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Ten Commandments of Keeping Love Alive

2009-09-29T10:44:00.003+05:30

# Always share positive feelings. One can never hear enough of them;
# Never share negative feelings unless there is a specific constructive purpose to it (resolving an issue before it gets out of hand, expressing concern over a fixable issue, etc. etc.). Negative feelings expressed just to get something off the chest, to make a minor point, to lash out, to put down, to get your way, or to make an issue of something which cannot be changed, can only have a negative effect on the relationship. Nothing positive will ever come out of any of it, save a fleeting feeling of satisfaction from spitting it all out;
# Make each other feel like a priority, especially when you are unable to treat your partner as such. In other words, at times when it isn't possible to treat your lover as a priority due to extenuating circumstances, at least take a few moments (doesn't take a lot) to share the situation with them, and reaffirm your feelings;
# Never let the sun go down without resolving anger or doing a daily mental check-up. Put yourself in your lover's shoes and see how you would feel receiving what you gave to them (good or bad) each day;
# Once is an error, twice carelessness, more than that a habit. If you're doing something which your lover has serious, justifiable objections to, nip it before it is perceived as a habit. Some behaviours are very hard to change, undoing the hurt to a cherished lover harder still. I'm not suggesting you modify your personality to accommodate your partner, just behaviours which are justifiably intolerable;
# If a situation calls for a compromise and you're willing to make it, do it sooner than later. Treat it like a job interview where you're willing to meet your future boss half-way or agree to productive changes in your modus operandi. Don't let your relationship reach that hopeless stage where you feel there are no solutions. If you're going to do it, do it early on to show your commitment, versus waiting until the last minute when feelings have died and motivation and longevity have come under question. There truly is a critical period for everything. Wait too long and you risk your lover hitting the ‘too little too late' stage;
# Always keep the passion alive. Remember it was the two of you who made it happen in the first place, without outside help, therefore the two of you can keep it going forever. That special magic is one of the few things which is completely under your control – a level playing field which cannot be taken away unless you decide to willingly let go of it. Don't ever fall into the dull, blasé, can't-be-bothered-to-try approach once you know you've won your lover's heart. If anything, the two of you falling in love should merely mark a beginning – a beginning which paves the way to beautiful things, since you will no longer have to waste your energy over draining insecurities or worries around whether or not you'll be loved back;
# When you talk to your partner, really listen. They need to know that of all the billions of people out there you are the one who is most interested in what they have to say. I'm not talking faking here. I'd sooner you fake an orgasm than your interest in the love of your life. Genuine is the key here;
# Make sure your checks and balances are squared away as far as giving and expectations are concerned. If not, sooner or later the overdrafts will ruin your credibility rating. A partner who repeatedly gives, receives little in return, even in the form of appreciation, will end up saying "the heck with it" or pulling away from the whole thing, feeling that they'll never be good enough and that their partner is best off without them;
# Nurture each other and the relationship regularly. Meals, jobs, great backyards, good kids, hygiene, grooming don't just happen by themselves. Why should relationships? Ditch the misconception that beautiful relationships just happen and last forever effortlessly. Sound like a chore? Don't let it. Change your perspective and make it your hobby. Nothing will be quite as enjoyable. A garden tended to as a hobby is always more delightful than one created out of tough chores and obligations.

20 Tips to Keep Love Alive

2009-09-29T10:44:00.000+05:30

Have you ever been at a loss to think of something special that you can do for that special someone in your life? Maybe you want to do a little extra for an important event, like his or her birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas, or anniversary.

Here are some excellent tips and ideas of some special actions that you can take to help keep love alive in your life.

1. Give your loved one a top ten list: Top Ten Reasons Why I Love You. (It’s okay to include bonus reasons.)

2. Change the screen saver on the computer to something like “You Are the Light of My Life” in fancy or bold letters.

3. Stick an “I Love You” note on his or her steering wheel while they are at work.

4. Give her the top half of a pair of your pajamas on a cold night.

5. Write a poem for her, even if it is short, and even if you can’t write poems.

6. Bake fortune cookies that contain special “I Love You” messages.

7. Give her a rose for every year you’ve known her.

8. Give him a golf ball for every year you’ve known him.

9. Learn how to say “I Love You” is as many different languages as possible.

10. Reenact the best date the two of you ever had.

11. Put your favorite love note in a frame.

12. Take walks together after midnight.

13. Memorize your favorite love poem.

14. Read the story of Romeo and Juliet to each other.

15. Rent a bicycle built for two and ride in the park.

16. Serenade her with a song, preferably beneath a window.

17. Buy him or her a copy of their favorite magazine.

18. Give her one of her favorite flowers for each year you’ve known her.

19. Write a love letter in a code.

20. Give him or her a t-shirt with their pet name on it.

Long Term Relationship Advice - 5 Tips To Keep You Both Happy

2009-09-29T10:31:00.000+05:30

If you are having problems with your long term relationship, advice can really help. Being in a relationship sometimes means you can't see the woods for the trees, so some outside input can really help you see things in a new perspective. Check out this article for 5 golden pieces of advice.

Long Term Relationship Advice 1

Have fun together. As John Lennon said, sometimes life gets in the way, and it really does. It's all to easy to find yourselves grinding away in a boring rut of a life these days, and when you think about it, it's pretty easy for relationships to turn sour in those circumstances. Instead of concentrating on the everyday routines, try and concentrate on making the routines fun. You had fun together when you first met, and you can do it again!

