Ann Again...and again

Tuesday Truth - Saying No To Facebook

2013-06-18T11:48:00.000-07:00

Our girls aren't on Facebook.

Our daughters, ages 15 and 12, do spend time on the computer, they do play games and listen to music but, they don't use Facebook. Have they asked to have an account? Sure. But I always answer with, 'If you want to talk to your friends, or share something, use the phone.' Then I get the eye roll and the "all of my friends have a Facebook account!" Thing is, I don't care. This comeback doesn't matter to me in the least.

I say No to Facebook for my girls because:

A). There's already enough confusion and drama in life - why add to that with possible misunderstandings with a poor choice of words, or statements that were said in the heat of the moment that you can't take back.

B.) I feel social media in Facebook form increases the chances of getting sucked into someone else's bad mood, hurt feelings or revenge tactics. It's one thing to support a friend who's going through a tough time but in written form through social media I feel things get out of control too fast and go too far.

Two years ago we had an eye-opening experience. Our oldest visited a chat room for Anime fans and would talk in this chat room with her very close friend from school. Well, these "friends" got into a fight in this chat room and even though our computer is in our Family Room (which means no privacy) intense, scary, powerful things were said and it took parents on both sides by surprise. It was shocking. It was bad. Lo-o-o-o-ong discussions came from this experience and it was proof that social media wasn't a good fit. And even though this happened two years ago, I'm sticking to my 'No'.

Yes, I have a FB account. It's mainly to share information about my blogs and connect with other bloggers. It could appear hypocritical, but my intention with my FB use is to promote and support. At their young age they're figuring out how they feel and it shouldn't be broadcast on Facebook. I know I could "Friend" them but again, once it's been expressed the unnecessary drama begins.

Go write in a journal.

Once my girls turn 18 I can't legally tell them they can't take part. I just hope that by then what they share won't hurt others or themselves.

To read more Tuesday Truth:

"Confessions Of A Teen Mom" ~ Guest Blogger

"When I Open My Mouth My Mom Comes Out" ~ Guest Blogger

Not The Place If You're Afraid Of Heights

2013-06-17T11:11:00.000-07:00

This week I'm starting the week off with memories of the weekend.

For Father's Day Rob wanted to go for a drive up the Columbia Gorge and take in the amazing natural beauty. Perfect thing to do on a Sunday.

Walking along the wall of Vista House. (Across the river is Washington State) Lily following Rob. Our 12 year old is almost as tall as we are - and that's 5'10!

It's a beautiful day in the Gorge

Rob and Katie made it to the bridge of Multnomah Falls. (Let's see... notice that person with their arms in the air? Well, that's not either of them ;-> They're 2 spots over.)

This was a difficult adventure for Lily because she's becoming afraid of heights. The Vista House sits high atop a hill on the Gorge and Multnomah Falls is the highest waterfall in Oregon. She didn't even want to try to make it to the bridge this time, so I kept her company.

How are you with heights? For some reason it doesn't bother me. But there is NO WAY I could Skydive or Bungee jump. It's one thing to be up high, it's another to drop. Are heights a problem for you? If so, do you have ways to get over the fear? I would love to help my Lily out :->

For more Starting The Week Off:

"What You Can Find When You Explore Your Neighborhood"

"Look Ma'! No Hands!"

It's Virtual Girls Night Out Time! Which Barbie Are You?

2013-06-14T16:40:00.002-07:00

School's Out - For - SUMMER!

Today was my daughter's last day of school. On to having a 7th grader and a Sophomore in High School. *gulp* Wait a minute... I have a H.S. Sophmore??? Stop this time machine please! It's going way too fast! How about I distract myself from the "where has the time gone?" feelings and get going on a Virtual Girls Night Out!

For our weekly Friday night blog hopping party all you need to make this party complete is to grab a beverage of your choice (cocktail recipe below for inspiration) and your fuzzy slippers! I started this blog party in 2008 and bloggers have been virtually partying ever since. All You Do To participate In The Virtual GNO: Link up your blog below and visit your fellow party guests - say "Happy VGNO!!!" Share the blog game/meme on your site to play along.

Time For Some Tunes!

Of Monsters and Men "Mountain Sounds"

I love attending outdoor concerts. What about you?

Time For A Cocktail!

We have a Guest Bartender for our Virtual GNO this week. Janel from Good Deal Mama is sharing her fantastic sounding Sangria recipe!

