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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2fAt8LtitUhuLSU_sMsC51Kylt8/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2fAt8LtitUhuLSU_sMsC51Kylt8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;So, you have this child that you brought home thinking that he/she would fit into your family in no time.&amp;nbsp; You knew there would be an adjustment time for everyone but you did not realize this traumatized child could turn your world upside down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;The next think you know is that you get on the web and find a site like mine &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.attachmentdisorder.net/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;http://www.attachmentdisorder.net&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt; and you read the symptoms for this disorder.&amp;nbsp; Your elated at first because you have tried so long to find out what was going on with this child - so beautiful but so difficult.&amp;nbsp; Then your heart sinks as you realize that this list is describing your child and the info is pretty scary.&amp;nbsp; You wonder how in the world you are to proceed and if it is even possible to help this child you so desperately wanted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;First, take a deep breath.&amp;nbsp; We have all been through this.&amp;nbsp; There is a way to help this child in most cases.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;1) Start learning - read everything about attachment disorder&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;2) Find an attachment therapist - on my site&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;3) Get support, again, on my site&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;The therapist will teach you how to parent your child properly and will engage you in the right type of therapy for this group of children.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Never give up hope.&amp;nbsp; Call me!&amp;nbsp; 610-283-3742 is my cell.&amp;nbsp; I always have time to chat with a mom/dad who went through what I did.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;God bless you and keep you.&amp;nbsp; Nancy G.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;!--
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IZFAYZNLnBvUUMjoGw2x8H-ujOo/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IZFAYZNLnBvUUMjoGw2x8H-ujOo/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;If you have read my site you know that my son is doing well at 19.&amp;nbsp; He loves, he trusts me...but...guess what?&amp;nbsp; He is now a more typical teen trying to separate and find his own way in life.&amp;nbsp; So difficult for me as I want him to stay home and catch up on those first 4 years he missed out on by going to Penn State online and living at home.&lt;br /&gt;
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I think my biggest mistake was buying him a cell phone in Feb.&amp;nbsp; Girls, girls, girls.&amp;nbsp; He is talking to them and taking peer advice - not used to that as we cyber school.&amp;nbsp; Now he talks of the U of Miami for gosh sakes.&lt;br /&gt;
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Yes, I am complaining but you know what? I am also joyful as I know this is more typical stuff to expect from a 19 year old.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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You and your child can make it to this wonderful time of life as well!&amp;nbsp; Make sure you are working with a true attachment therapist and taking on the work you need to at home to help transform yourself and then your child.&lt;br /&gt;
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God bless.&lt;br /&gt;
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