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Divorced... Now I'm a lonely man. Russian President Putin

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 08 Jun 2013 18:01:00 +0000

Divorce undermined the Putin's image. Not every public politician can afford to announce their divorce.

Vladimir Putin acted like a man. With his wife, they parted on good terms. Vladimir Vladimirovich and Lyudmila divorced. This news is like a bolt from the blue, struck the immature minds of Internet users and has caused a storm of emotions and comments.

Alina Kabaeva

And you would not be divorced?

This is a civilized divorce. And if suddenly you have no luck family life, take an example from Putin. No broken dishes, God forbid, sharing all that fall under the arm - they remain good friends. The president and the first lady can understand - you can only try to imagine how much free time is the president of the largest country in the world to spend it with my family. Minimum. And at least from this minimum. But still need to get some sleep.It is possible to constantly go everywhere with her husband - but it's too difficult - especially poor tolerance flights.

Live_International Space Station on UStream

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 08 Jun 2013 18:00:00 +0000

Live video from the International Space Station includes internal views when the crew is on-duty and Earth views at other times. The video is accompanied by audio of conversations between the crew and Mission Control.

This video is only available when the space station is in contact with the ground. During "loss of signal" periods, viewers may see a test pattern or a graphical world map that depicts the station’s location in orbit above the Earth.

Since the station orbits the Earth once every 90 minutes, it experiences a sunrise or a sunset about every 45 minutes. When the station is in darkness, external camera video may appear black, but can sometimes provide spectacular views of lightning or city lights below.

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Sochi 2014 in Russia is a cost $50 billion: the Most Expensive Olympic Games in History

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 08 Jun 2013 17:59:00 +0000

Sochi 2014 Winter Games - the most expensive in history, only Adler - Krasnaya Polyana road at a cost comparable to four flights to Mars. It is estimated that the overall scale of plunders during the construction of $25-30 billion.

In the company involved in the Olympic construction, the blame for the huge amounts shifted to the state, which provided an illiterate projects.

On their spending - more than $50 billion - it was more expensive than the costs of sports facilities of all the Winter Olympics combined, of which there were 21. Olympic facilities in Sochi expensive in the world 2.5 times, we must remember that this model complexes, which differ only in the number of seats.

Thus, the the overall scale of plunders is about $25-30 billion, or 50-60% of the declared value of the final Olympics. These are the normal pullback. And this is at a minimum. We do not consider that the Olympics is used slave labor of migrant workers. We do not consider that the quality of the work does not go to any comparison with the quality of construction in Vancouver, Turin and Salt Lake City.

The most expensive Olympic facility - the 48-kilometer road Adler - Krasnaya Polyana for $9 billion for comparison - the cost of the U.S. program to deliver on the Mars rovers and operation of a new generation of Curiosity - $2,5 billion.

This is the most brazen, monstrous scam of Putin's regime. Is stated its intention to establish a public committee to investigate the crimes of the Sochi 2014 Winter Olympics, which, in particular, should compel the Court of Auditors to lift all stamps of secrecy.

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LaCie XtremKey Ultra-Rugged USB Flash Drive For Adventurous Lifestyle on Amazon.com

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 11 Aug 2012 07:07:00 +0000

The global leading developer of network- and multimedia-centric computer products, LaCie has announced the launch of its new ultra-rugged USB thumb key that is crafted to deliver industrial-strength, ultimate protection for your important, precious data, named as LaCie XtremKey, which the company claims as the world’s most adventurous USB flash drive, encased in a super strong military-grade (zamac constuction) metal pipe casing to resist the harshest environment.

Highlights Of LaCie XtremKey:
Hi-Speed USB 2.0 offers up to 30 Mb/s writing speeds and up to 40 Mb/s reading speeds
Watertight up to 100 meters thanks to XtremKey’s wear-resistant screw threads complemented with rubber O-ring
Survive drops from up to 5 meters
Resists pressure of a 10-ton truck
Temperature proof up to +200°C / down to -50°C

“The XtremKey offers extreme durability and capacity in a convenient, well-protected and fun form factor,” commented Alexis Kobassian, Product Manager for LaCie. “Despite the robust, industrial-strength protection we’ve added, it’s still a LaCie key that brings ease-of-use and reliability to customers looking to keep their data secure while on the go.”

LaCie XtremKey which measures just less than 3 inches tall will be offered in capacities from 8GB – 64GB, expected to hit the market in coming August for a starting price of $49.99 (8GB model).

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Guitar Pee – Interactive Urinals to play music

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 19 May 2012 13:05:00 +0000

The “Guitar Pee” is an interactive urinal designed by the Brazilian agency AlmapBBDO that allows you to transform your urinal use into a real Guitar Hero solo!

Gentlemen, you all know the interest that may have this kind of gadget, especially if it is placed in the toilets of a bar… The “Guitar Pee” is accompanied by a website that lets you listen to “creations” of users! Love it !

Men, you can now cut your very own guitar solo each time you visit the toilet.
Music magazine Billboard Brasil has created a urinal that turns your pee into a rocking guitar solo.
The musical toilet called ‘Guitar Pee’ uses electronic guitar tabs that play pre-recorded sounds when sprayed with pee.

After you have unloaded your bladder, the urinal will give you a number—where you can listen to your own ‘stream’ (pun intended!), or other ‘performances’ on a mobile app called ‘MPee3s’.

Morning sex better setting-up exercises

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 17:04:00 +0000

Scientists at Rice University and the City College of New York have discovered that the madder plant, aka Rubia tinctorum, is a good source of purpurin, an organic dye that can be turned into a highly effective, natural cathode for lithium-ion batteries. The plant has been used since ancient times to create dye for fabrics.

The goal, according to lead author Arava Leela Mohana Reddy, a research scientist in the Rice lab of materials scientist Pulickel Ajayan, is to create environmentally friendly batteries that solve many of the problems with lithium-ion batteries in use today.

“Green batteries are the need of the hour, yet this topic hasn’t really been addressed properly,” Reddy said. “This is an area that needs immediate attention and sustained thrust, but you cannot discover sustainable technology overnight. The current focus of the research community is still on conventional batteries, meeting challenges like improving capacity. While those issues are important, so are issues like sustainability and recyclability.”

While lithium-ion batteries have become standard in conventional electronics since their commercial introduction in 1991, the rechargeable units remain costly to manufacture, Reddy said. “They’re not environmentally friendly. They use cathodes of lithium cobalt oxide, which are very expensive. You have to mine the cobalt metal and manufacture the cathodes in a high-temperature environment. There are a lot of costs.

