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			<h2>“Do you want to be a patriot or a pussy?”</h2>

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			<h4>These were the crude words of Donald J. Trump in the final days of his presidency. They were part of his multiple efforts to strongarm Vice-President Mike Pence to abandon his duty and upset the will of the people by hijacking the 2020 Presidential Election.</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>This (and other scenes) are recounted in the book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>Landslide: The Final Days of the Trump Presidency</strong></a> by controversial journalist Michael Wolff. If you&#8217;re asking yourself, &#8220;Where can I buy the book online?&#8221; <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>click here</strong></a>.</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl"><img loading="lazy" class="aligncenter wp-image-5237 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=300%2C52" alt="" width="300" height="52" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=300%2C52 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=1024%2C178 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=768%2C133 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=1536%2C266 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=2048%2C355 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?resize=600%2C104 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?w=1280 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.lawrenceelliott.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Buy-It-Now-On-Amazon.png?w=1920 1920w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></h4>
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<h4>Trump was totally convinced that Pence would reject the electors and challenge Joe Biden’s win in the 2020 Presidential Election. Other than Giuliani, who was drunk and not thinking clearly, Trump was the only one who believed this nonsense. But Giuliani was drunk and was not thinking clearly.</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>In the book, Michael Wolff wrote:</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener">“The president’s aides (and family) understood, too, that he was the only one (along with Giuliani, which only made the situation more alarming) in any professional political sphere to believe this.”</a></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>Let that sink in. The President of the United States allegedly attempted to launch a coup to stay in office, thus overturning the will of the people.</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">If there weren’t people from both sides of the aisle &#8212; although the vast majority came from the Democrats and Independents &#8212; we could have had a constitutional crisis even the founding fathers never envisioned. </span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Trump even wanted the Supreme Court of the United States to champion his cause to overturn the election. Since Trump has packed the court with conservative Justices Brett Kavanaugh, Neil Gorsuch, and Amy Coney Barrett, he felt assured he could get a loyal 6-3 decision to keep him in power. </span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">But the Court declined to take up the cases flooding them in hope of making the election of President Joe Biden invalid, according to Wolffe, Trump launched his rage toward Kavanaugh.</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m very disappointed in Kavanaugh,” Trump remarked in an interview with Wolff. “He just hasn’t had the courage you need to be a great justice.”</span></a></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hmm. He didn&#8217;t feel that way as he stood by Kavanaugh while the future justice faced sexual misconduct allegations during his confirmation process. But now?</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Where would he be without me? I saved his life. He wouldn’t even be in a law firm. Who would have had him? Nobody. Totally disgraced. Only I saved him.”</span></a></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">It sounds like Trump knows something more that he previously let on, doesn’t it? Trump simply can’t stop telling on himself.</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>The <strong>Michael Wollf new book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Landslide</a></strong> is a blockbuster!</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">In an interview with Britain’s Channel 4 News, Michael Wollf shared some scary information about people close to the former president.</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Virtually everyone around Trump—we’re not talking Democrats here, we’re talking Trump aides, intimates, and supporters—everyone believes he has gone off his rocker. I mean, let’s not put too fine a point here: They believe he is crazy.”</span></a></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yet, they put party and self-interest over the country.</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Let’s not forget Trump, although he didn’t win the election, he received more votes than he did in 2016. That should concern us all as the Big Lie that the 2020 election was stolen from him and he actually won. </span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>“We won. Won in a landslide. This was a landslide.” </b></a></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Landslide-Final-Days-Trump-Presidency/dp/125083001X?pd_rd_w=4AxDc&amp;pf_rd_p=c64372fa-c41c-422e-990d-9e034f73989b&amp;pf_rd_r=HJ4VKC0MT5MYM4DTQ8J2&amp;pd_rd_r=79b34f3f-d4ba-4065-bd74-3f19bcbb690a&amp;pd_rd_wg=uF42p&amp;pd_rd_i=125083001X&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-web-20&amp;linkId=2f333bec67c77f7cb6dc98f4a2f6a00e&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>President Donald J. Trump, January 6, 2021</b></a></h3>
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<h4 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tens of millions of his followers believe this, too.</span></h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>We thought we could make America once again America after the 2020 election, but it may take until 2024. We just have to want it more than Trump and his supporters.</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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			<h3 style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Could a mouthwash kill COVID-19?</span></h3>
<h3>According to researchers at Cardiff University in Wales, an ingredient in certain <strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Crest-Pro-health-Multi-Protection-Alcohol-Package/dp/B003CP12O8/ref=as_li_ss_tl?dchild=1&amp;keywords=Crest+pro-health+multi-protection+mouthwash&amp;qid=1605640183&amp;sr=8-5&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=lde-blog-20&amp;linkId=c5af609eaa49deeacaa23ab53bf85f24&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener">mouthwashes</a></strong> has shown &#8220;promising signs&#8221; in limiting the viral load of COVID-19, also known as SARS-CoV-2 and coronavirus. After more research, this could be big.</h3>
