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The ZIPPER and the ZAPPER - Don't Get Burned in Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships

2009-03-20T09:26:00.000-07:00

When it comes to love, sex and lasting relationships, what do Bug Zappers show us? You may be surprised!

Ah, the crisp, fresh, gentle night air.

How well I remember those childhood nights of running across grassy meadows chasing lightening bugs.

Inevitably, I couldn't stop those nightly interruptions to my playful solitude.

BZZZZZZZZZZ - ZZZZZZAAAAAAAAPPP!

Followed again by,

BZZZZZZZZZZ - ZZZZZZAAAAAAAAPPP!

Smoke, a little flame, the aroma of fried bugs filtering through the air -I remember asking myself, "Why don't they just stop flying into those crazy things?"

You ever spend any time watching those Bug Zappers with ultraviolet lights that bugs just can't resist?

Do you know that when it comes to the body, sex and lasting relationships, they speak volumes?

I was again reminded of all this while watching the movie, "A Bug's Life" with my, then, four-year old. You may remember the scene. There's a camping trailer in the distance with a light on the front porch as two bugs fly in the night, conversing in dialogue.

Bug 1 alarmingly screams at Bug 2,"Larry, no! Don't look at the light!"

Bug 2 states in slow motion, "I c-a-n'-t h-e-l-p i-t, i-t'-s j-u-s-t s-o b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l."

ZZZZZZAAAAAAAAPPP!

I did some research on Bug Zappers. Care to know what I found out?

A Bug Zapper, more formally known as an electronic insect-control system, lures bugs into it and kills them with electricity. They have fluorescent light bulbs, usually of mercury, neon or ultraviolet (black light). Two wire meshes surround the light bulb and are electrified with a transformer to kill the insects.

It works because many insects see ultraviolet light better than visible light. They are more attracted to it, because the flower patterns that attract insects are revealed in ultraviolet light.

Isn't that interesting?

The Zapper appeals to a bug's natural instinct and appetite, makes them feel that wrong is right, and then lures the bug into pain and misery by a fire that burns instead of a fire that warms.

Where am I going with this?

We do not talk about it much these days, but when it comes to the body, love, sex and lasting relationships, there is a fire that warms and a fire that burns. Just like the bug being lured to the Zapper, many are being lured by their natural instincts, confused by the misinformation that abounds, and then burned by the heat. There are many people that have not learned to control the zipper, and just like bugs, are getting burned by the zapper.

You see, when it comes to love, sex, and lasting relationships, you need to know some things:

You are being seduced by an over-emphasis on the bedroom and the body
The heart longs to be wanted for a lifetime of nights and not just a night of a lifetime
Being full-of-brandy, eye candy and toys-for-boys is not where women get their value
When it comes to the body and relationships, "tuning in" will rock your world far more than "turning on" every time
You can chase desire if you wish, but the real longing of the heart is for love, companionship, oneness and intimacy
Living for the moment can cause you to miss the lifetime
The current trend of making sex more about recreation than relationship leaves you wanting
There is more to your body and sex than downloading 3 x 5 images into computer screens, marketed images in glossy pages of magazines, "Girls Gone Wild" videos and "Spring Break" parties
You are DESIGNED FOR DESIRE, but you also DESIRE FOR DESIGN

Without naming names, recent history has shown us many people of fame and notoriety who have gotten zzzzzzzzzaaappped. Maybe reading this will help you not be among them.

If you can get a grasp on these things, you will be on your way to better relationships and better sex. But if you are blind to these things, you could be next in line to be burned by the heat.

After all, When we learn to control the zipper, we have better control of the zapper.

By Stanley Leffew

Stanley J. Leffew is the Author of, "How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime" Find out why you are DESIGNED FOR DESIRE, but you also DESIRE FOR DESIGN and why so many are living for the moment but missing the lifetime at http://advice-for-lifetime-relationships.com/lasting-relationships.html

If You Think You Have Met the Man of Your Dreams Use the Best People Finder to Check Him Out

2009-03-20T09:24:00.000-07:00

Ah, new love, it really does make you feel as if you are on cloud nine. It is a beautiful feeling, but is true love really blind? The sad thing is that bad things happen to millions of women who do not use simple tools like people finders to help to find out the truth of the matter. Sadly, many of these women who fail to use people finders find out the man of their dreams is really a nightmare.
What would you do if you found out that this dream man was married? Many women think no way that could not be. This is something no woman wants to think about when she is head over heels in a new relationship. But as females, it's something we need to consider. Methods exist for finding out if your man is who and what he claims to be. Lots of different sorts of people finders website are out there so you can find out the true facts.

A name is all that is necessary on the best people finder sites. When you first meet someone you are not going to have access to their life history and other information that is required to find out if someone has been married. The best people finder websites are so easy that with just a small piece of info you can find everything you need to know about the man of your dreams.

There are all sorts of valuable information on the people finders sites which you can access very quickly. Including in the two are marriage certificates and divorce certificates. This way you can find out if he is telling the truth. These services give you, among other things, access to criminal and civil court records. And so, if he was been involved in some questionable things in the past, you really want to know about it.

No one wants the uncertainty of not knowing if the person they have come to care about is telling the truth or lying. The last thing anyone would want is to become attached to someone then find out they are living a double life. That is why it is so important to use the best people finder available to find out the truth before things get to serious. If you really want to protect yourself you need to know the truth about other women who may be in your man's life. A precaution you can use to avoid trusting and loving someone who doesn't deserve it. Now, when your new sweetheart tells you their divorce is final, you can know, for sure, if they're telling the truth.

By Mike Hickmon

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Relationship Advice Men Can Count On

2009-03-20T09:20:00.000-07:00

I am a happy man so I feel comfortable giving relationship advice men can count on. Men experience significant changes in life on the road to greater relationships, responsibility, and maturity. We learn that powerful emotions exist beyond the bedroom. With hearts like ancient warriors, men drunk on bravado and independence had yet to earn their sensitive stripes. Men know power, prestige, and authority - not tenderness, compassion, and "humble pie". As we get older, the things that bring tears to our eyes become the ones that help us grow.