Peach & Berries Sangria
Prep time: 10 mins
Total time: 10 mins
Serves: 30
Ingredients
2 (750 milliliter) bottles dry white wine
1-1/4 cups peach flavored vodka or peach schnapps
½ cup frozen lemonade concentrate, thawed
⅓ cup white sugar
1 bag of frozen peaches
1 bag of mixed berries
2 litters of either 7 up, sparkling water, or Sprite soda
Instructions
Mix wine with vodka or peach schnapps. Add the lemonade concentrate with the sugar, allow to dissolve.
Add sugar mix to wine mix. Store in the refrigerator at least 2 hours, or overnight for flavors to mingle.
When serving add in soda or sparkling water and fruit.

Doesn't this sound like the perfect drink for a warm, Summer day? Or, night? Thank you so much Janel for sharing this lovely Sangria. Check out her blog www.gooddealmama.com . Cheers!

Time For A Party Game!

As I look around my house I see a LOT of Barbie's. There's the Barbie in her scuba suit and the Barbie who's a Vet. These Barbie's are outside on the swing-set and in the garden too. But, these dolls don't represent the way I think they should. If I were a Barbie I would be "Sunscreen Barbie". Follow the chart below to see which Barbie you would be.

"Modern Barbie"
(Use the chart to find which Barbie you are. Use the letter of your first name.)

A - C = Sunscreen Barbie

D - F = Is There Gluten In This? Barbie
G - I = Lactose Intolerate Barbie
J - L = Do These Jeans Make My Butt Look Fat? Barbie
M -O = No Carbs For Me Barbie
P - R = Mini Van Barbie
S - V = Have You Seen My Keys? Barbie

W - Z = Migraine Barbie

Now, which Barbie are you? (If you want to tweak this a bit, go right ahead.) Share on your blog with your lovely readers! (I wonder which Barbie they are? )

To participate In The Virtual GNO: Link up your blog below and visit your fellow party guests - say "Happy VGNO!!!" Share the blog game/meme on your site to play along. Remember to visit those that have shared their blog links. We share a common bond in that this party sounded like fun, so don't be shy! Your first connection is right there! :-> Happy Virtual Girls Night Out blog friends! I hope you had fun.

This Is My Mommy Juice

2013-06-12T11:19:00.000-07:00

My new favorite cup of the Summer ;->

Found Mommy Juice Wines and am enjoying the warmer June days. (Although, in Portland, the warmth can be here for a half-an-hour then change to clouds. But give it a minute! It will change again :-> )

I'm happy to be participating in Sincerely, Paula's Wordless Wednesday. Click the button below to link up as well. Let me know if you do!

What You Can Find When You Explore Your Neighborhood

2013-06-10T10:30:00.002-07:00

This week I'm "Starting The Week Off..." With A Walk In A Park

Summer's sunny days are a great excuse to explore new paths with your pup. Dog Fence DIY encourages exploration beyond the fence! Benny and I have a pattern; after we take the girls to school, I stop by a park that seems to call to me on that particular morning, and we have a stroll. We live in such an incredible town, it's full of parks and dog-friendly off leash areas, that we have plenty of places to choose from. Over the 7 years since Benny joined our family we have visited just about every park in our area. But, on this particular morning, I decided to see a park that we frequent from a new angle, to see what was "beyond the fence" that I had created with our pattern. What a difference a few blocks can make!

Instead of beginning our journey in Cathedral Park in St. Johns, Portland, OR from our usual spot, the sweet dog park (just driving down the street Benny starts whining because he knows exactly where we're going) I thought of beginning on the opposite end - an area we rarely even walk to - to see what we could find.

I saw a beauty in Cathedral Park that I had never noticed. I felt like I was in a completely different place. The way the sun was lighting the trees of Forest Park across the Willamette River I was transported to another part of Oregon. I was reminded of Central Oregon, funny enough, which is considered our desert. Hard to explain why, senses are odd that way.

And oh boy, Benny was sniffing every-single-blade-of-grass as if he'd never seen the stuff before. He's a Chocolate Labrador
but I feel there's a Bloodhound in there as well. I think he'd make an excellent tracker dog :->

Squirrel! Of course, there's always a squirrel.

Hey Benny, it's time to head home

Up the stairs, under the St. Johns Bridge we walk to our van. Since we parked in a different area of the neighborhood I was able to see the structural beauty of this bridge from underneath.

The St. Johns Bridge was designed by David B. Steinman and Holton D. Robinson and was completed in 1931. It is the tallest bridge in Portland, OR.

