Blog365

A girl and her blog

2020-01-13T16:43:00.004-08:00

Hi I’m Fheyhi. Actually I’m Oluwafeyisayomi but my name is so long and it needs to be shortened, so I shortened and customized it to Fheyhi.

My blog’s name is 365(blog365). It may sound weird but with time we will all get used to it. 365 means a whole year therefore it is named 365 because it has to do with basically everything I feel and think all through. I’ll be sharing what interests me, inspires me, and what amuses me to the whole world, via my blog, weaving stories in different threads and colours.
I hope I’m able to steal your hearts with everything I write.

My October feelings

2020-01-13T16:42:00.002-08:00

I woke up this morning wondering how we are in October already. Did we skip some months and just jumped to October?, because I can’t stop wondering how fast this year has been.
Today is Nigeria’s independence day, I wish her well irrespective of the odds. I’m still surprised the fifty nine years old woman doesn’t want to grow. I mean lot of people believe Nigeria is messed up and some will spend the day talking about how we don’t deserve this celebration. They may be right but I believe there are still so many flowers among the thorns that’s worth celebrating. Let’s just stop looking at the bad side every year and just celebrate the good I mean we are Nigeria, without us the name is empty. Keep praying for your country there’s still hope as long as Nigeria lives. Happy Independence day to everyone reading this.

Happy Independence naija

Now let’s talk about me, I woke up feeling green, I woke up feeling like a Nigerian, I felt African. I don’t doubt it is because of the independence even the air smells like it.
All my feelings are just so jampacked from wanting my low cut to grow so fast to praying for my admission to come through in time. I’m still surprised it’s only three months left to the new year and it freaks me out. I can’t even think of how the months will be stressful for me with lot of mood swings but I’ll be fine.
Guys, it’s almost the end of the year obviously, if there’s any plan that you made but you haven’t, it isn’t too late to do it. Let’s embrace positivity for the rest of this year. Oops I almost forgot. Happy new month too

If wishes were horses…

2020-01-13T16:06:00.004-08:00

If I were Aladdin and I had a genie all to myself, my first wish would have been to have more wishes, but it is obviously against the rule so I would have wished for more genies instead.

A wish is a strong desire or hope for something. So if wishes were horses we would all ride because everything we desire will be granted at ease and we all have thousands of wishes in our head. Thinking of it all, I think it’s best that wishes are not horses so not everyone can ride. Imagine a world where all wishes come through, seems cool but I tell you it isn’t because nothing will be valuable any more because we get them at the snap of our fingers.

Technically wishes can’t be horses because wishing wishes were horses is another wish on its own. Wishes are not only based on shooting stars or imaginary magical powers or putting out candle lights on birthday cakes. I’m relating these wishes to our goals and ambitions in life. We can’t just get them at ease but we can only get them when we take the responsibility of making them come true.

Wishes do come true when written down as goals. You can always work your own magical magic. Stay focused and work towards everything you want to achieve in life. Don’t dwell in fantasies make this desire reality.

IT IS MY BODY, NOT YOURS!...

2020-01-13T16:06:00.000-08:00

Too thin, too chubby, too skinny, too curvy, too fat, too light, too dark, too everything. The society, the world, the media is never satisfied with how your body really looks. So I’m asking you why you’re still bothered with what someone says about your body??

Now playing scars to your beautiful by Alessia Cara

If you have never listened to this song, you really need to add it to your playlist because it is a beautiful eye opener. Sometimes I feel I’m the hero of the story the singer is telling.
The truth remains no one can body shame you without your permission. Most people give in and accept what people say they look like forgetting how they really look like.

How you are made, irrespective of your body flaw is what makes you beautiful. What you think is the scar to your beautiful is the point of your beauty. Never settle for what people say.
If I were the president of my country I’d declare body shaming illegal and a crime and everyone guilty will be sentenced to a whole life imprisonment for killing people emotionally.
Body shaming goes a long way, it causes depression and has more psychological effects on victims, let’s be careful of how we speak about people’s body.

Ever since I discovered how beautiful I am even with my so-called body flaw I’ve decided that it is my body, not someone’s and I am me, not them. People are just being judgmental about everything so I stopped caring. You are beautiful and that’s all that matters.

Growing Older???

2020-01-13T16:05:00.001-08:00

Being young is litty litty, I mean I want to be forever young. I clocked nineteen last week and I suddenly felt like an old woman, it dawned on me that I’m not getting any younger but older in every possible way and it scared me to the extreme.

Growing older is just like climbing a mountain where your strength has to increase as you climb higher. I look back to my days of being an infant, then toddler, then the pre-teen stage and finally a teen. Each stage springs up more challenges which heightens the older you get.
Some people have this phobia of growing older, not that they want to die young but the fear of just leaving each stage of their lives in which things has to change but the truth remains that we have to appreciate growing older because some people don’t even have the opportunity to live in this world.

I used to have this fear but then I realised it is mandatory and as long as the opportunity of living life comes to us every new day. It has to be appreciated and used wisely.
Also, live a reputable life, the life anyone can envy and want to be like you. Enjoy life, love life. Live. Love. Laugh. Learn

NOT HAPPY, NOT SAD, BUT EMPTY! (:

2020-01-13T16:04:00.001-08:00

You feel down, sad, depressed, stuck, out of place, hated, so many emotions packed in one that makes you feel emotionally depressed. Don’t worry I got you on here because I know exactly how you feel.

This blog post is to give you the encouragement you need, I mean I’ll try my best to give you all the encouragement I can give.

Atimes we just feel alone, like no one else is in this world with us, we feel empty, we have friends but it feels like no one even got us. Different things causes us to be like this depending on our various lives and whatever we are passing through.
The truth is there’s no need to feel so down. Depression is one enemy you got to fight. One thing is remember you always have a reason to smile no matter how hard it is. Think deeply, there’s something or someone that lifts our spirit in a way.

Everyday, look into the mirror and tell yourself that you’re the best in the whole universe, a gift to this world, so that’s a reason why you should be cheerful always.

Talk to your real friends about how you feel, you may think no one got you but there’s always this friend or couple of friends that is ready to be a shoulder to lean on, so maybe you shouldn’t think you are alone after all.

Listen to good music, I’ll recommend RISE UP by Andra Day and HERO by MARIAH CAREY these are motivational songs that gives you reasons to stay happy and to keep living.
Put yourself out there, show the world what you got talent-wise when you do this, it means there’s something you’re offering the world and it makes you feel really important because people look up to you and always expect a particular content from you.