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noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sun, 8 Aug 2010 11:18:00 -0400

WHY YOU ASK? Simple answer: there is so much NEGATIVITY around a child throughout the day no matter WHAT AGE...so the PLACE THEY NEED TO FEEL LOVE AND SUPPORT IS THIER HOME!

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JOIN US TODAY! CALLING ALL PARENTS IN THE USA!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 13:15:00 -0500

THIS IS A CALL TO ACTION FOR ALL PARENTS IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA WHO LOVE AND CARE ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN...THEIR COUNRTY...THEIR..FAMILIES..THEIR FRIENDS...THEIR GOD...THEIR FREEDOMS...THEIR LIFE ON THIS WONDERFUL PLANET EARTH!

JOIN US TODAY! GET INVOLVED AND DO NOT SIT BY AND WATCH "YOUR CHILDREN and YOUR COUNTRY BE SLOWLY TAKEN AND STRIPPED AWAY FROM YOU BIT BY BOT".....
PIECE BY PEICE......NIBBLE...BY NIBBLE......

DO NOT SIT AT THE DINING ROOM TABLE AND "JUST COMPLAIN!"

"DO SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE WITH US NOW PLEASE!...IT IS YOUR FUTURE TO!"

"PLUS YOUR CHILDREN'S!" DO YOU REALLY WANT THEM TO WORK WHEN THE GRADUATE SCHOOL AND GIVE 1/2 OF WHAT HEY MAKE TO MAKE A GOVERNMENT RUN THAT DOES NOT EVEN RUN PROPERLY ALREADY AND IS JUST FILLED WITH JET-SETTING POLITICIANS ON OUR DOLLARS?!?"

NO...OF COURSE NOT!..WHO WANTS TO WORK..NOT 40 HOURS ANYMORE BUT 60-70 RIGHT!?! FOR WHOM!?!? THE TAX MAN!?!?

GET OUT AND JOIN THE TEA PARTY EXPRESS GROUP! GET OUT AND JOIN THE MINUTE MOMS IN YOUR STATE NOW! PLEASE!

DO SOMETHING INSTEAD OF SITTING AROUND PLEASE!...IT IS YOUR LIFE TOO! TOGETHER WE ALL MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
POSITIVE THINKING ALWAYS GETS POSITIVE RESULTS!
GOD BLESS AND HAPPINESS!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
http://www.JEZSEZ.com

WE WILL BE HERE IN 2012! WATCH YOUR KIDS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 13:40:00 -0400

WHILE YOU ARE WASHING YOU HANDS ALWAYS CHECK YOU KIDS EYES TOO........

REMEMBER THE PLACE WHERE THEY SPEND THE MOST TIME IS WHERE THEY CAN BE MOT JUST EXPOSED TO THE GERMS OF THE HANDS BUT THE DRUGS OF THE SCHOOL....

THE DRUGS THAT ARE GOING AROUND NOWADAYS ARE JUST AS THEY WERE WAY BACK WHEN BUT WITH ALL OF THE DEPRESSING NEWS THE AVERAGE KID THINKS THEIR LIFE IS GOING TO BE SHORT LIVED BY THE TIME THEY REACH 30.

DON'T THINK SO?

GO ASK YOUR OWN CHILDREN AND GET READY TO BE SHOCKED OUT OF YOU SHOES!!!!

Because of the fast moving age of the internet and because almost everyoe believes what they read such as this...but this is true...unfortuatley...most kids between 5 and 24 think the World is going to implode.,..that means.... EXPLODE and we are all going to die..some even believe it will happen by 2012...

That is because of the Maylan Calendar ...this is NOT GOING TO HAPPEN...

It is also due to AL GORE who used SCARE TACTICS WITH HIS MOVIE WHICH WAS TAKEN FROM A SCI-FI MOVIE AND EDITED IN TO SCARE THE YOUNG MINDS..DID YOU SEE THE VIDEO OF AL GORE ON THE NIGHT WHEN PRES> OBAMA WON TELLING ALL THE YOUNG MINDS AT THE PARTIES TO "NOT LISTEN TO THEIR PARENTS BEACUSE PARENTS DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!!!"

