My Life as a Mother and Single Parent

A fast and simple way to lower credit card debt

2009-11-07T10:46:00.000-08:00

Have you ever gotten a credit card that started out with this really low apr (finance fee), then a few months later it doubled? Of course, this always happens after you have a balance on it.

I feel that credit cards are a good thing to have. A lot of people knock them, but I think it's great to have a credit card on standby for emergencies, etc. Yet in these times, many people are carrying a balance on their cards. There have been so many lay offs and increasing prices that many Americans that were middle class before this started, find themselves hitting poverty level.

One of the most important things about credit cards and credit card debt is to make sure you never miss a payment. Even if you can only afford the minimum payment, make it. If you skip a payment, it really hurts.

There really is a simple way to make a dent in your credit card debt. You can do this by transfering your balance over to a new credit card that offers a low apr. Many credit cards do this at least for six months. Before applying make sure to read the fine print.

You don't want to get a credit card that charges an annual fee. Most credit cards these days offer cards with no annual fee, so make sure to check that information first before applying.

After you are approved, check and see what your credit limit is. Transfer the balance from the prior credit card over to the new credit card. Make sure you close out the previous account. You don't want to charge it back up, especially at the higher rate and finance fees.

Now you have your balance on a new credit card that hopefully offers the low rate for at least six months. Make sure to pay as much as possible on it every month. This way you know that you are making a dent in the balance because of the low rates.

A lot of times people don't realize how much of their minimum payment is going towards fees. By transferring your balance over to a low fee card, most of the minimum payment is going to make a difference.

Some people choose to call one of those places that consolidate your debt and contact the credit card companies on your behalf for a lower finance fee, etc. I would not do this unless it was a last resort. This shows up on your credit report and will make it harder for financing in the future. If you really need it do it, but not unless you are at that point.

I really recommend Discover. I've heard good things about the company. They are offering a promotion where you can get $50 Cash Back Bonus with the Discover® More Card! If you have a credit card that has shot up the fees, I would recommend applying and getting approved. After this, you can transfer your balance over.

Top Droppers For September 2009

2009-09-24T17:45:00.000-07:00

Sorry for the delay everyone, but here is the list of the top ten droppers I had for this month, September 2009. The first five will get a 100 Entrecard credits a piece. If you are in the top five, make sure to check your Entrecard account.

Top 10 Droppers;
1. Sands of Thyme

2. Imagination Madness

3. One 2 Day

4. Tiddly Winks

5. The Chickenista

6. I Like It Frantic

7. C'est La Vie

8. The Art and Science of Parenting

9. And There Ya Go

10. MB's Tips, Thoughts, and Reviews

I apologize that I don't have as much time as I used to to get on here and blog or drop. I appreciate the visits though!

Top Droppers Entrecard September

2009-09-23T21:48:00.000-07:00

Hi all,

I just wanted to make a quick note and let everyone know I am running behind on my posting. I will be updating this in the next few days with my top ten droppers and sending out the Entrecard credits then. Check back!

Top Ten Droppers and Entrecard Credit Winners

2009-08-20T14:41:00.000-07:00

Amazing, but it's that time again. I can't believe that time goes by so fast.

Last month I promised that I was going to be rewarding some of my top droppers through Entrecard today.

So here are my top ten droppers for the month. I'm also going to be sending out the Entrecard credits today as well. I appreciate the visits. As a single working mom, I haven't been able to drop cards as often as I might like. Hopefully in the next month or so, I will be able to start posting and dropping more.

So my top ten droppers in the last month are;

1. I like it Frantic

2. Sands of Thyme

3. Imagination Madness

4. One 2 Day

5. Whatever Comes To Mind

6. Tiddly Winks

7. Fledgling Blogger

8. Blogger Corner

9. Jean sQuared

10. IndoContest

Next month on the 20th, I am going to try something new. For the top five droppers, I will be sending an Entrecard credit of 100 to each one. So watch for an update on September 20, 2009.

The Audacity of Unawareness

2009-08-01T12:46:00.000-07:00

I received the following email today, and I thought I would share and post it on here.

For Heavens sake, wake up America.

When does "Unawareness" become "Lying"???

Barack Obama, through his spokesman, claimed that he was unaware of the tax day tea parties. Granted, the Main Stream Media has done a good job in suppressing any sort of coverage ahead of time (and the little coverage they did provide was derisive at best). But, how out of touch is the Community Organizer in Chief, really?

This much:

- He was unaware that he was attending a church (for 20 years) with a racist pastor who hates America .

- He was unaware that he was family friends with, and started his political career in the living room of, a domestic terrorist.

- He was unaware that he had invested in two speculative companies backed by some of his top donors right after taking office in 2005..