Long Term Relationship Advice 2

Fix Things Fast - Adopt this as your mantra to keep a troublesome relationship on its feet. When you argue or fight about something, every second that goes by makes it more likely that the conflict will result in some kind of resentment or long term issue. It's quite healthy to disagree about things, but it's also healthy to accept someone else's opinion, or even agree to disagree. That's not to say you should just pander to your partner's wishes in case a disagreement causes problems, but just keep in mind that if you do argue the consequences can be far reaching.

Long Term Relationship Advice 3

Be romantic. What woman doesn't want a surprise bunch of flowers or box of chocolates? What man doesn't like a spur of the moment gift or his wife in some naughty underwear? These may seem like cliches, but cliches become cliches because they contain a grain of truth. The secret is not in the items themselves, the romance is in the action. By surprising them in whatever way, you are showing them that you care for and think about them even when they aren't around, and who doesn't want to hear that?

Long Term Relationship Advice 4

Date night! Why not have a night or two each week just for the both of you? It's recommended that you make it as much like a regular date as possible, and go out and even meet each other beforehand etc, but as time goes on you'll find you want to stay at home. And that's okay. The important thing is to keep the commitment to each other, and also to demonstrate it to others so that there can be no interruptions from children, friends, relatives etc. If you both have a pre-agreed night to be with each other, it can be surprising how soon that becomes the highlight of your week.

Long Term Relationship Advice 5

If things are in trouble, make some promises to each other. For the more romantically inclined, this could almost be like renewing marriage vows, if you are married, or it could be as simple as saying "I know that drives you crazy, so I'm going to try my best not to do it again". Sometimes some simple care and consideration are all that's required to turn your relationship around. If you can both take the time to talk things over and make some promises about certain changes, you are demonstrating how much you love each other and the lengths you will go to. This is rarely a bad thing!

Long term relationship advice really can fix most problems before they get to be a big deal. Check out the links below to get some of the best advice around.

How to Make Friends at College

2009-08-14T17:41:00.000+05:30

College is a time when people actively seek out new relationships. Unless you live in a box, making friends should not be a problem. Still, it requires effort and a willingness to extend yourself at times. Follow these few steps to help youbecome more social.

Instructions
Things You'll Need:

* Address Books
* Invitations
* Student Activities Catalogs
* Telephones
* Snack Foods
* Personal Organizers
* Frisbees
* Frisbees

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Step 1

Be loquacious, gregarious, chatty, talkative, friendly, outgoing, amiable, congenial, neighborly, sociable, approachable, easygoing and otherwise chummy.
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Step 2

Introduce yourself to those in your dorm and class.
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Step 3

Show up early for orientation.
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Step 4

Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings where people socialize.
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Step 5

Remain open to new cultures, ideas and values.
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Step 6

Invite people to join you for a bite to eat and a drink.
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Step 7

Offer to give people a ride somewhere.
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Step 8

Study in groups.
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Step 9

Reach out to others when they need help.
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Step 10

Join a student group or sports team.
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Step 11

Explore the Greek system.
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Step 12

Throw a party.

Tips & Warnings

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Give people a second chance if they make a bad first impression.
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Let people open up to you slowly. Make sure you are not forcing yourself upon someone.

How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy

2009-07-14T10:42:00.000+05:30

Steps

1. Always be a gentleman. Hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful.
2. Know her favorite song and listen to her type of music, then share what you think about it.
3. Learn to love what she does.
4. Tell her that she's on your mind from the time you awaken until bedtime.
5. Tell her you love her, but not too often. It loses its luster if you overuse it.
6. Make sure you mean it whenever you tell her that you love her.
7. Make her happy by buying her gifts, but know what she likes beforehand. Jewelery is a great choice but don't be offended if she doesn't wear it all the time.
8. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out. Have a jacket or a coat handy so you can give it to her.
9. Go out somewhere and have some fun. Some good places to go are movies, restaurants, and other relaxing locations.
10. Never ignore her and just walk off with your friends. It's rude to do that. If she does it to you, wait a minute for her to return to you, and if she doesn't, go talk to your friends.
11. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Girls love that.
12. Before you kiss her, take a breath mint.
13. Move the relationship at a pace you're both comfortable with. If you don't match up, try to compromise. If that doesn't work out, politely find someone else.
14. Make a good impression on her parents. Even if she doesn't like them, they can be your greatest allies in the long run.
15. Become friends with her friends. It gives you more things in common with your girl. Eventually, her friends will love you, and that's a definite turn-on for your girlfriend.
16. Walk her to classes if you go to the same school. When you walk her, carry her books, even if she isn't struggling. Some girls won't let you, though. If she denies a few times, let it go and don't push.
17. When you listen to your iPod around her, share an ear with her. This way, you'll be closer because the cord is short and you'll have an excuse to hold her hand or put your arm around her.
18. Don't be too shy. There are times and places that are appropriate to be shy, like kissing in public. Don't be too shy to put your arm around her or hold her hand, because you shouldn't be ashamed to have some public displays of affection.
19. Kiss something other than her lips, like her hand, her forehead or her cheek. Anything like that will definitely put a smile on her face.
20. If you know she has a good sense of humour, learn a new joke every day and tell it to her. If she appreciates a good-sensed joke, don't be afraid to share. Just make sure it doesn't offend her.
21. Be confident. Be proud of who you are, and being her boyfriend. Giving nice comments always makes a girls day, just not too many.
22. Make her a mixed CD of her favorite songs. It shows that you pay attention to the things she likes and you appreciate her style of music. If you don't know her favorite songs, buddy up with her best friend and ask for some help.
23. Get her something just because you care for her.
24. Always respect her and always be willing to help her.
25. Don't go too fast into the relationship. Take it nice and slow, but not too slow.
26. Ask her what she would like to do sometimes.
27. Make sure to actually do things for her. Everyone knows to open doors for her, but nobody seems to help her clean, make food for her, and other things like that. She does it for you, why not do it for her too?
28. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you.
29. Write her love notes. When writing notes, try to make them cute and show her that you care. Writing notes is a great way to show her that you are spontaneous and romantic.
30. Tell her that your lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it.
31. Never tell her that you hate her beloved friends.
32. Never tell her that you don't like the things she does.
33. Always give her a smile, that will cheer her up.
34. Never EVER give her things that are malicious, that will make her think that your a maniac.
35. If you want her to be yours forever, always help her out, never leave her side, and most likely never ever turn your back on her.
36. If budget permits, book the occassional weekend away. Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner.