THAT IS BECAUSE AL GORE HAD BAD ISSUES WITH HIS OWN PARENTS....THAT IS WHY HIS SON HAD ISSUES WITH HIM AND AL GORE HAD TO ALWAYS GET HIS SON OUT OF TROUBE!

SO HE THROWS STONES AND USES HOLLYOOWDS BIG SCREENS TO BRAINWASH ALL OF OUR CHILDRENS GOOD SOULD AND MINDS???????

NICE AL! YOUR NOT GOING INTO THE GOLDEN GATES EITHER I SUPPOSE...BUT YOU WOULDN'T CARE THEN WOULD YOU? YOU JUST DO NOT CARE SINCE YOU BOUGHT INTO THE WINDMILL COMPANIES WHEN YOU WERE VP UNDRR BILL CLINTON?

THAT IS WHY YOU PUSHED THIS GREEN ENVIORONMENT>>MONEY>>MONEY>>>MONEY!

TELL THE YOUTH THE TRUTH! IT'S ABOUT MONEY AL GORE! YOU DON'T CARE IF YOU TAKE AWAY THEIR RIGHT TO EARN A LIVING! THANK YOU GOD YOU LOST THE PRESIDENCY!

THAT SHOW YOU PUT ON HUGGING BILL CLINTON AFTER GETTING THOSE HOSTAGES RELEASED WAS A SHOW! YOU HATED AND BLAMED HIM FOR LOSING! YOU ARE STILL A STUCK UP SNOB.......

YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE MIDDLE CLASS FEELS LIKE>>YOU ARE INTO CONTROL & POWER AND HAVE DADDY ISSUES.....LEAVE OUR CHILDREN ALONE..WORK ON YOUR OWN! PLEASE!

2012 What will happen is GOOD will verse BAD...and you will see HONEST and DISHONEST in the CULTURE of the WILL OF THE PEOPLE...

SO get ready AMERICA......

THIS TIME GET IT RIGHT SO WE ALL CAN GET ALONG AND MAKE A LIVING PLEASE AND SAY YOUR PRAYERS AT NIGHT AND BE THANKFUL YOU ARE ALIVE AND CAN HUG SOMEONE

:-) GOD BLESS AMERICA AND THE ENITRE WORLD
A Ministering Parent

:-)

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"

OMBAMA IS SPENDING THE KIDS MONEY! OMGOSH!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Fri, 3 Jul 2009 20:36:00 -0400

WELL...........IT HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE WE WROTE BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN BUSY AS THE REST OF THE ECONOMY WITH THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS SORTING THROUGH THE ECONOMIC CHANGES THAT HAVE FALLEN UPON US.....LOLOLOLOL

BUT....AS LONG AS WE CAN SMILE, HUG AND BREATHE...WE ARE STILL HAPPY EVEN THOUGH WE DO NOT WANT OUR CHILDREN TO HAVE TO WORK THEIR ADULT LIVES FOR 40 OR 60 HOUR WORK WEEKS AND BRING HOME PAY THAT WILL NOT COVER THEIR ELECTRIC BILL LET ALONE FILL THEIR REFRIGERATOR AND CABINETS OR PANTRY WITH FOOD AT THIS RATE....

NOW...WHO ELECTED THIS PRESIDENT....OH YES.....

.......OH THAT'S RIGHT..........THE KIDS...LOLOLOL...........THE 'Y' GENERATION...THE MILLENNIUM GENERATION' ....THE INTERNET...NET GENERATION....YOURS...MINE AND OURS...GENRATION....HOLYWOOD GEN RATION......LOLOLOL

OPPPPPPPPPPPS! THEY KNOW MORE ABOUT LIMEWIRE AND TWITTER THEN THEY DO ABOUT THE CONGRESS.......WHEN IT COMES TIME TO PAY THE TRILLIONS OF DOLLARS IT WILL BE A CRASH COURSE ON BEING BROKE AND WHO ARE THEY GOING TO LIVE WITH??????
You the parents or guardians who did not teach them about how to make a buck or work for a buck and only spend what you have in your wallet.......

That's OK...they can look it up on the INTERNET...

OPPPPS!

SOON THE GOVERNMENT WILL TELL YOU WHEN YOU CAN TURN ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE THEY WANT TO OWN THAT ONE DAY TOO!

OR DID YOU NOT FIGURE THAT OUT YET KIDS???????????????