- He was unaware that his own aunt was living in the US illegally.

- He was unaware that his own brother lives on pennies a day in a hut in Kenya .

- He was unaware of the AIG bonuses that he and his administration approved and signed into a bill..

- He was unaware that the man he nominated to be his Secretary of Commerce was under investigation in a bribery scandal.

- He was unaware that the man he nominated to be his Secretary of Health and Human Services was a tax cheat.

- He was unaware that the man he nominated to be his Secretary of the Treasury was a tax cheat.

- He was unaware that the man he nominated to be the U.S. Trade Representative was a tax cheat.

- He was unaware that the woman he nominated to be his Chief Performance Officer was a tax cheat.

- He was unaware that the man he nominated to be #2 at the Environmental Protection Agency was under investigation for mismanaging $25 million in EPA grants.

Goodness, there are people in comas that are more aware of world affairs than this guy!!!!!!!!!!

Top Droppers and Something New

2009-07-30T16:30:00.000-07:00

I think I'm going to try something new for my Entrecard.

To start off, here is the list of the top ten droppers for this blog over the last 30 days. Thanks for visiting. These are loyal droppers with great blogs, so if you are visiting you might want to drop by each one.

1. Sands of Thyme

2. I Like It Frantic

3. East Coast Life

4. EZ Great Life

5. The Fledgling Blogger

6. My Heart Voice

7. Whatever Comes to my Mind

8. Melissas Homeschool

9. Khryedotcom

10. Confessions of a Psychotic Housewife

Now, on to what I have planned for next month.

On August 30, 2009, I will post the next entry for my top ten droppers over the past 30 days. My top dropper will receive 200 Entrecard credits. My second top dropper will receive 100 credits. And my third top dropper will get 50 credits. I really appreciate the website traffic. So make sure to keep dropping your card over the next month. Like the saying goes, "Somebody is going to win, it might as well be you!"

Thanks for stopping by.

Earth Mama and Angel Baby - Great products for pregnancy, breastfeeding, and baby!

2009-07-27T19:14:00.000-07:00

If you haven't discovered Earth Mama or Angel Baby products, this post is for you!

These products ease various problems experienced during pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding. They also offer quality products for baby. The best thing about them? They offer a natural way to get relieve, and they work!

They use the highest quality oils and QAI certified organic herbs. Their products are cruelty-free, certified vegan, kosher, and 100% toxin-free - that means no phthalates, parabens, SLS, artificial preservatives, fragrances or dyes.

Earth Mama products really offer a great way to pamper and nurture moms. Click on any of the pictures to visit them.

Here are my recommendations;

During pregnancy:
Earth Mama has so many great products for use during pregnancy. Everything from heartburn relief to preventing stretch marks. See the following. Just try their products out to see why I like them so much.

Breastfeeding: Should you decide to breastfeed, you'll have sore nipples. It happens to every breastfeeding mother. Especially in the beginning. The following products will be your new best friends;

You can also get the whole kit. This makes a great gift for a breastfeeding mom as well.

Let's talk about low breastmilk supply. Milkmaid tea is designed to increase it. This is a loose leaf tea that contains herbs to stimulate breastmilk production. On the website, you can even order the tea strainer. If you are looking for a breastmilk increasing tea that is in a tea bag, check out Breastea. If you like loose leaf tea try out Milkmaid tea.

Products for baby:

They have a lot of products that are designed specifically for baby. Some of them are;

These are just a few of their product listings. You can't go wrong with this website. The above is just a small sample of what they have to offer. Pregnant moms and new moms can find some very beneficial products on the website. Visit and browse around. If you know someone that is expecting or recently gave birth, consider giving one of these as a gift. They will love it! To visit their homepage, click on the banner below.

Americans & Parents..... Urgent Action Needed

2009-07-22T15:55:00.000-07:00

The Issue:
We've all heard about H.R. 3200, “America’s Affordable Health Choices Act of 2009.” It's made out to sound like it's going to be a great thing. Have you heard the downside of it?

The Problem:
HSLDA has summed up the major problems that would result if this was passed. There are things about this reform that would not benefit Americans, especially the elderly and parents/children. As Americans, we have to oppose this.

Why It Needs to be Opposed:
#Spend billions of dollars to allow the federal government to fund home visitation programs, where government officials would enter homes and monitor children and instruct parents in how to raise their children;
# Encourage states to pressure families to enroll their children in these home visitation programs;
# Put the federal government in the healthcare business, resulting in loss of competition, loss of patient choice, and loss of patient freedom;
# Require all health insurance plans, whether offered by a private company or the government, to include controversial “essential benefits,” which courts or the Secretary of Health and Human Services may determine to include medical procedures which businesses and taxpayers may oppose on philosophical and religious grounds; and
# Increase the size and power of the federal government.

