BDSM FANTASIES

The Top takes the bottom to its limits

2014-04-11T12:34:00.000+01:00

Before reading this article please read this one:

Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

How far the Top takes the bottom is up to both to decide. If the Top takes the bottom to level three, probably the bottom is not going to do much good for sex afterwards (nice to know if the Top has plans). Of course this is different for everyone, so if the Top has someone that handles more or less, that's not unusual. As always, the Top has to tailor the Top's expectations to the individual. Keep an eye on circulation issues in extremities. If the Top is using cuffs or ropes to bind the bottom, the Top must be careful because as the bottom goes deeper into subspace, the bottom is unlikely to know or tell the Top about problems the bottom may be having. Once the Top gets to level five or so, the bottom is usually going to be pretty incoherent and may be incapable of calling out a safeword or telling the Top if there's a problem. A general rule is that when the bottom can't respond to, "How are you doing?", it's time to stop the scene and take the bottom into aftercare.

Orgasm denial: Why men leave Women unfulfilled sexually?

2014-02-10T17:39:00.001+00:00

Before reading this article, read these ones:
Orgasm Denial: Why Dominant Women like it?
Orgasm Denial: Why submissive men like it?
Orgasm Denial: How does it work?
Orgasm Denial: Trannying day
Orgasm Denial: When chastity is almost a must
Orgasm Denial: Metamorphosis of a Dominant Woman

Orgasm Denial: Prolonged denial gradually

Orgasm Denial: Get men cranky

Orgasm Denial: The weaning process

Orgasm Denial: Subspace gives power to Women

Men have a tendency to be habitual masturbaters and this causes them to become lazy and of little use to the female, sexually, domestically and socially.

The male orgasm is a biological function that causes a sexual release, which relaxes both the body and the mind. The body wants to relax or even sleep after orgasm and the last thing it wants to do is to be forced to do a physical activity. This is why men lose the desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed and that is why so many women are unfulfilled sexually.

Cross tie your pony

2013-12-31T13:42:00.006+00:00

Before reading this article read these ones

Ponyplay basic training

Leading your pony

Tying your pony

It is very convenient to cross tie your pony since it keeps your pony centered and allows easy access to both sides your pony. Prior to teaching your pony to cross tie, it is imperative that he be able to stand quietly for an extended period (e.g. 15 minutes or more) of time. That is, the pony should not be fidgeting, pulling, pawing, etc. when tied.

It is good to use verbal commands such as "whoa" to indicate to your pony that you wish for him to stand still. Make sure you have a safe place to tie your pony. Use non-slip flooring, such as rubber mats or dirt since slick surfaces, such as concrete, can be dangerous especially if your pony is wearing hoof boots or shoes with elevated heels. Make the ropes just long enough so that when attached to the posts or walls, the crosstie snaps will barely touch each other in the middle. This will reduce the risk of your pony getting tangled up or turned around when tied.

Now that you have cross ties setup in a safe area with good footing, lead your pony over to the cross-ties and stop him. Once your pony is standing nicely attach both cross tie ropes (via their snap clips) to his bit or halter and detach the lead rope/reins, or alternatively rest them around your pony's neck. Let your pony stand in the cross ties for a couple minutes while you walk around and pet or brush him. This will help calm the pony and let him know the cross ties are safe and he can relax. Reattach the lead rope or reins (if you detached them) and release pony from the cross ties and put him back in his stall. Do this a couple more times (if possible on different days) leaving the pony (make sure you stay nearby for safety) in the cross ties longer each time until he fine standing still in the cross ties for 15 - 30 minutes. Now you can groom and tack up your pony in the cross ties without having to worry about him moving around.

Bottom goes deeper into subspace

2013-11-13T11:11:00.000+00:00

Before reading this article please read this one:

Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

Oxytocin - the "love" hormone

Neurochemicals in the Play

Time to hard direct pain

Once the relaxation period is over, the Top once again administer hard direct pain for a moment so that the bottom may get its third endorphin hit. At this point, the bottom is starting to get a good buzz going on, and the Top will notice that the bottom is a lot more tolerant to pain. The level of paddling that the bottom may have pulled away from earlier now gets little reaction. From time to time, the Top reinforces bottom's good behavior with rewards of genital touching that induce orgasms (under Top's control of course). Pain, pleasure, Top's voice, hypnotic relaxation, loving touch, and orgasmic bliss ... the bottom is on its way to outer space, and the Top is the mission commander for the bottom's flight.