A Word on Commitment

Commitment means more than "showing up" for a relationship. It means being there when it matters most, when times are tough and your partner needs a reassuring hug or a kind word of encouragement. It means building bridges to a greater sense of security, counting on that person to be around for more than just physical affection. This is where lovers become friends, the opposite of what we might expect. Do not discount the power of simple conversation to make people feel more connected, more secure, more in tune with you.

Personal Space

Personal space is a huge issue for people in relationships. As a man, you will want yours, so you need to respect that she also needs hers. Your partner may have friends and family she has relied on for emotional support, relationship advice, and companionship. These are people she has known for years. They are a part of who she is, and a mutual respect of this social breathing room will cement a sense of appreciation between you. Respect not only her, but also the people, places, and things that make her who she is.

Interests and Hobbies

Interests and hobbies play a part in successful relationships. The two of you may not have many, but they can be very different from each other. For example, your idea of relaxing may be to watch the game on TV, while her idea of a relaxing time is taking the dog on a nature walk. You may like loud music, while she prefers a quiet evening with a good book. She may be the kind of person who likes the arts, while you could care less about musicals and plays. You need to recognize that both of your interests and hobbies are important. In a successful relationship, you must learn the art of dancing through conflict and compromise, not fighting through it. You must find common ground and learn to appreciate something about the things you are not really into. The benefits of having a happy significant other are worth trying something different. You may find that you like it.

Final Word

In a nutshell, this is relationship advice men can count on:

Be patient. with yourself and with her. Love and happiness is like a gravel road - the more you tread its surface, the smoother it becomes.

Look for signals . Pay attention to visual clues, body language, not what she says, but how she says it. You will soon gain an intuition as to how she is feeling, and what you can do to either turn it around or let it shine like the sun.

Learn to let go. Do not smother her or try to force your way as the only way. Growing into each other is the slow and steady course to staying together.

Money is not everything. Money is just the most common point of contention in a relationship... Where it comes from, where it goes, why is there not enough. Despite the rumor, money cannot fix relationships so do not expect it to.

Little things mean a lot. It does not have to be a diamond ring. A card, a flower, a kiss, a bit of free verse, a special trip on the way home. If you are creative, you can bring her closer than ever before.

Monte Jamison, Founder
PickMySpouse
CommonSenseNation

By Monte Jamison

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Romance Tips to Win Her Heart

2009-03-20T09:17:00.000-07:00

Most of us value a little romance in our lives. Love without romance is like an unfinished Symphony; it's beautiful but somehow you feel something is missing. In order to truly appreciate how to create the magic of romance, we need to appreciate the subtle chemistry involved in making a connection with someone that may lead to a romantic opportunity.

In today's world it is often difficult to meet someone to be romantic with. However it is certainly worth the effort and a few well-placed romantic tips can be a great help.

Patience is a Virtue

To make a good impression with romantic gestures, it is helpful to have an insight into the romantic desires of your partner. This may take a little time, a little subtle research and a degree of sensitivity. It is true that communication is the gateway to a healthy relationship, for without it you have no idea of your partners view of the world or what they would like to get out of the relationship. Of course this level of intimacy in conversation can sometimes be a little tricky to start with, so it's best to take one's time and let it happen naturally. There is a natural flow to development of romance which cannot be hurried or forced.

Romance and love are vital ingredients to any intimate relationship. Indeed, without them, we are really just going through the motions. Although, romance and love usually go together, sadly romance is often neglected when love has been established. This is quite common and can often be the source of distress or dissatisfaction between couples, especially for the female partner. True romance is all about considering the feelings of your partner and being responsive to his or her needs and desires. A lack of romance can often be interpreted as a lack of interest and desire.

Although there are traditional symbols of romantic love in our culture, like candles, chocolate and roses, these are really just tokens. Truly, the most important thing is to offer a sense of 'I treasure you' in your romantic gestures whatever they may be.

A romantic partner finds personalized ways to charm their lover. There are no formulas to follow in becoming a romantic, but there are many resources available that offer some great suggestions on what has worked for others. You can use these romance stories as inspiration in your own quest for romantic ideas and gestures. Oftentimes we limit our thinking when it comes to romance and go for the safe and traditional route. However it's the unexpected expression of intimacy from our partner or date that makes the greatest impact and often proves the most rewarding.

Monotony is a romance killer!. Getting out of a the rut of everyday routine and planning a special surprise romantic experience can be a great start. Maybe go up to the mountains for a spa weekend, or be impulsive and fly to a European city to attend an art exhibition for example, if you know that your partner would appreciate it.

However, romance can also be found in the simplest of things as long as you are sharing a heart to heart connection with your partner in the experience.

Intimacy is often broken down into "into me you see"... and that is the heart of the matter.

A final note to consider is that romance is not a spectator activity. Be a player, be creative, be sensitive and just dive in and enjoy the adventure. Your partner will love you for it.

By Bo Collins

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How Honest Should We Be?

2009-03-20T09:13:00.000-07:00

My grade school classmate Edwin has his Friendster shoutout like this: "Honesty does not always bring a response of love, but it is absolutely essential to it." This is very true, but how could love be expressed through honesty if we neglect our obligation to spare someone's feelings? How could honesty express concern if we only think of ourselves? How could someone have the faith if somebody has raw honesty?

I have heard a story about a man who admits to his loved one how he had wronged her. The man has been deceiving his wife all his life and decided one day to change his ways. The man seemed sincerely moved about his judgment and began to confess his unfaithfulness. His wife was aghast with his revelation and they started not to speak. A week after revealing to his wife that he has often committed adultery over the years, his wife went under the care of a psychoanalyst at a mental hospital. As a result of this tactless honesty everything about his life collapsed.

