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Oh Wow, Major Fail!

2016-04-28T10:07:00.000-04:00

This is just too funny! Gotta wonder how the heck these mistakes happen!? LOL!

Triple Conch

2016-04-20T20:03:00.000-04:00

I LOVE my new piercing. It's a triple conch. It didn't hurt too bad but has hurt a bit during the healing process. It's about 2 weeks old now. This photo was taken right after it was done:

Fun Times With My BFF

2016-04-06T10:30:00.000-04:00

Yesterday, after some online shopping--looking for some cute inspirational gifts, then got some laundry done, and I got to see my BFF, Cherie :)

She and I went to Applebee's last night for our regular girls night out dinner. We picked Applebee's because last time we were there on a Tuesday they had karaoke and we got a huge kick out of watching 'Big Bad Chris' sing--only to find out, no karaoke at Applebee's anymore and that meant no more Big Bad Chris.

We had fun anyway!

Through a Rapist’s Eyes

2013-02-09T11:37:00.003-05:00

Please read...A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

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Dermalogica's Skinperfect Primer

2013-01-16T08:21:00.000-05:00

I'm always talking about how much I love Dermalogica products. Here is a short video about their Skinperfect Primer spf30. Watch, you'll understand my obsession :)

I Want a Hot Tub

2013-01-10T12:34:00.001-05:00

Hot tub, jacuzzi, whichever, I don't care. All I know is I want one! We have thought about closing in our porch an putting one there bu it's really too small. I saw this photo and realized this is exactly what we need!

WOW - gazebo kits! Why didn't I think of that? It's a no-brainer, really! With a gazebo, we can have the hot tub anywhere in the yard we choose!

Sky Lanterns Make Any Occasion Special

2013-01-10T11:57:00.000-05:00

Are you looking for something to make a holiday or special occasion exceptional without spending a lot of money? The answer is something that began in China many years ago. A tradition that started off as a bamboo frame covered in rice paper has turned into something much more sophisticated and more available to everyone around the world. The sky lantern adds a beautiful glow to any dark night, and can be used for so many events!

The most common celebrations where you can see sky lanterns are outdoor weddings. Large white or colored lanterns lend an elegant touch to such a meaningful occasion! Because fireworks stands now offer sky lanterns, a lot of people are trying them for their Fourth of July celebrations. After my neighbor purchased several very plain ones at a fireworks outlet for our New Year’s Eve gathering, we started looking for some online for the Fourth of July party. We not only found several American flag- patterned ones for the party, but also flag-colored lanterns for a military themed homecoming party - for three dollars cheaper!

Multi-colored assortments of sky lanterns can be used to make birthday parties more festive. These would also be great for any large group gatherings like early evening picnics, church barbecues, graduation celebrations, and garden parties. Heart shaped sky lanterns are available for engagement parties, and would also make a sweet Valentine’s Day even sweeter for that special someone! They would also be perfect for making a quiet, symbolic statement at a memorial service.

Sometimes when planning big or small events, people tend to run out of ideas. Often they are afraid that they can’t make their gathering unique because they’re on a tight budget or aren’t very creative. Sky lanterns are inexpensive, not to mention very uncommon and beautiful. They will help make any occasion not only special, but truly memorable!

More About Skin Care and Makeup

2012-10-23T14:52:00.003-04:00

I found a really cool beauty/skin care site, “Best Skin Care Products” - it covers a lot about skin care and which products are best to use for which condition.

It has a lot in there about SkinMedica products and Dermalogica - two skin care products I really love and the make up I’m hooked on right now - jane iredale!

This site also has a Facebook page and Twitter account - you can find links to those pages when you visit the site.

More Skin Care to Love

2012-10-23T13:08:00.000-04:00

I recently tried new Yonka and SkinMedica products - I LOVE THEM! I cannot believe what I have been missing! I get them from this awesome online retailer astonishingskincare.com - excellent customer service and decent prices.

Loved My Birthday

2012-10-05T05:30:00.000-04:00

Not only did I get some awesome skin care products - Vivite and Skinceuticals - I also had a fabulous birthday gathering with family.

Now time to get back to 'work' since our Disney trip is right around the corner! I cannot wait to go! Its going to be so much fun this time!

Ohh, Yamaha Mixers!

2012-09-29T15:54:00.000-04:00

I mentioned making music - what about using Yamaha mixers to do it? I really never knew there were so many different models! I found a really good article talking about one: CL Series

CJ used to play and record his own music - I remember that like it was yesterday :) Ahhhh memories!

Making and Recording Music

2012-09-25T15:23:00.000-04:00

I know to make and record music requires quality proaudio equipment - and that stuff is expensive! Sometimes you may not know where to turn, there are so many sites 'out there'.

I found a place, Muzeekworld.com that offers all kinds of discounts and deals for these organizations. They even offer a easing program. Just wanted to pass this info along :)

Skin Care Promo!

2012-08-23T19:51:00.000-04:00

I know I recently blogged about how I love Dermalogica - I usually get it from Astonishing Skin Care. Well, they are having a 15% off store-wide sale! Not only can I get my Dermalogica fix, but I can indulge a bit - maybe try Cellex-C again.