This process is repeated over and over as the bottom goes through each stage and deeper into subspace. As the Top plays, She/He will want to escalate Her/His levels of intensity of play since the bottom is feeling less and less of what the Top is doing. Light flogging becomes hard flogging. Likewise with spanking, paddling, and caning. This allows the Top to open up the Top's more sadistic side with the bottom, not only able to take it but to take it and fly.
After this article, read these ones:
The Top takes the bottom to its limits

Careful while flogging

2013-10-07T16:14:00.001+01:00

Before reading this article, read these ones:

Flogging with someone

Flog with SSC!

Flogging the Back

Wrapping

The butt:

The butt is very inviting, yet because of its smaller size and roundness it requires greater accuracy to avoid excessive wrapping onto the hips or into the especially sensitive “inner” areas; also avoid hitting the tailbone. When flogged well, though, the butt can be very rewarding. The thighs can be flogged but should be done with extra attention to the power in wrapping.

The breasts:

Female breasts should be flogged relatively lightly to avoid later medical problems, and this may be more important if they are flogged often; males can usually safely take more in this area.

The kidney area, joints, head and neck:

Generally other parts of the body, especially the kidney area, shouldn’t be flogged except maybe with very light, miniature floggers. Stay away from all joints of the legs and arms, and the head and neck should never be flogged.

Last but not least, Be aware that there is a big difference in flogging someone in the standing position versus lying down.

Are the practices of BDSM pathological?

2013-09-24T15:23:00.000+01:00

BDSM involves a diverse range of practices usually involving playing games in which one person assumes a dominant role and another person assumes a submissive role. These activities often involve physical restraint, power plays, humiliation, and sometimes but not always, pain. The person playing the dominant role controls the action, while the person in the submissive role gives up control. Many people have a preferred role they play most of the time, although some people enjoy switching between roles.

The practice of BDSM carries with it a certain amount of social stigma. Health professions have long had a tendency to view the practice as pathological and even perverted. Common assumptions about people who participate in BDSM are that they psychologically anxious and maladjusted; that they are acting out a past history of sexual abuse; and that they are attempting to compensate for sexual difficulties. However, the small amount of research evidence available suggests that these assumptions are probably not true. For example, a telephone survey found that people who had participated in BDSM in the previous year were not more distressed than others; were not more likely than others to have ever been sexually coerced; and did not report more sexual difficulties. However, to be fair to the mental health profession, it only considers sadism and masochism as mental disorders if they cause the person clinically significant distress or a non-consenting person has been involved. So BDSM practiced between consenting persons who are happy with what they are doing is not officially considered pathological.

Mistress Minerva Pons Entrevista/Interview

2013-09-13T13:10:00.001+01:00

Alex:"Hoy en el estrellasdelporno.com Mistress Minervaaaaa!!!!!!!. Es Es como decir Mixtress... Mixtress ... complicado no?!"

Today on estrellasdelporno.com ... It's like saying Mixtress... Mixtress ... complicated, isn't it?!

Mistress Minerva:" Se tu lengua la trava no ... jaja?!"

Just if you got tongue-tied ... lol

Alex:"Si...jaja, se me lengua la trava ... oye, hoy es la primera vez que entrevisto alguien Dominante, normalmente siempre son chicas que se dejan dominar frente a la camara. Tu te sientes poderosa? Cuando te levantas por la mañana a las 8 y vas a lavar la cara ... hostia que poderosa soy!!"

Yes ... lol, I got tongue tied ... hey, today is my first time that a interview someone who dominates, usually it's girls who left being dominated in front of the camera. Do you feel powerful? When you wake up at 8AM in the morning and you're going to wash your face you say ... Uou, how powerful I am!!

Mistress Minerva:"Si, yo me miro en el espejo y veo al reflejo y digo "Te voy a Dominar!"

Yes, I look to the mirror and I see my reflexion and I say "I'm going to Dominate you!"

Alex:"Hemos estado haciendo las pruebas de micro y has dicho al pobre camera "Te voy a coger los pezones!"

We were having the micro sound tests and You told to the camera-man "I'm going to twist you're nipples!!"

Mistress Minerva:"Claro! No voy a decir "1,2,3, Hola!" que es lo que dice todo el mundo y yo quiero ser especial y diferente ... me tengo que desmarcar"

Of course! I was not going to say "1,2,3 Hello" like everyone else and I want to be special, diferent ... I'll have to distance myself from the others!

Alex:"Como frase es muy bonita "Te voy a retorcer los pezones!""

As a sentence is very beautiful "I'm going to twist you're nipples!"