It was a very good morning discovering a park that was beyond our fence. Have you discovered parts of your neighborhood lately? Did you have your trusty pooch with you? Walks are always entertaining when you have your dog by your side.

This post is joining the Friday Flash Blog over at The Jenny Evolution. Care to join? Click the button.

(* I am a happy participant in the Beyond The Fence campaign by Dog Fence DIY.)

Time To Begin The Summer Party! - Virtual Girls Night Out Blog Hop!

2013-06-07T11:02:00.001-07:00

The summer is here! Well, the official first day of Summer is June, 21st however, it is the month of June and the sun has been shining for 7 consecutive days here in Portland, OR , so voila! Summer! (We take what we can get here in the Pacific Northwest.) I know that Tropical Storm Andrea is pounding the East Coast so let's try to bring some happiness - and dry thoughts to the East Coast - and start our Virtual Girls Night Out! For this Friday night blog hopping party all you need to make this party complete is grab a beverage of your choice (cocktail recipe below for inspiration) and your fuzzy slippers! I started this blog party in 2008 and bloggers have been virtually partying ever since. All You Do To participate In The Virtual GNO: Link up your blog below and visit your fellow party guests - say "Happy VGNO!!!" Share the blog game/meme on your site to play along.

Time For Some Tunes!

Graffiti6 "Stare Into The Sun"

Time For A Cocktail!

We have a Guest Bartender for our Virtual GNO this week. Crystal from Through Crystal's Eyes shares this delightful Summer recipe:

Directions:

Mix ingredients in a shaker then pour into your largest glass. Cheers!

Thank you Crystal!!!

(Would you like to be our Guest Bartender next week? E-mail me: annharrison@comcast.net :-> )

Time For A Game!

Let's play "The Name Game"

Use the first letter of your name to answer the questions. Your answers need to be real places, names and things. Share this game on your blog and ask your readers to follow along. Happy Virtual GNO!

1. What is your name: Ann

2. A 4 Letter Word: Able

3. A Boys Name: Andy

4. A Girls Name: Alison

5. An Occupation: Anchor-person

6. A Color: Aqua

7. Something you wear: Angora Sweater

8. A Beverage: A lotta wine (Kidding! ;->) Apple Juice

9. A Food: Apple

10. Something found in the bathroom: Ankle cream (I don't know what I'm saying)

11. A place: Anchorage

12. A Reason for being late: Auto problems

13. Something you shout: All's Well!!!

OK. It's your turn! Share this Name Game on your blog and ask your readers to follow along. I can't wait to see what you come up with.

Under The St. Johns Bridge

2013-06-05T10:35:00.001-07:00

Walking our dog Benny in Cathedral Park in our neighborhood of Portland, OR. The photo opportunities are endless in this beautiful space. Here we are underneath the gorgeous St. Johns Bridge. (Photo series to come soon.)

I'm participating in Sincerely, Paula's Wordless Wednesday. If you link up, let me know! ;->

Tuesday Truth - Confessions Of A Teen Mom

2013-06-04T09:47:00.000-07:00

This week's Tuesday Truth is from my lovely Guest Blogger Christy from "Uplifting Families"

I never knew how hard it was to be a mom until I actually became a mother. In fact, when I was a child I vowed to never be like my parents. However, all of that changed and I was soon doing the very things that I told my parents that I would never do. During a conversation with my dad, he saw me doing one of the things that I told my parents I would never do. He said, “What happened?” I replied, “I changed my mind.” My dad just grinned.

When I found out that I was expecting my daughter at the age of nineteen, I was worried about what my friends and others would think of me for getting pregnant so young. After all, I had only been out of high school for less than a year. I tried to avoid people that I knew because I thought people wouldn't think of me as that type of girl. Looking back, that was a dumb thing to think. I should have cherished my pregnancy more and never worried about what other people who knew me thought.

Each one of my children are a blessing and I am thankful to have them in my life. I will admit that it was very tough being a young mom. I did marry the father of my firstborn and he went into the military to support our family. It was difficult to raise a baby on a limited income but I learned how to be frugal. My daughter had everything that she needed in order to be happy.

As a parent, you always want the best for your child. Things might have been difficult financially but we were able to provide her with the basic things that she needed. Most of all she was surrounded by people who love her. I was lucky and I was able to stay home with her when she was younger. My daughter didn't have to go to daycare until I started working a few years later when I decided to go back to work for extra money.

If you are a teen mom, I will be honest that things will be difficult, but your baby doesn't need all of the stuff in the world in order to be happy. Your child will never remember what he or she had while a baby, as long as they are loved. Get a great support system and cherish your pregnancy.

