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<p>Recently for some variety (somewhat same but different) I ran two experimental programs back to back that tied into each other. I thought I’d share them for anyone who might be looking for ways to shake things up a little.</p>
<p><strong>The Turkish Get-Up &#038; Double Kettlebell Front Squat Experiment</strong><br />
The first was a 4 week Turkish Get-Up (TGU) and double <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com/usa-sports-black-cast-iron-kettlebells.html">kettlebell</a> front squat program. The TGU’s were completed ladder style. So week 1 was roll to press and back down, then roll to press and up to elbow then back down, then roll to press and all the way up to post on the hand and back down. This was completed back to back with the same arm sometimes with very brief breaks between rungs. After repeating with the other arm I’d clean two unevenly weighted kettlebells and perform 2 sets of 5 double kettlebell front squats. I’d switch the uneven <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com/usa-sports-black-cast-iron-kettlebells.html">kettlebells</a> for the second set so both sides were worked evenly.</p>
<p>I did this three days a week. Monday, Wednesday and Friday. On the second week I called the roll to press and up to elbow rung one and the hip bridge rung three. Then in week three the roll to press, up to elbow and up to post (the half-up) was rung one with up to kneeling as rung 3. Everything else remained the same. In the final week (4) I did three sets of 3 full TGUs switching arms each rep for 9 total reps per arm, Monday, Wednesday and Friday.</p>
<p>I completed this program using a 32kg bell for the TGUs and a 20kg bell in the double kettlebell front squats. The results I could see were mainly in the pressing department. I went from being able to press the 32kg bell 3 times with my right (with a re-clean between each rep) to being able to press it 5 times with no re-clean. My pressing grove felt much better and I could press the bell up without leaning away from it at all and pull it down with good solid tension.</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s a Turkish Get-Up?</strong><br />
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<p><strong>The Zercher Experiment</strong><br />
This translated nicely into my second program which I called The Zercher Experiment. I worked the Zercher squat 5 days a week using a minimalist 5/3/2 rep scheme keeping the weight on the bar the same for all 3 sets. I started out rather conservatively at 70kg and 3 weeks later ended the cycle at 105kg. I simply added 2.5kg each day. </p>
<p>In addition 3 days a week I used a <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com/usa-sports-black-cast-iron-kettlebells.html">kettlebell</a> clean and press and bent row or pull-up workout. For me this involved the 32kg bell. Week one began on Monday with 1 ladder of 3, Wednesday was 2 ladders of 3 and Friday 3 ladders of 3. The second week I added an extra ladder to each workout from week 1 and then I did the same again in week 3 so that by Friday of week 3 I completed 5 ladders of 3 with the 32kg bell using less rest than ever before.</p>
<p>For the uninitiated ladders and rungs refers to a type of set and rep scheme that works wonders for strength without generating much hypertrophy, meaning not a lot of muscle size increase. To use the kettlebell clean and press as an example, 3 ladders of 3 rungs involves cleaning the kettlebell and pressing it once with each arm. Put the kettlebell down, pause briefly and then clean it back up again and press it twice with each arm. Put it back down, rest for a moment, re-clean the kettlebell and press it three times with each arm. That is one ladder of 3. Now rest for 2 or 3 minutes and repeat the previous steps 2 more times for 3 ladders of 3 rungs in total. This will give you 18 reps per side for the workout. In my case I included bent over rows or pull-ups after each clean and press rung using the same ladder and rung scheme. The pulling movement of bent over rows or pull-ups balances out the strength and physical development given by the pushing movement of the press.</p>
<p><strong>What are Zerchers?</strong><br />
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<p>If you can&#8217;t see the video, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2OKweR-N-g">watch it here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Reflections</strong><br />
I only just finished this program today so it’s too early to talk concretely about results as such. All I do know is that in 8 weeks (including 1 back-off week) I’ve gotten significantly stronger with the 32kg kettlebell. I plan to test my 1 rep max with the Zercher squat next week (shooting for 120kg+). Possibly the week after I will test how this has all translated with my deadlift. </p>
<p>The Zercher squat and kettlebell program could easily be cycled for continued gains in strength. All you would do with the Zercher squat is start a new cycle 5kg or so heavier than your previous beginning weight. In my example I started at 70kg so my next cycle would start at 75kg and end at 110kg. Then you do it all again. With the clean and press and bent row or pull-up you could just add a rung (go from 3 rungs to 4) and go for another run up again in the same fashion as before. In my example I would end the final Friday of the cycle at 5 ladders of 4 rungs for 50 total reps.</p>