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You?

2009-03-21T10:44:00.000+05:30

Knowing whether a woman is attracted to you BEFORE you make your big move on her can be helpful.

The problem is that it can be pretty close to impossible to sense whether a girl likes you. To make matters worse there is a TON of bad advice out there on the subject.
How to know if a girl likes you?

Some "experts" say that if a woman likes you her pupils will dilate when she looks at you. Others suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip... or she might playfully remove her shoes. Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her heart rate will speed up.
What the...? Dilating pupils? Heart rates?

COME ON !!! You shouldn't have to take a woman's pulse to figure out if she's attracted to you. Those types of signals are so vague and ambiguous... they could be occurring for any number of totally unrelated reasons.

What you need is something that will give you a concrete answer and something that you can use in ANY situation with ANY girl.
How to know when girl likes you? The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space. Basically, it's studying how people interact with other people in close proximity to each other (such as on an elevator).

What on earth does this have to do with detecting interest?

Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously perceive a distance that is appropriate for different relationships; they also establish a comfortable distance for personal interaction and nonverbally define this as their personal space.

This is where it gets interesting-- if a woman likes you she will let you into her more intimate personal space. But, if she doesn't like you she won't... she will make an effort to keep you further away-- OUT of her close personal space reserved for people whom she respects, trusts, and/or admires.

This is how it happens-- it is PROVEN.

It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also true. The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will place on you.

When you are talking to a woman the space between both of you is where the two of you are comfortable. If you move in a little closer to her she will either be fine with it and allow it or she will get uncomfortable and move back to reestablish a more comfortable distance.

I'll make it simple for you... if she stays she's interested. If she moves back... you still have some work to do because she's NOT interested yet.Now, when you do this, only move in an inch or two. I'm not talking about a huge step closer to her. ANY woman, no matter how interested she is, would move back if you suddenly move much closer to her.

Just take a small, smooth step closer to her and watch for her reaction.
Test it out... this WORKS.
Brian brian at SeductionProgram.com

The 3 Things You Must Do To Get Women Wet In A 5 Min Conversation

2009-03-21T10:42:00.000+05:30

Ever wondered how to sexually stimulate a woman by simply talking to her in the right way?

To consider you a sex-partner? Follow these simple steps and she will be putty in your pants... err, I mean hands.

Seduce women Art seduction:
1. Whisper in her ear
When hitting on new women, you have to jump start the chemistry so that you can go from "nice friendly guy" to "potential sex-mate". The best way to start creating that chemistry is to whisper in their ear instead of talking to them face to face.
Use the excuse that the bar or club is loud and reach in closer and closer in the first few minutes of conversing with .

2. Keep your voice mellow
Don't shout. Don't talk too fast. Talk slow. Mellowing your voice tends to mellow out the other person. This is desirable given that you want to change her state from "strung out, scared and nervous" to " comfortable, relaxed and mellow" around you.
Space out your words. Whispering slowly in her ear will put her in the right trance for further seduction.

3. Do the Boob-touch
OK, so she is relaxed, enjoying the fact that you make her feel calm, the whispering is tingling her inside. Now you got to do the boob-touch. The Boob-touch is a very powerful technique to turn her on physically. What you do is, while you two are standing, you hold your glass against your chest in such a way that whenever you reach in to whisper in her ear, you "accidentally" rub your knuckles against her breast. Very, very subtly. She might not even notice it the first time. She may feel it was a quick accident.

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You then repeat it a minute later. Then again. Very subtly, spaced out, so it gives time to start enjoying it. Soon you will notice she will be reaching in to your knuckles, asking whatever question just so that it can happen again.

At this point, you can be sure that she is "ON" . You are ready to take her to the next level, and soon you two will be in bed.

Remember, during this conversation, what is happening is a lot more important that what is being said. The fact that you are whispering, mellowing her out and turning her on is what counts; not your story about the time you chugged a 40oz.

Just keep the conversation flowing in any direction, and soon she will be wanting more physical interaction, like kissing, hogging and caressing.