What can we take from this? Disclosing the truth may be healthy and most often will not harm anyone, but there are times a thoughtless honesty can be very devastating to a relationship. We must always remember that true honesty should not be delayed. It is just like an icicle; once it thaws that is the end of it. It becomes an old sin. Confession of old sins may free the burden of guilty conscience and may bring a self-upright feeling but it is comparable to throwing up on someone. It may make the confessor feels good but it does not do much for the recipient, it hurts to the bone. It is often times like a painkiller that gives a temporary sedation than a solution. Sometimes honesty can be very self-centered thing, some people use honesty as a way to thump people under the outfit of a good person.

I believe one should have to confess to God before anyone else and makes recompenses to the hurt party. A person has all the rights to be honest about his belief and intentions but he must not disregard his responsibilities not to offend anyone .It is not reasonable to liberate ones self just to get the load off the chest. Hardly ever ,people would think that lying is the best for any situation but clearly I realized that both telling a lie, and the truth has what it takes of causing harm. I also realized that honesty is not the highest value in the Christian life. It is not the best policy either. People may argue me about this but the highest values for me are love, faith, concern and the best policy is integrity. On my personal interpretation honesty and integrity have key distinctions.

Look what is happening to our politics now, everyone seems to have a piece of truth to say because of self interest and greed. This could happen to any sort of situation or relationship. How can honesty be admirable and commendable if we are not willing to gamble harm to ourselves? Sometimes the reason why people want to tell what they know is exactly to loosen their pain and shift onto somebody else or to attain their selfish motives. Integrity saves the feelings of others by counseling our secrets. It is conviction of a true honest man of what is right and wrong. Integrity is an unselfish virtue... There is evidently always a time to keep silent and say nothing. Even Jesus Christ at one point did not say to his 12 disciples the truths that were beyond their comprehensions. Jesus could have answered the truth to all the charges against him but he kept still and to Pilate's astonishment He just said . . ."no more."

The effort to say the un-embellished truth sometimes boomerang and may lead to a rocky path to a weakened or worst scenario - broken relationship. Though I believe that honesty does not glorify sin nor justify it, it is sometimes the cruelest game. You hurt someone as you seem to feel self righteous about at the same time. How honest should we be?

Confess your sins to the Lord and you will be forgiven, confess them to man and you will be laughed at.

By Jessie Landingin

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How to Keep a Girl Interested in You - Here Are the Remarkable Tricks Which Work Insanely Well

2009-03-20T09:08:00.000-07:00

Girls are fickle minded; they often fail to understand whom they like and whom they don't like. Also they tend to lose their interest quite easily, which isn't a good sign for all you guys. So if you want a girl to take great interest in you, you need to be a real charmer; someone whom girls would always like to be with. Girls often find guys to be very interesting in the first few meetings and then they feel bored; that's their basic nature you see. Though even you guys don't like to stick to just one girl for life, but you like to be surrounded by them all the time, don't you?

Let's see how you can keep a girl interested in you, always.....

Limit Your Availability-

If you are available for your girl all the time, she'll not like you after a month. So try t say no to her even if you are not busy elsewhere. This will generate interest and curiosity as well. She'll be thinking what you are up to and whom you are with. These things can make you more and more interesting. After all, the lesser the better; girls cannot afford to take such guys for granted.

Have It Your Way-

Girls often nag and tend to have things the way they want. But you should also open your mouth instead of abiding by their commands. Do what you like and convince her to do the same as well. If she likes your way of life and entertainment she'll stick to you for long. Be unpredictable at times and she'll be even more interested in you. Guys who are predictable are very boring as well.

Keep Secrets-

While conversing with your girl, try to give interesting twists and turns and don't just speak about everything, keep some secrets to be told later. Keep secrets about your interests, your likings and about something which she would be interested.

By Rahul Talwar

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Jealousy Problems - Don't Let it Drive You Crazy

2009-03-20T09:03:00.000-07:00

The emotion of jealousy is very addictive and powerful, so much so that it takes over a person's personality where it can literally destroy a love two people once had together. It is definitely not love, because love's main components are trust, hope, unconditional love as well as a physical, mental and spiritual connection that is very special. Love makes people feel cherished and happy, it does not bring people down.

So when do you classify a person as overly-possessive or jealous bordering on the paranoid? People who have a borderline or acute personality disorder, schizophrenia or bipolar disorder are mostly inclined to feel insecurity and over protectiveness. They exhibit overly dramatic, exaggerated and antisocial behavior and are not in complete command of their emotions.

In a normal and balanced relationship, healthy insecurity and over protectiveness can occur, so they are not a cause for too much concern. But if these traits invade a rational boundary, they inflict tension and place pressure on the partners in the relationship. A partner may turn into from a pleasant easy going person into a rude, controlling individual who can become abusive to the partner, physically or verbally.

How do I decide if my partner is too insecure too possessive that it just does not seem normal? Most people know that if their partner is constantly checking up on them either through numerous phone calls, texting, and so on there is something wrong. When your partner is with you they are constantly questioning you on your activities and where you spent the day.

In some examples, extreme jealousy is practiced through violence as in the case of jealous individuals who can easily express sexually or physically violent towards their partner. Any individual who is in this type of relationship should end the relationship immediately and seek a safe shelter away from the violent individual. No one should have to live in fear in a relationship that is full of jealousy and violence, and this type of relationship is not an expression of love.

If your partner is not violent but they are too possessive, try to discuss the root of the insecurity. Many times controlling behavior and over-possessiveness in a relationship are a learned reaction. Some parents or friends have lived this toxic form of existence, so jealousy feels like a normal and comfortable emotion to express.

If you can get through by communicating with your partner emphasize how important trust is for you in a relationship and that you view it as a sign of love. If this does not work, and your partner is still insecure try setting up an appointment with a relationship or family counselor. Hopefully your partner will want to please you, and work on your relationship to make it more secure and committed.

By Zach Johnsen

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How to Make Your Relationship Last

2009-03-20T08:58:00.000-07:00

Having a lasting relationship is something that most people desire in their lives. They would like to know that they have someone that they can count on. Someone that will be there for them and someone to have fun with. Enjoying your partner is a key to building a relationship that lasts.