<p><strong>Some Background</strong><br />
I started with a 20kg bell back in September 2007 and worked through Enter the Kettlebell&#8217;s Program Minimum and the full Right of Passage. Afterward I got myself a 32kg bell and worked for a couple of months before I could press it. Then I got my hands on Power to the People! and started deadlifting exclusively. 10 months of Power to the People! style deadlifting guided me from a 110kg 1RM to a conservative 182.5kg 1RM with plenty in the tank. I weigh 80kg. Once I hit that 400lb deadlift I decided I wanted to up my pressing strength towards a body weight press and so experimented with the program(s) above. Early in the New Year I plan to use Adam Glass’ Radiant Dawn program to strictly press the 40kg bell overhead with one hand.</p>
<p><strong>Wrapping it Up</strong><br />
Whatever you&#8217;re doing I feel everyone (with some very rare exceptions) should work at being stronger today than they were a month ago. And to be stronger next month than they are today. Achieving true strength takes solid preemptive planning, dedication, consistency, self-discipline and a willingness to experiment. All of which are critical qualities for success that translate into almost everything else of value in your life. </p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t do these things now with something as simple as picking a weight up off the ground how are you ever going to exemplify these qualities when it really counts? Achieving what you want in life is far more complicated than getting strong. If you haven&#8217;t practiced or ingrained the qualities or skills such as planning, dedication, consistency, self-discipline and a willingness to experiment and adjust dynamically your chances of success in life are not very good. Time to start practicing right now. Go pick up something heavy and enjoy the personal development.</p>
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<p><strong>Lots of Research Yet No Cure</strong><br />
It has been said that today we have experts who know more and more about less and less until they know absolutely everything about absolutely nothing. While science does contribute to the opening up of our world many scientists and researchers are specialists in very tightly constrained fields of inquiry. Although this practice may assist the pursuit of deeper knowledge regarding a particular class of phenomena it has so far failed in many areas of great importance. </p>
<p>Human health for example and cancer specifically has defied millions if not billions of dollars of research money. The state of a single individual human being involves a great deal of complexity and depends on an almost incomprehensible number of variables stretching back into the distant past. Generally scientific research for good reason tends to try to limit the variables. However, the lack of meta or holistic perspective among the general establishment is stark.</p>
<p><strong>Has the Answer Been Known for Years?</strong><br />
Back in 1997 an editorial piece appeared in the journal Nature. In it the author criticized toxicologists for poorly executed experiments. The toxicologists were administering carcinogens to mice of a strain known for its longevity to see how long it took for the mice to develop cancer. The problem was the mice were dying before the experiments were finished. The laboratory mice were fat, frail and dying young. The stated cause? Improved diets and environments. Sound familiar? To me this is an interesting insight into the affects of the modern affluent human environment and yet all the writer was concerned about was carrying out studies properly.</p>
<p>Here, improved diets means more concentrated refined carbohydrates. This improvement in diet for the mice and improvements in their living environment along with the elimination of infection resulted in fat mice with heart disease and a short lifespan. Recall that these mice were previously known for their longevity. Their cushy modern human like life-style killed them before they could die from cancer. That is, unless…</p>
<p><strong>Who Left the Lights On?</strong><br />
In the same year (1997) a study was published in the Journal of Laboratory Animal Science. The article was titled – Light contamination during the dark phase in photoperiodically controlled animal rooms: effect on tumor growth and metabolism in rats. The study found that animals (mammals just like you and I) maintained in a constant light environment experienced enhanced tumor growth and higher insulin and blood sugar. </p>
<p>Quoting from the abstract it says “Tumor linoleic acid utilization…are suppressed by the circadian neurohormone melatonin, the production of which is itself regulated by light in all mammals. This study was performed to determine whether minimal light contamination [what amounts to less than a candle] in animal rooms during an otherwise normal dark phase may disrupt normal circadian production of melatonin and affect tumor growth and metabolism. The results indicate that minimal light contamination of only 0.2 lux during an otherwise normal dark phase inhibits host melatonin secretion and increases the rate of tumor growth…”</p>
<p>Despite this result you would be hard pressed to find someone investigating light as a source of tumor growth in humans. The researchers in the above study were only concerned with rats and mice. They failed to see the forest for the trees. This is despite clearly stating that exposure to even small amounts of light during a period when it should be dark (night time) results in the inhibition of melatonin in all mammals and accelerated growth of cancer. </p>
