AutoBiography of a Dowry Law ( IPC 498A ) Victim

She made him Sleep EMPTY Stomach

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:44:36 PST

Our son more attached to me than his mother; He always wanted to eat from my hands He was sleeping on my chest; even he slept with his mother in the morning when we got up he always with me in my...

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Harassment

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:46:10 PST

She Knew Very well how to harass me; If she do not get whatever she wanted; then she started to things which are irritating me; When I watch TV, suddenly changing channel Wasting water, as we were...

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Her Past…….!

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:48:09 PST

After 2 years of marriage we went to her native place Church fest; As my mother is from same parish I also knew many people from her place. After mass I was standing with some of my friends and she...

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Mystery Man

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:49:21 PST

Once I was returning from Office; I met my neighbor on the way near our home. He asked me, where i`m coming from, I said Office; He said, he saw me afternoon at our door step, thinking I took off...

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Be Alcoholic

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:50:27 PST

Whenever I went to her relatives house, I used to take Cold drinks or Pepsi which she did`t liked as all of her relatives insulting me for drinking soft drinks as all of them where heavy drinkers....

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Who am i ?

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:36:28 PST

Who am i…? I asked myself…. Frist of all, I`m an Indian citizen; A man; This much is enough to be a Victim of Dowry Law (IPC 498A)? No need to be Indian citizen, you can be anyone, who...

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About me.

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:37:47 PST

I was born in Bombay but raised in Karkala a small town, 50 KM away from Mangalore, and passed Collage Degree from Mangalore University. I am the middle one of 3 Children; we do not have sisters,...

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About her.

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:39:11 PST

My Missing Rib; It was Arranged marriage, My Mother sister told she knew them very well; so we did not checked anything about her. Here is bit Details about her. She was born in Udipi but Raised in...

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Nothing to tell about past….

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:40:49 PST

After our Engagement she and her Family came to my native home; I took her to our Farm to show around. At that time, I asked many things about her; that was the 1st time we met and talked together. I...

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Why I`m Dowry Law Victim…?

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:52:23 PST

Why I`m Dowry Law Victim. All Over world, governments make laws to punish Crimnals,and Law breakers; But in india, its a business to creat job opertunities for lawyers, Only Law to trap Innocent; Its...

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What Went Wrong…

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:56:42 PST

As I said; it was an arranged marriage. So we married first and made love. We got married in my native place Mangalore and after a week I came back to Bombay, where I was working. Then I started to...

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How it Started

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:57:39 PST

After Marriage we have a custom to invite newly wed couple for lunch or dinner; So After our wedding we were invited by many in my native place when we were in native place for one week. I hardly go...

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The Begining of the END

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:59:00 PST

As I wrote before, that was not the starting of Crack in my marriage, sometimes I think, it was soon after Marriage. After few days of marriage, when we were still in native place, my parents and she...

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Give me Money, i`ll Bring the Alcohol

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:00:10 PST

Her Father came to Bombay to check how we are, after 2 months of marriage. As she was reporting Everything, whatever happened at home, Even her sister knew about our Personal Life, Sex, where we made...

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Give me Divorce.

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:04:16 PST

Anyone seen any Indian Women demanding DIVORCE in 2 weeks of Marriage.? I should not tell anything; guide or advice her too.she was beahving like she know Everything, but knew nothing. Not only tell...

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Satanic deeds…..

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:05:37 PST

As day passed I found out many things about her. Her every move, drift us apart. Her sister was telling her, if she want something from me and I am not giving, do not allow me to touch her, she was...

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My 1st BirthDay Together

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:08:45 PST

I do not blame her for Everything; She was a good girl, spoiled by her parents and sisters; She was trying to be a good wife; but stubborn and little lazy; She was doing all those things only the day...

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September 11 (9/11)

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:11:10 PST

September 11 is an unfortunate day for many mainly USA and world; including me too; How ? you may ask. 9/11 ruined many lifes and families as you know. And it directly linked to me too. Because its...

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Pinch – Food Poison

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:12:27 PST

As I said, she was working as a Accounts assistant for a small firm; Once I called her; while talking she said â€œhaiâ€ like someone pinched her; I asked who is it. She said one of her colleague....

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My Sons, Birth Prediction

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:14:12 PST

I was planning no Children for 2 years, till we plan our Future and secure financially. We did not know about any Family Planning, so she got pregnant immediately after Marriage. After 7 months, as a...

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She stopped breast feed; to save her Beauty.

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:30:10 PST

After 40 days of our son birthday, for Christening I went to Udupi. On the way my elder Brother house comes, and I was going with my younger Brother he said we will visit brothers son also who was...

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Oil Massage

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:33:22 PST

She left her job, as that company is not giving more maternity leave for than 2 months. I am always grateful for that she sacrificed her job for family; but she was not happy with that, has happened....

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Alcoholic Family

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:35:41 PST

One year passed after Glenn Birth; we celebrated at Vasai and only 4 people from my family I invited out of 50 people. This time I did`t said no to alcohol; coz I knew it, if I do not bring she will...

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Support My Ideas

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:37:11 PST

She never supported any of my ideas; her attitude is, whatever I say, she should deny and she was doing that. She was always trying to find whatever possible reason to harass me. For every word she...

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Stitching

498A_Crusader — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:43:25 PST

Later I found out why she started to hate my mother; when she was in my parents home after delivery. After delivery she cannot do much work; so she was resting most of the time; my mother thought to...

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