<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Sat, 14 Sep 2024 15:48:05 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>art</category><category>family</category><category>christmas</category><category>gifts</category><category>love</category><category>society</category><category>Alice Smith</category><category>Apollo theater</category><category>Autumn</category><category>Episcopal Service Corps</category><category>Life</category><category>advent</category><category>africa</category><category>africa kine</category><category>afropunk</category><category>afropunk brooklyn</category><category>another lucky day</category><category>appreciation</category><category>beauty</category><category>business advice</category><category>calendar</category><category>chalkboard</category><category>clothing</category><category>columbia business school</category><category>comrade</category><category>crafts</category><category>crochet</category><category>dadisms</category><category>death</category><category>design</category><category>doodles</category><category>entrepreneur</category><category>fathers</category><category>funeral</category><category>gratitude</category><category>handmade</category><category>harlem</category><category>holidays</category><category>home goods</category><category>hope</category><category>illustration</category><category>kitchen</category><category>light</category><category>luck</category><category>meaning</category><category>met museum</category><category>models</category><category>music</category><category>oppression</category><category>peace</category><category>poem</category><category>poetry</category><category>protest</category><category>questions</category><category>quilting</category><category>quotes</category><category>r&amp;b</category><category>rock</category><category>screenprinting</category><category>seasons</category><category>soul</category><category>spring</category><category>st. mary&#39; harlem</category><category>summer</category><category>support</category><category>t-shirt</category><category>thankfulness</category><category>tools</category><category>violence</category><category>winter</category><title>{black snapper design blog}</title><description>a thing of beauty is a joy forever.  on these pages we’ll give you sneak peeks into what’s happening in our studio and also share some finds we make out in the world that tickle our design fancy.  if you’re nice to us, we might even tell you where to pick some joy up for yourself...</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>14</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-4640819703399768766</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 Mar 2019 03:58:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2019-03-17T07:18:09.347-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">africa</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">africa kine</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Alice Smith</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Apollo theater</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Autumn</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">beauty</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">death</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">funeral</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">harlem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Life</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">music</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">r&amp;b</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">rock</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">seasons</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">soul</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">spring</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">winter</category><title>a day in the life (and death)</title><description>&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;I had a conversation once with a friend in Costa Rica about seasons.&amp;nbsp; He asked me what it was like to live in the northeast in the U.S. and have such distinct changes.&amp;nbsp; I told him that, having grown up in Connecticut, we reveled in Winter: snowball fights, snow angels, and patient older brothers trying to teach us to skate.&amp;nbsp; The blooming of Spring was so life-affirming:&amp;nbsp; the lilac tree outside my bedroom window still perfumes the memories of my youth.&amp;nbsp; Summertime was all about the neighborhood beach and backyard suntanning.&amp;nbsp; And in Autumn we actually had hay rides among the orange-colored&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;leaves, and&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;freshly baked apple pies.&amp;nbsp; At the end of that tropical conversation, w&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;e decided that the jungle had a more realistic climate:&amp;nbsp; everything living and dying all at the same time.&amp;nbsp; Just like life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Yesterday we buried a good friend from church, Ms. Harriet.&amp;nbsp; She passed away a day after our friend Lois and just a couple weeks after Inez.&amp;nbsp; It&#39;s been an incredibly trying time.&amp;nbsp; So, yesterday we had an early viewing (not exactly how I plan to remember her), and a lovely service at noon -- with lots of family stories of her warmth and feistiness and an absolutely stirring rendition of the song &quot;His Eye Is On the Sparrow.&quot;&amp;nbsp; We laid her to rest in Manhattan (my first!) at the stunning Trinity Mausoleum and Cemetery.&amp;nbsp; There was just enough time to sit with a few of her family members before grabbing a quiet bit to eat and then setting up the Friday community movie: Whatever Happened To Baby Jane.&amp;nbsp; I might have mentioned before that at St. Mary&#39;s in Harlem we set up an impromptu theater and show a film, complete with movie snacks and dinner, and we invite everyone, but particularly make our homeless neighbors feel welcome.&amp;nbsp; About 40 people come each week -- just to be together, to feel safe, and to engage.&amp;nbsp; It is quite a lovely thing to be involved in, the bringing of people together.&amp;nbsp; Last night I had to leave the movie early because I had forgotten I had two tickets to see Alice Smith, one of my favorite RnB/rock singers at the Apollo theater for the Women of the World festival.&amp;nbsp; At the last minute&amp;nbsp;I dragged my friend Lysander, who had never seen her (or been to the Apollo), and together we had our minds blown.&amp;nbsp; The incredible artistry, musicality, overall diva-ness, brought us to tears.&amp;nbsp; She sang a version of &quot;I Put a Spell on You&quot; that was literally unlike anything you&#39;ve ever heard in your lifetime.&amp;nbsp; It gave us a flood of ideas for our own art projects (both visual and musical).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;In all, it was a whirlwind of a day.&amp;nbsp; But it was almost midnight and we were very hungry, so we hilariously typed &quot;fried food&quot; into Google maps and found each one closed.