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	<title>Black and Married With Kids.com</title>
	
	<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com</link>
	<description>A site that challenges stereotypes about marriage and parenting in the black community.</description>
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		<title>Marriage and the Military</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/18/marriage-and-the-military/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Harriet Hairston]]></category>

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		<description>by Harriet Hairston
There comes a time in everyone&amp;#8217;s life when it&amp;#8217;s essential to get back to the basics.
In case you hadn&amp;#8217;t heard, the U.S. Army just did a complete overhaul of its basic military training practices for the first time in 30 years! Because of the nature of current warfare in Iraq and Afghanistan, they [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/QAuDorLcrBc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>In-Laws’ Rule</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/18/in-laws%e2%80%99-rule/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 11:33:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Tiya Cunningham-Sumter]]></category>

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		<description>by Tiya  Cunningham-Sumter
Let me start this article by thanking  Saraileads for her suggestion about in-laws. It was pretty easy for me  to write an article on the relationship with in-laws because I have such  a great one with my own. My in-laws are ideal. They accepted me into  the family [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/9AIhV8806DQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Your Kids Hear Everything You Say</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/18/your-kids-hear-everything-you-say/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 11:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tara Pringle Jefferson]]></category>

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		<description>by Tara Pringle Jefferson
My daughter is truly my mini-me.
She copies my tone of voice, my mannerisms, my body language. Whenever I find myself having a bad day, all I have to do is think of how she&amp;#8217;ll copy me and it usually keeps me on the up and up.
A couple of weeks ago, she went [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/CCt_3fcjCHE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>VIDEO: Kindred The Family Soul- Six Is It (Episode 2: We Are Ordinary People)</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/17/kindred-the-family-soul-six-is-it-episode-2-we-are-ordinary-people/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/17/kindred-the-family-soul-six-is-it-episode-2-we-are-ordinary-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Videos]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[6 is It]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kindred The Family Soul]]></category>
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		<description>In this episode of Six Is It:
In the intro Fatin talks healthcare. Aja and Fatin visit the kids  school for story day. Nina writes a book about her Atlanta trip. The kids  enter the talent show to do a dance. 
Six Is It is a biweekly reality web series that follows the first [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/gCgv6zY3BYY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Dear New Girl: I Don’t Like You. Don’t Take It Personal.</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/17/dear-new-girl-i-don%e2%80%99t-like-you-don%e2%80%99t-take-it-personal/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/17/dear-new-girl-i-don%e2%80%99t-like-you-don%e2%80%99t-take-it-personal/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Aja Dorsey Jackson]]></category>

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		<description>by Aja Dorsey Jackson
Once upon a time there lived a wife. She and her husband would often hang out with the husband’s friends and their wives or significant others. The wife enjoyed this as she got along well with the women and had developed friendships with several of them.
One day one of the couples splits [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/_uZU2NI9Bew" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>FREE Giveaway: The Princess and The Frog DVDs</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/16/free-giveaway-princess-and-the-frog-dvds/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/16/free-giveaway-princess-and-the-frog-dvds/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disney]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[DVD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Princess and the Frog]]></category>

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		<description>AND THE WINNERS ARE&amp;#8230;&amp;#8230;
LEKASHIA
TP2
LASHAE
WE&amp;#8217;LL BE IN CONTACT VIA EMAIL WITH MORE INFO! THANKS FOR PARTICIPATING EVERYONE.
The Princess and The Frog DVD officially hits the streets today and we&amp;#8217;re celebrating by giving away 3 copies of the single disc DVD to three lucky readers.
From the press release:
Burbank, Calif.,  January 26, 2010 – Tiana, the ninth [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/Cbd6qoa6YdM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<slash:comments>98</slash:comments>
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		<title>Lip/Life Service for Your Marriage</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/16/liplife-service-for-your-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/16/liplife-service-for-your-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Harriet Hairston]]></category>

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		<description>by Harriet Hairston
I read an article last week  from Crosswalk.com that challenged me to continue to change my pattern of speech  with my husband.  Whitney Hopler described eight phrases that have the potential  to change a marriage for the better.  Although my marriage is not in crisis  (anymore), I&amp;#8217;m always looking for preventative measures and [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/0VmalLA74YQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>FREE Screening of Happily Ever After in St. Louis This Week</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/free-screening-of-happily-ever-after-in-st-louis-this-week%e2%80%8f/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/free-screening-of-happily-ever-after-in-st-louis-this-week%e2%80%8f/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
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		<description>This Thursday March 18th 2010
FREE!!! For One Night Only!
Happily Ever After: A Positive  Image of Black Marriage
&amp;#8220;The movie that started a movement&amp;#8221;
Followed by a panel discussion on black  marriage and relationships featuring Essence.com blogger Lamar Tyler  along with local couples and experts.
6:30PM at the Tivoli Theatre. Early  arrival is suggested since [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/4v3bUqj04hU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Run Your Marriage Like A Business</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/run-your-marriage-like-a-business/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/run-your-marriage-like-a-business/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 10:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Money]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[finances]]></category>

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		<description>Well at least financially, that&amp;#8217;s what an article I just read advises and most of that advice doesn&amp;#8217;t look half bad. Here are a few excerpts from the MSN write-up on marital finances.
Marriage makes people richer.
Not all marriages, of course,  and &amp;#8220;richer&amp;#8221; is relative. But overall, people who get married and stay  married [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/BuEFbB_uomM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Do 12-year-olds Need Special Condoms?</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/do-12-year-olds-need-special-condoms/</link>
		<comments>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2010/03/15/do-12-year-olds-need-special-condoms/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 10:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tara Pringle Jefferson]]></category>

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		<description>by Tara Pringle Jefferson

This post all started as a response to these: smaller condoms designed for 12-14 year old boys. The thinking was, most  12-14 year old boys do not use protection when they have sex. So let’s make  condoms that fit them.

Ahem.
Is this okay? Are we just accepting now that 12-year-olds have [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Blackandmarriedwithkidscom/~4/KqSvWMpQdxU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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