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Baby Crib Advice and Tips

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 12:41:00 +0000

Congratulations! You have just learned that you are having a baby. Whether this is your first or not you need to look at cribs. Do you have one already? Is it an antique? A second hand crib whether antique or not needs to be carefully looked at. This is for the safety of your new baby.

The screws, bolts, and/or other fasteners should all be in place. Are they loose? Will the position of the mattress hold under your baby's weight? It is imperative that this be tested before you put your baby in the crib. Take something that approximates the weight of your baby at about 4 months old. Bounce it off the mattress to be certain it will hold its position. If it doesn't it could cause serious injury to your baby or worse.

When setting up the nursery (if it isn't already up) consider very carefully where you will place the crib. If you place the crib near a window and you have Venetian blinds, either shorten the cords or anchor them somewhere that your baby can't reach and get a hold of them. If it all possible avoid placing the crib near the window. As your baby grows into a toddler and s/he attempts to climb out of the crib; s/he could possibly fall which could cause serious injury to your baby.

Blankets and your baby are not necessarily a good mix. With the incidents of SIDS today, you want to be sure to do everything that could possibly put your infant at risk. It is more advisable to put your baby to bed in a sleeper. If you absolutely have to have a blanket on the baby, tuck it tightly around and under the foot of the mattress with your baby's feet touching the footboard. Also you don't want to put the blanket any higher on the baby than up to his chest as that will help prevent him from slipping under the blankets and suffocating.

Bumper pads are a great concept but unless they are secured properly, there is a risk of your baby slipping between the mattress and the bumpers and possibly suffocating. If you use them they should be anchored in at least eight places one at each corner of the crib and at least two spaced evenly on each of the sides. There should be a total of 16 ties in all, for the top and bottom.

Mobiles are a nice addition and look adorable but... the caution here is that if you use a mobile as soon as your baby starts to sit up on his own the mobile should be taken down to prevent your baby from getting tangled in it. Also make sure that it has no small removable parts that your baby could choke on.

If your crib is second hand no matter whether you had for a previous child or you got it from someone else check out the mattress carefully. Make sure there are no cracks or holes in the mattress covering. Make sure too that the mattress properly fits in the crib. Here again, your child could slip between the mattress and the sidebars or the end boards and suffocate. The mattress should fit snugly in the crib. Now the sheets you use in your baby's crib should also fit properly and not slip and slide. Sheet anchors are available that hook on the sheet under the mattress and keep it in place.

The position of the mattress is imperative for your child's safety. Most parents put the mattress at the highest position when the baby first comes home because it is so much easier to change him in that position. As your baby becomes more active you will want to lower the mattress accordingly. Once your baby is able to pull up to a standing position put the mattress in the lowest possible position and to be sure your baby is safe, measure the distance between the top of the side bar and the mattress. In the lowest position the distance of the top of the side bar should be no more than 26 inches above the mattress. If your child's head is over the side bar or they climb out of the crib, it maybe time to move your child to a regular bed. Some cribs are convertible into beds tat will grow with your child.

The crib itself should be looked over for things that might put your baby at risk. Have you seen those cribs that have ornate designs carved into the end boards? They are beautiful but they pose a danger to your child. Your child could get his head or arm and leg caught and sustain an injury. The simpler the design of the crib the safer your child may be.

Since approximately 1974 federal safety guidelines for cribs state that the slats should be no more than 2 3/8 inches apart. This is to prevent your baby from getting his head stuck between the slats. This could cause injury to your baby but it would necessitate the removal of some of the slats and that alone would.

Author Bio
Martin Smith is a successful freelance writer providing advice for consumers on purchasing a variety of Baby Crib Bedding and more! His numerous articles provide a wonderfully researched resource of interesting and relevant information.

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Benefits of the Infrared sauna and the Far infrared saunas

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:17:00 +0000

The infrared sauna is usually a small portable closet-like room that contains in it several infrared heaters that produce radiant heat which is absorbed directly into the human body.

The benefits of the infrared sauna are:
it helps in body detoxification, maintain hormonal balance, promote immune system, and reduce chronic fatigue and stress.
it aids in weight loss, since it penetrates into the skin tissues and thereby boost the body metabolism.
it is easy to install.

The far infrared saunas also serve the same purpose as the infrared sauna but differs in the depth of penetration into the skin tissues which is a depth of over 1.5 inches into the muscles

The benefit of the far infrared saunas are also the same as the infrared sauna and it is easy to maintain and occupies less space. Other benefits are that it helps in pain relief especially for people who suffer from Rheumatoid arthritis and other pain related diseases.

How the baby grows in the womb

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 12:20:00 +0000

Doctors and midwives time pregnancy, not from conception but from the first day of a woman’s monthly period. So what is called ‘four weeks pregnant ‘is actually about two weeks after conception. On this timing, pregnancy lasts for forty weeks.

Of course, forty weeks is only an average .some pregnancies are usually short, while some longer.

If you are not sure about the date of your last period, then an ultrasound scan can give a good indication of when your baby will be due.

How the baby develops

In the very early weeks the developing baby is called an embryo .then from about eight weeks onwards, it is called a fetus, which means ‘young one ‘.

WEEK 3

This is 3 weeks from the day of your last monthly period...the fertilized egg moves slowly along the fallopian tube towards the womb. The egg begins as one single cell. This cell divides again and again. By the time the egg reaches the womb, it has become a mass of 100 cells and is still growing.

Once in the womb the egg attaches itself to the womb lining .this is called implantation

WEEK S 4-5

The egg now settles into the womb lining .the outer cells reach out like roots to link with the mother’s blood supply. The inner cells form into two, and later three layers. Each of these layers will grow to be different part of the baby’s body. One layer becomes the brain and the nervous system, the skin, eyes and ears. Another layer becomes the lungs, stomach and guts. The third layer becomes the heart, blood, muscles and bones.

The fifth week is the time of the first missed period, when most women are only just beginning to think that they might be pregnant. Yet already the baby’s nervous system is beginning to develop.

A groove forms in the top layer of the cells .the cells fold up and round to make a hollow tube. This is called the neural tube. It will become the baby’s brain and spinal cord, so the tube has a ‘head end ‘and a ‘tail end’. At the same time the heart is forming, and the baby already has some of its own blood vessels. A string of these blood vessels connect baby and mother and will finally become the umbilical cord.

WEEKS 6-7

There is now a large bulge where the heart is, and a bump for the head because the brain is developing. The heart begins to beat and can be seen beating on an ultrasound scan.

Dimples on the side of the head will become the ears, and there are thickenings where the eyes will be. On the body, bumps are forming, which will become muscles and bones, and small swelling called limb buds show where the arms and legs are growing.

At seven weeks, the embryo is about 8mm (1/4 in) long from head to bottom (or from ‘crown to rump’)

WEEKS 8-9

At this time, a face is slowly forming. The eyes are more obvious and have some color in them. There is a mouth with a tongue. There are now the beginnings of hands and feet, with ridges where the fingers and toes will be. The major internal organs are all developing-the heart, brain, lungs, kidneys, liver and gut.

At nine weeks, the baby is about 17mm (3/4in) long from head to bottom.

WEEKS 10-14

Just twelve weeks after conception, the fetus is fully formed. It has all its organs, muscles, limbs, and bones. From now on, it has to grow and mature.

The sex organs are now well developed. But at this early stage, it is impossible to make out the baby’s sex in an ultrasound picture.

The baby is already moving about, but the movement cannot yet be felt

By about fourteen weeks, the heartbeat is strong and can be heard using an ultrasound detector. The heartbeat is very fast –about twice as fast as a normal adult’s heartbeat. The baby is about 56mm(2 1/2in)long from head to bottom .the pregnancy may just be beginning to show, though may vary from woman to woman.

WEEKS 15-22

The baby is now growing quickly .he body and head are now more in proportion, the face begins to look more human, and the hair is beginning to grow, as well as eyebrows and eyelashes. The eyelids still stay closed over the eyes.

