Chris Head asked:


The 19th century was a dark depressing period in the history of female sexuality. Female sexuality was in fact treated as some form of hysteria, the treatment of which was alarmingly named hysterical paroxysm. This quite simply involved vaginal massage by hand by a member of the medical profession. What a truly tiresome job that must have been but I guess someone had to do it!

The workload was soon reduced by the invention of a steam driven vibration machine that was used by the medical profession to treat the hysteria amongst women that must have been rife at the time. This device however was not easily portable and was later replaced by an electro mechanical device designed and conceived by a British doctor named Joseph Mortimer in 1883.

The electric vibrator was born.

In the following years women started to buy themselves vibrators, purely for medical purposes of course. Advertisements could be found in women’s publications dating back to as early as 1910. These devices were mail order only and typically carried slogans such as “prevent illness, experience the wonders of vibration”.

In the decades that followed vibrators evolved, designs improved. They became smaller, quieter and more powerful and were recognised as devices designed and used for sexual gratification. 1000’s of different vibrators have been produced but few have enjoyed the huge success of Rabbit vibrators. They are now a mainstream device; women of all walks of life use and enjoy them. Openly discussing the fun they have with their rabbit. A phenomenon that was later featured on TV’s hugely successful sex and the city in which one of the characters develops an addiction to her own rabbit vibrator.

What are Rabbit Vibrators?

Rabbit Vibrators are a type of vibrating sex toy. Identifiable by the vibrator unit being shaped like a rabbit complete with two vibrating ears and nose. Historically there was a single variant, a vibrating dildo named the Jack Rabbit. However due to the incredible success of this product there are now a large range of products in different shapes and sizes but all retain the rabbit styled vibrator.

Why are Rabbit Vibrators so popular?

Vibrating dildos have been available for many years; traditional vibrating dildos consisted of a shaft with a vibrator mounted at the base. When in use the entire shaft vibrated which whilst pleasurable didn’t target any specific region. If the user wanted to use the vibrator for clitoral stimulation she would need to remove the vibrator from the vagina and target the clitoris manually.

The designers of the original Rabbit vibrator applied common sense to the design of vibrating dildos. They mounted the vibrator unit on the side of the shaft so that the vibrator directly targeted the clitoris whilst the unit was inserted into the vagina. However the real stroke of genius lay in the design of the vibrator unit itself, it may look cute but the format is incredibly effective. The rabbit ears vibrate against the clitoral hood, ideal for particularly sensitive women and for those wanting more direct stimulation the harder rabbit’s nose can be used directly on the clitoris.

The super rabbit vibrators

Nowadays there are a huge number of variants; the “super” varieties typically feature a dozen speeds and Pre-set programs. With these devices the user really can lie back and let her rabbit do the work. It can however be argued that the fundamentals of the device remain the same. Cheaper varieties provide 99% of the pleasure at a fraction of the cost.

Conclusion

This family of adult toys has single handedly destroyed some of the taboo’s that surround adult toys even today. Women aren’t ashamed of their rabbit vibrators; they no longer need to make an excuse to own such a device. They do so simply because they enjoy using them. The rabbit vibrator is her to stay!



Skyler

Amelie Mag asked:


Women just love the sound of something like: smooth, intense, stimulating, firm penetration, don't they? Moreover, the notion of pulsating touches placed with just the right rhythm on just the right spot makes them tickle with the joy of the anticipated satisfaction. Vibes and dildos, whether we are talking about realistic vibrators, G-spot stimulators, finger vibes, tongue-shaped vibrators, double-headed dildos sex toys or glass dildos, have what it takes to make a woman's sexual fantasies go wild. It takes one's imagination to turn the array of available sex toys into the devices able to procure novel, incomparably more intense, more vibrant sexual climaxes.

Realistic vibrators and dildos sex toys often rank among the favorite toys due to their resemblance with a real penis. There are details in the construction, the shape, the material and the feel of realistic vibrators and of dildos sex toys which render them as connected with the real penis as possible. However, beyond being faithful representations of that manly implement that most women want as a firm, provocative associate during sexual intercourse, realistic vibrators and dildos sex toys have a double function: they can be used either by the woman alone, or when she is accompanied.

