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Qualities Women Want In Men

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:46:00 +0000

As part of my research for a guide to style, I put together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between 21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.

My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.

The results were surprising, because the issues the women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would never think of.

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1. YOUR TEETH. Bad teeth are "just gross" said one blonde bombshell, to the enthusiastic agreement of the others.

So in order to not have your teeth immediately disqualify you, keep them brushed twice a day, flossing at least once. And if they're rotten or badly stained, see your dentist ASAP.

However, don't go crazy with the teeth whitener. "No one wants to kiss Chiclet Mouth," added the blonde.

2. YOUR HANDS. Women notice right off the bat if your hands are covered with dirt or grease.

"If you work with your hands," said one woman, "that's not the first thing a woman should notice about you."

So auto mechanics, construction workers, and other blue collar types, listen up.

"It's not what a person does," explained another chick. "It's just about taking care of yourself. If you can't even wash your hands, what does that say about you?"

3. YOUR CLOTHES. When you're wearing jeans, leave the tennis shoes at home.

"I am a believer that athletic gear is for exercise," said a part-time model in her mid-20s. "Some boys wear only tennis shoes and that's just annoying. It shows immaturity."

Good shoes instead are loafers or boots.

Try to be neat without being anal. "You should not look sloppy," said the blonde, "but don't look so put together that you appear obsessive-compulsive."

And, be an individual, agreed the women. If you've got that one shirt that only you love, you should still wear it, even if it is somewhat "uncool." For example, take a hawaiian shirt with a flamingo on it. Some guy who absolutely loves it can wear that shirt.

So the bottom is that a few guys can indeed pull off wearing the tennis shoes.

Sound confusing? It isn't once you realize that the simple test is this: Are you wearing clothes that display your core personality?

As one woman explained it, "You should be comfortable with what you're wearing and like what you're wearing, because women will pick up on that."

So in other words, the perfect style for you comes down to personal preferences and your individual sense of style. You can't make one rule for everything, except just be your genuine self.

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Nervous Around Women? 4 Steps To Overcome Nervousness

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 19:22:00 +0000

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you've ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up.

You feel the fear deep in your gut.

You know that even if you got your balls in gear and went for it, you wouldn't know what to say. You feel so nervous and fumbly that you would reject yourself if you were her. So you shy away from even approaching her in the first place.

Does this situation sound familiar? If so, keep reading.

The first thing for you to realize is that all guys get anxiety about approaching women. I know I certainly do.

But what separates you (and me) from the rest of the guys is...

What You Do About Your Fear.

Most guys let fear paralyze them... not just about chicks, but about other things in their life like their career... which is why, unfortunately, most guys will never find the success that they want.

First, look at where your fear comes from. The problem is inside of you. It's not with the chicks.

If you're thinking about rejection, then that means you're making your approaches with a certain outcome in mind (I'm just guessing, but I think if you're like most guys, your goal is getting chicks attracted to you so that you can get laid).

Try this instead... approach without having any expectations. No goals.

Let me tell you about a problem I used to have. I'm inclined to be an introvert, as I discuss in my book, "How to Become an Alpha Male."

So to overcome my shyness, I would force myself to chat up everybody, no matter who they were... hot girls, ugly girls, fat girls, old people, men, children, people walking dogs, etc.

I would talk about neutral topics with them, nothing to do with picking up chicks.

The net result from all of that was I became really good at approaching people.

After that, however, I made a mistake. I said to myself, "Since I'm so good at approaching people and have become an outgoing person, why am I wasting time talking to anyone other than hot chicks?"

So then I limited the people I talked to... and my anxiety about talking to random women swept over me once again. It was as if I'd never had all that practice chatting up strangers in the first place.

At that point I realized it was because I was outcome-dependent. Because I had thoughts like "I'm going to try to lay this chick" in my mind... before I'd even opened my mouth to say "hi"... and so I would crash and burn. It sucked.

Here's something I want you to try. Whenever you go out, talk to three people, but do it just for practice. Don't do it for real.

Because it's just for practice, don't limit yourself to just talking to hot women. In general, I've found that elderly people (both males and females) and fat women are easy to talk to.

If it helps, set up a time limit for your practice interactions, like that you'll talk to the person for 30 seconds and then you'll get out of the conversation. (Say something like, "Well, I'm on my way to meeting a friend. Good chatting with you." And then walk away without making a big deal of it.)

