. Make actions demonstrate values. A legacy is built, even unwittingly. Make it worthwhile.

There's no value in complaining about weather

Sun, 14 Jun 2020 16:27:32 GMT

We can’t control nor change the weather. We can predict. We can prepare. We can respond accordingly.

Consider response to others actions

Sat, 13 Jun 2020 16:48:37 GMT

It’s not possible to control others actions. It is possible to control the response to those actions.

Consider the best approach for a response to others actions before acting.

Allow time to shape next steps

Fri, 12 Jun 2020 14:18:57 GMT

The right path can take time. Don’t rush into a decision if the path isn’t clear. Strive for better, not perfect. Consider that time changes your own perspective.

Take time for joy to inject new energy

Thu, 11 Jun 2020 14:04:38 GMT

Finding joy takes work sometimes. That’s not a reason not to do it. Use joy + relaxation to inject energy into projects.

Generate new ideas by feeling more upbeat and optimistic. It is work to have fun sometimes. Keep finding a way regardless of the situation. Look for what is, rather than what is not.

Build for long term not immediate response

Wed, 10 Jun 2020 14:24:45 GMT

It’s not possible to control how the world reacts to a project. The goal is work on useful projects that have longevity, than make them betters.

Others should not be expected to appreciate the work that went into building, nor the potential. Build with the right structure so it can spread. Don’t worry if it’s not immediate.

Find balance to keep moving

Tue, 09 Jun 2020 15:24:43 GMT

It’s much easier to keep going when you have balance. Balance also allows continuous movement.

Find a balance with physical actions and mental awareness. Keep going to maintain balance.

Make joy in present surroundings

Sun, 07 Jun 2020 16:34:41 GMT

There’s no sense focusing on what is not possible. Accept the situation and make most of new opportunities.

Make joy in the present surroundings. Every situation is imperfect. Accept that and make most of what is possible.

Time to act upon virtues

Sat, 06 Jun 2020 16:21:07 GMT

This is the time to act. There are problems all around. This will prove to be a pivotal year in history. Leaders are failing by trying to protect themselves first and foremost.

How we act now will determine the future. It’s not time to return to the past. Act now upon virtues. Do more that will be looked back upon well in the years to come.

Accept faults and work towards better

Fri, 05 Jun 2020 14:36:09 GMT

Accept faults. None of us are free from mistakes.

There’s never a point where you can check a box and be done. Move towards being better. Become more aware of faults in order to improve.

Actively support virtues and values

Thu, 04 Jun 2020 14:43:25 GMT

Find ways to express support for causes that match with virtues and values. Don’t expect others to assume. Show support, get involved, and live the virtues.

We all deserve to be treated fairly. We all deserve justice. We all deserve better.

Live with kindness. Live with integrity. Live with trust.

Equality and optimism

Wed, 03 Jun 2020 14:37:04 GMT

Equality breeds optimism. Being fearful of equality is a sign of pessimism and fear that one will lose their place in the future.

Let the best people forward. The right way forward is to enable the best people to build, create, and inspire. Pull down artificial barriers and let humanity benefit.

Being silent is being complicit

Tue, 02 Jun 2020 07:38:46 GMT

Silent support can not be presumed. Express and show support for the beliefs that matter.

It’s not enough to not do wrong. Be proactive in doing good.

Harness technology to increase effective efforts

Mon, 01 Jun 2020 14:31:24 GMT

Technology should be considered as a tool. Tools can make processes easier and change the entire process.

Harness technology to increase effective efforts rather than for the sole sake of using technology.

Enable others with new platforms and perspectives

Sun, 31 May 2020 18:00:36 GMT

Help others to view their own efforts through a new lens. Enable others to reach more with the right platforms.

Speak more about enduring themes

Sat, 30 May 2020 16:13:38 GMT

Spend more time considering enduring themes rather than speaking about specific current events. The news of the day will pass and changes.

Look at how events relate to enduring themes of life. Express love and gratitude. Help others grow and reinforce big ideas.

Speak your mind in a tactful manner

Fri, 29 May 2020 15:20:59 GMT

Speaking your mind doesn’t mean doing so on a whim and without regard for perception. In order to effectively communicate, be tactful about the message and how it is communicated.

Take time to consider desired outcomes and speak as though only given a few opportunities. Use wisely.

Listen to feedback shape future projects

Thu, 28 May 2020 15:57:53 GMT

Use feedback wisely. Learn to decipher what others are saying to help shape the course of future projects.