Of course, there are women for whom sitting astride sex toys which do not resemble a penis, but rather some awkward mechanical devices, is a supplementary reason of stimulation. There is nothing wrong with this preference; realistic vibrators are for the woman who lets her imagination run free while still in the company of the more conventional appearance of the regular penis. In the end, it is all a simple matter of taste. Such realistic vibrators may stimulate successfully the clitoris; others, ranging in the same category of realistic vibrators and made from a combination of plastic and silicone, so as to procure a stable, firm touch, are specifically designed to reach the G-spot and not leave it until it is aroused and sure to have secured its possessor with one of the most penetrating, mind-boggling orgasms.

Cyber reality vibrating cocks, curved penis vibrators, realistic finish magic genie vibrators, real skin clit teasers, all these and many, many more build the incredible assortment of realistic vibrators used for stimulating different areas of your body, from the clitoris to the vagina and anus.

Dildos sex toys, on the other hand, also have their own realistic appearance. In fact, dildos come in the same ample assortment as vibrators do. Moreover, the same as vibrators, dildos are sex toys which do not place restrictions to what concerns the male or female identity of those who are using them. In other words, dildos sex toys can be used by both men and women, according to the preferences of each individual. For those who prefer a steady penetration, dildos sex toys are just what they need.

Dildos sex toys can range from the more conventional categories to the double headers and the strap-ons. The more conventional ones are generally designed to resemble to various degrees a penis, meaning that they can be strikingly similar to the actual representation of a penis, or they can be remarkably different and originally colored so that they do not resemble a penis at all. Sexual partners who want to play with these sex toys in some other parts of the body besides the vagina are advised to acquire items specifically intended for anal play. Otherwise, the possibility arises that your toys get misplaced in the anus, and nobody wants an exciting sexual intercourse finishing with a visit to the hospital.

If you opt for double headers, then you know that both ends of the toy can be used; generally, double headers are the choice of individuals who want to use a dildo on both themselves and their partner. To what concerns strap-ons, the interesting fact about them is that they can be attached to a harness, if their users want it. Since the base of strap-ons is flat, it can be introduced in the harness in a hole of the harness without effort, so as to steady the dildo. After that, the "player" is strapped with the harness and from then on each individual's fantasies can be put into practice.



Marlee

Paula Andrea Pyle, MA asked:


Of Cosmic Therapy: Exploring The Undisclosed Talent Locked In The Sound of One's Birth NAME

YOU {Fill In The Blank}are the walking sacred sexual musical personification of the cosmic divine artistic expression in life. Without your conscious sensual vibratory participation and passionate involvement, colors fade, music disintegrates, and motion blurs. (In other words, your current world falls apart.) You call and form into existence the imbued world of exaltation in which you inhabit. Life becomes as significant as the potent words you speak in creation of it, by something as simple and magnamiously powerful as the sound of your birth name. No other creature of such sublime beauty, grace, virtue, honor, goodness, truth and harmonic redemption vies for your place in ‘Divinity's Showcase'. You were created to openly express that which lies concealed. “…let your works so shine before men that you might glorify your father in heaven…” {Textual} Your first breath was/is/remains sexual in nature. Divine Sexual Energy is a cosmic vibrational sound. Various letters in words comprise one of the specifics in this mysterious sound.

You were born with a particular combination of letters which make up the unique sound of your birth name. This differeniated combination of sound in your entire birth name was specifically selected for you as the singular pin-pointed pregnated representation of classified Sacred Sexual Dramatic Creativity. In other words, the sound of your birth name carries with it a secret vibrational resonance. Your first name carries enormous manifesting power. Your second name represents ART in its truest, rarest form, and last, {the name on your birth certificate}, but not least: incomparable music! The melodious pattern contained in the repeating of the combination of these names is brought to life through the utterance of the Spoken Word.

What song do you sing! What picture do you paint! What play do you create through the unique sound of your sacred sexual name? These answers are one of life's greatest mysteries but do not have to remain hidden from you. Nothing lies outside the boundaries of Sacred ART/Music/Drama. The sacramental sound ingested in the make-up of the letters alone, dispels any hint of fear or disbelief you may have accumulated through negative conditioning during your course of personal up bringing in life’s avenue of various circumstances, events, and experiences. What hindrance can beset you? What obstacles can defeat you in your sanctified plight of reverent artistic manifestation?

