Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross - Women, Sex, Feminism, Sex Education, Masturbation

If His Penis is Lubed Before Condom is Put On, Will the Condom Break?

Eric Amaranth — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:44:22 +0000

Eric,

I just wanted to ask you a question about lube and condoms. If i am giving a guy oral sex and i use flavored lube (water based) but then we decide too have partner sex while we are at it and we have him put a condom on...is that okay? like would the lube already on his penis affect putting the condom on or anything? or would it not affect anything and be fine?

Keeping Our Search Records to Combat Kiddie Porn? Try Toddlers & Tiaras

Betty Dodson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:35:13 +0000

The FBI is pressing Internet service providers to record which Web sites customers visit and retain those logs for two years, a requirement that law enforcement believes could help it in investigations of child pornography and other serious crimes.

FBI Director Robert Mueller supports storing Internet users' "origin and destination information," a bureau attorney said at a federal task force meeting on Thursday.

I'm, so sick of hearing about "child pornography" when I can watch "Toddlers and Tiaras" on TLC.

Quote of the Day: Women Must be Equal Partners

Carlin — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:54:24 +0000

"A democracy must rest on the presumption that women are equal partners in all decision-making bodies: governments; parliaments; cease-fires; peace-keeping forces; war crimes tribunals; security bodies; political parties; international and national non-governmental organizations; and judicial bodies."

Global Justice Center

Because You're Pretty When You Cry

Christina Cicchelli — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:19:08 +0000

When I was a little girl I was fascinated by the story of Lil Red Riding Hood. The assumed innocent, boasting a red cape as if to persuade some form of perverse evil to follow her through the treacherous wood. In her basket are wholesome goodies; her hair is braided. Make her 8 or 18, regardless of what thoughts her mind possesses, she is the symbol of the young nymphet.. a girl-woman who will beg for degradation but is oblivious to its appearance. And when it does block her path, she is automatically the virginal victimized damsel. Oh, she’s heard about the big bad wolf. But, the power of goodness will prevail… right?

Bitches Be Hatin'

VirginMonoblogger — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:02:28 +0000

So, apparently, there are some serious Dodson and Ross haters out there. I mean, hell, that's expected. People opinions differ. But, whoa. Bitches be hatin'. I came across a blog entitled "Feminists with Female Sexual Dysfunction". I don't know who writes it, but I was featured (fucking honored, dude):

"Penetrating Your Vagina for the First Time - [NSFW] I'm posting this with the caveat that Betty Dodson's blog is, quite frequently, a mess of creepyness and despite its marketing, surprisingly not-feminist sentiment. This one particular post isn't completely irredeemable, but the rest of the blog has problems, if you ask me.

I Want to Have Intercourse, I Want to Have Orgasms, I Want to Feel Horny

Betty Dodson — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:32:42 +0000

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 55 and in great shape, and excellent health. Married for 37 years to a wonderful man, and we've had a mutually satisfying sex life. Almost a year ago, I stopped feeling aroused by things that used to work for me - erotica, porn, sexy thoughts. I just feel nothing when I think or see that. I also began to have great difficulty reaching orgasm. Our usual habit was lots of touching, necking then it would progress to me masturbating with my fingers while he nuzzled me and played with my nipples. I'd have one wonderful orgasm, then we'd have intercourse, cuddle and both be satisfied.

Now I just can't seem to find one single thought that turns me on, so I valiantly stroke myself, hoping for something, but I may as well be fondling my elbows and hoping for an orgasm from that.

Che...If He Were a Woman

Carlin — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:23:00 +0000

via Copyranter

I Left with Money in Hand and a Promise that I Would Never See Him Again

Charlie — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:04:22 +0000

His voice was really faint and at first I thought I might have heard silence and silence alone. Then he said my name. My real name.

"Who is this?" I asked.

"M." M. Just hearing his voice made my spine stiffen. He wanted to see me. "Under this context," he said.

Three years ago, I had posted an ad on Craig's List:

"Beautiful black woman for fantasy roleplay. Serious Inquiries only."

I Won't Respond to Shirtless Guys with Screen Names like "Loverman" or "Studmuffin"

Princess — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:26:37 +0000

All this talk about sex and relationships sometimes makes me want to gag. I guess it's great if you have one, have questions about one, need to vent or look for support. However, I have a different issue. I am 64 and looking for a partner. That means I'm on Match.com and believe me, it's a humbling experience.

I can only speak for myself, which I will, in case there's anyone out there who cares and would like the down and dirty about cyber dating at this stage of life.

I'm a Heterosexual, Bisexual, Lesbian

Betty and Carlin — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:00:37 +0000

Betty and I have decided that we're just "sexuals".