Blog of Valentina

Dont make the bed if you cant lie in it

2011-11-09T12:14:00.003+01:00

Wow. some people are more then stuped, really and sence they are calling me for nasty tings then that only proofs that they are still playing in the sand box along with 2 year old kidz. Some people might change , this person in pperticlar will not hahha at least not what i belive. Well when most people dring they drink until they are more then drunk. Let us say that since someone with more authority got to know some fact then now the blame in on me. Really? i am not the one that makes other problems. really. i know some people that are blonds that are smart but others are not! Why make your own bed when you cant lie in it ? I have honestly forgoten about updating you all. i have alot of essays to write and so much to read. i have been at my university and haning around campus. well. its time to go to my lecture..

Its my birthday !! Hapy birthdayday to moi

2011-09-06T14:00:00.000+02:00

Here we are again, lovely to see you all again after all these days. I havent been active much in my blog afte begining my 5 ths semester in university. All has been so confiusing as funny as usuall. On the first day i got to learn that me and my coursemate from earlier Å.P were to be with the students thats had theyr focus on childcare from the ages 1 to 5 years. We got to learn that i were to go with the teathers. while me and my mate were to have our focus on after school activitys. ITs like childcare for school kids instead. I dont know how to buscribe this in english. The swedish word is FRITIDSPEDAGOG. When i use the google translater i get RE CREATION LEADER. I dont know if i want to agree on the word beeing correctly translated. Last night before going to bed i was doing a seach on what happend on my birthday in diffrent years. The most strongest event i remmeber is that in 1997 my birhtday became the official funural day for the public when the princess of wales, Lady Diana died few days earlier in a car crash at the age of 37 in paris, france. 10 years later the great tenor Luciano Pavarotti died. In my homecountry Chile my birthday doenst mean anything besides that it was under the hands of the dictator Pinochet. many peole are beeing tortured and killed everyday aswell as beeing desapered and yes my father was one of the many people. This and it would stop until a bit after my 10 year birthday. Click here for more information on what happend on september 11, 1972 in Chile. Its from the article from wikipedia. My Birthday celibration began during sunday morning when my great and wonderful fella woke me up at 8 o clock with breakfast in bed and singing the happy happy birthday song :) . During the day i got some visits from my family for coffie and cake. This day when it its my official birthday or as my brother would say, it isnt my birthday until after 16 o clock when i was actually born. hahaha So what to do on this fine fine day? i have my head filled with theroys coz i have to read and write a paper / essay on the subjet were the focus is on Basil Bernstein an english sociologist and Piedde Bourdieu and french sociologist and an anthropologist. ITs fun to read about them but write about my own school experience and having them in mind wow, it makes my head filled with more questions and more understanding on why some pupul / students are woing well in school and why some arent. I think this time i have toughen up. I see all with other eyes. well My birthday hahah well i start with having cake and coffie now while i read the essay and what i need to be prepared for tomorrow.

This is the amount we have to read and be prepared for every lecture, before i was more in to that i couldnt do it and feeling sorry for my self. Nowdays i simply say BRING IT ON !

work, meetings and thougths

2011-08-16T19:11:00.000+02:00

Hey you all.
This day have been Okay, not the the best bet pretty ok. Last night before going to bed at 1 o clock i had my meal before the ramadan began for the day. Well, this day i had cold while working. i even had to put on my jumper and the coat i have for when it rains. I did pretty okay , not amazing but i am plesed to be able to do good. I only have this as a extra job to make an se xtra inocome becouse i alrady have my sweet rear end occupied with my university studdys.
I am really look forward in begining my studdys again. To be able to read and write and make not only myself proud but my family aswell.

I got a message from the father of my child saying he couldnt have the child during the next weekend on the 27 of this month. He were to go on a trip. Well its normal but for him, well let us just say that he never ever want to make up for last time with his child so he just let it be or he eather waits for someone to give him the service having it solved. Well that aint never gonna happen from my part. It would be nice for him to have someone to knock in some good sence in him but the candidate i found was a guy. :) Thankz for the thought Jeaneth N !! I am still laughting about it hahah

The other thing that bugs me is that the father of my child dont put any priority to for the meetings that our child is involved in. Tomorrow we have a meetting with his new school and the new people that will be working with L during the fall and the spring. He dont have the time. Well he do have time to work and making that a priority but not his child. wow. really what can u say about that besides that its sad.
My child has learnt from this that its okay to be with his dad during saturdays but not to trust him more then that. He has also learnt that since my fella is always there for L he has learnt that my fella A is always there in every moment. The conclution is that he now calls my fella for extra bonus daddy and has leart that my fella A sees him as his son. ITs true love and a love realtionship they have gotten. I havent been influensing my child at all in the matter on what opinon he are to have agains A and about his own father. This has come natural to know from him self to make his own opionion and thougths about them both. All i can do is support him and tell my child he is loved by all of the family he give my name. I am very happy ro be able to have my child full time, its a blessing really to be able to see all of his moments and to have someone as my fella to experience it with.