Mistress Minerva:"Claro! Le sacas una sonrisa al menos aunque sea ... mentira"

Of course! At least you'll pull a smile from him

Alex:"Claro! O me acojono ... jaja ... Oye hablanos de "Las Esclavas de Minerva""

Of course! Or I'll get scared ... lol ... hey tell us about the movies "Las Esclavas de Minerva"

Mistress Minerva:"Vale! "Las Esclavas de Minerva" es una serie que esta actualmente ya en actricesdelporno.com ... bueno hay dos partes de alguna manera, unas escenas que grabamos con ... aí se nota que estoy un poco como mas niña eso hace algun tiempo ... es una pelicula que se quedó un poco en el aire y quizimos ahora como sacarla con actrices del porno pues decidimos que era el momento adecuado y ahora tenemos unas escenas nuevas en mi estudio, tengo el fetchestudio que dantes no tenia, tengo un Fetich-Machine, una maquina ..."

Ok! "Las Esclavas de Minerva" is a series wich is now in actricesdelporno.com ... well, there are two distinct parts, one we have some takes we recorded with rxxx where we can see that I'm younger, that's been along ...it's a movie that remained in the air and now we wanted to shoot it with acticesdelporno.com because we decided it was the best moment, and now we have some new takes in My studio, now I have my fetish-studio which I haven't and I have the Fetish-Machine, it's a machine ...

Alex:"¿Que es la Fetich-Machine?"

What is the Fetich-Machine?

Mistress Minerva:"Pues imaginate ... Es una maquina donde hay una zona para el trampling, dos potros, .. suspension,inmobilización ..."

Well, take a guess ... it's a machine where there's a place to do trampling, two spank horses, suspension, immobilization ...

Alex:"Y esto te lo has construido tu lo has comprado en ebay o como va?jaja"

Did you do it or did you by it on ebay or where else?

Mistress Minerva:"Empieza por pieza por pieza en el quiosco ... he estado por cinco años... no, no,no ... a ver ... es una máquina de unos fabricantes Funtasies ... es Fantasies con u como funtasies ... fun de diversión"

Started piece by piece in the kiosk ... I've been doing it for 5 years ... no ... let's see ... it's a machine of the manufacturer Funtasies

Alex:"AHHHHHHH ... como la fantasia divertida"

Ah ... like the fun funtasy

Mistress Minerva:"Si bueno ... es esta gente que son unos fabricantes que son daqui de Lérida"

Yes, well ... are these people who are manufacturers and they are from Lérida

Alex:"Esto me alquilarias a mi en mi cumpleaños, en vez de una piscina de bolas una máquina de estas?"

Would you rent me this for my happybirthday, a machine like this instead of a pool full of balls?

Mistress Minerva:"Si, al menos se llevaria un buen recuerdo"

Yes, at least you would get a good gift

Human Toilet Documentary

2013-09-06T14:53:00.002+01:00

"Sometimes you have to get dirty just to find yourself"

"My day with TARNA"

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"Everyone's like:"Good god, you let people poop on you!?""
"All say:"That's disgusting! You shouldn't be doing that."
"We are being brought up and conditioned to clean our hands ..."
"... not to touch this ..."
"... to stay away from dog dirt or your own."
"It was always a taboo subject."
"We go to the toilet..."
"... the door is shut ..."
"... we are with ourselves."

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"Everyoune does it. The whole world does it."
"But nobody dares talk about it ..."
"... let alone look at it."
"It smells ..."
"...evokes loathing in most people."
"I don't know why."
"You don't talk about scat and toilets."
"It's a taboo."

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"Once I breach those limits I start serving my clients."
"I break this taboo."
"Even if it is just for one or two hours."

"And ..."
"... Gosh! Neela. I have cleaned it just a minute ago."
"You shouldn't have done it."

"There are many people who want to break this taboo..."
"... they want to turn themselves over..."
"... they want to be used as a "human toilet""
"On one hand it means a humiliation, on the other hand it is a reward too."
"And it is a very intimate thing what I give away. More intimate and personal doesn't exist."

"My day with TARNA"

A FILM BY CHRIS CALIMAN (@CHRISCALIMAN2012)

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Prostate orgasm: Anal induced ejaculation

2013-08-23T10:58:00.000+01:00

Nurse:"Is something wrong?"
Stifler:"Well,no.Perhaps ... I couldn't help it noticed, is there something between us? I mean,I was thinking you want to, I don't know, to help me out with a little ... professional assistence?"
Nurse:"Do you need help?"
Stifler:"Yes, I do ..."
Stifler:"The moment I saw you out there I thought you were incredible. I mean, you're not like the most the girls I know. You're a real woman."
Nurse:"That's fine. Would you turn around and drop you're pens put both hands on the table? "
Stifler:"My god. This is great. Uau, like this?!"
Nurse:"Exacly!"
Stifler:"I have to admit. I love that uniform. Those nylons ..."

Nurse:"I'm going to preform a procedure on you calling "Milking the Prostate": it's an anal induced ejaculation.You're going to feel strong pressure on the prostate inside your rectum"
Stifler:"Come on, now. You don't need to felt cientific with me. We can just talk ... Stop!OK ... Keep doing it!"

