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		<title>Featuring New Member Dr. Meghann Sherman, DC</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 23:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Genet Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to our newest professional member, Dr. Meghann Sherman of New Hope Functional Chiropractic! Dr. Meghann was born and raised &#8220;up north&#8221; in Ludington, Michigan.  She attended Michigan State University and graduated in 2006 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Nutritional Sciences.  Following graduation she relocated to Austin, Texas, where she worked as a [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://birthnetworknwa.org/provider-directory/profiles/meghannsherman/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-564" title="meghannsherman" src="http://birthnetworknwa.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/meghannsherman.png" alt="" width="94" height="140" /></a>Welcome to our newest professional member, Dr. Meghann Sherman of New Hope Functional Chiropractic!</p>
<p>Dr. Meghann was born and raised &#8220;up north&#8221; in Ludington, Michigan.  She attended Michigan State University and graduated in 2006 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Nutritional Sciences.  Following graduation she relocated to Austin, Texas, where she worked as a Wellness Coach and Chiropractic Assistant.  It was in Austin that she realized the power of chiropractic.  It did not take long for her to set her sights on becoming a Doctor of Chiropractic herself.  She graduated from Parker College of Chiropractic (now Parker University) in April 2011 and immediately relocated to Northwest Arkansas to start practicing.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;I am excited to become a wellness leader in my new community and I cannot wait to spread the word of chiropractic to Northwest Arkansas.&#8221;</p>
<p>Dr. Meghann&#8217;s smile, kind heart and subtle adjusting techniques allow her patients to feel comfortable and &#8220;at home&#8221; when they are under her care.</p>
<p>She has undergone clinical training in the following areas:</p>
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<li>Functional nutrition</li>
<li>Functional neurology</li>
<li>Pediatrics</li>
<li>Active therapeutic movement</li>
<li>Therapeutic exercise</li>
<li>Functional rehabilitation</li>
<li>Kinetic rehabilitation with active motion</li>
<li>Kinesiology taping</li>
<li>Postural correction</li>
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<p>Dr. Meghann is trained and certified to perform the Webster&#8217;s Technique through the International Chiropractic Pediatric Association.</p>
<p>Services offered at her practice include spinal adjustments for  expectant  mothers to create an environment that allows for a safe and  natural  birth. She also provides nutritional and lifestyle advice to promote optimal health and function.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;We have a genuine respect for the process of natural birthing.    Chiropractic adjustments allow the nervous system to function at an   optimal level.  When an expectant mother’s nervous system is free of   interference, her inner wisdom allows for a safe and easy delivery   without the use of external intervention.&#8221;</p>
<p>To contact Dr. Meghann, visit her <a href="http://birthnetworknwa.org/provider-directory/profiles/meghannsherman/">professional member profile</a>.</p>
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		<title>Gestational Diabetes: A Sampling of the Research</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 18:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Genet Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you concerned about gestational diabetes (GD) or the glucose tolerance test (GTT) used to screen for GD?  There are a couple of paths you can follow in the research on this subject.  We hope this post will help you get started. One research path looks at lab results and suggests that the standard method [...]]]></description>
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<p>Are you concerned about gestational diabetes (GD) or the glucose tolerance test (GTT) used to screen for GD?  There are a couple of paths you can follow in the research on this subject.  We hope this post will help you get started.</p>
<p><strong>One research path looks at lab results</strong> and suggests that the standard method of screening is inaccurate and/or unrealistic.  After all, even the least health-wise pregnant woman is unlikely to fast for 12 hours (overnight or otherwise), then have nothing but a large sugary drink on an empty stomach, and then wait another 3 hours before eating anything.  In fact, to do so on any normal day would be considered taking very poor care of her health.  The Cochrane <a href="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD007122.pub2/abstract">Review of GD testing methods</a> suggests that at the very least, testing after a meal or even a candy bar gets the same lab results, with fewer side effects.  Some care providers may also offer (or accept) the option of testing blood sugar at home each day for several days, two or three hours after a meal.</p>