*****

What lovely, supportive words! And so true, no matter what age you were when you had your baby, just give your love not the latest "toy of wonder". Do you connect with Christy's experience? Is there anything you would like to add? We look forward to hearing your thoughts.

To read more Tuesday Truth see posts:

~ My Birthmark
~ When I Open My Mouth My Mom Comes Out - Guest Blogger

More about my Guest Blogger:

Christy is a wife to her loving husband of 4 years and a mother to three beautiful children – Ages 16, 12, and 2 year old. As the owner and founder of Uplifting Families she is spot on about all things family! In her spare time, she enjoys blogging, spending time with family, going to church, and playing games.

Be a part of the conversation with Christy on Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest.

Look Ma'! No Hands!

2013-06-03T09:46:00.002-07:00

This week I'm "Starting The Week Off..." With A Laugh

"Look what I can do!"

It's time to sell the trusty Little Tikes slide. As I was taking pictures for Facebook and Craigslist postings Rob asked if he should help sell the slide. I said 'Sure'. And this is how he helped.

It sold that afternoon.

Thanks Honey!

How are you starting your week?

To see more in the series "Starting The Week Off.." Visit:

~ Hope It Was The Right Decision

~ "Worry About You-sef!" (LOVE this video)

A Little Walk In Our Neighborhood Today

2013-06-01T20:13:00.000-07:00

The Farmer's Market in our little, quirky neighborhood of St. Johns in Portland, OR opened today and here's a bit of our fun. (The food was delicious! Pictures will be better next time, I was just too busy eating to take better quality images ;-> )

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* = What you're seeing:

* St. Johns Bridge - Opened 1931.

* Welcome to St. Johns business marquee

~ = Food:

~ 1) Fresh made crepe filled with Salmon, Avocado, Tomato, Lemon Aioli

* Clock in the center of our little neighborhood

~ 2) Turnover containing Olive Tapenade, Roasted Red Pepper, Roasted Corn. Crusty, sweet pasty. - Florio Bakery

~ 3) Buying organic strawberries from a local farm

~ 4) Cookie bigger than Lily's face - Florio Bakery

~ 5) Delicious berries and fresh whole bean coffee from our local St. Johns Roasters

And...

Strawberry Rhubarb pie is in the over now! Pictures to follow! (If it isn't eaten first :-> )

How was life in your neighborhood today?

You Could Call Them Disturbing

2013-05-30T11:16:00.003-07:00

If it's Thursday it's time for Mama Kat's (pretty much world famous) Writer's Workshop. My prompt:

.3) But it's got a great beat! Tell us about a song you loved growing up even though the lyrics were ridiculous.

It's hard to justify my love for this song, other than the music and his voice made me love it. But the lyrics, the lyrics are disturbing (ridiculous?) and I hope you don't think badly of me when I tell you the title of this song. O.K. here it goes...

"Into The Night" by Benny Mardones (http://youtu.be/2bpOBAwrFVw)

"She's just 16 years old, leave her alone', they said." Now, there was never a time in my young life that I wanted to run away with an older man. There's nothing that I can relate to in this song, it's just that his voice is SO COOL and I love the music. That's it. That's all.

I also loved Rizzo in Grease but I didn't want to act like her. I loved how Sandy could change her look at the end of the movie but I never wanted to change how I looked so a boy would like me more. (A point my mom made sure of after my 3rd viewing of the movie.) I loved that Rizzo was a tough girl, which was completely different from my personality. I wasn't going to change who I was, it was just fun to imagine that I could for 2 hours.

I remember my experiences in these situations when I'm hearing a song that my daughters like, or being told about a movie they love. It's not that you're looking to change your life, you just want a really good beat.

And So It Grows

2013-05-29T10:18:00.002-07:00

Rob's herbs

While his job is full of stress (computer tech), Rob turns to our yard to do something he truly enjoys - gardening. The sage, rosemary, thyme and... are those beets? ... look beautiful.

Do you enjoy gardening? What's your favorite vegetable to have straight from the garden? I don't think anything can beat a fresh tomato.

I'm participating in Wordless Wednesday at Sincerely, Paula. Click the button to see more photo's and to participate as well. Let me know if you do! :->

At This Age It's Still Possible To Party All Weekend

2013-05-28T09:57:00.001-07:00

This week's Tuesday Truth is light-hearted (no soul barring truth, or question, from me today).

I took the weekend off from blogging. Instead I threw parties!