&amp;nbsp; &quot;Restaurants open near me&quot; brought us to the bustling Afrika Kine in Harlem where we ended up with a crazy delicious spicy whole fish and some outstanding toppings.&amp;nbsp; Over the meal, we talked about how many disparate things we fit into the day:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;-- art and beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Maybe we were feeling (understandably) overly philosophical, but it seemed like these are the elements we should expect from each and every day going forward -- à la the jungle theory.&amp;nbsp; There is only extra pain in store if we expect life without death -- If we think &quot;winter is coming&quot; instead of always with us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;Don&#39;t get me wrong, it&#39;s my nature to curl up in a ball at each loss.&amp;nbsp; But since I can&#39;t actually live in that ball (trust me, I&#39;ve tried), and, realistically, death is always with us, I&#39;ve got to learn how to breathe through it, art through it, create through it, love through it, sing through it.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , &amp;quot;helvetica&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&quot;I sing because I&#39;m happy.&amp;nbsp; I sing because I&#39;m free.&amp;nbsp; His eye is on the sparrow and I know He watches me.&quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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If he had a visitor, or a delicious meal, or a pleasant outing -- even just around town or to the grocery store -- on the drive home he would begin: &quot;another lucky day!&quot;&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m sure part of it was simply gratitude for life.&amp;nbsp; Every day is surely a gift.&amp;nbsp; But it was also the little things, and particularly the joy of family, that most inspired his appreciation.&amp;nbsp; A visit with his childhood rival turned brother-in-law, a chance to play puppeteer for his great grandchildren, a reading from&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;The Hobbit&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;by his daughter, edge-of-your-seat stories of his sons&#39; travels, a mouthwatering home cooked meal with his beloved wife.&amp;nbsp; All lucky.&lt;/div&gt;
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Gratitude is a gift that comes too late for some.&amp;nbsp; I believe it&#39;s best enjoyed early in life, so it can ripen into a constant companion.&amp;nbsp; The kind of companion that sits with you in your grief or loneliness.&amp;nbsp; That calls you on your excessive pride.&amp;nbsp; That stands with you as you reach out to those in need.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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Every year -- for what I&#39;m told is over 100 years now -- we gather our extended Slocum family (which includes, of course, Hilliards, Cottinghams, Nelsons, Newtons, Johnsons, Streaters, Ortizes, Ingletons,&amp;nbsp;Meehans, Harrisons, LaFerrieres, and more) to celebrate Christmas, just before the actual day.&amp;nbsp; It is an outrageous celebration of food, fun, games, and desserts.&amp;nbsp; And gifts.&amp;nbsp; Every family, and many individuals, arrive laden with gifts for each family member and their guests.&amp;nbsp; For the past few Christmases, my contribution has been a doodle of a family phrase printed onto t-shirts.&amp;nbsp; I call them &quot;Dadisms&quot; because these sayings, no matter their true origin, were made known to me through my dad (or his dad).&amp;nbsp; As I ride home from last night&#39;s festivities, I can&#39;t help but feel grateful for my loving, supportive, and boisterously joyous family.&amp;nbsp; And I know exactly what my father would have said:&lt;/div&gt;
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Ever since my brother Michael&#39;s girlfriend Nancy gave me my first one, filled with tiny chocolates,&amp;nbsp;when I was about 12, I&#39;ve&amp;nbsp;been a little bit obsessed with advent calendars.&amp;nbsp; I only started making them myself about six or eight years ago.&amp;nbsp; I doodled tiny holiday images (a steaming pie, a candle, a dove, a half-knitted sweater) and hid them behind the windows of a simple drawing of my church&#39;s Victorian rectory house.&amp;nbsp; I cut each window with an exacto knife and glued the cardstock pages together. The windows were numbered, so between December first and December 25th, you could open a window and see a doodled treat.&lt;br /&gt;
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I had been shaken to my core in 2008 when Jdimytai Damour, the Wal-Mart worker, was trampled to death by crowds of holiday bargain shoppers.&amp;nbsp; Then and there I opted out of buying Christmas gifts.&amp;nbsp; The idea of holiday shopping made me feel ill -- and somehow complicit.&amp;nbsp; It still does.&amp;nbsp; Since then, my family and friends have suffered through all manner of handmade nonsense, each item made with love, of course, and reflecting the immeasurable love I feel for each of them&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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For me, a handmade advent calendar is the antithesis of holiday commercialism.&amp;nbsp; It requires you to slow down just a tiny bit and reflect.&amp;nbsp; Even if all you&#39;re reflecting on is a bit of silliness.&amp;nbsp; One year I painted a watercolor Christmas tree and copied it onto glossy paper, with brightly colored ornaments doodled with markers.&amp;nbsp; The ornaments said words like &quot;love&quot; or &quot;joy,&quot; or were just abstract patterns.&amp;nbsp; Small removable dot stickers with numbers covered them.&amp;nbsp; Very simple.&amp;nbsp; Even after some elaborate years -- with garlands of envelopes packed with snacks, songs, leather goods, and funny legal documents (!) -- a few people have said that little tree is their favorite.&amp;nbsp; There is something refreshing about simplicity around the holidays.&lt;br /&gt;
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As an Episcopal, I know that the liturgical season of Advent neither regularly begins on Dec. 1 nor ends on Dec. 25th (it is instead marked by the four Sundays before Christmas and ends on Christmas eve), but I think those dates make for a more universal holiday experience (and more uniform calendar production, for sure).&amp;nbsp; In the church, the season of Advent is the beginning of the church year and is a time of waiting and self-preparation for the coming of Christ, who is sometimes referred to as &quot;a light in the darkness.&quot;&lt;/div&gt;
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In the liturgy, there are four colored advent candles, representing (depending on who you ask) hope, peace, joy, and love, lit weekly.&amp;nbsp; And while some years I&#39;ve included bible passages, hymns, or doodles of baby Jesus, for the most part my calendars are rather secular.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m partial to those (hopefully) universal candle themes, and that of the fifth candle, called the Christ candle: light for the world.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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My best friend Jean is an atheist and many years ago recounted to me the sweet conversation she had with her son when he asked what Christmas was.&amp;nbsp; She told him (in similar words) that all around the world, in most every culture, during the season that&#39;s darkest, people come together to celebrate light.&lt;/div&gt;