<p>The mechanism for cancer control naturally exists in each one of us. Each night we’re meant to enjoy a natural melatonin bath. However, we’ve messed with our environment so much that we’re inhibiting the natural process. So now we have to actually put up block-out blinds, turn off the digital clock that ironically bathes us in light all night long and systematically remove light leaks from our sleeping environment. </p>
<p>Think cave. Cool and so dark you can’t see your hand in front of your face.</p>
<p><strong>Wrapping it Up</strong><br />
For a look at some of the mechanisms involving melatonin you might enjoy reading <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/living-balance-harmony-nature-key-good-health/">Why Living in Balance and Harmony with Nature is the Key to Good Health</a>. Coming in the next couple of days we will take a look at more interesting research in a similar vein as today. To ensure you don&#8217;t miss out make sure you subscribe using the form below.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Belief rules the world you and I live in. Humans have beliefs about all manner of things and it is our beliefs that determine for you and I what is and is not possible in our lives. The beliefs we hold dictate how we react to events and to new information. The beliefs that concern me the most are the ones I don’t know I have because to the degree that I operate on unidentified beliefs it the degree to which I am not free. So how can we recognize previously unidentified personal beliefs? <p><a href="http://sharethis.com/item?&#038;wp=2.6&#38;publisher=1c9eff7c-e29f-4c31-a6cf-9a5c348b3c97&#38;title=Achieve+Happiness+by+Awakening+to+Your+Belief+System&#38;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.balancedexistence.com%2Fachieve-happiness-awakening-belief-system%2F">ShareThis</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Belief rules the world you and I live in. Humans have beliefs about all manner of things and it is our beliefs that determine for you and I what is and is not possible in our lives. The beliefs we hold dictate how we react to events and to new information. The beliefs that concern me the most are the ones I don’t know I have because to the degree that I operate on unidentified beliefs it the degree to which I am not free. So how can we recognize previously unidentified personal beliefs?</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t Get Defensive</strong><br />
It is a relatively simple matter to uncover previously hidden personal beliefs. All you have to do is know the signs to look for that indicates a belief you hold is dictating your current behavior. One potent sign that a hidden belief exists is whenever you experience an intensely defensive reaction to something. This is often a sign of an emotional need to hold on to a belief. For when close personal beliefs are challenged we tend to defend and justify them and our behavior at all costs.</p>
<p><strong>Cognitive Dissonance</strong><br />
The occurrence of cognitive dissonance is another sign to look out for that subconscious beliefs are at work. Cognitive dissonance is an unpleasant feeling that drives self-justification of our actions and decisions, especially the wrong actions and decisions. Cognitive dissonance is a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two ideas, attitudes, beliefs, or opinions that are psychologically inconsistent. </p>
<p>As an example, after a stressful and exhausting week at work a beer and pizza feels like a great idea. However at the same time for some people, somewhere deep down inside under the outer facade, they know they are sick, fat, exhausted and unhappy and that self-medicating with pizza and beer is part of the reason why they are this way. </p>
<p>The tension between these two inconsistent cognitions produces mental discomfort. This can be anything from a minor pang to deep anguish and before long something has to give. Eventually we must find a way to reduce the mental discomfort. In the above example the optimal course of action is to actively seek out, learn and apply positive stress management techniques and to be prepared with a home stocked with healthy food ready to be prepared. </p>
<p>However, the person may really want that pizza and that beer. After all it has been a long stressful week and they can taste the glorious pizza and cold beer just thinking about it. In which case they are likely to reduce the dissonance in one of many ingenious though self-deluding ways. As an example they may justify it based on a hard workout they had that week. Unfortunately, all the hard work they’ve put in to momentarily improve their insulin resistance is going to be utterly destroyed by the incoming pizza and beer. </p>
<p><strong>Consonance &#038; Confirmation Bias</strong><br />
Dissonance theory also destroys the idea that we process information logically. The real picture is rather contrary to our egoistic self-conceptualization of ourselves as logical, rational, critical thinking beings. For example if new information is consonant with our beliefs we think it well founded and useful. However, if the new information is dissonant we consider it flawed, foolish or not common sense. </p>