<p><strong>Another research path looks at outcomes</strong> such as birth weights and maternal and infant health.  This path suggests that the concept of GD as a disease is faulty in itself.  Not that blood sugar during pregnancy should be ignored (for example, urine can be tested for sugar as well as other markers at every prenatal appointment), but that &#8220;the practical advice one can give to women carrying the label of &#8216;gestational diabetes&#8217; should be given to all pregnant women, another reason to question the practical benefits of such a diagnosis. This advice concerns lifestyle, particularly nutrition and physical activity.&#8221; (Michel Odent)</p>
<p>Dr. Michel Odent, the French researcher quoted above, famously calls GD &#8220;a diagnosis looking for a disease.&#8221; <a href="http://rixarixa.blogspot.com/2008/01/michel-odent-on-gd.html">Odent&#8217;s article</a> was published originally in The Journal of Prenatal &amp; Perinatal Psychology and Health.</p>
<p>Henci Goer (Author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Thinking-Womans-Guide-Better-Birth/dp/0399525173/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1317350477&amp;sr=1-1"><em>The Thinking Woman&#8217;s Guide to a Better Birth</em></a>) offers some <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/gestational-diabetes-common-sense-approach/6-a-129188?p=2">pros and cons</a> of being screened for GD, as well as detailed options for following up a GD diagnosis.<br />
She also offers a detailed history of the <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/gestational-diabetes-3/6-a-129187">GD diagnosis and its validity</a>.</p>
<p><em>As you should already know, we are not physicians or midwives, and this blog is not intended as medical advice.  As always, the decision of what tests and screenings to perform during pregnancy, and what to do with the results, is yours.<br />
We at BirthNetwork believe that </em></p>
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<li><em>Pregnancy and birth are normal, healthy processes, not illnesses or diseases.</em></li>
<li><em>Maternity care should be evidence-based and woman-centered.</em></li>
<li><em>Women   are entitled to complete and accurate information on their  full range   of options for pregnancy, birth, post-partum and  breastfeeding.</em></li>
<li><em>Women   have a right to make health care decisions for themselves  and their   babies. That right includes Informed Consent as well as  Informed   Refusal.</em></li>
<li><em>By making informed choices and having confidence in the process, families can experience safe and satisfying pregnancy and childbirth.</em></li>
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		<title>Arklahoma Birth Community</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2011 20:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Genet Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Announcing a new birth community nearby!  Straight from the founder&#8217;s pen: Hi ladies! Your neighbors to the south have some very exciting news! We would like to announce the founding of the Arklahoma Birth Community. This network is a resource and a place of support for pregnant, nursing, and interested moms in Fort Smith and [...]]]></description>
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<p><em><a href="http://birthnetworknwa.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/arklahoma.png"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-414" title="arklahoma" src="http://birthnetworknwa.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/arklahoma-300x273.png" alt="" width="300" height="273" /></a>Announcing a new birth community nearby!  Straight from the founder&#8217;s pen:</em></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Your neighbors to the south have some very exciting news! We would like to announce the founding of the Arklahoma Birth Community. This network is a resource and a place of support for pregnant, nursing, and interested moms in Fort Smith and the surrounding area. We believe pregnancy and birth are an important start to nurturing happy, healthy families. A positive birth experience begins with becoming fully informed about your options. We strive to provide helpful resources for natural, healthy maternity and baby care.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">For more information come check us out at <a href="http://www.arklahomabirth.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.arklahomabirth.blogspot.com</a>. We are also on Facebook as Arklahoma Birth Community.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">On the website there is a directory for local care providers and resources. If you serve Fort Smith and the surrounding area with a birth, baby, or health related specialty, please contact us with your information at <a href="mailto:arklahomabirth@gmail.com" target="_blank">arklahomabirth@gmail.com</a>.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">We would like to thank Birth Network NWA and the Birth Junkies for being a huge help in the past. Often women looking for information in Fort Smith have been assisted by your members and we appreciate you ladies for bridging the gap. Arklahoma Birth Community will give you a place to direct questions and we look forward to growing as a local resource.</p>
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		<title>NWA Hospitals Adopt New VBAC Policies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2011 01:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Genet Jones</dc:creator>
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<h3>Press Release: NWA Hospitals Adopt New VBAC Policies</h3>
