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    <updated>2012-05-24T00:12:29-04:00</updated>
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        <title>Indomitable Unquenchable Brooke</title>
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        <published>2012-05-24T00:12:29-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-24T00:16:59-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">My cousin's daughter Brooke died a few days ago. She was 19. Over the years I got messages when she'd be in a surgery or in hospital and I'd pray. We'd all pray. You see, Brooke was born with some...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>God have mercy, it makes me pukin' sick</title>
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        <published>2012-05-22T20:24:37-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-22T22:10:47-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">I watched this news clip last night and was so astonished I couldn't really respond until tonight. I'm still astonished and debated whether to post because I don't like giving hate a voice. But I think it's important for people...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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        <title>Surviving and Flourishing in an Ever-Changing World</title>
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        <published>2012-05-20T09:57:58-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-20T09:57:58-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">We live in a historic time of tremendous shifts. New technology has changed not only how we live our lives but how we relate to people on the other side of the globe. Our neighbor is not just the person...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>How to win a culture war and lose a generation (sharing an important post with my readers)</title>
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        <published>2012-05-19T15:32:46-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-19T15:36:05-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">I'm posting this link below for my readers as I think it is one of the best synopses of the religious culture wars that I've come across yet. Christian writer and blogger Rachel Held Evans gives a warning cry that...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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        <title>I was one of the main guys that teased you...</title>
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        <published>2012-05-17T17:48:49-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-17T17:48:49-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">A few weeks ago I blogged about my experience of being bullied in high school. The responses I've received have been amazing, but none as much as this one that a former classmate sent me: Hi Jonathan! It was tough...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Abundance v. Scarcity Mindset</title>
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        <published>2012-05-06T19:11:15-04:00</published>
        <updated>2012-05-06T19:16:43-04:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Jonathan Benz</name>
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    <content type="html">I had dinner with a friend recently and embroidered across the front of her t-shirt was the following: THE UNIVERSE IS FULL OF ABUNDANCE I couldn't get away from the idea as I had been meditating on the themes of...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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