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How To Approach Women In Groups

2009-03-20T10:55:00.002+05:30

It's something that every dating book you'll be able to find will tell you not to do, especially if you have little experience with approaching women. It can be more nerve racking than introducing yourself to the hottest woman in the bar, and then blurting out the worst pickup line ever.

It's approaching a group of women, in case you didn't know, and it's not a fun thing to try. Why you would even want to torture yourself by approaching a group is beyond me.

But there are guys out there who, for one reason or another, find themselves faced with a quagmire. Do they let that group pass them by, or do they approach and see what happens?

Why Is a Group Less Approachable Than a Single Woman?

It's something that some women don't even mean to do, and the majority don't notice it – but when women are around other women, they often put on airs. Guys do it, too, but we'll deny it to our death beds. Simply put, women act different around other women.

Often times, this will including rejecting a man at first glance. For most of us, if we go in without knowing what we're doing, there's trouble. Best case scenario is that we get curtly and politely dismissed – worst case is that they're humiliated to the full extent.

It's tough, and it probably will never be very easy… but you can arm yourself with some things, so when you do approach a group, you won't be castrated on the spot.

Know Why You're Going Up To Them

Before you walk up – know why. Are you going because the girl on the left, in the pink top and blue jeans, is cute, and you'd love to talk to her? Are you looking to just hang out with them?

Know your objective going in, and work from there to that goal. If you go in blind, you'll be fumbling, and not know what to do or say. Women can be like a pack of wolves – they'll tear you apart.

Don't Put on an 'Act'

A lot of guys try to be 'all that'… the cocky, sure kind of confidence that they think every girl likes. The problem with is that your cocky confidence comes off as fake, mostly because it is, and a woman knows when you're acting fake… even if you can fool one, do you honestly think you can fool five, eight, or even ten?

Instead, be yourself. It takes a lot more guts to be yourself in front of women then it would to put on an act, and they certainly realize that.

Single a Girl Out

Eye the crowd before you go to take the plunge. Know what girl you want on your arm by the end of the night, and have a 'back up' in mind. This means if, for one reason or another, she's not interested in you, you're not standing there looking like an idiot.

Having a 'back up' girl also means that, if she brushes you off or has a boyfriend, you're going doomed to going home alone. Besides, attractive women often flock together, and it never hurts to have a back up plan.

Overall

It's going to be hard, and no matter how smooth you are, or how good you look, you're going to get torn to bits at least once. Remember that the groups opinion isn't a reflection on the girl, and chances are, if you approach her alone, you'll get a better response.

But it doesn't hurt to try, and you never know… the bigger the group, the more chances you'll have of going home with someone special.

Dating Tips For Shy Guys

2009-03-20T10:54:00.000+05:30

Dating seems to come naturally for some guys. It's like they're born with it, or something. But with some guys, especially if they're shy, it just doesn't come to them. Dating tips for shy guys are usually few and far between, too. Most websites and books presume you're outgoing and good looking, and have no trouble just walking up to a woman and professing their undying love.

Well, for us guys who can't muster the courage to ask that cute girl to pass the salt, there's hope. I've compiled some dating tips for shy guys that I myself have found helpful, so that you don't have to worry… I've got to covered.

Your Secret:
Women Love Shy Men

It's true, I'm not making this stuff up. Women simply adore guys that are shy, and honestly I'm not sure why. It's something about the way we act, think, blush, and smile that just drives them crazy… and it's been shown that most guys that are shy actually make a better man in a long term relationship.

This is your secret weapon – remember it every time something happens, positive or negative, with a girl. You are what the majority of women want, so don't lose that shy, quiet, introverted side of you.

Taking Small Steps

No one expects you to be the next great pick up artist by tomorrow, so don't expect it of yourself. Instead, start small, and realize that it takes time to become good with women.

Start with just a smile to the hot – and even not so hot – girls around you, whether it's in the mall or in a club. This makes you look approachable, and friendly. You might even find that you run into a girl who doesn't mind coming and talking to you first, which is great experience for making conversation.

After you're comfortable flashing a smile, you can start going up to women, just saying hi, or even just starting a small conversation and then going away… you don't need to get her number just yet. Work on being comfortable approaching first.

Women are People, Too

A lot of guys, and this is something that dating tips for shy guys make note of a lot, put women up on a pedestal. They tell you to see women as this untouchable Goddess of sex and beauty, but really, it's sort of silly.

Women love feeling special, and cared about, and love being treated well… but over-sexualizing them, or attaching a special significance onto them, makes them uncomfortable. And if you start to act like they're above you, they're going to start to feel like they're too good for you, too.

Instead, treat women like an equal – they're people, and most women will respond to being treated as a real person a lot better than some sort of Goddess sent from heaven.

Overall…

Most dating tips for shy guys are crap, and tell you to change. You don't have to change, because there's nothing wrong with you the way you are. Be yourself, be friendly, and open up a bit.

What's the worst that can honestly happen?

3 Great Dating Tips for Shy Men

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Tips to Help You Meet the Girl of Your Dreams
We women often think all men are confident, sure of themselves and have no problems getting women. Some men are like that, but many aren't. I've met a lot of shy men throughout my life and almost all of them have had no idea how to meet women, or what to say if they do meet a woman they
like. So, from a woman, here are my Top 5 Tips to help shy guys meet women.

