Being Happy Forever

Revisite HUKM Hospital for non stop hot fever

2015-06-30T10:33:00.001+08:00

I sent mama for her medical appointment with doctor last week on 23 Jun 2015. During that time she was having a fever and doctor has also given her an antibiotic for a week to take.

However until today 30 Jun 2015, she is still on fever and I bring her to see a doctor for further medical check up. Her blood pressure measurement today is155/73. Today, doctor has instructed her to take a chest X-Ray, blood test and urine check for further disgnose.

Hopefully mama is okay and she will smile again. Iloveyou so much!

Mom at Selayang Specialist Hospital

2014-04-15T11:42:00.001+08:00

Yesterday was April 14, 2014.. me and my sister has accompanied mom for her follow up medical check up in Selayang Specialist Hospital. The hospital is actually very near to my sister's house, but because of my sister is also not well, I have to be with mom at that time.

The doctor in charge was Professor Dr. Hassan who is collobration doctor from Uitm Sg. Buluh. He is a nice person and asked mom with so many question regard to family matter. For me its just a simple test to counter check mom's memories because of the alzheirmer. Thanks Allah for keeping mom healthy even you're slowly taken out her memory and give us patient to face this challenge. Me and my sisters Kak Ha, Kak Nee and Kak Jee love her so much Allah. We're praying for her well being ya Allah.

Mom is waiting her turn to see doctor

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Alzheimer took my family happiness

2014-04-15T10:07:00.001+08:00

Year 2003, it was about 11 years ago when mom was first diagnose as a stroke victim. I felt half of my mom has already gone. Actually, everything happened when my Mom's cousin brought her for dinner, and they went to seafood restaurant for having dinner. And yet mom has just met her doctor for regular check up. Anyhow I have to accept that what had happened came from Him. I just an ordinary person and I have no power to expect everything must be done in orderly manner.

Only Allah knows...

2014-04-06T23:24:00.001+08:00

Today is 6th of March 2014. It's almost midnight and honestly I can't close my eyes even I'm deadly sleepy because for the whole day I've spent time in Oakleaf, cleaning the house and looking for a potential buyer. I really don't know whether my decision to sell that Oakleaf house is the best decision or not. Oakleaf is full of sweet memories. I spent almost 11 years living there. August 9th 2003 was the first day I moved and stayed there with my sister. Me, my dad, mom and my sister were in Oakleaf during that time. Now abah has gone...and during up and down also, I've gone through this life in Oakleaf. What's a special memories we have had in Oakleaf.!

By moving out from Oakleaf to Ken Rimba on 4 April 2014, I hope I'm able on taking care of my mom and my sister. Thanks Em for the moral support and helping me for years. Without you, I cant do it alone. I'm not that tough to handle everything. Allah, I know these all coming from you, give me a strength to fix with your test, even I'm not well lately. And of course, I wont be tested beyond my strength. My right and left hand sometimes numb. My blood pressure and sugar is not in good level. Give me a time Allah to take care my mom and my sister before you take me out. How many time left for me? You are the one knows everything!

My Oakleaf's Living Room

My Oakleaf's Dining Hall

My Oakleaf's Dry Kitchen

My Oakleaf's Baby bathroom

I LOVE my MOM!!

2014-02-20T23:13:00.001+08:00

Mama at LCCT way back to see her doctor!

2014-02-18T14:54:00.002+08:00

Mama with slim wheel chair..

2014-02-18T14:49:00.002+08:00

PV10-Partly Furnished Condominium to LET

2014-02-18T14:48:00.001+08:00

Mama and Abah - Unforgetful memories

2014-02-18T14:40:00.002+08:00

Mama at Ken Rimba - New Home Sweet Home

2014-02-18T14:06:00.001+08:00

Mama at Abah's Grave

2014-02-12T16:19:00.001+08:00

Last week on Friday, I took 3 days annual leaves just to bring Mom to our hometown. Almost everyday she asked me to go home and finally a week after Chinese New Year, I fulfilled her request. Our kampung house is very messy because nobody taking care of it. Lucky my maid did help me to tidy up those messy thing and on Sunday, we went to visit abah's grave.

Her face has shown how she really missed my dad. When we reached there, Mom has just walked directly to Abah's grave stone to hug and kiss it as if that was my dad. Before we leave, mom has recital yassin for Abah. And I can see her eyes was red hiding me that she cried. May Allah blessed Abah and rest him peaceful in Jannah.. We love you dad and I can feel you were here with me always.

How do you feel when you are losing someone special in your life?

2014-01-16T22:52:00.002+08:00

Feeling terribly sad of course!! And it will tremendously sad when you have an experience knowing that someone has killed your dad intangibly!!