Now i am off to see the PINK PANTER with my Child on TV.

Signed up for 5 ths semester & Ramadan

2011-08-15T15:18:00.000+02:00

Hi all.
I have now signd up for my 5 th semeser in university and to be honest with you i am a bit scarred on the fact its to another city i am not used to. Well let see how it will turn out but be sure i see this in a very positiv way. I have began to look for the books i need in a very short time. Most of them is not cheep but there is the thing on borrowing them from the local librery. =)

It´s 2 weeks left of the ramadan and for the first time i am not feeling any headache that i normaly do but now i feel cold all the time.
i have gain innerpower when i can indeed survive may day without coffie. I am on a rehab for coffie hahah that is really funny.
I usually drink in home with my fella but now when he isnt in home waiting for me i dont drink coffie at all.

Sunday

2011-08-14T20:15:00.000+02:00

Its sunday and i have been givin my child my full attention. I must say that i enjoyed spending time with him after being apart from him for 3 weeks.
My child is happy playing as i am getting his room ready for bedtime. Well its most me that i dont have nothing to do so why not sort out olf cloths that doesent fit him and get the toys aswell that he doesnt play anymore with. I must say for a 8 year old child, he seems to have much more things then i have. I am a typical girl that likes to get things for the home and for myself. Whenever my child is playing in his room, it looks like he plays with ALL of his toys in the same time. I must add that he does clean up in his room making it look very nice.

Just spoke with my fella and i am very happy that we have msn and SKYPE coz nowdays your only a click away in meeting your family member when he or she is in another part of the country or other place in the world. =)

During saturday i had one of the best days i have had in a long time. The diffrence were that i had coffie with my friend J and his child. In the same time i had my laundry service. So every hour i would go back home to do the laundry and then to get back to my visit. Really it was funny but in the same time it was needed from my part. Having coffie at a friends home was gold for me.

Thank you J, Drink coffie again is someting we must do again soon.

3th day

2011-08-11T09:11:00.000+02:00

God morning you all!

Day 3 of the ramadan for me.

2011-08-10T15:11:00.000+02:00

you know u wish sometimes u lived somewere else.Well now that moment has come. Were to move? well what about to another country? well if i do that then i would be hearing from my mother. To another city , yes why not. Maybe i just need to have a vacation now. Wait i will have vacation.In december. muahahhaah and i will do something extra fun aswell. Wish i could tell you but i cant, no wait i will but i wont :P

2011-08-10T12:56:00.000+02:00

Hi all.

My lunch has been spent outside the lovely weather and having to try to get a tan. The pivtures of the sight will be publish soon.
The ramadan has now entered for me in a shape of a headache. I will last until i end my days ramadan with dinner with my child.

2 Days of my ramdan

2011-08-10T09:08:00.000+02:00

Hello all!

Yesterday i had my first day of the fast. I thought it would be a bit more harder but it was okay until i got home and beganw ith the dinner for my child. I spoke with a friend that is also doing the ramdan to ask my bff ( best friend forever) about my concerns i had. If i dont eat with my child then i would have my own child not eating that if i would do that then it would be all ego from my part. I do this for my self withour having my child involved. So therefor i have decided to do the ramadan from the start when it begins but i end the days fast abour 4,5 hours earlier. Then i have my child eating iand i have done my fast for the day in my way.

One of the thinking of the ramdan is to show kidness and think of others that arent that lucky to have food for the day likef or exampl in africa now where ther is a dry period. I heard the comercial this morning in the radio that if i donate 15€ (150 swedish crowns) then that would be enought to feed one family for 10 days! since i have misssed the first 8 days i will show my thinking on other ways and one of them is to donate little money.

Now the work begins so i will update you all later during the day.

CARS 2- movie and lack of sleep.