<p>The need for consonance is very powerful. When we are forced to look at disconfirming evidence, we tend to find a way to criticize, distort, or dismiss it so that we can maintain or even strengthen our existing beliefs and world view. We like to maintain a stable sense of reality. This mental contortion is called the confirmation bias.</p>
<p>Recall the intensely defensive reaction discussed at the beginning of this article. If a person really wants a particular treat food or drink despite being overweight, unhealthy, exhausted and unhappy and someone (who actually cares enough about them to do so) informs them that they shouldn’t have it and why, they’ll likely find themselves quickly attempting to criticize, discredit or distort the discomforting evidence against having that treat. Anything can be willfully criticized and distorted if you don’t happen to actually want to learn something and improve the quality of your life.</p>
<p>Arguments are a simple matter to formulate and often those who have the will to be the most argumentative and suspend their own intelligence to the greatest degree in order to formulate argumentative point and counterpoint “win” the argument. Unfortunately, wining arguments does nothing to change physical reality. The simple fact is if you or someone you know is tired, fat, unhealthy and unhappy you or that person are continuing to behave incorrectly in the face of obvious feedback that your behavior is incorrect. You or they can rationalize and debate all day long. It doesn’t make a bit of difference. </p>
<p><strong>Interesting Science</strong><br />
Neuroscience has shown that these biases in thinking are built into the very way all our brains process information. In one study a group of people were monitored by MRI while attempting to process dissonant or consonant information about George Bush or John Kerry. </p>
<p>The researchers found that the reasoning areas of the brain virtually shut down when the participants were confronted with dissonant information and the emotional areas of the brain became active when consonance was restored. What this shows is that we need to be very careful about making our minds up about something. For once we do there is a solid neurological basis that shows it becomes very hard to change. A personal program of open-mindedness just took on a whole new meaning.</p>
<p><strong>Wrapping it Up</strong><br />
In the end beliefs are not necessarily good or bad. The point is unconscious unidentified beliefs are active in each of our daily lives. These beliefs dictate much of our behavior, how we see the world and the results we enjoy from our efforts. To the degree that we are conscious of the beliefs we each hold is the degree to which we can actively manage those beliefs for the improvement of the quality of our lives. This is the precise degree to which each of us is free. To the degree we each are free is the degree to which we each are enabled to be happy.</p>
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<p><strong>Know What’s Important, What’s Urgent, &#038; What’s Neither</strong><br />
The difference between ‘urgent’ and ‘important’ is vital. Steven Covey, in his famous book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective people, writes about this at some length. Some things are urgent and must be dealt with immediately – the baby is crying, there’s been an accident, the deadline is in ten minutes. Of the remaining tasks, some are important but not urgent, and others are neither urgent nor important. The latter category of tasks can effectively be postponed indefinitely without consequence, but it is the important-not-urgent category that can cause the most trouble. Not being urgent, these items can be postponed, but the consequences of not doing them can be quite serious.</p>
<p>Taking time to review and reflect on the success of a project, for example, is important but rarely urgent. It is the kind of thing that often gets neglected, yet failing to do it can serious impact on the success of a future project. Taking time to be with your family is another example. Some people postpone this most important of activities for years, and as a result they miss out on one of the richest and most rewarding experiences in life.</p>
<p>As things come onto your radar, try to put them in the right category. Don’t spend too much time on things that aren’t important, even if they’re urgent. If you can, delegate the unimportant stuff to free up more time. And, most importantly, plan some time to deal with the really important things. To quote a famous line, ‘don’t sweat the small stuff.’</p>
<p><strong>Remember the Law of Diminishing Returns</strong><br />
When you first start something, it is often possible to make enormous strides in a short period of time. For example, I live in Hong Kong and, when I started to learn Cantonese, I made a lot of progress quite quickly and before I knew it I could read quite a lot of Chinese and get around the place pretty well using the local language. But as time went on, I hit a plateau. This is true of many things – trying to lose weight is another excellent example.</p>
<p>The trick here is deciding what to do when you get onto the plateau. First, it’s probably not really a plateau, but simply that your progress has slowed right down. This can be called the law of diminishing returns. You keep working for less and less progress. Now you have a choice – either stop and be satisfied with the results so far, or keep going and achieve relatively less as time goes by. </p>