When you are able to have fun with someone, you will be less likely to want to have petty arguments or to allow the small things in life to break up your bond that you have with your loved one.

MAKE IT A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE...

Make it a priority in your life to have a fun and carefree attitude when you are with your loved one. Don't allow the worries and the stresses from your work life or your home life to break the bond that the two of you share. Allow yourself the opportunities to kick back and have a good time together.

A good thing to do is to make it a habit to devote at least one night per week to just enjoying your time together. Preferably you should strive for more than one night, but at least commit to one per week. Have fun and forget your troubles.

Remember that you want to have a relationship that lasts and that should come before the typical and usually small troubles that you go through in your everyday life. Do not allow yourself to lose sight of what is really important. When you can do this, you increase your chances of having a bond that will not break.

By Bryan Appleton

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How to Get Your Ex Back Even If They Don't Want to Talk to You - Do Not Miss This at Any Cost

2009-03-20T08:56:00.000-07:00

A breakup is always painful but it can also get frustrating if your ex refuses to talk to you after the breakup. However, all hope is not lost and you can still use these 3 tips on how to get your ex back even if they don't want to talk to you...

Tip No.1 - Let your ex calm down. Instead of desperately trying to soothe tempers, let time do the work for you. Do not contact your ex for a couple of weeks. This will enable your ex to calm down and think logically instead of only emotionally. You and your ex will be able to reflect back to the events that led to the breakup and maybe even come up with solutions.

Tip No. 2 - Change into a hot new body and cool attitude. Even as you allow your ex to cool down, ensure that you run to the nearest salon and spa and get yourself a much needed relaxation package. Open up those clogged pores and open up your mind to get a well-toned body, a new haircut and a calm mind. This new look will not go un-noticed by your ex who might just start regretting his/her decision of breaking up with you.

Tip No. 3 - Write. To further calm down frayed nerves, write a SMS, email or a good old letter to your ex. This will allow you to express your feelings without any angry interruptions and will also allow your cooled-down ex to read your thoughts in a more controlled manner. Writing will help you bare your soul and your ex will get to know your true feelings without any emotional outbursts. Apologize if you feel that you have wronged your ex in any way.

These 3 tips are sure to get your ex back into talking mode and once you two get talking, then it is just a matter of time before you both decide to get back into your lost relationship.

By Rahul Talwar

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Understanding Women in Relationships - 5 Tips

2009-03-20T08:53:00.000-07:00

I know you girls will be reading this even though this is directed towards the guys in your life; it's okay. Many years ago I saw the movie called The Gods Must Be Crazy. One man was giving advice to another. The recipient of the advice said, "You've been married seven times how can you give advice?"

He said, "I know all about them; but nobody knows how to live with them..." Well that was a pretty cute and funny line in the movie but unfortunately a lot of people feel that way. Of course on the other side of the coin the ladies say the same thing about the men. Well I say that kind of talk and joking will definitely not lead to a happy relationship. That's the kind of stuff you have to get out of your head. Even if it sounds funny at first it establishes a subconscious idea in your mind that will allow you to blame your spouse or significant other rather than look at your own behavior in a particular situation.

It really isn't that hard to understand women in relationships if you understand the biology and psycho-physiological drives that create the desires and needs within them. For purposes of this short and hopefully useful article allow me to at least eradicate the negative attitudes.

Here are 5 Tips:

1) Appreciate women for whom and what they are. They are not men and don't want to be.

2) Tell them you appreciate them.

3) Women want to look beautiful for you. Acknowledge their efforts and tell them they are beautiful.

4) A woman's heart gives love unconditionally. Reciprocate by telling them you love them.

5) A woman's eyes see the best of you. Be your best at all times.

Women want to love their man and show it through loyalty, trust, support and nurturing. One of the biggest mistakes men make in relationships is they have an expectation that their woman will be like one of the guys over time. It's not really what you want anyway. So don't make that mistake. Remember to tell the woman of your dreams, "I love you."

By Paul W. Friedman

Paul Friedman, author of http://www.lessonsforahappymarriage.com, entered into the business of helping couples mend their marriages after a very rough personal experience with divorce. Paul came out of an early retirement to become a mediator. His belief was that couples could easily work out the details of separation and get on with their lives. He discovered the truth from his clients: they only sought divorce because the help they found to stay together didn't work. Read more on Paul Friedman's blog: http://www.lessonsforahappymarriage.com/relationship-advice-blog.html

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Is Your Relationship in Danger? Take This 10 Question Quiz to Find Out

2009-03-20T08:46:00.000-07:00

You have the occasional argument. Sometimes you feel frustrated, and you have that uneasy sense that everything is not as it should be. Is your relationship in trouble? The answer may not be obvious. Take this quiz to measure the overall state of your relationship and highlight the trouble spots.

1. When you have an argument, is it about a specific issue, or is it about your partner's character? A specific issue would be, "You forgot to take out the garbage last night," while "you never remember anything," is a generalized character assassination.

2. Do you have more conflict or less conflict when the two of you get time alone together? Do a "date night" or a few days away renew your relationship, or create more stress?

3. Is there physical violence in your relationship? Have you come close to physical violence? Are there threats of physical violence?

4. How often does the thought that you would rather be with someone else pass through your mind?

5. Take one minute to write a list of what you like and what you dislike about your partner. How many "likes" and how many "dislikes" are on your list?

6. Do you seriously question your partner's faithfulness?

7. Do you have arguments about sex?

8. In times of emergency or grief - such as when a relative becomes ill or dies, do you and your partner pull together?

9. If you could turn the clock back to the day you first met your partner, would you choose a different direction for your life?

10. If you won the lottery, would you be overjoyed to share the blessing with your partner, or would you wish it were all yours?

Physical violence or threats are the biggest danger signs for your relationship and for your personal safety. If they are present, get professional help TODAY.