Your divine purpose on Earth will remain a mystery until you use the apparatus you possess to unlock the code. To those who would try to penetrate the veil of the impassioned creative power, discernemnt is offered. Truth provides witness to itself. Experience is the only true teacher. The Desire to KNOW for oneself is what ignites the fire of conceptualized form. You are here to express your innately inherited talents. Nothing can stop the entrance to the pathway of marbleized artistic divine function carved out in space and time that you came to this planet to impregnate.{Except total disinterest} "...those who seek diligently will find..." (paraphrased)

You carry Divinity’s seed of miraculous demonstration. Not one invisible speck of corporeal dust is without having been penetrated {inhaled and exhaled} in/by/through your nose of fragrant artistic vibrational toned design. From the ordinary to the sublime, we are all submerged in the multifaceted sexual divergent arms of sacred ART. Sensually caressed and mesmerizingly enveloped by her seductive reverent embrace, we all commit to the erotic surrender while eagerly longing to serve the highest will of our transcendent artistic inclination. We sense the eroticism beating in our hearts of "ecstasy's sacred exclaim'. We are more than willing, subdued, encouraged and inspired to carry forth our part of the impregnable bargain agreed to prior to entry. We silently and enthusiastically smile, as we submit to our soul's one intent. We know without question that our lives are but the supremely aromatic flowers for the bees to do with us as is willed. We willingly emit the sexually subduing aroma that draws to us what is needful and desirous to ascend and descend.

Sacred Sexual Sensual ART fills the omnipotent passionate celestial brush with consuming paint of incessant desire while gently stroking across the canvas of the demystified human. In the meantime, we are involuntarily masked by webbous strands of conflicting emotions (good and bad; right and wrong) until we rip to shreds the impending falsity geared to inhibit our forward thrust. To create we must. To subdue we will. To surrender we have. To pacify we will not. No other artificially induced impetus can drive a person mad except the inarticulated dysfunction of the sacred artistic substance that lies within. Until recognized and seized, an elusive innate disproportionately placed sexual motivation will lull, lure, taunt, invite, snare, beguile, woo, pamper, intrigue, seduce and then impartially destroy what is left of the fragile pride ridden dissatisfiied self-image. No other success will satisfy nor come close to relieving the anxiety associated. Nothing short of musical artistic dramatic expression can veer near to the ultimate gratification obtained by and through sacred sexual sensual execution. You were given the name which employs the culmination of your particular flavor (talent) of sacred art's expression. What will you do with it? When will you act on your magnificent reverent heritage?

Bored beyond belief, you realize you are hopelessly obsessed by her intoxicating pleasure filled fragrance, driven into realms of unimaginable ecstasy, shattered into filaments of inexpressible delight while never being able to embrace, much less tame, the torridly wild sacred fire she ignites in you. Say it! Sing it! Dance it! ~ Experience the imaginable joy expressed in the sound of your name spoken aloud. Get in front of a mirror and speak the essence of who you are by rolling the sound of your entire name in seductively broken syllables slowly off your tongue into the ethers. There is a definite rhythm and decreed meter to its influence. Do not hold back nor be embarrassed by the mere thought of how you discern this act of magick to be mere nonsense. Does life’s uninvited incalculable inevitable death sentence seem like less nonsense? Life is one celestial magick construct not to be scoffed at but enraptured!

Now is the time to move into the spiritual realms of unutterable ecstasy in sacred sexual sensual artistic pleasure filled expression. Do what it is you long to do. Say what it is you long to say. Create what it is you long to create. No one other than you can do what you are assigned to do. You are more than capable, willing and able to manifest what you so eclectically desire. What are you waiting for? [Permission. Validation. Approval. Acknowledgement} “To Whom Much is given; Much Is Required.” You must step into the Red Sea of your own life without any sort of guarantee that you won’t drown! You have been given the ship to sail your charted course. If at any time, you doubt the superlative validity of your sacred path, look around you at the marvelous works and wonders you have endured and transcended.

You have only just begun as the song so aptly asserts. No longer can you pretend that you don’t feel the sacred sexual sensual artistic movement of the Divine within you. Every second you are breathing, you are commissioned to do that which you came here to do. Be all of you! Not part. Not some. All. All Of Me; Why Not Take All of Me, again in the words of this well known song; decide this day whom thou wilt serve. You were created for a distinctively creatively crafted place of which you inhabit including all of the particulars involved. Now is the occasion for you to mold the clay. Burn and carve out the canoe. No one else but you can do it.