How You Can Help:
Immediate action is needed to be taken to oppose this. You will need to contact your US Representative and your two US (state) Senators. If you don't have this information, it's very easy to find here. You just enter your zip code and it takes you to a form to email your Senators.

The HSLDA recommends emailing the following message. You can use part or all of it. Feel free to copy and paste it. “Please oppose H.R. 3200, the ‘America’s Affordable Health Choices Act of 2009.’ I am opposed to H.R. 3200’s creation of home visitation programs through grants to the states. Parents, not federal or state officials, should make child-rearing decisions for their young children. Additionally, H.R. 3200 will expand the federal government’s role, the federal deficit, and will interfere with medical decisions between my doctor and me.”

Please don't make the mistake of thinking that this is not a big deal. We are Americans, and we should be allow freedom in our lives and our healthcare choices. It's scary how much control is being taken over individuals and families already, and only we as Americans can oppose this.

Homeschooling Curriculums.... So Many Choices

2009-07-09T14:05:00.000-07:00

With school starting in a month or so, I'm really trying to finalize what curriculum I will use for Big Bubba's homeschooling this coming up year. He will be in the third grade. In the past, I've used Time4Learning and for second grade I used Alpha Omega with teacher guides and workbooks.

Earlier this year, I heard about A Beka Academy. I've looked online and I see this year they are offering the classes online through video streaming. This looks very interesting to me, and I know that A Beka offers a great homeschooling curriculum. Plus, they are taking $100 off if you use the video streaming instead of the dvd's. The only thing that is holding me back is the price.

I don't want to spend $1,000 for a curriculum if it isn't going to be exactly what we are looking for. I'd love to hear experiences, especially if you have used their accredited program before.

I'm a little unsure of how it works exactly. It looks like he would basically go online and watch the classes. Then he would complete the tests or homework and mail it in?

The things that I would like about this is the fact that he can learn on the computer. I also like the fact that the classes are filmed in an actual classroom with a real teacher. I also like the fact that a third party does the grading, etc.

So homeschooling moms, if you've tried this curriculum, please share your experiences with me. Or if you know of another curriculum similar to this that might not be as expensive, I'd love to check that out as well. There are always so many choices when it comes to curriculums that sometimes it can be overwhelming.

Love to buy on Ebay? Get 3% Cash Back.

2009-07-04T21:08:00.000-07:00

Shopping on Ebay just got even better! If you get a free membership at Ebates, and shop through their link on Ebay, you get 2% cashback on each and every auction you win!

It's really very simple! There are no fees or catches to this. You simply go to their website here and register for free. They are affiliated with hundreds of retailers like Wal-Mart, etc. You click on the link of the store you want, and do your online shopping like usual. Upon your first purchase through their links, you get a free $5 bonus as well. It's that easy!

Your cashback payments are made through Paypal.

You will want to make sure you use the same email address on your Ebates membership and order. That way when the retailer confirms your order with Ebates there won't be any confusion.

I've been using Ebates for a few years now, and I like it. Just make sure you login to Ebates and go to Ebay by clicking on the Ebay link to get your 2% cashback. Believe me, this 2% adds up. There are no fees at all for you to do this. If you are going to buy, you might as well get cashback for it right?

4th of July

2009-07-04T12:52:00.000-07:00

Glitter Graphics - GlitterLive.com

Top Entrecard Droppers

2009-06-16T16:32:00.000-07:00

Top Droppers for the last 30 days:

Renaescraftycorner
Sands of Thyme
Upgrade Your Life!
Imagination Madness
BuildingBiggerBarns
Tiddly Winks
Live the Life of ADreamer
Isolated Existence
The Mother's Handbook.net
Posh Totty

I have also decided that I am not going to participate in Entrecard's paid ads. I've noticed that there have been a lot of changes with Entrecard since they started this, and they have not been positive changes.

Thanks to everyone that visited my blog.

Ships that Don't Come In

2009-05-16T21:15:00.000-07:00

Do you ever stop to think about dreams you may have that haven't come to pass?

As I'm nearing the big 30, I've been reflecting on "dreams" that I have. I've always wanted to travel the world. I know that there are a ton of grand adventures just out there waiting for me. I just want to see it all.

Today I was thinking about this great dream of mine, and also thinking about getting older. I guess you have to wonder if you will have the chance to live a dream before you get to old to enjoy it. Between the economy and terrorism, will this even be possible one day?