If you've never tried any skin care products, now is the time - 15% off is a great deal!

Yamaha Ls9-32 Mixer

2012-08-22T15:41:00.000-04:00

If you're into mixing music, Yamaha mixers, like this Yamaha Ls9-32, is perfect! This one is a truly useful sound reinforcement console is one that can keep pace with the rapidly and dramatically changing demands of live sound applications.

The LS9 series consoles follow in the distinguished footsteps of the Yamaha PM1D, PM5D, and M7CL, expanding Yamaha's digital mixing console lineup for live sound and installations. The LS9 series consists of the 32-mic/line input 64-channel LS9-32, and the 16-mic/line input 32 channel LS9-16. While being compact and light enough for one person to move and set up easily

Skin Care Products I Love

2012-08-09T08:43:00.000-04:00

I've been into skin care lately - guess that's because I'll be 39 next month...ANYWAY...my favorite products are Dermalogica and jane iredale - I get them both online.

I just stumbled across an article, "Benefits of Choosing jane iredale Make-up Products" and it was really informative! Check it out ;)

They're All Boy!

2012-08-07T08:52:00.000-04:00

These two are only 14 months apart and they are all boy! They are already giving me mini heart attacks with some of the things they do!

My husband was talking about airsoft guns the other day and how he can't wait to get 'out there' with the boys for some target practice. Great, one more thing to give me a heart attack!

Wedding Sparklers - What a Cool Idea!

2012-07-16T13:48:00.000-04:00

I was at a wedding recently where the bride and groom had wedding sparklers for the guests to use as they were leaving the area where they exchanged vows.

It was unbelievable! So amazing! I did not get a photo as I was too busy using the sparklers, but I did find this photo online:

BB Guns and Kids

2012-06-17T09:01:00.001-04:00

There are those who feel any type of firearms, even bb guns, are not safe to use, no matter if the user is a teen or an adult. I happen to eel differently. My husband and I have recently considered buying a bb gun for our oldest son - this is a decision we do not take lightly.

I found an article online, "Realistic Bb Guns and Their Safe Uses" and it was quite helpful. I did not know the following:

"Unlike toy guns, these do not require any identifiers such as orange tips to notify people of the type of gun in use. This means manufacturers can closely reproduce the look of classic weapons. This gives it an authentic feel..."

Now that know this, he first step is to teach gun safety before even looking to purchase a bb gun.

New Skin Care

2012-06-08T18:26:00.002-04:00

I decided I wanted to try Vivite - these products help promote beautiful, healthy skin and with m 'aging', well, I need this I think! I am looking into the VIVITE' Daily Firming Lotion to try and stop the wrinkles on my face!

I hope this works! If not, I know there are other products I can try, like SkinMedica - both from astonishingskincare.com

Thinking About a BB Gun

2012-06-08T17:03:00.000-04:00

Ever since I saw this bb gun gift idea n a kids gift blog (you can see it here: Daisy Pink 1998 BB Gun) I really want to get it! I am one of those people who think bb guns are just fine for kids, as long as they have the proper supervision!

I'd love t hear from parents who have gotten a bb gun for their child. How did it go? Was it something they really enjoyed?

Get 15% Off Women's Jewelry!

2012-02-07T12:18:00.001-05:00

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching! For all you guys, find the perfect piece of women’s jewelry to give as a gift the Valentine’s Day and receive 15% off! At checkout, enter coupon code: VD15

Music Personalized for Kids

2011-10-30T12:24:00.002-04:00

I found a great kids' holiday gift idea - personalized cds for kids is a definite WIN in my opinion!

The online store http://www.musicandbooks4kids.com has a variety of books and CDs to choose from. They have Scooby-Doo, The Wiggles, Mother Goose, and our favorite - several Disney characters! We are especially fond of the Disney music CDs because the character voices are actually the licensed Disney characters themselves - how's that for authentic?

Check out the site - you can preview the music and hear your child's name in the song before making a purchase. Don't forget to get a book or two as well!

Visit them on Facebook as well:
Music and Books for Kids on Facebook

Awesome Tai Bracelet

2011-08-29T15:04:00.000-04:00

I am loving this Tai Black Crystal and Lava Ball Bracelet from LaurenKlein.com!

I am beginning to become addicted to this website! There are so many beautiful pieces of women's jewelry to choose from. I am so glad my birthday is coming up soon! I will be making a Wish List!

Wedding Beauty

2011-07-31T19:12:00.000-04:00

If you are a bride to be and in the Newport, RI area, you can stop your search for "wedding makeup newport ri" because I can tell you exactly where to go; Cosmetic Cosmos! This place not only has awesome products but they also offer wedding and spa services.

They have years of experienced and licensed make-up artists, you can thoroughly trust Cosmetic Cosmos to make you look your very best on your wedding day.Check out this shot:

Piercing Update

2011-07-28T10:23:00.000-04:00

I had my lip re-pierced on July 8th and it is healing up nicely!!! I m so glad I got it re-done and re-done properly!

Today Olivia and Wyatt have dentist appointments. I'm trying to get work wrapped up before I have to take them. Plus, I still wanna get online and find some cute baby gifts for a baby shower I am going to. I prefer to find personalized baby gifts--just for that extra touch!