HAVE A GREAT 4th OF JULY!
BY THE WAY>>>>>>>>>>>WE ARE CELEBRATING >>>INDEPENDENCE DAY!"<<<<<<<<<<<<

YOU KNOW WHAT THAT IS HOLLYWOOD ........RIGHT........YOU WANT YOUR INDEPENDENCE! ......."ALL OF YOU DO"........ GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER HOLLYWOOD AND START MAKING MOVIES THAT "TEACH POSITIVE THINGS FOR A CHANGE!".......TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!......"TAKE LESSONS FROM A SANDRA BULLOCK COMEDY MOVIE FOR AN EXAMPLE........LOLOL"

GROW UP.....AL GORE AND LOOK AT YOUR SON..........LOLOLOLOL.........YOU MAY HAVE HAD ISSUES WITH YOUR DADDY BUT AT LEAST HE WAS "FOR THE COUNTRY AND HONEST".........
IT IS AMAZING HOW YOU BOUGHT INTO WIND COMPANIES WHEN YOU WERE VP AND YOU TALK ABOUT CHENEY...LOLOLOLOL
We are SMART AMERICANS WHO STILL READ, WRITE AND DO ARITHMETIC...lolololol
and say our Prayers at night.....

The OTHER COUNTRIES ARE LAUGHING AT US.........OMGOSH!

Even BILL CLINTON HAD IT RIGHT ON HILLARY CLINTON'S CAMPAIGN TRAIL WHEN HE SAID... "IT IS A BOXING MATCH WHEN YOU CAMPAIGN AND WHO EVER THROWS THE BEST PUNCHES WINS!"
HOW DISGUSTING IS THAT AMERICA! IT IS NOT WHO IS BEST TO LEAD...LOLOL IT IS WHO IS MADE OF STEAL!

NOW WHERE IS CLARK KENT WHEN YOU NEED HIM??????

HAPPINESS and PEACE TO US ALL! :-)
HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
http://www.JEZSEZ.com

STOP TEACHING TO THE TEST MR. PRESIDENT!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 22:10:00 -0400

If Teachers were able to Teach to the STUDENTS so that the STUDENTS should ENJOY their Lessons and not have to worry about being taught to the School's Grade Test in every County in Every State...imagine how many STUDENTS WOULD enjoy school and our email boxes would be less full of complaints from Parents who want to change that!

We advise them to contact their Representative in Congress but that could be a joke..lololol

So now we will say...CALL SARAH PALIN! She'll GET IT!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"

SCHOOL IS OPEN FOR BUSINESS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 19:38:00 -0400

GET READY!

GET SET!

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Time to get those school supplies, while you can afford them before the sales are over :-)!

Time to get ready for the early Bedtime and the routine to get back on schedule!

When school begins, so should the school routines, which will make a child a better person as they grow up into an Adult and if you think we do not know what we are talking about...then good luck with you kids...we will see your running around out of control and you hiring a Nanny to teach you how to raise you own children.....

It is very easy to raise kids.........

All you have to remember is:

1. You are the Adult in Charge

2. You speak to your child with respect but stern

3. You set Boundaries

4. You ALWAYS TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM!

5. You do not give in if you feel you gut telling you NO.

It really is easy....

Role play to build a conscience..let them know your heart hurts when it does..let them know you love and care about them and always will and you want them to live.....a great life...

OK..Hit the Books!

REV JEZ

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/

WE NEED AN OUTSIDER TO RUN MAYBE A NON POLITICIAN! STOP BRAINWASHING THE KIDS PLEASE!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sat, 2 Aug 2008 03:09:00 -0400