The following are all danger signs for your relationship. If several are present, your relationship is in real trouble:

character assassination
fantasizing often about being with someone else
not having ready access to a list of your partner's great qualities
doubts of faithfulness
serious sexual incompatibility
lack of mutual support in times of crisis
a feeling of being stuck or obligated by the relationship

Question #2 offers hope that your relationship may be much sounder than it appears. Conflict in your relationship may be primarily a reflection of the stress in your individual lives.

Often, partners redirect frustration and anger about unrelated events toward each other. For example, your boss yelled at you, and you yell at your partner. This unconscious redirection is a behavior that can be overcome through conscious attention, and is not a reflection on the overall quality of your relationship. If you and your partner are loving and supportive toward each other in relatively stress-free situations, you likely have a basis for working through your other issues.

By Jonathan Huie

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Partners With Pathology - 7 Signs That Your Partner Has a Personality Disorder

2009-03-20T08:38:00.000-07:00

Everyone experiences challenges and misunderstandings in their relationships. However, if your partner is pathological and afflicted with a personality disorder, a relationship can become a bewildering minefield without an apparent reason. This is because individuals with personality disorders, which include narcissism, sociopathy/psychopathy, and borderline personality disorder, are wired very differently than the rest of us. Fundamental assumptions about the way people react to situations and their standards of conduct simply can't be applied to a partner with a personality disorder, and these individuals frequently engage in behavior that is very destructive to their personal relationships. Here are 7 signs that your partner may be suffering from a personality disorder:

1. Grandiose sense of self worth. Your partner may express or believe that he or she is superior to others, and should only associate with other high status and "special" people and institutions. Your partner may also exaggerate accomplishments and expect preferential treatment.

2. Lack of empathy. Your partner may not be able to relate to or identify with the emotions of others. Your partner may make an attempt to appear to feel for others, but it is simply play acting and eventually the act will start to ring hollow.

3. Lack of remorse or guilt. Your partner may do destructive and hurtful things, but not really be able to experience remorse for his or her actions. Again, your partner may express guilt, but it is false and hollow and this becomes apparent over time.

4. Lack of impulse control. Your partner may be unable to delay gratification. He or she may also have a tendency toward boredom that leads to high risk behaviors. This may contribute to compulsive activities such as drug use and sexual exploitation, and even violence.

5. Inability to follow through on commitments. Your partner may have difficulty managing a job, bills, marital commitments, and a variety of responsibilities.

6. Compulsive lying and manipulation. Your partner may lie about a great many things, large and small, significant and insignificant, sometimes without apparent reason. Some individuals with personality disorders are the classic "con men" who bilk others out of money rather than earning an honest living.

7. Extreme black and white thinking. You may either be unrealistically idealized or devalued in the mind of your partner. There is often a sense of needing to "walk on eggshells" to avoid upsetting your partner.

By Shannon E Cook

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The Toxic Relationship - 6 Signs Your Relationship May Be Toxic

2009-03-20T08:35:00.000-07:00

Relationships require work and dedication to thrive and be healthy. However, there are dynamics in certain relationships that make them destructive and toxic to one or even both partners. The way your partner relates to you psychologically and emotionally can have a large bearing on your self esteem and feelings of self worth. Here are 6 signs that your relationship may have an emotionally or psychologically abusive dynamic and may be toxic for this reason:

1. Your partner puts you down, either in public or privately. These insults may be blatant name calling, but not always. Sometimes, it is more subtle, for example your partner may criticize the way you do things, who you are, or even question your mental competence. All the while, your partner may imply that he or she has it all together and knows the best ways to do the things you are failing at. Ultimately, you may end up feeling incompetent, inferior, and even crazy.

2. Your partner attempts to limit your access to work or educational opportunities. This strategy helps maintain your partner's control over you and keep you dependent.

3. Your partner attempts to discourage or limit your contact with outside friends and family. Isolating you in this way serves a couple of different purposes. Firstly, it establishes your partner's dominance and control. It also limits your ability to receive positive, affirming messages from your loved ones. Your abuser is trying to create a reality about you and for you. Having contrary information coming in is undesirable in the abuser's eyes. In addition, limiting your contact with others also reduces your opportunities to hear criticisms of your partner.

4. Your partner attempt to control and influence your daily activities. You may feel compelled to give an account of your daily activities and defend or justify your choices. You may even get to a point where in order to avoid confrontation, you choose activities you know your partner will approve of.

5. Your partner uses sex as a weapon of manipulation and control. This may be demonstrated in your partner's demand that you comply with his or her demand for sex and intimacy, regardless of your feelings or desires. This may also manifest in the opposite manner, where your partner deliberately withholds the physical affection and intimacy you desire, in order to keep you feeling rejected, worthless, and subject to his or her whim.

6. Your partner implies that there will be non-physical consequences for not complying with his or her demands. Once in awhile, your partner may do something kind for you, but this is not a true effort to change a pattern of behavior, but a tactic to draw you back into the relationship. Once you are back under your abuser's control, the emotional and psychological abuse will begin again.

By Shannon E Cook

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Top 12 Things Men Really Hate Most About Women

2009-03-20T08:32:00.000-07:00

Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? It's true these things that women either know or don't know that they do. What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are:

1. Not Sticking to Agreements

When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.

2. Keeping Their Feelings

It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.

3. Try to Change Their Men

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.

4. Mate Comparison

Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.

5. Belittling His Hobbies

Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that's not the message you should be sending.

6. Gossiping

While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad. It doesn't matter.

7. Nagging

Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.

8. Interruption

Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.

9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented

Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.

10. Beauty Conscious

Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.

11. Paranoia

Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.

12. Insecure/Jealously

Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.

If you don't want to drive your man up the wall, then stay away from these 12 blundering mistakes and work on more positive outlet to keep your man.

By Teecee Go

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Do You Want a Relationship Or an Adventure?

2009-03-20T08:20:00.000-07:00

The guy knocks you out when you just look at him, you want him to notice you, smile and invite you to have a cup of coffee together. In the end you have a date, another one and so on. You can't believe he doesn't make any moves, he doesn't kiss you, he does not take your hand into his, he says nothing about moving forward.