1. Don't try to meet women in bars. The most important tip I think there is. Just like women don't usually want to meet a potential boyfriend in a bar, I wouldn't recommend trying to meet a potential girlfriend in one. Bars are loud, smoky and usually full of people who are quite drunk. You're not only usually going to find more of a Party Girl in a bar, but you're also likely to be disappointed when you meet her in the daylight. In the bar, in her drunken stupor, you may have looked like somebody she wanted to get to know better. In daylight, things and people can look very different. There's no point setting yourself up for disappointment before you even start so - avoid the bars!

2. Join a few clubs. At first, don't even worry about trying to find a girlfriend. Just sign up for a few clubs or classes that YOU might find interesting. Walking clubs, movie nights, political organizations, dog walking groups, sports clubs, French classes, cooking classes, computer classes - they're all places where, most importantly, you'll probably make some new friends. They're also places where you might meet an interesting woman and surprise surprise, when you do, she'll probably have something in common with you.

3.When you do meet a woman you like, don't think about her as a possible girlfriend. The secret to a great relationship is to be the best of friends. If you meet a woman you think you might like, get to know her first. Put it out of your head that she might be a potential girlfriend or wife. Instead, learn more about her, enjoy her company and have fun.

When you do this, the woman is less uncomfortable or threatened and she'll let her guard down, and you won't be worrying about trying to impress. That way, you'll both be having a great time before you know it and who knows what might happen?

DATING TIPS FOR BOYS

2009-03-20T10:48:00.000+05:30

Reading her Body Language

Well who cares whether she is interested in you or not? You will soon get her interested in you! But why not have fun along the way? Watch her body reveal her thoughts as she moves from indifference towards affection. Here are some of the most obvious things you could be looking for!

Her lips:

* Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
* Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
* She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
* She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
* She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.

Her eyes:

* She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
* She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.
* She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
* While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
* Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you.

Her hair:

* She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking motion.
* She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
* She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.

Her clothing:

* If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
* The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
* She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better.

While she is seated:

* She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
* She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
* She is sitting with her legs open.
* She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh.
* Her legs are rubbing against each other.
* Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.
* Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.

Her hands:

* She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
* While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
* She rubs her wrists up and down.
* She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts.
* She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way
* She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table.
* She plays with her jewellery, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
* She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you (in case you already haven't started yourself, dumbass).
* She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.

Her voice

* She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
* She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
* She laughs in unison with you.
* In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

Micellaneous:

* She mirrors your body language and body positions.
* Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
* She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
* She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear, just like in junior high school.
* She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly thrust forward.
* At a party - every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you move to another spot, soon she appears out of nowhere again, you catch her glancing in your general direction (actually, glancing at YOU dummy!:), she bumps into you. accidentally, touches you. accidentally etc:)

When talking to a girl, these are some of the more important signs to watch for:

* Can you keep conversation going with her?
* Does she react well to Does she touch you?
* Does she laugh?

Well if the answers to most or all of these questions is "YES" you really don't need further guidance. do you?

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Love Tips for Boys

2009-03-20T10:45:00.000+05:30

Make a cassette tape of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!

Write her a poem (See our Romantic Poetry for inspiration)

Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.

Let her rest her head in your lap.

If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.

Let her wear your clothes. It's almost guaranteed she'll look better in one of your button down shirts than you do. (Kind of sexy too!)

If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.

Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.

Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.

Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

101 Flirting Hints for Girls

2009-03-20T10:44:00.000+05:30

1-When you talk to him, flip your hair gorgeous hair:]
2- Eye contact is fital, as everyone says. Look at him for a moment, and smile for another two, then wink with a grin and go back to doing or staring at whatever it was you were before.
3- If you're sitting; cross your leg, so your foot is pointing towards him, noramlly its a sign you like the person your foot is pointed towards. and it shows a little leg;]
4- When you don't know whether he likes you or not and you havnt talked to him for awhile.. Don't be the 1st one to do everything. Big wrongo, way to look desperado, definantly. But text him one day... and maybe 3-4days later another or call. If he doesnt reply after the 2-3try Don't waste your time, he probably wont ever return your messages.
5- When talking/flirting with a guy slightly lean towards him, it shows interest and not only in the subject but him too.
6- look fors:
*When a guys jaw is flexed it can mean he really wants to do somthing crazy to you:], or that he's sorely pissed; depending on the situation.
*If his veins are bumped with blood and you can see them popping out some, like he jsut went running, he's majorly turned on by you.
*If he keeps looking at your lips, hes so ready for a kiss
*And if you're alone with him and have a wall or somthing stable like that, surprise him by randomly grabbing low on his hips and pushing against him, like a boyfriend sandwich between U & the Wall. Full on arrousing him with a love-thirsty, leaveing him wanting more, kiss. Doesnt even have to be french, though that would deepens it, but deep and hard. Remember not to push TO hard, or you'll end up hitting his head or somthing and have his attention where you don't want.

LOVE MAKING TIPS FOR GIRLS

2009-03-20T10:43:00.000+05:30

Attitude :
cheek kiss

when ur gonna say hi to your crush give him a peck on the cheek and make good eye contact afterwards.That will make him wanna chase you.