There are other things I'd like to do in life as well, but the traveling overseas was always a biggie. Yet, I look around and I see how many people never get a chance to do anything like that. Maybe it's not so bad if that wasn't their dream in life, but one of the saddest things is when someone's dream never comes to fruition.

The last 12 years of my adult life have flown by. I have to wonder if sometimes we always think we will do something in the future, just to wake up and realize that it's to late to do it. Time waits for noone.

So yeah this is one of those deep, reflective type of posts that really make you think. We all have our dreams, but how many of us get the chance to make them a reality? Life is all about dreams. Someday at the end of our lives we should be able to look back and say that we got to live ours.

Great song for you to listen to!

Joe Diffie - Ships That Don't Come In

I could tell he'd had a tough life
By the way he sat and stared
And me, I'd come to push and shove
So I pulled up a chair.

We talked of roads untraveled
We talked of love untrue
Of strings that come unraveled
We were kings and kindred fools
And just when I'd hit bottom
That old man raised his glass
And said at least we had our chances
There's those who never have.

So here's to all the soldiers
Who have ever died in vain
The insane locked up in themselves
The homeless down on Main
To those who stand on empty shores
And spit against the wind
And those who wait forever
For ships that don't come in.

He said it's only life's illusions
That bring us to this bar
To pick up these old crutches
And compare each other's scars
'Cuz the things we're calling heartache
Hell, they're hardly worth our time
We bitch about a dollar
When there's those without a dime.

And as he ordered one last round
He said I guess we can't complain
God made life a gamble
And we're still in the game.

So here's to all the soldiers
Who have ever died in vain
The insane locked up in themselves
The homeless down on Main
To those who stand on empty shores
And spit against the wind
And those who wait forever
For ships that don't come in.

Container Gardening

2009-05-03T13:29:00.001-07:00

Here we are at the start of May, and my container vegetables seem to be doing well. I've got 2 larger tomato plants that were purchased at a large size. The early girl has already got 3 tomatoes growing on it. I've also got a big? boy tomato plant. My tomato seedlings are Rutger and they have sprouted and are shooting up. I actually got a pack of these seeds at Wal-Mart for 20 cents. The white eggplant seeds I bought and sowed are sprouting up as well. I also planted some seed potatoes and they are growing too.

This is the first time I've tried growing some potatoes, container or otherwise. I'm not a big potato eater, but I do enjoy new potatoes that are fresh from the garden. As a child when I would visit my father's mother in the summer, sometimes she would have new potatoes from the garden. I can remember her digging them up and using a scrub brush on them to remove the skin. It would come right off without much effort. They were so good.

In the back I've got some Green Pepper plants that seem to be doing well. I also purchased a summer squash plant that I planted in an old fashioned basket that I haven't seen since I was a kid.

I've always enjoyed gardening, but I rent so I'm unable to go out and till the yard up:-) This is my first year of trying out container gardening. My only problem is I am running out of containers. I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on where I can get used containers for free?

So far I haven't had any problems with pests attacking the plants, but then again, it's early in the season. I really want to try to stay as organic as possible and not use pesticides. What's your favorite tip for fighting insects on your plants?

My children have really enjoyed the experience of planting and sowing. We've really enjoyed the whole process of watching the plants grow, and they loved filling the containers with dirt. They have made wonderful "farmers". Gardening is a great time to bond with the kids.

I'm am looking forward to the first tomatoes getting ripe and ready to eat. When I think of tomatoes, I think of red and ripe tomatoes grown in natural sunshine and fresh air. There is so much difference in the taste.

Buy Tombstone Pizza and get $15 toward your utilities

2009-05-02T10:54:00.000-07:00

Tombstone Pizza has an awesome promotion that I want to share with you. Purchase 17 pizzas, and they will send your local utility company $15 toward your electric bill!

You will need to print out the form here. Then cut out the UPC Codes from your pizza boxes. You will also need to mail in a copy of your utility bill to make sure they put the right account number on the check. To get the full details about it, click here.

If you don't want to go for the full 17, you can also send in 7 to 11 upc codes to get $5 towards your utility bill. 12 to 16 will get you $10 towards your bill. I'm really excited about this because we love Tombstone Pizza anyhow.

There are no catches with this except you need to save your upc codes and mail everything in. I wish other companies would start promotions like this!

Relactation - How to start Breastfeeding Again!

2009-05-01T12:22:00.000-07:00

Relactation is the process of restoring your breastmilk supply and breastfeeding again after quitting.

Many moms decide to relactate for a variety of reasons. Some had to stop breastfeeding due to illness. Others just quit and wished they hadn't. The success rate for relactation goes up if you attempt to get your milk back within two months of your breastmilk drying up.

