tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19040348988654315942024-11-08T09:35:29.193-06:00~ Advice blog from a real life person with a real life perspective. Go ahead... Ask Away! ~The Suburbinate Housewifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17529998953763431633noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1904034898865431594.post-67290658735862561232010-08-31T09:00:00.029-05:002010-08-31T09:00:00.317-05:00

"Dear Housewife, My husband has been unfaithful in the past but is really trying to make it work with me. I believe he is. He wants to go with his friends once in a while and I know I shouldn't care. I tell him to go and want him to, but I am an emotional rollercoster for 2 days before and after. I don't want to be but I am. I end up crying and he ends up saying he shouldn't have gone. He

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"Dear Housewife, Not so much related to actual sexual activity, but it makes a guy pretty paranoid that his penis can't satisfy his woman, and she's lying by saying that it does, and telling all her friends about it as if it were as important as a shoe sale or something. lol. Most women don't brag or joke about their man's penis, or even bring it up with their friends, do they? I mean that's

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"Dear Housewife, I have just been dumped so suddenly by a guy who I thought everything was going well with. In fact he seemed more keen to see me all the time and we spent a lovely weekend just past in the country. He said it was because there was no spark and that it wasnt quite there - which I am reading means : I was bad in bed. I thought our sex was good and getting better every time?!

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"Dear Housewife, Ok I’m going to try and keep this fairly short but give you all the info because I’m really at a loss at the moment. I started a new job about three months ago. Since I started I have liked this guy (he's 24, i'm 21) who works on reception and is a kind of odd job guy. I work on the next floor up. So although we work at the same place and for the same company, we don’t work

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"Dear Housewife, My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly seven months now, and he is great. He constantly tells me that I am the best girlfriend he has ever had and that no one has ever made his life so complete. I truly love him and I feel like we have an awesome thing going for us. However I have recently not been able to get his past sexual partners out of my mind. I was a virgin

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"Dear Housewife, You seem very nice, so please forgive me for this long ass message!! :-) A little about my b/f and I: My boyfriend is 44 and has 4 young kids; 5, 7, 8, and 15. The 3 youngest are from his previous marriage. (He left that marriage to be with me) I am 23 with no kids (don't plan on having any anytime soon). 1) When the divorce was finalized, The X got awarded the section 8 and

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"Dear Housewife, My boyfriend hit me once while he was drunk...because I went out with a "slut" to a party. He was scared that I'll turn into her. Pretty insecure boyfriend there, but the fact that he hit me wasnt good. I stopped talking to him for a week and he came back begging for me, so I got back with him. He said he would never do that to me again. There's this guy

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"Dear Housewife, Hi, I think my case is a little complicated. We married 5 years ago and there was one emotional affair which we talked about it and have solved ( as I think). We recently immigrated to Australia and my husband repeatedly says that he likes to have sex with Asian women ( no one in particular) should I take this as an alarm? I feel I lost my self esteem here and am not

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"Dear Housewife, Hi there. I have a problem. My boyfriend forces his thinking on me, but this time it has become a problem. My dad wants me to learn how to drive a car, but my boyfriend does not. At this time, my boyfriend is working in a different city and my father is forcing me to learn, but my boyfriend is forcing me not to. I am so confused! My dad is very strict and my boyfriend is

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If you have not yet read the first posting in this series of questions by this particular reader, please do so here first. "Dear Housewife, Hello again!Well, you were so helpful to me before, and I have to admit, I'm still very confusesd about Steven. Well, I did take your advice and told him how I felt about him. He said in reply that he does like me and does want to date me, and he thought

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"Dear Housewife, I'm married to a younger man who thinks he may be bisexual. My husband is 24 and I'm 42. We've been married for almost two years. How does the saying go? If hind sight were 20/20… Well if it were I wouldn't be married to him today. I still love him but its been seven months since we've shared the same bed or had sex. I'm more of a mother figure and a friend to him than I am

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"Dear Housewife, Hi! I fell in love with the perfect man: loving, honest, hard working, same basic goals as me, and very intelligent. However, despite having discussed in tremendous length about how we would be as parents and what sort of values we had in parenting (before we tied the knot) my husband turned out not to be a fraction of the parent he claimed he wanted to be. It may be because