<h3>The scientists discovered mouthwashes containing at least 0.7% <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Crest-Pro-health-Multi-Protection-Alcohol-Package/dp/B003CP12O8/ref=as_li_ss_tl?dchild=1&amp;keywords=Crest+pro-health+multi-protection+mouthwash&amp;qid=1605640183&amp;sr=8-5&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=lde-blog-20&amp;linkId=c5af609eaa49deeacaa23ab53bf85f24&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>cetypyridinium chloride (CPC</strong></a>) was able to kill COVID-19 within 30 seconds of exposure to it. The lab tests were conducted replicating the conditions of the human nasopharynx and oropharynx passages.</h3>
<h3>These preliminary findings have yet to be peer-reviewed and further studies need to be conducted, especially on how CPC interacts with COVID-19 in human saliva.</h3>
<h3>Some of the brands with cetypyridinium chloride (CPC) include:</h3>
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<h3>Dentyl mouthwash</h3>
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<h3><strong><a href="https://amzn.to/2IK1dfj" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Crest Pro-Health Multi-Protection mouthwash</a> &#8211; [<a href="https://amzn.to/2IK1dfj" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">BUY NOW AT AMAZON</a>]</strong></h3>
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<h3><a href="https://amzn.to/3f8BCZ5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong>Colgate Total Pro-Shield</strong></a><strong> &#8211; [<a href="https://amzn.to/3f8BCZ5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">BUY NOW AT AMAZON</a>]</strong></h3>
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<h3><a href="https://amzn.to/3f8BCZ5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong>Sensodyne Pronamel Daily Mouthwash</strong></a><strong> &#8211; [<a href="https://amzn.to/2HaJ1L7" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">BUY NOW AT AMAZON</a>]</strong></h3>
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<h3>Oral-B Pro-Expert Multi-Protection Alcohol-Free mouthwash</h3>
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<h3><a href="https://amzn.to/3nvHXks" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong>Colgate Plax Cool Mint</strong></a><strong> &#8211; [<a href="https://amzn.to/3nvHXks" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">BUY NOW AT AMAZON</a>] </strong></h3>
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<h3>OraCare+ Sensitive Alcohol-Free Fluoride mouthwash</h3>
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<h3>To read the complete story at the UK&#8217;s <a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-54971650" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">BBC</a> website, <a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-54971650" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">click here</a>.</h3>
<h2><strong>I keep a bottle of whichever brand I can find in my car and I use it after returning from being in inside stores and tight areas with people.</strong></h2>
<h3>Of course, this still means we have to utilize the preventative measures to keep us all safe:</h3>
<h2>Wash your hands often</h2>
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<h3>Wash your hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds especially after you have been in a public place, or after blowing your nose, coughing, or sneezing.</h3>
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<h3>It’s especially important to wash:</h3>
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<h3>Before eating or preparing food</h3>
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<h3>Before touching your face</h3>
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<h3>After using the restroom</h3>
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<h3>After leaving a public place</h3>
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<h3>After blowing your nose, coughing, or sneezing</h3>
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<h3>After handling your mask</h3>
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<h3>After changing a diaper</h3>
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<h3>After caring for someone sick</h3>
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<h3>After touching animals or petsIf soap and water are not readily available, use a hand sanitizer that contains at least 60% alcohol. Cover all surfaces of your hands and rub them together until they feel dry.</h3>
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<h3>Avoid touching your eyes, nose, and mouth with unwashed hands.</h3>
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<h2>Avoid close contact</h2>
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<h3><strong>Inside your home:</strong> Avoid close contact with people who are sick.</h3>
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<h3>If possible, maintain <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>A MINIMUM</strong></span> of 6 feet between the person who is sick and other household members.</h3>
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<h3><strong>Outside your home:</strong> Put <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>A MINIMUM</strong></span> of 6 feet of distance between yourself and people who don’t live in your household.</h3>
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<h3>Remember that some people without symptoms may be able to spread the virus.</h3>
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<h3>Stay at least 6 feet (about 2 arms’ length) from other people.</h3>
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<h3>Keeping distance from others is especially important for people who are at higher risk of getting very sick.</h3>
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<h2>Cover your mouth and nose with a mask when around others</h2>
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<h3>You could spread COVID-19 to others even if you do not feel sick.</h3>
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<h3>The mask is meant to protect other people in case you are infected.</h3>
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<h3>Everyone should wear a mask in public settings and when around people who don’t live in your household, especially when other social distancing measures are difficult to maintain.</h3>
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<h3>Masks should not be placed on young children under age 2, anyone who has trouble breathing, or is unconscious, incapacitated or otherwise unable to remove the mask without assistance.</h3>
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<h3>Do NOT use a mask meant for a healthcare worker. Currently, surgical masks and N95 respirators are critical supplies that should be reserved for healthcare workers and other first responders.</h3>
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<h3>Continue to keep about 6 feet between yourself and others. The mask is not a substitute for social distancing.</h3>
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<h2>Cover coughs and sneezes</h2>
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<h3>Always cover your mouth and nose with a tissue when you cough or sneeze or use the inside of your elbow and do not spit.</h3>