You think at 2 possibilities: he is either shy or gay. In the end you discover this man likes you but he does not want a serious relationship, he does not want to cause you pain, so he tells you the truth. The reason is Ok but you feel hurt.

You try to think this is better for you, but deep down you are convinced you need him to be by your side, you want hugs not only sex once a week. You know you want the whole package and hope he will change his mind. Your last relationship was so passionate, of course you do not want to think about it and make comparisons but you want this relationship to be even better. The more he rejects the whole package, the more you want it.

What are in fact the advantages and disadvantages of an adventure?

A great advantage is that you will not be in the position to get bored of him; he will not pressure or impose anything to you. He will not be ''the master'' and there will be no reproaches. Maybe, in the end, you will like this, just have fun and leave without preparing breakfast or washing dishes.

Disadvantages are not so many or overwhelming. You may feel used because he wants you for sex only and when you are together you behave not like a couple but like strangers. He will not stand by you to wipe your tears, to share lovely moments, you will be alone on vacations or holidays. You will probably pity yourself and regret what you did. There is also the risk to fall in love with him and then the ending-up can be ugly. Especially if you tell him this and he will abandon you, there can be feelings of being ''seduced and dumped''.

In the end we are all free to choose what we like, only that before each step we need to consider consequences, analyze advantages and disadvantages and think of our own life.

By Marius Gherghinescu

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3 Dirty Mind Games Which Will Get Your Ex Back - These Are Dirty But Deadly Effective

2009-02-09T08:30:00.000-08:00

If your ex has broken up with you and does not seem to be responding to your overtures then it is time to use dirty mind games to shock, awe and confuse your ex into submission before getting them back. Read these 3 dirty mind games and implement them on your ex to get him/her back into your life...

1st game - Change your status from dumped to dumper. After your breakup, pretend that you have actually benefited from the breakup and are even happier than before. This will indicate to your ex and to others that you have actually dumped your ex rather than the other way round. This will also sow seeds of doubt in your ex's mind as to whether he/she has done the right thing by dumping you after seeing you deliriously happy after the breakup.

2nd game - Hover in front of your ex while ignoring him/her. Be seen at parties, get-togethers or any other social occasion. Remain in plain view of your ex and if possible flirt in front of him/her. This will make your ex wild with jealousy and also create a doubt in his/her mind that you might leave him/her forever. This will force your ex to act before it is too late.

3rd game - Send out confusing signals. Twist your ex's mind by sending out confusing signals. So, while on one hand you can tell him/her that you would just like to remain friends even after the breakup, on the other hand send him/her gifts, chocolates and flowers. This will bug your ex and confuse him/her no end since it will not make it clear whether he/she is still in a relationship with you or not.

These 3 dirty mind games will shock and confuse your ex and make it easier for you to regain control of your lost relationship. You can make your final move after assessing the situation and the mental state of your ex.

By Rahul Talwar

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The Toxic Relationship - 6 Signs Your Relationship May Be Toxic

2009-02-09T08:26:00.000-08:00

2. Your partner attempts to limit your access to work or educational opportunities. This strategy helps maintain your partner's control over you and keep you dependent.

By Shannon E Cook

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How to Attract the Perfect Relationship - It Can Be Done!

2009-02-09T08:24:00.000-08:00

Learning how to attract the perfect relationship is a dream fro many people. I mean, who wouldn't want to learn how to attract someone who they really feel in love and connected with? As humans, it's just a natural drive and desire fro us to pursue this kind of relationship.

Unfortunately, many people either give up too soon or they lose any hope. Maybe they wind up in a mediocre relationship and still feel unsatisfied or longing for more. I mean, look at the divorce rate. Something's got to give, right?

A lot of people also feel hopeless and wonder if they are just destined to be single forever. Well, to add a little bit of hope, you don't have to be. And if you are stuck in a relationship that is either abusive or unfulfilling, you need to hear this,

YOU CAN ATTRACT A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AND YOU DESERVE IT!

You don't have to just dream about it or secretly wish for it. Daydreams are all fine but reality is a whole lot better. and you can make your reality match your fantasy. Imagine being with someone who really makes you feel alive and in love!

There is a way. And it does work. The law of attraction works to help you achieve anything you want in life and this includes relationships. But you must learn how to properly use it or else it will be useless. And once you learn how, you have to take action.

And when you do, you will never be the same again!

By Bryan Appleton

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3 Ways to Get Your Ex Back Even When They Are Trying to Avoid You! Stunning Tricks Which Always Work

2009-02-09T08:22:00.000-08:00

We all know what it is like to want your ex back. You know that a good thing is gone, but how can you get back with your ex even when they are trying to avoid you? Here are three tips to help you win your ex back....

Identify mistakes - Identifying mistakes that both of you have made and ask yourself if you can avoid them in the future. If you understand and fully realize what went wrong and you are able and willing to fix it, then you will need to make sure that your ex knows this.

Don't make empty promises - Don't ever tell your ex that you will change and that everything will be different. In this case actions will speak louder than words and action is much more preferable to words. You have to provide the proof of the pudding.

Remember what made your ex mad about you - Think back to what you ex disliked about you and work on it! By changing yourself fully for the better, you will also have a chance to win your ex back again. By being confident, you have a better chance of getting your ex back if you truly have changed in thought and deed.

These are 3 of the tips that can get your ex back, even if they are trying to avoid you. Remember that jealousy, anger and general negativity will turn them off again, so you need to be a stronger person both mentally and physically in order to combat the negative tendencies that your ex didn't like in the first place. Remember also that actions tend to speak a lot louder than words in this case. By taking these tips into consideration, your success will be much easier than if you did not follow these tips.

By Rahul Talwar

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Knowing How to Keep a Long Distance Relationship Alive and Well

2009-02-09T08:15:00.000-08:00

If you want to learn how to keep any type of relationship let alone a long distance relationship vibrant and committed this article is what you'll want to read.

Specifically we'll discuss the art of communication between the two of you and what it takes to stay on top of things. Also the planning of activities as well as the type of conversation that you should adhere too when in a long distance relationship.