<p><em>Once a cesarean—next time a normal delivery</em></p>
<p>Northwest Arkansas—Following new guidelines released by the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) in July 2010, the Northwest Medical system has begun supporting the option of vaginal delivery for women who have had a previous cesarean section (known as vaginal birth after cesarean, or VBAC).</p>
<p>The <a href="http://www.acog.org/from_home/publications/press_releases/nr07-21-10-1.cfm">ACOG recommendations</a> state that VBAC is a safe and reasonable option for most women, including some women with multiple previous cesareans, twins, and unknown uterine scars. ACOG also states that respect for patient autonomy requires that even if an institution does not offer trial of labor after cesarean (TOLAC), a cesarean cannot be forced, nor can care be denied if a woman declines a repeat cesarean during labor.</p>
<p>Northwest’s specific policies state that a woman is eligible for TOLAC if she has had one or two prior cesareans with low-transverse or low-vertical uterine incisions; that women expecting twins can be eligible; and that eligibility is not affected by whether a woman is scheduled for induction or prefers to wait for labor to begin on its own.</p>
<p>Mercy hospital administration has also stated that they will begin following the new VBAC guidelines, with specific criteria being formalized this month “in order for us to offer TOLAC safely at Mercy. We encourage women to discuss this with their physician.” Washington Regional Medical Center has not yet officially responded to the new guidelines, although Angela Watson, a coleader with ICAN (International Cesarean Awareness Network) of NWA, is hopeful that WRMC will also institute a policy change.</p>
<p>According to Watson, “In other VBAC-supportive hospitals in the U.S., at least 75% of women with one or two prior cesareans who attempt VBAC are successful. This high success rate shows that repeat cesareans are unnecessary for the majority of women. Based on this and other best-practice research evidence from all over the world, we have been working for several years to encourage local hospitals to lift their restrictions against VBAC. We are thrilled to see NWA women being offered the option of avoiding the risks and difficult recovery of a repeat cesarean.” Watson herself traveled to Fort Smith in December of 2009 in order to deliver her second baby via VBAC.</p>
<p>Says Genet Jones, a coleader with BirthNetwork of NWA, “This is a very positive and mother-friendly policy change, and we hope it leads more women and their providers into open discussions not only about VBAC, but about the many other evidence-based maternity and newborn care practices recommended by organizations such as Lamaze International, BirthNetwork National, La Leche League International, and the Coalition for Improving Maternity Services.”</p>
<p>For more information about the benefits of VBAC for mothers, babies, and future pregnancies, as well as about maternity care practices that women can request to increase the likelihood of successful vaginal delivery, contact <a href="http://nwaican.webs.com/">ICAN of NWA</a> or <a href="http://www.birthnetworknwa.org">BirthNetwork NWA</a>.</p>
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		<title>For Profit Hospitals Are Performing More C-Sections</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 01:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Day</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An interesting new study has found that &#8220;for-profit hospitals in California are performing cesarean sections at higher rates than nonprofit hospitals. A database compiled from state birthing records revealed that, all factors considered, women are at least 17 percent more likely to have a cesarean section at a for-profit hospital than at one that operates [...]]]></description>
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<p>An <a href="http://californiawatch.org/health-and-welfare/profit-hospitals-performing-more-c-sections-4069?utm_source=My+Best+Birth+Newsletter&#038;utm_campaign=5cc3cd2909-MBB_September_Newsletter_FINAL9_22_2010&#038;utm_medium=email">interesting new study</a> has found that &#8220;for-profit hospitals in California are performing cesarean sections at higher rates than nonprofit hospitals.</p>
<p>A <a href="http://projects.californiawatch.org/c-sections">database</a> compiled from state birthing records revealed that, all factors considered, women are at least 17 percent more likely to have a cesarean section at a for-profit hospital than at one that operates as a non-profit. A surgical birth can bring in twice the revenue of a vaginal delivery.</p>
<p>In addition, some hospitals appear to be performing more C-sections for non-medical reasons—including an individual doctor’s level of patience and the staffing schedules in maternity wards, according to interviews with health professionals.&#8221;</p>
<p>Research has told us for some time now that your chance of ending up with a C-section has a lot to do with which doctor and hospital you choose. Yet women continue to choose their doctor based on who their insurance covers, and unfortunately, (and I hear this often) which hospital has the biggest, prettiest birthing suites. In fact, that&#8217;s what the hospitals in NW Arkansas seem to promote most of all. A large sign on I-540 stood for some time marketing an area hospital as &#8220;the Beverly Hills of Birthing Centers.&#8221; Really? Well, I hear they do a lot of surgery in Beverly Hills.</p>