<p>The decision depends on the situation – if you want to be fluent in a language or you want to reach a weight goal, then you will have to keep going and find ways of breaking through to a new level of progress. If, however, you have other pressing or important tasks, the best option may be to settle for what has already been achieved and then move on. Neither option is always better – it depends on the context. But being aware of this phenomenon can improve your productivity by focusing your energies on where you can make the greatest progress, and can prevent you from being frustrated by working hard for limited success.</p>
<p><strong>Understand the Limits of Your Influence</strong><br />
Lao Tzu, the semi-mythical author of the Tao Te Ching, wrote that ‘ruling a large country is like cooking a small fish – too much handling will spoil it.’ Lao Tzu seems to be saying that too much intervention (or should that be ‘interference’?) will not achieve the best results. A few moments thought will make it clear that we have almost no direct influence over other people and situations. People make their own decisions, usually (perhaps always) based on their own best interests. A skillful and perceptive person can sometimes align the best interests of the people in his sphere of concern with the outcomes he wishes to achieve, but this is often not possible, and this is perhaps why the results of our actions are so notoriously unpredictable.</p>
<p>In the end, all we can do is to ‘dance our own dance’ as the Jesuit writer Anthony de Mello would have said, do what we consider to be right, and leave the outcomes to a wisdom far greater than our own. This is not to say we have no influence, but the kind of influence we have is perhaps not what we expect.</p>
<p><strong>Focus on Your own Happiness and Wellbeing</strong><br />
Aristotle wrote that ‘happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.’</p>
<p>Since we can have so little direct influence on the world, it seems to me that we are better off not focusing on how to change things ‘out there’ and focus instead on our own inner world. Our experience is, in a sense, an echo of this inner world. It sometimes seems that we are simply observing the world, that it is all happening independently of us. And yet this is not the case – the way we think and so the way we feel colors our experience and so influences the world in an indirect kind of way.</p>
<p>When you are happy, things seem to work better. Things go more smoothly, people respond more positively to you, more opportunities arise, there is more serendipity. Although we might sometimes think that focusing on our own happiness is selfish, in a sense, finding happiness is the best thing you can do for your own productivity and also for the wellbeing of others. Think about this – would you rather have a happy boss or a miserable one? Would you rather have a happy spouse or an unhappy one? I think the answer is clear. </p>
<p>The right attitude is everything. Approaching life in a relaxed way, flexible, working with the natural grain of things and being realistic about our influence will yield a great deal more than force. Isn’t it easier to walk around the mountain than to go over it?</p>
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<p>Balanced Existence (BE) recently surpassed 150 articles since its inception. All BE articles ever written are contained within the <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/archives/">archives</a>. However, many of you have joined BE since the early days of frenetic activity. So now is a fantastic opportunity to share with you a selection from the early days that are part of the best of BE.<br/><br/></p>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/fear-hate-letting/"><strong>Fear, Hate &#038; Letting Go</strong></a>: A personal account regarding confrontation with fear in which I forced myself to face fear completely alone. This was a personal experiment in coming to know fear intimately, to know fear for what it is and let it go. Like a muscle held under tension for too long that eventually and spontaneously gives up, relaxes and lets go. This is an account of my adventure alone in a very isolated part of the Australian bush and some of the thoughts and personal growth that occurred as a result.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/interdependence-why-we-are-all-one/"><strong>Interdependence, or Why We Are All One</strong></a>: This post takes a look at some very interesting science such as the discovery by Fritz-Albert Popp that all living things, from the most basic single-celled organisms to the most complex organism such as humans, emit a constant current of tiny particles of light called photons.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/imaginary-boundaries-making-unhappy/"><strong>Your Imaginary Boundaries are Making You Unhappy</strong></a>: This post was inspired by a meditation I was enjoying at the time and examines the nature and source of the boundaries we create for ourselves. This is an important topic because our imagined boundaries cause many of us to feel isolated, alone and depressed. They stop us from ever really loving anyone. The vast majority of love as expressed by us humans is conditional. We are all deeply selfish in the very sense of the word. This is a direct result of seeing ourselves as separate. We are thus ignorant of the manner of our real existence. With such a state of affairs it is difficult to see how our love could be anything but conditional.