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<h3>Throw used tissues in the trash.</h3>
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<h3>Immediately wash your hands with soap and water for at least 20 seconds. If soap and water are not readily available, clean your hands with a hand sanitizer that contains at least 60% alcohol.</h3>
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<h2>Clean and disinfect</h2>
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<h3>Clean AND disinfect frequently touched surfaces daily. This includes tables, doorknobs, light switches, countertops, handles, desks, phones, keyboards, toilets, faucets, and sinks.</h3>
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<h3>If surfaces are dirty, clean them. Use detergent or soap and water prior to disinfection.</h3>
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<h3>Then, use a household disinfectant. The most common EPA-registered household disinfectant will work.</h3>
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<h2>Monitor Your Health Daily</h2>
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<h3>Be alert for symptoms. Watch for fever, cough, shortness of breath, or other symptoms of COVID-19.</h3>
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<h3>Especially important if you are running essential errands, going into the office or workplace, and in settings where it may be difficult to keep a physical distance of 6 feet.</h3>
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<h3>Take your temperature if symptoms develop.</h3>
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<h3>Don’t take your temperature within 30 minutes of exercising or after taking medications that could lower your temperature, like acetaminophen.</h3>
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<h3>Follow CDC guidance if symptoms develop.</h3>
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<h2>Protect Your Health This Flu Season</h2>
<h3>It’s likely that flu viruses and the virus that causes COVID-19 will both spread this winter. Healthcare systems could be overwhelmed treating both patients with flu and patients with COVID-19. This means getting a flu vaccine during 2020-2021 is more important than ever.</h3>
<h3>While getting a flu vaccine will not protect against COVID-19 there are many important benefits, such as:</h3>
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<h3>Flu vaccines have been shown to reduce the risk of flu illness, hospitalization, and death.</h3>
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<h3>Getting a flu vaccine can also save healthcare resources for the care of patients with COVID-19</h3>
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<h3>We are still our own best ally and enemy in the fight against COVID-19.</h3>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2020 04:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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			<p>Today,  the World Health Organization made a chilling announcement about the coronavirus pandemic:</p>
<p><em>“We still have a long way to go in this pandemic,” said Tedros Adhanom-Ghebreyesus, director-general of the WHO at a briefing in Geneva. “In the last 24 hours, there have been 106,000 cases reported to WHO – the most in a single day since the outbreak began. Almost two-thirds of these cases were reported in just four countries.”</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">[<a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/coronaviris-covid-19-pandemic-data/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Click here to see current COVID-19 cases and deaths.</em></a>]</p>
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</script></center>Which four countries? Russia, Brazil, India, and the United States (of course!).</p>
<p>The number is scary, but why is it chilling? Because this happens to be the same day all 50 US states were partially opened.</p>
<p>Strap on your face masks, folks. We may be in for a wild ride.</p>
<p>Especially with the man occupying the White House. He&#8217;s too busy acting a fool on Twitter, hurling playground-style insults, and threatening states. He&#8217;s pathetic <em>and</em> dangerous.</p>
<p>Last night, I watched a report on CNN that made me understand this new path we&#8217;re on will be no picnic. Using a fluorescent solution on her hands, CNN correspondent Randi Kaye was the guinea pig in a &#8220;contact spreading&#8221; experiment while sitting with others at a restaurant table. Using ultraviolet light, we&#8217;d see everything she touched and to whom she passed her &#8220;germs&#8221;. Using the same solution and UV light, they showed how easy &#8212; and how far &#8212; someone could spread droplets through a simple cough.</p>
<p>Please. Watch the video before making a jailbreak for your favorite restaurant. You may think twice about going. Or maybe not. Sorry. Wishful thinking.</p>
<p>Be safe.</p>
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		<title>HuffPost: What Would You Do If Your Spouse Was Your Rapist?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2020 03:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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			<p><em>This was originally published in the Canadian edition of <strong><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/spousal-rape_b_3408362.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">HuffPost</a></strong> (formerly known as <strong><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/spousal-rape_b_3408362.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Huffington Post</a></strong>) on June 11, 2013, while I lived in Germany. I&#8217;ve never forgotten the experience that moved me to write it. I was glad to see it moved others, too. In the era of the &#8220;Me Too&#8221; movement, this piece is as important today as it was when it was first published.</em></p>
<p>This week, I had a drink with a very good friend. After a little conversation about this and that, we started on a very interesting subject. It was regarding an upcoming event and I could see it was weighing heavily on his mind. I listened to him because that&#8217;s exactly what he needed.</p>
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</script></center>He&#8217;s currently in a relationship with a wonderful woman and it&#8217;s getting quite serious. In the coming week, they&#8217;ll be attending a special gathering of her family. Her parents will be present, as well as her adult children with their spouses and children. Friends and other members of the family will also be there, including her ex-husband, who is the father of her children. He also happens to be the man who raped and brutally sodomized her for the last four years of their nine-year marriage.</p>
<p><a title="Click here" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/spousal-rape_b_3408362.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click here</a> to read more at <a title="The Huffington Post" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/spousal-rape_b_3408362.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em><strong>The Huffington Post</strong></em></a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Extra:</strong> On the surface, <em>&#8220;How Come, How Long&#8221;</em>, performed by Babyface, featuring Stevie Wonder, is a beautiful song. But it&#8217;s really more than that. The words skillfully tell of the sadness and pain of domestic violence. Below is the video. Listen to the content and emotion of the song and you&#8217;ll understand.</p>