The lines on the skin of the fingers are now formed, finger and toenails are growing, and the baby, has a firm hand grip.

At about the twenty-two weeks the baby becomes covered in a very fine, soft hair called lanugos .this finally disappears again before birth, although sometimes, just a little is left and disappears later.

At about the 18^th-22^nd week, you will feel your baby move for the first time. If this is your second baby you will feel it move earlier, at about the 14^th to 16^th week, after conception.

At first, you feel a fluttering, bubbling or a very slight shifting movement, maybe bit kike indigestion, later you can’t mistake the movements, and you can even see the baby kicking about. You can often guess which bump is a foot or a hand.

Make a note of the date you felt the first movement; it might also be used to check your expected date of delivery.

WEEKS 23-30

Now the baby is moving about vigorously and responds to touch and sound. Sometimes the baby may get hiccups, and you can feel the jerks of each hiccup. The baby may also begin to follow a pattern of sleeping and waking, which may often be different from yours. So when you go to bed at night, the baby wakes up and starts kicking.

The baby’s heartbeat can now be heard by your partner, when he puts his ears to your tummy .the baby is now covered by a white, greasy substance called vernix.this mostly disappears before birth.

WEEKS 31-40(or 42 for later birth)

At this stage the baby is growing plumper so the skin, which was quite wrinkled before, is now smoother. Both the vernix and the lanugos begin to disappear.

By about 32^nd week ,the baby is usually lying head downwards ,ready for birth.Sometime,before birth the head may move down into the pelvis, and is said to be ‘ engaged’ ,but sometimes the baby’s head does not engage until labor has started.

My Baby's First Tooth

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 26 May 2009 00:46:00 +0000

Image by SpooSpa via Flickr

I guess I have to apologise for this long delay in my post.I have been on a long trip with my husband and baby.
We were in Africa,Nigeria to be precise,realy beautiful place.We had great time too
Well,am glad to announce to you that few weeks back ,my baby's first tooth appeared and the next day the other followed ,it was a great experience for us ,I couldnt help the tears that flooded my eyes.
I was actually expecting her to cry and have a gum ache ,but she was just cool,and always running her fingers across them,like she knew ,there was something there.
It's realy great to be back home .
Big hello to my followers..........missed you guys

Overcoming Breastfeeding Problems

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 12:20:00 +0000

Breast milk is pediatricians' first choice for newborns. In an ideal world, breastfeeding would be easy and the right fit for all moms. But the reality is that
breastfeeding doesn't work for every new mom.

Ultimately you've got to make the choice that's right for you and your family.
Many new moms can't breastfeed due to medical conditions, medications they're taking, or work, travel, and scheduling issues that make it impractical.

And while some find breastfeeding easy from the get-go, it's extremely challenging for others. Even with the help of a lactation consultant, it can feel like the baby just isn't taking to it!

The stress of wanting to breastfeed but struggling with it can be too much, especially with the tidal wave of other life changes that come with a baby. Some new moms find it helpful to pump breast milk and deliver it from a bottle. But in some cases, formula may be the right choice.

Rest assured, commercially prepared infant formula is a nutritious alternative for babies. And bottle feeding offers its own benefits — it allows fathers, grandparents, and other caregivers to get involved with feeding the baby and enjoy quality bonding time.

Because formula digests more slowly than breast milk, formula-fed babies usually need to eat less often than do breastfed babies.

With everything that's now known about the benefits of breastfeeding, it can be easy to feel like you're somehow shortchanging your baby if you use formula.

But you're not. Giving your baby formula is nothing to be ashamed of. You're not the only mom doing so, and you're doing everything you can to help your baby thrive.

baby-at-home: Great Baby Shower Invitations

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 23:01:00 +0000

baby-at-home: Great Baby Shower Invitations

Great Baby Shower Invitations

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 19:44:00 +0000

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It is realy worth the effort and your money's worth.

How To Make Your Own Baby Food

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 00:14:00 +0000

Making your own baby food will ensure that what your child is
eating is fresh, nutritious and free of additives. By making
your own baby foods, you'll be saving money, up to 50%. And to
top it off, it's easy; making baby food at home is probably a
lot less time-consuming than you may have thought.
In order to make your own baby foods, you'll need something to
cook in. A steamer basket is cheap and by cooking fruits and
vegetables in it, you'll be sure of keeping the nutrients in the
food, instead of in the cooking water.

To puree your foods, you can use a fork, a food mill or blender.
A blender quickly purees almost anything into the finest
consistency. When your baby first starts on solids, you'll be
pureeing things to a very fine consistency and, as baby gets a
little older, you will make foods a little coarser.
You may wish to buy a food mill which comes in large and small
sizes. It is very handy and inexpensive. The food mill strains
most cooked foods to a very smooth consistency, although meats can be a problem as they will have a coarser texture.
As babies are susceptible to digestive upsets, you'll want to
take note of the following tips concerning the handling of foods:
- always work with clean hands.
- always use clean utensils.
- prepare foods immediately upon removing them from the
refrigerator.
- freeze immediately after cooking any foods you want to store.
You can prepare large amounts of foods at once and freeze them.

Take your prepared foods and plop by spoonfuls onto a baking
sheet. Freeze the plops right away and then take them off the
sheet when they are frozen and put them into plastic bags.
Label and date. You can also freeze the food in plastic "pop
out" ice cube trays. Small tapperware jars with lids serve the
same purpose and stack easily. Frozen baby foods can be stored
for up to two months.
When you take frozen foods out for baby, warm the food in a cup
placed in a saucepan of boiling water with a lid on.
Cereals are typically the first foods given to a baby because
they contain lots of iron. You can buy the commercial baby
cereals, or prepare your own, by running oatmeal through your
blender, for instance.

Fruits are generally given next. Except for raw, mashed banana,
you will need to cook all other fruits till they are soft.
Try making your own applesauce and pearsauce; don't add any
sugar, as these fruits are sweet enough on their own. You can
also peel peaches, plums and apricots and boil or steam them.
Use fresh vegetables whenever possible in order to provide the
best nutrition and flavor for your baby. Frozen vegetables are
better to use than canned. Steaming vegetables is the best
method of preparation. Carrots and sweet potato are two popular choices to begin with.
Yogurt, mashed cottage cheese, mashed pumpkin, baked potato,
avocado and tofu (oriental soy bean curd) are all popular with
babies. One good idea is to blend together cottage cheese,
banana and fresh orange juice - delicious!

Meats should be added slowly. They can be boiled or broiled,
then put in the blender with a little milk and perhaps banana or
cream of rice to get the right consistency. Chicken is
generally the first meat baby is introduced to and usually goes
down fairly well.
There is no rush to start your baby on solid foods. Milk is his
most important food. Your doctor's recommendations and your ownintuition will help you to know when to begin introducing solids to your baby's diet. Always remember to be patient with your baby and allow at least a few days between newly added foods to make sure baby doesn't suffer any reactions

Quick tips for dressing Baby

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 12:51:00 +0000

You waited a long time to put your baby in those cute little outfits, but you may find it's hard to slip them on and off. Here are some tips to make it easier.

Keep it simple. Choose clothes that are comfy and easy to get on. Fabrics that stretch, shirts with snaps around the neck, and nightgowns that gather at the bottom are great for frequent changes. And, don't forget to use bibs to cut down on your laundry.

Make it fun. As with changing the diaper, dress your baby on a flat, safe surface. Have everything laid out beforehand. Keep your little one happy by talking, singing, or playing peek-a-boo.

Stretch—don't shove. Gather a shirt around the neck opening, stretching it first. Slip it first over the back of the head, then forward, pulling it over your baby's face. Reach into the sleeves and pull your baby's arms through. Take care not to bend back her fingers in the process.