Recent work by the Ajayan Group combines silicon and a porous nickel current collector in a way that has proven effective as a high-capacity anode, the other electrode in a lithium-ion battery. That research was reported recently in the American Chemical Society journal Nano Letters.

But Reddy hopes to formulate completely green batteries. The team is looking for organic molecules suitable for anodes and for an electrolyte that doesn’t break the molecules down. He fully expects to have a working prototype of a complete organic battery within a few years. “What we’ve come up with should lead to much more discussion in the scientific community about green batteries,” he said.

Co-authors of the paper are visiting scholar Porramate Chumyim and former graduate student Sanketh Gowda of Rice; postdoctoral researcher Subbiah Nagarajan, facilities manager Padmanava Pradhan and graduate student Swapnil Jadhav of the City College of New York; and Madan Dubey of the U.S. Army Research Laboratory.

Useful whether sex with Viagra?

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 14:48:00 +0000

Easy to use, a small number of side effects, the relative security (not to patients with ischemic heart disease, taking nitrates), the effectiveness of more than 80% - all this has made the drug mainly in the treatment of patients. Indirect evidence of this was that already twelve pharmaceutical companies around the world produce modified forms of the drug. However, there is a natural question: whether sex really helpful with: Viagra is not for a remarkable, somewhat forgotten feelings, but on objective criteria of quality of life for the patient?

A prerequisite for a study in patients with ejaculotary dysfunction, taking the drug Viagra, have accumulated a large quantity of evidence about the credibility of lowering the quality of life of patients suffering from violations of erectile function. In a large number of research groups of men with ejaculotary dysfunction, unlike standardized by race, age, concomitant diseases, etc. Groups of comparison, was found credible reduction in the number of points in such parameters as general health, vitality, and (which is legitimate) mental health.

We have examined the parameters of the patients regularly (at least once a week) host citrate sildenafila about erectile dysfunction. The study included sixteen men aged 48 to 72 years (average age 54 years). Previously, none of these patients are not treated at the ejaculotary dysfunction.

Our patient, being educated man, of course, heard about Viagra, but trusting their doctors did not take the drug because he was convinced the doctor in his ineffectiveness from diabetes. But over time intra cavernous therapy to meet his less and less because of residual pain in the penis after the injections, which made me sick about 3-4 times a month. Against this background, has begun to develop neurotic fear of sex.

Overall, against a backdrop of the reception Viagra in doses of up to twenty-five hundred mg (dose chosen physician clinical titration method) at a date more than three months, we have obtained encouraging results. As mentioned above, in patients with ejaculotary dysfunction in contrast to men with normal quality of erection initially there was credible reduction parameters such as general health, vitality, mental health. Following the treatment, using sildenafila found an increase in scores on all parameters determining, but was particularly significant increase in such indicators as physical functioning, general health and emotional Role functioning.

As we found, the parameters of men before and after treatment with the use of Viagra reliably depend on age. Men with ejaculotary dysfunction at the age of less than 4O years before the treatment parameters such as physical functioning and mental health were reliably lower than men with ejaculotary dysfunction over 50 years. This is due to appear, the fact that the strength of the negative impact ejaculotary dysfunction in the human psyche is inversely proportional to age: the younger man, the greater availability of ejaculotary dysfunction traumatizes his mental health. As a result of sildenafila citrate parameters reliably increased as more young (under 50 years old) and older (over 50). However, the growth parameters in a group of up to 50 years old, was significantly higher than that of men aged over 50 years, especially such as general health and role emotional functioning. These results once again confirm that in young patients ejaculotary dysfunction significantly impairs the quality of life.

It is also established that in patients with Erectile Dysfunction reliably depends on the length of ejaculotary dysfunction, pre-treatment with the use of Viagra. Patients with a history ejaculotary dysfunction lower rates of all parameters compared with patients who have Erectile Dysfunction to occur less than 2 years. Especially this difference is significant for role-emotional functioning. After treatment ejaculotary dysfunction using sildenafila citrate marked growth parameters, but patients with a shorter history ejaculotary dysfunction noted a significant improvement in the quality of life compared with patients suffering ejaculotary dysfunction more than 2 years. It certainly shows that to restore normal parameters and improve the quality of life of patients as a whole as soon as possible to begin therapy ejaculotary dysfunction.

Thus, it is clear that Viagra as a treatment ejaculotary dysfunction increases the overall quality of life. However, reliable growth of all parameters describing, against the backdrop of sildenafila citrate once again demonstrates its high safety and efficacy. However, it must be remembered that the quality of life of patients receiving treatment sildenafila citrate reliably depend, ultimately, by age, length of history ejaculotary dysfunction and the correct dosage of the drug selection. That is why the answer to the question formulation in the headline of the article, the positive: sex with Viagra is useful.

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30 years ... and still virgin

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 21 Sep 2008 16:14:00 +0000

Of the total diversity of reasons why people remain virgin, sexologist emit five principal.

Traumatic childhood experiences (sexual harassment, violence). The strategy of avoidance, deputy conduct can not get into situations that can cause severe memory.

Idealization partner. Romantics sublimating the need for love and convert it to other experiences. They are waiting for a meeting with a man or woman of their dreams or remain true to first love.

Religious, cultural norms. In some traditions are required to keep virgin until the wedding, or even until his death.

Still unformed sexual identity. A man in his youth not absorbed the stereotypes of sexual behavior of their sex. This may be due, and not perceived homosexuality.

Low self-esteem. Man feels is not beautiful, stupid, unworthy of attention. Often this is the result of difficult relations with his mother - too power to interfere in all affairs, or indifferent, absent.

«When you sixteen, and you are a virgin, even touching. But in thirty-six it already looks ridiculous and indecent ». How many people have experienced such feelings known: no statistics, and hard on this issue expect candor. Nevertheless, many adults live remains virgin, and suffer from it as of anomalies, which no one can tell. «I am red, when I ask: Who are you on the horoscope - Virgo? I hate the expression of type «innocent lamb», «virgin jungle», and so on », - recognizes the 32-year-old Anna. Anna is protected by force of the Actor's imagination: «All I play the role of swagger virgins. No one knows the truth, but two friends with whom we are familiar from childhood ». For her deception - is saving, but necessary measure to avoid attracting attention, not excuses and did not answer the question: «Why?»

«Virginity adult in public opinion no longer looks like a virtue. It even saw a social failure: if you are successful, you need to be successful in everything », - comments sexologist, MD. «Sexual start before marriage is becoming commonplace. In this age of marriage increases - adds a gynecologist. - For 16-17-year-old boys and girls to have sexual relations today prestigious. Moreover, when a child of 20 years do not yet have a partner, parents worry: Is it all right? This change of manners - an additional problem for those who have never had sexual relations ».