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These calendars might be my way of providing a reminder (for others and myself) that, no matter how difficult these times may be for us, the light is coming.&amp;nbsp; It comes from above and also within.&amp;nbsp; And it can be found in strangers, acts of kindness, and steaming pies.&amp;nbsp; Darkness always exists, but, together, our light can overcome it.&lt;br /&gt;
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i am hesitant to share with you how awesome and supportive my family is. &amp;nbsp;i know some of you have longed for familial support. &amp;nbsp;or even just fondness. &amp;nbsp;so, trigger warning for the lovey-dovey family stuff that follows, with my apologies. &amp;nbsp;(also, rest assured, we have more challenging qualities, too, but those are for another day.)&lt;/div&gt;
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my favorite niece (haha, actually my only, so far) came up from virginia with her family a few weekends ago and we all just sat around, enjoying each other&#39;s company and laughing our heads off. &amp;nbsp;like, until soymilk spilled from our noses. &amp;nbsp;we ate delicious food&amp;nbsp;—&amp;nbsp;pretty much all day long, told travel stories, snuggled, and celebrated a birthday or two, while keeping my recuperating dad company and intermittently watching old-timey tv shows (gunsmoke, the rifleman) with him.&lt;/div&gt;
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i brought a handful of my products with me just in case I found some modeling volunteers. &amp;nbsp;and, boy, did i!! &amp;nbsp;here are just a few of the family members who stepped in to help me:&lt;/div&gt;
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lest you think we&#39;re just a family of hams, let me tell you, yes, okay, there are obviously a couple of those. &amp;nbsp;but we have just as many super shy ones and also a couple couldn&#39;t-be-bothereds, too. &amp;nbsp;a regular mix of personalities. &amp;nbsp;yet everyone helped.&lt;/div&gt;
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the help isn&#39;t just in modeling, either. &amp;nbsp;there&#39;s product development advice (what about tiny blossom clips for little girls? &amp;nbsp;uh, yes!) and packaging suggestions (don&#39;t let the back of the display card get too busy; wait, that needs to be wrapped in plastic). &amp;nbsp;and when dad exclaims &quot;$39.99 just for THAT?!?&quot; they immediately chime in with &quot;each one is made by hand, dad!&quot; and &quot;leather accessories aren&#39;t cheap!&quot; to defend you — and to counter the &quot;back in MY day, leather flowers were a penny&quot; reminiscences. &amp;nbsp;all unprompted.&lt;/div&gt;
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my family also tested new products for me.&amp;nbsp; (i had serious trouble getting the below hat, with an african-printed hatband i made, back from one &quot;tester.&quot; &amp;nbsp;she claimed her head was suddenly &quot;cold.&quot;) and the &quot;autumn leaf&quot; modeled below seems to have disappeared right after this sweet photo was taken...&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art puts words to the unspoken&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art is honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art makes us feel more ALIVE&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;It allows me to be free!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art creates love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art allows us to ask questions that can change the world!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;It is how I am heard&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;It opens the mind to different consciousness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art is the key to expressing the soul. --PD&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;&quot;It is an artist&#39;s job to reflect the times&quot; -- Nina Simone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art provides purpose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Because it lets me be the best &amp;amp; worst part of myself while healing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;It makes us whole!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Because when we make art there&#39;s no war!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Speaking truth!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art is a universal language&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;THROUGH ACTIVISM (think music -&amp;gt; sam cooke OR gordon parks)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Connects us to 1 another*&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;We all we got. But we&#39;re all we need&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art brings light to darkness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;It can make the world more GAY!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;Art is all we are&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;arial&amp;quot; , sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; font-size: 12.8px;&quot;&gt;ART IS FREEDOM&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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A poet on the subway handed me a slip of paper once.&amp;nbsp; It read &quot;if you breathe, I am your comrade.&quot;&amp;nbsp; It stuck with me (even literally, since I taped it next to my front door).&amp;nbsp; What could it be like to claim solidarity with every breathing human (and non human, for that matter)?&amp;nbsp; It felt instinctively and beautifully true.&amp;nbsp; I want to live in that world. To help bring it about, even.&lt;/div&gt;
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Of course, this is not an easy comradeship.&amp;nbsp; Sometimes your comrades wave nazi flags and beat up people who look like you.&amp;nbsp; And sometimes they rally behind symbols of oppression and mow down a lovely woman who believes in equality enough to fight for it on a regular basis.&amp;nbsp; What then?&lt;/div&gt;
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I was sitting at a farmers market in harlem selling handmade crafts while these very things were taking place in charlottesville, just yesterday.&amp;nbsp; Chatting with shoppers, getting to know the other vendors, tweaking my display, eating excellent food (amusebouche.com), taking photos.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;
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I felt sick when I came home and saw the news. Not entirely because of what had happened -- some of these things happen rather regularly, it&#39;s sad to say -- but because I felt guilty for having wasted my day with arts and crafts instead of finding a way to fight.&amp;nbsp; Fighting intolerance and evil is absolutely necessary.&amp;nbsp; But what exactly do we fight with?&lt;/div&gt;