<p>How Come, How Long<br />
Performed by Babyface, featuring Stevie Wonder<br />
Composed by Stevie Wonder &amp; Babyface<br />
Produced &amp; Arranged by Babyface<br />
© Copyright 1996</p>
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		<title>HuffPost: As a Man, I No Longer Feel the Need to Apologize For Crying</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jan 2020 12:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I recently contributed a personal story to a book titled 101 Awesome Things To Do For Someone Who's Sick. Created by actor and award-winning author Elaine Wilkes, this thought-provoking book is filled with heart-warming stories and wonderful ideas to make life easier for anyone who is ill. I...]]></description>
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			<p><em>This was originally published in the <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/author/lawrence-d-elliott/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Canadian edition</a> of <strong><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/as-a-man-i-no-longer-feel_b_4387096.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">HuffPost</a></strong> (formerly known as <strong><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/as-a-man-i-no-longer-feel_b_4387096.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Huffington Post</a></strong>) December 5, 2013 while I lived in Germany. In the age of Trump and in the current climate, this point could more relevant now than I could have ever known when I wrote it.</em></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I recently contributed a personal story to a book titled </span><strong style="color: #000000;"><em style="font-style: italic !important;"><a title="101 Awesome Things To Do for Someone Who’s Sick" href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/product/101-awesome-things-to-do-for-someone-whos-sick/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">101 Awesome Things To Do For Someone Who&#8217;s Sick</a></em></strong><span style="color: #000000;">. Created by actor and award-winning author </span><em style="font-style: italic !important; color: #000000;">Elaine Wilkes</em><span style="color: #000000;">, this thought-provoking book is filled with heart-warming stories and wonderful ideas to make life easier for anyone who is ill. I was honored to have been asked to contribute.</span></p>
<p>My story was about a client I had during my 17-year real estate career in Southern California. She was a lonely widow in a retirement center who needed to sell her home. For me, it became more than just another business transaction.</p>
<p>It was a story I&#8217;d been telling for years and the book was the perfect venue to share it with a larger audience. I even created a YouTube video where I read my contribution.</p>
<p>Click here to read more at <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lawrence-d-elliott/as-a-man-i-no-longer-feel_b_4387096.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Huffington Post</a>.</p>
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		<title>HuffPost: Will President Obama be Jack Johnson-ed?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[The story of what happened the night the family returned home from the hospital after Grandpa Joe’s death is quite amazing.]]></description>
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			<p><em>This was originally published at <strong><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/obama-2012_b_1504209" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">HuffPost</a></strong> (formerly known as <strong><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/obama-2012_b_1504209" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Huffington Post</a></strong>) May 1, 2012 while I lived in Germany. In the age of Trump and in the current climate, this point could more relevant now than I could have ever known when I wrote it.</em></p>
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John Arthur Johnson was born March 31, 1878, in Galveston, Texas. Both of his parents were born into and existed in the dehumanizing cruelty of slavery. Johnson lived in the system of Jim Crow. But he would rise from the boundaries that had held other African Americans down and forever carve his place in history. Today, we remember him as the great boxer Jack Johnson.</p>
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When Jack Johnson began his professional boxing career, it was possible for African American to wear the crown of champion in the lower weight classes. Unfortunately, the world heavyweight championship was off limits. But Johnson was not deterred. He pursued this seemingly unattainable goal with great tenacity. For two years, he stalked the reigning world champion Tommy Burns, pressuring him into a fight. On December 26, 1908, Jack Johnson defeated Burns, becoming the first black world heavyweight champion.</p>
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		<title>Remembering Mom At Thanksgiving</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2019 01:34:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<h2>My mom&#8217;s importance is more vivid now that her memories are all I have.</h2>
<p>November 28, 2019. The first Thanksgiving our mom&#8217;s chair will be empty. Is there a magical pill I can take to get through it? Is there a miracle elixir I can take to erase the pain? Are there words anyone can say?</p>
<p>&#8220;She&#8217;s in a better place.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;She&#8217;s left her burdens behind.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;She has her reward.&#8221;</p>
<p>I know. I know. She&#8217;s in a much better place. I know.</p>
<p>But that chair. That empty chair.</p>

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			<p>Alone in my thoughts &#8212; and with my words &#8212; I reflect on the the day. Perhaps solitude is the best setting for a writer in such a moment.</p>
<p>I thought about trying my hand at baking a pecan pie, my mom&#8217;s favorite during this season. But I decided to finish this blog post instead. I can always pick one up later, baked by folks who know what they&#8217;re doing. But there will be one at the dessert table. For my mom.</p>
<p>This week, I had the chance to review my work while in the process of updating my resume. Even though I shouldn&#8217;t be, I was surprised how much of my mom was prominently featured in my writing. So much of what I am today is because of her, so why wouldn&#8217;t she be?</p>
<p>At a deeper level, I know I also wanted to make sure she &#8212; and the world &#8212; understood what she meant to me. To all of us. Too often we wait to show special folks how much we love them. Then, it&#8217;s too late. There&#8217;s always tomorrow, right?</p>
<p>But, sooner or  later, we run out of tomorrows and we regret the opportunities we missed.</p>
