Sharing some wisdom for a good life

My new sub is a bit full of himself.

Discussing ways for Bubby to service me better

After a major breach of trust, we must say goodbye to one of Bubby's partners

Finishing up the convo from last week with Katelyn

A friend of mine is coming into her dominant own

Simmering in the goodness of the day

Mr needs to balance the scales

We make it look easy. 

It's a fun episode. Enjoy yourself. 

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Bubby is having some problems with his boundaries and I'm just a mess. Yay. 

Well... that was interesting. 

It's time to check in again

I can't stop orgasming and it's pretty good.

My other pup comes back and I couldn't be happier.

We're flat broke, unemployed and full of love

California-based doctoral candidate and sexy mofo Ali Mushtaq stops by to talk about gay kink culture, being brown and mental health.

I'm not feeling as trusted as I think I should and it's time to finally get to the bottom of it. 

Bubby has a new play partner and is in need of some advice. 

We're getting married, but in our own way. 

Restarting an active D/s relationship means figuring out what works and what doesn't. So, we did. 

As a Dom, remembering to stay open is important. Even the ones in charge need to feel loved.

Sometimes you need to give your partner a kick in the ass. For me and Bubby that time has come. 

A partner Bubby and I share recently came back into our lives and it sparks an important discussion. 

Everything sucks.

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It's important to check in with each other. 

This week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store. 

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This week, I'm joined by Alicia Beth HIV, sex educator and former host of Raw Sex Radio. In this episode, the bulk of our chat focuses on lichen sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that attacks the genital tissue. We also venture into dating with this disease and similar ones that affect one's sexuality physically, as well as tips for partners of those affected.

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Exploring body image, confidence and why it's ok to feel "meh" about your partner. Bubby and I love each other and have great sex. Yet, I'm ambivalent about his looks overall. We explore what this means for us and in general.

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Pleasure is a tricky bitch. In this episode of Behind Closed Doors, we explore what it means to give and receive pleasure. Our guest, Garland Jarmon of Spiritual Eros shares his expertise on the topic and even helps me learn to open myself to the joy.

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Bubby was recently hospitalized after a suicide attempt and a major freakout. Dealing with that has been more stressful than I imagined it would be. Here's how we worked our way through it. 

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This episode marks a turning point for Behind Closed Doors. I address this in the intro then we transition in to discussing what it means to sacrifice for your partner, remembering to enjoy the good times and what mature love really feels like.

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Even when poly relationships start off smoothly, they can get off course quickly. Bubby's new partner is already causing trouble, so we talk about what to do. 

I'm always happy to welcome new lovers to the family. Bubby recently got a new partner and it's going pretty well.

Once the storm is over, it's important to get back to normal. Having fun is super important to maintaining long, strong relations.

Life with Bubby and his borderline personality disorder is often very tough. Even still, our relationship is strong and devoted, even if we forget sometimes.

Now that things are settling back into a rhythm within my relationship, we're taking some time to really get those lingering feelings out. 

This week, Mistress Morgana Maye stops by to discuss the lesser known, softer side of sadism. It's not all whips and restraints. 

The truth about anxiety, depression and related problems is they're way more complex than people know. This will help you understand how that all works for us and how you can help yourself.

This week, Miko Technogeisha guests to talk about depression, passion, self awareness and arousal while in the depths of despair. 

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After a long, drawn out period of stress and fighting, me and Bubby are settling back in to the calm, no fucks given lifestyle I prefer. Here's how we're doing it. 

BDSM practitioner, writer and awesome lady Jaki Griot stops by to chat about the realities of owning a chubby submissive, the joy of sadism and other incredibly kinky topics. 

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After a gigantic blow out, things are peaceful between us. So, we took the time to set the new rules of our restarting D/s relationship.

I am frustrated ... again. This is perhaps the most raw I've ever been. It's a very raw ep but it's very honest as well.

After a visit with his therapist, it has become clear that Bubby resents me. Ugh. Of course he does.

Now that we've been non-monogamous for a while, I feel like it's time to take a look at the rules.

The tension between bubby and I continues to increase. I'm really scared a breakup might be imminent.

I've got depression and everything is gray.

My version of a fairytale.

I wonder if he knows just how crazy he's making me.

My submissive is crying and my boyfriend is full of shit.

Dominance is pretty new to me. I'm trying to figure it all out.

Multitasking at it's orgasmic best.

Were all crazy. Sometimes, that means taking pills that makes our bodies do odd things like produce breast milk in a non-pregnant lesbian.

My friends Drake and Holden talk about sex from the perspective slightly affluent white boys from a partially mixed race family. It's more interesting than you might think.

A firm slap to the ass usually helps clear up Bubby's depression.

My partner really gets on my nerves sometimes.

My partner/sub Bubby is being extra clingy and it's driving me a little batty.