First, I hosted a Scentsy party on Thursday night. I'm a Scentsy Consultant and I had slowed down with my business. I wasn't sure if I was going to continue however, I got a spark and decided to stick with it. (I love the product and I just wasn't ready to let it go ;-> ).

Then, the most important party happened on Saturday. We celebrated Rob turning 50 with our family and friends! The rain held off and we were able to play in the yard.

Rob Holding Court

Rob works so hard on his garden and I'm happy he was able to show it off.

Rob checking out the green house with Brian

I had his school pictures, age range 8 - 15, copied onto card stock then cut them out. While we started to sing Happy Birthday everyone brought out their "masks" to surprise Rob with a crowd of his various years smiling back at him. (See video here.)

There were lots of stories, lots of laughs, lots of silliness. (And... lots of beer. Thanks Bridgeport Brewing!)

How lovely he looks in his gold curls

Jennifer's having a heck of a good time! (Thanks Jennifer)

After months of trying to get this party together it finally happened. Rob was happy and so were the guests. Whew! (I wish I had taken more pictures. But those darn hosting duties!)

Yesterday we attended my cousins daughter's 6th birthday and it was a hoot! Little Riley is amazing and she had a huge Mickey Mouse bounce house right in her front yard! Again, I missed taking pictures of when my Katie and Lily joined in the bounce house fun, but I heard they had a good time.

It was a great weekend! How was your weekend?

To read more Tuesday Truth see posts:

"When I Open My Mouth My Mom Comes Out" - Guest Blogger
"Growing Up With Fear" - Guest Blogger

If you would like to contribute a post as a Guest Blogger for Tuesday Truth please e-mail me at: annharrison@comcast.net

Why Did I Agree To Do This?

2013-05-25T12:27:00.001-07:00

Today I'm hosting a 50th birthday party for my husband.

It's not unusual for us to entertain, we do at least three times a year, but the fact that this is, what I feel, is an important marker in a lifetime, I am stressed about this party!

We have a tiny house, so when the weather is clear - and even better, sunny! - we almost double our space by being able to hang out side. But the weather has been cold and rainy the past week and I'm trying to figure out how people are going to fit into our tiny house. (Images of a Clown Car are loud and clear.)

I need to calm down. Our guests are our family and friends.

It's just that I want things to go well. I want it to be nice. I want it to go smoothly. I want, I want. Well, really, I just want Rob to have a really good time.

How To Stay Dry In A River

2013-05-22T19:37:00.000-07:00

"This looks like a great day to go to Oaks Amusement Park!" said none of the children and Chaperones that were at Oaks Park today.

Could it have been any colder, rainier, windier? Nope. Don't think so. Thank goodness I had heavy boots, huge raincoat and a large umbrella. (I was still wet and cold at the end of the day though.) If kids are being treated to an end-of-school year celebration at an amusement park, nothing can dampen their enthusiasm!

I'm participating in Sincerely, Paula's Wordless Wednesday. Click the button below to participate as well. Let me know if you do! :->

Tuesday Truth - When I Open My Mouth My Mom Comes Out

2013-05-21T06:57:00.000-07:00

For this week's "Tuesday Truth" I have a delightful Guest Post from Dominique at My Work At Home World:

Yesterday, I snuck outside for a cigarette while the little ones were napping (Yes, Dad, I'm quitting.) and as my boyfriend and I are standing on the front porch, a young boy comes tearing down the street in a sports car. I find myself shaking my fist and saying "Got Dang Kids". Which then lead to the realization (that's happening more and more lately) that I'm turning into my mom.

It's not a bad thing. I love my mom to death. She is an amazingly patient, nice, sweet lady who has been my rock forever. She's just... um.. not hip (Love you Mom! I swear I wasn't going to say old! lol.) and I'm only 26. Surely you don't turn into your mother before 30, right?!

It got me to thinking... Have I really made that transition from "cool, young person" to *gasp* my mom? Well, let's see. I'm in bed by 9 most nights, any later and I'm barely able to function with a smile the next day. If someone calls me at 11 pm, I'm flabbergasted as to how they are going to even wake up the next day. Not to mention, I'm also now mad because they just woke me up and probably my 3 month old, as well. I am always picking up after 2 kids (3, when you count the boyfriend). I'm constantly repeating myself, "Watch where you're going.", "Don't touch that.", "Make better decisions." When I get time to myself, I just want to sit and relax or take a nap. Yup, I'm my mom.