<p>It reminds me of a few songs I&#8217;ve heard on the subject. One is titled &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Consolers-Collection-1952-62/dp/B00OY7T4BG/ref=as_li_ss_tl?crid=23KWSTTMZ1B8&amp;keywords=the+consolers&amp;qid=1574977730&amp;s=dmusic&amp;sprefix=the+consolers,digital-text,264&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-me-20&amp;linkId=d571c598bf97735442adb4d39b1fe552&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Give Me My Roses</a>&#8220;, written by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Consolers-Collection-1952-62/dp/B00OY7T4BG/ref=as_li_ss_tl?crid=23KWSTTMZ1B8&amp;keywords=the+consolers&amp;qid=1574977730&amp;s=dmusic&amp;sprefix=the+consolers,digital-text,264&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-me-20&amp;linkId=d571c598bf97735442adb4d39b1fe552&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Sullivan Pugh</a> of the gospel group <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Consolers-Collection-1952-62/dp/B00OY7T4BG/ref=as_li_ss_tl?crid=23KWSTTMZ1B8&amp;keywords=the+consolers&amp;qid=1574977730&amp;s=dmusic&amp;sprefix=the+consolers,digital-text,264&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-me-20&amp;linkId=d571c598bf97735442adb4d39b1fe552&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Consolers</a>, who originally recorded it in 1961. It made such a strong message, it was also recorded by Rev. James Cleveland and has been sung by many.  The lyrics explain what I tried to do: give my mom her flowers while she still could smell their beautiful fragrance.</p>
<p>But as her light began to dim, I wondered if I&#8217;d done enough. I used the one unfailing talent the lord gave me to honor her.</p>
<p>Here are the original lyrics to the song &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Consolers-Collection-1952-62/dp/B00OY7T4BG/ref=as_li_ss_tl?crid=23KWSTTMZ1B8&amp;keywords=the+consolers&amp;qid=1574977730&amp;s=dmusic&amp;sprefix=the+consolers,digital-text,264&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=lde-me-20&amp;linkId=d571c598bf97735442adb4d39b1fe552&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Give Me My Rose</a>&#8220;:</p>
<p>Give me my flowers<br />
While I yet live<br />
So that I, I, I can see the beauty<br />
That they bring</p>
<p>Speak kind words to me<br />
While I can hear them<br />
So that I, I, I can hear the comfort<br />
That they bring</p>
<p>Friends and loved ones<br />
May give me flowers<br />
When I&#8217;m sick?<br />
Or on my sick bed<br />
But I&#8217;d rather have<br />
Just one tulip right now<br />
Than a blanket full of roses<br />
When I&#8217;m dead</p>
<p>Give me my flowers<br />
While I yet live<br />
So that I, I, I can see the beauty<br />
That they bring</p>
<p>Speak kind words to me<br />
While I can hear them<br />
So that I, I, I can hear the comfort<br />
That they bring</p>
<p>Here are The Consolers singing this classic gospel song:</p>
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			<h2>Thank God For My Momma</h2>
<p>In 2006, I penned a story in the form of a letter to my mom, thanking her for always being the strong hand that guided me through life.</p>
<p>I submitted it to a project that would ultimately become the book <a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/product/letters-to-my-mother-tributes-to-the-women-who-give-us-life-and-love/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Letters To My Mother: Tributes To The Women Who Give Us Life &#8212; and Love</a>. It was a collection of love letters to our mothers from 60 authors. I decided to keep it a secret until its Mother&#8217;s Day 2007 release. As the book moved toward publication, it because more and more difficult to hold my tongue. I almost spilled the beans several times.</p>
<p>But when I saw this book review from <a href="https://oklahoman.com/article/3052399/nonfiction-moms-given-praise-in-print" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Oklahoman</a>, a publication in Oklahoma (of course!), I knew I&#8217;d better plan my presentation soon:</p>
<p><strong><em>One especially touching letter, by Lawrence D. Elliot to his mother, Etter Jean, says, &#8220;When we found ourselves without a warm bed, a roof over our heads or even the knowledge of where our next meal would come from, you didn&#8217;t give up. You rolled up your sleeves and went out to find a way.”</em></strong></p>
<p>We all went out to breakfast as a family. I read her story and presented her with the book. We captured her rare display of emotions in a photo.</p>

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			<p>For that, she was honored on TV on the KTLA 5 Morning News (Los Angeles, California).</p>

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			<h2>Other Places Of Honor For My Mom</h2>
<p>The story &#8220;<a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/doing-it-right/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Doing It Right</a>&#8221; (<a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/doing-it-right/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">read it here for free</a>) was originally published in the book <a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/product/not-your-mothers-book-on-family/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Not Your Mother’s Book… On Family</a>.</p>
<p>My mom and I were interviewed in the <a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/interview-pause-to-reflect-local-author-pens-story-close-to-home-the-san-gabriel-valley-tribune/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">San Gabriel Valley Tribune</a> (&#8220;<a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/interview-pause-to-reflect-local-author-pens-story-close-to-home-the-san-gabriel-valley-tribune/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Pause to Reflect: Local author pens story close to home</a>&#8220;). That was nice.</p>

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			<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They always say the first holidays are the hardest, but does that mean they&#8217;ll get easier? My guess is not for a while. Perhaps never. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But family and friends will be gathered together to give thanks for what we have, just as my mom would want. Tears of pain will be mixed with laughter over happier memories. That&#8217;s my prayer. My mom would want that, too.</span></p>
<p>I&#8217;m grateful to have had my mom for as long as I had her. Through the good times and the bad. During the easier moment and the toughest of them. We didn&#8217;t always see eye-to-eye. One of the many lessons she taught me was to think for myself. I guess it stuck. But looking back now, neither of us knew how much alike we were. In so many ways.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s an honor I&#8217;ll cherish for the rest of my life.</p>

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<p>In 2006, I penned a story in the form of a letter to my mom, thanking her for always being the strong hand that guided us through life. I submitted to a project that would ultimately become the book Letters To My Mother: Tributes To The Women Who Give Us Life -- and Love. It was a collection of love letters to our mothers from 60 authors. I decided to keep it a secret until its Mother's Day 2007 release. As the book moved toward publication, it because more and difficult to hold my tongue. I almost spilled the beans several times.</p>