Once you've done your practices and feel warmed up, then you can chat up hot chicks. Again though, do it without having any sort of sex-related outcome in mind. For example, if a chick passes by you in a hallway, just say, "Hey, I need a quick female opinion on something." (Then ask about something that you genuinely want a female opinion on.)

Remember though: have no outcome in mind. So it doesn't matter if the chick responds rudely.

In fact, when you reach a point that you've chatted up lots of women, you'll find that eventually rude responses on their part mean nothing. You'll have an attitude of "ha, how original... I've had tons of women give me that exact same 'clever' rude comment."

I've been rejected hideously, time and time again. One chick screamed "Go away!" at me before I could even get out my initial sentence.

Another time I thought it was amusing when I approached a group of two girls, just for practice, and right after I said "hey," they both turned their backs on me in unison, as if they were synchronized dancers!

Now I just look back on all of that and laugh.

My point is that the more you approach, the more you'll reach a level where you notice that most people act in the same, predictable ways. It'll bore you rather than cause you anxiety.

Think of it as trying to build a house. You put down one brick at a time and cement it. Brick, cement. Brick, cement. It'll take a long time, but eventually, the walls will be up (which means you've finished the hard part).

To get a bit more psychological, there's really no such thing as "being nervous." You don't "get nervous," like it's some kind of flu virus that invades your body.

All feelings of nervousness come from within. You have a certain series of thought processes that you go through. You say things to yourself. (When you think thoughts like, "I would reject myself," it sets you up for failure!) You picture the chicks rejecting you. You feel tense in your body. And so on.

So what you can do to break this is to identify it for what it is.

Notice your negative thoughts and change them. Instead of thinking, "Oh my God, this chick is going to act like a bitch to me because I fumble my words"... think, "It's awesome that I'm making this approach, because if this chick rejects me, that means I've gotten her out of the way and I'm one step closer to finding my dream girl."

Notice where you feel tense in your body, and then let your muscles relax in those areas. For me, I feel tense in my jaw and face when I'm nervous. So when I relax my jaw and facial muscles, it alleviates a lot of my tension.

I'll wrap it up for you by concluding with this advice:

1) Be social for the sake of being social. Nothing else.

2) Remember that the only way to get over your fear is by doing the thing you fear. The more you do it, the easier it gets, because your attitude about the experiences will become, "Been there, done that, it's no big deal."

3) Recognize your bad thoughts and force yourself to replace them with good ones.

4) Ease the physical tension you have in your body when you feel nervous.

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How To Become An Alpha Male

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:35:00 +0000

"I don't get it!..."

"I've a nice car. I'm accomplished. My A-List CV make the next guy look funky. I even
wear the latest Armani! Why doesn't she flip for me? Why am I always alone??"

STOP!

How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question?

The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.

But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:

1) Dress to Kill - all the time: No I don't intend that You wear that $5000 suit to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Men, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you're missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.

2) Bedroom Eyes - When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the tendrils of growing attraction. Ethnologists have a term for it, the copulatory gaze. Get your eyes even sexier by enlargening your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How does one get the pupils popping? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.

3) Visual Caress - Get your eyes do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across the eyes and rest at the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!

4) Easter Eggs - Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for easter eggs as you talk. These are unusual words of phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say "What's the story behind that?" or "How do you feel about that?". Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings.Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.

5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged - Men talk facts: stock figures, bill payments, and boring engine specs. Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away. Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You'll be her new confidant!

I know what you're thinking. It's all common sense! That's true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.

Get out there and be the man women loves. Use your common sense!

Learn The Art Of Flirting to Increase Your Chance of Getting The Girl

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:33:00 +0000

Many people believe that the art of flirting is something that you either have or you don't. The art of flirting can be mastered by anyone. All it takes is practice.
The first thing to know about the art of flirting is that it s something, which can be done by anyone. It doesn't require you to have a sporty physique, or handsome, chiselled features. The art of flirting emphasises the qualities that are unique to you and teaches you how to make the most of these. In this way, the art of flirting begins from the inside.

So what can you do to make sure others know you are a fantastic person? You need to understand how to use non-verbal communication to flirt successfully. The eyes are the window to the soul and they are also an excellent starting point for learning how to flirt. Have you ever glanced around a room and then suddenly a stranger catches your gaze? What is it about you that caught and held someone's attention, even if only momentarily? People like people who are attracted to them. Flirting is a skill that harnesses the many different types of gaze. The routine of making eye contact, holding it, breaking it, and then engaging again is one of the most basic yet effective methods in your flirting arsenal. This lets the person know you want to flirt with them, and you'll learn how to determine if they are interested from the reaction they give. You can also take this to the next level to let them know you are having 'impure' thoughts about them! Tell them you are looking to 'devour' them by holding their gaze even longer and breaking only to glance up and down their body.