Too hot? Too cold? We tend to overdress babies, but a healthy newborn often may need the same or just one more covering than an adult. Don't put on too many layers. Let your baby's face tell you what to do. If she's cold, the color in her cheeks will fade and she may get fussy. Cover her with a light blanket or add a layer of clothing. If she's sweaty or her cheeks get too red, shed a layer.

Bundling baby
Step one:Put your blanket on a flat surface in a big diamond, folding down the top few inches. Place your baby at the top of the blanket and wrap the bottom corner up to his chest, tucking it behind baby's back.

Step two:Bring the left corner of the blanket across baby's chest and tuck it in behind his back. Many babies like their arms outside the blanket, as shown, but some prefer to have their arms tucked in.

Step three:Snugly wrap the right corner of the blanket in on the right side.

Baby's Best Bedtime Position

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:11:00 +0000

Rule number one in infant care: Put Baby to sleep on his back! Here's why and what to watch for when you try it. -->
People often lament jokingly that babies don't come with instruction manuals. And first-time parents sometimes feel truly surprised at being sent home from the birthplace with a one-, two-, or three-day-old and no experience whatsoever: "They're letting us take him home by ourselves? Are they nuts?" One instruction you will definitely be given at any hospital or birth center, however, is to place your infant on her back to sleep. They'll even send you home with little doorknob signs saying "Back to Sleep" to remind you.Now, you may sometimes wish your baby would get back to sleep, or you may be tempted to scratch out Sleep and change the sign to "Back to Wail and Cry." But stick with it; back sleeping for newborns is more than a baby-care fad; research shows it's safest.

Why Should Baby Sleep on His Back? -->
In 1974, Congress passed the Sudden Infant Death Syndrome Act in an effort to discover what was causing the devastating and seemingly inexplicable deaths of otherwise healthy infants while they slept. More than two infants for every thousand born were dying this way every year. Thanks to research by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHHD) and others, a correlation was soon seen between sleeping on the stomach and increased rates of sudden infant death syndrome (also called SIDS, or "crib death" in the past). --> -->
By 1991, the research was convincing enough that the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) was recommending back sleeping. And in 1994 the NICHHD and the AAP pushed a full-on national public health education campaign called Back to Sleep. Since that time there has been a remarkable 50 percent decrease in the incidence of SIDS, according to the AAP. "Other countries with similar campaigns have had similar success," notes pediatrician Karen Sadler, MD, yet the AAP and NICHHD report it is still the leading cause of death after the immediate postnatal period. "Ninety percent of infants who die of SIDS are under six months of age; most are between three and five months old," Sadler adds. "Neither do we know why this is the most vulnerable age."

For those still looking for a more definitive answer to why Baby should sleep on his back in order to prevent SIDS, there are a few likely explanations but no decisively certain one. We do know for sure that the statistical link between back sleeping and lower SIDS rates exists. Most of the explanations pertain to infant breathing. For example, when sleeping on her front, Baby is more likely to create a little pocket around her nose and mouth that traps the exhaled carbon dioxide, which is then re-breathed, reducing oxygen in her system to lethal lows. Similarly, heavy blankets or plush toys could cause this same CO2 poisoning, especially when Baby has her face against the fluffy stuff. Another explanation is that back sleeping helps keep airways more open.

Overheating may be a contributing factor. So skip the blankets and put Baby in an adorable sleep sac outfit or gown with a drawstring bottom and hand covers if you live in colder climes. Keep the room comfortable for a lightly clothed adult. Smoking in the household or by the mother before birth is also linked to sudden infant death syndrome. So for this and a thousand other reasons, quit smoking as soon as you think of conceiving.
One key point is that babies should sleep on their backs every time they sleep, whether for the night or just while napping, and all caregivers who take care of the child should know this. The rate of SIDS among back sleepers who were then put on their stomach to sleep is a scary 18 percent higher than the usual rate.

What Is SIDS?
According to the NICHHD, sudden infant death syndrome is technically defined as "the sudden death of an infant under one year of age, which remains unexplained after a thorough case investigation, including performance of a complete autopsy, examination of the death scene, and review of the clinical history."
SIDS is a new parent's worst fear. An apparently healthy baby with no obvious previous or present illness goes to sleep and never wakes up. As the NICHHD definition states, examination of the infant's medical history, home, and even an autopsy do not reveal a cause of death in true SIDS cases.
Infants at increased risk for SIDS are those older than one month but younger than six months, those born prematurely, males, and twins or triplets. African-American babies are at higher risk than babies of European descent, and American Indian or Alaskan Native babies are considerably more so—up to two or three times the national average.

While breathing issues are the start of a SIDS death, recent research suggests that its deadliness comes in combination with a wiring problem in the baby's brain. Certain infants may have a delay in maturation or poor development of a network of brain cells normally responsible for waking or alerting the child when a life-threatening situation (like lack of oxygen) is present. The brain areas involved develop in midgestation.
In 1990, there were 5,417 reported SIDS deaths in the US, according to the National Vital Statistics Reports, National Center for Health Statistics, and in 2004 there were 2,246 such deaths reported, which attests to the efforts to prevent it. (The infant mortality rate from all causes declined in that period as well, it should be noted, and preliminary results for 2006—the most recent figures available—show a further decline.)
The Back to Sleep recommendation is for healthy infants only. Those with upper airway anomalies, gastroesophageal reflux, or other problems may or may not benefit from sleeping on their backs. Parents should discuss these special situations with their child's doctor.
Are There Any Downsides to Back-Sleeping?
The number-one problem with back sleeping is the possibility of developing a misshapen head, from lying on the same spot on a still somewhat soft skull all the time.
Back sleeping may cause flat spots on the back of the head, which you may hear called by its fancy name, positional plagiocephaly. This is a cosmetic concern that rarely requires surgical intervention. According to Dr. Sadler, "There are no neurological problems associated with positional plagiocephaly. Development is indeed normal, and in the vast majority of cases the asymmetry resolves as the infant spends more time upright, rolls over in bed on his/her own, and spends less time sleeping. It only becomes a cosmetic issue when the molding is severe, or when the child is approaching the age of two when the growth of the head is 75 percent to 80 percent complete."

Most health insurance plans won't cover treatment for cosmetic problems like an asymmetrical head if it is not causing a health problem, so parents should be alert to this possible side effect of back sleeping, and take preventive measures.
Changes in head shape can usually be prevented or treated by alternating the head position (facing left or right) during sleep from week to week or day to day. Changing the baby's orientation to outside activity such as the door to the room often accomplishes this. Changing the placement of interesting things such as mobiles or mirrors beside the crib can also entice Baby to look the other way. Babies should also spend time on their stomachs when they are awake. In extreme cases where the asymmetry is noticeable and the baby resists measures to change head position, a pressure-distributing helmet can be used during sleep, but this has largely fallen out of favor.

Another problem that can plague parents is a baby who seems to refuse to sleep on his back. The AAP used to suggest side sleeping in such cases, which didn't seem to reduce the SIDS risk as much as back sleeping but was at least a big improvement over tummy sleeping, but since 2005 the organization has not recommended side sleeping. Dr. Sadler observes that "many, many children have slept on their stomachs and done fine." "However, any increased risk isn't worth it when it comes to a child," she says, "so I'd encourage you to keep Baby on his back—despite the wails—at least until he is well past six months old."
One remedy for both of these problems is a lot of tummy time. Time spent on her belly, holding her head up, kicking her feet, reaching for objects around her, or playing with textural parts of a play mat give Baby's head a break from pressure on the skull. They also provide mental stimulation and physical exertion, both of which should help her sleep better when her next naptime rolls around.
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What Other Sleep Recommendations Do Experts Give?
The AAP policy recommends back sleeping first and foremost for babies. But its other recommendations for healthy sleep include these:
A firm sleeping surface is safest (such as a firm mattress covered by a sheet). Fluffy mattress covers or sheepskins should be avoided for sleeping.
Skip loose bedding and stuffed animals. Make sure any crib bumpers are thin, firm, and securely attached to the crib sides.
Don't smoke during pregnancy, and don't allow smoking in the house where the newborn lives. Likewise avoid other smoky situations (such as a daycare provider's) for the baby.
Co-sleep safely. While there are many proponents of co-sleeping in Mom and Dad's bed, the AAP's recommendation is to let an infant sleep in the same room but not the same bed. A "sideca" arrangement or bassinet or crib in the mother's room is what the AAP deems safest, with the baby in the adults' bed only for nursing and comforting.