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If I really am their comrade, do I fight them with love?&amp;nbsp; protests?&amp;nbsp; fists?&amp;nbsp; What about beautiful handmade items?&amp;nbsp; Can you fight nazis with beauty?&amp;nbsp; Can a printed t-shirt of a lady with an afro help to fight white supremacy?&lt;/div&gt;
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Of course, fighting must go beyond symbolism.&amp;nbsp; We must all learn about each other.&amp;nbsp; How did we get here?&amp;nbsp; And we must be open to the truths we learn about our comrades.&amp;nbsp; And, maybe more importantly, the truths we each learn about ourselves. ❤&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;[originally posted on&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; font-family: Georgia, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;&quot;&gt;08 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT but then &lt;i&gt;disappeared&lt;/i&gt;!]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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i needed a fast way to say farewell to some new friends who were moving away and my thoughts went immediately to poetry. &amp;nbsp;last year around this time, i had illustrated a lovely poem by lucille clifton with abstract watercolor designs for a group of departing interns in a program i&#39;m involved in. &amp;nbsp;this year i realized that i could (and should) use something even cIoser to home ⎼ and maybe even with the author&#39;s permission this time!&amp;nbsp; and that&#39;s the day i ran into my poet friend bonnie on the street; she said she&#39;d love to offer up a poem for the project. &amp;nbsp;bonnie is a respected elder in our harlem community who has been attending st. mary&#39;s episcopal church in manhattanville since at least the 1970&#39;s. &amp;nbsp;in her book of poetry published by the church, &quot;greetings, tutankhamun!&quot; we found the perfect poem. &amp;nbsp;it&#39;s called new beginnings. &amp;nbsp;all told, it took about a month to put it all together (which is&amp;nbsp;&lt;u&gt;not&lt;/u&gt;&amp;nbsp;apparent by the little book&#39;s imperfect appearance). &amp;nbsp;little doodles replaced a key word from each page. &amp;nbsp;simple, right?&lt;/div&gt;
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it seems to me that every art project you make is a short summary of your life. &amp;nbsp;and the elements for this project are pretty wide-ranging. &amp;nbsp;it starts a few years ago when i took an art class at cooper union called &quot;how to make books.&quot; &amp;nbsp;we learned several methods, but one of my favorites was the &quot;instant book,&quot; just a simply but cleverly folded piece of copy paper. &amp;nbsp;ever since then, i make lots of little books ⎼ of all kinds ⎼&amp;nbsp;but instant books are ideal for a short message. &amp;nbsp;then there&#39;s the component of just how many friends i have made in my lifetime who are poets. &amp;nbsp;quandra prettyman, my favorite college professor and all-around excellent (and patient) friend, is the most famous among them. &amp;nbsp;but i have three or four among my group of church friends alone. &amp;nbsp;i wonder why that is?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the recipients are the next ingredient in the recipe. &amp;nbsp;i am on the board of a wonderful organization that provides young adults with an opportunity for community living, service work in a social justice-related field, and time for personal spiritual discernment, now called the new york service &amp;amp; justice collaborative. &amp;nbsp;we develop year-long relationships with these fellows, and then have to say goodbye in august. &amp;nbsp;every year. &amp;nbsp;this is not as easy as it might sound. &amp;nbsp;some stay friends with us and take jobs nearby. &amp;nbsp;many go to seminary to pursue clergy positions. &amp;nbsp;but some don&#39;t come back at all. &amp;nbsp;and saying goodbye is not my strong suit. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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The final ingredient for this mini-book-as-life-summary recipe is the doodles themselves. &amp;nbsp;even as a child, i was always creative. &amp;nbsp;but never drawing. &amp;nbsp;i had an older brother who was an artist and i left the drawing to him (he was an accomplished painter and a cartoonist who told painful stories ⎼ about&amp;nbsp;life, HIV, and AIDS ⎼&amp;nbsp;with silly pictures). &amp;nbsp;a few years after he died i started doodling. &amp;nbsp;maybe as a way to stay connected to him. &amp;nbsp;or maybe i felt free of judgment from an expert. &amp;nbsp;either way, it was new and i just went with it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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how to make books, then? &amp;nbsp;start with someone you need to tell something tricky. &amp;nbsp;if you need one, find an ally to help with a beautiful message (and get their permission). &amp;nbsp;have someone teach you the mechanics of folding paper. &amp;nbsp;and then try something new. &amp;nbsp;suspend your fear of judgment and just begin.&lt;/div&gt;
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</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2017/08/new-beginnings.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghOWjSCY57qh8KVhOmEu8LEayxwx9_CXGQW-HBH_lBIgoM3pusxp-OgpSq8Cao9zb8KcG4vHBlLEmjPzc_Oo-k4OyjFSvWvvmhjb8Y-t3zWG_1F4SOB4EjCTyVhW5RF_s9H0HHdpvypRY/s72-c/IMG_20170808_002346.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-4455840972331601345</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2017 06:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2017-07-17T02:16:34.179-04:00</atom:updated><title>hey, it&#39;s me!</title><description>&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkw0mS9IMYoS7QlyBWCo5HInDjuekE_jehpHNUdGnOVxmqHyYMp4_zG3ZI-6fREuH8efU-r-JC1uI_Ji0NoHHU8XeyCmrjDhNFD_8OANxFhW6BVWeWTkP1IJdQBpS2neCbxMsGofRX3HI/s1600/IMG_20170710_160457+%25281%2529.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;195&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkw0mS9IMYoS7QlyBWCo5HInDjuekE_jehpHNUdGnOVxmqHyYMp4_zG3ZI-6fREuH8efU-r-JC1uI_Ji0NoHHU8XeyCmrjDhNFD_8OANxFhW6BVWeWTkP1IJdQBpS2neCbxMsGofRX3HI/s200/IMG_20170710_160457+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
when i first moved to harlem from brooklyn in 2003(ish), strangers on the street had quite a lot to say about my free and natural hair. &amp;nbsp;&quot;do your hair!!!&quot; was yelled at me as i walked down the street. &amp;nbsp;many times. &amp;nbsp;ms. lillian, my neighbor out on the stoop every day, just shook her head at me in dissappointment as i came and went.&lt;br /&gt;
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a couple years ago i was looking on google images for a silhouette of a woman with an afro for a calendar i was making called &quot;harlem portraits.&quot; &amp;nbsp;i couldn&#39;t find anything suitable. &amp;nbsp;then i (finally) realized that was me. &amp;nbsp;so i took a selfie, traced it onto a print block and cut out the image. &amp;nbsp;i ended up hand printing it onto all kinds of things -- rice paper, swatches of silk, handmade notebooks, etc.&lt;br /&gt;