In the course of the next 100 days, look directly in the mirror and speak your entire name (On birth certificate) aloud 15 times. [Raising the level in tone with increasing volume.] Better yet, call yourself as if from a far away field. When you become more comfortable with the sound of your name being called, start to sing the names in a tune, familiar to you alone. You are, in actuality summoning yourself to show up for your life. Don’t worry about “What you are supposed to do”. That part is deeply imbedded in the strains of your molecular make-up and will certainly make itself visably known.

Ingrained in you, no matter where you sit, stand, lie or hunch, there is a little boy or girl waiting for the sacred call. He or she (the artist) will not intrude upon your life until you beckon. Then, the flood gates will fling open to bring unimaginable gifts of inexpressible awe-inspiring delectable musical dramatic feelings that transcend Earth’s realms of happiness. No one else can experience this sacred sexual sensual dramatic musical artistic ecstasy but you. It can not be shared or communicated but when it happens, others will KNOW you have touched the hem of the garment of the omnificent by the sacramental artistic act of your having made love to the Divine!



Konner

Kim Fidi asked:


Are you looking for a vibrator that will take you to new levels of orgasmic ecstasy? You may have made vibrator purchases in the past, but were quite disappointed with the lack of power it delivered. If you are not afraid of intense vibration power and want to travel to new heights of pleasure, there are several products on the market that will bring you the ultimate sexual satisfaction. As the President and Owner of an adult toy web site, here are some vibrators that I absolutely recommend that will send you waves of orgasmic pleasure.

AcuVibe Massager – This vibrator is more that just a hand held full body massager. No other product will blast your clitoris as powerfully as this AcuVibe massager. The AcuVibe will send powerful vibrations that will permeate your entire body. The AcuVibe runs on electrical power with a built in battery that is rechargeable. Powerful two-speed motor is vibration-damped and whisper-quiet. Choose from 4300 or 5700 vibrations per minute! Expect an orgasm in under a minute.

The Hitachi Magic Wand - This Electric Powered Vibrator is by far and away the Most Powerful vibrator ever. Although it looks and acts like a hand held muscle massager, it has been used for many years as a clitoral vibrator. And is probably the most well known vibrator! The soft spherical head gives a soothing massage, operated by a two-speed switch located on the Wand's slender handle.

Wahl 7-in-1 Massager - This two speed "All Over" Body Massager is used by those in the know, to provide intense clitoral orgasm. Another great thing about he Wahl is that if you have children, it looks like a massager not a vibrator. Includes 7 different massage attachments: general body, spot application, deep muscle, muscle kneading, knuckle joint, scalp, & facial. Extremely powerful and quieter than the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Decadent Indulgence 3 Vibrator – This is an extremely powerful dual vibrator that stimulates your clitoris and vaginal area simultaneously. The Decadent Indulgence 3 also offers 300 patterns of vibration and pulsation. It features a well-endowed plush rotating head for comfort and pleasure, with an extremely powerful clitoral stimulator. Rotating shaft and clitoral stimulator are controlled separately on this vibrating wonder.

iVibe Rabbit – This dual vibrator’s ridged jelly shaft rotates while the swirling pearls stroke vaginal lips. Powerful, flicking “Hummingbird” stimulates your clitoris. This powerful dual vibrator is also waterproof so you can have fun with it in and out of the water. The clitoral vibrator and rotating shaft are controlled separately so you can choose just the right speed of rotation and intensity of vibration that feels good for you.

The Sylvia Chrome - Although "Sylvia" is classified as a traditional vibe, this Silver "chrome" looking vibrator is not quite traditional! Unlike most vibrators, 2 C size batteries power this chrome wonder toy. The base features a Multi-Speed controller that allows you to control the simulation from mild to incredibly wild!



Alberto

Gabriel Ettenson asked:


tion and Stress

Many studies over the years have suggested that vibration, imposed on the human body through an external device, is an example of a harmful mechanical stress on the body, and can therefore have a significantly negative impact. In this case, as many individuals might think, the word stress is used to describe, as defined by Merriam -Webster, “a physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension and may be a factor in disease causation.” However, this word has many definitions and for the vibration training and vibration therapy devotees out there, those who have experienced the euphoric feeling of 2400 involuntary muscle contractions in 60 seconds, stress is better defined as “a force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part.” It is through the POSITIVE impact on the central nervous system that this type of mechanical stress keeps my training clients and physical therapy patients hungering for more.