This article is going to address relactating with a breastpump. If it has been awhile since baby was on the breast, you will have to work with a lactation consultant to get baby back to breastfeeding. Or you might find that baby starts nursing again with no problems. I personally would try daily to put baby to breast while in the process of relactating. The most important thing to do at this point though is work on getting your breastmilk supply back.

When a breastfeeding mom quits and decides at a later point to start breastfeeding again, it takes time and effort. Relactating doesn't happen overnight. Some moms are able to get most of their milk supply back within a few weeks, while others find it takes several weeks to produce breastmilk again. It's very important that you stick with your breast pumping schedule. You have to let your body know that you need to produce breastmilk.

Many women find that using herbs helps the relactation process. There are certain herbs out there known as galactogogues. These have been used for centuries to increase breastmilk supply in breastfeeding moms and wet nurses. These herbs have been a lifesaver to many breastfeeding moms that have low milk supply. Without these herbs to increase their milk production, some moms would not have the full milk supply then need. Without having the milk supply, many would quit. That's why these herbs are important if you are experiencing low milk supply.

A great lactation tea to drink is Breastea. Each tea bag makes one gallon of tea. You make the tea in advance and store in the refrigerator. When you sit down to pump, drink a glass. What many people don't realize is that it takes a lot of herbs to benefit the milk supply. That's why Breastea is such a great deal, and that's why you need this herbal galactogogue blend that will provide enough for you at an affordable price. Try drinking 4 glasses per day, or drink a glass when you sit down to breast pump.

Another important part of relactating is the breast pump you use. If at all possible, rent a hospital grade breast pump from your local medical supply store. They are usually not to expensive, and they give you the best chance at bringing your breastmilk supply back. Make sure to talk to your pediatrician about your plans. If you were unable to breastfeed due to a medical condition with baby, etc many times your doctor can give you a form that will cover the breast pump rental. You can also check with your local health department and WIC program as many times they have programs that will help with the breast pump rental cost as well.

After getting the breast pump, you will want to pump every 2 to 3 hours for fifteen minutes at a time. Overnight, you will want to pump every 3 to 4 hours. Don't skip a pumping! It's very important that you stick with this schedule, even after your breastmilk supply comes back. After your milk supply is back, you can breastfeed on demand, pump, or do both. You just want to make sure you don't go longer than a few hours without doing something. During this time, don't forget to drink Breastea! After your milk supply is back, you can reevaluate and see if you still need to continue using herbs.

Like I mentioned before, there is no way to predict how long it will take to get your milk supply going again. Some moms lactate again within 2 weeks, while others may take 4 to 6 weeks. The quicker you start the process to relactate after drying up, the faster your will get your breastmilk supply back.

There are some things you should avoid when breastfeeding, especially if you are having supply problems. Don't use hormones, for example the birth control pill. Don't eat a lot of mint. Avoid underwire bras. Using antihistamines and certain cold medicines can go against your breastmilk supply. Make sure to check with your pharmacist.

There are also some things that will help in your process of relactating and restoring your breastmilk supply. Continue taking your prenatal vitamin. Drink a lot of water and don't diet. Avoid extreme exercise programs. Get plenty of rest. Practice the art of Kangaroo Care with baby. Make sure to continue drinking an herbal lactation tea like Breastea.

Although it takes work, breastfeeding is the natural way to feed your baby. If you experience any difficulties with nursing, make sure to eliminate the problems in the beginning. For example, thrush, etc. You will find that breastfeeding is one of the most rewarding experiences you have!

Article written by a service woman in Afghanistan

2009-05-01T12:14:00.000-07:00

This article was written by a service woman in
Afghanistan responding to a column raising the
debate about the sacrifice of America's Sons and
Daughters in Uniform. It is very well written and
something that every American should appreciate.
Her comments bring it closer to those who do not
understand or appreciate that the freedom they
have is fueled by the blood of others.

Service itself is our honor
Saturday, March 21
Sarah Albrycht
United States Army
Afghanistan

It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great
task remaining before us - that from these honored
dead we take increased devotion to that cause for
which they gave the last full measure of devotion -
that we here highly resolve that these dead shall
not have died in vain.
- Abraham Lincoln,
Gettysburg Address

A few nights ago, I walked a quiet mile with hundreds
of other service members. It was a clear night in
Bagram, Afghanistan. Although it was late, the birds
were singing, perhaps roused by the unusual
occurrence of people walking under their trees at
the late hour. Soft voices broke the solemnity, but
no words were discernible. Suddenly, as if on cue,
soldiers, airmen, seamen, marines, broke off the
sidewalk and lined the road, spacing themselves
regularly and assuming a position of silent
watchfulness. The honor cordon had formed.