Eye contact is obviously crucial, but should be used along with other kinds of body language. Positioning your body in such a manner that shows you are open to communication is crucial to the art of flirting. Flirting is a combination of being able to read their signals whilst also revealing your intentions. There's no need to think of flirting as something which other people do. You just need to be taught the key skills and how to practice them. Then go out and have some fun!

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noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 12:47:00 +0000

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How To Get The Girl You've Been Chasing Forever

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 07:15:00 +0000

Do you have trouble attracting women? Is there a particular girl you've been chasing forever and she either ignores you, or (worse!) treats you as a best friend, almost like a brother? You're not alone. Men have been chasing girls since the dawn of time, but there are some guys that are more successful than others. Sure, there are the good looking guys who women are initially drawn to, but more often than not, you find that they cannot keep a girls interest and not even get them as far as the bedroom.

To become an alpha male does not require you to be what is classed as traditionally good looking (you know - 6 pack abs, chiselled jaw). ANYONE CAN BECOME AN ALPHA MALE by spending a little time applying techniques and changing your behaviour.

Firstly, you need to understand the psychological differences between men and women to understand what do women want in a guy. Read any poll on what attracts a girl to a guy and more often than not, you'll find that 'looks' are somewhere way down the list, and things like 'sense of humour' and 'confidence' are at the top.

Well, I've got good news for you. Confidence is something which can be learned and faked. Even if, at this moment in time, you feel you are the most shy retiring guy who will never have the guts to approach that girl. Using the tips in the Alpha Male System you'll learn how to read womens body language and tailor your approach to get success every time.

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How To Become An Alpha Male ebook - Lowest Price

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 12 Nov 2007 15:16:00 +0000

A couple of people emailed me asking there were any cheaper, lower priced alternatives to the Alpha Male System.

The answer I'm afraid is 'no'. For under $40 you get a wealth of information in here which is unrivaled. You can buy the same book on Amazon in paperback for around $50, but to be fair I think you'll find the convenience of a PDF much better and more accessible (great for searching) than a traditional book.

If you haven't done already, then read my review here.

If you are still unsure, then don't forget that you get a 30 day money-back guarantee if you are not satisfied for whatever reason. The returns on this product are low however, for the single reason that a great deal of effort has gone into creating this Alpha Male ebook. It's a manual that you'll use for the rest of your life, and I know you will see vast improvements in your love life when you employ the techniques within. It will show you how to make yourself very attractive for women to hit on you, so you don't have to do the chasing!

If you decide you need something more advanced, then you should be looking at more covert ways of influencing women, such as the product in my post here. This is THE Conversational Hypnosis Manual for indirect suggestion, embedding commands and anchoring people's states of mind to give you almost complete mind-control over women. The investment is more but then the pay-off is greater. However, if you do currently have confidence problems when attracting women then I suggest you master The Alpha Male System first, and only move onto Conversational Hypnosis when you feel comfortable.

Post a question if you are unsure and I'll do my best to answer.

If you are still unsure, just think about how much you spend at the moment going out on a weekend, buying drinks for girls only to go home disappointed? $40 may get you through one night. Invest that amount wisely into the Alpha Male System and not only will you be getting lucky EVERY time you go out, but you won't be buying the drinks either!

The Alpha Male System - A Review

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 18:34:00 +0000

I've had a lot of people emailing me, asking me to do a full review of The Alpha Male System. Is this just yet another useless system and waste of your hard earned cash, or can you actually become the type of guy that effortlessly attracts women?

First thing.... because I KNOW you are wondering... this is NOT going to be just another one of those B.S. reviews. Why? Because there's no point. I know you're a smart cookie, and you'll see through any B.S. straight away, so I'd be wasting both your time and my time (and I really hate wasting my time).

I had a long think about how I was going to do this review. In total, the book is 159 pages, so how should I structure it? What are the things that you are looking to know before you can decide if it's worth parting with your money...

The thing that ALWAYS got me about most e-books was the 'pitch page'. You know, the bit where everything sounds too good to be true, but sucks you in because it gives you hope! So, that's where I am going to start. I'm going to look at the claims on the pitch page, and give you more detail (and my opinion) on exactly how these are tackled in the book.