<p>If you are really interested in the best birth for you and your baby, do your research. Not all doctors and hospitals are created equal. Ask what the c-section rate is when you are deciding where to go, then compare. You owe it to yourself. I have a pretty good feeling that California isn&#8217;t the only place where money is made on unnecessary c-sections.</p>
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		<title>Siblings at Births</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 03:31:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Genet Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[May&#8217;s Pickles &#038; Ice Cream Circle was last week and was all about siblings at births: whether to include them, how to include them, why to include them. We started out with a panel of moms and experts, but with several moms in the audience who also had great experiences to share, we dispensed completely [...]]]></description>
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<p>May&#8217;s Pickles &#038; Ice Cream Circle was last week and was all about siblings at births: whether to include them, how to include them, why to include them. We started out with a panel of moms and experts, but with several moms in the audience who also had great experiences to share, we dispensed completely with formality and had a great roundtable of stories, plans, and advice.</p>
<p>One recurring theme was an encouragement to leave the choice open to your child, not just ahead of time, but during the birth. As long as you would like to have your child(ren) at your birth, or even if you aren&#8217;t sure and want to see how things go, you can let them move in and out of the room as they choose and as their level of interest, the time of day, and other factors guide them.</p>
<p>Every mother advised that the easiest way to keep things flexible is to have a caretaker available just for your children, so that if they are ever uncomfortable or just plain bored or tired, they have their own familiar person to tend to their needs so that you and your caretakers can stay focused on you and your labor. One mama specified in her birth plan that her kids were to be kept happy, because what would break her focus more than hearing another of her babies cry? She said she knew the plan worked, because her daughter came in to give her a kiss and had frosting breath&#8211;the kids and their caretaker were having a birthday cake for the new baby&#8217;s birthday!</p>
<p>We also heard about an older daughter who was staying with grandparents and could not make it to the hospital in time due to weather, and an older son who was just in another room playing during the birth because no one came and got him. Both were truly disappointed to miss the moment of birth, so their mothers advised telling caretakers ahead of time that if your older children have floated out of the room to do something else, someone should let them know when birth is imminent.</p>
<p>The second theme of the evening was that having your older children with you can be a positive experience, not just for them, but also for you. We heard several stories of even very young children offering their mothers encouragement, gentle touch, and understanding. What a lovely experience for a woman who is becoming a mother all over again!</p>
<p>Several moms observed that being present and included in the process of a younger sibling&#8217;s birth helped their older children make a smooth transition to having a new member in the family, which is a plus for everyone.</p>
<p>A mother of four talked about the contrast between being separated from her older children for at least 24 hours for births two and three, and having her children come in from the waiting room just a few minutes after her fourth was born. Even though they were not present for much of the labor or for the moment of birth, she felt that they were more part of the process, and she particularly enjoyed the smoother introduction and not being separated as a family.</p>
<p>Of course, if you want to include your children at your birth, you probably want to begin that process during your pregnancy. Not only does this help prepare for the &#8220;big day,&#8221; but it also helps your children understand why you already might need more down time, fewer strong smells, and so on. One experienced mother also mentioned that letting older children be involved in your pregnancy and birth can lead naturally and comfortably to an age-appropriate explanation of the birds and the bees.</p>
<p>Several moms agreed that including your children at prenatals can help them understand the process, give them a time to ask questions, and help them get comfortable with your care provider ahead of time. Moms also recommended books geared toward children, such as the home-birth tale <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Welcome-Love-Jenni-Overend/dp/0916291960/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1274218837&#038;sr=1-1">Welcome with Love</a></em> (also titled Hello Baby, depending on the country of printing) by Jenni Overend. Unfortunately, that particular book appears to be out of print in the U.S., so we&#8217;d love to hear your own suggestions for kid-friendly books about pregnancy and birth!</p>
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