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		<title>Since when did personal space become such a ‘bad’ thing? It’s OK to need some breathing room to deal with something!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 18:56:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[When people share their stories of their struggle to &#8216;snap back&#8217; to the way things were after something has happened and the seeming pressure from others to forget about an issue, to speed up their grief fast, to &#8216;talk&#8217;, to &#8216;be friends&#8217; and to basically get over something or someone at somebody else&#8217;s [...]<br/>
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		<title>Sometimes a discussion doesn’t cut it. Stop discussing, get to FLUSHING!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 21:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[The Bullshit Diet]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are many situations and topics in life that you can have discussions about, but when it comes to the recognition of shady behaviour and what in fact might be repeat shadiness, it&#8217;s time to stop discussing, get to flushing. Your <a title="Boundaries: Stop Asking For [...]<br/>
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		<title>When are you going to stop punishing you and allow you to move on?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 19:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Loving Yourself - Self Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dealing with criticism]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you consider the amount of time that some of us have spent judging and punishing ourselves for a mistake or &#8216;wrongdoing&#8217; on our part or even that of others, it&#8217;s safe to say that we can end up serving prison sentences that are far longer than what some people serve for serious [...]<br/>
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		<title>The People Pleasing Diet – Why you’ve got to give up trying to please The Unpleasables</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 20:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It&#8217;s painful when the realisation hits you, that when it comes to a certain someone or even certain people in your life, nothing, and I do literally mean nothing is ever enough. You could literally walk over hot coals, limbo under a bar held 5cm off the ground with spikes on it, have [...]<br/>
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		<title>About ‘going with the flow’</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 22:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[understanding what dating involves]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been on a few trips with people where one or both of us have suggested that we &#8216;go with the flow&#8217; instead of making firm plans. I found that we were either on the same page and had a great time or&#8230; it turned out to be a clash of [...]<br/>
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		<title>If someone has truly changed, there’s growth and a change in their habits</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 21:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breaking Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[making plans for change]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Over the years of writing BR, I&#8217;ve covered the issue of what to consider when someone is saying that they&#8217;ve changed and like all subjects I cover, I&#8217;m always looking for new ways to bring clarity to the situations and decisions that perplex us. Deciding to re-engage requires us to &#8216;take [...]<br/>
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		<title>You’re not going to crazy-make me! Why I won’t be making sense out of nonsense and you shouldn’t either!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 21:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Assclowns - Dangerous Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abusive Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crazy-making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulative behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mind fuckery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[verbal and emotional abuse]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve very recently had the highly disconcerting experience of someone pulling a &#8216;switcheroo&#8217; in a situation where they were in the wrong, but by the time they were finished with their crazy-making attempts, they had positioned themselves as the victim. I know that I&#8217;m not alone in this experience because I&#8217;ve heard from [...]<br/>
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		<title>Choices – we’ve all got to make them so why give you a hard time for not living a fantasy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loving Yourself - Self Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[making the decision to leave]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sometimes we don&#8217;t realise what a hard time we give ourselves for just being us and making the decisions that we need to. We expect the tough decisions to give us instant gratification even though we may have taken a long time to make those decisions in the first place and we can [...]<br/>
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		<title>Saying NO doesn’t mean that you’re screwing someone over</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 21:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loving Yourself - Self Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learning to say NO in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[people pleasing]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Each day I hear from people who agonise over &#8216;tricky&#8217; decisions such as: 
Should I accept the offer of being in a casual relationship when I know that I don&#8217;t want it / wouldn&#8217;t be able to handle it? 
Should I be the Other Woman/Guy? 
Should I stay or should I go? This [...]<br/>
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		<title>Do we really need to keep screwing around with friendship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 21:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Beliefs & Values]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[casual relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[casual sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[friends with benefits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship and Sisterhood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[having boundaries with friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I stay friends with my ex even though he treated me badly?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[when your friends won't respect your boundaries]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sometimes I catch myself when I&#8217;m about to describe someone as a friend when they&#8217;re more of an acquaintance or near close to being a stranger and I correct myself. The mutual relationship between friends has become quite cheap in this day and age when you&#8217;ve got people who have one thousand friends [...]<br/>
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		<title>Sometimes we’ve got to do remorse on our own time</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 21:34:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apologising]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[can I really forgive them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coping with regret]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expressing remorse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting back together]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[letting go]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[making amends]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In our significantly more connected world, it&#8217;s so much easier to respond to feelings of remorse in an instant with very little consideration about what we&#8217;re doing, why, and the potential ramifications of our actions. When I receive emails from people who recognise themselves in my posts or in reader comments and they [...]<br/>
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		<title>Are you overfeeding your worry and fear ‘goldfish’?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2013 20:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Loving Yourself - Self Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dealing with anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear in relationships]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have a pet goldfish, Sophie, who Em would overfeed given half the chance because it&#8217;s as if every time she rustles around in the bowl when she sees him, he interprets it as a sign to feed her. Goldfish don&#8217;t know when they&#8217;re full so they will eat and eat and eat [...]<br/>
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		<title>Are you still trying to right the wrongs of the past?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Apr 2013 21:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got talking to someone recently who shared her childhood experience of growing up in a home where no boundaries were allowed. Opinions and feelings were ignored and disregarded, voicing concerns and discussing problems was a no-no and any perceived slight or apparent dissension quickly yielded verbal abuse. She became used to being passive [...]<br/>
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		<title>Don’t scratch the loneliness ‘itch’ with the wrong scratcher</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2013 22:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Happiness]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[&#8220;I&#8217;m really lonely&#8221;, I&#8217;m often told either right before or after a painful story that loneliness is supposed to explain. 
While sometimes I hear from people who are lonely and alone in the sense that they literally have nobody, I primarily tend to hear from people who are lonely due to a need [...]<br/>
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		<title>The Circle of Trust – Do you know who’s in yours &amp; why? Are you even inside your own circle?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2013 22:07:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Natalie (NML)</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries in Relationships]]></category>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever watched the hilarious comedy Meet The Parents, a tale of male nurse Greg Focker (Ben Stiller) who spends the weekend at his girlfriend&#8217;s parents home and has to deal with her nightmare father played by Robert De Niro, you will recall how part of poor Greg&#8217;s stress is about being [...]<br/>
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