Just wants a little attention (for girls or gay guys)

Dont be slutty, guys absolutely hate that, (except for the man whores, like T* at my school) they love it when they are the only one you give your attention to when your surrounded by friends trying to talk to you. I did this once when I was walking to my 3rd period one chick almost body sammed me with a hug and so did like 4 others, so my crush starts walking all alone (friggin' T* got in trouble for dry humping the waterfountain to show off (dont ask)towards me to go to his next period, so I looked directly at him and smiled at him until he passed beside me! He now tickles me and blushes every time we say something towards each other. Troy has learned his lesson about sexually harrasing water fountains lol.

*IMPORTANT TIP*

if ur a girl, u understand drama and how exciting or fun it may bee(unless u hate it like me), but guys are so NOT into drama so if the subject pops up around him mention,(pretend)tht u hate drama and tht its so not kool. he'll commend you for it.trust me!

a good way to make him smile!!

when im with a boy i always get close to their 6-pack by askin if theyre ticklish. no matter wat they say u absoloutly HAVE to tickle him! then u have to say something like "hmmm is that a 6-pack a feel" then he will flex it and let u feel! this works for like all the guys at my school

This tip was submitted by an anonymous visitor to our website.

HTML Goodies

2009-01-08T13:56:00.001+05:30

HTML Goodies (http://www.htmlgoodies.com/) is one site that every web developer should bookmark. Although intended primarily for new-
to intermediate-level developers, the material is sufficiently up to
date to be of some use even to advanced web designers.
There is a large selection of tutorials, some as basic as setting up a
first web site and an explanation of what HTML, http and ftp mean, and
others dealing with issues as complex as passwords, cookies, and
security. The tutorials cover such essentials as refreshing a
page to direct users elsewhere, aligning text, creating image maps,
setting style for form elements, incorporating cascading style sheets,
linking to a database, embedding sound – and much, much, much
more. Most importantly, not only do these tutorials explain terms
and procedures, they include snippets of script which may be
incorporated directly into the developer’s own web pages.
As well as the tutorials, there is a large collection of primers –
detailed series of basic lessons on such topics as Perl and cgi,
javascript, cascading style sheets, asp, and sql.
If the tutorials and primers are not enough, the newsletters, articles,
and discussions boards are there to provide extra assistance and to
generate more ideas for the user’s own web sites. And if the new
designer gets stuck, HTML Goodies has brought together a group of
volunteer mentors to answer questions by e- mail; their names,
qualifications, and e-mail links are all available on the site.
HTML Goodies uses a left-side vertical menu which makes the site very
simple to navigate. The most important menu link is “the master
list”, which contains links to all the site’s articles, every one of
which is jargon-free and easy to understand.
Wondering what dot net is all about? This is your site.
Want to create frames? Understand the web-safe colour
palette? Alternate colours in a drop-down list? Write a
simple VB script? This is your site. If you are a web
developer, visit once and you will return again and again.
And you will bookmark this site.

Medical Web Site Design : -- Medical Websites Have a Thirst for Profe

2009-01-08T13:51:00.000+05:30

Since the past few years, medical profession has gradually taken shape of an internet venture. The online surveys conducted throughout the world point to the fact that, eighty percent of the adult internet users and millions of people around the world are regularly looking for the answers to their health related queries on internet.This has become a very common problem, when you don’t find a solution to your health problem even after consulting many practitioners. At this moment geographical constraints prove to be the greatest hurdle in your way. In such situation, medical websites act as bliss.
Here you find solutions for even those health problems, which have never ever been discussed. One is able to get a medical advice from the health experts from the different corners of the world.
But the problem is how to locate the most efficient medical websites, when there is no outcome despite digging out search engines. On the hands of medical websites, what is the use of being the most efficient medical Website, when you couldn’t achieve the significant place on search engines? Here comes the turn of medical website design. Medical website design is the only solution to enhance the visibility. This is only medical website design which can bring you the top most rankings on search engine.
The glorious example of medical website design is the speed surgery medical website being designed by a leading medical website design firm. "Speedy Surgery" is a medical company, which stepped into internet to facilitate people with health related guidance and to reply to their health queries. No doubt that they have the experts, who are the best in their respective fields. But still anybody was least aware of this medical website. Due to the lack of online visibility, absence of professional hands from medical website design firm, regular hits on this site were nominal, until the website owner contacted a leading medical web design company Miracle Studios.in
This can be called the maiden step of Miracle studios into medical website design field. No doubt that it proved to be a boom! Speed surgery is a spectacular website. Miracle studios gave a new success filled life to this site, by giving it entirely a new look. Miracle studios insisted the entrepreneur Mr. Alfred too, to join them, while they were making a draft plan. This way, both the creative brains of Miracle and Mr. Alfred developed a better understanding of actual requirements.
Nobody cares about an insipid and dull looking website, thus medical website design becomes necessary here. Miracle studios realized its flavorlessness and gave it a look which is compelling enough to capture an eye. The most appealing factor of medical website design is that the site should be in accordance to the style and tone of the content. Though, there were various mistakes in the content, but after it received miracle’s touch, it successfully accessed the target audience.
Mr. Alfred, the owner of this website, too agrees that medical website design has spread some magical sparkle on his website, as the outcome is truly difficult to resist.
Kindle take a glimpse of Speedy Surgery's website
Now, other professionals of the medical industry, after witnessing the success of speedy surgery,too have recognized the urgency of medical website design.
No doubt that they can rely upon Miracle’s medical website designs. As, they know catching the right nerve..