<p>But when I saw this book review from <a href="https://oklahoman.com/article/3052399/nonfiction-moms-given-praise-in-print" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Oklahoman</a>, a publication in Oklahoma (of course!), I knew I'd better plan my presentation soon:</p>
<p><strong><em>One especially touching letter, by Lawrence D. Elliot to his mother, Etter Jean, says, "When we found ourselves without a warm bed, a roof over our heads or even the knowledge of where our next meal would come from, you didn't give up. You rolled up your sleeves and went out to find a way.”</em></strong></p>
<p>We all went out to breakfast a family, where I read her story and presented her with the book. We captured her rare display of emotions in a photo.</p>

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<p>In 2006, I penned a story in the form of a letter to my mom, thanking her for always being the strong hand that guided me th</p>
<p>I submitted to a project that would ultimately become the book Letters To My Mother: Tributes To The Women Who Give Us Life -- and Love. It was a collection of love letters to our mothers from 60 authors. I decided to keep it a secret until its Mother's Day 2007 release. As the book moved toward publication, it because more and difficult to hold my tongue. I almost spilled the beans several times.</p>
<p>But when I saw this book review from <a href="https://oklahoman.com/article/3052399/nonfiction-moms-given-praise-in-print" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Oklahoman</a>, a publication in Oklahoma (of course!), I knew I'd better plan my presentation soon:</p>
<p><strong><em>One especially touching letter, by Lawrence D. Elliot to his mother, Etter Jean, says, "When we found ourselves without a warm bed, a roof over our heads or even the knowledge of where our next meal would come from, you didn't give up. You rolled up your sleeves and went out to find a way.”</em></strong></p>
<p>We all went out to breakfast a family, where I read her story and presented her with the book. We captured a rare display of emotions in a photo.</p>

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<p>In 2006, I penned a story in the form of a letter to my mom, thanking her for always being the strong hand that guided me th</p>
<p>I submitted to a project that would ultimately become the book Letters To My Mother: Tributes To The Women Who Give Us Life -- and Love.  It was a collection of love letters to our mothers from 60 authors. I decided to keep it a secret until its Mother's Day 2007 release. As the book moved toward publication, it because more and difficult to hold my tongue. I almost spilled the beans several times.</p>
<p>But when I saw this book review from <a href="https://oklahoman.com/article/3052399/nonfiction-moms-given-praise-in-print" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Oklahoman</a>, a publication in Oklahoma (of course!), I knew I'd better plan my presentation soon:</p>
<p><strong><em>One especially touching letter, by Lawrence D. Elliot to his mother, Etter Jean, says, "When we found ourselves without a warm bed, a roof over our heads or even the knowledge of where our next meal would come from, you didn't give up. You rolled up your sleeves and went out to find a way.”</em></strong></p>
<p>We all went out to breakfast a family, where I read her story and presented her with the book. We captured her rare display of emotions in a photo.</p>
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<p>November 28, 2019. The first Thanksgiving our mom's chair will be empty. Is there a magic pill you can take to get through it? Is there a magical potion I can take erase the pain? Are there magic words anyone can say?</p>
<p>"She's in a better place."</p>
<p>"She's left her burdens behind."</p>
<p>"She has her reward."</p>
<p>I know. I know. She's in a much better place. I know.</p>
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			<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Go back to Africa!”</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is what I heard as a kid when black folks dared to question their (mis)treatment in the country we call “The Land of the Free”. In recent years, these words have been updated, often so obscured you had to dissect them to understand the true meaning. But today, President Donald Trump went old school on us.</span></p>
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</script></center><span style="font-weight: 400;">President Trump feels those who choose to protest their (mis)treatment at the hands of state should leave the country. Yep! The descendants of those who unwillingly donated their labor to help build this place should leave because they choose to peacefully &#8212; and silently! &#8212; protest their unhappiness with the status quo.</span></p>
<p>He also means the non-black brothers and sisters who’ve chosen to protest, right? In a league that is mostly made up of darker folks, we understand of whom he&#8217;s speaking.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When will this man understand that he’s no longer an Internet troll? He’s President of the United States.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Of course, Trump believes “you’re very fine people” if you’re a neo-nazi or a member of the Ku Klux Klan or a white supremacist or Alt-Right or whatever name is fashionable today. Do we need to have a noose around our necks (again) to understand where this man’s priorities sit?</span><br />
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<span style="font-weight: 400;">The protests were born when former San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick quietly began to sit during the national anthem. When his actions were noticed, it drew criticism. Then, Nate Boyer &#8212; a former Green Beret and NFL player &#8212; convinced Kaepernick to kneel instead. That didn’t help. The attacks on Kaepernick intensified, especially after it spread to other NFL players. President Trump seized on the opportunity and weighed in. Remember?</span><br />
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By the way, does Kaepernick have a job yet? No team will touch this player who led the 49ers to the Super Bowl.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Don’t hold your breath. The NFL just implemented a </span><a href="http://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/23582533/nfl-owners-approve-new-national-anthem-policy"><span style="font-weight: 400;">new rule</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. All on-field players and personnel are required to stand for the National Anthem. Teams will be fined for any violation.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Like a pig rolling in slop, President Trump loves the ruling!