In most cases, virgin does not serve either for or against virginity as such. But they always have any explanation: «too much work», «no desire», «no time» or «not yet met their love» ... «To live in harmony with one another, simply need to invent some explanation, a concept. - For example, their virginity man explains himself that he «fully Science», - and as if in confirmation of this clock sits in the library and the computer stops to chat with friends. This is an example of the so-called replacement behavior: when to achieve the desired too hard, we unconsciously switch to a different activity, thereby relieving the stress and anxiety ».

Up to a certain point for many of virginity is not a problem. Sometimes young people even claim the right to remain virgin until you meet lover. But for 30 years raises concern, followed by a can emerge and this phobia: «Can I?», «I Normal?» Man falls in circulation doubt that eventually could lead to the rejection of his body, fear of another body rights. By the 40-year-old point mental pain only increases. «Women virgin adulthood no longer wait for sexual relations. - Few said: «I want sex». They can not disturb the very possibility of infiltration into their body, they are afraid of pain. Rather, say: «I want children, home, family».

Most sexologist feel wrong to separate sex from other components of romantic relationships. «Often the problem is not sex: care of him, men and women unconsciously waive any close relations», - explains French sexologist Michele Saal. «Solid and reliable, these people do not believe in myself that constantly run down their questions:« So I do? »,« Is do? »- Continues sexologist. - It is easier simply to abandon relations, which continue to doubt and to experience ».

«It happened by itself - is recognized Anna. - I am heading psychotherapy, and now express their feelings more freely. What I think and helped me get to know this man. We both worked at the talks, then have supper together, there is some sympathy. He was married, and because the relationship could not continue. I first was able to talk about his virginity to a man. I shack up with him. Neither love talking about what was not, but it happened with great tenderness, it is easy ... nice. This first experience like I opened up, and now I feel normal, beautiful woman ».

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Sex statistics

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 18:21:00 +0000

The most popular time for sex - late in the evening on Saturday. The most unpopular - the day on Monday. Men accompanying sex obscene comments - 58% of women - 74%.

Men whose members have long 22sm and more - 1 in 100, Women who have more than two nipple - 1 of 5000, Men who believe that the half-woman sexual than completely naked -43% Three of the most erotic women's clothing: bra, stockings, shoes at the hairpin.

Men, on average, think about sex 2 hours a day, For the year the average man spends 23 hours of sex, Men often have sex: the missionary position , preferred dog-STYLE posture. In group sex ever participated: 28% of men, 13% of women Percentage of men who confess to their wives that people think during sex to other women - 51%, specifying what it is-39%.

After sex an average man: sleeping, eating, watching TV, In the year the number of casual partners (one night) a man about 30 years - 7, a woman - 1, The number of men, condemning such ties - 47% 31% of men claimed that they had happened several sexual partners at the same time, Men were negatively related to premarital sex, 19%; 24% of men believe that simulation orgasm - standard practice in sexual relations.

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The duration of the ideal sex

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 17:42:00 +0000

Ideal sex should last for 7-13 minutes, and even three minutes is quite "normal", study conducted by American experts. Australian sexologist, commenting on the results, noted that most men want sex lasted longer, while women prefer the opposite, that sexual intercourse should end quickly, reported The Australian.

The study is the first by measuring the length of the ideal sex. Researchers interviewed residents of the United States and Canada. Contact length of 3-7 minutes of the respondents cited "normal", all that is lower - "too short" and the sex, lasting more than 13 minutes - "too long".

The study, published in the international "Journal of Sexual Medicine, was conducted in order to meet the demand myth that healthy sex should last a very long time. U.S. studies show that the majority of U.S. residents believe that normal sex should last for 15-20 minutes. However, as shown by various polls, usually sexual intercourse for less than half that time.

The author of the study, Eric Corty from Pennsylvania said that such thoughts are the cause of "disappointment and dissatisfaction". "In the fantasies of the ideal male sexuality, men are presented with more members, a stone erection and the ability to have sex all night long" - he notes.

"It turns out that many men and women share this fantasy. The result of this study was to create a realistic model of sexuality that helps people with various sexual disorders and dysfunction, but in the long term - to prevent the occurrence of these disorders," - he said.

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Sex before adulthood dangerous for life

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 16:06:00 +0000

American psychologists found that early sexual experience contributes to the development of adolescent depression and may even lead to suicide. More than 25% of sexually active girls teenagers suffer from depression. Among them rovesnits not have sex, only 7.7% have psychological problems. At boys, the figures are somewhat lower - 8.3% and 3.4% respectively. This is evidenced by data American researcher Kirk Johnson. The scientist has concluded that sexual relations had a very negative impact on the psyche of adolescents. In his view, for the harmonious development of the individual first sexual experience does not need to receive before his adulthood. In the United States is 21 years.

From this point of view and agrees doctor of psychology Jin Tuenge. In gathering material for his book "Generation Me", academic interviewed 1.3 million young Americans and found that they are faced with depression much more often than previous generations. In doing so, with today's youth the most free views on sex, perhaps in the history of mankind. From the view of American colleagues stand some European experts who consider sex a kind of mine to the time mechanism, which, with careless handling could literally blow up the adolescent psyche.

The consequences could be terrible and more. American scientists calculated that the girl, sooner part with virginity, commit suicide three times more likely than their rovesnitsy, does not enter into sexual contact. Among boys the figure even higher. Young people entered into sexual relations in their teens, killed himself six times more frequently.

"Indeed, early sex can have very serious consequences." The fact is that at each stage of development formed in man certain mental functions. Thus, from 12 to 15 and even 18 years before the foundation of such a thing as loyalty. Then, 25 years before going on awareness of the concept of love. Early sex leads to a malfunction of a phased personality. It turns out that teenagers realize through sex only brute power, not realizing that such love, "- warns psychologist."Young girls often begin to think - that with the help of the sex they will be able to attach themselves to a partner, but in a way they only discourage him. And because girls typically attached to humans after close relationship, they often dealt with suicide because of failed love. Therefore, sexual life must begin no earlier than 18 years, when already pass all the major stages of personality. "

However, experts believe that early sex can not be treated unambiguously negative. "For example, for adolescents 14-15 years old, they engaged in sexual relationship. If they love each other - everything is normal," - believes sexologist. Let them will separate in two years, but they appeared experience. Yes, if young people do not like each other that, of course, very often, it can harm. But society must understand - physiological functions by themselves are not guilty, and they can not be denied. You can not injunctions!