The Effects of Vibration on the Central Nervous System

So…How is this form of stress responsible for the happiness some people experience as they laugh their way out the door from a WBV session; the “freedom of movement” that they speak about so often; the sudden burst of energy described by my clients in e-mails the day after using the Hypergravity platform; the ability my stiff arthritic patients have to “bounce” up the spiral staircase leading out of my building? On more than one occasion, I have even heard of enhanced psychic abilities …no lie! If their brains and spinal cords had a voice, I believe they would answer these questions with three words: Neurogenesis, Serotonin, and Endorphins. These three things, time and time again, have all been positively linked to exercise. Even better, they have all been linked through legitimate scientific research (and to think, here in NY, everyone wants rats to be exterminated!). Neurogenesis refers to the creation of new nerves, and occurs in an area of the brain known as the hippocampus, the same region where learning and memory occur. The process of neurogenesis, according to researchers, has to do with exercise stress-induced formation of a brain protein (known as BDNF) whose job it is to not only create new neurons, but to protect the existing neurons and enhance communication between them (otherwise referred to as synaptic plasticity). It is through synaptic plasticity that all learning and memory can occur in the brain. This includes muscle memory and motor learning, two important concepts that are clearly enhanced through WBV. Now, as BDNF levels rise in the brain, so do the levels of another brain protein referred to as SERT. I can happily say that this protein is responsible for increasing serotonin levels in the brain. For those who are unfamiliar with serotonin, it is a type of chemical, called a neurotransmitter, that is responsible for mood elevation, feelings of ecstasy, increased sexual desire and function, and improved sleep. What more can you ask for in life, I ask?--How about a “runner’s high?” “Runner’s high” is a term used to describe what is otherwise known as an endorphin rush. Endorphins are chemicals released by the pituitary gland in response to stress (there’s that word again) or pain. In general, it takes up to 30 minutes to release endorphins through traditional exercise, but with more intense “hyper”stimulation of the central nervous system, such as that with vibration training, this release occurs much more quickly. Once released, endorphins do everything from blocking pain to creating a sense of euphoria or exhilaration. Interestingly enough, endorphins bind to the same receptors in the brain as heroin and morphine (anyone ever heard the term “addicted” from their clients?) and by blocking pain, it is theorized that this is what allows for the continued presence of serotonin in the brain. See the connections here everyone? Although more research is still required, there is a clear potential connection between whole body vibration, increased central nervous system stress, relief from pain, mood elevation and exhilaration, and, most importantly, neurological brilliance. These are just a few more bullets on the growing list of benefits of vibration training and vibration therapy. They are also just a few more reasons that we need to keep fighting to establish its legitimacy, and hopefully open everyone’s eyes, and brains, to its incomparable value. Written by Gabriel Ettenson, MS, PT.



Ricky

Vibrator.com asked:


"Prurient interest means a shameful or morbid interest in nudity, sex, or excretion and is reflective of an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." That statement is taken directly from H. 4830, a bill introduced into the South Carolina General Assembly last March by Representative G. Ralph Davenport, Jr. of Boiling Springs, SC. The bill would effectively make the sale, possession, use, advertisement, or promotion of any sexual device a felony punishable by confiscation, fines of up to $10,000, and not more than five years of prison.

In Tennessee, state Sen. Charlotte Burks and state Rep. Eric Swafford have proposed Senate Bill 3794 (House Bill 3798), a legislation that would make it illegal to sell, advertise, publish, or exhibit to another person "any three-dimensional device designed or marketed as useful primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs. . ."

While Davenport's, Burks', and Swafford's proposed bills still await enactment, other states -- Texas, Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi -- already have in place similar legislation banning the sale, distribution, and possession of adult sex toys. In these states, as well as in Indiana and Virginia, controversial interpretations and court decisions continue to confuse the issue of whether local government bodies can or should dictate what adult citizens may or may not do with sex toys and sexual devices.

The states' laws governing sex toys are based -- according to their sponsors -- on not offending community standards of obscenity in an effort to curtail "prurient interest" among their citizens. The language of the laws -- such as the statement which begins this article -- is so vague and interpretive that an individual is at risk for experiencing "an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." A reader is struck, too, by the biblical tone and interpretation of the word "shameful" in the law.

Depending upon "community standards" as a definition of what is or is not obscene, particularly in the ownership, use, and sales of adult sex toys, would appear to place legislation at the municipal level, that is among the community members itself. The diversity inherent in a state-wide "community" would necessarily include the retail stores, businesses, owners and users of sex toys. It is unlikely that these would support nor promote legislation making the sales or ownership of sex toys a criminal felony.