</span></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">President Trump and others hijacked the purpose of the NFL protests by making it about disrespecting the flag and those who serve our country in uniform. That makes so sense at all. Many from the African-American community have served in uniform, even if they’re <a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/whoops-she-did-it-again/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">not completely accepted as full members of this society</a>. In fact, it’s of historical record that the first to die in the struggle for America’s independence was a black man. </span><a href="https://www.biography.com/people/crispus-attucks-9191864"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Crispus Attucks</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, for those of you who need a reminder. That was on March 5, 1770, at the famed Boston Massacre.</span></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Over 248 years and we’re still in the struggle for freedom. Well, not all of us.</span></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">President Trump has never served in uniform, so he doesn’t have a clue what a sacrifice it is. That’s not to say those of us who <em>have</em> served are a monolithic group with single thought and belief. We’re not. We’re just as diverse as this country. Perhaps more. Non-white members of this society are heavily represented in our armed forces.</span></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If we require everyone to stand for the flag and the national anthem, then this country needs to stand for the ideals we profess to believe in. I think 248 years is long enough of a wait, don’t you?</span></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In case you need a visual reminder of why the protests exist, here you go…</span></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[I walked nervously through the parking lot. My legs felt as wobbly as freshly cooked pasta and my heart pounded in my chest like a bass drum -- it almost drowned out the clacking
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			<p><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;">Doing It Right</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">by Lawrence D. Elliott</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">[Originally published in the book <a href="http://www.lawrenceelliott.com/product/not-your-mothers-book-on-family/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Not Your Mother&#8217;s Book&#8230; On Family</a>. © Copyright 2014 by Publishing Syndicate, LLC.]</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">I walked nervously through the parking lot. My legs felt as wobbly as freshly cooked pasta and my heart pounded in my chest like a bass drum &#8212; it almost drowned out the clacking </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">sound my cleats made on the decaying asphalt. I was about to participate in my first Little League game.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br />
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</script></center><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">As I approached the baseball diamond, I passed a group of young guys sitting on top of a hideous purple Impala. They passed </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">around a funny-looking cigarette and each one took a puff.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Entering the gate to the baseball field, I straightened up and tried to walk like a veteran instead of the rookie I was. I </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">could see the stands had already begun to fill, not just with parents and family members, but also with area residents from one of the toughest neighborhoods in San Diego. It was not uncommon for clashes to break out between rival gangs nearby when our team practiced, and I recognized some of those same faces among the spectators.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">My eyes caught the wall of a nearby building on it was a fresh piece of obscene commentary about the mother of someone named Joe. I was really glad I wasn&#8217;t Joe because my mom was already in the stands waiting to see me play, expecting me to do my best. She would be upset if she saw the graffiti about Joe&#8217;s mother.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">My mom was born in a farmhouse in the small town of Lillie, Louisiana. Her life was not an easy one. She learned early that </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">nothing was going to be handed to her. She worked to instill </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">is knowledge in my siblings and me. We learned very early in life now right she was.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">After our father abandoned us, there were times when we didn&#8217;t have a place to stay or know where our next meal would come from. But we were never allowed to complain. She&#8217;d </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">remind us of what we did have and how some people didn&#8217;t even have that. For her, self-pity was verboten. It was not only a waste of time but a misuse of energy.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Mom worked long hours and juggled our little budget to make every end meet as she played economic leapfrog to better job opportunities. Sometimes she wouldn&#8217;t get home until </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">late at night. But she practiced what she preached &#8212; she never complained.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">And when I wanted to play Little League, Mom scraped together enough money to pay for a baseball glove, cleats, and the registration fee. But it came with a caveat.<br />
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</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;If you&#8217;re going to do this,&#8221; she warned, &#8220;you&#8217;re going to do it right.&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;OK,&#8221; I eagerly answered.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;You mind your coach. You remember how you&#8217;re supposed to act.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">“Yes, I know.&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">“Just because things get rough that doesn&#8217;t mean you just up and quit. That&#8217;s not how life is.&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">“I know,&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">“You don&#8217;t get to give up because things don&#8217;t go the way you want. That’s not how life works.&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;I know,&#8221; I said, hoping the lecture was over. I just wanted to play.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">After a few warm-ups catches with a fellow teammate, we all went to the dugout as the coach discussed the line-up with the umpire. As the visiting team, our team would bat ﬁrst. I would be the second batter.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">As the leadoff hitter stood at the plate, I waited in the on-deck circle with my bat as I ’d seen so many major leaguers do. I could feel my heart pounding even more when my teammate took a swing at the ﬁrst pitch.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Crack! The ball flew to left-center and the ﬁelder barely had to exert himself to make the catch. First out. It was over that fast.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">I approached the plate and stood nervously in the batter&#8217;s box. My heart was beating even more erratically now and my knees wobbled. The pitcher stood on the mound, went into his windup and hurled the ball across the plate.