Offer a pacifier at sleep time: It seems correlated with lower SIDS incidence. You might wait a few weeks to start this, so as not to add any confusion to breastfeeding habits. Offer the pacifier before laying the baby down. Don't try to insert it after Baby is asleep, and if Baby refuses it don't force it. The pacifier may help make Baby more arousable or hold the mouth in position to keep the airways open. Using it up to one year of age should not interfere with dental structure.
Avoid overheating the room or overdressing the baby.
Save your money and don't buy devices that are promoted as SIDS prevention. None have been tested rigorously enough to stand up to the claim, according to the AAP.
Likewise, don't rely on audio, video, or movement monitors to prevent SIDS. There is no evidence that their use reduces the incidence of SIDS.Watch for and take the measures noted above to prevent a misshapen head on your happy, healthy, back-sleeping baby.

Baby's Day Out

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 09:48:00 +0000

After giving birth, many mothers wonder whether to take their babies out to show them off, or keep them at home. Most doctors advise waiting until both mother and child are at least healed enough to handle going out. Going out too early can result in the baby catching a virus. On the other hand, staying cooped up for a long time isn't good for them, either.

Step1.....Make short trips at first. Quick errands are a great way for both mother and child to get used to going out.
Step2.....Wait six weeks before any extended trips. This is when baby's immune system is developed enough to handle longer excursions. It is also when the mother is usually healed from delivery.
Step3.....Start taking the baby out around two weeks after birth or later. Trips to family members houses or on a short errand are good at this time. If mother or baby are not ready at this point, don't worry. Waiting is much better than overdoing it.
Step4.....Dress the baby appropriately. Babies need one more layer than adults. New parents tend to put too much clothing on newborns. Babies get fussy when they get hot, so avoid overdressing.
Step5.....Avoid keeping the baby out in the elements. Any bad weather is a good reason to stay at home. If the baby must be out, make sure he is properly dressed and protected from the elements.
Step6.....Talk to the pediatrician. If there are any concerns about the child's immune system, or if there are immune disorders, special rules apply.

Twins: 8 survival strategies for new parents

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 13:40:00 +0000

1. Get Help

families need regular outside help with twins during the first year. Set this up ahead of time if you can. You can get help from people you trust and get along with, such as:
a.Relatives-older children, parents, sisters, brothers
Friends
b.Neighborhood children 10- to 12-year olds
c.Teenagers
d.College students
d.Housekeeper or live-in help
And you might be able to trade services with friends. Remember outside help doesn't always have to cost money. Call your county health and social services departments and ask what in-home services are available for families with new babies. (Programs differ from county to county.)

2. Get Rest
The first months can seem very long because the babies' schedule won't let you get enough sleep. Rest whenever you can. You can use earplugs to sleep while someone else takes care of the babies. This may mean your house is not as clean as it was before twins. But remember, the more rest you get, the better you'll be able to take care of your babies-and yourself.

3. Organize your House
Before the babies arrive, get your house ready for them:
Put the baby clothes and equipment where you plan to use them. You may want to have more than one changing area in the house.
Set up a place where the babies can be left safely alone, in portacribs or playpens, on the rug in a circle of pillows, on a blanket on the floor or in an area closed off by a gate.
Make the care of your house and your clothes as simple as possible.

4. Make a Schedule
It's easier for people to help if you have a schedule they can see. Make a list of the things you do at (somewhat) regular times each day and put it on the wall. Work toward getting the babies on the same sleeping and feeding schedule. When friends offer to help, suggest they:
a.Come at bath time to bathe one of the babies.
b.Help out at feeding time -- feeding one of the babies.
c.Clean the kitchen.
d.Bring dinner or a frozen casserole to be heated up later.
e.Go shopping for you or run errands.
f.Take the babies' brother(s) or sister(s) out for an outing.
g.Care for the babies while you sleep. And if your day isn't going right, drop everything and take the babies out for a walk. Fresh air can make everyone feel better.

5. Help Each Other
If you have a parenting partner, help each other. Having twins is hard on relationships. Talking about your feelings can help you and your partner to understand it is hard work caring for twins. You may be tired or in need of time alone. It helps to tell each other what you need.

6. Get Time Alone or Time Together
Plan a regular time for you and your parenting partner to be together without the babies. Go for a walk, out for breakfast, to the park. Go dancing, to a movie, or listen to music. Make a permanent baby-sitting arrangement for this and go even if you're too tired.
If you have older children, do something with them alone once a month or so. They need time off from the babies too.
And make time for you alone. Get a friend, neighbor, or relative to watch the babies for an hour or two and:
a.Take a walk.
b.Take a long bath.
c.Make that call you never have time for.
d.Go shopping.
e.Do something that makes you feel cared for.

7. Establish Boundaries
You can expect your family to be just as excited and fascinated by your twins as outsiders will be. This can be helpful when grandmothers, aunts, brothers, etc. offer to help with the work. But it can also be a hindrance if they offer unwanted advice and criticism at the same time

Welcome the help of your family if you enjoy their support. But set limits when and where you need it. Start this early so things don't get out of hand, and keep in mind that it is your right to raise your family the way you want to. What worked for them may not work for you.

8. Smile
People are fascinated by twins. They also have some strange ideas about twins. They may stop you on the street and ask, "Which one is the smart one?" You can get worn out trying to respond to everything that's said. Smile, and push on! Their comments don't have anything to do with you.

If you have more tips to add ............it will be greatly appreciated

Answers To Your Questions About Sex After Childbirth

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 11:31:00 +0000

Do you know that ,One of the least frequently discussed topics within perinatal education classes is the resumption of the sexual relationship after a baby's birth. Couples often ask me the following questions: When is it safe to have sexual intercourse after the birth of a baby? Does it hurt the first time? What about making love and breastfeeding?Well ,these are some FAQ's(freqently asked questions),that I believe you would find very useful.

1.- Is it normal not to want to have sex after having a baby?
YES,it is .Men and women may have different worries and reactions when it comes to postpartum sex.
For women, pregnancy and childbirth fatigue, pain from perineal tearing or stitches from an episiotomy, lack of sleep, hormonal fluctuations, and concern over physical appearance may impact their mood and sexual desire.
For men, sexual desire is affected by the intense nature of the birth, adapting to their new role, not wanting to pressure their partner, and concerns over their partner’s physical appearance. Some men have a very emotional reaction to the birth and may feel rejected by their partner.
2.- How do we get the magic back?
Intimacy, tenderness, and communication are key factors. It’s important to talk about your feeling and insecurities before and after the baby is born.
After the birth, the time and energy devoted to the new baby may take it's toll, leaving neither available for intimacy. However, finding time alone or dating are good ways to help you adjust to your new life, and become more intimate.
Although sexual satisfaction decreases after the birth, most couples enjoy a more satisfying sexual relationship within a year following the birth.
3.- When is it safe to have sex after childbirth?
When you are ready, you can resume certain types of sexual activities a few days after the birth. Cuddling and vaginal stimulation is allowed if there is no pain or discomfort. However, you should not have sexual intercourse until your perineum is comfortable, the episiotomy has healed (3 to 5 weeks), and the lochia (bleeding) has stopped. Also, women who had a c-section should wait until their incision is healed (4 to 6 weeks).
Lovemaking may be a little different. It is common to feel very dry (this may cause discomfort during penetration), to have less intense or shorter orgasms, to have decreased tone in the perineal muscles, and for breasts to leak after an orgasm in nursing mothers. Don’t worry, these discomforts are temporary, and you sex life will be back to normal soon enough.
4.- How can I ease my discomfort?
At first, chose comfortable positions that let you control penetration and avoid putting pressure on the abdomen or your incision. Using a water-based lubricant (e.g.: K-Y, ASTROGLIDE, etc.) can make lovemaking more enjoyable.
You should not use Vaseline as it may cause vaginal irritation and damage the condom. To help increase muscle tone, resume your Kegel exercises: contract, and release vaginal muscles. Practice these exercises many times during the day.
5.- When will I get my period again?
For nursing mothers, the menstrual cycle usually resumes once nursing stops. The timing is different depending on how long you breastfeed, and whether or not you supplement with bottles,but it can vary with women............. For non-nursing mothers, menstruating will usually start 3 to 8 weeks after childbirth.
6.- What type of birth control should I use?
As soon as you start having sexual intercourse, you should use a condom if you don’t want to become pregnant until long term contraception has been chosen: oral contraceptives (the Pill), an intrauterine devices, Depo-Provera or sterilization (vasectomy or tubal ligation).
Breastfeeding is not a suitable means of contraception. For non-nursing mothers, oral contraceptives may be taken as early as the third week after delivery.
Talk to your health practitioner while you are still pregnant to find out which contraceptive method is right for you.