It makes no sense to recognize the ban and psychologists. They are more concerned about the improper upbringing of teenagers. "Today's children are poorly distinguish the notion of love and sex. They are simply misinformed," - tells a psychologist. In doing so, there is a need for children to love and be loved. We should not prohibit them sex, as well as bans nothing wrest out, fill a need for love. Not coincidentally always particularly popular literature lessons. Through literature, children taught how to love.

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Second attempt

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:52:00 +0000

As sometimes happens, upset or fall aboard, and then to part with his girlfriend or another, we think that this forever. But day passes (week, month) and we start to miss, sadness and mourn their fate. We think that all current setbacks and failures associated with loss of loved one, who as guardian angel protects us from life storms. In doing so we forget, of course, because of what actually occurred tiff and not hesitate to break his head (not afraid of the word), threw back to start all over again.

Imagine statistics argues that many people, who finds the strength to come back to, seemingly, a former friend in the broadest sense, are understood, accepted, and even more - their relationship come to lasting and durable agreement. However, before returning to his ex-friend or ex-girlfriend, it is necessary to reflect well on leisure and seriously weigh the pros and cons. Let us weigh together.

So, suppose you decided on the second attempt. Please note that at least one of two that necessarily need to lower their demands, that is to delete their bar. But even with all the willingness to make this relationship should not be reopened without prior nice conversation with a serious, but nonetheless a discussion that led you to rupture. If this conversation did not take place, psychologists warn, your relationship will be a precise repetition of the past. And this would not like anyone. It is therefore very calmly, without unnecessary emotions, if you want to discuss all your problems and differences that have not yet feel that none of the two harbours no resentment or evil to another.

But that's not all. These efforts will be required on your part is when you find together again. And they will need to send your relationships while avoiding the mistakes previously admitted, according to a new, more accurate way which would not lead again to the final, grandiose chamber or your relationship. It should not be the subject matter, someone who threw (abandoned the party, among other things, in most cases is more advantageous position prietom), or, say, one should not talk to each other about what can happen if you return possorites. Better not to think about that, because of whom and why to part you and that you have in common, because it is "common" and forcing you to be together again.

Another, which should reflect - is your personal situation at this period of time. Statistics again shows that are better than your case and regardless what you feel in life, so as to guarantee the success of your scheduled event. See for yourself: you have setbacks, you no one drew attention, you torture abandoned thoughts about you (or your friend to quit), and generally you have poured across the deep. Or maybe this state of affairs when you are not the way ex-friend or ex-girlfriend beckons, and it's your Excellency wishes to dispel Loneliness? That is why in such a position is not worth committing shots in the past. You just need someone who will understand and spare you. And this man can quickly become someone else, not your former friend, with whom one does not already exist. Undoubtedly, more likely from someone who succeeds. In this case, have a choice: if you prefer to rest your old love - it means that your deed objective, and this is the only person who you want.

And the last question that you should answer before dial phone number: if you want to purely theoretically prove to yourself that can return to her old passion? Does not of pure selfishness and vanity, not for the sake of whether that boast to friends or to satisfy their own curiosity you're going to rake up the past? If you understand that this is so and there are not count on your continued long novel - it will not. If your thoughts are clean, you are successful and are confident in their love - ever! And note that the second time separation would be much less painful than the first ...

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Sex for one night

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 15:05:00 +0000

Happiness men and women is not forever and not always treason once. Deceived partners, according to new research findings, suffer not only mentally but also physically. As the study by the Institute of Psychology University of Göttingen, mental and physical health, caught in a situation to cause harm. The study was conducted on behalf of the German magazine Focus. It interviewed 3334 men and women holding traditional orientation, which had been deceived by their partners.

Do people know about treason loved one, symptoms similar to those that occur in patients, endured various injuries. 66% of men and 61% of women complain of insomnia and other sleep problems, 69% and 62% respectively have difficulties with concentration. 68% of men and 69% of women after such negative experiences are beginning to fear for the future.

The study provides data on the frequency and treason. According to the magazine Focus, single sex on the side - probably a myth. Only 12% of men and 9% of women changed their partners once. Most (41% and 46%) supports this kind of attitude from month to six months, while 29% and 23% - respectively longer. The reason, push for treason, is in most cases, sexual dissatisfaction partner.

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Friendship ... or sex?

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 06:20:00 +0000

As the saying goes, the friendship between a man and a woman sooner or later ends with sex. This, of course, does not always happen, but very often. The question whether to translate good friendly relations in the intimate sphere. All the pros and cons, you can weigh, having read this article.

The most obvious advantage is simplicity in the relationship. Ie you have a sexual partner, you do not have to look at his side, moreover your sexual relations are built on the absence of the pressures and constraints, and, of course, the emotional side. But this is only possible if both sides are well aware that such sexual relations to anything they did not oblige. Both partner honest with each other in that they both have sex and only, that is pleasure to each other, no one thought arises that the other uses, as, indeed, such sexual relationships built on mutual use of each other.

If you want sexual relations are not destroyed your friendship, you must be honest with each other. If someone of you (this applies mostly female), although there is little hope for something more, consider this the beginning of the end of your relationship. In 9 cases out of 10 such friendly-sex does not become a serious stage, therefore, women do not try to do from their male friends serious partners in life and not to join with him in sexual relations with some far-reaching calculation, only if you both want to sexual pleasures, and sex and all that.

This situation is suitable, since, so you skipped intermediate stage of flirting. You do not need to go to visit, buy gifts, invite in a cafe or restaurant, try to guess that she likes. All well and understood and known. You do not need to worry about how the meeting will take place, you feel comfortable with one another and physically and emotionally, you know each other's shortcomings. Men can not face, whether successful sexual intercourse, as in any case, you stay in good terms, and then can laugh together over small setbacks. Such a relationship for people who have not left time for romance, but there is a need.

Remember that you must be honest to each other and all points over "and" should be separated. Moreover, you should not extend your relationship to friends, relatives, acquaintances. You also should not advertise in public relations. If there is mutual understanding between the partners in this matter, it is sufficient to simply call. But if a partner for some reason refuse from the meeting should not insist and be aggrieved, because you do not need each other, in the sense of sexual relations. Moreover, convenience and comfort factor does not mean that you must be lazy or lazy lover mistress. Do not try to make the impression, just a pleasure and you will answer the same.

"Нарpу end". This happens very rarely, but perhaps that romantic feelings arise from both sides. And when that happens, the friendly feelings degenerate into something more than a simple agreement to meet the physical needs, they degenerate into serious relationship with the solid foundation built on friendship, mutual understanding and flickering feelings.