The 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying “hello” to a new woman…to sharing orgasms in bed with her… in just one evening! Page 101

Boy, that's one big claim! Let me be honest. This was the line in the pitch that was the main reason for me wanting to buy this book. I mean... who wouldn't want to know 7 steps to getting a women into bed?!

Well, first thing I did when I downloaded the e-book was - Yup! You guessed it! - flicked straight to page 101. I read the seven steps. Frowned. Read them again. This wasn't exactly the 'magic' I was looking for. Like a lot of things, when you read it, it all sounds like common sense and straightforward.

Then, I went to the start of the chapter and read the whole chapter to get the 7 step system in context. NOW it was all starting to look like there was something special here. It even has many pages on WHERE to find women (I'm not talking about ads in phoneboxes guys!) This was very useful to me. There are the obvious ones, such as 'work' and 'weddings', right out to ones I hadn't considered before such as 'charity events'.

Now, I'm going to give you the first step in this 7-step system. Hopefully it won't get me into trouble, but it will allow you to empathise with the initial disappointment I felt on reading the list straight away:

1. You will walk by a woman and have a quick, neutral conversation.

See what I mean? Where's the magic? Where's the voodoo that's going to let me put a spell on these women...

My disappointment didn't last long, once I started reading the book properly. There is so much detail to back this up. Like I was saying, the bit on WHERE to meet women is a gem. And it's over 10 pages long! Of course, you need to approach women - get close to women - if you are going to take things further (unless you're into all that cyberspace crap of course). Sounds simple, but for most guys like me - like you - the biggest hurdle is approaching women.

"What do I say?"
"What if she rejects me?"
or...
"What do I do if she does actually like me!?" (panic sets in...)

All these points are covered and answered in some depth.

Avoid these 3 behaviors and you’ll immediately become so seductive that women will actually feel themselves getting “wetter” around you! Page 44

What are these 3 behaviours? Well, I'll give you a starter for 10 - the first two are 'bragging' and 'putting yourself down'. The third one is more subtle, but - I think - more powerful than the other two put together. I'm not going to reveal it here, because it would be unethical. If you really take these on board and learn to exhibit the behaviours, then yes, women are attracted to you and will look at you in a different light. In fact, not just with your sex life, but your power at work will increase too. I put into practice the techniques in this book, and it really helped my confidence at work. In turn this changed the way people viewed me.

With women, it's had a MASSIVE impact. The first day I downloaded the book, I just skimmed a few of the sections. That very night, I chatted up a girl at a bar in town and I KNEW it was leading somewhere. The only thing that stopped us was her boyfriend butting in after 10 minutes! I laughed to myself. This guy came back to his girl and was seriously spraying his scent all around her. LOL. Had implementing the techniques in the Alpha Male System really made me appear such a threat..?

I don't normally gush over things like this, so I won't make an exception here. Remember - I said you'll spot B.S. a mile off. This book is good though. It's well written and very easy to read (helped greatly by John's writing style).

Do women now fall at my feet, begging me to pleasure them? Honestly, no.

Do I feel more confident and powerful in my life, and do women look at me with undertones of sexual desire and interest? Well, I have to say they do. The techniques in the Alpha Male System if followed (it's all about action, guys!) will improve your life. You WILL improve yourself, your stature, your confidence and, in turn, change the way people think about you. You WILL gain more respect. You WILL get more interest from women, and with the information in this book you WILL then know what to do once you have a woman's interest. The book leads you every step of the way. In fact, the last section is like a sex manual - packed with incredibly hot tips on how to DRIVE YOUR GIRL WILD in bed! There's stuff in there I'd never heard of, and I can certainly vouch for the fact that it works. Boy does it work....

Give the Alpha Male System a go. You really have nothing to lose, because John offers you a money back guarantee if you are not totally satisfied. If you want to know more before you buy, just post below and I'll try and answer your question.

Conversational Hypnosis - Hypnotic Mind Seduction System

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 22 Oct 2007 10:40:00 +0000

This is it! Conversational Hypnosis! I couldn't believe this when I saw it. If you truly want to become the best alpha male you can be, then you need to get this.

I'd already touched on this in my previous posts here and here, but this is an intensive course that will allow you to really reap the rewards.

I ordered it the other week and have started putting into practice some of the techniques, and I'm already seeing the difference it's making in meetings at work and just the general way in which people are treating me.

Yes, it's quite an investment to make, but that's exactly what it is - an investment.

