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How to Give a Woman Great Oral Sex

2012-10-07T09:14:00.001-07:00

How To Go Down on Her
The Art of Oral Sex on a Woman

Giving great oral sex means knowing your partner's likes and dislikes which is made much easier through communication. This may seem like an awkward thing to discuss, but done in the right way, it can simply turn into talking dirty to one another and make things even hotter.

Saying things like "I love when you flick your tongue like that," or "I love the way you feel in my mouth, do you like when I do this... or this... baby?" can make things hotter as well as informative.

Preparation For Oral Sex

Taking a moment to clean up before oral sex is always a good idea as it can prevent Urinary Tract Infections and make things more carefree once done. The following are some quick tips on how to go about doing this-

Clean Your Hands
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. This applies to both the giver and receiver as often women will play with themselves while receiving oral stimulation and they too should have clean hands.

Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra.

The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria that is harmful and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual.

Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.

Shorten Finger Nails
Trim fingernails before going down as using fingers is common and this is done, so as to not cause pain or tears.

Atmosphere
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.

Cleaning Your Anus
While you may not be thinking about it now, women who are going to receive cunnilingus should clean their anus as well as the vaginal opening. This is because the vagina and anus are extremely close together and sexual activity can easily bring harmful bacteria to enter the urethra causing an infection.

Try to clean your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water before any anal activities. A great alternative are baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.

Psychological Issues For A Woman

There are many women who love the beauty of their vaginas from the way they look to the way the smell, however many women also feel negatively about their "love flowers."

If you are with a woman and planning on performing oral sex on her she may need reassurance that her genitals are beautiful, unique and a real turn on for you. Sex will be more pleasurable for her if she is relaxed and feels you are turned on by what you are doing.

For those of you receiving a lapping of your labia, let me assure you that all women get self conscious of their vaginal area once in a while. Just like men worry about how big their penis is; women worry about how tight they are. We also worry about whether our partner would prefer us shaved or au natural and finally the biggest concern for most women is the smell factor.

Now, there are many who would like to assure you that you should just accept when you aren't your freshest and so should your partner, but honey, I can assure you that washing up before hand if you are experiencing bad odor will make the experience better for all involved. If it is really bad and has been going on for a few weeks even after washing you may have an infection and it is time for a trip to your OBGYN.

ALL women's vaginal scent will change during different times of the month... it is normal and natural. However, if your arm pit was having an "off" day you would use some common sense and shower using soap and maybe even use some deodorant. Same applies to your downstairs "girl flower." Avoid the use of feminine deodorant sprays and other perfumed products if they irritate and dry your skin.

Psychological Issues For A Man

There are in some cultures a stigma that men who perform oral sex on a woman are less macho for doing so. My advice... get over it. There is nothing about a man going down on a woman that makes him less masculine... in fact most women will tell you that we find that VERY sexy.

The other issues for men is that they are concerned about performance) which hopefully this article will assist with) and again... the infamous smell factor. This is no different than a woman going down on a man who had not kept his hygiene up and gets a strong whiff of "ball rot." We all need to to take care of ourselves and for those men who find themselves with a woman who isn't... try taking an erotic shower with her, where you wash her as part of the foreplay. Either that or have her read an article like this one so she can begin to think about that factor for you!

A question I get asked often is about female ejaculation and whether or not it is safe to consume. The answer to that is yes, it is safe as long as you recognize that the risk factors for STDs is the same as your ejaculate so if practicing safe sex is of concern, please take that into consideration and use a dental dam.

Negative Attitude-

Imagine your woman lying on the bed. You pull her panties down as though you are trying to just get down to business. You open your mouth and begin methodically licking, going up and down with no variation, no passion and secretly, you just can't wait for this to be done. Then when she does orgasm, you demand your turn or get on with the mandatory cuddling you feel you have to do to appease her.

Positive Attitude-

Imagine your woman lying on the bed. You come in slowly from her ankles smiling at her while keeping eye contact. You teasingly strip the clothes off her entire body looking her over as though you can hardly contain yourself, while licking and rubbing her everywhere you touch. You slide your body against her, then downward now so your genitals are positioned over her knee while you toy with her inner thigh and pubic area. You run your fingers through her pubic hair and over her mound. Slowly you lick the outer lips of her vagina softly while gazing into her eyes showing your desire. Pulling her lips softly apart with your fingers you take some warming, flavored lubricant and run it up and down her opening and over her clit like pouring hot chocolate syrup onto a sundae you are about to devour. Licking her inner lips lightly and then sucking softly on them you move your finger up and down her now slickened pussy and use the other hand to keep her lips spread open as you slide your tongue deeper and deeper into her. You progress to teasing her clit with your tongue while you grind your genitals against her leg and finger her g-spot. Then after a variety of tantalizing techniques you eagerly await her orgasm letting her cum moisten your lips and face.