Because communication between two people is so important this has got to be one of the top priorities that you should take heed of. When it comes to communicating in a long distance relationship there are some logistical obstacles that you have to overcome.

You must communicate daily if not every other day just to make your partner feel that they aren't lost in the world of knowing who cares. Ideally daily communiques either by email or chat sessions is important to maintain the level of assuredness that both of you are thinking of each other.

During this ongoing communication you should be planning for the future in the form of excursions or special occasions where both of you can get together and enjoy each others company. This also is an important aspect to a relationship whether it's a physical close relationship or a long distance relationship. There has to be a commitment to each other and the best way for this to happen is to at least plan to be together in the future so that you can plan on that event happening.

When conversing with one another you have to make sure that you are able to switch gears in topics at the drop of a hat. Not that you have to be on top of the current social news but at least have an opinion on current events. The conversation has to be relaxed and not poignant. Learning to go with the flow on the conversation topics is key for compatibility and you must be able to talk about your past relationships as well.

Relationships in the past must be brought up to the future so that you can be perceived as an honest person and that you have learned from past relationships. If your other half understands that you are conscientious and hold no grudges then that is a good sign that you won't go flying off the handle if things don't go the way you expect it too.

Understanding that a long distance relationships requires a commitment and a lot of work which will enable you to finally stay with the person that you want for life will help you in your quest for a committed relationship.

With your knowledge of communicating daily, planning events and being able to converse in a comfortable manner will help you cope with what's needed for you to do.

Now with this information you will be able to solidify yourself in a truly committed long distance relationship. There are thousands of people all over the world that will also testify that a committed relationship will help you in your perspective in life and in your own vocation.

By having that long distance relationship will allow you to come up with situations that will either solidify or break what bond you have. If you want to know how to say the right things, how to nurture the relationship lovingly, how to make your relationship last forever you owe it to yourself why so many other people swear by a method that will enlighten you and make your relationship as strong as the rock of Gibraltar. Go visit http://www.hopeandjoy4u.com and see for yourself.

By Jane Hatfield

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How to Date Younger Babes

2009-02-09T08:11:00.000-08:00

A younger babe is a word used to describe girls who are younger. There are so many men who like to date younger babes. There are so many reasons for this and, they include the following. Older men are usually looking for adventure, especially when it comes to sexual matters. To find this, they turn to people who have something different to offer and those are younger babes. Older men may be tired of their wives or they may just want somebody to make them feel younger and remind them of the times when they were young. There are so many cases of people looking for younger girls and it seems that they are always in demand. The young girls also agree to enter into these relationships for many factors. First, young girls want to feel secure. An older man is more settled and they are the pillar of security. Believe it or not, they are much more serious or firm than younger guys. This is an aspect that girls cherish a lot. The other obvious reason why the girls go for such men is financial security.

Younger babes want to be pampered and treated like queens. This is not always possible when they are with guys their age. Therefore, the relationship is give and take and everyone will benefit. There are older guys who specifically look for younger girls for the purpose of marriage. They may be single or divorced. These cases have become more and more popular as people become free to do what they want. If you are an older guy looking for such a girl to be with or marry, it is vital that you know some of the things that will enable you get victory and win them over. First, be serious. There is nothing more attractive than a man who is sober and serious about what they want. Beating about the bush will only remind her of the guys her age. It is vital that you are honest. If you are married, it is paramount that you disclose this fact. There are many young girls who would not like to interfere with a marriage relationship.

The other thing is to be you. Do not come of as a different person. There are older guys who have a hard time maintaining the act. The younger babes know you are a certain age and you do not have to act young. Make sure you pamper her in a way that she will enjoy. Do it willingly and not just because you want something in return. This way, you will make your relationship as natural as possible. The other thing is to relate with her in a mature manner. It is not always easy to see them as mature people but, most younger babes know what they want. Know the character and values you want to date in a young girl and most of all, make sure that you date a girl who is at a legal age to date. When you consider all the above, you will be in a position to get all you want from the relationship.

By Francis K Githinji

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How to Persuade a Woman Do Everything You Say - Secrets of Persuasive Seduction

2009-02-09T08:07:00.000-08:00

Not many guys out there know that there exists certain tactics or 'seduction triggers' that they can use on women - that will persuade them to do almost ANYTHING you tell them to. Using these secrets from the "seduction underground", master seducers are known to be very effective when it comes to making women comply to their requests. Read on to discover what these secret techniques are and achieve awesome results instantly...

Three "Persuasive Seduction" Techniques To Make A Woman Do Everything You Say

Tactic Number One - "The Dominatrix". It has been known that most women would comply automatically to a personality which comes across as strong and dominant. The mistake that most men make in the seduction game is that they never project a dominant first impression - in the process they are 'forced' to become the follower rather than the leader. In order to assume the leadership role in the relationship, you must establish this 'dominant frame' as early as when you first approach her. Take heed as this is very important!

Tactic Number Two - "The Differentiator". Understand the simple fact that in order to win her over, you really do not have to be 'better' than other guys - you just have to appear different! Your character has to be portrayed in a way that you are unlike the other men who are pursuing her. You have got to show that you are special, and therefore she must be grateful that you CHOSE to be with her.

Tactic Number Three - "Play Dirty!" Now if the first two tactics above fail, then do this. You can hypnotize her into being compliant to your wishes by using a technique called 'fractionation'. Allegedly 'stolen' from the field of hypnosis and psychology, this tactic involves bringing the girl through an 'emotional rollercoaster' in 14 minutes, and in the process 'anchoring' her pleasure (or happy) states to you. The danger of this technique is that while it could get her immensely attracted to you, it could turn also her into a possible stalker. Beware!

But before you use that technique, you must heed this warning...

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.

But if you're ready to get girls without breaking a sweat, then do this. Click on this link for an easy step-by-step system that will get you instant attraction from any girl you meet, guaranteed, and for free: Deadly Seduction Tactics

By Derek Rake

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How to Attract Women to You (Even When They Are Way Out of Your League)

2009-02-09T08:00:00.000-08:00

Attention men - have you ever experienced liking a woman but did not even dare to go and talk to her - simply because she seemed to be way out of your league? Do you remember the time when fear and anxiety gripped you when you saw someone you liked and wanted to approach her?