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for some reason, this summer, i remembered this image and decided to make it my personal logo, having it printed on a t-shirt. &amp;nbsp;yesterday was the first day i made those &quot;afro-printed&quot; tees available to the public. &amp;nbsp;and i learned something.&lt;br /&gt;
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it was the &quot;go africa!&quot; street fair in harlem. &amp;nbsp;i lost count of the many natural-haired, mostly bespectacled, women who walked past, saw the shirt, and exclaimed: &amp;nbsp;&quot;hey, it&#39;s me!&quot; &amp;nbsp;not only did i sell a boatload of shirts, but i met so many new family members -- sisters, aunties, nieces, of all different hues, shapes and styles. &amp;nbsp;it is an indescribable feeling to have so many strangers look at an image of you and see themselves. &amp;nbsp;that level of interconnectedness is soul-stirring. &lt;br /&gt;
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i had noticed the sea change in the neighborhood for a while now: &amp;nbsp;ms. lillian had long-ago begun to defend me from the stoop to suspicious passersby; &quot;do your hair!!&quot; was eventually replaced with &quot;i like your hair!&quot;; friends who used to have no problem spotting me at an outdoor concert, now need to text me because there are so many afros today. &amp;nbsp;so many women with afros. &amp;nbsp;so many sisters. &lt;br /&gt;
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it was such a pleasure to meet you all. &amp;nbsp;shall we have a family reunion at harlem week?</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2017/07/hey-its-me.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkw0mS9IMYoS7QlyBWCo5HInDjuekE_jehpHNUdGnOVxmqHyYMp4_zG3ZI-6fREuH8efU-r-JC1uI_Ji0NoHHU8XeyCmrjDhNFD_8OANxFhW6BVWeWTkP1IJdQBpS2neCbxMsGofRX3HI/s72-c/IMG_20170710_160457+%25281%2529.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-3478918904271719801</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jul 2017 19:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2017-07-10T15:55:03.921-04:00</atom:updated><title>a can of forgiveness</title><description>so, hey. &amp;nbsp;it&#39;s been quite a number of years since i&#39;ve done this blogging thing. &amp;nbsp;and even then, it wasn&#39;t so regularly accomplished. &amp;nbsp;shall we try it again?&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDy1aFyqqowNfVmu8YQYQpTZTIkeb_A79WtGgKuwmXBk4JQTxUODup1Vp__sH91pvKqNIZdbQccMpruJGvrwRKkn5dNJRqtE4BF8qVRayObX1RlA-2eX_KCL3_nLzshrwSt35Oe66yUXs/s1600/IMG_20170703_165109.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;319&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDy1aFyqqowNfVmu8YQYQpTZTIkeb_A79WtGgKuwmXBk4JQTxUODup1Vp__sH91pvKqNIZdbQccMpruJGvrwRKkn5dNJRqtE4BF8qVRayObX1RlA-2eX_KCL3_nLzshrwSt35Oe66yUXs/s320/IMG_20170703_165109.png&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;i was at a flea market this past weekend, selling hair accessories and handmade books. &amp;nbsp;but, at the urging of my furniture-artist brother, i included a third item: &amp;nbsp;cans of forgiveness. &amp;nbsp;it&#39;s an art project i did for lent a while back, where i made something every day for 40 days. &amp;nbsp;some themed for lent and others just for fun. &amp;nbsp;so, forgiveness in a can. &amp;nbsp;i took a can and added a label: &amp;nbsp;&quot;Forgiveness&quot; with some advertising lingo &quot;now with easy access pop-top!&quot; and the nutrition facts, ingredients listing, and recipe suggestions that might be found on a food product. &amp;nbsp;there is even an allergy warning: &quot;caution: &amp;nbsp;produced in a facility that also processes peace.&quot; &amp;nbsp;i thought it was funny. &amp;nbsp;but also, i personally believe that forgiveness is an essential element of life and that it&#39;s something we&#39;ve already been given -- we just maybe need a tactile delivery mechanism to help us remember that. &lt;br /&gt;
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so, back to the flea market -- in a small town, selling hair accessories and books. &amp;nbsp;and forgiveness. &amp;nbsp;as you might imagine, people had quite a bit to say about it.&lt;br /&gt;
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Man 1: &amp;nbsp;&quot;so, what&#39;s forgiveness going for these days?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
Me: &amp;nbsp;[laughing] well, the forgiveness is free. &amp;nbsp;it&#39;s the packaging that&#39;s going to cost you.&lt;br /&gt;
Man: &amp;nbsp;[laughing] now i&#39;ve seen everything.&lt;br /&gt;
My brother: &amp;nbsp;[laughing] &amp;nbsp;so, you can go home now?&lt;br /&gt;
Man 1: &amp;nbsp;[laughing] &amp;nbsp;Yes, i&#39;ve surely seen everything, i&#39;d might as well go home...&lt;br /&gt;
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some encounters weren&#39;t so jovial:&lt;br /&gt;
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Man 2: &amp;nbsp;[picks up can, examines it, and puts it back down, starts walking away]&lt;br /&gt;
Me: &amp;nbsp;do you need some?&lt;br /&gt;
Man 2: &amp;nbsp;[looking back, dejectedly] &amp;nbsp;if only it were that simple... [slumps down and walks away]&lt;br /&gt;
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many people who hurriedly walked past backed up to take a closer look at the cans. &amp;nbsp;my favorite customer of the day was a bright-smiling woman:&lt;br /&gt;
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Woman 1: &amp;nbsp;hah! &amp;nbsp;[laughing and shaking the can] what&#39;s IN here??!&lt;br /&gt;
Me: &amp;nbsp;there&#39;s an ingredients list on it...&lt;br /&gt;
Woman 1: &amp;nbsp;[reads can, bursts out laughing] &amp;nbsp;oh, my brother needs this!!! &amp;nbsp;how much is it?&lt;br /&gt;
Me: [apologetically] it&#39;s five dollars.&lt;br /&gt;
Woman 1: &amp;nbsp;[digging in purse for her wallet, laughing] oh, yes, my brother needs this. &amp;nbsp;he&#39;s so mean to my mother. &amp;nbsp;she&#39;s 84! &amp;nbsp;can you believe it?! &amp;nbsp;and he&#39;s mean to her! &amp;nbsp;[laughs, purchases the can, and strolls off, smiling]&lt;br /&gt;