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Sex study Durex: secret becomes clear

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 18:50:00 +0000

Durex, the world expert in the field of sexual health and pleasure, presents the results of a global study of sexual life - Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey. The project was attended by more than 26 000 people from 26 countries. Project participants raised a variety of questions about sex. And, first of all scientists wanted to know how residents of different countries are satisfied with their intimate lives. In doing so, experts Durex found the most important parameters for sexual gratification.

The more people engaged in sex, the greater its chances to find happiness in your personal life. The Russians were three world leaders sexual marathon. 78% of Russian men and 80% of women have sex at least once a week. On average, each inhabitant of our country has 143 love visits a year. Ahead of Russians only passionate Greeks (164 times) and temperamentnye Brazilians (145 times per year). More rarely been able to remove all the stress in bed Americans - only 85 times a year. But the Japanese are showing restraint, these miracles: they find time for love just 48 times for the whole year!

In doing so, the scientists found curious difference between the frequency of sex for men and women. As a rule, men more often engage in love their girlfriends, but something happens where and vice versa. In Spain, weak sex "wins" with superiority in 4% and resident of South Africa made lovingly comfort to 11% more men! There is only one question: Where is the passionate African girls find partners?

Longer just love the game last in Nigeria: on average spend here on sex entire 24 minutes. Not lagging behind Nigerians Greeks (22.3 minutes), Mexicans (22.3 minutes) and Brazilians (21.4 minutes). In Russia, too, a decent result: Russians act of love lasts at least 18 minutes. But among the "lagging"… were Frenchmen, whose love is only 14.6 minutes. Worse figure - in India. Although it is in this country wrote "Kamasutra", Hindus spend the whole sex at 13.2 minutes.

Orgasm gives the brightest feelings, but experiencing its far not all. Durex found that most enjoy during the proximity of the residents of Mexico, South Africa, Italy and Spain - are 66% of respondents experiencing orgasm. Quite a bit lagging behind Brazilians (65%) and Greeks (64%). In Russia defusing love gets a little more than half the population - 54%. But less sexual satisfaction fell on the proportion of residents of China and Hong Kong: in these countries, only 24% reach the highest point of delight.

Female orgasm became the subject of a separate study Durex. The most satisfied were resident of Mexico (51%), South Africa (48%) and Italy (48%). In Russia, experiencing orgasm 37% of women. The least fortunate Japanese again: only 11% of them are experiencing the peak of delight. A resident of Hong Kong have set an absolute record of dissatisfaction: here only 8% of women reach orgasm during sex. Not surprisingly, it is Hong Kong and Japan are headed by top sexually dysfunctional countries.

Only 32% of Hong Kong residents and 10% of Japanese are happy with their intimate lives. Fortunate were all Nigerians - 78% think here their sexual life at its very. In Mexico the same views hold 73% and in India - 67%. In Russia satisfied with the quality of sex only 42%.

The Durex Global Sexual Wellbeing Survey (2006 year) - a global study of sexual culture under the auspices of Durex, the world leader for the production of goods for sexual health and pleasure. Large-scale study covered more than 26 thousand respondents in 26 countries around the world. During August and September 2006, scientists collected and analyzed enormous information on sexual life of different peoples. These data will enable Durex even more effectively help people worldwide find love and harmony of sexual relations. Satisfaction - just one aspect of the study Durex. In his course were explored topics such as physical pleasure, emotional aspect of sex, first sexual experience and sexual preference. Durex phased intend to disclose all the data collected in the next 18 months.

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Never to part with your beloved

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 16:00:00 +0000

Relations between people always require the ability to find a common language throughout, and regarded each other with the view. For its part, you must remember - in all respects no place in any ultimatums, that you just fold back from a loved one. If dear wants to go with friends to drink beer - please. He wants to forget a bit, and you can do most needed. Not all the same "house, family, work"! But abuse of such freedom of action should not - be aware measure in all.

Remember: even the best young man you never replace a beloved friend! The fact is that men and women have different reactions to stress. Heavy floor in this situation shut goes to themselves, while women must be reprimanded. If women are beginning to "eat out" a man they perceive it as a call to action. And if a man can not help, it feels a sense of guilt. Women just have to tell what happened, and gain sympathy. And this can often give only girlfriend.

But what if your favorite himself jealous you to a better girlfriend? If this happens, it means beloved think that what rightfully belongs to him, you sacrificed girlfriend. Therefore, do not forget to emphasize the important role played by it in your life. Of course, one must remember that you really loving people (or favorite girlfriend) will not dictate any conditions about with whom you communicate better, but will respect and appreciate all your choice. These friends should understand each other, just as sincere and loving people, too, you never refuse to enter the situation.

Love - a candle flame. Ty itself - like dome over the flames. What is your stronger self-confidence, so you burn more reliable flame. Yet the rest, and even friends - as a breeze. It may slightly or threaten to blow lights. A hurricane can be. Therefore, try to be strong cap his love, and not suffer the fate of methane and ...

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Statistics of sex

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 17:15:00 +0000

U.S. scientists conducted a sociological survey women about their sexual life. Here's what conclusions they did. Today, more women experiencing orgasm during sex. Statistics show that 20-30 year girls today are so pleased to 2 times more often than in 1994.

Every third admitted that during sex is that it is engaged in love with someone else. 65% said that informs his partner if they had not reached orgasm, and 2% silent and pretend that they are satisfied. 7 out of 10 said that are condoms in their purse "just in case." Half of the women interviewed were not ready to have sex on the first date, and waiting at least 2 or 3 meetings.

Sex, of course, very important, but 90% of women say that to have good relations and friendships are needed, trusting relationship. Most ladies have sex, 2 times a week, 1 out of 5 - once a month. click here

The first sexual contact

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 11:17:00 +0000

Motive of the first sexual experience may be love, passion or curiosity. But regardless of the reasons men and women almost always experiencing anxiety or stress. Even if the men had already been sexual experience, in the early acquaintance with a new partner he may have difficulties. It may be so concerned about the tension and desire to make a good impression that will not be able to achieve erection, as this would severely he did not want. Or vice versa too quickly reach orgasm because of the excess stimulation. This situation is possible in the very first sexual experience only in this case problems may be complicated inexperience partner. But that has not happened does not have to think about failure just because it happened not quite as expected, do not need to take first experience too seriously, because the situation will improve as experience is gained and gaining self-confidence.