WATCH and enjoy the video :)

Miss Dita Von Teese & Mr Bush's Tainted Love

2013-08-21T16:13:00.002+01:00

Sometimes I feel I've got to
Run away I've got to
Get away
From the pain that you drive into the heart of me
The love we share
Seems to go nowhere
I've lost my lights
I toss and turn I can't sleep at night

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Once I ran to you (I ran)
Now I'll run from you
This tainted love you've given
I give you all a boy could give you
Take my tears and that's not nearly all
Tainted love
Tainted love

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Now I know I've got to
Run away I've got to
Get away
You don't really want any more from me
To make things right
You need someone to hold you tight
You think love is to pray
I'm sorry I don't pray that way

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Once I ran to you (I ran)
Now I'll run from you
This tainted love you've given
I give you all a boy could give you
Take my tears and that's not nearly all
Tainted love
Tainted love

click the image to ENJOY THE VIDEO :)

Don't touch me please
I cannot stand the way you tease
I love you though you hurt me so
Now I'm going to pack my things and go
Touch me baby, tainted love
Touch me baby, tainted love
Touch me baby, tainted love

click the image to ENJOY THE VIDEO :)

Once I ran to you (I ran)
Now I'll run from you
This tainted love you've given
I give you all a boy could give you
Take my tears and that's not nearly all
Tainted love
Tainted love
Tainted love

Submissive male anal player arguments

2013-08-07T15:19:00.001+01:00

Before reading this article, read these ones:

Prostate Stimulation

Prostate Massage

Anal Myths and the Super Orgasm

Prostate orgasms prevent build-up of semen. You need to get that 30% of semen that is in there out. And to make sure that is completely out and to flush the system, prostate milking is strongly encouraged. The other is the increase of the circulation and oxygen to heal the prostate, so if you do have a man that is very conscientious of getting prostate cancer or scared that it will cost prostate cancer, let them know that this will help prevent prostate cancer because it actually cleans it and brings more oxygen which heals.

Prostate Exploration Benefits

So how can a prostate can help you in your bedroom? Well, think about the attachment level between you and your partner, trust, communication, if you see that something is lacking try something new, try something that requires a lot of trust, a lot of communication, and it definitely bring you more intimate so that is the prostate orgasm for them to be submissive to you because whoever is doing the rectal stimulation then be in control of this, the submissiveness will then help them rely a little bit on you in the bedroom and then hopefully increase intimacy and communication and other thing is the psychological appeal, the taboo of the backdoor play, specially for a man, just the idea of it, that they're doing something new, different, they never have experienced something like this before, it's a dirty little secret between you and your partner, definitely you can't tell a guy in the barbecue that you have enjoyed it, just the idea could again take a foreplay from 0 to WOW!!!!! ... just fantasizing about it! So imagine when you actually get into it, how much turned on both of you will be!

Another thing about prostate orgasms for man is that for female using a strapon then she can have clitoral stimulation or like a summer parties girl pal and actually insert so that she can have her G-spot stimulation as well and then have a strapon component to please the man with the prostate massages, so she can have stimulation too.

Another part is the facts that when you find your G-spot it was so amazing, so what you help him find his He-spot?! And that's exact the same idea, you will change the that they look at the bedroom play, at orgasms, you will give them a new height to her conquer so that is Your gift to them, is helping them to discover this new KINK!

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Merkel teaching Hollande

2013-08-02T14:24:00.001+01:00

The stripes began to shine on his rump. The pattern had started to form. Suddenly this was no longer a boy's belt. It was a cat o'nine tails taming an unruly mid-shipman. It was a flog forcing a confession out of a medieval backslider. It was justice punishing every male offender in the world.

Merkel:"Silence! You'll suffer just as long and as much as I decree, my captive. Now stay down there, dog, and TAKE IT!"

Hollande:"Merkel, STOP! I can't take any more pain. It hurts so ..."

Her strength seemed to increase rather than fade. A quiet joy suffused her entire being as Hollande's rump turned the color of a sunset. His head dropped to the ground, a gesture of total, abject surrender.

Hollande: "I'm yours, Merkel. I'm what ever you want me to be. I'll do whatever you say. But .... Oh! ... Oww! Please, I don't think I can stand another ... OUCH!"

Merkel:"You can stand more, Hollande. MUCH MORE! You see my canine companion, you just don't have any choice."

Hollande:"I know, I know. But how it hurts. Ooooh, Ooooh!"