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i&#39;m thinking i might just pop open a can for myself. &amp;nbsp;cut myself a break for falling off the blogging (and making!) train and just hop back on.&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;can&quot; you forgive me?</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2017/07/a-can-of-forgiveness.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDy1aFyqqowNfVmu8YQYQpTZTIkeb_A79WtGgKuwmXBk4JQTxUODup1Vp__sH91pvKqNIZdbQccMpruJGvrwRKkn5dNJRqtE4BF8qVRayObX1RlA-2eX_KCL3_nLzshrwSt35Oe66yUXs/s72-c/IMG_20170703_165109.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-2707687476557788034</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 17:32:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-30T13:49:50.948-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">kitchen</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">tools</category><title>I been chef&#39;n!</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK6_lifENsgHRsggg4uvxo5kZQvuJiNX4SvPjaygJhQk5gqde5m6Gu7txCKQwEBPeaNxh4pjgDBOyVn18wp9ynAQQtZZv3yeF8TSKtQ2p9-0ANiCvgkmJnhObGfVakaM7MgcpkA7FgtTw/s1600-h/chefn_palm_peeler.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 320px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK6_lifENsgHRsggg4uvxo5kZQvuJiNX4SvPjaygJhQk5gqde5m6Gu7txCKQwEBPeaNxh4pjgDBOyVn18wp9ynAQQtZZv3yeF8TSKtQ2p9-0ANiCvgkmJnhObGfVakaM7MgcpkA7FgtTw/s320/chefn_palm_peeler.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364308001474989202&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;a family member of mine is a top notch food editor &amp;amp; recipe developer who does work for several prominent national magazines that know what to do with food.  she has a professionally trained kitchen assistant, but sometimes, when her workload is beastly, I get to help out, too.  this is no walk in the park; she knows what she’s doing and what she needs done.  me, i basically know where my kitchen is and the difference between it and the sewing room.  but i’m learning.  so, i get basic directions like, peel x pounds of apples or measure out these dry ingredients.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;now, her kitchen isn’t like yours or mine.  after a lifetime in food, it’s got every tool and gadget a chef could ever need.  but there is a line of tools i’ve been noticing i gravitate toward, among the numerous brands she owns, that appeal to my design aesthetic as well as get the job done.  when i’m peeling apples, i automatically grab the chef’n palm peeler.  fits over my middle finger and lets me peel like nature intended (even though nature put most of the fiber and vitamins in the skin and intended you to eat them).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7HH_u3zHaZyw2Q6TRNNAZjaiLOErLH_JiAb4OkEqCwNj-qohab9N6aIBmSoU0jUH-PwO6byndwJL3x0mKqekj_-_0OMH2OMTG6fNXYtM9c94dFI9wXOvoxRmPaL4EJYZMj0yfZ6Ps778/s1600-h/chefn_collapsible_measuring_cups.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 280px; height: 280px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7HH_u3zHaZyw2Q6TRNNAZjaiLOErLH_JiAb4OkEqCwNj-qohab9N6aIBmSoU0jUH-PwO6byndwJL3x0mKqekj_-_0OMH2OMTG6fNXYtM9c94dFI9wXOvoxRmPaL4EJYZMj0yfZ6Ps778/s320/chefn_collapsible_measuring_cups.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364308176869910450&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;likewise when i’m measuring.  chef’n makes collapsible measuring cups in silicone that lie flat in the drawer (!) and pop out to get working.  simplified storage and ease of use; these people know what they’re doing.  now, does she have fancier peelers and measuring tools?  of course.  but when the seamstress makes her way into the kitchen, it’s all about design…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she tells me that she met &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chefn.com/About.aspx&quot;&gt;the design folks at seattle’s chef’n&lt;/a&gt; years ago and that they’re hilarious people.  no, they don’t take themselves too seriously (some of the kitchen tools they make are in the shapes of animals &amp;amp; monsters for goodness sakes), but they hit their mark of innovative, smart tools that truly work.  i’m sold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;btw, after a spin in the kitchen, there’s nothing more relaxing than snacking on some melt-in-your-mouth pecan truffles or freshly baked pumpkin bread and watching top chef masters with someone who knows all the behind-the-scenes stories:   which chef did what when she worked with him, which sent her what outrageous baby gift and so on.  hysterical.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;man, it’s fun to step out of your world.&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;both the chef&#39;n palm peeler and collapsible measuring cups are available at amazon for about $5.99 and $14.99, respectively.&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/i-been-chefn.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK6_lifENsgHRsggg4uvxo5kZQvuJiNX4SvPjaygJhQk5gqde5m6Gu7txCKQwEBPeaNxh4pjgDBOyVn18wp9ynAQQtZZv3yeF8TSKtQ2p9-0ANiCvgkmJnhObGfVakaM7MgcpkA7FgtTw/s72-c/chefn_palm_peeler.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-6760212165817240814</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 22:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-12T19:53:10.262-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">crochet</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gifts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">home goods</category><title>fear of felting</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNtB8yY2oLwLl8UoYedhFsQp0x5hKgXV32RGV18ohnczXzHryOXIAGJZyQ7QXNoEPb-pCxCW7y0qbRk6DJ3eNLAXaQoHcgjnfxcYsOFzjXOprESnGyAtP7h_guXWdYnRcUIHGq24QEgAo/s1600-h/felt_bowl_peanuts.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNtB8yY2oLwLl8UoYedhFsQp0x5hKgXV32RGV18ohnczXzHryOXIAGJZyQ7QXNoEPb-pCxCW7y0qbRk6DJ3eNLAXaQoHcgjnfxcYsOFzjXOprESnGyAtP7h_guXWdYnRcUIHGq24QEgAo/s320/felt_bowl_peanuts.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357715164060269234&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;i&#39;ve wanted to learn how to crochet for ages.  i&#39;ve been sewing since i was a child, but yarn scares me.  my father&#39;s aunt tried to teach me when i was eight, but i was hopeless.  after that i decided i couldn&#39;t do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;well, my sister recently arranged a lesson for herself and invited me along.  it was eye opening.  i &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;could&lt;/span&gt; do it.   to supplement that first lesson, i turned to my new best friend, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.crochetspot.com/&quot;&gt;rachel&lt;/a&gt;.    never met her, but she has a very cute website full of fun projects and all sorts of tutorials (including photos for lefties).    i found exactly what i was looking for and jumped in.   the next day, i had an adorable crocheted bowl.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8HSo5w3QV5CJjwmaZ-SwMeWatbI3aKNkBrAHiLNdqt0Jj3CDxei23ixYdwzHf8oLgz_cEf6DHKjgeqQZ7b46VlnarSKLWfzBamvhDNPTRPjRpc1FemjOUhSe_tP1B86Z-1lh536P9a1Y/s1600-h/crochet_bowl.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8HSo5w3QV5CJjwmaZ-SwMeWatbI3aKNkBrAHiLNdqt0Jj3CDxei23ixYdwzHf8oLgz_cEf6DHKjgeqQZ7b46VlnarSKLWfzBamvhDNPTRPjRpc1FemjOUhSe_tP1B86Z-1lh536P9a1Y/s320/crochet_bowl.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357717365960331890&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;the day after that, it was a felted bowl (photo at top).  splish, splash, 123.  now i can&#39;t stop making them.  and tweaking the recipe and having fun with colors, too.  i&#39;m sure some of the better ones will end up in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.blacksnapperdesign.etsy.com/&quot;&gt;my shop&lt;/a&gt;.   keep your eyes peeled.   they&#39;re great for keeping change or keys or cotton balls in or any quirky things you have around the house, but no place for (like your peanuts...).    