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/stop-procrastinating-motivated-achieve/"><strong>How to Stop Procrastinating, Get Motivated &#038; Achieve</strong></a>: This was a Neuro-Linguistic Programming inspired post that explains a powerful mental programming exercise that I personally used to really get myself going again and motivated after physically recovering from chronic fatigue.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/life-thoughts/"><strong>Your Life is What Your Thoughts Make It</strong></a>: Probably the most vital lesson we can learn in life is the importance of what we think. Some say that if they knew what you think, they would know what you are. Indeed our thoughts make us what we are. If we think failure we will fail. If we think of lack and worry we will have lack and worry. If we think happy thoughts we will be happy. This is possibly one of the most important articles I&#8217;ve ever written.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/power-smile-law-entrainment/"><strong>The Power of an Inner Smile and the Law of Entrainment</strong></a>: Practicing an inner smile is a powerful practice indeed. A few years ago I decided to try an experiment. I had been reading about the secret of the inner smile and wanted to test it under the pressure of modern life. This article recounts my experience and examines something I call The Law of Entrainment.</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/overcome-daily-fatigue-tiredness/"><strong>How to Overcome Daily Fatigue and Tiredness</strong></a>: Having overcome a long struggle with diagnosed post-viral chronic fatigue I&#8217;m somewhat of an expert in healing fatigue. This article looks at a very common cause of daily fatigue and tiredness that most people are completely unaware of and how to fix the problem so you don&#8217;t feel like the walking dead all the time.</li>
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	<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/balanced-existence-challenge-day-2/" title="The Balanced Existence Challenge – Week 1, Day 2 (November 27, 2008)">The Balanced Existence Challenge – Week 1, Day 2</a></li>
	<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/balanced-existence-challenge-day-1/" title="The Balanced Existence Challenge – Week 1, Day 1 (November 27, 2008)">The Balanced Existence Challenge – Week 1, Day 1</a></li>
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<p><em>This is a guest post by David Gillespie, author of <a href="http://www.sweetpoison.com.au/">Sweet Poison</a>. A book in which David documents his personal journey from ignorant obesity to a well researched normal weight guy. Check out his highly informative blog at <a href="www.raisin-hell.com.">Raisin Hell</a>.</em></p>
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<p>Stephen has asked me to drop by Balanced Existence (BE) every now and then with a guest post. And I was very happy to agree. I guess the best place to start is with a short introduction. My book, <a href="http://www.sweetpoison.com.au/">Sweet Poison</a>, is all about the science of exactly <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/myth-sugar-type-2-diabetes-myth/">how bad sugar is for us</a>.  </p>
<p>In the book I documented my personal journey from ignorant fat guy to well researched normal (well normal weight anyway) guy. I’m not a biochemist or a doctor. In fact I have no medical training at all.  I was just a heavily overweight lawyer with a desperate need to know why I could never <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/battle-diets/">lose weight</a> no matter how hard I tried.</p>
<p>I had to train myself to read medical journals. I had to train myself to sort the wheat from the chaff.  And I had to train myself to understand what they all said. The only training I had before I started was the kind that they give lawyers to help them build a case. I used that training to gather the evidence for and against the theory that sugar was the cause of many (if not most) of the chronic diseases we now face (including my obesity).</p>
<p>I took notes so I could remember how it all worked and those notes turned into a book for people who wanted to know why sugar was killing them. <a href="http://www.sweetpoison.com.au/">Sweet Poison</a> was also a case study (of one). It not only documented what the science said, but it told the story of how I implemented that in my life.</p>
<p><a href="<a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/sugar-fat-workout-day-2/">Sugar makes you fat</a>. There’s no doubt about it. There’s not a single research paper done in the last 15 years which would dispute that basic point. And <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/diabetes-fructose-natural-appetite-regulation/">there are over 3,000</a> that will confirm it. But for reasons which I explore in Sweet Poison and take further on my blog <a href="www.raisin-hell.com">Raisin Hell</a> you will struggle to find the single bright-line rule that matters most written anywhere. “Don’t eat sugar” should be printed in bold type in every nutrition guideline, but it’s not. Instead the message is the tired and pathetic “everything in moderation”.</p>
<p>I’ll keep dropping by Balanced Existence (BE) to share the latest research on sugar, but here’s a few facts to whet your appetite:</p>