MCCAIN DID A FANTASTIC JOB IN FLORIDA AND THE MEDIA DID NOT SHOW IT OFF COURSE..LOLOLOLOLOL (THEY ARE USUALLY LEFT OF THE DEMOCRATIC LINE)
MCCAIN ...HE WAS FUNNY...SERIOUS....KIND.....
AND HONEST......
PEOPLE NEED TO REALIZE THAT IS WHAT WE NEED IN A PRESIDENT THIS TIME.......
NOBODY WILL CLEAN UP THE CONGRESS ...HOUSE/SENATE...LIKE NCCAIN WILL.........
IF YOU THINK ANYONE ELSE WILL WHO IS RUNNING YOU ARE NOT REALLY LISTENING AND DIGGING INTO THE FACTS OF ALL THE PROSPECTS WE HAVE RUNNING THIS NOVEMBER.......
BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER...REMEMBER THAT....
OR.....IF IT LOOKS LIKE A SNAKE IT IS A SNAKE........
OR........A LEOPARD DOESN'T CHANGE IT'S SPOTS.........
OR........LOOK WHO YOUR FRIENDS ARE AND YOU CAN SEE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE.........
OR.......A VERY POPULAR ONE...LOLOLOL..BUT NOT SO NICE.........IF IT SMELLS LIKE GARBAGE IT PROBABLY IS GARBAGE YOU ARE BEING TOLD........LOLOL
OBAMA IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS PLAYING THE RACE CARD..LISTEN TO HIS WORDS FROM ...HIS OWN MOUTH AT HIS OWN CAMPAIGN STOPS ALL ACROSS THE USA..... AND SO ARE HIS STAFFERS AND....... WE THE PEOPLE ALL KNOW THIS AND HAVE KNOWN THIS SINCE THEY DID THIS TO BILL CLINTON........................... TO KNOCK HILLARY OFF THE TRACK AND TURN EVERYONE AGAINST HER.......
HOLLYWOOD IS BEHIND HIM AND SO ARE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE BILLIONS IN HOLLYWOOD.............
DO THEY GIVE YOU MONEY TO LIVE?
DO THEY CARE IF YOUR BILLS ARE PAID?
DO THEY CARE IF YOU HAVE MONEY NEXT WEEK FOR EXTRA FOOD SHOPPING?
DOES HOLLYWOOD CARE ABOUT ANYTHING EXCEPT THAT YOU GO TO THE BOX OFFICE OR BLOCKBUSTER AND KEEP THEM IN THEIR MILLIONS.......CORRECT?
WAKE UP AMERICANS WHO ARE NOT LISTENING TO THE REAL STORY AND SEE WHO IS BACKING OBAMA................
THINK BEFORE YOU VOTE.............4 MORE YEARS WITH THE WRONG PRESIDENT AND HIGHER TAXES AND NO DRILLING OR ANY IMPROVEMENTS WE WILL BE DOOMED IN THIS USA.....
OUR FRIENDS IN ENGLAND AND CANADA HATE THEIR HEALTHCARE.THEY HAVE TO WAIT FOR MONTHS TO SEE A GOOD DOCTOR! YOU COULD BE INFECTED BEFORE YOU SEE A GOOD DOCTOR!
RESEARCH.....RESEARCH.RESEARCH.............
YOU HAVE THIS INTERNET RIGHT AT YOUR FINGERTIPS!
GOD BLESS AMERICA AND ALL OF US!
DEVOTED INDEPENDENT AMERICANS VOTING FOR MCCAIN THIS TIME!
www.jez-sez.com TEAM!

KIDS ENJOYING THE END OF THE SUMMER!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 18:41:00 -0400

As the Summer continues and we start to enter August.....

Our Children are trying not to think of school..... :-(

Some Parents do NOT like to send them back.....
(Like we at the http://www.jez-sez.com/ TEAM! We enjoy having them home and around us even if it is more work...lolololol :-) so were we once.....
remember....it was only a little bit ago..correct?!?)

Of course there are those that want to PUSSSSHHHHHHH their kids out the door and get their break while they are back in school for those 6 hours or so......

Remember one thing.........the More you tech you child and show them LOVE.....the more they will stay CLOSE and TRUST you FOR LIFE!

Enjoy the Rest of your Summer EVERYONE!

TEENS! TEEN HELP! TEEN ADVICE!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 21:03:00 -0400

Hello Jez-Sez.com,

We are wondering how do we get our teens who are nice kids to understand the dangers they will face out in the world and how to get them to understand it without sounding like we are preaching to them?
Thanks for your help.