The following tips should help in making even more pleasant your first steps in sex. Create a comfortable and intimate, that there is a sufficient amount of time that nothing and no one has been able to thwart you. And although five minutes in the back seat cars in jeopardy, you find that this assumption may, of course, deprive you of chastity and even bear some share of romance, but the number of failures in such cases much higher. Do not forget about contraception, pregnancy if your partner is undesirable. Always remember that there are sexually transmitted diseases, some of them can run and hide people they can not even suspect, including AIDS. And if you do not quite know their partner or partner, it is better to once again secure oneself against. Also rule will be good tone, if you think about the safety of your partner, because if you already have sexual contact, it is possible that you are a carrier of infection.

It should not be too hasty, too, especially if the partner did not sexually experienced. A woman should be sufficiently initiated, then it appears a natural lubricant, and they relax, thus facilitating sexual penetration member. If not enough natural lubrication, to use lyubrikant, it will also facilitate the penetration and reduce the pain and traumatization. In addition, lyubrikant with nonoksinol-9 will help prevent unwanted pregnancies, with aloe and vitamin "A" will accelerate the process of regenerating, but with clorgeksin mirimistinom or speak in his role antiseptic. If partner virgin, I choose posture "top man" and put a pillow under her hips to facilitate infiltration. Tremors have to be shallow, cautious, but strong.

Virginal membrane does not constitute a real obstacle, as it is a very thin wall, only partially covers entry into the vagina. When it does not break the pain is too strong, unpleasant feelings are likely to arise from the fact that entry into the vagina has not yet been stretched and very narrow, and muscles can be severely stretched from the unrest. Therefore, your actions may facilitate a tentative entrance into the vagina stretching his fingers. The loss of blood is usually only symbolic, and sometimes it may not be at all.

None of you should not feel disappointed if the woman does not reach orgasm. Only not many women in the first Relations experiencing orgasm, it's sometimes rare, even with a regular sex life. Most women have to learn to experience orgasm during intercourse, they are not automatic, as in men.

To defuse tensions can drink any alcoholic beverage, but in small numbers. Keep in mind that excessive alcohol consumption reduces sensitivity and slows down the time of orgasm in men. Yes case and not only in this, because first sexual experience - this event, about which people then remembers his entire life, and agree, as some do not seem especially pleased then to remember all their lives, who are deprived your virginity : How your first girl all night trying to awaken you that you want something done with it.

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The crises of family life.

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 16:27:00 +0000

No family, which during his life, never to quarrel. All discord and trouble - is to check the strength of relations. But it turns out all these troubles cyclical, and it may be, if not avoided, at least mitigate crises. Psychologists have found that each couple is being held, on average, three crisis. There may be more, it all depends on the temperament of spouses.

The first crisis, the crisis first 3-5 years of marriage. It depends on it, whether you're together or not. Advances the period ended occur gray weekdays. The husband and wife used to each other, they often have to deal with economy, stood at the plate, clean, wash, etc. The desire to do good turns beloved be a drag on. Most divorces, about 80%, accounts on this crisis. The partner or partner are actually not such as the first time acquaintances. People tend to idealize family life, especially women, but when a person is faced with the reality, there is a contradiction between dream and reality.

Sign with a partner rule: to discuss all disputes and differences. Then your or his discontent will not accumulate and result in rapid clarification of the relationship. If it does, you possorilis, try to understand her lover, to stand on its site, think, or maybe you are wrong? Do not try to change her husband - you are unlikely to succeed. Always looking for compromise, no loops on the negative points. Since Most quarrels in this period occurs because of domestic affairs, often going out from their homes in halves of the theater, guests, distractions.

The second crisis occurs through 7-9 years of living together. It is linked to the phenomenon of addictive. Usually by this time many couples factory children have financial independence. All habits, and behavior of a partner well understood. You can tell your husband as the lead themselves in any situation, with half the words you understand each other. All seem to be good, but it seems that love thing, no passion interest in the first years of marriage.

Do not hurry with conclusions. Understand, your love just moved to a new phase, has gained new sensations. Psychologists advise during this period of rest more often from each other, go to the fitness club, meet friends, and let the husband goes to football. You can take up new hobbies, change the image, that is make in my life that something new. You will see that you have new topics for discussion with her husband.

After 16-20 years of marriage may be the third crisis. It is exacerbated by middle-aged crisis. At that time the children grow, the plant for their families. Career either already taken place, and happy people, enjoying welcome success or not achieved what wanted. Many men are afraid at this age look untenable, so very often the fastest factory novels with young girls. They want to prove ourselves and others that much more can achieve and gain.

If you have something this happens, do not rush to divorce. After all, this is an extreme measure. Remain such as wise, cheerful and upbeat! These novels take place very quickly, and you are bound by long years, understanding of each other, knowing all the habits and preferences. In most cases husbands returned again, frightened of new life and misunderstanding.

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The theory of sexual selection. How do you evaluate women

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 08:26:00 +0000

In contrast to the evolution of abstract, brutal sex selection we are seeing every day. That's pretty blond went past and did not even reply to your greeting. A girl in a bar sniff, when you tried to give a treat its beer. You think every case to the beer? Not at all, you simply failed sexual selection. And so, you have to continue with the women all was well, tell - in the first and last time.

In contrast to the strong muscles and fast feet, such qualities as splendid peacocks and a long tail, seemingly quite useless in the struggle for existence. Why is their evolution has retained and even contributes to development? Responding to this question, Darwin suggested that teams in animals of different sex selection occurs on specific "sexually attractive" grounds.In such females are trying to select a team of the best and most attractive future father, and males compete with each other, trying to draw the attention of females. The longer the peacock's tail, the more chances he likes females. The same story with a deer horns and face with a necktie and a person.

Many years later, when the genes have already been discovered, biologists have confirmed the idea of Darwin: female descendant invest in more costly than males, so they are more interested in one, but "good" father. A peacock learns media as the best genes? At the tail, of course! CONCLUSION: women admired only the best - even if it is absolutely the best useless from a practical point of view. The main thing is that you have to start as a stand out from the crowd. The votes hair, tenacity. Or at least a jacket.

Many typical female character traits, according to scientists anthropologists, have a biological cause is understandable. They endured in an us from our ancestors-monkeys, and millions of years of evolution have not been able to change the "protection" in our brains program behaviour. Girls love swings. Take girlfriend in the amusement park, and she will choose either carousels or swings - short, the attractions associated with the sensation of flight. The passion for this kind of entertainment we inherited from the distant ancestors - monkeys, which, at the hands of swing, flew for hours with branches at the branch.