Hope this has been of great help to you and has answered most of the questions bothering you.Do feel free to get back to me with more questions,or if you have any comment or additions,we are open to it................got to go now..............DUTY CALLS!

How To Know Your Baby's Teething

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 11:44:00 +0000

Teething is one of the great milestones of your baby’s development and memories of your baby's first big toothy grin will be treasured forever. Some babies sail through the process and are showing off their first teeth before you know it, but for others it can be a more uncomfortable time, causing distress to both you and your baby.
It’s impossible to tell how your baby will react until that first tooth begins to cut, but we hope that the information and advice provided in this article will help to reassure you and ease you both through the teething process.

Like grown-ups, all babies deal with pain differently, and of course some will have an easier time of it than others. However, most babies with get a little grouchy and irritable!

The first signs of teething usually begin a few months before the first tooth appears so you will need to look for particular symptoms to ensure that this is actually the cause. This is important because all too often, teething gets blamed for a variety of complaints, such as fever, vomiting, runny noses, diarrhoea and rashes all of which could be signs of a different problem. In fact, most healthcare professionals agree that teething should not make your baby ill, so if you're unsure of the cause of your baby's discomfort or they are suffering from any of these conditions, you should always consult your doctor.
restlessness,

irritability and disturbed sleep patterns

sore, red gums

flushed cheeks

loss of appetite

a slight rise in temperature (but not above 39oC, which indicates a fever)

dribbling (which may cause a rash or sore, chapped skin on the chin)

a sudden desire to chew anything they can lay their hands on!
an urge to bite. This should not be perceived as a sign of aggression or anger, more of a means to ease the pain.

Sometimes you can actually see the tooth cutting through the gum, or you may be able to feel it emerging if you run a clean finger along your baby's gum line. Another good indicator that your baby is teething is that they will want to chew… on anything. It could be toys, fingers or food! This is a completely natural reaction to the changes that are going on within the gum and it is thought that chewing on something hard feels quite soothing.

Baby Massage

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 01:49:00 +0000

Baby massage has become more and more popular over recent years.Baby massage can be relaxing for mum and baby. Yes, babies get stressed too ,being in new environments and they also pick up on your stress. Taking time out together for a massage teaches baby how to relax, and you will relax too.

Massage has lots of physical benefits and for babies can play a vital role in circulation, digestion and growth. Using simple techniques you can ease the symptoms of colds, colic and teething. Massage can help babies who are premature and those with disabilities too, improving muscle tone and stimulating growth hormones. some massage techniques shouldn't be used until after baby has had the eight-week check as they involve moving the hips around but a simple stroking massage is safe. Here is a brief outline of how you can do a basic massage at home, put together by an approved baby massage instructor:

1.Choose a time of day when you're both relaxed and baby isn't too tired. Wait for about half an hour after feeding. The room should be warm, the lights dimmed and you could maybe put on some soothing music.

2.Choose a massage oil that has very little fragrance and avoid nut oils (e.g. almond oil). Grapeseed oil is a good choice.

3.Lie baby on a towel on top of his/her changing mat (in case of spills). Take off his/her clothes and nappy and talk to baby softly as you prepare yourself.

4.Get yourself into a comfortable position, remove any rings/bracelets and pour some oil into your hand and then rub your hands together to warm the oil.

5.Start by placing your relaxed hands on baby's shoulders and gently stroke down from baby's shoulders to the feet. Pressure should be light but try to make sure that the whole of your hand and fingers comes in to contact with baby's body as this feels better. Do this stroke about 6 times.

6.Now places your hands flat at the top of baby's chest and stroke upwards and outwards going over the collarbone, shoulders and then down the arms. Repeat this six times.

7.Stroke down baby's body again from shoulders to feet 6 times.

8.Very lightly circle your fingertips over baby's tummy in a clockwise direction. Then massage the side of the belly by stroking hand over hand first from one side to the belly button and then from the other side to the belly button. Stroke down baby's body again from shoulders to feet 6 times.

9.Add some more oil to your hands if you need to then hold one of baby's legs at the top of the thigh and move your hand slowly down to the foot. Just as you're about to let go place the other hand at the top of the same thigh and start to move down the leg. This is a nice rhythmic technique but remember to keep it slow, smooth and gentle. Repeat several times and then move onto the other leg. Stroke down baby's body again from shoulders to feet 6 times.

1o.If baby will tolerate it, turn him/her over onto the tummy and and stroke down the back and the backs of the legs with alternate horizontal hands.

11.Finish the massage either on the front or back by holding your hands warmly on either the base of the back or the shoulders for a few seconds and then remove gently.

12.Wrap baby in the towel to absorb any excess oil before putting a nappy and clothes on.

The session should only take around 10 minutes but if baby starts to cry then do stop and try again another day.

Baby will probably want a feed and a nap afterwards ,giving you time to do other chores in the house.

Care Of The Nursing Breasts

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 01:16:00 +0000

Breastfeeding moms know that breast care changes after giving birth. The breasts undergoes a number of changes during pregnancy and continues to change as a woman's milk supply comes in and her baby begins feeding. Knowing how to care for your breasts during this time will benefit both you and your new baby.

Cleaning Your Breasts while Breastfeeding
While you are breastfeeding, you will want to take care to keep your breasts and nipples clean. However, the way in which you clean your breasts while you are breastfeeding will be different from routine breast care.

While breastfeeding, wash your breasts with only warm water and a soft, clean washcloth. Never apply soap to your breasts while you are breastfeeding. Soap will remove the natural oils that are present on your breasts and nipples and will contribute to drying and cracking.

After rinsing your breasts, you might want to apply a few drops of breast milk or colostrum to your areolas. These substances will soothe and protect your nipple. In addition, some women find it beneficial to rub a few drops of corn oil or olive oil on their nipples.
Breast Creams for Dry or Cracked Nipples
Often, women who are breastfeeding will develop dry and/or cracked nipples. This can make breastfeeding quite painful. In order to soothe and heal nipples, some mothers use a breast cream, such as Pure Lan® or Lansinoh®, after they nurse. If you choose to use one of these creams, you shouldn't wash it off after application.

When buying a breast cream, look out for products that do not contain alcohol, perfume and other substances that could contribute to drying and irritation.
Supporting Your Breasts
During pregnancy and while breastfeeding, a woman's breasts are generally larger and heavier than normal. In order to provide your breasts with the support they need during this time, you should invest in a well-fitting nursing bra that offers ample support.

In addition to wearing a support bra during the day, you may find it helpful to wear your bra while you sleep. Sleeping in a bra can provide you with much-needed support and extra comfort. If you are not comfortable sleeping in your bra, however, it is absolutely fine to remove it. When removing your bra, however, take care to remove it slowly, as moisture or milk can cause your nipples to stick to your bra.