Heads began to turn right as flashing blue lights
appeared far down the road. As the vehicles neared,
one by one, service members assumed the position
of attention and rendered the hand salute. In the
back of an open truck sat eight military members,
and between them, at their feet, was a flag draped casket.
As I rendered my salute, I thought about the fallen
soldier. I did not know his name, his unit or his
home. I never saw his face or spoke to his family.
I did not know why he volunteered for the Army or
what he was doing when he was killed. But there
was much I did know. I knew he had fought and
died in an honorable cause, a cause that had little
to do with our policy on Afghanistan. This soldier
had volunteered to put his very life on the line in
service to his nation and his brothers-in-arms.
I see no more honorable cause that that.

In a column, Mr. Putney has again raised the debate
about the sacrifice of America's "sons and
daughters" in uniform. Some have argued that we
must continue the fight to honor their memory
"so that they have not died in vain." Others argue
we must stop the wars to save soldiers from this fate.
I think an essential understanding of what motivates
those of us in uniform is missing in this debate.

We are not your sons and daughters, whom you
must protect and defend. We are your sword and
your shield. We are men and women who volunteer
to place our lives on the line so you do not have to.
We do not decide when or where we will be sent.
We go. You are our advocates, not our parents.

We trust you to care for our families, to hold our
jobs, pay for our equipment, salary and medical
care and yes, to honor our sacrifice. We trust you
to vote for good political leadership, to speak out
against bad policy decisions and to demand public
accountability. However, we do not count on you
to explain the honorable character of our service.
We are ennobled by the very fact we serve.

Our "high moral cause" is one of service to a
nation whose principles we believe in. We miss
the point of political debate when we distill it
down to numbers of service member deaths.
Debate should be about the policy that leads us
in or pulls us out of war. I, as a soldier, am
personally insulted when debate about war
becomes not about policy, but about deaths,
because it implies that my service is at best
uninformed or ill-conceived, and at worst valueless.

I know my life is in the hands of others because
I choose for it to be that way. I am not your
daughter, a child who must be guided. I have
made my choice and pledge my honor to it. I will
thank you to remember that because we serve our
nation, none of us dies in vain, regardless of the
cause; end of debate.

Every day a new Marine enlists or an airman
puts on her uniform is a reminder that our
defenders come from people who still believe
in our nation and the values it aspires to, as
flawed as we sometimes are. War does not make
our sacrifice honorable, death does not make
our service honorable; service itself is our honor.

We, your American service members, do not see
the cause for which we may give our last full
measure of devotion, as our nation's goals in
Iraq or Afghanistan, and perhaps that is the
difference. Our cause is our Nation, in all her
beautiful, imperfect glory.

So on a dark night in Afghanistan we stood
under a velvet sky of a million stars to honor
one man who lay under 50.
We never doubted what he died for.
Pfc. Patrick A. Devoe II died for you, the United
States of America. That, Mr. Putney, is no goof.

Sarah Albrycht is a Bennington native serving in the Army in Afghanistan.

Low Milk Supply.... When you need to increase it.

2009-04-18T15:31:00.000-07:00

When breastfeeding, have you ever noticed that you just aren't making enough breastmilk for baby? Or do you just need to increase milk supply just every now and then?

I'm horrified to hear that so many doctors are telling breastfeeding mothers that they need to stop breastfeeding and switch to formula, when they bring low milk supply concerns up to them. Why don't they just advice them to try herbs?

Certain herbs really do work at increasing breastmilk supply. Who would think something so simple would really work so good? The use of herbs to increase breastmilk supply is something that has been passed down from generation to generation of breastfeeding moms. Many, many moms (that have low milk supply) are able to produce enough breastmilk by using herbs. Thus, there is no need to quit breastfeeding because of low milk supply.

If you find that you need to increase milk production, drinking just one cup a day of herbal tea is not going to do it. You are going to want to drink 4 to 5 cups daily. It takes a good amount of herbs on a regular basis to work. So you are not going to want to use tea bags that make just one cup of tea.

Breastea is a really great tea to increase low milk supply. Each tea bag makes one gallon of tea. For $14 you get enough Breastea to last at least 10 days. It's very affordable.

So how is Breastea going to help you increase milk supply?

Breastea contains several herbs known to increase breastmilk supply and production. It is also the only tea of its kind to contain Rooibos, which have several great benefits to mom and baby. Most moms see an increase in low milk supply within the first day. Increases in milk supply can happen by the ounces.

For Breastea to work, you need to be a breastfeeding mom that breastfeeds or pumps on a regular basis. This is especially important once you start using herbs to increase production. As your body starts making more breastmilk, it needs to be used. This shows that your body that the increase in milk supply is needed.