This was JOY! A knowledge she had never hoped to know. To be absolute supreme. To have complete power, life and death control. To make a man continue to know pain long after he had passed what he thought was its final threshold. Then at long last, satisfaction. When he stopped protesting, Merkel didn't know, but there came a time when Hollande just laid on the ground quiet and unprotesting, no longer caring, no longer feeling. Merkel found herself breathing heavily and she stood watching the bruised, silent body.

Tying Your pony

2013-07-21T12:40:00.002+01:00

Before reading this article read these ones

Ponyplay basic training

Leading your pony

One of the most important things to train your pony is how to stand still while you are working with him. Related to this, is teaching your pony both to ground tie (where his lead rope or reins are not attached to a post or some such) and to be tied to a hitching post, ring, etc. The first thing to do is teach your pony to stand properly: the pony should stand squarely with his feet nicely under him, his weight distributed evenly on both legs and fore hooves (if not bound behind back or elsewhere) should be hanging straight down, his back should be straight, head held up, looking straight ahead. This is how a pony should look when you halt him when leading, and this is how a pony should stand in ties or when by himself unless you have otherwise indicated he may relax. You may a crop lightly to indicate which parts of the body the pony should move until the pony is standing properly.

Once the pony can stand properly, you can now teach him to ground tie. Ground tying means allowing your pony to stand by himself with his lead rope or reins not secured to a post or hitching rail. Training your pony to do this will allow you to walk away and do other things. Moreover, this will be the foundation on which you teach your pony to be tied to a rail, in a trailer, or in cross-ties. This is analogous to teaching a puppy how to "stay." For this, you will need either a lounge line or a set of long reins (such as driving reins) about 25 feet long. Lead your pony into an arena or other confined area and stop him. Make sure the pony is standing properly with his feet are nicely under him. When your pony is standing squarely, tell your pony to “stand” or "stay" (whichever term you prefer) and give the reins or lounge line a slight backward tug, then take one step forward keeping hold of the lounge line or reins, and turn to face the pony. If the pony did not move, stay standing one step away for 5 - 10 seconds, then step back toward the pony, returning to your original position (this should be the position you are in when leading the pony: on the pony's left side and slightly in front of him with both of you facing the same direction) and tell him "good pony" or "good girl/boy". If not tell him "wrong" or "bad" step back to him and give the reins or lounge line a tug. When the pony is again standing still you can try again.

Repeat this procedure 5 - 10 times. Once the pony is able to do this reliably, start increasing the distance (i.e. take 2 steps away from pony, then 4 steps, etc.) until you are at the end of the lounge line or long reins. Each time you repeat this, make sure you issue the verbal command "stay" or "stand" along with the short backward tug on the pony's reins/lounge line before stepping away.

Now that your pony can lead, stand, and ground tie, it is time to teach him to tie. Use a ring attached to something solid that the pony cannot move, such as a wall or a post. The height of ring should be around shoulder height so that the pony will not tangle himself in the long reins or lounge line. It is also a good idea to have good footing such as a rubber map or dirt floor.

Lead your pony to the tie ring; tell your pony to “stay” or "stand" followed by the quick backwards tug on the lounge line or reins (not tying your pony to the ring as yet), then take a step or two away. If your pony tries to follow you, say “bad” or "wrong," walk back and try again. If necessary, swat your pony's ass with a crop if he tries to back up. When the pony is comfortable with you stepping away and remains standing quietly, you can start walking further away. Continue with ground tying at the tie ring until you are able to walk to the end of the lounge line and your pony will remain standing.

Now it is time to simulate tying your pony to the ring: walk your pony up to the ring and tell him to "stay" or “stand” and give the reins or line a backwards tug, then thread the lounge line or long reins through the ring. However, do not tie it; keep hold of it, then start walking away keeping the line in your hands. Work at this until your pony will remain standing quietly at the ring. When you can reach the end of the lounge line, gradually increase the time you spend away from your pony. When your pony will stand quietly for 10 minutes while you’re at the end of the lounge line, your pony should now be safe to tie.

After reading this article, read this one:
Cross tie your pony

Wasteland Berlin Party

2013-07-12T11:43:00.000+01:00

October 5th: Wasteland presents the third "underground" edition of the "wildest party on earth" in Berlin. Catering to a broad spectrum of sensual tastes and packed with entertainment.

WASTELAND Berlin

The Berlin Underground Edition of the wildest party on earth! Following it's inception in 1994 in Amsterdam, WASTELAND became Europe's most notorious adult playground, where the fetish lifestyle is celebrated and applauded.

WASTELAND upholds the highest standards by creating an absolutely mind blowing experience with absolutely stunning and innovative entertainment, internationally acclaimed djs and spectacularly outrageous performance artists, thus creating a fetish fantasy world that their audience wholeheartedly longs for.