2009-01-08T12:07:00.000+05:30

Hack Gmail or Orkut Passwords in Seconds

2009-01-08T12:05:00.000+05:30

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Internet Marketing

2009-01-03T14:11:00.000+05:30

Blog Success, created by founders Jack Humphrey and Peter Lenkefi, is a supercharged site dedicated to training people how to make money blogging
. Jack and Peter stumbled into the bloggosphere several years ago and saw a world with vast amounts of potential. They realized bloggers were finding ways to make money rather than just using them to keep a diary. After years of scouring the internet for information, conversing with other bloggers, and researching and testing their own finds, they created Blog Success. Blog Success is now the most complete blogging training center on the internet today. This website just may be the largest blogging site on the web, focused on superior blogging training and created to suit beginners as well as pros.
Blog Success has an awesome online training center
, powerful software, and a tremendous resource library that can help you make money from blogging immediately, from your first post onwards. They break down their training in to 5 keys to success: Mindset, content, traffic, monetization and technical. This is the real deal, and it’s very impressive. You learn from successful bloggers, you create and develop attractive content, you will learn the latest techniques for getting lots of traffic, you will understand how to make the most money with your site and you will learn how to get hosting, a domain name and everything else to set you up. Blog Success found the missing links to over-the-top successful blogging.

Another impressive part of Blog Success is their powerful intelligence gathering software tool called “blog talk monitor feedback”. This tool finds very useful information and it finds it very quickly, it’s nearly an information overload. Bloggers always need useful information, so this tool is perfect for helping bloggers produce content. You can also leave comments and get resources and use the program to find many new contacts.

Jack Humphrey and Peter Lenkefi really exploit all the possibilities and potential of professional blogging. They have an in depth training center focusing on the “5 keys to success”, they have superior software, an outstanding resource library, and an incredibly helpful software tool which is absolutely free. A great quote from the creator: “Blogging is something you have to love, it cannot be something you do to make money. That’s what garbage collectors do, they have a job, it makes them money. It’s not a job intended to be loved”. So, if blogging is what you crave, if blogging is what you love, then Blog Success is for you.

On Course Strategies for Creating Success in College and Life

2009-01-03T14:10:00.000+05:30

Dr. Skip Downing answers an educator’s prayer by creating a textbook that inspires students to success by adopting eight personal characteristics. These principles are those embedded skills we, as teachers, desire in our students but often either feel inadequate to teach or feel that students should possess before entering our classroom. These are the basic eight characteristics that will keep our students on course in our classroom as well as in their career and relationships. “By doing this activity, I have learned that when I take full responsibility for my life I can’t put the blame on anyone else. It makes me feel mature and like I’m in control. It also helps me know I’m on course with my life.” N.H., Mayland Community College (MCC) College Student Success graduate.Imagine your students accepting personal responsibility, discovering their own motivation, acquiring self-awareness as well as course content, mastering self-management, employing interdependence, developing a healthy, mature emotional intelligence, adopting life-long learning and believing in themselves. Beginning with an in-book or on-line self-assessment of the above eight principles, students are directed to reflect deeply through 31 journal prompts, as well as given a variety of hands-on activities, such as The Wise Choice Process and the 32-Day Contract, to help keep them on course with these important behaviors and beliefs. Students are empowered through recognizing victim/creator language and their inner voices and scripts, as well as learning how to set goals in order to fulfill their dreams. “I learned in this class how important your Inner Critic, Inner Defender, and Inner Guide is in your life. Your IC and ID always blame yourself or others, but your Inner Guide always gives you a positive answer, a true answer, to every negative situation. My Inner Guide will always be my best friend from here on out because it will help me make better decisions that will reflect on my life and that makes me happy to know.” J. H., MCC College Student Success graduate.By utilizing case studies to encourage critical thinking and stimulate class discussion, this textbook could be the basis for any first-year experience course as well as a supplement for English, Psychology or Critical Thinking classes. Topics such as emotional intelligence and interdependence assist in creating desired experiences and outcomes in college as well as life.Each page is chocked full of inspiring quotes. Critical topics are simply but thoroughly addressed such as managing money, using mnemonics for optimal learning, handling stress, taking effective notes, and maximizing the utilization of technology. The final chapter provides the opportunity for the student to re-assess his/her ability to effectively use the eight principles of successful students.Personal testimonies from North Carolina Community College instructors include, “Skip’s book is short but to the point. It changes students and the way they live their lives.” “Finally, a textbook that addresses the principles of success beyond the course content.” With the contemporary focus on the Law of Attraction and using visualization to achieve the desires of one’s heart, this book is not only an excellent choice for any educator to implement in his/her course content, but a great ‘self-help’ for anyone desiring to create the life he/she desires to live.“Most classes just teach you the material that is related to the class topic, and sometimes that gets boring. This class keeps you on course to your goals and dreams, and helps you to take on these other classes in a positive manner. You come to face reality about yourself, and it makes you think of where you stand as an individual.”J.H., MCC College Student Success graduate.