When buying a support bra, look for one that is made with cotton. Cotton will allow good air circulation. Also, look for one that features wide straps.

Avoid nursing bras that contain underwire. Underwire bras can contribute to plugged milk ducts as well as mastitis, a bacterial infection of the breast that can cause a reduction in milk production.
Using Nursing Pads to Prevent Leaks
At some point or another, many breastfeeding moms will experience leakage. In fact, many pregnant women will leak milk or colostrum during their second or third trimesters. Leaking milk can not only stain your clothes but can also lead to embarrassing situations. In order to keep your clothes dry, you might consider wearing nursing pads.

Many breastfeeding moms opt to use washable or disposable nursing pads. If selecting this type of nursing pad, you should look for one that is made of 100 percent cotton. This will allow air to circulate around the breasts and the nipples. Avoid pads with plastic linings, which may not allow sufficient airflow and may contribute to nipple infections.

If you don't want to buy nursing pads, you can create one by cutting a disposable diaper into the desired shape and removing the plastic lining. Also, some women use cloth diapers or handkerchiefs as nursing pads. You should not use a sanitary pad as a nursing pad, as it will prevent air from circulating.

If you use a nursing pad, you should change it or dispose of it as soon as it becomes damp. Wearing a moist pad can lead to irritation and infection.

Tips To Help Cope With Colic

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 00:27:00 +0000

Colic is likely to be the first major test of your parenting skills, quite simply, an absolute nightmare for parents and babies alike.It is dreadful for all concerned but these tips should help you cope with this difficult time.
You must at all times remember that your baby is not crying to annoy you or to punish you for something you have not done. It is not your fault that she is suffering in this way, nor is it hers. All you can do is to help relieve her pain.

Is it colic?Colic is defined as 3 or more hours of continued crying in a day. It is not an actual illness or physical ailment and doctors are still not sure what the cause is. All that is known is that a number of babies will suffer from it, starting around 6 weeks and crying inconsolably for hours each day until around 3 months or later.
If your baby cries for long periods of time and you are not able to comfort her, it may be colic but you should first rule out the normal reasons for crying:
Is your baby hungry or thirsty? Is her nappy wet, or is she too hot or cold? Is she bored or in need of a cuddle?
If you can rule out all the above, you should ensure that she is not ill by checking the following:

* Lots of physical contact is often the only way to comfort a baby suffering from colic. A baby that is actually ill is unlikely to want to be handled.
* Nearly every baby will bring back small quantities of milk but any actual vomiting should be checked out with your health visitor or other health professional.
* A baby suffering from colic will continue to feed and has a good sucking reflex. An ill baby is likely to have a reduced appetite and may not suck as well.
* Colic is very unlikely to alter your baby's nappies so any diarrhoea should be investigated further.

A baby with colic will quite literally howl with pain and will bring their knees up into their chest to try and relieve it. Many parents that with lots of patience and hard work, they are able to reduce the level of discomfort even if they are not able to end it completely.

Causes
It is still not known why some babies suffer from colic and it is likely that there are a number of probable causes.
Many colicky babies suffer from excessive wind and doctors will sometimes prescribe anti-wind drops.
Other babies may simply find the transition to the world a little hard to cope with and display colic symptoms as a result.
A small number of babies suffer from a milk allergy (either to breast or formula milk) which may be the cause of the colic symptoms and may respond to a soya-based milk. This needs to be monitored carefully so you must discuss the symptoms with your GP or other health professional before altering your baby's feeding.
Preventative measures
Breast-fed babies
Watch what you are eating as many foods are known to affect babies - spicy food, grapes, onions, dairy products, alcohol, tea, chocolate, coffee, garlic, broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, peppers (especially raw green peppers), strawberries, oranges and grapes. I found that grapes, onions and cauliflower were particularly bad.
You should try eliminating any foods that you know don't agree with you for a few days and see if this helps.
Breast-fed babies tend to take in less air than bottle-fed but do remember to burp your baby about 5/10 minutes into the feed and then again at the end. Even breast-fed/fed on demand babies can gulp milk in the first few minutes so an early winding can help to remove this air before too much milk gets on top of it.
Remember to relax when you are feeding - if you are tense you may pass this on to your baby and start the process off. Also, this may be one of the few times in which you will be able to rest yourself. Try out a number of positions to see which is most comfortable for the two of you. Ask for help if you need it - try the NCT Breast- feeding helpline or your health visitor.
Bottle-fed babies
A soya formula can help some babies with colic but do check with your GP or heath visitor as they have been concerns about the levels of sugar in some formulas.
If you think that your baby is swallowing a lot of air when feeding, try a different teat and always make sure that the bulb is full of milk to help reduce this. Keep feeds small and often - this way your baby will never get panicky for a feed and gulp in air and also will never suffer from bloating caused by too full a stomach.
All babies
There are a number of other, more long term preventative measures that you can take. Many parents swear by massage: it can help to prevent a bout of colic and also relieve the symptoms when one does occur. Cranial-osteopathy is another treatment that many parents opt for - do ask around for a recommended practitioner or see our advice and links page.
When an attack occurs
There is no single thing that will give relief to all babies with colic but with (lots) of patience and trial and error, you will find things that will help ease the discomfort. What your baby really needs is comforting and lots and lots of it. This will not spoil the baby - you are simply responding to her needs and helping her through a distressing time.
Simple things often work best:
* put her over your shoulder or in another favourite position and walk up and down the room
* cradle her face down over your arm so that all her weight is on her stomach
* lay her face down across your knees and pat her back
* if you have a rocking chair, try sitting in it and rocking backwards and forwards
* if you have a baby carrier, this may help if your arms begin to get tired.
* talk soothingly to your baby - she is scared and in pain and this can help to calm her down
* try any other calming tricks that she likes such as dim lights or soothing music
* try massaging her stomach gently in a clockwise direction (this can also work as a preventative measure) - see our article on baby massage here
* try gently pushing her knees into her stomach to help relieve the pain
* try some of the branded gripe and wind relief preparations that are available after checking with your pharmacist which is best for your baby
It is very hard work and extremely frustrating for you but you should be able to dramatically reduce your baby's suffering if you keep at it.
If you can, share this time with another adult - perhaps you could take it in turns or maybe keep each other company as you cope with the baby's cries.
If you really are reaching the end of your patience, put your baby somewhere safe (such as the cot) and leave the room for 10 minutes. She may scream even louder but no real harm will come to her and the short break will do you wonders.
The next day
Your baby is likely to wake up bright and early and not be any the worse for the night before. You on the other hand, are likely to be exhausted and very aware that it will all start again in a few hours.
Forget about the housework - you and your baby need as much enjoyable time together and you need as much rest as you can get. Even if you can't get someone to help you with the nights, perhaps a neighbour or friend would play with the baby while you catch up on some sleep.
Nor is actually getting dressed in the mornings that important - if it helps you to rest, then stay in your dressing gown until you are ready to go out.
Make your life as simple as possible: if friends call round to see you and the baby, ask them to make the coffee while you sit down for 5 minutes. Perhaps they could even hang the washing out for you - it is amazing the difference even this will make to the quality of your life.
Order in takeaway or make simple meals such as jacket potatoes and tuna or cheese - easy to cook and easy to clean up.
This is a very difficult time so try to hold onto the thought that it will pass in a couple of weeks. Also, remember, this is not your fault, nor is it your baby's fault.

5 Tips For New Moms To Help Loose The Fat

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 10:57:00 +0000

Do you know that it takes a combination of healthy eating, exercise and behavioral change to lose weight effectively.Well.now you know............ Here are five foolproof strategies to shed the baby fat.

1. Siesta as often as you can. Research shows sleep loss negatively impacts the hormones that regulate how hungry you feel and how efficiently you burn calories. We know it's hard to sneak in sleep when you're a new mom, but if you nap when the baby does, you'll be able to grab a few extra hours of rest.