It's funny how that transition takes place. You almost don't even realize it, until it's too late. One day, you're listening to music too loud, racing down a neighborhood street and the next day, you're the one shaking your head when you hear music blasting as a kid's riding down your street. Boom. You're your mom.

Even looking back, I couldn't tell you when it happened exactly. I have 2 kids now, an 18 month old and a 3 month old. I know the transition started when I got pregnant with my first kid, my son. Everything my mom had told me in the past started to make sense. I started to understand where she was coming from, why she said the things she did. Then somewhere around the time I was pregnant with my daughter, I began repeating what my mom had told me to my son, began "nagging" about picking up after yourself, etc.

I wouldn't change it for anything. Having this little family changed my life in the most amazing, wonderful way. But, I have to tell you. It's still really weird to open my mouth and have my mother come out.

***Oh man. Do I know this feeling! I'm sure, if you're a parent, you can relate to Dominique's experience. In what ways are you like your mother? Thank you Dominique! You can read more about Dominique and her sweet family at My Work At Home World.

To read more Tuesday Truth see post:

~ Growing Up With Fear - Guest Blogger

~ My Birthmark

~ At This Age It's Still Possible To Party All Weekend

Hope It Was The Right Decision

2013-05-20T13:54:00.001-07:00

Starting the week off... with some encouragement.

L: Lily R: Her buddy Kaitlyn

Yesterday I shared that my 6th grader Lily was very anxious, very upset, about going to Outdoor School. (Post: Is It Right To Make Her Go?) Well, we got her packed and she made it on the bus. Here she is sitting next to her sweet friend, and cabin buddy, Kaitlyn. When the bus started to pull away from the curb I saw her take a deep breath and try to smile.

I've been sending her positive thoughts and vibes all day and night. I hope she has fun. (And I hope she enjoys the magazine of One Direction and the candy I hid in her duffel bag ;-> )

More "Starting The Week Off..." posts:

~ Worry About Yourself (LOVE this video!)

~ You Can't Buy Happiness But...

Over And Done With The Paneling

2013-05-20T13:35:00.000-07:00

Between the gold glass cupboard doors in the kitchen and the wood paneling in our family room, we've got the 1970's vibe alive and well in our home. For the purpose of my '70's theme party coming up this Saturday that's all fine and good but, for our day-to-day living, this look is definitely not our true style. We need to update our wall coverings.

I'm hoping to change the look of the paneled walls soon but I'm not sure about painting. While painting can be a quick solution toward making a change in a room I'm wanting a bit more detail, something that looks rich and with texture. (I hope my husband is going for the same look as I am, or this could be a longer process than I intend it to be ;->.) I've found absolutely gorgeous wall coverings at Atrium Wallcoverings and I believe my husband will be on board once he takes a look at their designs.

This is a project that's still in the "Idea" phase however, after seeing the various styles of design available, I am pleasantly surprised with their options and this project might get going sooner than we thought! I love patterns and I have a long list of favorites found on their site. Once our make-over begins I'll need to take pictures and show you how it turns out.

Is It Right To Make Her Go?

2013-05-19T10:54:00.001-07:00

My 6th grader heads to Outdoor School today. She is less than thrilled.

For those that aren't familiar, Outdoor School (see info/video here) is a program for 6th graders that takes their education out of the class room for 3 to 5 days and puts them in nature, living in cabins, learning about what makes our ecosystem tic. It's a fantastic opportunity for children whose parents aren't able to venture into our lovely forests, and see what true beauty really is. And we're are so lucky to have it all around us in the Pacific Northwest. And it's terrific for those children that spend too much time with the Kindle (Ahem, my Lily).

I know why she's nervous, Lily is really a home-body (much like her mother). For the past 3 years, when it comes to sleep-overs with her friends, she usually wants them to come here. When we have the opportunity to go out to dinner she complains that she'd rather eat at home. (Mom would rather have someone cook and clean FOR her sometimes, thank you very much.) She's so anxious about Outdoor School and it doesn't seem like anything I say, or her teacher says, or her big sister - who went 3 years ago - is helping. She's crying, which she hardly ever does. She talks about all of the bad things that can happen (her imagination is really working overtime).

My oldest, Katie, couldn't wait to go to Outdoor School! She was so excited and so prepared that I didn't feel any remorse for putting her on that school bus that headed down the road, filled with a loud group of 6th graders and 2 teachers (that I'm sure had some Valium tucked away somewhere). However this afternoon, I don't know how I'm going to feel. Her teacher is aware of Lily's anxiety, so I hope Lily will get the reassurance she needs when she's there. Her teacher has placed Lily's closest friend as her cabin mate, so that's gotta help.