Listen to the big messages and show work to your audience to keep getting more feedback.

Let nature relax and expand space in mind

Wed, 27 May 2020 14:01:33 GMT

Nature is incredibly enduring. It hasn’t changed much in response to the world, all things considered. Use time in nature to relax, reset, and expand space in mind to think.

There’s never really getting away. We are always with ourselves. Use changes of perspective, surroundings and state wisely.

Pause and consider role before responding

Tue, 26 May 2020 14:50:36 GMT

Much of conversation is non-verbal. Don’t rush to judgement

Pause and consider other perspectives. Ask questions. Determine role and the right way to respond. Better to get it right than rush and assume.

Assume good intentions first

Mon, 25 May 2020 16:04:20 GMT

Most conversation is positive and most people have positive intentions. Like animals and computers, people can be provoked or poorly programmed. That’s not generally the default state.

Support others by listening and asking guiding questions

Sun, 24 May 2020 16:33:13 GMT

Take more time to listen to others. They often don’t want feedback or advice. They want to share. Let them share and listen. Ask questions that may help them gain insight.

Support others by listening and asking guiding questions.

Identify problems, plan solutions

Sat, 23 May 2020 14:58:46 GMT

Don’t overdo negative talk in any situation, even if it is a “realist” viewpoint. Find positive, keep talks upbeat with others.

Identify problems and work to brainstorm and plan solutions rather than dwell on the negative.

find joy in the present, there are no perfect conditions

Fri, 22 May 2020 15:44:44 GMT

Don’t put off joy while waiting for what’s next. There are no perfect conditions.

There’s so much out of our control and no sense hinging joy on uncontrollable. There’s something good in everything. Work to find the joy in the present.

Stay focused by taking time to reflect, pause, respond

Thu, 21 May 2020 14:15:37 GMT

It’s easy to lose focus when others don’t react as expected. Don’t let it derail efforts.

When pushed into unexpected situations, don’t react immediate. Stay focused by taking time to reflect, pause, respond.

Building an audience is vital to project success

Wed, 20 May 2020 14:32:36 GMT

It’s not wrong to build an audience - in the physical or digital worlds. It can be looked at as vain - and can be done in a vain way.

Building an audience is vital to project success. Without an audience, there’s no chance for feedback, no chance for others to build upon, no chance for a fire to catch.

Develop a rhythm to generate momentum

Tue, 19 May 2020 14:52:21 GMT

Wheels don’t crash as momentum builds; they keep rolling. Find a rythym to keep rolling and keep from bottoming out.

End work excited for the next step. Leave something easy to do when picking up again. Make notes on progress and on next steps. Quit before burn out.

Build credibility by showcasing work and demonstrating value

Mon, 18 May 2020 14:41:40 GMT

Communicate clearly to help others put themselves in the story.

Build credibility by showcase work and demonstrating value.

Images to show best of work. Quotes of great experience from clients. Numbers to show success. Words to describe scenario. Logos to leverage authority.

Focus projects on a single purpose to reduce distractions

Sun, 17 May 2020 16:32:30 GMT

Do more by taking on fewer disparate projects. Look for the projects that will make others easier or unnecessary.

Focus projects on a single purpose to reduce distractions and change scope to build momentum across multiple areas.

Recognize progress and find solutions not new problems

Sat, 16 May 2020 16:47:17 GMT

There will always be new problems. Perfection isn’t realistic or attainable. Recognize progress and find solutions not new problems.

Time does not wait for perfect conditions

Fri, 15 May 2020 15:45:51 GMT

Keep going. Time does not wait for perfect conditions. Even small progress is better than standing still. Build momentum.

It's much easier to balance on a moving bike

Thu, 14 May 2020 14:06:47 GMT

Keep moving to find balance. It’s much easier to balance on a moving bike.

Change environments, time, perspective, energy if stuck. Give it 5 minutes of focused effort. Just keep moving.

Approach projects with open learning mindset

Wed, 13 May 2020 14:31:36 GMT

Identify common objectives and approach projects with open learning mindset. Take on difficutl projects to build and share knowledge.

Devote time to efforts that enable growth

Tue, 12 May 2020 14:26:39 GMT

Devote time to efforts that enable growth over time. Rather than trading time for money, build products intended for the long run.

Digital products can be improved over time and don’t require additional time investments for each additinal use.

Sytems run without everything hingeing on a single person.