Jeradine and Frank,
Montana

Dear Non-Preachers :-),

It is really simple, all you have to do is actually point out the news articles in the USA Today or on the Local News TV Stations or Cable News that have non-stop coverage of the Young People who seem to be getting killed when traveling alone and some now are under 12 or so...then they seem to be getting killed in pairs if they are young girls..it is a very scary world at times so you must not worry about "How YOU SOUND....and JUST MAKE SURE THEY HEAR IT..." As Parents/ Guardians it's our responsibility to make sure not only the wonderful joys of Life are instilled in our children but the abilities to "Be aware,and plan a course of action, just in case it's needed

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

SAY NO TO DRUGS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:23:00 -0400

STAYING HEALTHY ON OUR OWN! :-)

HERE IS HOW WE ............
MILLIONS OF US.........
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW..........

WHO ENJOY LIFE AND EACH OTHER........
PLUS CHAT, SAY HELLO.........
FROM PHONE TO PHONE.............

PAY OUR GAS........
FOOD........
PLUS OUR BILLS.............

WHILE WE CUT DOWN............
ON EVERY SINGLE PHARMACY.............
BOTTLED PILLS................................
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EsJ_EP-2YY

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxoooooooooooooooooo
www.jez-sez.com TEAM!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/

BOYFRIEND TROUBLES.....MOM!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 19:59:00 -0400

Dear Jez-Sez:

My Daughter's Boyfriend is going away for the summer and telling her that she can not go out with her friends anywhere..........

She is 15 years old....She is also very popular and has a lot of fun with her girlfriends doing community things.

She is very concerned that her Boyfriend will "Break-off with her" when he gets home from his summer vacation.

I have spoken to her and given her advise but being the "MOM" all I get is "YOU DON'T GET IT MOM!"

Can you help?

signed-"MOM"PA

Dear "MOM" & Teen-

You are "entitled" to enjoy your summer as much as you Boyfriend is going to enjoy his- even if he should suggest that he will not without you there...it is the starting of what is know as a "Control Issue that he apparently has"-

We suggest taking a "SUMMER BREAK FROM EACH OTHER" and enjoying the time apart that you "WILL HAVE WITH YOUR FRIENDS!"If you are meant to reunite after the summer..you will-Otherwise..there are 1000's of other people in the World & school who will not give you "demands at such a young age"

Better to find out NOW! Have a GREAT SUMMER!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/

FREE ADVICE FOR TEENS AND ADOLOCENT PARENTS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:05:00 -0400

DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com

We were wondering if your JEZ-SEZ.com Team believes in all the things that are promoted on the Internet such as children are concerned?

How do I judge what is good and what is not for my younger ones to teen sites as far as safety is concerned?
thank-you,
Tamie
New-to-the-Internet
USA

DEAR NEWBIE :-)

No, we do not...of course not :-)

As far as Toddlers to Kinders we suggest CD ROMS-1st-8th you have free parental sites that are available such as Homework helpers that do a great job!9-12th they should be familiar with where the safe sites are from their schools and you can check by pulling up the "History" on your computer and seeing where your child has been viewing-

Also purchase a spyware/virus scan which will block all bad sites from your computer (make sure it is a certified award winning program)...

The INTERNET is a GREAT PLACE AS LONG AS YOU DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING & YOU USE IT WISELY!

JEZ-SEZ.com TEAM!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

ADVICE FOR PARENTS

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 6 May 2008 22:26:00 -0400

DEAR JEZ-SEZ:

My wife and I have a constant battle over our kids with the computers in our home!

She does not understand the nuts that are on the Web that can access our kids information by asking them simple questions that they can "fall for by pretending to be their friends...."!

I keep telling her to WATCH THE NEWS AND SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING! She turns a "BLIND EYE TO KEEP PEACE IN THE HOUSE!"

What can I DO? PLEASE ADVISE?

DESPERATE DAD!
Barry/Ohio

Dear Barry,

Take the Computer and move it to a "CENTRAL LOCATION IN YOUR HOME, Such as the Living room, dining room, Kitchen,large foyer, where you and your wife can "VIEW WHAT YOU KIDS ARE DOING AT ANY GIVEN TIME AS YOU PASS BY".... this will eliminate the "battles" you and you wife are experiencing and keep the children safe on the Internet!You can also check their "History".

JEZ-SEZ.com TEAM!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/

PARENTS ADVICE

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Thu, 1 May 2008 09:52:00 -0400

DEAR JEZ-SEZ:

Our 18 year old is graduating High school and for the 1st time we are dealing with Prom night!