Cub monkeys spend the first months of life on the body of my mother, clutch fingers in her hair. Therefore, many women like to sleep, squeeze in the hands of soft toys. When people grope and warm wool, in the brain automatically gets reassurance program. Incidentally, this is why many women like to knit. During ovulation, all female monkeys experiencing arousal and cravings for increased communication. They run from one member to another flock, looking the most suitable male. If there is no male, it's not a problem and talk with female - maybe even girlfriend tell where to hide all these two guys. And although ovulation among human beings less visible passion for communication and gossips still remained.

If young monkeys take away from the mother, baby in horror grasp of wool - but already his own. People in a state of despair, but for lack of wool, are beginning to tear at their hair themselves. And many women, experiencing stress, go to the hairdresser - so that sub-hand shabby hairstyle. It is from a hike in the hairdresser some ladies are beginning a new life - to drop out of work, husband or let all serious. Instinct - can you do nothing. Sexual lips chimpanzee in a state of ovulation fill with blood and become bright red. But the monkeys sometimes think that kind of her genitalia little attracts males, and she begins to protrude their normal lips. Then too, all males immediately pay attention to the ready-to-female fertilization.

Females chimpanzee changing sexual partners several times a day. And each time before pairing males come into ritual battle for the right to possession of females - is instinct. Exactly the same instinct works and females - man-chimps must prove their right to insemination. And though now people have no need for every sexual act to beat opponent to face, the head women are still running "test - sex". And if there is no decent opponent, then let in another proving their love. Well, for instance, would let the tea. No, not with lemon, but with jam. And not with strawberry, but with bilberry. Or you do not love me?

Biologists have determined that in the process of sexual selection 80% of females of all species choose their same male - that is just a "spy", who picked neighbour. Swedish and Finnish biologists have put the experiment on the hen: done stuffed birds and move them from one black to another. Living hen that while present, have shown a clear interest it is to those who are surrounded by female attention.

The same reaction and a weak human sex. What do you think would do in the first place any woman coming to the party? It will examine not men and women to learn - what a man is the most attractive? 're Still the one that overshadowed her? And if there is such a woman starts nervous and simply jealous: how so? Attention, its rightful receives another! Consequently, all objects of attention from the need to discourage rival. CONCLUSION: surrounding themselves "stuffed" women. The emerging everywhere and always surrounded by beautiful sex (let them be relatives, colleagues at work or simply friends). Very soon you'll see that in your surroundings, new copies. Nobody likes to single men - any decides that the time it refused to everyone else, then it he did not seem especially and unnecessary. click here

Islam. Love and sex

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 18:19:00 +0000

In terms of oral tendresse in Islam there are different views. They proceed from the principle of "permitted all that is not forbidden", referring to the meaning and: "Your wife - Niva for you, go to your field, as a wish, and prepare for themselves, and be afraid of God ..." (2:223). There are only two ban, they say. The first is contained in the Koran - a ban on sexual intercourse during the month: "move away from the same women in menstruation and is not approaching them until they cleanse" (2:222).On the second ban in several states Hadith Prophet (yes Allah bless him and welcomed), and it deals with anal sex (as will be discussed separately). Thus, a direct ban on oral sex in Islam does not.

However, oral sex (if it is not limited stimulation) can be linked to hit in the mouth, men and women sperm his madhi (selections glands before eruption seed) or, respectively, selections female genital glands in the mouth by men. With regard to cleanliness sperm among Mussulmans there is no single opinion. Some believe it clean, like saliva or milk mothers, others denied it clean, comparing with blood and urine.

Another view is that oral sex degrading to humans and is such an act, "which did not commit, even the lowest animals" (Mufti Ibrahim Desai from South Africa). It is based on that person's head and his mouth - a sublime parts of the body. Roth and language memory for us to serve Allah, so using them to to bring sexual pleasure to their spouse humiliates rights. However, such considerations related to sex seen as something dirty and unworthy. But the man was created from seed, and Allah put the embryo in the womb so that he could obtain full development: "Is not it a drop of semen museums?" (75:37); "He makes you in your mothers womb, one after another in the creation of three darkness" (39:6).

There is another argument, found in the writings of some Islamic scholars. They say that there is only one certain place, where men's seed to fall - is vagina. God created man exactly so, he provided this to the human race could continue. In this case, compared with the field appears as a proof of the following allegations: grain should fall into the earth to it subsequently increased harvest ( "catechize for themselves").

"Oral sex is acceptable with the consent of both spouses, provided that the mouth does not hit any liquid" (Ayatollah Ali Sistani). "With regard to oral sex, it is acceptable only as a prelude to sex and stimulation" (Sheikh Ahmad Kutti)

Sheikh Kutti writes: "Scientists believe that oral sex with intent to obtain eruption husband's semen into the mouth of his wife - makruh (undesirable effect). This assertion is based on the views of Muslim jurists who considered unclean and semen madhi. If, during oral sex classes are seed eruption occurs, the spouses must perform a complete anointing - gusl, if not, sufficiently small anointing - voodoo.

Among the founders of the four schools of Islamic law there is a difference of opinion as to whether the seed (mani) clean or not. While the Imams Abu Hanifa and Malik consider unclean seed (nadzhas), and Ahmad Shafii imams do not share this viewpoint. But they all insist that the seed must wash off if it is wet, or to scrape away from the body, clothing or other items on which it came, if it has dried. If, during oral sex classes seed hit in the mouth, it is necessary to rinse their mouths. In any case, can not swallow seed. " click here

The most stupid laws on sex

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 05:42:00 +0000

In different countries around the world about sex laws "go one up" unprecedented fun. For example, in California a cat with a dog must obtain special permission to engage in love with each other. And in Utah is illegal to engage in sex with a man at a time when it bring in resuscitation.

The law prohibits Alaska salmon have sex on the streets of the city. In Washington, the only permissible position is missionary. Any other position is not legitimate. Police in the state of Idaho, if noticed have sex in the car, must, before suit, beep and wait 2 minutes, and then approached. In the state of Iowa man is allowed to do no more than 3 gulps of beer while he deals with sex.

In the state of Kentucky woman is forbidden to appear in bathing suits on the carriageway. The exception, if it is two police escort. In Michigan woman hair is prohibited without permission from her husband's hair. In Oregon illegally swearing during sex with his wife.

In Pennsylvania is illegal to have sex with a truck driver in his car. In South Dakota forbidden to have sex in a hotel on the floor. In Texas, there is a law banning pigs have sex at the airport. In Washington, there is a law prohibiting sex with a virgin.