At least that's the way I view it. You wouldn't believe how much effort I put into telling myself why I shouldn't buy such and such a thing, when actually the rewards could be huge! And yet, I don't even shudder when I pump $100/week of fuel into the car...

Anyway - time to get my priorities right I thought. (Of course, I still need the gas...) So I placed my order and downloaded the package straight away. There is a phenomenal amount of information here which will probably take months to give it the time it deserves.

The deal clincher for me was the endorsement from Joe Vitale. This guy is 'The Master' when it comes to hypnotic language, and many of you may have already read his best selling book on Hypnotic Language. There's some great stuff in there about embedding commands and pre-suppositions. With Conversational Hypnosis though, it's all about the spoken word.

I know I'm going to enjoy this, and I'll report back as I progress to Ninja-like status!

Something BIG is coming!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 16 Oct 2007 20:08:00 +0000

Guys - you are just gonna love what I'm revealing later this week. I only recommend stuff when I absolutely believe in it and it completely works, and this is definitely one of those things.

How does this sound?

Have influence over anyone, and I mean anyone!
Attract women like you never thought possible
Compel people to do what you simply suggest
Be top dog when it comes to negotiations
Get people to buy more from you if you are in sales

Believe me, this will change your life. If you've ever been frustrated because you can't get people to do what you want, this will give you the skills to literally hypnotise anyone into following your lead.

I'll reveal more later this week. Grab my RSS feed to get notified immediately, as it really is one of those things you want to be first on board with.

Become The Alpha Male: Get the girl with mind control

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 14 Oct 2007 14:41:00 +0000

Think about people you are drawn to; people you find attractive. What makes them stand out from the crowd and win both your attention and your affections? More than likely it's the way they act and the mood they portray. To become an alpha male you need to work on giving off the right aura. Once you have learned to do this, you will find a marked improvement in the way women and men look at you, which will have impact on your love life and career.

We all know what it's like when that person in the office or at school who is in a bad mood, and everyone tries their hardest to keep out of their way all day. It is so obvious when you think about it, but your mood completely determines what people think about you and how they interact with you (or, whether they interact with you at all!) So how do you change your mood and improve your sphere of influence to help you become an alpha male?

It is all mind over matter. Your mood is created entirely by the thoughts you are focusing on. If you are thinking about how much work you have to get through, how late you are going to be working tonight to finish that report for presentation tomorrow, or how badly that presentation or job interview went, then it is bound to have a negative impact on your mood. People will pick up on this, and well, you just won't be a fun guy to be around.

Take a few minutes at the start of each day to get yourself in the right frame of mind. Firstly, clear your mind through meditation, and then visualize your day where only great things happen. You might see yourself walking into the office or the school where you study, and people are shouting hello, and all the pretty girls are smiling coyly at you. Your boss or teacher then commends you on that fabulous report you submitted last week. The girl you've had the hots for passes by your desk, giving you her phone number and says 'Why don't you call me later...'

OK, so all that may sound somewhat far fetched, but enjoy the moment. These are your images you are creating, purely in your mind, so they need to be magnificent! I guarantee that just the act of thinking about these things will improve your mood which in turn will improve your interactions with people throughout the day which will then continue to improve your mood. Do you see where I'm coming from on this? It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

In itself, this won't make you become an alpha male overnight, but improving your mood through positive thinking is an important trick to learn and part of your alpha male toolset you should use daily.

How Does A Man Attract A Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 10 Oct 2007 13:21:00 +0000

How does a man attract a woman? There is no big mystery in what's involved, but there are some key things you must do to increase your chances of attracting women. Not just any women either. Follow this advice and you will be able to attract the beautiful girls you always thought out of your league.

Here are 7 key factors I have used in attracting women:

Be Confident
There is a fine line between being confident and being cocky. Although there are time when being cocky could be an asset, in the beginning stages of a relationship or when you are trying to get the girl leave the cockiness at home. It will most likely attract the wrong kind of girl. Confidence is key for women. No woman wants a guy that always hangs his head and does not think much of himself. Being confident could just be keeping your chin up, not letting things get to you and believing in yourself.

Be considerate and nice without getting stuck in the “friend” zone
Lots of times guys get stuck in the “friend” zone and there is NO way to get out. Believe me, I have been there before and it sucked watching other guys go out with the girl I was trying to get. You can still be kind and considerate and open the door for her, compliment her on the way she looks, but definitely nothing further.