2. Snack well, snack often. Don't go long periods without eating, especially if you're breastfeeding. Healthy meals and snacks contribute to clear thinking, productivity and energy. Plus, if you don't nibble on something every three to four hours, you'll become way too hungry to make smart food decisions.

3. Eat on smaller plates. A 2006 study in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine found that people serve themselves more food when using larger spoons and plates, while downsizing the dish size had the opposite effect. For weight loss, portion control is a must. Using smaller plates is a simple tool for controlling how much you eat without having to measure anything.

4. Fill up on veggies. Vegetables have fewer calories per serving than practically any other food. Plus, their high fiber content promotes a feeling of fullness, making it easier for you to limit your calorie intake.

5. Make a date with exercise. The best way to be sure to exercise is to make a date with another new mom. Stroll your babies; meet at a yoga class; hike at a local park. Make a fitness appointment with a pal and you're a lot less likely to make excuses.

5 Reasons Why Babies Cry

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 13:20:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered why your little bundle of joy can't stop crying no matter how hard you try to console her.......I guess like I did before I found out this tips too.........you also tried singing to her and doing all that you used to hear on the t.v and books you've read.
Sure ,crying is a baby's only way of communication-----but that doesn't mean you'll always know exacty what he or she is trying to say.,
Well ,not to worry ,I've got good news for you ,the reasons for those wails,whimpers and shrieks aren't farfetched

reason 1.......I'm hungry

This kind of cry is a short low-pitched cry that rises and falls rhythmically and has a pleading quality to it........and usually associated with lip smacking,finger sucking,and pity-eyes gaze at you,and if you are nursing ,baby makes little grabs at your blouse.

reason 2........I'm bored

This cry starts out as coos ,then turns into fussing.......when he or she isnt getting the attention expected,then builds to burst of indignant crying,alternating with wimpers.This crying can only stop when the baby is picked up or given the desired attencion.

reason 3..........I'm uncomfortable or Exhausted

A whiny,nasal,continous cry that builds in intensity,is usually baby's signal that he or she feels cold or hot, needs a diaper change,fresh clothes,or simply overtired .

reason 4...........I'm in pain

This cry begins suddenly(usually as a response to a stimuli--for instance a jab of a needle) and is loud,panicked and long,leaving the baby breathless.It's followed wit a long pause,and then repeated,long high.pitched shrieks.Sometimes the solution(mostly for nursing babies)is to feed them.

reason 5...........I'm sick

This cry is often weak and nasal sounding,with alow pitch.It's also accompanied by other sign of illness and changes in the baby's behaviour(for example,fever,refusal to eat,and/or diarrhea.

With this tips in mind you can be sure to decode every wimper your sweet bundle of joy makes............hope u feel elated now

Do leave your comments you have some extra tips that might benefit other mums and dads .

Baby's First Week At Home

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 15:00:00 +0000

The first week of your baby's life brings big adjustments for both of you. You are adjusting to being a mother and caring for your baby and your baby is adjusting to life outside the womb. It is a time of great joy -- and possibly immense fear! Although you've been preparing for the birth of your baby for months, now he is here and depending on you for everything which can seem overwhelming. Don't expect too much of yourself during these first days! If anyone offers you help -- take it!
During your baby's first few weeks of life, he will be concentrating on getting to know you and his surroundings. Your baby needs to be handled so that life outside the womb seems as little different as possible to life inside the womb. Your baby's needs, while they may seem overwhelming to you, are really simple: food, warmth and comfort from cuddling. Wrap him snugly and warmly, hold him closely, handle him slowly, and feed him when he's hungry. Your baby will have the routing and sucking reflexes as well as tongue thrust. These are needed to get nourishment from the breast or bottle. You can also use this time to bond with your baby with lots of skin to skin contact.

Whether you decide to breast or bottle feed, feeding in the first few weeks is not an effortless process. Try to have early feeding sessions in a quiet setting with as few distractions as possible. Make sure you are in a comfortable position as it takes new babies a while to eat and you don't want to end up stiff and sore. Cuddle and caress your baby as feeding time is a wonderful opportunity to show your baby how much he is loved.

If you are breastfeeding, be patient while you and your baby are getting the hang of it! The benefits of breastfeeding are many and in order for it to be successful, it is important to start out right. Keep in mind though it may take several weeks until you both feel comfortable and get a feeding schedule down.

Most new moms feel and experience:
1.Exhaustion!
2.Bloody vaginal discharge for the first week or so
3.Discomfort or pain in the perineal area if you had a vaginal delivery
4.Incision pain or numbness if you had a cesarean delivery
5.Abdominal cramping (afterpains) as the uterus contracts
6.Elation or depression or swings between both
7.Breast discomfort or engorgement
8.Fears about your adequacy as a mother
9.Profuse sweating after the first couple of days ............and other minor symptoms
Although it may be tempting to try to be a 'supermom', now is not the time. The best advice that I received as an new mom was to accept the help of others, eat regular meals and sleep when the baby sleeps. Now it's my turn to pass that advice on to you,and I encourage you to heed to it........it's a jolly ride,especially now you have a friend just a click away..............YO(me)

Free Breastfeeding Course

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 13:59:00 +0000

Making the choice to breastfeed your new baby is one of the most important and
far-reaching decisions you will make as a new mother. Both the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the World Health Organization (WHO) recommend breastfeeding as the preferred method of infant nutrition for the first year of life.
The current AAP breastfeeding policy states,"Human milk is uniquely superior for infant feeding and is species-specific; all substitute feeding options differ markedly from it." Why?
As acknowledged by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA), the exact chemical make-up of breast milk remains unknown and cannot be duplicated. Each year, synthetic baby milks are found to be nutritionally deficient as scientists expand their knowledge of human milk.
Some of the known benefits of breastfeeding are:
* Breastfeeding is your baby's perfect nutrition.
Breastmilk is a living substance that changes to meet your baby's nutritional needs, both during individual feedings and as he or she grows. Plus, you never have to worry about breastmilk being recalled for contamination.
* Breastfed babies have higher IQ's.
Formula feeding is associated with lower IQ's and cognitive development. A recent study found, on average, children who were breastfed to have a three to five point IQ advantage over their formula fed peers.
* Breastfed babies (and mothers!) are healthier.
Breastfeeding is proven to reduce risk of infection and disease by aiding in immune system development. Breastfed infants have lower incidences of asthma, gastrointestinal illness, diabetes, cancers, and are less likely to die from Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). They are additionally better able to absorb ingested nutrients, and receive greater immunity from childhood immunizations. Breastfeeding also lowers a mothers lifetime risk of many cancers.
Preparing to Breastfeed
Even though breastfeeding is a completely natural way of feeding your baby, knowing how to do it properly is a learned skill and takes practice. How can you prepare for a successful nursing experience?
* Take a class.
Most hospital's and birthing centers offer a variety of classes to new mothers on parenting, birthing and breastfeeding. Check your local offerings and sign up in advance. Classes often fill up rapidly, so don't wait.
* Read good books.
Many excellent titles are available to answer all the questions you forgot to ask your health care provider (and those you were too embarrassed to). Consider, "The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding," by Gwen Gotsch, Anwar Fazal, Plume, Judy Torgus.
* Think about what you'll need to make life easier.
Breastfeeding has the advantage of being the most simplistic way of feeding a baby—no bottles to wash and carry or formula to buy. But that doesn't mean a few well chosen accessories can't enhance the experience. Will you want others to be able to help with feedings, or do you have plans to return to work after your baby's birth? A hospital-grade breast pump might be in order. Might you be more comfortable during long nursing sessions having a nursing pillow or foot stool? How about breastfeeding in public? Consider the options of a sling or nursing cape for discreet public feedings—and don't forget to be sized for a properly fitting nursing bra.
Birth and Beyond
Your baby has arrived and you're ready to put all your months of preparation to the test. Remember:
* The lactation consultant is your friend.
Many hospital's and birthing centers (and pediatrician's offices too!) have lactation consultants on staff that will be happy to get you and your baby off to a healthy start in your nursing relationship. Don't miss the opportunity to meet with a consultant for practical, hands-on advice about the mechanics of breastfeeding.
* Keep score.
Unlike bottlefeeding, you can't measure how much milk your baby is getting through breastmilk, so keep count of your baby's wet and dirty diapers to make sure he or she is receiving adequate nutrition. Although it is very rare a mother does not produce enough milk to feed her baby, if you have any questions, be sure to contact your pediatrician.
* Give it time.
Nursing your baby is a dance that takes time to learn. Though some babies are champion nursers from the beginning, many new moms find it takes some effort to perfect the skill. The first few weeks are often the most difficult, but if you experience problems, don't give up. Given the right assistance, the vast majority of woman can successfully breastfeed their babies. Meet with a lactation consultant or attend a local La Leche League meeting. Utilize the support of other nursing mother's.
Most of all, pat yourself on the back for making the choice to give your baby the best start in life you can offer, and health benefits that will last a whole life through.