Are you seeing a difference here? Even if you decide to give a "Quickie," your attitude will allow you to be the best she's ever had. Women, just like men, want to feel desired, so to make her feel like orally pleasuring her is repulsive to you is certainly a "blow" to her ego. Show her that you desire her no matter what sexual activity you do and you will really make it fantastic.

Safe Oral Sex

There is a wide range of STDs you can get from sexual activity. At present there is some debate about genital warts developing in the digestive track and there is always the fear of HIV/AIDS infection. Always think SAFE SEX.

Dental dams are often used in sexual situations to prevent sexually transmitted disease for cunnilingus (oral contact with female genitals) and analingus (oral/anal contact). They are six-inch squares of latex and were first used by oral surgeons. This is the best protection to prevent genital herpes infecting your lips, or a systemic yeast infection.

Dental dams are used by those who want to practice safer sex techniques by placing them between your tongue and your lovers labia or anus. For those of you who are too embarrassed to purchase one on-line or in a store, you can always purchase a latex glove and make your own.

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How to Prepare to Finger Her

Clean Hands
One of the things you do not want to leave your lover with is a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). To avoid this you will want to make sure that you hands are washed well so that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into her vaginal opening or her urethra

Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
The urethra (where the urine comes out) is where UTIs occur and if left untreated they can turn into a serious infection that spreads into the kidneys and should be treated with antibiotics. For all you women out there that have had one... you know that it can be quite painful and make all that sexual activity that caused it become a distant memory fast.

Shorten & Clean Under Finger Nails
This should be painfully obvious as to why, but make sure to trim fingernails, so as to not to cut her when you are fingering her. By also cleaning under your finger nails you are ridding your hands of bacteria that lives under your nails as well. A woman often loves to be fingered and having her lover keep her pleasured and not in pain is always a good idea.

Lubricant
Most of the time if you rub the clitoris or start with some sexy foreplay your lovely lady will be ready to go with a naturally lubricated VA-jay-jay but sometimes when you have been fingering her for a while, using a sex toy or if she is experiencing effects from a prescription medication or hormonal imbalance it becomes difficult to self lubricate, and you may want to introduce a lubricant.

Hot Tips
If you really want to surprise her with some sexual excitement, you can have clitoral or gspot stimulation gel or lubricants on your fingers before hand which will add to the pleasure of the experience. Using a finger vibe can also enhance intensity. We will show you our recommended ones later in this article.

Atmosphere
If you want to create a sensual atmosphere for sexual play than you can start off with a sensual massage or even drawing her a bath. You can go straight into fingering from the massage or even in the bath. If you do finger her during a bath or in water, you should be aware that doing so may pull her natural lubricants out and may start to chafe so be careful about doing it too quickly if that is the case.

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2012-09-19T05:34:00.001-07:00

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Various Hand Job Techniques

2012-09-19T05:17:00.001-07:00

Milking
This is the most common approach. Use one or both hands to milk his penis as you slide up and down it. Speed and pressure may vary.

Making A Fire
Rub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of lubricant or light friction for this technique.

Head Of The Class
Hold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well lubricated palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the head in a back and forth or rotating motion.

Ball & Shaft
With the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and massage the testicles softy. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.

Twist & Shout
Pull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand use a corkscrew motion as you slide up the penis. The twist can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip.

Double Stroke
Use one hand to lightly wrap around the base of the penis and softly slide up to the head, before that hand leaves the head have the other hand grasp the base of the penis and do the same thing so that both your hands are taking turns grasping and sliding up his penis. This motion can also be reversed to go down his penis rather than upward. Pressure and speed can vary.

Triple Delight
Use one hand to play with his anus (just play with the outside unless he is into anal penetration), while the other slides up his balls and penis ending with added attention to the head. This works really well with fellatio doing the same thing, except using one hand for the anus, one hand for his balls and your mouth to his penis.

Hand Job Winning Tip

2012-09-19T05:13:00.003-07:00

Where Is The Most Sensitive Part of A Man's Penis?

Ahhhh, the Frenulum (fren-yuh-lum). This is the most sensitive part of a man's penis. Knowing that this is the most sensitive part of a man's penis it is easy to see why this is a great place to focus your efforts. A great way to stimulate this part of the penis is by using the thumb to rub it while lubed or unlubed; enclosing it with your hand in a circle and lightly pulling on the head as you massage your thumb into the frenulum underneath. To intensify this, take your other hand and hold his penis at the base, forcing the blood to the head (which will increase the intensity of the sensations).