2011-08-05T22:54:00.000+02:00

Hi all.
I have been so sleepy at work that i been yarning in peoples hears on the phone this day. The reso was that one of my neougbours decided to have one of the ebst party ever and for some reson that has to go out on us others. I belived that the people living more close the them would call and complain and asking them to turn down the volume abit but noooo. The turnout of this was a very sleepy me at work with a bad mood. i did only tre deals but i was not making no aruments what so ever nor did i give oyt many smiles. Well the kithchen situaton was one thng but that has been all been taking care of. I fel pretty good about making the work were all go or enter so many times in a day is finaly beeing cleand. Now for some reson i had my last anger in the mess i took it out on the refrigerator. I asked the daycoach to write a note that said that if the food or the things wasnt taken care of until friday it will al be in the trashcan with no mercy. I am nor really doing this to look good to the boss but it simoy bothers me sooo much that if i dont deal with it i will not be fully concetrated. LAst time i did this was last week and i made 4 deals with in 30 minutes i belive. And that my fans are very good.

When i got home from work i was soo happy to be in the arms of my fella. I had soem coffie and some food and i fell right asleep in his arms. He was suprised to see me so tired coz mostly iam happpy to be home and not sleepy. I slept for 2 hours. The cinema was next in the agenda with my family and that was soo lovely. My Child was so funny, he said he wanted and needed to get home to see something on tv insted but i said no. i wanted to found out how the move would and and so he agreed. We were seeing " CARS 2" It was very good and with a powerful soundtrack music aswell as pixar studios always succed to do. But what i didnt like was the gun episode. Was that really neccesery?

Dont ge me wrong here. i liked seeing the movie but the little gun that was int he movie was not somehting that i think didnt belong in a Pixar studio produced movie.

The ramadan

2011-08-04T12:46:00.000+02:00

Greetings my fans.
Drinking my amazing coofie at work coz i fel a headache is on its way will minimized it. Thinking also that ramadan has been going on on for 3 days alerady and this day have entered the 4:th day. For 3 years ago i did this from the begining until the end. That inliced doing the ramadan on my birthday. Thinking that this time i would do it again but forgot compleatly about it until the secund day of the Ramadan. During the ramadan its not aloowed to eat or drink, nor smoke not taking any medication waht so ever if your really sick of course you are not aloud to do the ramadan. I miss it and will do this again but i must first get my ramadan scedual so i will know when i will eat. It will begin next week for me. Its a good time to think of others who doesnt get to eat everdya and those less fortuned.

Now iam at work beeing bored out really and wanting to not be at work. but since i do well and i am littering making someone anoid just of my pressents that can give ma a smile too but thats really a devuls smile and i am not greedy what so ever.

A few pointers about my work that arre todyas laugh

2011-08-03T12:58:00.000+02:00

Hi you all my fans!
It´s the second day of the week and i have already have had my fun at work. The dishwasher turned crazy! Really, i an´t kidden you. I had to have ordinary dishwashing soap in the mashin to get everything cleaned. After 5 hours the maschin was still doing the dishes but halv of the kitchen was with soapbubbles all over the floor. It was really funny for me and the day coach. We got a break a´nd did we get any help for the other few guys that did turned up? NO. They all belived their mother worked there or that the company has got people specificly to clean after them all.
I found plates and mugs everywere at the working station as far as 2 weeks in time. Yes it was smelly. You could expected that the summer wiorkers that despies of their young age would inded clean after them selfs.

Another things that is funny about work is the coffie mashin is to beleved has a life on its own coz sometimes the mashin have made some coffie and ohter times it hasnt. Hahaha

I do what i neeed to do and what ever i like to do i do coz i still make the the job done, My job get done despite that i do many more things.

My weekend

2011-08-01T13:38:00.000+02:00

I have been sick for some days and so i called the doctor asking what was wrong with my body. The anwser i got was it was my period was a bit off. I got on bedrest. It helped. To friday i was okay, i was no longer vomiting couse of my blood-period.

Me and my family woke up early to have a day in Kalmar. We were headed to the castle and to visit the city but the rain was coming on and off and my child was on a tantrum mood that i had no ide was about. One thing he was angry for not beeing able to go to the toystoy in town and when we said a bit later on that we are to go ther for him he was angry coz we were going and for some toye he belived wernt for sale. Well it was but the toy- store had it not on a good price. 60€ was the cost. NO child gets that . maybe they get 10€ a month or week but still , its a lot of money.
We had so much fun and me and my fella waled aroung the castle in kalmar and beeing amazed on the history. My child did the tour on his own with my mother. and beeing amazed of everything else but the guid had to say. All he said was .. " That was a pretty princess, Next thing?!

During sunday me and my fella had a movie date. We went to the cinema and say " Bad teather" It was really great. funny and ironic. Another way to see theaters haha.