Breastea can be ordered online and sent right to your door. Shipping is affordable.

Whether you need Breastea on a daily basis, or just certain times of the month when milk supply drops, it's a great tea to have on hand. Once you try it, you will see the difference in your milk supply. It's very helpful if you are a working mom and you need to make more breastmilk to have for a caregiver to give baby while you are at work.

If you have been advised by a doctor that you will not make enough breastmilk to continue breastfeeding, don't despair. Try Breastea out and increase your milk supply. It's very possible to keep breastfeeding, even when you have low milk supply.

Easter Obituary

2009-04-11T17:29:00.001-07:00

It's amazing that another Easter has rolled around. I think it's so important that we don't forget the real reason why we have Easter. In this day and age, it's so easy for people to do.

Easter really symbolizes so much to me about Jesus, his life and death. According to the Bible, Jesus was truly the epitome of good. He was kind and loving. He still told the word of God, despite the absolute cruelty and unkindness that people bestowed upon him. He taught of a greater love and a peace that this world can't fulfill.

His death was absolutely horrendous, and I can't even imagine what life must have been like back then, when people could stand to watch death like it was delivered. What kind of society was that? How could people be that cruel? Yet even with his death Jesus thought not only of the salvation of the people in that day and age, but future generations.

Jesus was resurrected from the dead 3 days after his crucifixion. Because of Jesus, we have Easter. Easter isn't about Easter clothes or what kind of meal you are going to have. It's about Jesus and remembering what he sacrificed for all of us, believers and non-believers alike. I can think of no greater love then that.

Many of us tomorrow will be eating and taking our kids for an Easter Egg Hunt. There is nothing wrong with that. We need to remember and acknowledge the real reason for Easter though, not only to ourselves but to our children as well. As Christians, we can't let the course of time take away the meaning behind the holiday.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Easter!

Potato Seeds

2009-03-17T21:02:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to post a quick update about the potato seeds. I had ordered some a few weeks ago, and I have no experience with them. They are not seed potato's, but actual little white seeds that are supposed to grow into potato plants.

Anyhow, the instructions sent with these were almost non-existent. I attempted to contact the company for more directions, but I never received a response. I decided to go ahead and plant these in a seed starter. I've had them in a type of mini-greenhouse.

They have now sprouted. At least several of them have. This is the point I need help with, as my other seedlings went limp after sprouting. I wonder at what point I should actually try to plant these in the ground. Or is it best to just take the top off of the mini greenhouse and keep them in a window sill for awhile?

If these potato seeds actually give a fair crop I am going to be thrilled. Really, I'm not a big potato fan, but I do love boiled new potato's.

I'm going to be doing some container gardening this spring and summer so I'd love to hear some tips. So far, I have habanero peppers, green peppers, and these potato seeds sprouting. I did attempt to do some summer squash, but only a few sprouted and they have went limp. I do not know if these can be reversed. The tomato seeds I planted never sprouted. I do have one more pack of seeds, which are supposed to be a white eggplant. I was waiting until it was a little bit warmer before attempting to plant these.

So has anyone else used potato seeds before? If so, please share.

Container Gardening and Potato Seeds

2009-03-10T20:18:00.000-07:00

With spring fast approaching, I've been thinking about trying to start some seedlings. I've had a few squash plants to pop up and one tomato. I plan on planting these in containers and trying out container gardening. This will be my first year doing this.

I ended up ordering more seeds. A few weeks ago, I picked up a great book called, "A Slice of Organic Life" at the library. It's really put some great ideas in my head. It's perfect for a city person trying to live a more organic lifestyle. The book covers everything from making compost to having a mini chicken coop. I really love this book, and I would love to read more books like it. In the book it talks about growing potatoes in a container.

While ordering my seeds, I saw some potato seeds. These are not seed potatoes, but actual white seeds. I ended up ordering these, but when I got them they didn't have any real instructions. Has anyone tried growing potato plants from seeds? I could really use some information on this.

I've got these little seeds planted in a tiny greenhouse seed tray, so I will wait and see what happens. I'm hoping these will actually sprout and provide a good crop. I love the taste of fresh vegetables, not to mention it's really fun to work with.

Weekend trip to London KY

2009-03-07T19:22:00.000-08:00

We decided to take an overnight trip to London, KY, and so far it has definitely been an experience. We've had really great weather here in KY the last two days, so I couldn't ask for better on the temperature. It ranged from 70 to 76 on the drive.