How to Give a Great Handjob

2012-09-19T05:08:00.000-07:00

Giving a great hand job begins with the mind as all seduction begins there. Making the context for the hand job feel erotic is about your attitude first and foremost.

Just like women, men want to feel that you want them and doing things like whispering naughty things in their ear while you slowly ease your hand south is much better than jerking his penis out and mechanically going up and down with your hand.
A romantic atmosphere is always nice- scented candles, sensual music and a great stimulating lubricant always come in 'handy'. Of course those things are not necessary to a good hand job, they are simply icing on the cake.
However, if you are like many and enjoy the icing, I would suggest keeping a sample size lube in your wallet. If you have a purse or man bag, you can keep some hand wipes for easy clean up afterward. After all, things when done well sexually can get a bit messy.

Hand Job Pressure

The best way to start is gently and then gradually slide your hand up and down with a bit firmer grip, making sure to notice if he is enjoying the added pressure or if it is getting to be too much.

Communicate- Ask him in a soft whisper if it feels good, does he want it harder, or softer. Let him tell you what he wants. Many men will want it softer and then want increased intensity to as the hand job progresses. However, many factors will influence this, including personal preference, so it is always best to ask in a seductive way if this is a first time and/or it has never been discussed.

Hand Job Lubricant

Hand jobs are greatly enhanced with the use of a lubricant, so if you have one, use it. If you do not have access to a lubricant, using a substitute like hand cream, cooking oil or petroleum jelly will do.

If you use an alternative, remember that should you continue to sexual intercourse that a condom will not be safe to use unless the lubricant is water-based.

Also, make sure to avoid any types of oils or products that have skin irritants in them. Even using something with essential oils (like cinnamon, orange, etc.) can cause irritation and inflammation to the skin.

If you do not have access to a lubricant or do not want one, hand jobs must be done with more care as the friction to the tender skin of the penis can become irritating and painful.

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Six ways to give a better blow job

2012-09-17T14:05:00.001-07:00

Give more eye contact

It’s true - the simple act of looking at your partner while giving a blow job is a huge turn-on. It’s proven that men are aroused by the thought that their partner is enjoying themselves, so a few seconds of eye contact followed by low moans will drive him wild.

Get in the worship position

It sounds like a cliché but kneeling in front of your man really is the most pleasurable position for him. When he’s standing his balls are the most sensitive making any sensations more intense.

Give him a tantric massage

Before you start pleasuring him rub in circular motions around his love handles and down towards his thighs, moving from back to front. This encourages blood flow to his penis making the area incredibly sensitive prior to fellatio.

Take your time

Contrary to popular belief, men don’t want you to just ‘get it over with’. Although orgasm is the final goal, it doesn’t matter how long it takes to get there! Try teasing him first; kissing his inner thighs, massaging his balls and rubbing his perineum before moving to his penis.

Get in a rhythm

Start slowly using one hand, then speed-up, then slow down using two hands. The different rhythms and pressure will intensify the experience for him and should help to make each blow job different.

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Men’s sex toys aren’t as popular as female toys, but they can really add some spice to your foreplay. Cock rings fit snugly at the base of the shaft and are designed to stimulate the penis while restricting blood flow slightly – making him harder for longer.

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2012-09-14T21:59:00.003-07:00

Making Them Last & Keeping Them Clean
A good sex toy can last a long time, if you care for it properly. Below are resources so you can make the most of your sex toys and keep them running smoothly.

1. Cleaning
For those who wonder if they can get STDs or infections from sex toys, the answer is yes. You can get an STD if you share your sex toys and you can get an infection from sharing your sex toys or even using them without properly cleaning them just by yourself.
The basic rule of thumb is that you do not want to do anything with a sex toy that you would not do with part of your body. Properly cleaning a sex toy or using separate condoms for each partner will help avoid spreading unwanted bacteria, mold. mildew, fungus or viruses - just as wearing a condom will during sex.

2. Battery
Many sex toys require batteries, so we have put together a few reminders on how to use them in your sex toys most effectively. Many points we make in this article are often not well known and are important to keep your sex toys running well.
It can mean the difference between having a sex toy for a few months versus a few years. We also cover installation issues below as well.

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Did you know that not storing your sex toys separately can cause damage to them? It's true, some toys left to touch one another can have chemical reactions that destroy the toys and make them unsafe to use. This is why we recommend keeping them separated from one another and offer bacteria resistant bags in which to store them.

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2012-09-14T11:30:00.004-07:00

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2012-09-14T03:32:00.002-07:00

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2012-09-14T03:17:00.004-07:00

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2012-09-14T03:07:00.000-07:00

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