Tuesday... with a bit of sunshine and clowdy

2011-07-26T13:05:00.000+02:00

Its Tuesday with a bit of sunshine and clowdy this day.
I have been up and beeing on the go. I did everything i was sepose to do in the morning and mostly becouse i dont like to do nothing while i wait the clock to be time to leave the home.

Last night i had a wodnerful afternoon and evening with a friend and most of all with my fella. The best part was my fella invited me to have pizza with him. The evening was okay. The funny part was when i called her on her cellphone, she wrote me in sms that she didnt feel like talking. Guess what happend. The friend continue to talk with me by SMs!! Now tell me if that isnt talking but in another way? Anthjer thing taht has been on my mind is why some friends decieds to give you their analsys of our relationship when in the first place havent asked for it? Do i go do the same thing? no of course not but i could. I choose to be the more mature not givng a comment. Lord did i had to bite my tough not to say anything.
One friend has moved that is the better one to analyise just my relationship while hers is so perfect. Really i am happy that i dont have to meet her. It makes me sad that she has done this and the bad part is i dont think she is aware of the consequences it has given.

I Got a phonecall recently from my fella that he was asking me when i end my job. It was nice and very lovely to hear from my fella that he loves me and that he miss me.

I had a lovely chicken for lunch at work and it tasted fab. Now its back to work.

Monday begins with a headache

2011-07-25T09:10:00.000+02:00

Ay ay ay My monday mornings begin with a headache and the usual rutines with two cats creaming and running around next to my legs trying to get their food much faster. I don´t know eather what will happend during this day. This day begins also at work beeing anoid for what doesnt gets done but that is something isnt getting under my skin when i got help. My headache is the only ting is still left making my day not the best.

Let see how i can make some moeny this day with a headache.

Bakery

2011-07-23T18:53:00.000+02:00

Its saturday evening and i have my beloved child at home. He is playing and running around the apartment , spinning himself dizzy becouse its fun.
" Home sweet home" were the words he said when he got inside.

I Did some more cleaning during my baking becouse Sylwester made his buissnes on the floor and ont he carpet! The cat did some vomiting aswell. He know its wrong but he looks at me with his angel eyes saying sorry owner.

This is what i produced in the kithchen out of boredness.

a comment makes u smile

2011-07-21T10:26:00.000+02:00

When i get i coment , it always makes me smile and when i got this coment i had a bigger smile then usually =)

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I have started my morning great with a fab breakfast. Usually in the morning i dont have time for that and if i do get little time i have a glas of orange or a glas with milk. Having my coffie now is wonderful.I never thought i were to be a person that have coffie but i have become what i have in the past never understood in other coffiedrinking people in the morning hahaha I alrady have becoma a bit like my mother so why not have coffie in the morning ?! HAHAHA

ANA - New bloger in the web aswell as my friend irl

2011-07-20T21:17:00.000+02:00

I have found another bloger that recently began to write and its the cuz of my other half, AKA my Fella. Visit her and leave her a coment.

The first time i meet her was during my visit in Albania when i vas to see my fella for the first time in real life. Yes i meet my fella on a webpage sort of like facebook but anyhow. me meet and we meet and yes we are still going strong together. I meet Ana the bloger during my one week visit and it was wonderful to meat a familemeber of my fella that knew english. I was lost and i was so thankful for the spansihs spekaing moments i got aswell as for the english spekaing moment i receved.
It was inded the best week i had ad my vacation. The best and guess what.I am going back there, dont know when but i will one day as anything else i have my mind set on to do.

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good day at work =)

2011-07-20T21:06:00.000+02:00

I have had the most funny day at work. I was freakingout in laught while i was working and to me, that worked fab. I got the work done and did what was expected of me. I cant tell you all about my day coz then i would be breaking the etics in my blog. I dont revil to much but enought so you all get to know me and keeping what ever i need to have private, will be private. ;)

This is me simply playing with the cam and i was totaly bored out. haha This is how i look like with NO make-up !

Hope you all hade a great day..

Where in the world is my PMA! ?

2011-07-19T15:22:00.000+02:00

You know how some people have bad habits, mine i have just descovered. It´s when i am angry or even pissed speacially on someone. I have the attendency to deal with it with smoke. yes. i smoke when i am angry but only when i am angry. I dont smoke ,i hyperventilating while i smoke. So no it isnt good. When what tod o when am at work and i cant get to the gym to get off the stress. I need to be alone, to be close to someone, to cry.someone to confort me... Its to many things at the same time.. This is disturbing my positiv mental attetude. I Try, Lord do i try having a positive attetude.