The best effots helps others grow.

Declare objective & importance, allot time accordingly

Mon, 11 May 2020 14:19:22 GMT

Declare objective & importance, allot time accordingly. Parkinson’s law says our tasks will expand to fill time available. Manage time & expected output. Don’t get bogged down in unneccesary details.

Acknowledge common desires work backwards towards understanding actions

Mon, 11 May 2020 01:38:10 GMT

Acknowledge common desires work backwards towards understanding actions.

Approach activities with excitement

Sat, 09 May 2020 15:25:15 GMT

Approach activities with excitement to get the most benefits. Excitement and joy shouldn’t be put on hold due to outside, uncontrollable factors. Experience greatly depends on expecations, attitudes, and approaches.

Self-reliance & proactive problem solving

Fri, 08 May 2020 14:17:51 GMT

Self-reliance doesn’t necessarily mean doing everything on your own. It’s infeasible to be an expert in everything and making that a requirement will impose limits.

Instead, use self-reliance to take a proactive approach to problem solving. Understand the problem as best as possible to gain understanding, then articulate what is needed next from an expert in the area.

Something good comes from all experiences

Thu, 07 May 2020 13:46:04 GMT

Something good comes from all experiences. Not looking for everything to be good because that’s not true or realistic.

Good things will come. Find some joy in today.

Trust in the future to find joy in the present

Wed, 06 May 2020 13:52:40 GMT

Trust in the future to find joy in the present. The future is steadily, continually approaching regardless of our actions.

Work to make the future better, then trust that all will work out. With an eased mind, find joy today and approach the future with an eased mind.

Find opportunities for encouragement

Tue, 05 May 2020 13:59:30 GMT

Find opportunities for encouragement. It’s hard to continue doing things without any feedback and positivity. Find ways to encourage growth and look for ways to receive it.

It’s been hard lately not getting regular client feedback & communication. Others are feeling this to greater degrees.

Develop skills that increase VORP

Mon, 04 May 2020 14:01:37 GMT

My time on the SoSH forums in my college and post college years taught me a lot about stats. One of the concepts I think about often is VORP or value above replacement player. A power hitting SS is more valuable than a power hitting 3B (assuming comparable defensive skills) because it’s generally harder to find a good hitting SS.

Similarly, we can all work to develop skills that increase our value over the replacement. Find ways to push specialized skills (SS defense) while maintaining high output general skills (power hitting). B

Work towards common goals thru influence

Sun, 03 May 2020 17:21:55 GMT

Work towards common goals thru influence rather than direct control. Identify common desired outcomes when disagreements arrive, then explain the path you’ve taken. Seek to influence others by letting them see what you see, rather than dictating outcomes via ultimate control.

Technology improves life incrementally and leads to step changes

Sat, 02 May 2020 16:48:22 GMT

Technology improves life incrementally and leads to step changes. Find ways to improve small problems to enable new possibilities. Use technology to do more - not less.

Build momentum via focused thinking in new setting

Fri, 01 May 2020 14:25:41 GMT

When feeling stuck or unmotivated, change the setting and dedicate ten minutes of focused thinking. Build momentum via focused thinking in new setting.

This will help spur ideas, generate momentum, and change overall outlook on the task & project at hand.

Ideally, it should be something with few distractions. Consider a quick walk, bike ride, or stretching. Then come back and try it again.

Do not let fear of irrelevance prevent publishing projects

Thu, 30 Apr 2020 15:03:24 GMT

Do not let fear of irrelevance prevent publishing projects. It’s a natural fear and it shouldn’t be ignored. Address the issues by building something for the audience you already have, then share the project with them becuase it was built for them. If it’s still irrelevant, it’s best to rework or scrap the project before investing more time.

Develop a sounding board for ideas

Wed, 29 Apr 2020 14:30:18 GMT

Develop a sounding board for new ideas. Give them chance early on in projects to give feedback. Invest enough time initially to make it worthwhile to them, then ask pointed questions for feedback. A good sounding board can save immense amounts of time down the road.

Capture original ideas by taking regular notes

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 14:35:21 GMT

Capture original ideas by taking regular notes. Use pen and paper for best results& usability. Allow multiple ideas to cross (books with current issues, articles with a work problem, etc) and capture newly generated ideas.