WASTELAND will present the third "underground" edition of the "wildest party on earth" in Berlin. Set in the unique "Zeitgeist" setting of legendary hedonistic playground icon KITKATCLUB, "WASTELAND Berlin" will truly be a night not to be missed!

DATE

Saturday | 5 October 2013 | 22:00 till 08:00

ADDRESS

Location KitKatClub Köpenicker Strasse 76
Berlin-Mitte
Germany

DJs

SHOWS

VJ V-TOX

OFFICIAL WASTELAND BERLIN PHOTOGRAPHERS

Heinrich von Schimmer + Peter Dircken

LOCATION KitKatClub

STRICT FETISH DRESSCODE | The decision of the bitch is final! Leather, Uniforms, Plastic, Rubber, School Boys & Girls, Metal, Cross-Dress, Fetish-Burlesque, Fetish Glamour, Medical, Body Art, Fetish-Goth, Fetish Steam Punk, Baroque. (No casual street wear. No combat army dress.)

The dresscode is vigorously checked by our doorbitches. The door is actually the place where playing begins. There are no ticket refunds if the dresscode is not adhered to.

BERLIN HOTELS

Hotel bookings: click here and here

INFO HOTLINE info@wastelandparty.de

ALSO CHECK www.wasteland.nl

Orgasm Denial: Subspace gives power to Women

2013-06-28T12:36:00.001+01:00

Orgasm Denial: Prolonged denial gradually

Orgasm Denial: Get men cranky

Orgasm Denial: The weaning process

The power exchange exists in the realm of the minds so to the submissive male, being denied can provide him with more mental pleasure and more mental fulfillment than a physical orgasm. The aroused and denied male will spend more time in subspace and thus his mind will be on a mental sphere where the female rules supreme in his life and he is much more eager to serve the female. The mental stimulation should touch a man's psychological triggers, which will stimulate him sexually. It is that mental stimulation that causes an intense power exchange and that can make sex more pleasurable for the woman both physically and mentally while at the same time fulfilling the male need to be dominated.
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Orgasm Denial: Why men live Women unfulfilled sexually

Wrapping

2013-06-25T10:47:00.002+01:00

Before reading this article, read these ones:

Flogging with someone

Flog with SSC!

Flogging the Back

Generally speaking, avoid unintentional ”wrapping”, which is when the tips of the tails wrap around a curved part of the body such as the shoulders, torso, butt or legs. In wrapping the tips accelerate tremendously and the resulting excessive force at the tips almost always causes an undesirable increase in pain. One difficulty in avoiding wrapping is that the tips can fly so fast that you may have trouble seeing. A person sometimes has to estimate where the tails are hitting, especially in darker environments.

In addition, when throwing a flogger people often have a tendency to lunge forward, which can cause wrapping if it’s not compensated. On rare occasions a bottom may desire wrapping, but then this should be done by mutual agreement and with care to not overdo it.

After reading this article, read this one:
Careful while flogging

London Fetish Weekend 2013

2013-06-21T16:30:00.000+01:00

Play PartyFriday - 13th September - ‘Lucky 13′

A play party to kick off the weekend with a dance floor featuring top UK DJs. This year’s events kick off on Friday 13th September with our ‘Lucky 13′ play & dance party sponsored by HogSpy & DommeTrips. There will be a large dungeon, separate dance room, chill out area and couples room. The venue is the wonderfully decedent Protocol in Vauxhall just moments away from the tube, bus station and mainline.

Dress code: Fetish! No effort no entry.

London Alternative Market - Saturday 14th

The biggest collection of fetish, fantasy and kinky stalls in London with workshops, shows, food and bar. Drag yourself out of bed (or cage) for Saturday’s shop till you drop at the London Alternative Market. Once again the LAM will be taking over the whole of the venue and with a bar and great food available, it’s the perfect place to spend the afternoon. There will also be demos and shows throughout the day.

Dress code: Street clothing acceptable but feel free to dress up!

The LFW Ball - Saturday 14th

Dance and play the night away at the LFW Ball. Huge dungeon, chill out area, couples room, play area, shows and dance floor.

This year sees the LFW collaborate with FIVE top names on the London Fetish event scene. Meeting and greeting you will be the ever glamorous Decadence team in the river bar which has amazing views over London. There will be an extensive Subversion play area with equipment by Playpenz, an Imaginariam dance and performance area, a Wonderland play area (with their famous ball play pit!), a bondage stage by world famous rope expert Esinem and his Bound crew plus a Wonderland naughty room in the center of it all!

Strict fetish dress code: Fantasy or fetish Absolutely NO street clothes.

Preaching to the Peverted Screening - Sunday 15th

Sunday early evening we will round off the weekend by showing the digitally remastered cult film ‘Preaching to the Peverted’. We are showing this film in the beautiful 52 seater boutique cinema, Shortwave in Bermondsey. The London Fetish Weekend have donated 5 pairs of weekend passes to help support their Kickstarter campaign to digitally remaster the film and all profits from the event will go towards the project.