This happened not long ago... for me its just happened like a few second ago. The thing became a nightmare for me and for my whole family. A week before my father passed away; my mom's sister made a very stupid thing in her life. She took my mom, which is suffered from minor stroke and also Alzheimer to the land office in Tanah Merah. However, she told my dad that they were going to my uncle's house in Kota Bahru. Actually, she brought mom to land office for the name transfer of the land that she had already sold to the new buyer. That land previously shared between her and mom. In actual fact, she has no right to just bring mom there for transferring the land without my father's or mom's kids present. Yeah! Mom is 75 years old with Alzheimer, and of course; she can't make her own decision because of her Alzheimer. And her sister has influenced her to sign the land transfer name to a new buyer in front of District Officer in Land Office. She has a right to sell her portion BUT NOT mom's portion without any of mom's daughters or my father's knowledge.

A few days later, my mom's sister had made a phone call to my third sister and told her that she has already sold the land that she had shared with my mom. She said she wanted to give my mom's portion to my mom's daughters during the Adha Eid. Then my sister replied that our parent is still alive and totally disagreed for what she has done to mom and hiding the real story of kidnapping mom to the land office from my father. She told my sister that she afraid my father would spend the money if she give that money to our father. What a rubbish she talked like that because she was always treating our father as a banker to her!

On wednesday, she came to my parents' house and gave the money to my father. During that week, everyday and almost every night, my dad has made a phone call to me and my second sister to express his dissatisfaction towards mom's sister. He felt very disappointed of what this fuckng sister-in-law has done to our mom. From what he said to me, he wanted to take a legal action against his sister-in-law. He also told me that he had made many phone calls to his elder daughter who close to mom's sister, but her elder daughter didn't pick up the phone call. Finally, he suspected that her sister in law and her elder daughter has made a personal arrangement when suddenly he realised that mom's identity card was missing during the day we were going to perform umrah. What a coincidence!! They have planned in advance!!

To be continued.. good night..

Happy watching her naughty face!

2013-11-08T00:09:00.000+08:00

Last month, we had a day trip to Putrajaya. It's not easy task to ask Mama to follow me to go out during the weekend because she always has an excuse for not following me. She will simply say that she's not feeling well or prefer to stay at home. LOL! Lucky me coz I managed to persuade her with a sweet promise.. Hehehe

Naughty face of Mama

Mama at Putrajaya

Mama at Putrajaya Lake

My dad's grave

2013-10-27T21:40:00.001+08:00

On 19 October 2013, our small family which consists on Mom, my sister Kak Ha and Kak Nee, my niece Adik Asyran, and 2 brothers in law were having a short visit to my dad's grave. We have bought a granite grave headstone on the dad's grave as our love and memories to him.

May Allah swt rest his soul in peace, make his grave wider and filled with Allah's mercy and his Noor and place him the best place in Jannah. Amin.

We love you Dad!!

My small family at dad's grave

my dad rest in peace!

My sister Kak Ha and her husband

At my dad's grave

my dad's grave

Nasi Ayam Mancongkam

2013-10-27T14:46:00.001+08:00

I just drop by this restaurant named Nasi Ayam Mancongkam to buy our lunch. Its chicken rice is quite popular among local people who staying around Gombak. The taste is delicious and it serves with soya source, chilie source and chicken soup. I bought six (6) sets of chicken rice, and we are going to eat it at my sister's house in Selayang...

Chicken chicken and chicken

people waiting to be served with chicken rice

Operation time from 10.30 am to 12.00 am

Mancongkan's staffs are preparing a chicken rice

Mancongkam Mobile Bus

Waiting car to be washed at Bukit Antarabangsa

2013-10-27T13:32:00.001+08:00

Spend time with Mom during the weekend is the most happiest moment for me. Even I have to increase my patient level of her behaviour but its ok, as long as she is willing to accompany me during a weekend.

See her sweet sour face for waiting around 30 minutes before my car wash session finish. Hehehe

Sweet sour face waiting at car wash center

Car wash in progress

Final car wash in progress

Back To Hometown for Celebrating Eid Adha!

2013-10-27T02:17:00.003+08:00

This year... it's gonna be a second year we're celebrating Eid Adha without my Dad! And 28 Sept 2013 gonna be the 1st year anniversary for my dad. It's totally different without him. No more person who's busy asking what we are going to eat on the morning side of Eid. Miss you Dad!! You have gone too fast without any sign... God loves you MORE!!

Hmm... She looks happy and we just dropped at Leha Kelfood for having Lunch!

Over night at Primula Hotel Besut before we reached home

Mom with her grand daughter.. Adik Asyran!

Happy watching Mum Sweet Face Everyday

2013-10-27T00:38:00.002+08:00

Sweet face of MOM!! <3

Thank God...I still have Mom in my life after my Dad has gone last year. She looks happy in her face as if she's free from a problem. However, in actual fact, she's suffering from minor stroke and also Alzhemeir. And she even can't remember about my dad has passed away.. Whatever I will make sure Mom is okay, and she never skipped her medicine!! Love you MOM!!