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;Ball one!&#8221; exclaimed the burley umpire in a deep baritone. My body seemed to tremble from the power of his voice. Knowing my mom would be watching, I was glad my back was to the standards I couldn&#8217;t bear to look at her.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">The pitcher started his windup again. I choked up on the bat. The ball sailed toward the plate and I started to swing. But when the ball reached the plate, I found myself unable to follow through with my swing.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;Strike one!&#8221; yelled the umpire.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Shoot! I should swing at that one! I yelled in my head.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">I could hear the taunts and comments from the crowd.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;He ain&#8217;t swinging!&#8221; one deep voice barked.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;He&#8217;s chicken!&#8221; shouted a female voice.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">The catcher threw the ball back to the pitcher. As I prepared for another salvo from the mound, the catcher yelled to the pitcher, &#8220;This dude&#8217;s scared! You can throw anything!&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">That comment made me angry! I was determined to swing at the next pitch, no matter what. I just hoped it would be a good one.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Once again, the pitcher went into his windup. This time, there seemed to be cockiness in his body language and he gave me a sneer when he threw the ball. As it approached, I prepared to swing, just as I&#8217;d been taught. The ball made strange serpentine movements as it neared. I swung with all of my might. Crack!</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">From the sound, you might have thought rd made a solid connection. But you would have been wrong. The sound was of the ball connecting with my knuckles! The bat immediate fell from my hands. I tried not to cry, but the pain was so intense I couldn&#8217;t fight back the tears, The coach dashed from </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">the dugout, and the crowd softly chattered.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;Can you move your fingers?&#8221; the coach asked me as he checked my hands.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Then a loud voice pierced the silence: &#8220;Don&#8217;t baby him!&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">The coach stopped working on my hands. He looked into the crowd. He wanted to know to whom the voice belonged.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;Don&#8217;t baby him!&#8221; the voice repeated. &#8220;Shake it off!&#8221;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">&#8220;Oh, no,&#8221; I said under my breath.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Slowly, I turned toward the crowd. There, I saw that everyone was looking at this one person.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Every mouth was wide-open with astonishment. Embarrassed, I closed my eyes and only one thought came to mind.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">Oh, God, I knew it!</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">The voice was that of my mom.</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; vertical-align: baseline;">© Copyright 2014. Lawrence D. Elliott</span></p>

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		<title>Sevean Brown-Giles: Graduation From Kearny High School, San Diego, California</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2016 10:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It’s been said you can always tell the winners in a race from the starting blocks. And although that’s not an absolute, it’s mostly so. When you add the foundation of preparation and hard work, it’a pretty much true. However, too often, we older folks (yes, I’m one of those “older folks”!) criticize the faults...]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s been said you can always tell the winners in a race from the starting blocks. And although that’s not an absolute, it’s mostly so. When you add the foundation of preparation and hard work, it’a pretty much true.</p>
<p>However, too often, we older folks (yes, I’m one of those <em>“older folks”!</em>) criticize the faults of young people without acknowledging their good. We can sound like grumpy neighbors constantly berating the kids who just want to have fun before the lights come on.</p>
<p><em>“Pull them damn pants up?!”</em></p>
<p><em>“Turn that frigging music down! I can feel the bass in my balls!”</em></p>
<p><em>“Get off my lawn!”</em></p>
<p>However, there are legitimate reasons to lend this younger generation the benefit of our experiences. After all, we’ve probably already made similar mistakes along the way. We couldn’t just Google it. We had to learn by doing.</p>
<p>And we lose credibility by never pointing out the good they do. They need to know they’ve already built a foundation for success. Instead of only finding fault, we need to support them and give <em>constructive</em> criticism.</p>
<p>Sadly, how often do we do that? Not nearly enough.</p>
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<p>Among the young people today&#8211;just like in other generations&#8211;there are those less-than-shiny apples. Even bad ones. But when you get past that, there are also many diamonds that glisten in the light.</p>
<p>On June 21, 2016, my sister Dianna’s oldest son will graduate from <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kearny_High_School_(San_Diego,_California)" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Kearny High School</a> in <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Diego,_California" target="_blank" rel="noopener">San Diego, California</a>. My nephew, <strong>Sevean Brown-Giles</strong> will soon be making his move on to college.</p>
<p>Like my sister, he’s been very independent and a free spirit from the start. He always believed in being himself and in trying new things.</p>
<p>In his early teens, he had ambitions of one day becoming a comic book artist. He’s still quite talented in graphic design and his creativity has been ever present. He’s sold everything from his own custom t-shirts to custom painted athletic shoes.</p>
<p>I’m so proud of him. And I’m proud of my sister for nurturing him along. She’s quite a bit of a risk-taker and free spirit herself, having started quite a number of her own business endeavors. Having such a mother as an example is what has driven him to be different since he came into this world. I hope he stays that way. The <em>“odd”</em> ones are the folks who blaze the trails others.</p>
<p>So, today I will a proud uncle standing among all of the other proud members of my family. Of course, no one will be prouder than his mom.</p>
<p>To my nephew, I’d like to say, “Today,  Sevean, you’re a man. No longer a little boy. Your future has begun. Now, get out there and show us what we all know you can do!”</p>
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