Dress code: Street clothing acceptable but feel free to dress up!

Warm up the Play

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Obama:"If you are going to hit me could you hit me on the back? I'm sensitive in er... front!"

Michelle:"BEG, Ted! Beg me to make you suffer and want to scream from the pain of it. That's the way I want my men now. That's how I want you to behave."

Obama:"Please Michelle, stop. That hurts! Oh gosh, look what You made me do. So that's what it takes to make a man want You! Just a few touches of pain, a sense of absolute of helplessness. You enjoyed it!"

Michelle:"Very well, my masochistic subject, I'll untie you from the cross. Now ... GET ON YOUR KNEES! That's it. DOWN!... LIKE A DOG! Alright, Obama, now hold this position. STAY, Ted, STAY! That's the way I like my dogs ... OBEDIENT!"

Obama:"Please Michelle, not too hard. I hurt all over already."

How to choose a DILDO

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Size matters. Too big can be uncomfortable and too small won’t hit the spot.

If you know the dimensions of a penis or a toy that has worked well in the past, try something similar.

You can also use a cucumber or zucchini for an inexpensive way to find the size that’s right for you. Wash it well, find the right size & measure it.

Width is sometimes more important than length. If a dildo is too long, you can always insert just part of it, but there’s no way to change it if the width is wrong.

Most dildos have a base that can be used in a harness for hands-free fun.

Curved dildos are great for G-spot or prostate pleasure.

What are Dildos Made From

Jelly, PVC, elastomer, softskin, vinyl and rubber dildos tend to be softer and more flexible. They’re also less expensive, so you can try them out. However, they have a tendency to tear after a while and need to be replaced.

Silicone, glass, wood, and metal dildos are often firmer. They tend to cost more, but they’re more durable and will give you years of pleasure.

How to Clean a Dildo

Jelly, PVC, vinyl, elastomer, rubber and softskin toys are somewhat porous and difficult to get 100% clean.

Cover these with a condom, especially for anal play, if more than one person will use it, or if you’re prone to yeast infections. Change the condom if you switch from anal play to vaginal play or if someone else wants to use it.

Time to Hard Direct Pain

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Before reading this article please read this one:

Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

Oxytocin - the "love" hormone

Neurochemicals in the Play

After five or ten minutes, the bottom's endorphin pump is ready again, and it's time to take the bottom to the next level. This is done by administering hard direct pain. At stage two, the Top may find that a hard hand spanking for about a minute is enough to release the second endorphin hit. When the Top is done, returns to giving the bottom gentle touching, reassurances, and praise to soothe the bottom's back into a relaxed state of mind. Again, the Top spends another five to ten minutes with flogging mixed with hand spanking, and maybe some light paddling. The Top is always watching the bottom's body language to sense when the bottom is feeling that the Top is being too intense. If the bottom's shoulders tense up or the bottom pulls away from the Top, the Top goes immediately into "touching mode" with massage and gentle reassurances. The Top's goal is, for the bottom, to completely relax and to accept rather than pull away from whatever the Top is doing. The rhythmic percussion of the toys in time to the soothing music mixed with the endorphin and Top's voice create a deep relaxation in the bottom similar to what you might experience in hypnosis.
After this article, read these ones:
Bottom goes deeper into subspace
The Top takes the bottom to its limits

Montreal Fetish Weekend 2013

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Montreal Fetish Weekend's 9th annual edition offers you unique opportunities to celebrate your fantasy with enthusiasts visiting from all over the world!

Located in the heart of Montreal's « Village » pedestrian area, the Fetish Weekend allows you to experience a fetish holiday unlike anything else.

All Events and activities are all set within walking distance from our hotels. Get ready for 6 incredible days and nights of non-stop kinky delights.

The « Village Street Fair » will feature many free activities: « For Love and Fashion » presentation, the Expo Kink vendor's area, a fabulous Priape « happening » at Mado's and the incredible Fetish Photo Walk!

Save with our special limited time VIP sale and maximize your pleasure.

Take advantage of our reduced hotel group rates starting at $89 per night.

Flogging the Back

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Before reading this article, read these ones:

Flogging with someone

Flog with SSC!

The basic area to flog is the upper back on each side of the spine. Try to stay off the spine to prevent injury to the vertebrae and related tissues, and the skinnier the person is the more important this is. Also avoid swinging the tails down the back onto the hips or upper butt, or else this may cause a different kind of pain that is undesirable. Rather than a full swinging motion (this isn’t golf :P ) that carries the tails down the back, stop the flogger immediately after it hits or even pull it backwards in a snapping motion right before it hits. By varying this motion you can control how much of the tails connect with the back; more will cause greater thud while hitting with just the tips will be stingier.