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<li>Sugar was once such a rare resource that nature decided we didn&#8217;t need an off-switch - in other words, we can keep eating sugar without feeling full.</li>
<li>In the space of 150 years, we have gone from eating no added sugar to more than a kilogram a week.</li>
<li>You would need to run 7km every day of your life just to not put on weight as a result of eating that much sugar.</li>
<li>Two decades ago 1 in 14 adult Australians were obese; that figure is now 1 in 5.</li>
<li>The &#8216;natural&#8217; sugar in one glass of unsweetened fruit juice per day for a year is enough to add just over 2.5kg your waistline.</li>
<li>The more sugar we eat, the more we want. Food manufacturers exploit our sugar addiction by lacing it through &#8216;non-sweet&#8217; products, such as bread, sauces, soups and cereals.</li>
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	<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/calorie-calorie/" title="When a Calorie is Not a Calorie (September 19, 2009)">When a Calorie is Not a Calorie</a></li>
	<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/wrong-sugar/" title="What is Wrong with Sugar? (December 10, 2008)">What is Wrong with Sugar?</a></li>
	<li><a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/myth-sugar-type-2-diabetes-myth/" title="The Myth that Sugar Causes Type 2 Diabetes is a Myth (October 4, 2009)">The Myth that Sugar Causes Type 2 Diabetes is a Myth</a></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today’s video blog post focuses on two fundamental health and wellness principles that are absolutely critical. If you wish to enjoy health, wellness and a high quality of life it is vital that you learn and apply the basic principles discussed in this video. Without these principles you will be unable to achieve lasting health and wellness in the modern human environment.<p><a href="http://sharethis.com/item?&#038;wp=2.6&#38;publisher=1c9eff7c-e29f-4c31-a6cf-9a5c348b3c97&#38;title=Fundamental+Principles+of+Health+%26%23038%3B+Wellness&#38;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.balancedexistence.com%2Ffundamental-principles-health-wellness%2F">ShareThis</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>These principles are the driving force behind Balanced Existence (BE).</p>
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<p>Coming early next week will be another video blog post that takes a closer look at what it means to take responsibility for yourself, what the life of a person who is not taking responsibility for herself or himself looks like (so you can identify areas in your life where you&#8217;re failing to take responsibility) and why it is critical that you do take full responsibility for yourself and your life.</p>
<p><strong>The Low Fat Disaster</strong><br />
As a side not I would like to share with you one person’s experience with a low fat diet that was described on <a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/2009/11/disastrous-results-of-low-fat-diet.html">The Heart Scan Blog</a> written by cardiologist Dr William Davis. </p>
<p>Dr Davis met this patient as part of a consultation for a cholesterol abnormality. The patient had previously been cycled through statins by his primary care physician. Something that resulted in intolerable muscle aches for the patient.</p>
<p>Dr Davis looked at this patient’s cholesterol abnormality with lipoprotein testing which returned a LDL particle number of 1489 nmol/L. Unfortunately, life got in the way for this patient and he ended up reverting to the low-fat diet his primary care doctor originally prescribed and which has been everywhere in popular media for quite some time. The patient also quit taking <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com/twinlab-omega-3-fish-oil.html">fish oil</a> and vitamin D. </p>
<p>A couple of years latter this patient returned to Dr Davis, who then repeated the lipoprotein analysis which returned a LDL particle number of 2699 nmol/L. Two years of a low-fat diet had caused this patients LDL particle number to increase by 81%! Almost all due to an increase of small LDL. Small LDL is the form of LDL particles most likely to cause heart disease.</p>
<p>Dr Davis’ conclusion? Low-fat diets as commonly practiced are enormously destructive. Dr Davis patient has since resumed taking his supplements and eliminated food such as wheat and sugar that trigger small LDL increases.</p>
<p>I highly encourage you to check out <a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/">The Heart Scan Blog</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 09:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>As you know <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com">The Balanced Existence Store</a> is part of the OpenSky community platform. What you may not know is that the OpenSky community is filled with a growing number of fantastic experts. Each of who bring their own particular passion and established following to the OpenSky community.</p>
<p>In the community spirit in which OpenSky was founded I will be focusing once a month on a particular expert shopkeeper. This month that shopkeeper expert is <a href="http://candacestupek.theopenskyproject.com/">Candace Stupek</a> (pictured left).</p>
<p>Candace is a Personal Trainer, Figure Competitor and Mother of three. Candace’s passion is empowering you to embark on a healthy lifestyle change while maintaining your home, your career and your family.</p>