We were asked by our Teen if she could stay overnight in the Hotel with her friends because they all were going to be up all night instead of driving home and being bored after an exciting night.

Of course we said "Absolutely not!" while laughing...lolol. How do parents let their children do that in today's age?Are we.....

Too Strict?

KarenMichigan

Dear Karen-Are you kidding????

More Parents should be thinking as clear as you and there would be less deaths, human trafficking and alcohol poisoning, let alone drunken driving going on or drug overdoses....

There is no better feeling than knowing your Teen is safe after having a great time such as a Prom night and home tucked in even if it means you have to be the ot;Limo Driver!

Great Job Mom!

JEZ-SEZ.com TEAM!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
http://www.JEZ-SEZ.com
http://ventarama-jezsezcom.blogspot.com/

30 DIFFERENT STD'S TO WORRY ABOUT!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 12:17:00 -0500

It's is not only the hardest job on the planet and the most rewarding having and raising your children..but think of all the things you have to save them from like teaching them how to cross the street to now talking to strangers to calling 911 to hiding if someone comes into their school with a gun.....to fight with all your might if a stranger tries to take you into their car or van...

Now there are over 30 STD's around to be aware of and to inform your children of because more than half of them are invisible till later on when they want to have children and then they show and can cause cancerous cells.....

What a job being a Parent ...Right????

Well...as long as you keep telling your kids how much you love them and keep those boundaries set and DON'T GIVE IN..and REWARD them on days just for being good for NO REASON AT ALL , as a SURPRISE....your relationship will STAY POSITIVE & STRONG!

Raising children with POSITIVE Conversation is the way to go......

There is enough Negativity in Life that they deal with on their own and when they come HOME..it should be a HOME they LOVE TO WALK INTO and "WANT TO GIVE YOU A HUG! No matter how old they are.............

This is honest experience talking........

Parents who love their kids and work it!

HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

HALLOWEEN TIPS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 21:15:00 -0400

Remember that today is not like the yesterday's that we all experienced when it came to Halloween and the Culture and times in Life have somewhat changed. We have more knowledge on many things such as health issues and safety and wackos out there and on the Internet...lol

If you have a "Little Child and you do not want them to have the candy that they treak & treat at your neighborhood doors for, here is a suggestion:

Buy a double of the "Treat Bag you are using and fill it with the things that you give your little ones to snack on and switch it when you get home while they are washing up!"

Also..remember to wear reflective tape on your costumes at night, for crossing the streets! Go in a group!

Stay safe and "Always check your candy treats BEFORE EATING THEM!"

These easy rules followed will make your kids have a enjoyable time!

Happy Halloween!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"

GOOD PARENTING vs. BAD PARENTING!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Mon, 22 Oct 2007 13:02:00 -0400

Having Kids is easy! Raising them in TODAY'S WORLD of "TOO MUCH INFORMATION" is a harder job than our Parents or Grandparents had :-)

You have too make sure ...you have MORE INFORMATION THAN THEM! Especially...when you get to the TEEN-AGE years!

The Internet is a Wonderful "TOOL"...see I said "TOOL!" That is what the Internet is a TOOL...but kids think it is "their Voice or their GOD....lololol"

The kids of today think everything they get off the Internet is correct and accurate and they feel empowered with knowledge that may not be correct at all...

If you find yourself having trouble raising your kids today most probably it is because you have "NOT SET BOUNDARIES UP!"

SET THEM UP and STICK TOO THEM!

1. Only allow your kids on the computer a certain amount of time a day.

2. Have their cell phone shut off or in a certain place in your home every night

3. Have them do their homework right after school of after dinner if they need time to get their excess energy out from being in school all day

4. NEVER ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO TALK BACK TO YOU and GO UNPUNISHED! You will only be showing them how to get into trouble in the future and be setting yourself up for problems down the road as they grow.

5, Punish if they curse swear or use nasty words to ANYONE! Let them know there are 1000's of fantastic words in the dictionary to choose from and put one in their rooms

6. ASK THEM EVERYDAY WHAT THEY DID IN SCHOOL! Show them you DO CARE & LISTEN TO THEM!

7. HAVE GROUP HUGS IN YOUR HOME! THIS IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! IT GIVEs A GREAT SENSE OF BELONGING!