i think they also make fantastic gifts.   i&#39;ve alerted my loved ones that they&#39;ll likely be getting these babies for some time to come...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hmmm.  makes me wonder what else i&#39;ve been afraid to try that i might actually be good at (or at least enjoy)? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;shall we make a pact, you and i?   i&#39;ll try (more) new things if you will?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BTW, if you&#39;re a fan of felting (and really, who isn&#39;t), you must see the &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;outstanding&lt;/span&gt; exhibit at the cooper-hewitt museum (&quot;&lt;a href=&quot;http://exhibitions.cooperhewitt.org/Fashioning-Felt/&quot;&gt;fashioning felt&lt;/a&gt;&quot;) before it closes the first week of september.  it is truly inspirational.  and if you didn&#39;t want to go to mongolia before you saw it, i guarantee you&#39;ll want to go afterward.  just do it quickly, before the traditions fade into &quot;progress.&quot;</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/fear-of-felting.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNtB8yY2oLwLl8UoYedhFsQp0x5hKgXV32RGV18ohnczXzHryOXIAGJZyQ7QXNoEPb-pCxCW7y0qbRk6DJ3eNLAXaQoHcgjnfxcYsOFzjXOprESnGyAtP7h_guXWdYnRcUIHGq24QEgAo/s72-c/felt_bowl_peanuts.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-4483509431166791388</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-04T01:22:17.089-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">society</category><title>a 4th of july for us all</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTEgat4fnkr8hH3cWRZjyipMv_E70wl5Fup-54KEuBWPFBWIip91JUkgdeiw0Eu7jylASYeJOlVu7-xNFLeBoa6c8GJ7DSc9qxXpCXV45aReHoo-pYyf3WJwxzMbGfhTHxOEhFxA8P_SU/s1600-h/jasper+johns+moratorium.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 230px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTEgat4fnkr8hH3cWRZjyipMv_E70wl5Fup-54KEuBWPFBWIip91JUkgdeiw0Eu7jylASYeJOlVu7-xNFLeBoa6c8GJ7DSc9qxXpCXV45aReHoo-pYyf3WJwxzMbGfhTHxOEhFxA8P_SU/s320/jasper+johns+moratorium.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354446463974790178&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;despite the fact that we&#39;re still mired in war, there is a sense that more americans&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt; feel &lt;/span&gt;more &quot;american&quot; today than they did in 1969 when jasper johns created &quot;moratorium&quot; (offset lithograph on wove paper).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgumEcy2R_KDUBgSjqVIJsOZDCBRS-Nugrw7JF90ZD1yuqwAoCQGmq9o4QFjurvFI3DtWkIPdb6UP6Hj4rBBN2bktrjz-ixd1gq_0YzFpJATseHGyS6RzY1-yUfKWZRjZ3dcJVZSTMxA3k/s1600-h/we+the+people.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 239px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgumEcy2R_KDUBgSjqVIJsOZDCBRS-Nugrw7JF90ZD1yuqwAoCQGmq9o4QFjurvFI3DtWkIPdb6UP6Hj4rBBN2bktrjz-ixd1gq_0YzFpJATseHGyS6RzY1-yUfKWZRjZ3dcJVZSTMxA3k/s320/we+the+people.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354447138081327986&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;if that&#39;s true, does it change how we view our past as well as our present?  (wayne eagleboy, &quot;we the people,&quot; 1971, acrylic paint and barbed wire on buffalo hide, framed in fur.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRLSOXqKDGJQCiYxNrosMGbqLkTP6Dv6iW3CFEyAcTrkAtYOU1-p47zEh-EtTIZOaYgl2hWAVEaBz-51EZZgMqc5119HKUiRjC26AB6t2DYlMzMK_9eqSDgMsIcH1tj3t9b431KOyZCYk/s1600-h/Hammons_flag.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 279px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRLSOXqKDGJQCiYxNrosMGbqLkTP6Dv6iW3CFEyAcTrkAtYOU1-p47zEh-EtTIZOaYgl2hWAVEaBz-51EZZgMqc5119HKUiRjC26AB6t2DYlMzMK_9eqSDgMsIcH1tj3t9b431KOyZCYk/s320/Hammons_flag.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354447869664574546&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimy_YansDFs-qKvMVx0T9ou_OACofF3RqyOzf_C3Zwpp2QC7nRtLTu6w_bHQgjT7dDBEmetKjCFtWcjEbRtEbOI0gNsL998yFxxhjNO-LEEp3qTdgF8gv1bs6wMEA7LpXIAsnConWdnGo/s1600-h/ringgold_flag_story_quilt.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 232px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimy_YansDFs-qKvMVx0T9ou_OACofF3RqyOzf_C3Zwpp2QC7nRtLTu6w_bHQgjT7dDBEmetKjCFtWcjEbRtEbOI0gNsL998yFxxhjNO-LEEp3qTdgF8gv1bs6wMEA7LpXIAsnConWdnGo/s320/ringgold_flag_story_quilt.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354449835230624242&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the obamas are &lt;a href=&quot;http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203771904574175453455287432.html#articleTabs%3Darticle&quot;&gt;changing the face of art inside the white house&lt;/a&gt;, but is art (beyond t-shirt design) in the rest of the u.s. changing because of the obamas?   (above top, david hammons, &quot;african-american flag,&quot; 1990, dyed cotton; above bottom, faith ringgold, &quot;flag story quilt,&quot; 1985, cotton canvas, dyed, pieced.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and, if more of us feel american today, what are we &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;doing&lt;/span&gt; about it?  are we willing to help those less fortunate feel more american, too?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;here&#39;s to america and all she is and can be, when her people work together...  happy fourth, everybody!</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/4th-of-july-for-us-all.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTEgat4fnkr8hH3cWRZjyipMv_E70wl5Fup-54KEuBWPFBWIip91JUkgdeiw0Eu7jylASYeJOlVu7-xNFLeBoa6c8GJ7DSc9qxXpCXV45aReHoo-pYyf3WJwxzMbGfhTHxOEhFxA8P_SU/s72-c/jasper+johns+moratorium.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-3240398404299511026</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-04T01:23:25.723-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">clothing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">society</category><title>wrapping up your pride</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqD5sDI7I1SZCjifwPBvXOusV25UG9hFNNviJ4G0vNTJwWA5fFpxdnyWYkP-OD_pth4Kz7rzjgj-hd-pH2vnFRB3qzkbmNWkMIXzgqezylD8qVMC83VcSgY0-yapogSMQtlYPvLTaWEBY/s1600-h/wraparound+pants.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 297px; height: 345px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqD5sDI7I1SZCjifwPBvXOusV25UG9hFNNviJ4G0vNTJwWA5fFpxdnyWYkP-OD_pth4Kz7rzjgj-hd-pH2vnFRB3qzkbmNWkMIXzgqezylD8qVMC83VcSgY0-yapogSMQtlYPvLTaWEBY/s400/wraparound+pants.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354242553901665250&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;so there i was last weekend marching in the nyc heritage of pride parade.  and was i thinking about those before us who suffered (and died) for the sake of the right to love the person of their choosing without persecution in our crazy society?  was i thinking about those who suffer and fight today for the right to marry the person of their choosing?  equal rights/rites for all mankind?  well, maybe.  