<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/rss2full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" version="2.0">

<channel>
	<title>Barry Winbolt</title>
	
	<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com</link>
	<description>Workplace relationships and conflict resolution</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 04:57:28 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3</generator>
		<atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/BarryWinbolt" /><feedburner:info xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" uri="barrywinbolt" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><feedburner:emailServiceId xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">BarryWinbolt</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><item>
		<title>Vulnerability</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/vulnerability</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/vulnerability#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 08:31:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Research]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resilience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerabiliy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=636</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In this video Dr Brené Brown explains that vulnerability is what gives our lives meaning and purpose. But when we cut ourselves off from the risky business of being vulnerable, we also exclude joy, love and fulfilment. Since these are also the aspects that give us the reserves we need to face adversity, protecting ourselves from feeling vulnerable also makes us less resilient. ]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/vulnerability/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>For success, embrace failure</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/for-success-embrace-failure</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/for-success-embrace-failure#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 17:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Failure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resilience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=639</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Being comfortable with setback, the possibility of rejection and even failure may be an advantage and a critical factor in achievement and success. Once we embrace failure as a part of the path to success we free ourselves from its drag and can invest more fully in creativity.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/for-success-embrace-failure/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Those who can, do…</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/those-who-can-do</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/those-who-can-do#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 08:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ambition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reflective Practice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/09/those-who-can-do</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What happens when you decide to take time out and plan to change a life? This is the first instalment of my new journey. While I'm not sure exactly how it'll turn out, I do know it's taking me somewhere I want to go. Watch this space!]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/those-who-can-do/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Time management, or delusion?</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/time-management</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/time-management#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 21:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reflective Practice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=682</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Gurus of productivity and performance would have us believe there is such thing as time management, but I find that most people are relieved when I announce that time can't be managed. We all know this really and while I am happy to use the term 'time management' as a general concept when talking about personal development and training, we should not use it to delude ourselves. ]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/time-management/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>One small step…</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/one-small-step</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/one-small-step#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Oct 2011 05:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resolution]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=678</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Where do you start when you want to change something? Often we aim too high by setting ourselves targets that seem unattainable, or are too abstract. Leo Babauta has some answers in The Half Step That Will Change Your Life, and Oliver Burkman discussed the importance of small victories in his column recently.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/one-small-step/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>The positive power of procrastination</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/the-positive-power-of-procrastination</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/the-positive-power-of-procrastination#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Oct 2011 04:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal performance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Procrastination]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reflective Practice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=674</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Procrastination is often bandied about as implied criticism. I am calling for a new deal for delay, or a proposition for postponing things. Ed Milliband recently spoke about Predators and Producers, those who do nothing and 'take' vs those who do something and 'give'. To stay with the rhetoric of politics, I'm suggesting a third way, Procratination may be Nature's way of saying 'not yet'.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/10/the-positive-power-of-procrastination/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Review: Beating Combat Stress</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/review-beating-combat-stress</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/review-beating-combat-stress#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 09:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Burnout]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resilience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=666</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[John Henden's latest book will have wider appeal than the title suggests, for though it may appear to be written for professionals working in a specialised area, it also puts practical techniques into the hands of anyone who is in a position to support sufferers of post-traumatic stress. In his words “the book’s twin purpose is to provide a handbook for practitioners and at the same time to be a self-help book or buddy-aid manual.”]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/review-beating-combat-stress/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Resilience: Key Elements</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/resilience-key-elements</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/resilience-key-elements#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 11:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal performance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resilience]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=664</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What contributes to personal resilience? I have recently been writing a new guide to accompany training on the topic. The key elements are: Optimism; Freedom from stress and anxiety; Individual accountability; Openness and flexibility, and Problem orientation.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/05/resilience-key-elements/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Conflict in the workplace</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/conflict-in-the-workplace</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/conflict-in-the-workplace#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 08:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resolution]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Workplace]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=322</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Conflict is obviously costly in financial terms, but more important is the cost to morale, working relationships and personal well-being. Conflict causes misery and burns up energy that would otherwise used productively for work. But it doesn’t have to be like this. If you are involved in a dispute at work (or elsewhere) here are some things you can do to start to resolve it.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/conflict-in-the-workplace/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Work-life happiness</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/10-steps-to-happiness</link>
		<comments>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/10-steps-to-happiness#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2011 17:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Guiding philosohpy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Resilience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work-life balance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.barrywinbolt.com/?p=655</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There's life and there's the job, right? Wrong. Instead of treating work and home as disjointed parts of the same existence, Anna Tims suggests a change in perception rather than a change in circumstances, and so re-infuse our lives with greater purpose and fulfilment. Work is not necessarily the enemy if it is managed correctly, and it can all be achieved without you having to trek through rain forests, climb a mountain or wear sackcloth.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2011/03/10-steps-to-happiness/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