<p>What can you find in Candace’s store? Personally I think the <a href="http://candacestupek.theopenskyproject.com/eatsmart-nutrition-scale.html">EatSmart Nutritional Scale</a> looks like a very useful purchase and the <a href="http://candacestupek.theopenskyproject.com/high-density-foam-roller-36-l-x-6-dia.html">High Density Foam Roller</a> is something everybody that works out seriously should use.</p>
<p>Don’t forget that you can get <strong>10% off everything</strong> at <a href=http://www.theopenskyproject.com">OpenSky</a>, including products in the <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com">Balanced Existence Store</a>, until November 15, 2009 by using the coupon code: Stephen1009. </p>
<p><strong>In Other News</strong><br />
As you may have noticed the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/balancedexistence">Balanced Existence Channel</a> on YouTube is now up and taking its first baby steps out into the Internets. I highly encourage you to subscribe to the Balanced Existence Channel as there will be new videos going up regularly from now on. With your support the Balanced Existence Channel will quickly become the number one “Guru” YouTube channel of Australian origin. So check it out and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/balancedexistence">subscribe today</a>.</p>
<p>According to Technorati, Balanced Existence is currently ranked among the top 30 Health Blogs on the Internet (currently No. 28).</p>
<p>Also you can now <a href="http://www.twitter.com/balancedexist">connect with me on Twitter</a>.</p>
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<p>After a kettlebell workout on Wednesday I decided to film an impromptu video to briefly introduce myself. I’m excited by the challenge of expanding Balanced Existence into video blogging so as to connect more closely with you. And a challenge it is.</p>
<p>Recently I wrote about <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/ready-fire-aim/">the ready, fire, aim principle</a> and being someone who walks the talk I decided that I was ready to start video blogging and to create <a href="http://www.youtube.com/balancedexistence">The Balanced Existence Channel</a>. Following the ready, fire, aim principle there was no reason not to pull the trigger (fire!) right now and adjust the aim later. </p>
<p>So starting right now you will be witness to the ready, fire, aim principle in action. Video blogging and creating a Balanced Existence video channel represents a serious personal challenge to me. However, this is something that I know I should I do as it will take Balanced Existence to a whole new level.</p>
<p><strong>No One Begins as a Black Belt</strong><br />
Do I suck at making videos right now? Yes, in my opinion I sure do. However, if I don’t just make a start I have no chance of ever getting better. Never taking action and giving up all carry a 100% failure rate. </p>
<p>No person is born a black belt. We all start out as white belts at anything new we choose to pursue. And now, having taken positive action I find myself fired up to improve and get better. Every hour or so I have an idea for another video I could do. Having made my first video the things I need to improve on are glaringly obvious. But I wouldn’t have any of this if I hadn’t just done something.</p>
<p>So my point is, whatever your dreams are get out there and grab hold of them with both hands! You’ve never been more ready than right now. There is no reason to wait. Just take action. It doesn’t have to perfect. In fact there is little chance it will be. But by taking action you will set something in motion that will build momentum and in doing so you will ride that momentum all the way to your greatest dreams and aspirations.</p>
<p><strong>Balanced Existence Video Introduction – Health, Wellness &#038; Kettlebells</strong><br />
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<p>If you’re a Balanced Existence subscriber and you can&#8217;t see the video come <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/health-wellness-video-blogging-begins/">watch it here on my website</a> or you can watch it at Youtube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gz06I3KaRJs">Balanced Existence Video Introduction - Health, Wellness &#038; Kettlebells</a>.</p>
<p>Feel free to leave a comment on the video page and I encourage you to subscribe to the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/balancedexistence">Balanced Existence YouTube Channel</a>. There will be more (improved!) videos online very soon. You can also join me on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/balancedexist">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Shop with Me at OpenSky</strong><br />
Remember the <a href="http://balancedexistence.theopenskyproject.com">Balanced Existence Store</a> is currently offering 10% off all products. To take advantage of this special offer, simply enter the coupon code: Stephen1009 when you go through the checkout process.</p>
<p>Should you wish to purchase a product available in another of OpenSky’s fantastic shopkeeper stores you can still use the above coupon code and get 10% off everything at OpenSky. I encourage you to check out the many fantastic shops that are now open at OpenSky. Remember, this is a limited time offer that <strong>ends on November 15, 2009</strong> so be sure to get in before it’s over! </p>
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