"Shameful sexual practices" -- determined as the use of sex toys among adults by certain legislators -- appears to be an archaic phrase. It is the language and tone of centuries-old censors who wished to regulate and control the behavior and freedom of members of society.

Sex positive activists, educators, business owners, and responsible citizens continue to urge awareness about your local, state, and federal laws regulating the distribution, sale, promotion, use, and ownership of sex toys. If you are unclear about these laws or if you feel they do not reflect your views, there are numerous venues online, including your state assemblies and senates, the ACLU, and sex education organizations where you can find detailed information.



Quinten

Paula Andrea Pyle, MA asked:


MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Straight Sex Talk On Esoteric Terms

Why is it important to make a conscientious homework style study of you, your habits, motivations, inclinations, desires, fears insecurities and dreams? What difference could it possibly make in the large scheme of things? Wouldn’t it involve way too much time, unnecessary effort and precious focused energy that could be better spent doing things that are way much more pleasing? The answer to all of these relevant and thought provoking questions is undeniably: “If it don’t matter to you, it don’t matter!” I’m the first one to encourage to do only those things that excite, thrill, invoke pleasure and extend joy!

Nothing is as important as your thoroughly enjoying the existence you have secured in this life. Nothing is more meaningful than the time you will devote to doing those things that you derive benefit from and nothing is more significant than your being able to invest your energy on continuous pleasurable matters. Anything short of that enterprise is wasted! But, if there was a way to accentuate your valuable time, add more intense passionate pleasure to your life while you zero in on what makes you the most erotically artistically fulfilled, would that be worth investigating? I thought so.

You are certainly, undeniably irrevocably the most fascinating and interesting subject of study you could ever devote yourself to examining and reviewing. You possess so many infiltrated non-duplicable layers of intensive massively mysterious essence; the excitement of unraveling the mystery goes without being able to describe the ineffable journey. It borders on sheer unbounded ecstasy. The first thing you must realize is that you don’t have a clue as to who you are, have ever been or ever will be without this concentrated study.

Next, the multifaceted environment in which you were born is the exact setting needed for the experience you personally inherently need to experience while alive. No other circumstances could have better provided for you the necessary substance (soil) from which you would have grown and continue to grow. In your life you will, no doubt, encounter various sets of circumstances. The people you interact with, the relationships you involve yourself with, the family, work and and/or friends are all part of the unsolved picture of your dreamed life of erotic artistic suspense.

It is not important that you know beforehand what these specific incidents have portrayed nor in what precise manner they will unfold, but it is important for you to gain a grasp of understanding in the how, what, where and with whom (the cosmic why) you have the specific reactions to these occurrences you have experienced. It’s a lot more fun! (Sort of like watching a super great suspense movie not knowing the outcome but somewhat figuring it out along the way based on unobvious/obvious clues.)

The truth is: we all possess a basic cosmic blueprint in our individual personalities. There is a divine formula to our lives. (A sublime strategic involvement of energetically manipulating the chosen circumstances in perfectly celestially manicured form blows the mind if we were not prepared to see and appreciate the underlying sacred impetus engaged). The rapturous emotional sexual content alone far exceeds any explosive creative adventure you could ever envision.

It is more than worth the time, effort, and energy required to study your make-up, personality, relationships, family and bent of character, which of course makes up your unique destiny. (Talents included). Unless you are willing to invest yourself in search of your deepest most erotic motivations, you will never be able to scratch the surface of the inherent meaning attached to your life. This may or may not be important to you at the present time, but take in consideration why one studies any subject. (Most especially those things that sensually arouse)

To gain a better understanding of it so that he/she may be in a place and position to master it. Becoming proficient in learning how to be throughout engaged artistically endowed erotically fulfilled human makes life worth living! And, by (remembering) learning how to identify which quality, strength or weakness that is available to us in times of crises, we are more apt to flow and ‘grow’ through the situation and come out virtually unscathed. Yes, the benefit is always attached to the result in how much we gain from it. To present any other case is deceitful and absurd.

Moreover, to be ever present is an ardent task to say the least and a lifetime endeavor to say the most. However, dependent upon your own level of zeal, enthusiasm, and commitment to you, things fall into place a lot faster with much more precision. The purpose of life is to get to the point where one is able to be ‘raw’ in the moment able to actualize his fullest potential without the need to apologize, excuse, defend, or appreciate. Yes, I did say appreciate. Appreciation belongs to a cosmic sphere of influence. People do what they do because they want to do and for no other reason. No need to be grateful to anyone.