Tuesday...

2011-07-19T09:00:00.000+02:00

It´s sunny outside but inside ther is thunder and tornado. The morning began good for me but ended bad. My other half didnt understand my joke so the nice morning i had was filled with commetns i rather not hear. Let see how it effects my word this day but i am not a happy camper today.

Breakfast at work now before begining. All i needed was a smile and a kiss before i left from my home. Let see when thsi day becomes a good one. The good energy isn´t with me. :(

Monday has ended.

2011-07-18T23:47:00.000+02:00

Its almost midnight and iam up listning to some music and having my thoughs in spansih!! Do not ask me how come becouase i don´t even know my self. SOmetimes my thoughts come sneaking up on me in another language and i get happy when they do. It s a bit sad that i dont speak my own language more on a daily base. The Reson is like i have told you before. ITs cos it doesnt come natural for me or that i have had the language more in my life. We havent been so great in speaking our language. Now when i even try my best to speak spansih i change after a very short moment back to swedish. I really do try speak the language with my Child but even he has limits on how often i can use it with him. Indeed i have the help to speak spansish with my child when my fella knows the language aswell so really isnt sepose to be this hard. Well for some reason IT is! Anyone that has a magic want to sprangle their magic on me? anyone ´? Okay leave some magic as coments and i be thankful for your thoughts for leaving them to me :)

MY Child called me and he made me cry of joy when he said he missed me alot and that he wanted me to come straight away for a 5 minute visit. I told him we could hang out during friday and i would end my job earlier on friday to be with him. He called to say good night and give some kisses on the phone so he could have a good night sleep. MY heart melt! I love his thinking and how he puts his thinking in to words. He is my wonderful tornado filled with happyness. I love that in him.

Time for some sleep. Tomorrow is a brand new day to not simply make mone at work but a good day overall.

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Good rainy day!

2011-07-18T13:05:00.000+02:00

The Rain is pooring down and inded i got wet becouse i didnt had my rain jacket with me during my lunch. But my lunch tasted great any how.
Really i do not know why i feel happy but i like it, i like it alto!

I have gotten many good compliments on my hair and its always nice that mi first ide didnt turn out but another magic happend that i got pleased with.

Here is the pic from yesterday.

Now the break is over so back to work :- )

Another colur on me

2011-07-17T00:33:00.000+02:00

I decided to have bit of a change and i bega with changing the colur of my hair. iwent from looking like a typical latin looking to a more scandnaviac look or what ever you might callit. TO be honest with you i thought the blond look on me would endin a desaster but it didnt.
Here are te before and after pictues.. Now tellme honeslty what you all think if it.

BEFORE

AFTER

According to m fella and coworker C, it looks great.
What do you think?

Last time i went compleatly blonde was when i was around 17- 19 years of age and i didnt went at all blond. My hair was orange like a carrot! Iam not kidden. Thats why i havent done my hair in a light shade.

It s past midnight now and what am ireally doing up? whell. I am seeing " SPORTACUS - BLOOD AND SAND

And no i am not seeingit because fo the guys bodys :P

Here is a clip that gives you an hint on what is about.

Happy Saturday !

2011-07-16T17:38:00.000+02:00

Hi all my fans.

LEt me talk about the horoscope. We are all born in a sign and y sign is the virgo. my other half , also knowns as my fella is born in another sign. Talking to a friend on facebook, he told me that in the same time that my fella and i dont to gother in sign we go great together in the same time. Why ? well is because the sign that my fella is needs some stability and my sign has that abilety to give that. This makes me happy. Life is geat and good and in other hand life is what u make of it. If use it from a critical vew, then guess what. thats how u have choisen to look at it. I havent read about my sign more in specific but i will and according to my friend from facebook, i will read coz alot of what he told me is what i am as a person.

I am at my mothers house and we are having a BBQ. i have bought all and this aturday is about my mom. She will have my child for not only the weekend but for 3 entire weeks. This is aq request made from my child so do not feel any sorry for him beeing apart from me. If u want to feel sorry then feel a bit sorry for me but not too much. =)
When my mom got home from her job. I had already done the cleaning , the dishes and done a sugercake and about to begin with the dinner. She ha a big smile on her face.

My own home is cleaned and simply the cats are making fights and making mess everywere. The big one, sylwester makes fights jsut becouse he is the older one and the little one, gustaf is teasing the older one. The consequense of this is the older cat is being tence at all times and even growling at me just for stroking him on his back. The summer is fun and indeed very relaxing. Its an art relaxing and not thinking about your job.