What if given a set of easy tools and techniques you can approach any girl you want and you could get her attracted to you every single time? Sounds too good to be true? Not quite. Read on to discover the secret tactics that smooth players and master seducers use to attract women who are way out of their league...

How To Seduce Out Of Your League - In Three Essential Steps

Step Number 1. "Show High Value". An immensely powerful trigger of attraction is this concept of "demonstrating higher value". What this concept means is that women gravitate naturally to men who they perceive to have high value. What this means to you is that you do not need a sports car or have deep pockets to come off as a person with high value. Very simply, when you talk to her, carry yourself confidently and you will do fine.

Step Number 2. Ignore Her. Yes, that's right. After you have captured her attention and showed high value, turn your back on her - and ignore her! A lot of other men who hit on her will hang around indefinitely in order to woo her over. What you will need to get her to chase you is simply to do the opposite.

Step Number 3. An advanced method to seduce females out of your league is to use hypnosis. There are certain 'underground' tricks which anyone (even those not trained in the field of psychology and hypnosis) than can be used to hypnotize women to fall in love with any man.

One such hypnosis 'trick' is Fractionation.

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

But if you're ready to get girls without breaking a sweat, then do this. Click on this link for an easy step-by-step system that will get you instant attraction to any girl you meet, guaranteed, and for free: Deadly Seduction Tactics

By Derek Rake

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Sending of Flowers Still a Classic Way of Saying You Care

2009-02-09T07:55:00.000-08:00

Sending flowers will always serve as a classic way of saying you care, you remember or love the person. The act knows no social status or geographical locations; when one person sends a statement through flowers, then the recipient will be touched and will love it. Flowers when delivered through cheap flower delivery services or through a high-end delivery service will be relished by anyone. Whether that person loves the beauty and the aura of fresh flowers, or doesn't normally love flowers, for sure receiving a bouquet of flowers gets their attention. The mere intention of showing care through flowers is more than enough reason for a person to feel touched and flattered.

This is the reason why the sending of flowers is a common practice in many parts of the world, as way for people to express what they want when words no longer works. Just a quick trip to a flower store will solve the love problems of one person and he can also easily order flowers that can be given to the special persons of his life on special occasions. But what if the recipient is located miles away from the person, or worse resides on the opposite side of the world? Will the person dismiss flower giving and forget about his loved ones? Of course not; the internet has redefined how we send flowers too. Now, physical boundaries and distances no longer serve as barriers.

The internet has made it possible thanks to efficient flower delivery services. A person only needs to login to the site of the flower shop, post an order and indicate the location of the recipient and in no time freshly-picked and chosen flowers will be delivered to the targeted recipients. Flower delivery services are readily available online, and available in varying price range. There will be a cheap flower delivery service and there will also be high-end flower shops that can cater to the needs of the high-rollers. And these flower delivery services will work in almost any parts of the world.

Wherever your recipient may be, you can expect that there will be flower delivery. Florence for example is one location where there will be discount flower delivery. Portland too, will have its share of a discount flower delivery service. Simply put, wherever you are and wherever your recipients, you can bet that your chosen bouquet of flowers will be delivered fresh and a quick manner.

Speaking of flower deliveries, the freshness and the quick delivery time are the person's two important considerations when choosing a cheap flower delivery service. A person needs to make sure that it will always be a fresh flower delivery. Manitoba, Portland or even Florence will have a cheap flower delivery service that offers fresh flowers every time, anytime. The interested person can pick a florist who can send flower food and instructions on how to care for the flowers. Next important consideration is the time-frame. Get the services of a flower provider that can promise speed in delivery. A perfectly prepared bouquet of flower delivered at the right time certainly completes the day of any person.

By Jamie Purecat

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Maintaining Relationships Through a Gift List

2009-02-09T07:52:00.000-08:00

Special occasions are made special by the presence of people that we love and care for. They celebrate with us during our milestones in life by expressing their congratulations and happiness for our achievements. Besides their presence, they may give us gifts to mark the occasion, gifts that are thoughtful and well-meant. We do the exact same thing for the people that we love since we know how it feels to be appreciated.

Sometimes though, we forget special occasions due to stress from work or other obligations. The people concerned may feel hurt and neglected; they may even think that we are not interested in keeping the relationship. Of course we know that it's not true, but just the same, it might be difficult to explain what happened. We didn't mean to forget, say, a friend's birthday, there was no malice intended---but the relationship will become strained and at the worst, it will be broken.

To prevent this from happening, we must learn how to maintain a gift list. This way, we will not forget to give gifts to the people that we love on the day of the occasion. Having trouble remembering your parents' wedding anniversary? Can't, for the life of you, recall exactly when you and your girlfriend got together (come on, you know you forget it too!) There's a very, very simple solution to this problem: list it down.

Here are some tips on how to maintain relationships through a gift list:

1.) List down all the names of the people that matter to you and the dates of special occasions regarding each. Remember to put the list in a spot that you see often, such as pinned to a cork board in front of your office desk, taped to the fridge---anywhere that you always are. Take advantage of technology too! Post the list on your virtual desktop, in your PDA, and/or in the calendar of your cellphone (remember to set the alarm).

2.) Also list down the appropriate gifts for the occasion. For example, for anniversaries, the best gifts to give are flowers. Flowers are fool-proof! If you don't have the time to buy some, you can order online. Many online shops offer Flower delivery that is fast and efficient, ensuring that the whole process is stress-free. So list that anniversary down and have those flowers delivered!

3.) Be there. Receiving gifts gives a person this nice tingly feeling, but the giver being there is the most important gift of all. Remember to clear your schedule before the occasion to make it more special and unforgettable.

Maintaining a gift list is very simple but it can save you a lot of time and help you build relationships with people that matter most to you.

By Timothy Spencer

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