I wish she was happier about this experience. I don't know how well I'll sleep tonight.

How To Look Good In An Orange Housecoat - Time To Party At The Virtual Girls Night Out!

2013-05-17T11:05:00.001-07:00

*The Friday night blog party is on! Time for the Virtual Girls Night Out. It's a party and a blog hop in one! Relax, put on your fuzzy slippers, make yourself a cocktail (Guest Bartender's tonight - One Martini At A Time!) and join the fun. Leave a comment so we know you've stopped by. We'll be sure to visit your blog and say 'Happy Virtual GNO!'*

Time For Some Tunes!

Phillip Phillips "Gone, Gone, Gone"

I have 3 favorite American Idols; Kelly Clarkson, David Cook and Phillip Phillips. (I don't know why David Cook didn't catch on after his win. He really tried on the touring circuit but it just didn't click. His cover of Mariah Carey's "Always Be My Baby" is fantastic!) Do you still stick around for American Idol? Or, have you left and moved toward The Voice?

Time For A Cocktail!

Our bartenders tonight are Carri Brown and Jessica Torres, famously known as the creators of the terrific blog "One Martini At A Time". The stars shined brightly when these two connected. Their enthusiasm for a well crafted cocktail is obvious when see their delicious recipes and beautiful photos. (I happen to think a well-lit martini is quite lovely.) Enjoy!

Whipped Lemon Martini

Ingredients:
2 ounces Whipped Cream Vodka
1½ ounces fresh squeezed lemon juice
1 ounce grenadine
¼ to ½ ounce simple syrup
Lemon wheel and maraschino cherry for garnish

Preparation:

Combine all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake and strain into a martini glass. Garnish with lemon wheel and maraschino cherry.

To check out more offerings visit the site One Martini At A Time. Cheers!

Time For A Party Game!

Let's say we're famous. Let's say we're invited to an important formal event. Fill in the blanks using the chart prompts.

I was drinking champagne and getting ready for my big night out. After putting on my (#1)__________ gown I noticed a huge stain on the front. I screamed at my assistant to find another dress immediately. In this town, at this time of day, all she could find last minute was a (#2)__________.

I took what I could get and made the best of it. And it turns out I rocked it! I was on everybody's Best Dressed list. It probably had nothing to do with the fact that my date was (#3)_____________.

#1 First letter of the city you live in:

A - E = Red Sequined
F - J = Silver Sheath
K - O = Lavender Chiffon
P - T = Black Strapless
U - Z = White Silk

#2 Month you were born:

Jan. - Mar. = Brown Velour Jumpsuit
Apr. - June = Purple MuuMuu
July - Sep. = Orange Housecoat
Oct. - Dec. = Yellow Swimsuit Cover-Up

#3 First letter of your first name:

A - E = George Clooney
F - J = Hugh Jackman
K - O = Ryan Gosling
P - T = Johnny Depp
U - Z = Channing Tatum

So, whattaya wearing? (I wonder how many of you will change the spelling of your first name to get the guy you want? ;-> )

Have fun at our Friday night party, the Virtual Girls Night Out! Leave your blog link in a comment so we know you've stopped by, we'll visit you with a 'Happy VGNO!' :->

Organizing Goals For The Month

2013-05-16T13:34:00.000-07:00

I'm participating in Mama Kat's (Pretty Much World Famous) Writer's Workshop. Today's chosen prompt:

Create a "May Bucket List" ... what will you accomplish this month.

Well, there are a few things that I've been undecided on for months now, and recently I got my spark back and am on track to get things done. The first one:

*My Husband's Birthday Party

Rob's birthday was in February, however he was in a play so having a party was proving to be a scheduling problem. We did go to his show on his birthday but no special party happened.

Me, Rob, Katie and Lily

Then, when the show was over, we had circumstances that made having a party not a top priority. Days goes by and no formal 50th celebration. That's just not right. I'm getting it together for the end of this month. It will be done!

*Moving My Review Blog From Blogger To Wordpress.

For years I've been reading the debate between blog platforms Blogger and Wordpress. The lingering question of which is best for your goals with your blog is always a good conversation starter. I visited Mom Bloggers Club on Monday morning specifically to get information on Wordpress and I couldn't believe my luck. A member had just signed up to join MBC 3 hours earlier and she is a self-professed Wordpress enthusiast. What luck! I have been receiving tremendous, generous guidance from Sarah Franzt "Tips And Tricks Of A WordPress Mom". I expect to get started on my blog move in a couple of days. (I'm nervous! ) If you've moved your blog from Blogger to WordPress.org I would love to hear about your experience.