After a nice little drive, we arrived in here in London. I was amazed that it is so hilly. Or should I say mountainous. Once you get into London, it's actually very pretty though. Interestingly enough, we are only 2 hours or so away from Gatlinburg, TN. I've only been to Gatlinburg one time, and it was absolutely beautiful. In a way, London kind of reminds me of Gatlinburg.

After much research, I had made reservations at Quality Inn here in London. The rate was $59.99 plus tax. I had read a few reviews of the place and see a few photos, so I wasn't quite sure what to expect.

Quality Inn in London is very pretty. The pictures didn't lie. It features an indoor and outdoor pool. It was also advertised as having WIFI. The price is affordable, and the rooms are done in a very pretty gold. Plus, they don't have those itchy bed covers on the top like many hotels do.

Upon arriving, I couldn't wait to break out the laptop and post an entry about our little trip. After getting the computer started, I was very disappointed to find that I could not get a good signal in the room. I called up to the front desk, and the clerk said she would contact their "Internet guy." Amazingly at 10:30 at night, I'm still being told that they were never able to reach him.

So you are probably wondering how I was finally able to get Internet access. As a last resort, I brought the computer in the bathroom. I actually have it on the counter. This is the only place I am able to get a connection. I tried in the pool room, parking lot, and office. So if you ever stay here, be warned!

We got a chance to get out and sight see a little bit before swimming. I ended up at a place called Fantastic Nails here in London. I decided to spend $25 for a much needed pedicure, since spring (and sandals) are just around the corner. I have to say that they did a great job, but they are not very big on small talk.

The pool room has a hot tub and swimming pool that goes up to 4 feet deep. The hot tub was so nice after the drive. I really enjoyed it. The pool though has an odd smell that is not chlorine. The indoor pool and outdoor pull are actually connected through a section that has a piece of plastic glass in between them. Although the outdoor pool is covered, the plastic has a series of holes in it that allow the water to flow between both pools. Maybe this has something to do with it?

For our evening meal, we tried out a place here in London called Shiloh's. I have to say this place has the best bread, honey butter, and dinner salads that I have ever eaten. The buttermilk ranch dressing is homemade and delicious. The salad that came with my steak had cheese, croutons, and just about everything you could want. The croutons tasted homemade and were the best I've ever had. No wonder the place was packed. Plus if you are a guest at Quality Inn, you get a 10% discount. Shiloh's really reminds me of Logan's Steakhouse because they offer peanuts. And believe me the floor looks like Logan's too.

After eating we returned back to the hotel and found that a lot more people have checked in. We ended back up in the pool room and had a great time.

So tomorrow it's back home and getting ready for a new week. During the drive, we crossed over into another time zone. At midnight tonight, we will lose an additional hour as well due to Daylight Savings (is that what it's called?). Checkout is at 11 AM, so that will really seem like 9 AM to us. Despite the time loss, I have to say that I have really enjoyed our little getaway. After I get back, I plan on uploading pictures to share. Check back!

Housing for Single Moms in Louisville, KY in College

2009-03-06T18:45:00.000-08:00

I was looking at the news today, and I came across something that might be useful to single moms in Kentucky.

The Scholar House in Louisville offers housing for single moms that are in college or planning on attending college. Participants must have children and a high school diploma or GED. From what the news article said, the rent for the apartments are covered by federal housing vouchers. What an amazing program for moms that are looking to establish a better life for their children and themselves.

Currently there is a waiting list, but the Scholar House has announced plans that they are expanding by an additional 54 more apartments. If you are a single mother in the Louisville, KY area, I would definitely contact this program and get on the list. Not only do they provide a safe living area for you and your children, but they assist in other ways as well.

The contact info for the Scholar House is;
806 East Chestnut Street
Louisville, KY 40204
Phone: 502.584-8090

Little Bubba Turns 4

2009-02-24T17:12:00.000-08:00

Tonight at 6:30 PM, Little Bubba officially turned 4 years old. And how bittersweet it is.

Little Bubba discovered Handy Manny not to long ago, and he really loves him. Although Wal-Mart might not have the Handy Manny kit in their cake book, they do offer Handy Manny birthday cakes. Luckily I was able to get this for him, and he loved it.

I can't believe that four years has went by since he was born. Every moment has been so precious to me. Children really are the greatest blessings, and I truly Thank God for blessing me with my children.

Pictures from the Ice Stom in Kentucky 2009

2009-02-18T15:32:00.000-08:00

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When you think of Kentucky, you think of the Bluegrass state. You don't think of trees dripping of ice and breaking off every other second. Yet that's exactly what happened when we had the ice storm a few weeks ago.

Big bubba took a lot of pictures the days after the ice storm. I thought many of you might find these interesting. I don't believe Kentucky ever saw an ice storm of this magnitude, and I don't think anyone here wants to again.