. The virgin moment presents expanded otherwise unattainable knowledge at every turn to be lived and experienced freely/full---unapologetically. And, instead of getting ‘hung up’ on the external forces operating, by becoming familiar with the complete universal picture) Accompanied with you in it) renders one in a much more affable and agreeable mind. It is also just as important to realize and accept the fact that the relationship that exists is always between the known and the unknown and not simply with the knowledge itself. (Meaning: you’re always running on the edge of the abysmal danger of unveiling this you had no idea existed)

With that pertinent statement said, remember always and never forget: the event is real; your interpretation is false. Things are never what they seem and most often times are in fact, reverse in nature. Astrology has been called the “mother of all sciences” due to the premise of man’s original attempt to formulate order in the universe and to draw from it some sense of relevance in his own little world. (Astrology is a great place to start in order to begin to unravel you in your orbit travels on earth.) Mot too much of a stretch in the imagination to ascertain that all sciences are merely premeditated attempts to predict what will occur when precisely measured factors come together under definitely states and controlled conditions.

Each and every human being vibrates to a distinctive tone. This tone is sexually vibrated as is every object on earth whether animate or inanimate. The source of the tone is ubiquitous. There is a satirically monitored cosmic rhythm that exists and to ‘plug’ into this harmonious sound is essential for fulfilling destiny, ‘establishing and maintaining’ well-being and sustaining an erotically rewarding magnanimous peace of mind. Dreams play a major role in the decoding of this omnipresent celestial force of undivided pleasure. Sexual energy is indeed the highest form of spiritual energy available to mankind. It is totally artistic in execution and seeks expression without permission or preliminary niceties. It’s all about coming to terms with the master of divine essence of which you are in unimaginable measure. Now, you tell me: is it worth an executed stab of your best sensual effort to find out what you are all about artistically and just what you’re capable of producing of momentous value while visiting this planet?



Tabitha

Eddie Yakubovich asked:


You know who you are. Don't be ashamed. Sexual dysfunction and sexual complications are more common than you realize in people who are in their middle forties or older.

Life puts plenty of stress on us all. Sometimes more than we can bare sometimes. Unfortunately we tend to feel depresses and worthless which affects our sexual libido and performance. Not that we intend to have that happen like that it is just a natural occurrence. The body does have a mind of its own. It has a way of telling us things.

There is no reason to stress over this matter when their there are all kinds of help out their. So many reputable companies have come up with natural and pharmaceutical products to help men get and maintain an erection. These companies have also noticed that women need that kind of attention as well and have formulated products to give them some help with their libido and sexual drive.

Some people can just be plain old orgasmicaly challenged. It used to be that these people had to suffer in silence. They felt too ashamed to discuss the matter with either their doctor or spouse.

Society has really come a long way in regards to sexual issues. Look how common it is to hear about sexual dysfunction on television. It has become so apparent that sexual health is such a major part of our being. Any sex therapist will tell you how important it is to the body mind and soul to orgasm.

Sex toys and products of any kind, especially the rabbit vibrator which you can find on a lot of sex toy web sites. It really is a necessity for women so all you men out their go get one. It is not to say that men cannot help out in that area but lets face it sometimes they can't.

Like I said earlier, it is through no fault of their own they just don't understand sometime what it takes for women to reach an orgasm. We are not out to replace men but when are having difficulties why should their partner or spouse have to suffer with them. I think you will find that it is very enriching being in the orgasm process no matter how it is achieved.

Teach them ladies. Most men like the idea of sex toys like vibrators and dildos. Sex toys really help men out when it comes to satisfying their partner. It really does broaden your sexual relationship. You really do experience a much closer connection with each other.

That is why I said that as we age don't make it out to be such an ordeal if your libido seems to be slowing down or you have trouble maintaining an erection. With so many products available on the market to you, you don't have to live the rest of your life in agony. Go and get a sex toy and some natural enhancement products and get out their.



Celia

Alex asked:


The g spot was named for the German physician Ernst Grafenberg who first described "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation."

What You Need to Remember

We've covered a lot of material in this chapter, but there are a few points which I think are the most important for you to remember. These points are listed below:

• Both women and men go through four stages of sexual arousal. The difference between them is at which stage they are ready for intercourse. Men are ready from the first stage when they have an erection; women need to wait until the end of the second stage if they are going to be physically ready to have an orgasm.