Take care of yourself
This goes without saying. Although women in general care more for what’s on a guy’s mind than what he looks like, staying in shape and taking care of yourself does not really hurt either. Think about it, would you want to date someone that did not take care of the way she looked? What I am talking about here is basic hygiene. Brush your teeth, shave regularly, comb your hair, get haircuts regularly, do your laundry, do I need to go on? Thought not.

Have something to say
There is a saying, small minds talk about others, average minds talk about current events, and great minds talk about ideas. Always have something to say. Talk about the weather, what’s in the news and more importantly ask more about her. One of the things I have found is that women like to talk about themselves and love a guy who will listen. And not just hear them, but actually listen, ponder it and respond. Always have something to say and always listen to what she is saying.

Be funny
No one likes a stick in the mud. You don’t have to be a comedian, but be able to laugh at yourself. Women like a guy with a sense of humor. If you look at any of your friends who are not that great looking, I can almost guarantee they have a great personality or are really funny.

Control Yourself
Man this is one I have seen a lot. Now I will admit there are some women that like a guy that gets angry and gets into fights, but again, these are not the women we are going to try to attract. Show that you have some class and self control, don’t blow up at the waiter if he forgets your water and don’t get drunk and start streaking in the middle of the bar.

Be sociable
Women like a guy that can talk to their friends. One of the biggest green lights for a woman s when her friends approve of him. Don’t get along wither her friends and you will likely be just the stepping stone to the next guy.

I have just outlined some of the key factors I have used in attracting women. I will however say one last thing. One of my biggest wins has been to be myself, because at the end of the day if you pretend to be someone you are not, she will find out. So get out there and be patient, the right girl is waiting.

Dating Advice: Tip #1

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 26 Sep 2007 20:52:00 +0000

Here's some free dating advice. We've all been there. You finally get that date you've been waiting for with the hot girl who you thought would never say 'yes', so what do you do? You reserve a table at the best restaurant in town, buy the expensive wine, send her flowers and lavish her with gifts.

A good friend of mine blew over one months salary on a girl in one week, just because he was so excited that he finally got that date with the girl he'd viewed from afar for months.

You can hardly blame the guy. Can you? Surely the woman is extremely appreciative of the attention, effort and money being lavished upon her? Well, after about 3 weeks she dumped him! Shocked?

Well, step back a little and let's see what signals you are giving to the woman. You may have had two or three dates so technically you hardly know each other. She's done nothing to really earn this, and yet you shower her with expensive gifts and dates in costly restaurants. She may even get a dozen roses just because... well, just because it's Wednesday! This reeks of desperation on the part of the male. You are saying "I know my value is less than yours, so I shall send you flowers and take you to the finest restaurants to compensate for this."

I know this goes against everything you've ever been taught and brought up to believe, but you really need to alter your mind-set. Lose the beta male mentality and become the alpha male.

Eventually, whether consciously or subconsciously, your date will find this desperation tedious and she'll move on (once you've been fleeced to the tune of several thousand of course).

One of the first steps in becoming the alpha male is to realise your own value. Get the mind-set of someone with a high social status. This may not come naturally at first, but it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once you increase your self-esteem, others will look on you differently and with more respect, which in turn will boost your self-esteem further. Check the Alpha Male System for more on this.

Using NLP as an Alpha Male

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 13:42:00 +0000

I've mentioned this before in one of my previous posts but only briefly. For those of you wanting to know more, there are a couple of books I would recommend.

Firstly, the NLP Toolbox
What I like about this, is that it concentrates specifically on the very useful techniques available in NLP that really will increase your personal power, strengthen your confidence and self-esteem. It also looks at hypnosis (which is kind of like the next step from the embedded commands I mentioned before).

Secondly, if you want a more detailed look at NLP, then this is another one which I regularly dip into.

It's a very detailed yet practical book, and I like the fact it's full of exercises that you can work through. I'll do a full review at some point, but at the price you really have nothing (well, ok, not much at least) to lose.

As an alpha male, NLP is a vital tool that you should add to your arsenal. Not only can you use it for its' intended purpose of improving yourself, but some of the techniques (such as embedding commands, eye-accessing cues, and anchoring) can be used very well on other people. Of course, please make sure your intentions are honourable when doing this...

The Four Stages of Competence - How to Become The Alpha Male

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 22:05:00 +0000

This applies to everything and not just the choice you’ve taken to become the alpha male. Once you've made the decision to make a change, any change, most people will say "that's half the battle". Well, let me tell you - it's not! Sure, you need to take that first step of telling yourself "I'm going to become the alpha male", or even simply "I want to become more confident, more attractive to the opposite sex". Just be certain you understand however, that this is only the first step.