Www.What-Women-Want-From-Men.Com

2009-01-02T18:26:00.001+05:30

Lots of people have problems with sex at some point in their lives. You guys emotionally present for women when you both are between the sheets. You can feel highly fulfilled if the connection with your partner is strong, and often find that a loving session of touching, cuddling, and kissing is as satisfying as an orgasmic encounter.This is a very interesting site. You will be very gainer to visit this site Learn how to restore the honesty, safety and trust back into your relationship (even if your partner isn't yet willing) it leaves nothing out in describing and analyzing you and your partner and the relationship that you share. In addition, it gives you suggestions on how to make your relationship better by building on its strengths.Find out exactly what your relationship has and needs. How to become an expert in the practice of sex. . Here you will find many suggestion tools to make him yours & keep him forever by being yourself. How to become an expert in the practice of sex. Exploring the Spiritual Union between Male and Female
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The Art of Happiness at Work

2009-01-02T18:23:00.000+05:30

Job, Career, and CallingThe Art of Happiness at Work have made by extensive conversations psychiatrist Howard Cutler with the Dalai Lama. They have teamed the discussion about what makes life meaningful and How to find happines in the place where we spend most of our time. Actually, people mostly runs their lives in work, wether it's in the home or at an office. In the book The Art of Happiness, His Holiness the Dalai Lama spread his words and wisdom and massage of inner peace and captured the imagination of America.
In this book, basically explores these, arguably the best research on attitude and general orientation toward work was a 1997 study conducted by Dr. Amy Wrezesniewski, an organizational psychologist and professor of business at New York University, which showed that workers are generally divided into the three levels of focus or distinct categories:
1. The first group views work as just a Job. Their primary focus is on financial rewards like salary or wage that the work brings.
2. The second group of individuals views work as a Career. The primary focus of them is on advancement. They are motivated by prestige, social status, and the power that comes with titles and higher designations at work.
3. The third category is those who view their work as a Calling. The people in this category are focus on work as a higher purpose. They do the work for the sake of the work itself. There is less separation between their job and the other aspects of their life.

For this situation, The Dalai Lama reflected. "There is always a way to find a higher purpose to one's work. Of Course, There may be some individuals who may not need to work because of their special financial circumstances. Under such circumstances, they can enjoy their freedom and enjoy the privilege they have, and that's one thing. But among those who need to work to make a living, then it is important for these individuals to recognize that, first of all, they are part of a society. They are members of the human society that they are living in. And also, they should recognize that by actively participating in this workforce, in some way they are acting out their role as a good citizen in their society, a productive member of society. And in this way, they can realize that indirectly they are making a contribution to the entire society. So if they think along these lines, then they can see some purpose in what they are doing that is beyond just providing a means of livelihood for themselves. That alone can be enough to give them a sense of purpose, a sense of calling. And this idea can be reinforced if they simply ask themselves, What is the other alternative? Just hanging around. Then there is the danger of drifting into some unhealthy habits, such as resorting to drugs, being part of a gang, or acting as a destructive member of society. So, there, not only are you not contributing to the society that you live in, but in fact you are undermining the very stability of the society that you are part of. If any worker thinks along those lines, they will see a higher purpose to their work."
Then finally, each of us has the capacity to cultivate greater work satisfaction by transforming focus a job into a calling.

INFOLINKS linking text to revenue

2008-12-31T19:22:00.001+05:30

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Re-Create Magic With Website Redesign

2008-12-31T11:38:00.001+05:30

You might have created highly attractive website design that initially got profitable business to your company. But as we all are aware internet is a dynamic place, so relevant changes are required after certain time interval. It holds true even for your website design. After some time period your website design might look old when compared to newly designed websites. At this stage of point instead of creating a new website, opt for its makeover which is popularly known as ‘website redesigning’. Website Redesign keeps you ahead in the race of luring in new customers and sustaining back the old ones as well. But how do you determine that your website needs a facelift (redesigning)? Have a look at your website as a customer and decide by yourself without getting biased. It would help in identifying which areas of your website needs change, addition or modification. Many times only color alteration or content change does the work but sometimes website needs to be redesigned completely. For example- Your website is having just plain content and a few images, now you want to give it a high-tech look by adding attractive color scheme, flash presentations or animation. Here arises the need of website redesigning.
Firstly hire well-reputed and reliable website Design Company, tell them your exact requirements and what type of changes you are looking for. Ask them about suggestions and tips that could make your website more attractive. Prepare website redesign layout that covers all aspects to be covered including colors, images, fonts, background, etc. When a website’s business expands you might require adding new web pages, editing existing ones or removing the existing ones. Keep in consideration your competitors and redesign accordingly to get ahead of them.
You can include all features and elements in the redesigned website that you were unable to do in the original website. The home page should be to-the-point and contain necessary information that can hold on the site visitor and encourage them to browse other pages as well. Website redesigning gives the chance to overcome and eliminate any faults or drawbacks of the original website.
Place manageable links in your website that is being redesigned, it can be done by putting up easily accessible navigation menu. If the visitors are not able to find links they would be irritated and log on to your competitors’ website! Put all the online information in a systematic manner on your website so that it gives professional look to your website and help visitors locate information.
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www.multiply.com

2008-12-31T11:34:00.000+05:30

One of the world's most user-friendly social networking site which allows people to connect and share media files such as photos, music, videos and blogs in as easy as ABC.One need not to be a lunatic to be able to make use and take advantage of this network, just a few click and a one time registration, you're ready to go!
Launched in 2004, Multiply now, has almost 11 million registered users worldwide!
Multiply allows its users to have a personalized website for free. You can customize its look through CSS and pre made layouts available in the web.
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So why wait? Connect and enjoy blogging!