tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3266425460004762042011-11-27T19:28:27.209-05:00Self Sabotage, Psychological Reversal and Approach Avoidance... same thing, why we screw up or choke at crucial moments.David Bruce Jrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11541537639894691475noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125ApproachAvoidanceAkaSelfSabotagehttp://feedburner.google.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-326642546000476204.post-79410408999031205392011-08-16T15:20:00.002-04:002011-08-16T15:24:56.286-04:002011-08-16T15:24:56.286-04:00Sabotage is... Part of you doesn't want an other part of you do/be/get or have something. it's like describing a ship by the wake it leaves as it travels thru the water, and you can't see the ship, it's there all right, the evidence of just how big it really is is plain to see, the "xhip"...<br/> <br/> [[ This is a content summary only. 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