Whenever you try something new, everyone goes through the following four steps before you reach your destination. I'll draw the analogy with learning to drive a car which will, hopefully, strike a chord with the majority of you.

Unconscious Incompetence
This is the first stage of competence (well, incompetence at this point) where you don't know how to do something and also do not recognize the deficit and how to address it. In terms of you wanting to become an alpha male, you are possibly already obliviously happy with the fact you are viewed as weak and unattractive by your peers. Of course, the fact you are even reading this proves otherwise.

Conscious Incompetence
Think back to the very first time you got into a car; your first driving lesson perhaps. You were extremely aware of the fact you didn't know what to do. You were conscious of your incompetence. This is nothing to be ashamed of. On the contrary, we all need to go through this as it is the most important step on our path to change.

Conscious Competence
After passing your driving test, you now have the necessary skills to operate the vehicle but at this point it still requires a great deal of concentration or consciousness.

Unconscious Competence
This is the stage we want to reach. You have mastered the skills involved in driving a car, the skills and characteristics of being an alpha-male, or whatever it is you set out to accomplish. You are highly capable and it just comes so naturally, that you are not even aware of the fact. To put this in context, you may be driving on a highway, perhaps a route you take quite often, and after a few miles of driving you try to remember the specifics of that part of your journey but you can’t. You are so capable at this, you were unconscious of the actions required to get you here. Similarly, in terms of improving your confidence and becoming the alpha male, you will eventually reach the stage where people are attracted to you without you having to even try.

We can all achieve unconscious competence but you must realize that, in most cases, this takes time and effort. The second stage - conscious incompetence - can be a very uncomfortable situation for some people. Bear with it though and you’ll come out the other side being a much stronger, and more capable, person who is more powerful at work and more attractive to the opposite sex. Your confidence will increase and also your ability to influence people and situations. You will no longer be on that path wanting to become the alpha male, you will have achieved it and, here's the best thing, it will come naturally to you in every situation.

NLP and Seducing Women

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 16 Sep 2007 06:55:00 +0000

I'm going to start looking at NLP as a tool for improving your confidence and self-esteem, particularly in seducing women. I won't go into the details of NLP right now, but in terms of becoming an alpha male it can be a very powerful tool indeed and will change not only the way other people see you, but by using NLP you can seriously impact the way you see yourself too!

I'll explain more in later posts, but here's an examples of how we can embed commands...

"Have you ever seen something which you know you just have to have? Something you see and immediately you know that it has to be yours and you won't stop thinking about it until you have it? That feeling inside you get when it just penetrates you and says Look at Me, and you really want it?"

Ok, so that may sound somewhat contrived and obvious when you read it, but it's all in the delivery and having the confidence to get away with it.

Embedding commands into text and speech is a common device though, and people do pick up on the commands subconsciously. You can imagine it therefore obviously used a lot in advertising, internet marketing, landing pages, etc...

Anyway, that's just a taster for now. We'll explore more over the coming days, including how commands and phrases can also be anchored.

Learn How to get into Rapport with People

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 09 Sep 2007 09:58:00 +0000

It's an obvious one, but the single most important thing you can do to improve the way people think about you is to learn to get into rapport with people. You probably even already know this one, but it serves as a useful reminder.

So, what is rapport? It's a way of describing the relationship between people (or groups of people) where there is a closeness, and they are communicating well (harmoniously). That said, it should be obvious why we want to try and get into rapport with people; so we can make more impact and have more influence on that person's thoughts.

There are various ways of "getting into rapport" with someone, the simplest and most common way is by mirroring the other person's body language and body movements.

Important Note: I said mirroring and not mimicking!

For example, let's say two people are sat opposite each other and are having a conversation. If the people are "in rapport" you would notice that their body positions generally mirror each other. For example, if one crosses their left leg over their right leg, the other person would subconsciously mirror this in their body position. This is something which happens naturally and if you go and do some people watching you can witness this type of mirroring in close friends and people who are attracted to each other. This all happens in the subconscious, and makes people feel at ease with the other person.

So, armed with this information you can work on doing this consciously. If there's someone you wish to get into rapport with, subtly mirror his/her body position and mannerisms. Refer to my note of caution earlier about ensuring you don't slip into mimicking the other person. That would come across as extremely false and your acquaintance would immediately pick up on this. No, it has to be subtle. Wait 20-30 seconds before shifting position, and don't necessarily mirror every single thing they do (if they start scratching their left knee-cap it is going to look very odd if you start doing the same! Unless you just happen to have an itch in the same position!)