How Strong Is Your Baby Bonding?

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 13:16:00 +0000

Most parents bond instantly with their babies, an intense feeling that makes you want to hold and love and protect them. For some parents, this can take a little longer, especially if there has been a difficult pregnancy or labour.
Research indicates that babies who develop fulfilling relationships with their parents tend to grow into secure, well-adjusted adults and even perform better at school.
Bonding is a natural process but there are many ways to help out, especially if you provide focused, responsive care in a nurturing environment.
Breastfeeding - a breastfed baby will receive regular close contact with its mother, helping an early bond to develop. Unfortunately, this is not always easy, so speak to your health visitor if you need any help or assistance.
Touch - a baby's first communication is via touch, so hold your baby close, cradle her in your arms or use a sling if you need to get on with chores.
Massage - a more structured method of touching your baby and a way of promoting physical and mental growth as well as the parent/baby bond.
Singing - no matter how tone deaf you may think you are, your baby will love to hear your voice. The rhythmic nature of nursery rhymes is very soothing and is believed to help with language development.
Talk - although she may not understand what you are saying, your baby will love to hear you chatting away about what you are doing, whether it is changing her nappy, peeling the potatoes or folding the washing. She will gain confidence from the fact that you are always near and always focused upon her, even if the household chores need to be done.
Pull a face - even very young babies are fascinated by facial expressions.
Regular activities - such as nappy changing time, are a wonderful time to show your baby just how much you love them. Talk to her, kiss her tummy, tell how what lovely dimples she has, how much you love her smile. This will take your mind off what a messy job it is and show that you love her, no matter what.
Slow down - life is getting faster and faster but slow and steady is best for baby. Stop and spend time with your baby, relax and enjoy yourself, your baby will love you no matter what.
© Arabella Greatorex, 2005-Arabella Greatorex is the owner of naturalnursery.co.uk, an online store selling organic and fairly traded products for families including organic clothing and nappies, fairly traded toys and natural toiletries.

Month By Month Of What To Expect In Baby's First Year

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 12:55:00 +0000

You've been anxiously waiting for the arrival of your new-born baby for the last 9 months. Watching your new baby grow and change is one of the most exciting times in your lifelife - and truly makes one aware of the miracle that life is!
As a new Mom, you are probably wondering about many things:
How will he react to his new surroundings? When will she sleep for more than 2 hours? What can I expect in the following year? And so many other questions..... Each baby is different. Your baby's rate of growth, appearance, and personality, will all be unique to him or her. As you embark on this journey with your new baby, take time to enjoy their presence in your life.
Here are some of the milestones to watch for in the first year of your baby's development:
Newborn stage
You have just brought your baby home from the hospital to his or her newly decorated nursery, and we are sure you are very excited. In these early days, your baby may have a pointy head from the delivery process, or jaundice – yellow eyes and skin tone. These things are perfectly normal, and should go away in a few days. It is important to cuddle and love your child as much as possible now, as this is when mother/child bonding begins. Breast-feeding is very important to your child's health both now and in later years. Newborn babies often sleep 10-12 hours per day, but will wake every 4 hours or so for feeding.
From 1-3 months –

Babies will begin moving more, discovering their hands, and making little sounds. They will smile now, and follow the sound of your voice as you move through their room. Babies love seeing their faces in a mirror now, and the addition of a brightly colored, "baby-safe" mobile in their cribs will provide them with great entertainment and stimulation. Babies can now lift their heads, move them from side-to-side, and focus on objects that are 8"-12" away.

From 3-6 months
This is one of the most exciting times in your baby's growth; many changes appear in this period. At the end of the third month, your baby will be opening and closing his little hands, holding his head up with control, reaching more and more for objects, and imitating sounds. In the fourth month, he can usually sit up with some help and is probably sleeping six hours at a stretch. It will become clearer that he or she recognizes familiar faces, and will coo and show how happy he is to see you when you enter the nursery! In the fifth and sixth months, your baby will be rolling over, making two syllable sounds and drinking from a cup. You will also be introducing solid baby foods at this time. Now is the time to baby proof the house, as your baby may be crawling during this period as well.
From 6-9 months
During this high growth period, many babies say their first words. Even if they don't yet start talking, most begin enthusiastically babbling to themselves and develop a much wider range of facial expressions at this age. He or she will have developed specific cries for specific needs now, and will react differently to different family members. Babies in the seventh and eighth months will start to feed themselves basic finger foods, and will enjoy throwing food or dropping it on the floor to see what happens! A cuddly blanket or bear may become a favorite item now, and your baby may be stressed when separated from it. Baby will now sit unsupported too.
From 9-10 months
During this month, baby will reach for toys, try to grab the spoon during feedings, and in general, become quite a bit more active. He or she will be waving goodbye to the delight of the grandparents, will be able to pick up things using opposable thumbs, and will also start to look for things that have been dropped, like favorite toys. She will also be able to move from crawling to a sitting position, and will be quite mobile!
From 11-12 months
Baby is much more curious now, and responds well to new sounds, colors and shapes. Story time is much appreciated, and he or she will enjoy cuddling on your lab while being read to. Babies now understand and can mimic simple gestures, and can say simple words. Before turning one,your baby should enjoy stacking objects, and filling and emptying containers. Short play sessions with other children are a good idea now, and can teach baby a great deal about sharing and other social skills.
Babies are a wonderful reminder of how precious life is! Enjoy your child's first year of life – it will go by quickly.
© Adriana Copacean

New Recommendations Offered By Pediatricians to Prevent SIDS

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 01:54:00 +0000

USA Today reports on new pediatrician recommendations for preventing SIDS
To best protect babies
from sudden infant death syndrome, or SIDS, they should be offered pacifiers and should not sleep on their sides, pediatricians advised Monday…
…”We’re no longer recommending the side position because infants often roll over onto their stomachs,” says John Kattwinkel, a University of Virginia neonatologist who chairs the academy panel that wrote the new policy.
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Pick Your Baby's Name

noreply@blogger.com (babyblogger) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 01:48:00 +0000

For the boys, blockbuster name of the late 20th century “Michael” has slipped from 1 to 12 over the past decade. ”Ben” has snuck into the list again at 97. ”Aidan” to my suprise is at number one (does anyone know many Aidans?). A number of biblical names such as “Joseph”, “Caleb” and “Noah” seem to be gaining ground and I wonder if this trend will continue.
For the girls the timeless classic “Emma” is holding number one position. An Eric Clapton inspired 70’s song may be responsible for “Layla” sneaking in at number 91. A personal favourite of mine “Madison” is doing remarkably well at 3rd position. Personally I have an overwhelming urge to remove number 94 from the list as to me, “Camryn” looks like a spelling error.
If you can’t find a suitable name for your next bub check out our baby names directory, with over 10,000 names to browse through.

Girl Names
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