• Just because a woman's vagina is lubricated that does not mean she is aroused enough for sexual intercourse. Women who engage in sex before their body is ready generally do not have as pleasurable an experience and rarely have orgasms, particularly not vaginal orgasms.

• By learning how to control their PC muscles, men can train their bodies to hold off on ejaculating. This means they continue having sex longer and can achieve multiple orgasms for their partners and themselves.

• Oral sex and genital touching are not really foreplay. These are sex acts, not lead-ins to sex.

• Foreplay should involve gentle touching, particularly of the erogenous zones, and any type of activity which will relax your partner and heighten her arousal, including talking dirty, giving her a massage, or rubbing her skin with an ice cube.

• Don't engage in sex until she is ready. Remember wait until she is asking for penetration even though it may be difficult for you to hold back.

Strategies for Achieving Orgasm

After you've gotten your partner worked up with the use of some good foreplay, you're now ready to move on to the next step and to bring her to orgasm through sex. In this article we're going to look at how you can help her reach orgasm through vaginal, oral, and even anal sex. The reason is that variety is going to help keep things from ever getting boring in the bedroom (or wherever else you enjoy one another).

Orgasm through Vaginal Intercourse

As we've discussed throughout the article, most women find it difficult to achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse. In this section, however, we're going to look at some techniques and positions you can try with her in order to make climaxing easier. Keep in mind as you try these different approaches that every woman's body is different, so if one technique doesn't work with your partner simply try something else.

• Missionary Position 1 – For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn't mean she can't still get off. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched. Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you'll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse. However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.

• Missionary Position 2 - Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner's legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work you way up to harder and deeper penetration. Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements.

• Grinding – When women masturbate with their fingers, they often rub their clitoris using circular movements. Since you know that, you should attempt to use similar circular motions during penetration. To do this, you need to grind into your partner the way you would if you were doing some erotic dancing. Move your hips in a circular motion and make sure that you are pressing against her groin area. The combination of your movement and the pressure on the area will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm.



Kelsey

Mark Talyor asked:


Are you in charge of your sex life? If not then use vibrator and give your sex life a new height. Whether you are playing with a partner or flying solo, a nice and inexpensive sex toy like vibrator gives you a great chance to enhance your sexual pleasure! Enjoy it together, enhance your sex life and satisfy your partner’s commands…

Thus, get comfortable and settle down with vibrator to start things off… But it is also true that vibrators were designed not just for pleasuring the fair sex, but for bringing some exciting emotions to men as well. Vibrators are available in variety of shapes, sizes and textures, each catering to a particular taste.

So, start by using the vibrators to tease and tantalize yourself (or your partner). And be sure to go ahead and insert the batteries in these toys before beginning. Try using it all over the body and get a good feel for the variety of sensations. Apart from that, don’t forget to experiment with the vibrators, as each brings

its own sense of relaxation and ecstasy. Be sure to spend extra time focusing on more sensitive areas such as the nipples before easing the nostalgic vibe down between your legs.

By now you will be flooded with pleasure and you can use the sex toys to bring on stunning orgasms over and over again. The other thing is that vibrators are designed to give you a distinctive emotional aura. For instance, Egg and Bullet vibrator: this kind of vibrators can have the shape of egg or bullet that come with one or two items in the set. The special comfort in use is achieved by their sliding shape and smooth surface, so they are easily inserted into vagina or rectum creating the wonderful sensations.

Apart from that your G-spot will beg for a little direct stimulation, especially when you're aroused or after you've already climaxed. For this, G-spot vibrator will do the job and this vibrator is curved at the top and is usually quite long to stimulate one of the hottest sex centers of woman's body. Applying that firm stimulation can lead to a G-spot orgasm. More to say, many people claimed that they have practiced the most intense orgasmic experience of all with this G-spot vibrator.

Furthermore, there are also other types of vibrators available like Classical vibrators that have straight phallic form, usually are made from hard plastic material, which renders vibrations in full. And for those who want to keep hands free

during the getting pleasure fun, Hands-free -- also called strap-on vibe -- is a great option. Vibrators are also remote controlled and you can use your vibrator everywhere from the bedroom to the boardroom! So choose your vibrator strap yourself in for one wild ride and experience all the pleasure of the world!!



Katie