Read more following these articles:
Wrapping

Careful while flogging

Prostate: Seek and Strike with pleasure

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HOW TO FIND THE PROSTATE

The prostate gland is a male sexual organ that produces up to 1/3 of the fluid in semen.

It’s about the size of a ping-pong ball and can be found be inserting a finger or toy into the anus and curling it towards the navel (upwards, if he’s face up).

It’s often easier to have someone else find it, unless you’re flexible enough (and have long enough fingers) to reach your own.

You might find it easier to locate the prostate when your partner is already turned on because it engorges during arousal. Prostate touch when he is not yet aroused might not feel comfortable.

Many men enjoy prostate massage or other stimulation, such as with vibrating anal toys. Some men have concerns about sexual orientation and prostate play. Remember -- what feels good to you is about where the nerve endings are. Your sexual orientation is not about specific acts – it is about the gender of the person/s you want to have sex with. These are two separate things. The prostate is part of the male anatomy; transgender men may have G-spots rather than prostates, and transwomen have prostates but may use other words to describe their anatomy.

HOW TO STIMULATE THE PROSTATE

Lots of G-spot vibrators and dildos are great for prostate play, as long as they’re anal-safe. Anal sex toys are:

Easy to clean such as silicone or borosilicate glass (or covered with a condom).

Smooth, since the anus is more delicate than the vagina, and unbreakable.

Have a base to keep them from going all the way inside.

Generally, actions such as stroking, pressure, or larger motions feel better than small motions and vibrations – though sometimes prostate vibration is very much enjoyed.

Some popular ways to pleasure the prostate with a finger or two include: making the “come here” motion, a “windshield wiper” movement, tapping, circles, or firm pressure.

Some men love prostate play, while others say that it doesn’t do anything for them or even that it does not feel good.

Different sensations can feel good at different times during the arousal cycle.

Combining prostate pleasure with something familiar such as oral sex can make it easier to explore.

Prostate stimulation can feel similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. With practice and familiarity, you can learn to tell the feelings apart.

Possession

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Slowly the plan formed in Her head. To have this boy, this relative of the man who had betrayed Her, this person, evil in his own right, absolutely at Her beck and call, completely subservient to Her will!

"Not too tight, Angelina. You could shut off the circulation, maybe do me some permanent harm. I'll not try to get away, Monica. Honest!"

(Soothingly) "Of course not, Brad. I'm sure you're going to be a nice, sweet, gentle creature, but just to make sure you stay that way, I'm going to truss you like a Christmas Turkey. Now let Me pull this even tighter. I like to see rope biting into flesh; it leaves such a nice blue mark there afterward!"

"You made that too tight, Angelina. Honest. I don't think I can ... stand it. I'm going to faint from the pain."

"Silence, victim! Here, I'll just move forward a few inches and make sure you're quiet!"

How wonderful! These wrists were going to remain secured together until She chose to free them. Why She could tie this hapless creature up any way She chose. No matter how uncomfortable the pose! What a glorious sense of power that rope around those wrists gave Her!

Possession! That's what Angelina had. Total possession of this contemptible person. Why there was no limit to what She could make him do, even strip stark naked! Suddenly the desire to test Her new-found powers seized Her. She moved down, permitting him the use of his mouth.

"If I listen to these heart-rending pleas of yours and free you, will you do whatever I command? And remember, if you attempt to run away, whatever punishment I choose for you will be ten times worse."

"I promise!" "Then get up Brad, and strip down to your shorts. I want you to hand Me your belt. Then when you are naked, stand with your back against that tree!"

Kinky Catherine Deneuve 1967 - Belle de Jour

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Spanked and whipped in the forest

-Stop!
-Get out!
-Why? What's going on?
-I said "Get out!"
-But why?
-Come!
-Let go of me!
-Come!
-Let go of me!
-Do what I said!
-How dare you?
-Let go of me!Let go of me! It's not my fault! I can explain!
-Come on! You can be rough with the little tramp. Hurry!
-Pierre, it's your fault too. I'll explain. I can can explain everything.
-Shut up madame. Or I'll shut you up!
-Stop! I beg you to tell them to let me go! Help!
-Shut up tramp! Come on come! Pull!
-Don't scream. If you do I'll kill you, hear?
-Pierre, I beg you. Please, forgive me. Honestly.
Pierre, please don't let the cats out.
-That's enough. She's yours now.
-Pierre, I love you.
-Go ahead!
-What are you thinking? What are you thinking about?
-I'm thinking about you. About us. We were riding on a coach.
-The coach again?

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