*My Scentsy Business:

I have been a Scentsy consultant for over a year and I still enjoy the product very much. I sell in a very laid back way. I have a history with direct sales and I just can't load up my gear and deliver a show in front of women who would rather drink and talk to each other then listen to what I'm saying any more. (I get it, I get it. I would rather be sitting and sipping too then listen to someone selling their wares!) Instead of heading to someones home I hold Open Houses at my place and we all eat, sip and sniff away at the Scentsy fragrances.

Thing is, I stopped having parties about 6 months ago. And, if you're familiar with direct sales business, you need to make a quota quarterly I wasn't sure if I was going to keep it up but, gosh darn it, I really like this product! So, I've put an order together and I'm having a party in a week. I'm excited!

Buy From Me, Delivered Directly To Your Door!

So there it is, my "May Bucket List" of things I will accomplish this month. Again, if you have made the blog move from Blogger to WordPress.org I would love to hear about your experience. And if you're participating in the Writer's Workshop let me know :->

Do My Words Mean Nothing?!

2013-05-15T08:28:00.001-07:00

Does the phrase 'Put your shoes away' mean nothing to my family?!?

Oh wait, some of those are mine ;->

I'm participating in Sincerely, Paula's Wordless Wednesday. To participate click the button below. Let me know if you do! :->

Tuesday Truth - Growing Up With Fear

2013-05-14T09:22:00.003-07:00

I'm very happy to have a Guest Post from Kaui at Organizing Military Mommy. Her story:

"Growing Up With Fear"

I grew up in a family that promoted fear on a regular basis:

"Never talk to strangers because they could hurt you."

"Don't take candy from your friends because they might try to molest you."

"Don't eat too much because then you could get fat and no one would like you."

These were the kinds of things I heard from my parents and extended family all the time. To top it all off, my family was strict. VERY strict. If you stepped out of line just a little you were going to get yelled at by someone. Stepping out of line a lot warranted some heavy punishments and hours of lecturing that occasionally lasted until 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning.

As you may have guessed, by the time I was an adult I was scared...of everything! Scared of the dark, scared of talking to people, scared of getting married, scared of having a family...just to name a few.

WHEN REALITY HITS

When I finally did get married and started a family my fears increased tenfold.

Then my greatest nightmare was realized: at 5 months pregnant with my first baby my husband received word that he was going to be recalled into active duty and sent to Iraq when our Daughter was just going to be 6 weeks old. My husband had gotten out of the military just 6 months after we married, so I had no idea what it meant or felt like to be a military wife, and I had no clue what it was like to have my husband go off to war.

The military was not going to pay to move me to the station he was going to be associated with, we were living hours from the closest duty station, and our closest family member was over 6 hours away.

I spent many nights crying myself to sleep from that point on. Things were going so well, why did this have to happen to me? How was I going to take care of this baby by myself for 1 whole year? What if my husband dies? My head was spinning.

When friends of mine had their baby showers I ended up running to the bathroom several times during the event to compose myself. Why do they get to have their babies with their husbands by their side and I don't? It didn't seem fair.

OVERCOMING FEAR

And then an amazing thing happened: my relationship with the God of the Bible became closer than I ever expected. Through the washing of His Word and His revelation of the truth based on what it truly means rather than what man says it means, I became strong. As He showed me how deep His love goes my fears began to disappear one by one.

Now I am thrilled to be helping mommies all over the world overcome their fears and step into their potential through my blog. I share military life, organizing tips, and mommy adventures for free. Why don't you join me?

Organizing you to FREEDOM!
D. Kaui Eiklor
Professional Organizer

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So, how about you? Have you had a similar experience to Kaui's? Has fear played a large part in your life? After reading her story I am beyond grateful that my family didn't remind me constantly how scary the world can be. I mean, we did have talks, there would be discussions. And, I didn't grow up scared of being yelled at over any little thing. Can you relate to Kaui's story?

To read more Tuesday Truth posts visit:

~ My Birthmark

~ Support Group For Actor's Spouses

Worry About Yourself!

2013-05-13T10:25:00.000-07:00

Starting The Week Off... with a laugh:

Yes ma'am! Too funny

To see more Starting The Week Off" entries visit:

You Can't Buy Happiness, But...

White Lilac In 40 Seconds

When Good Can Be Perfect

2013-05-12T10:43:00.000-07:00