8. When you punish for something, make sure the punishment fits the problem. DO NOT GIVE IN! STICK TO IT! THEY WILL LOVE YOU WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND & ARE MATURE..ignore the mumbling and hurtful things they may say under their breath....JUST REMIND THEM YOU LOVE THEM!

9. Reward them with extra time for things, like on the computer or staying up or coming home a bit later when they are FOLLOWING ALL THE FAMILY RULES! It is important for a child, even up until College age to understand HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM!

10. "EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED...PERIOD!" ACTIONS SHOW IT SO YOU MUST SHOW YOUR LOVE ALSO! Parenting..a GREAT PARENT is a 24/7 day a week job. 365 days a year! NO TIME OFF! NO PAID HOLIDAYS! NO VACATIONS ALONE! NO RAISES! NO SICK DAYS! NOTHING! BE PROUD TO BE A GREAT PARENT and for all of the "SINGLE PARENTS...BE TWICE AS PROUD OF YOURSELVES!"

Parents of Today have a tough road...but it can be done if you follow these few guides and if you need more write to http://www.jez-sez.com/ main page and we will get you an answer...you are NEVER ALONE! The reason why our "Culture has gone wild is because 1/2 of the Parents of TODAY just don't CARE HOW THEIR KIDS ACT OR GROW UP AND THAT IS WHY THE WORLD OF TOMORROW MAY BE WORSE FOR THEM..... Those Single, Devoted, Domestic Violence Survivors know if they can do it...............ANYONE CAN! BAD PARENTS GET IT TOGETHER AND RAISE YOUR KIDS!

VENTARAMA THINK B-I-G! (Believe In God) Get it! Happiness! DEAR JEZ-SEZ.com http://www.whythismlm.com/d.cgi/wj1364/home.html

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
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HOOKING UP...GOOD OR BAD FOR YOU?

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Mon, 15 Oct 2007 13:28:00 -0400

Dear JEZ-SEZ.com
My Bitches and I decided to write to you to see what you think about "Hooking-UP"! We are so f-ing sick of the guys and this "HOOKING-UP" Bullshit!

At 1st we thought "that's cool-why-not-now WE HATE IT! WHAT DO WE DO?????
signed-
WE R NO HO'S!

Dear LADIES...First off..call yourself
"LADIES because that is exactly what you all are!"

...and don't ANY OF YOU EVER FORGET THAT-

The term "Bitches" has to go! That is what was invented by a jerk, an idiot (who is probably STD'd by now) the same as "HOOK-UPS!"

Treating women and calling them the same as they would a Dog-a Bitch "SOUNDS Like a Moron.."

If you act like one......GET IT LADIES?"

....So the 1st thing you change is your "Attitude"!

Being a Lady is COOL! We "LOVE LADIES!" EVERYONE LOVES A LADY!
Don't ever let anyone tell you different-"HOOKING-UP IS A KEY TO DEATH"!

7 YEARS FROM NOW YOU WILL ALL FIND OUT WHO HAS "AIDS" THEN YOU WILL ALL KNOW "WHO SLEPT WITH WHOM"....WE SUGGEST..."STOP NOW!"

7 Years from NOW....YOU MAY BE THE NEXT LADIES WE WILL BE WATCHING RUN PART OF THIS GREAT FREE WORLD WE LIVE IN! -STAY ALIVE LADIES!WE NEED GREAT WOMEN and MEN.-READ this to the Guys...PUSH there FACE on the Computer! We need them ALIVE AS WELL! YOUR CREW IS THE GENERATION TO RUN THIS FREE WORLD! GET TO WORK!

PICK A CAUSE!

xxxooo
WE CARE ABOUT YOU ALL of you GIRLS & GUYS!
xxxxooooJ
JEZ :-D
URMBFS!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo
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HELP! SPORTS WIDOW!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sat, 6 Oct 2007 21:39:00 -0400

My husband never wants to go out when there is a sports game on and we have to stay home while he watches the stupid games all the time! We are sick of it! How can I make him come out with me and the children?signed,HATESPORTS!You can not "MAKE HIM" that would just make you BOTH more unhappy. Let him enjoy his Sports and you enjoy your time with the children. Try to arrange time around the Sports games and let him know in advance. Maybe if you enjoyed getting involved in one of the sporting events you would find that you and the children could "ALL SHARE IN IT WITH YOUR HUSBAND AS A FAMILY!"Who knows..you may wind up buying "Season Tickets to one of them!" That's a Family EVent right there!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

MOTHER-IN-LAW PROBLEMS!