I'll leave you with an exercise to try. Pop into your local bar and start chatting to a person you find attractive. Start to mirror their body language and see if you notice the difference in the way that they respond to you. Report back, and I'll set you more homework next time!

5 Alpha-Male Characteristics You Should Develop

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 07 Sep 2007 21:51:00 +0000

1 - Watch Your Body Language

Stand and walk tall. Maintain eye contact with people. Studies have shown that the more eye contact a person makes during the conversation the more dominant they are perceived to be.

2 - Your Voice

Control the conversation. People who use a soft and quiet voice can sometimes come across as being submissive.

3 - Speaking too much

Okay, controlling the conversation doesn't necessarily mean having verbal diarrhea and talking the hind legs off a donkey! Don't use unnecessarily long sentences! Brevity gives the impression of being self-assured. Keep to the point.

4 - Be Relaxed

Leaders are calm, collected people. Don't be belligerent with people.

5 - Excessive Smiling (Don't do it!)

Of course, be happy, but this doesn't mean you have to grin like a loon constantly. Beta males (opposite of Alpha Males) smile to show they are not a threat to people. Alpha males only smile when there's something to smile about.

Your life will improve considerably if you learn to become the alpha male. Not just in personal relationships, but also with work.

Avoid the Beta Mindset

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 07 Sep 2007 21:16:00 +0000

As well as being indecisive, nice guys are inclined to be passive-aggressive. Women are often turned off when this foible is exhibited in a man.

What’s passive-aggressive? Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following authoritative instructions in interpersonal or occupational situations. It can manifest itself as resentment or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is assumed, often explicitly, to be responsible. It is a defensive mechanism and, more often than not, only partly conscious.

When the woman finally leaves him for a more exciting guy, he will complain about how he “did everything for her...”

This need to do everything for a woman comes from the guy's insecurity and feelings of jealousy. You want to keep her happy and wanting for nothing, to make sure she doesn't stray. Problem is, that's exactly what she does do.

Jealousy is a weakness, your way of saying you feel completely inferior to the other guys she is talking to or looking at. That lack of confidence is not an alpha male characteristic.

I realise that this is sometimes easier said than done, but you need to control any feelings of jealousy if your relationship is to survive. Get yourself into the mind-set of knowing you are an alpha male, and that you value yourself. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy, in the positive sense, that at first, to act like this is going to be tough. However, after a while of acting like an alpha male, people will start to treat you like one, which in turn makes it easier and easier to act like one, and so the cycle continues...

The Alpha Male

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 05 Sep 2007 14:02:00 +0000

On my regular train journey yesterday, a tall guy with long-ish wavy blonde hair, sat himself down at a table with one other man and two girls and began to engage in conversation. After only 30 seconds they were laughing, smiling and hanging on his every word. This is the alpha male at work.

I tuned in to what I could of the conversation, to learn tales of Monaco, motor racing, meeting a Prince, driving fast cars...

Now, I have no idea whether these tales were the well-worn anecdotes of an international playboy who lives the most incredibly exciting life, or indeed if this was a direct descendant of Baron Munchausen. What I can tell you though is that they SOUNDED convincing. They were told well enough to captivate and hold the attention of his train-bound audience, but not too fanciful to ring alarm bells that this was a fiction-meister of the highest order.

This guy was an alpha male.

So, how do you become the alpha male? First, you need to understand the characteristics that make the alpha male.

At his simplest, the alpha-male is the person that other people look up to; leaders, people who are respected. Note, that in this post I use words such as he/him/himself; primarily male. However, women also have the capacity to exhibit the alpha-male characteristics; we'll explore that in the future.

Back to the man on the train; watching him I could see that he marked out his territory, not only with what he was saying, but also with how he was sitting, and his mannerisms. He looked confident and at ease with himself. I imagine he wouldn't have really cared what his audience thought of him - the alpha male doesn't ("it's their loss") - but his way of controlling the conversation and using strong eye contact put his new friends at ease and made them feel comfortable. It's worth saying at this point that you must learn how to do this without coming across as merely brash and arrogant. You'll win no friends that way.

Throughout this blog, I will explore and explain these characteristics in detail and teach you how to become the alpha male. For now, you may be interested in looking at this book here to give yourself a solid grounding in becoming an alpha male.