Bestfriends

I am Back Here in Blogger

2010-07-25T20:39:00.000-07:00

Yes, I am back here in Blogger.com! It's been more than 2 years now i think since my last blog. Well, I am just so busy on those times and i missed posting some blogs here.

Many things happened for those past two years and I will share them to you.. I want to share my ups and downs..

thanks!

Outing!

2008-05-22T22:51:00.000-07:00

Yes, outing! Maybe if you heard about this you are so excited? If you ask that question to me my answer would be yes.
Sometimes we need to go beautiful places or what they called the tourists spots to refresh our minds for the stress in our works/job that we had, stress in the family, relationship and others so even a small time our minds and hearts can relax. And of course we can forget for the meantime our problems in our lives.
Relaxation in the form of outing can help our minds and hearts a lot. So its not bad to go outing sometimes. But before you go for the outing you must first plan where you go. Money or the budget is the number one thing that we should prepare because without budget for the outing the plan would be thrown.
If we have only a small budget then maybe we can go to the beautiful places near to us. The scenic places/tourists spots in our province. And if the budget is bigger that we can afford to go far places or some other countries then that would be better.
It would be nice if you are a group. Or we can say a family outing. Like what they say "The more the happier!"
This can also good for family bonding. Or we can say a time for the family. Many families nowadays lack of family bondings or time for their family so the result of this is not good family ties like the others have. So its nice to go outing sometime with your family or friends..

How to Know Your True Friends

2008-04-23T01:01:00.000-07:00

Friends.. We all have friends but we can only count those real friends or true friends.. Anyway, what is a true friend? How do we know if they are a true friends?

The best of all friends are true friend. The one that is with you through thick and thin. This is the kind of friend that will stay up for you even when they think you're wrong. A friend that will keep all secrets... that will make you laugh when your sad.. These friends are very hard to find and maybe you will only have a couple of these in a lifetime.

These are the things that you should know if she's really a true friend:
- A true friend stays with you when your in rough times.
- A true friend comfort you when you're down.
- A true friend makes you laugh when your sad.
- A true friend gives you strength when your weak.
- A true friend always understand you.
- A true friend always ready to listen when your in most difficult matters.
- A true friend knows your fears, your darkest fears.
- A true friend knows your family secrets no one else knows.
- A true friend knows about your attitude so you don't have to pretend to her.
- A true friend can keep your secrets.

- A true friend knows your sweetest dreams.

Cloudy Days

2008-04-22T22:43:00.000-07:00

Cloudy Days.. Every person have experience cloudy days of their lives. Things that we wish these may not come in our way. Why? Because we all know that its very hard to have in these called "cloudy days" of one's life.

Yes, problems are natural to us as we live in this world. We cannot avoid these because we're not only the person who live in this world. We have lots of people living in here. So it's natural to have problem because sometimes we don't have similarities to those person that we encountered in our lives. Some have good characteristics and some have not. So the possibility if you share your life to those you're not comfortable to be with is a problem.

You might think why I'm saying about this.. Yes, because its something about my cloudy day. Our cloudy day that can make us more responsible person. To know what is right or wrong. And to stand at our own feet.

In times of cloudy days of our lives we should not just seat and cry in one corner. Instead we should face it with strength. Keeping our faith to God and trusting Him is the best thing to do in times of these.

Home Based Business

2008-03-04T22:34:00.000-08:00

Most of us wanted a better future. Want to have a great job. Have a lot of money so we can buy all the things that we wanted. So even others who have a good job searching for something that can be their sidelines or a small business to have some extra income..
I have work but my monthly salary is not good. Not even enough for my monthly allowance. Not enough to live on my own. So I’m planning to have something, have some extra income.
Last Friday while I’m on my work, I was sitting in front of the computer, reading news then things comes on my mind that there’s a lot of online businesses especially home based businesses.. Since I have an Internet connection in the house. And of course my goal is to have a better source of income where there’s no need for m to work 10-12 hours a day. To have more time for my family..
I got only one day off in a week so maybe you can imagine how I missed to be with my family in a whole day.
Since I have no knowledge about this home based businesses I searched for it in the Internet and I found out a lot of these. Most of these needs an enrollment fees while the others are you need to buy their system..
A lot of them says a good source of income, an extra income.. But I need to be careful where to join because who knows some of them are only a scam.

The Feeling is Gone

2008-02-25T17:13:00.000-08:00

Months had past I thought this feeling would never end.. My heart was so tired of hoping, dreaming that one day my best friend will return the feeling that I have to him.

One day I woke up in the morning and realized that the feeling is gone. My mind finally opened for those crazy things that I thinking.. My heart finally beats normal.My life goes back the way it was. I finally accepted that we can't be together. That we're only meant for just being friends.

Before my life was focused on him.. Almost everyday we talked.. Talk about things that we can remember just to have some topic. I forgot to have communication with my other friends. I thought then that his only the friend that I need, a friend that I want..

I thought heart don't get tired when it comes to love. But I was wrong. Heart gets tired waiting for the love to bring it back. Heart get tired because of the pain that it felt. That it get tired of giving love to the person who's heart is like a stone. It get tired in hoping and dreaming..

Anyway, I thanked him because of the things that I've learned. That its not good if love doesn't return by the guy that we love.. That hoping and dreaming that someday the guy that we love will love us also was a big mistake. These can only make our heartaches..

My Secret Feelings To My Bestfriend

2008-01-03T02:31:00.000-08:00

Your best friend knows you a lot.. Our Best friends are the one whom we can share our secrets, plans in lives, our dreams, emotions, feelings.. They are the one whom we can turn on in times of sorrows, pains.. Gives us strength to face those crisis in our lives, a shoulder to lean on.. Makes us laugh when we are sad.

Sometimes we can't handle things to happen.. Others fell in love with their best friends, the others just stay as friends for life.. Sometimes friendship makes us happy and sometimes not.. You know why I say this?

Well, I have a best friend of mine in opposite sex. I don't know how we became best friends. In fact when we were in high school I don't even care about him. Not interested in him. After a 6 long years here we are sharing things in our lives. Helping each other in times of crisis. Sharing opinions on what's best in each other. Helping each other decide what to do to solve the problem. Making each others laugh when one of us sad. Other's thought that we have a relationship because of the closeness that we have.

The truth is he has already a special someone. He shares to me his love life. Tell me about his date with her girlfriend, the things they did on that day. How they are happy because they see each other, that they had a chance to meet again. How they missed each other because days had passed before they see each other. He thought that I'm happy for him especially his love life because that was he sees in me and that's what I want to see him in me..
If only he would know that I'm hurting while sharing those to me..

Yes, I'm falling in love with my best friend but I don't want him to know this.. That I have a special feeling to him. That I'm only pretending happy for him while he was sharing about their relationship.

I don't want him to know about this feeling of mine because I'm afraid that this would affect our closeness, our friendship.. So I'll just keep this feeling.. Hoping that one day our friendship would turn to be more that friendship which is "Love"...