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Sat, 6 Oct 2007 21:36:00 -0400

My mother-in-law just called me up on the phone and asked me "how is he hung?"She was talking about my newborn son that I just brought home from the hospital!!!I almost passed out from the question!!! I did not respond and she asked again!!!Again I ignored her!!What do I do when she comes over? My husband is useless when it comes to her.signed"SHOCKED"Dear Shocked....Obviously, the woman isan idiot.Your silence the 1st time should have sent bells off in her head but since it didn't and you say your husband is "useless" this leads to a marriage with future problems..."If your husband does not speak up now and see how shameful that is you will be in for a struggling life with the in-law for sure....Have him read this and get some sense into his head!...and NEVER LET THE MOTHER-IN-LAW CHANGE YOR BABIES DIAPERS!

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

CAN YOU STOP CHEATING PLEASE???? NO....

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 2 Oct 2007 15:15:00 -0400

I just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me with one of my "close friends!"What should I do???I am 16 and my parents don't talk to me about this stuff.signed,cryinginside :-(Dear CryingInside,1st...you should "DUMP THE BOYFRIEND"-2nd...tell your "Close Friend" she has NO CLUE WHAT THE WORD "FRIENDSHIP" means and STOP THE CRYING INSIDE!If A GUY IS CHEATING ON YOU NOW.....HE WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT! PERIOD! SAME IF A GIRL IS CHEATING ON A GUY...SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEAT!....YOU CAN NOT "Change people's NATURE! They HAVE TO WANT TO CHANGE IT THEMSELVES!

THINK BEFORE SAYING "Yes"..........

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Tue, 2 Oct 2007 15:12:00 -0400

I am a guy and I am going out with this great woman who is 23. We have been together for about 8 months but I find I am not attracted to her and I was her "1ST" in bed. (sex)How can I break off with her without hurting her? I really do care for her.signed,want-to-stay-friendsDear wantabe-You are so full of BS....lolololNotice how you said..."You are NOT ATTRACTED TO HER ANYMORE..." You got what you wanted buddy...so move on...break off nicely..it will hurt her no matter what you do. Next time..don't be "So full of yourself and take consideration when you are dealing with a Virgin!"

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo

CHECK the BOOKBAG.......lol THE LOST STUDY SHEET?

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Wed, 26 Sep 2007 22:44:00 -0400

Remember to always ASK YOUR CHILD...no matter what age..........

"Hey, honey...do you have any tests you need me to study or test you on this week, let's write down the days ?"

This way it reminds them and shows them that you are ...there for them...and not "at them" and it becomes ...less stressful for both of you-

(actions speak much louder than words and they see..hey they do care...)

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!"

FOR THE LONELY ....WHO MISS THE KIDS WHO ARE OFF TO SCHOOL?

noreply@blogger.com (THE COMMUNICATOR) — Wed, 26 Sep 2007 22:32:00 -0400

If you feel there is no hope or you do not get any joy in Life with anything...except your CHILDREN...................
Time for a HOBBY!
Chances are you are most certainly depressed...and that is how you see everything around you..........if you can not see "the light at the end of the long tunnel..." then you are...yes Depressed....if you feel...there is "no one who understands how you feel or cares about you...again Depressed thoughts and feelings can creep right into your brain and take over your mood.............but........there is a way to "NOT LET THAT HAPPEN!..........how?????get a HOBBY....stay busy.....do not let the hours of a day just loom by and drag out...do something with "THE TIME IN THE DAY!" that is how your will change your mood and when your mood changes..the neurons in your brain will change the depressing energy that it transmits throughout your body.......before you realize it....the day is over and you will feel much better and you accomplished something as well............It is having..... "HOPE and THE STRONG WILL TO GO FORWARD PEOPLE".......Common Sense tells us that keeping the Faith and having the Will...... to go FORWARD..... will and is the course in Life.....LIFE throws punches at us all the time.....you just have to "LEARN WHEN TO DUCK!"

"HISTORY IS WRITTEN BY THE SURVIVORS!" xxxooo