Find edges of knowledge and adapt for new uses

Mon, 27 Apr 2020 16:16:30 GMT

There’s so much to learn in the world and knowledge is progressing at a faster rate than normal. In areas of interest, get up to speed, then work to identify edges of knowledge and contribute in small ways. Do this in the public to foster best sources and views on topics, then cross with others topics of interest and knowledge.

Open conversations based on existing efforts

Fri, 24 Apr 2020 14:10:45 GMT

Open conversations to strengthen relationships and get more out of existing investments of time. Share projects, thoughts, ideas with existing networks in the right manner.

This is easily a one-to-one tool - or a one-to-many possibility from nearly anywhere with minimal time investment. Share worthwhile work, ask questions, and use digital tools to strengthen relationships.

Digital communications enhance existing efforts

Thu, 23 Apr 2020 14:33:04 GMT

Digital communications should enhance existing efforts. It takes deliberate focused efforts, in a different manner than in person communications.

It takes less time to show up. There’s no driving, trains, traffic, etc to worry about - and it requires more focused attention because so many of the norms are missing.

Take timeouts in day to recharge and revise gameplan

Wed, 22 Apr 2020 13:43:46 GMT

Take timeouts in day to recharge and revise gameplan.

It’s better to take a short break, refresh mentally and compare progress to expectations. If not in line, make adjustments. Come back with more energy and new perspective on same problems to prevent from making poor decisions, avoiding important work, and becoming ‘stuck.’

Define purpose, set expectations with time investments

Tue, 21 Apr 2020 14:15:56 GMT

To be more effective with time, define the purpose, expectations and desired outcomes before beginning. Take time to finish well, make notes to pick up the next time, and then transition to next item on schedule.

It’s easy to be distracted, including by relatively unimportant items within a project. These can feel like effective use of time because they are correct subject - and often they are obfuscating the real items to work on.

Slow down & be more deliberate with time investments

Fri, 17 Apr 2020 14:19:18 GMT

A quiet morning No planes Few trains No construction vehicles

It’s strikingly quiet in the morning, masking the hidden chaos in the world. This won’t change overnight. Slow down and be more deliberate with time investments.

Develop platforms to help others lead and connect

Thu, 16 Apr 2020 15:36:11 GMT

It’s easy to sit, watch and wait as the world reacts to covid-19. It’s much harder to take action. It’s time to get to work. Looking back months later, consider what good work can come out of this time. Develop platforms to help others lead and connect.

Help others discover right questions to ask

Wed, 15 Apr 2020 06:57:00 GMT

Help others discover right the questions to ask rather than assuming prior knowledge - or implying best next steps. Many are moving to digital commerce, communications and tools out of necessity - not choice. Without experience and expertise, this group may be less aware of what is possible. Good to keep in mind - especially now.

Use aspirations to shape everyday habits

Tue, 14 Apr 2020 06:25:12 GMT

Use aspirations to shape everyday habits. Aspirations are less subject to change over time and should be used to guide specific, time-oriented goals. Set daily, small tasks to build towards the goal.

Be deliberate with time by planning - especially when busy

Mon, 13 Apr 2020 06:45:12 GMT

Be deliberate with time by setting clear expectations of time & outcomes prior to beginning. This is especially important when busy in order to avoid waste of time.

Blocks of time should be invested to make future better. There’s no getting time back; it can and should be used wisely to make future better.

Develop sleep routines to allow brain to process inputs and changes

Sun, 12 Apr 2020 08:03:00 GMT

There’s been a lot to process lately - changes to daily work life, environments, etc, along with a number of possible futures that hadn’t been strongly considered back in January. Sleep routines help brain better process inputs and changes

Build habits by creating streaks of small daily goals

Sat, 11 Apr 2020 09:04:00 GMT

Build habits by creating streaks of small daily goals. Start small and let the momentum and experience guide the progression.

Create more output channels

Fri, 10 Apr 2020 07:14:00 GMT

Create more output channels to better process intake of information & formulate ideas from unique combination of intake and experience.

about me

Sun, 05 Apr 2020 00:36:46 GMT

Web developer and agency owner at ecomloop. I enjoy using technology to make everyday lives incrementally better.

Nantucket-native. Boston College alum. San Francisco Bay Area since 2004.

Being a father of two boys has taught me more about myself than any outside influence.

Strongly believe in developing agency, acting upon curiosity, approaching ideas with open-mindedness, accepting responsibility and striving for continual self-development.

Most meaningful events occurred long ago and lessons learned should be adapted to new situations.

Incremental progress leads to transformational change. Transformational change defines the future.

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