In the state of Wyoming law prohibits have sex at the entrance to the store. In Minnesota, the husband is forbidden to have sex with his wife, if it smells of garlic or onions. In Montana forbidden to have sex in front of the house after sunset. In Nebraska in the hotel to have sex, you can only clean shirt night. In Nevada sex without a condom is not legitimate.

In New Mexico sex in a car during a lunch break banned, but allowed only when the machine is curtains. In Oklahoma law forbids masturbation for a man who oversees the sex of the other two people in the car. Illinois: if a partner at any time sexual intercourse say "no", his partner is obliged to stop. Otherwise sex by mutual consent turn into rape.In Santa Cruz, allowed a man to have sex with a woman and her daughter at the same time.

In the Middle East, Islamic law states: "After sex with a lamb mortal sin of the lamb consumed in food." In Lebanon, men are allowed to have sex with animals, animal if female. Sex with male animals is punishable by death. In Bahrain male gynecologist can look at the genitals of women in the survey only through the mirror.

In Indonesia, the punishment for masturbation - beheading. In Guam, there is a male profession, which is to travel to villages and deprived girls virginity. The point is that under the laws of Guam virgin does not have the right to marry. In Hong Kong, the wife has the right to kill her husband, who she has changed, but it can do so only bare hands.Bare seller legally permitted in Liverpool. click here

About silent than men in bed?

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:26:00 +0000

Of course, sexual education reached among us known success. The average ordinary person has been able to reflect on the statistical superiority over the clitoris vaginal orgasm. Woman almost business tone may briefed before sexual intercourse: "And you have… such things? .." Moreover, respect for their sexual preferences and partnerships almost does not concede theoretical knowledge: we do express their emotions words, do not feel shy and not redden. At least when it comes to basic values. In the same nuances and especially in the criticism partner, we somehow have a delicacy.

But when it came to bed - here we cast the truth. Do you think that there is light at the ideal woman? Yes, we do not need any ideal! Late. Now we want to consider all of your irregular folds and the roughness of the holder of a happy eye. Hide and muffle meaningless. Active shamelessness temperamentnoy squab us where miles than the relevant parameters 90-60-90. In addition, on some things we just can not pay attention until we are not tknut nose: "You see, I have one more chest". Well, yes, once we explained we are ready to reject about this together. Whatever you may perceive themselves, remember above all: in bed should be proud of their bodies.

Sex turns us into animals. We do strange things, almost no talking, cries, biting, and then spend a few minutes in silence, as if returning to civilized conversation. So sometimes in the men's head coming suspicion - and in ourselves whether it was? Does she remembers that now done, or it was unconscious state of meditation? Awaken in lowland instincts of a woman - no great feat, but to learn from its self-identity and sense of humor - another thing. Do not be afraid at times to understand the man that you are aware of their actions. Just look at him in the eye. Especially during oral sex. This, as our respondents, indeed "terribly excites".

Not all men speak with his penis and give him a name. It is rather an American comedies. But some divisions in the "I" and "he" is present in male psychology. Although already because his behavior so unpredictable. And once their two, and then the relationship should be built separately. Just imagine that we are talking about his favorite cheerful and stupid dog. You do not miss this case potrepat animal on the head, to caress, to say something good. And with the male penis. Man will be very touched by your concern for his pupil.

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She fear of sex

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:53:00 +0000

One, my girlfriend constantly suffers setbacks in his personal life. It is quite attractive, many men would like it closer relations. And she was in love with some of them. But hardly anyone of them tried to kiss her, she immediately raised revulsion, and she refused further development of relations. And, for bedding scenes, for example, in films, she observes with obvious pleasure. But when it comes to real life, she just can not imagine that it is love. Even with a man who truly likes her, even in fantasies with some well-known actor, nor with whom. She was about thirty, but not something that family, and even have a decent novel she had never produced. From time to time she calls me on the phone, tells about another failure and with tears in the voice asked why this is happening with it, whether it was normal.

The question "Are all the fine with me?" - Probably the most frequently asked question when it comes to sex. Very many people occasionally feel that maybe they were not everything is fine - that they feel that they like or dislike in sex. Forget the "normality"! The fact that normal for you may not be quite normal for the other, and vice versa. And in this there is nothing terrible. Although sometimes the situation is, indeed, can cause discomfort and badly affect the personal life, as is the case with my girlfriend. And then one must look for a way out.

Such fear of entry into sexual relationships called intimofoby. This is not a disease, and the state of relations with other people. And if men intimofoby most often manifests itself in fear of not sexual, and intimate, in terms very close, trusting, long-term emotional relationship with regular sexual partner, the women usually intimofoby expressed in fear of it sexual relations.

Reasons intimofoby can be quite a large number of factors - social, psychological, sexual. Putting an end to the disease itself is very difficult, especially in difficult cases need help psychotherapist, long painstaking work with the patient and serious analysis of all his previous life. Indeed, the roots intimofoby usually laid back in early childhood. Psychologists increasingly seen as intimofoby character pathology caused by upbringing alone, unbalanced mother. Mother his unpredictable behavior has formed with his child in disbelief predictability conduct of another person, so he does not trust anyone and neither is trying neither of whom do not depend. Psychiatrists believe intimofoby consequence of some mental illness in which there are emotional and strong-willed violations.

Intimofobymans may be even stronger and self-confidence with the type of men. Incidentally, it is possible that the legendary Casanova and suffered from intimofoby. It is this malaise, and not rampant sexual appetite forced to change its partners, such as gloves. Any man simply afraid to be rejected. The man, suffering intimofoby, few believe in loyalty and friendship, and very many of its incomprehensible, in your opinion, it is deeds connected with this, so that it insured against possible failures. And then he tells you: "You know me so many times in life betrayed that I simply can not trust anyone until the end, even for you".

Women now intimofoby suffer even more men. Many well-earned, well stand in the legs, so there is no need to men as breadwinners. Much more convenient to have such a ladies "bogus" friends. Many single women seeking to "give birth to themselves", believing that they have enough forces and means to educate the child. But, despite the best efforts of mother, child in danger of single-parent families receive one-sided education.

Already confirmed science and statistics that if a single woman born daughter, then she risks in the future to repeat the fate of the mother. From childhood your child better grasp certain stage of life and behaviour: for example, that the family should be dad and mom, allocation of responsibilities, caring, etc. If not, a girl can grow with the firm conviction: "If my mother was able to do without her husband, then he and I to anything." In addition, an enormous influence on the younger girl has a relevance to her father or step-father. Nitpicking father can make the girl in misandrist. Having experienced in childhood humiliating treatment by the very close person, the girl firmly learning that from other men can expect the same, and therefore do better without them! click here