but mostly i was thinking about the AWESOME yellow pants on the gentleman in the ebullient buddhist group in front of me, energetically dancing his way down fifth avenue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;seriously, as i was sweating profusely wearing (fabulous, but black) pants that covered my entire leg, the design of his lightweight cotton wraparound pants that expose the sides of your legs (or the whole leg, given the right dance move) entranced me.  of course, they were pretty much all he was wearing (except for a small pair of white terrycloth shorts, which were revealed when the pants were removed with a flourish).  oddly enough, he looked “cooler” with the pants on… i didn’t get his photo, so I’ve attached a general image of the style:  one piece pants that you secure around your waist with ties from each side (the pants being sewn together only at the inseam).  i’ve seen this design before, usually at the tibetan/asian markets in the city, like &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dokhamny.com/&quot;&gt;do kham&lt;/a&gt;, my favorite of the lot. but the&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfq3Kw3kHo9AQ2SFEHvNUmzm3qM2aU60D5N9PP7CUyC-uRpePiR61TuaeAq_hhYFTDU_b8IEYQf1F_C2GcTe4TYj8s4V_X75UoJqinZCHVUQfr0hL1eC8UB0MZhUEEAcTPjv94dTZiwyg/s1600-h/qasimi+ss1010.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 214px; height: 320px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfq3Kw3kHo9AQ2SFEHvNUmzm3qM2aU60D5N9PP7CUyC-uRpePiR61TuaeAq_hhYFTDU_b8IEYQf1F_C2GcTe4TYj8s4V_X75UoJqinZCHVUQfr0hL1eC8UB0MZhUEEAcTPjv94dTZiwyg/s320/qasimi+ss1010.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354243915094291330&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;y really didn’t speak to me until i saw them “in action.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;note to self:  dance as much as possible and enjoy your body, whichever kind you’ve got…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;feeling bold and want to save a few bucks? here’s a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot; href=&quot;http://community.livejournal.com/craftgrrl/10571744.html?style=mine&quot;&gt;free pattern&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt; to make a quick and easy pair yourself, provided by miss kreant at craftgrrl.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;too hippie, crunchy, zen, genie for you?  consider the ultimate couture version (in shorts) from qasimi (the new-ish and fab line from uae-native khalid al qasimi) shown at last week’s paris men’s fashion week (via our friends at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot; href=&quot;http://fashion156.dsvr.co.uk/blog/view_entry.php?id=1559&quot;&gt;fashion 156&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt; gorgeous, but clearly trading one kind of cool for another&lt;/span&gt;…</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/wrapping-up-your-pride.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqD5sDI7I1SZCjifwPBvXOusV25UG9hFNNviJ4G0vNTJwWA5fFpxdnyWYkP-OD_pth4Kz7rzjgj-hd-pH2vnFRB3qzkbmNWkMIXzgqezylD8qVMC83VcSgY0-yapogSMQtlYPvLTaWEBY/s72-c/wraparound+pants.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225287429434792929.post-3769207125271691323</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 00:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-03T11:33:50.020-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">quilting</category><title>firsts</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvetLy2q_HwtXYDutuQNOKnyybUQpzzCx0FSYFbvRzv66b3RROcxow7vMl6C3Q2eqTc6D7Vzv_dCLLHTMSBogVmVEcG5H_VM_sBN4D1LywicdUwMr1n4YAzX4Kw4X2EA2LtCoSu5u__mk/s1600-h/alysia_twin_quilt_stacked.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 251px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvetLy2q_HwtXYDutuQNOKnyybUQpzzCx0FSYFbvRzv66b3RROcxow7vMl6C3Q2eqTc6D7Vzv_dCLLHTMSBogVmVEcG5H_VM_sBN4D1LywicdUwMr1n4YAzX4Kw4X2EA2LtCoSu5u__mk/s320/alysia_twin_quilt_stacked.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351058300255401282&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;there&#39;s a first time for everything.  well, everything that happens, anyway.   this is my first post to my new (in progress, and likely always so) blog.    as i&#39;ve just come from delivering my first bedspread, that seems a fitting subject.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my quilting medium of choice is the throw blanket.   throws are perfect because they are not constrained by location or any particular function.   you can sling them over the sofa or on the back of a chair to add a contrasting or complementing color or texture.   you can hang them on the wall or curl up with one anywhere in (or outside of) your house to watch a movie or read a book or watch the sunset or sip on a tasty glass of tokaji.  throw blankets are the closest things i know of to moveable home art.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;bedspreads just lie on your bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;still, i was intrigued and not only a little bit excited when i was asked to create a &quot;surprise&quot; bedspread for a college coed who i know and love.   the request was open-ended, but for the use of purple.    if you&#39;ve seen &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.blacksnapperdesign.com/Site/quilted%20throws.html&quot;&gt;my throws&lt;/a&gt;, you know that was no stretch for me (black snapper design has some kind of regal bent to it.)    well, it ended up with the combination you see below:  pale pinky lavender, pink, eggplant and limey yellow silk dupioni on side 1 and a raw silk checked pattern in wine and lavender on side 2 (with a stripe of eggplant silk dupioni).   a nice crazy topstitching of overlapping ovals finished the whole thing off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgi6GqhZf-K-tiKDa5r_yoG4vSE3BvpZrasgAtMBYAEi1K3_kNT3daW6o5P6uHM8NSIs2yb4MDkgMZx0REbbAZGLfh7LG4R6NuZ23w1vVB4FizIv7V5dkAK5hZeILf7wJfEFNMh9VaKqoo/s1600-h/alysia_twin_quilt.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 265px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgi6GqhZf-K-tiKDa5r_yoG4vSE3BvpZrasgAtMBYAEi1K3_kNT3daW6o5P6uHM8NSIs2yb4MDkgMZx0REbbAZGLfh7LG4R6NuZ23w1vVB4FizIv7V5dkAK5hZeILf7wJfEFNMh9VaKqoo/s320/alysia_twin_quilt.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351059435977824514&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it was a long and enjoyable process and the recipient was pleased (as was the &quot;surpriser&quot;).  and the bedspread complemented the bedroom decor to an eerie degree.  so if everyone is so happy, why am i sitting here sighing?  i suppose i&#39;m left with that twinge of the blues i get with every delivery of a recent creation.  i know of no solution better than getting back to the sewing machine...  although, did someone mention a nice glass of tokaji...?</description><link>http://blacksnapperdesign.blogspot.com/2009/06/firsts.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (black snapper design)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvetLy2q_HwtXYDutuQNOKnyybUQpzzCx0FSYFbvRzv66b3RROcxow7vMl6C3Q2eqTc6D7Vzv_dCLLHTMSBogVmVEcG5H_VM_sBN4D1LywicdUwMr1n4YAzX4Kw4X2EA2LtCoSu5u__mk/s72-c/alysia_twin_quilt_stacked.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></item></channel></rss>