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"Dear Housewife, After having unsafe anal/oral sex with someone who has an STD,is there a possibility that you didnt catch it?" Dear Reader, There is always a possibility that you won't obtain an STD from someone who has one, but the possibility of catching one is greater. Depending on the type of STD, it may not even show up for years. If you think you may have been infected, then I

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"Dear Housewife, I've been dating this girl for about 10 weeks. I'm 28 and shes 25. We've both been in and out of town alot, and really have been on only about 5 real dates, and a few airport pickups and drop offs. We haven't slept together since we've gotten back since out latest trips. She has seemed to be real busy with work and friends. It's been a week and we still havent gotten

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"Dear Housewife, Ok, I don't know where to start. My husband and I have been together for 5 years now. We got married a year and a half ago, and had a baby a year ago. We have filed bankruptcy but we are still having financial problems because he is not working full time hours. They send him home early a lot. He keeps saying he is going to look into getting a part time bouncing job at a bar,

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"Dear Housewife, I would like to trouble you a bit by posing my problem with a great expection to get some solution and guidelines from your kind expertise. I, being 54 met this young and beautiful lady of 32, who had joined our work place, but in different department. Intially for the first six months, she was doing great in her job, but later on went down with her output leading her to

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"Dear Housewife, Is it strange that I have never had oral sex or been married, and still a virgin at 49? I always thought oral sex as dirty and still today I could never give it. I, however had my first time with a women I cut grass for. Instead of money she used to give me a nice massage and a hand job which was real nice. The last time she talked me into leting her give me oral

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"Dear Housewife, My wife is celibate through choice and I find that I need another romance in my life. Not necessarily sex but a complete woman. I need a loving sexual woman. A celibate woman leaves a big gap in my life!" Dear Reader, Have you spoken with your wife about your needs? I understand that being celibate is her choice, but was this decision made and spoken of

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Dear Housewife, I have been married for a while, but early in the marriage I noticed that my wife airs our dirty laundry behind my back and to some degree when I am there. I have told her I know and she denies it and argues. She nags me, blames me for everything, and if i argue with someone she wil not support me and even talks to them behind my back. But as usual she blames me as I am the

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"Dear Housewife, I got married 6 months, before marriage we know each other since 6 months,so its almost 1 year we know each other, our is an arranged marriage. I have got a sister-In-Law, now she has come for her delivery. Whenever my hubby talks very close with her or with any female i feel in secured.Especially when I'm in the office and my hubby goes with them leaving me, i feel very

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"Dear Housewife, Hi, I got a "prostate pleaser" from Adam & Eve toys and I have a couple questions about it. Since I'll be the only one using it I don't need a condom, correct? Also, if I don't have any anal lube here, what could I use instead? Is Lubriderm a good idea? I don't want to pick the wrong substitute and have it sting. Thanks :)" Dear Reader, You shouldn't need to use a

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"Dear Housewife, I am living with my sister temporarily until I head off for graduate school. I find one of my sister's former roommates attractive- lets call her Amy. Each week a group of us (including Amy) meet together to watch a TV series. On several occasions, Amy has found opportunities for physical contact (touching the arm, leg, etc.) I decided I would ask her out for lunch. Lunch

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"Dear Housewife, Is it true that giving oral sex always to your wife will increase your cholesterol level..? My friend told me that the vaginal juice of woman from orgasm is high concentrate of cholesterol. How true is this? I don't believe him but the way he explain seems like very convincing and I wanted to know maybe he is correct... and I tried to search information from net but seems

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"Dear Housewife, I am a male of 25, and was a virgin until I met my girl friend. I am very much in love with my girl friend who is 32. We both look a lot younger than our ages.  We have sex once a week . I have always been on the bottom never wanted to be on top. I have always enjoyed  her being on top because of her long hair and breasts being all over me.

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"Dear Housewife,  How are you? I'm 23, from Sydney, Australia. I'm caught in a terrible pickle, and I need your help to figure out this crazy riddle. You see, there's this bloke that I've had a crush on for a while named Steven. When I met him, I knew he already had a female companion, so I backed off in that aspect and just remained his mate. Well, about a month ago, we were

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